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The Kristen Stewart-Rupert Sanders cheating scandal had one unexpected consequence: it made the other tabloids super-angry that they hadn’t exposed some huge scandal, so the other tabloids began going after Jennifer Lopez and Casper Smart. Did Star Mag and In Touch Weekly completely manufacture their stories about Casper frequenting a popular gay cruise spot and/or getting “The Travolta” at a backroom massage joint adjacent to a peep show? Not really – considering there was photo evidence of Casper entering the place, the tabloids were just having some fun with it. Still, J.Lo got angry. She and her lawyers threatened to sue – although you have to wonder, what would be worse? If people think Casper is gay or if they think he’s getting backroom handies? Or both, I guess?
Anyway, whatever went down at that peep show/cruising spot/backroom handie emporium already happened. Although Jennifer and her lawyers are trying to get an apology, I doubt one will be forthcoming. Which makes you think… if Jennifer sufficiently embarrassed now? Is she finally willing to admit that making Casper her boyfriend wasn’t the best idea? Perhaps. This strange little piece appeared in People Mag on Friday – they really slid it in under the radar too, shoving it beneath their Olympic coverage:
Her whirlwind romance with Casper Smart began last November as what one source close to the couple told PEOPLE was “a fun fling.”
But now, nearly a year later, could Jennifer Lopez be preparing to leave more than just her American Idol gig?
“He’s moved into her life – and a little too easily, too,” the source tells PEOPLE. “I think her family is watching him closely.”
Lopez’s possible cold front comes amid tabloid reports about Smart: One claims he visited a New York City exotic massage parlor, while another reports he was at a peep show next door. (Photographs show Smart going up a set of stairs that lead to the spa.) Lawyers for the couple call the stories “false, malicious and defamatory.”
Those rumors coincided with her 43rd birthday, which they celebrated together in the city. But although they were all smiles as they were photographed heading to lunch, the source says “she’s getting frustrated with him” and she’s increasingly “short-tempered when she’s around him.”
This is a departure from the affection they displayed when they hit the town – and, recently, in a steamy music video for her single “Dance Again” (and again in a sweet clip during her current concerts for the song “Baby I Love U”).
But as Smart continues to tour with Lopez, a breakup may not be in their near future.
“Jennifer is the kind of girl who doesn’t like to be alone,” says the source. “Until she finds a replacement, I think, he’s around.”
The “source” could be Benny Medina. Maybe it’s one of Jennifer’s sisters. Probably not her mother – Lupe wouldn’t go to People Magazine with “concerns”. Lupe would just put on old-school Santeria hex on Casper and that would be the end of that. I tend to think the source is Medina, though – the “Jennifer is the kind of girl who doesn’t like to be alone. Until she finds a replacement, I think, he’s around” quote sounds like Medina. Because it’s true. That’s exactly what Jennifer is like. She cannot be alone. She cannot NOT believe her life is some kind of “fairy tale”. She cannot stop picking losers. Girl needs a dong intervention. Casper might need one too.
Hilariously, Radar has an even harder version of this – their sources are making room for Jennifer to (gasp!) dump Casper. For real!
Jennifer Lopez is on the verge of breaking up with her back-up dancer boy toy, Casper Smart, because the 43-year-old mother-of-two has come to the realization that she really doesn’t have a lot in common with the 24-year-old, and is beginning to feel like his babysitter, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting.
“Jen is currently on tour with Enrique Iglesias, and Casper is the head choreographer of her show in which he also dances. It’s tough being on the road — this isn’t Jen’s first tour and she has been feeling more like Casper’s babysitter than girlfriend. Casper likes to hang out and party with the other dancers and that just isn’t Jen’s scene. She is all business and is the utmost professional. Jen is absolutely going to break up with him, they just don’t have a long term future together,” a source close to the singer tells RadarOnline.com.
As previously reported, Jennifer Lopez’s twins are proving to be a real handful on mommy’s current tour. According to an eyewitness, Max and Emme, both 4, have been running amok backstage while J. Lo rehearses for her sold-out concerts with Enrique — wrecking equipment and providing a general nuisance to the stage hands.
Jennifer and Casper began dating last autumn, just a few months after her seven-year marriage to Marc Anthony ended in July 2011. The first leg of J. Lo’s tour with Iglesias ends at the end of August in Miami, and the second European leg, begins in Portugal in early October. “Casper will most likely be sent packing when the tour ends in Miami. Jen admits that she fell for Casper and that he was exactly what she needed at the time to help get over her painful split with Marc, but she is just ready to move on now,” the source says.
Dear Jennifer: please dump him. I’ll understand if you wait until the end of the tour and everything, but please. Please. PLEASE dump him. If you dump him, I will love you again.
Photos courtesy of WENN, Fame/Flynet.
Written by Kaiser
Posted in Casper Smart, Jennifer Lopez
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Not a moment too soon.
Now let’s just hope she does not end up with a $cientolowierd! Her bestfriend and father already are in the cult… Stay away from it, JLo! No matter what they offer, it’s never worth selling your soul.
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And they do like to pounce while their target is in the midst of difficulties and vulnerable. Fingers crossed she doesn’t jump into that frying pan. But haven’t there been rumours of a flirtation with CO$ already?
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I remember back when she and Marc were still together they went to a big CO$ dinner with nothing but cult members. It’s shaft to say that she already looking I to CO$, if she not a member already.
Here the photos of them at the dinner.
http://www.justjared.com/2011/01/29/jennifer-lopez-marc-anthony-dining-with-the-stars/
Rumor has it that scientology was one reason why she and Marc split.
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Can you imagine the black-hole sized void that would occur if Jell-O ended up with Tom?
Their egos would collide, creating anti-matter that would destroy our planet.
The resulting swirling vortex of narcissism would suck in everything and everyone around it, until nothing was left.
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And that, I’m sure, is what the Mayans were trying to warn us about.
That’s it, then. We know what will be the end of us all, now
(Hello, Bella! How are ya?
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Hehehe…so true!
I am BEYOND being sick of seeing a woman of Jennifer’s star power lower herself to be with Weasel-face Smart. I have never been able to detect one single attractive thing about him. GROSS.
Time to pick up your dignity, dump Caspar into obscurity again and move on, Jen.
Enough already!
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Rocket – I’m rocking an absolutely nuclear sunburn. We spent yesterday on the lake, boating and jet-skiing with Hubs’ whole fam. How are you?
Yup, the Mayans have warned us, and now we’re onto the “natural disaster” that’ll take us out!
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No way. Marc Anthony was controlling – by all accounts that was part of the reason things ended. Cruise is controlling as hell. I don’t believe for a moment that JLo is going to fall for that sort of thing again.
Not only that, but they are both the kind of people who need to be the star in their respective relationships, they’d never get on.
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Bella- Wow, that must have been a really nice day
Good luck with the suburn!
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I think that’s a great idea! Think about it: she wants tons of attention and a fairytale-Cruise likes to jump on the couch, gift expensive jewelery in front of the press (VF or whatever magasine had that strange interview with Katie in 2005?), propose on the Eiffel tower…..
they can be romantic, needy and princessy together, and they can even rock “us against the world” storyline that JLo likes so much.
And-think about their image-they are much closer in age, and she is known to be impulsive in her relationships-she never stays if she ain’t happy-so no one could say that it’s all a deal!
hmmmm…when I think about it, THAT would be a problem…how to make JLo fake a relationshhip?
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Oh owchie sunburn, poor bella! My hubby is just getting over a nasty one too. We found aloe vera gel did wonders to help with the pain and crazy itching.
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I think she already is. I read that was one of the reasons JLo and Marc split up.
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Right Barb, If Lainey and JLo’s Bestying around with Leah remini is to be believed, like Will Smith, JLo is more Scientoloholed than we’d believe
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Oh, please no.
Not a fan of Jello but can’t stand the thought of ANYONE else getting sucked into that destructive cult.
Although, Co$ have enjoyed a reprieve lately, thanks to KStew and her wandering biscuit.
I’d bet anything they’re scheming away. Maybe even, they had a hand in the whole KStew thing, it has been a very very effective diversion for them. Or I just suspect them of everything, lol.
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I don’t know.
After I saw these pictures… I can not image how Jennifer keeps her hands off him. *sarcasm*
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2183423/JLos-toy-boy-Casper-Smart-wore-Pauly-D-style-hair-Batman-costume-high-school-yearbook-pictures.html
Seriously. Those are fabulous pictures!
Just image what their children would look like!
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Why do people have problem with their relationship? She is very grown up woman and knows what she’s doing. If he makes her happy I don’t have any problem with that. Leave them alone.
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Because it’s not asking too much that yur boyfriend not publicly embarrass you by being caught going into a ho-house.
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Would you really want someone who might be on the down low and frequenting massage parlors and dressing up in drag?
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Is it too much to ask that Casper not go trolling for cocks on Jennifer’s birthday?
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seems kelly preston gave it a pass….
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You really bring up Kelly Preston?
She’s looking like a fool because JT and so does her so-called ‘religion’.
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Yes, apparently it is too much to ask lol
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I don’t think the will break up any time soon. That would be what everyone expects. What some people want. Jennifer prides herself on not doing what people expect or want. To break up now it would be like saying she was wrong in her choice. That she is caving to public opinion. Something she says she doesn’t do. She says she follows her heart and what feels right.
so Casper is here for some time. I had no idea they call each other “bear”
see nicknames are lasting.
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Sadly I agree with this. She is such an easy mark. Casper’s replacement will probably be just another user.
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Can you imagine the step down the next guy will be? Or will she stay true-to-form and go with someone really famous? (You know how she goes back and forth.)
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Well maybe JLO could start visiting colleges… invite students to apply for the job of soulmate/lovah/joe boy. Start them on an apprenticeship where they hand wash her undies and babysit her kids. Then after about 6 months she could give them a big, fancy promotion… tour manager or whatever, and then, of course, marry them. At least she might find one with enough brains to know it’s a bad idea to get his tube lubed at a peep club on her birthday.
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I don’t think so, either. She has this mentality of “our love against the world”….Sigh….
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Is it just me or does this guy have a “Brad Pitt” resemblance?
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No, not just you! Almost every picture I see of him, he looks like a much younger, fresh-faced Brad Pitt with a crew cut.
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Reluctantly agree on the Brad Pitt resemblance. It’s the mouth area.
I couldn’t figure out why these pictures of Casper reminded me of a cute guy at work…now that you mentioned Brad Pitt I see why. Brad, Casper, and the cut guy at work all have the same mouth.
Though I would have been content just to only see the resemblance of the guy at work and Brad Pitt. Casper’s skeeve overrides anything in the looks department.
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Current People mag has a picture of him and Jon Cryer looking like twins
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Yep, the resemblance to Jon Cryer is uncanny. Even their mouths are shaped the same. Maybe she saw the pic and it scared her.
I just hope she won’t marry the guy!
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I think you’re mistaken @Lisa2, “bear” is what he calls his super sexy lumberjack-like “masseur.”
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Yep, it’s just you.
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Sorry Raven Sparrow, I’m not seeing it, not even when I take my glasses off.
The only thing this guy resembles is Donald Duck.
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No way. I think he has a striking resemblance with Casper the Fiendly Ghost!
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NO, NO, AND NO!!!
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I AGREE:
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AND NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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Sweet Lord Jesus, walk thee to an ophthalmologist ASAP. that boy looks like he still rides the short bus to school.
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OMG – that’s just you!!! Ugh, no comparison.
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Come on guys! I’m not saying the guy IS Brad Pitt!
I’m just saying that something about his face reminds me of Brad. And I think it’s like eva said, it’s the mouth area.
And when I’m looking at the home page with the two thumbnail photos side by side (him and Brad), I’m still seeing it, sorry!
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She’ll probably go for Enrique Iglesias next
I love the toppings on Casper’s ice cream in one of the photos. Cookies & cream perhaps? Yum!
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Hmm Jlo and Enrique would be interesting together. A bitch-fight between her and Anna Kournakova would be epic! Imagine the tabloid articles!!
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@kaiser, going from claiming Kyle Richard’s white party was potentially racist to making jokes about a Latina woman putting a Santeria hex on someone? *smh* Color me confused : /
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They have been reported to practice santaria…..
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Wasn’t she at Tom Cruise’s wedding? I’ve always wondered if she is a closet Scientologist… or at least did a couple of “auditing” courses.
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Aww leave them alone. I don’t really care who Jennifer Lopez dates. I think her crazy love life is karmic retribution for being able to sell albums without knowing how to sing.
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+1.
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If you dump him there will be others to give you an “o” face jell-o.
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JLo truly embarrassed herself with this relationship and her threat to sue. I mean, really? There are photos of him there. Didn’t she grow in any way since she was a teenager? Dump this loser already, but something tells me that she is angry at the “source” and begins to think they are Romeo & Juliet..everyones against their true love.
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Since she likes being in control I doubt she would go for a man who has so many women groupies after him, that’s why
Enrique Iglesias wouldn’t work beside the fact that he is in a long term relationship.
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I was just talking about Lopez this weekend with my mom. I remembered the sweet interview that she gave while she was with Ben Affleck and she was cooking puerto rican food for him….she really loved him. It made me wonder what exactly went wrong with their relationship. I remember after they did the movie together he took out a full page ad for her in some paper and then a photo of him looking adoringly at her through a crowd at the opening of her restaurant Madre before they for together. She always seemed so happy with him, then went straight to Marc after Ben dumped her and now to Casper. It’s a pity she doesn’t take some damn breathing room to just be a mom and be with herself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iycC6YhAdw&feature=youtube_gdata_player
This is the video I referenced…can’t find the photo…
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I actually think she was madly in love for Ben and he with her.
neither has ever looked as happy. I think Ben has kind of settled into the family life. And Jennifer is still searching.
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I totally totally agree! He’s gone onto safe, but obviously good woman, Jen Garner and JLo is still searching for the one who complements her. It’s sad because my mom says that the main reason they broke up was because his mother didn’t approve.
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I always thought the reason they broke up was the media. Those two couldn’t blink an eye without the paps trying to get a picture. The pap stalking took its toll on Ben and he could not stand it any longer…
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Let’s see: there the was constant media attention; there was Strippergate (remember that one?); there was Strippergate Redux (if I’m not mistaken); the broken engagement; the “hiding” afterwards; the re-emergence of Bennifer; the re-scheduling of the wedding; and then the final sad throes of a relationship that ended in a fizzle, not a marriage.
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That was pure awesomeness. I wasn’t remembering much of the story, or details of it for that matter (I think I had just had my youngest son towards the middle/end of the relationship) and now that you highlight it for me I definitely remember a lot more of it. It appears as though the constant media attention led to built up pressure on Ben and he is the one who showed all signs of the breaking, not her. It’s so crazy!
Thank you for the perfect timeline!
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Little Darling –
I forgot that she also had to divorce her then-husband because she was still married when she got involved with Ben. (Love your avie, btw!)
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@Bellaluna Was that the original back up dancer Cris Judd? I forgot about him too!! Jeeze. I need to brush up on my JLo trivia!!
Re: avatar…Janice is the coolest, hippest Muppet of them all!
Thx!!
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I’ve always believed that Marc was just her rebound guy, but true to her overboard, clingy style, she couldn’t just settle for a fling, she had to go and marry the guy. I never believed she really loved Marc. Affleck broke her heart badly and she just wanted someone to fill the void. I think Affleck and JLO split up because his family didn’t approve of her – or at least I recall hearing those rumors just prior to their split.
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I knew Casper would be out from the time Jho put him in her video, as she has done with all her exes…She likes embarassment
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love that description ‘exotic massage parlor’… that place is located on one of the skeeviest blocks of what used to be the 42nd st strip club/porn extravaganza. that he was anywhere near that area shows what a low-rent loser he really is.
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This guy has great skin, I mean smooth and blemish free, what is his secret. I am actually jealous
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Youth.
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Lots of young people don’t have skin the like that.
The answer is most likely not “youth”, but genes and maybe the right skincare products.
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That purple blazer. Good God in heaven.
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Yeah, I vomited into my mouth a little with that suit as well. All dressed up like a little man, lol!!
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Jell-O, girl, you need to spend some time alone. Focus on your self. Focus on your kids. Take a class; read a book; take a vacation (ALONE!).
The reason you “can’t” be alone is because you’ve never tried it. You need to spend some “me time” to LEARN from your failed relationships (this may take some time, as there have been quite a few without so much as a millisecond-long pause for reflection), so you stop making the SAME MISTAKES before you’re dead.
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+ infinity. Best advice to any human…man or woman!
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Completely agree with this. She, and her children, would greatly benefit with some time alone, instead of jumping from man to man.
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Yep. This exactly. Like so many other females (many of which I know, and probably all of us know), she cannot be alone for the life of her. Even for a short amount of time. She absolutely has to be with a man, and thus repeatedly ends up with jerk after loser after creep and so on and so on. And she wonders why her relationships keep ending badly. I wonder when she’ll ever get it. I don’t know that she ever will. She is pathetic.
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Dump that ugly little toad!!!
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Totally agree – she has terrible taste in men. He looks like he is 4ft tall
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I don’t feel sorry for her. The reason is she has him out in all the interviews like he’s a star. She has a table set up for him to give autographs like he is a star. He’s a dancer/ pretend head choreographer It is bizarre her behavior. Not just dating him. I could care less about that. But be smart like Madonna. The relationship was private for several years.
When they end, she will never admit she was duped and he is gay. How
humiliating. She is using the line nothing in common all of a sudden when she’s had him splashed everywhere in interviews with her making it clear he’s a big part of her life. CToo funny. No, Jen, everyone knows he is gay now and that you’re a fool.
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I don’t care about the age difference. As we know, the reverse happens ALL THE FREAKIN’ time and no one bats an eye. But I really feel like JLo is making a fool of herself here. The threats to sue, his sitting in on her meetings, promoting him to “head dancer” for no reason other than she’s currently schtooping him… I cringe.
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dump him, dump him, dump him, dump him
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And how can she be alone with kids and family? Oh.. it’s all about her and a lover..
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That guy’s got a really weird nose.
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When that story about Caspar visiting the gay massage parlor came out, I knew it was over.
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The only man JLo been with that has any class is Chris Judd.
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I agree
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Thanks for an informative blog post. I always find it interesting how much I find out each and every day. I’ll visit again.
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If Bradley Cooper and Zoe Saldana didn’t have a movie to start promoting, I would bet they would start spending time together again, if I didn’t feel my theory about Bradley and Zoe was spot on…
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To be Honest, It sounds more like her Team is trying to shame her into leaving him with all these reports
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I shudder when I think of who she will chose as his replacement. Pizza delivery boy?
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And next time ‘Jenny From The Hood’, quit with the insta-family crap. The last thing your kids need is a revolving door of men in and out of their lives. Maybe you could try thinking about their needs ahead of your own. (Hey, I can always dream!)
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She needs to grow up and be a mom and quit looking for a boy/man to fill her heart. Fill your heart with your kids for awhile, get rid of this hustler. You make yourself look like a looser hanging with this guy. He is a baby himself and you don’t need to be his mommy, you’ve already got kids.
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So, when she finally kicks this kid to the curb, will she insist on all of the videos he’s in NOT airing anymore like she did with Ben?
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