Hero neighbor who saved kidnapped girls: give them reward money, I have a job


Yesterday we saw the amazing, sad but funny interview with Charles Ramsey, the Cleveland man who is being lauded as a hero for rescuing three kidnapped women and a child being held captive in his next door neighbor’s home. Ramsey described to a news crew how he kicked out the front door of the home belonging to his next door neighbor, Ariel Castro, after he heard a woman screaming and begging to get out. The woman came out with a young daughter and told him that she was trapped there, and that her name was Amanda Berry. It didn’t occur to Charles until he called 911 that Amanda Berry was the teenager who had gone missing a decade before. Amanda told Charles that there were other girls in the house (he didn’t say how many), and he was so shocked by the situation he didn’t think it was true. After cops went in “30, 40 deep” and found more women he called it “astonishing.” He said he’d known his neighbor for the year that he’d lived there, that he’d hung out and barbecued with him, and that he didn’t have a “clue” that anyone was being held hostage there.

The three women rescued are Amanda Berry, 27, who was abducted 10 years ago, Gina DeJesus, 23, who was abducted in 2004, and Michelle Knight, 32, who went missing in 2002. Berry’s six year old daughter was also rescued. The homeowner and alleged kidnapped Ariel Castro, 52, has been arrested along with two of his brothers.

Anderson Cooper did a follow-up interview with Ramsey (video above), and he explained in more detail how he rescued the women, what he saw at the house prior to this, and how he regrets not being able to save the women sooner. Ramsey opened the door with the help of another neighbor, Angel Cordoro, with whom Amanda went to separately to call 911. Ramsey is a colorful character and a true hero and he says that if there’s any reward money he wants it to go to the kidnapped women because he has a job:

On if he’s a hero
No, no, no. Bro, I’m a Christian, an American, and just like you. We bleed same blood, put our pants on the same way. It’s just that you got to put that – being a coward, and I don’t want to get in nobody’s business. You got to put that away for a minute.

On if he should get the reward money
I tell you what you do, give [the reward] to them. Because if folks been following this case since last night, you been following me since last night, you know I got a job anyway. Just went picked it up, paycheck. What that address say? […] 2203 Seymour. Where are them girls living? Right next door to this paycheck. So yes, take that reward and give it to—that little girl[.]

[CNN transcript via Gawker]

Thank goodness this guy stepped up. The thing that struck me about this interview is that you could tell that Ramsey feels bad that he wasn’t able to do something sooner. He said he saw two little girls playing in the backyard every day and that he assumed they were his neighbor’s grandchildren. What I want to know is, if there were two little girls where is the other little girl? I don’t want to think about it. Reports claim that the captive women suffered miscarriages due to extreme abuse and malnutrition, and that babies may have died as well. Cops and child protective services were called to Castro’s home by suspicious neighbors several times over the years, but authorities left when no one answered the door.

People Magazine put this rescue on their upcoming cover. They have quotes from neighbors and family of the kidnapper, who say they’re just as surprised as anyone to hear this. The Daily Mail has an interview with Castro’s son, who describes how secretive his father was and how parts of the home were locked off. There are plenty more details in this horrific story, which make me sick to my stomach to think about. For now we can focus on the fact that these women have been reunited with their families, thanks to a quick-thinking neighbor who was not afraid to step up.

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  1. DeltaJuliet says:

    Amazing. Just an incredible story. I hope those poor women are able to live happy lives after such an ordeal.

    • FLORC says:

      Absolutely agree! A humble, generous, and kind man.

    • Jan says:

      Why do men think women are put here on this earth for their evil pleasures. The brothers had a girl apiece and I don’t even want to imagine what they went through. We need to be more aware of what’s going on in out neighborhood.

      • gg says:

        They need to be castrated.

      • deehunny says:

        Totally . It’s so disgusting. Teenage American girls kidnapped off the street. Could have been us or our kids. So scary.

      • xxx says:

        Just be careful here. His 2 brothers have now been released because apparently there was no evidence that they knew or were involved. It may just have been him by himself.

  2. Red32 says:

    This story is so crazy. Like it’s heartwarming that this man stepped up and these women are safe with their families again, but it’s terrifying that there are monsters who would kidnap and hold people hostage like this.

    • LadyMTL says:

      My thoughts exactly, I can barely wrap my mind around the idea of being locked in a basement for 10 years.

      At least this “missing children” story has a happy ending!

      • Mich says:

        I refuse to try to wrap my mind around the idea of being locked in a basement for 10 years. It is too awful.

    • Miranda says:

      I was especially disturbed that the men were all BROTHERS. Not only do these people exist, but entire families of them.

    • the original bellaluna says:

      Yeah well, people suck. I wish there was another way to say it, but it is what it is.

      • Miffy says:

        No, some people suck (and by suck I mean perform evil, unthinkable acts towards each other) then you have people like this guy who saved at least four lives and doesn’t even consider himself a hero.

  3. Christin says:

    I think Charles is the real deal. He is funny at times, yet seems sincere. In yesterday’s interview, it is clear that he feels great sympathy for the victims’ plight. He and the other neighbor could have ignored Amanda, but they didn’t. He should not feel guilty.

    • Lucinda says:

      What an ordinary man stepping up in an extraordinary situation! Truly a hero. I love the little details he included like the Big Mac in his hand as he’s investigating the screaming. This is the real deal.

      • Christin says:

        I also like his candor in saying his first thought was a domestic issue. All the more reason he could have turned away and continued eating his Big Mac. This was a potentially dangerous situation, but as Charles told Anderson last night, you have to put the cowardice thoughts to the side.

      • BooBooLaRue says:

        The man’s for real. Good on ya!

      • Jan says:

        I love it because McDonald’s sent him a message that they would be getting with him. I bet they give him free food for the rest of his life. Awesome, if they do.

  4. aims says:

    He is a hero! I couldn’t imagine what those poor girls had to endure.

    More people like him should be talked about. And the girl who was brave enough to get help, is also a hero.

  5. Meggie says:

    That guy is just awesome. In all ways.

    • skyler1 says:

      +1. Wish more people in the world were like him. It would be a much better place.

  6. truthSF says:

    Thank you so much for covering this story.

    And a BIG THANK YOU to Mr. Charles Ramsey and Mr. Angel Cordoro, for acting without any hesitation. Their quick thinking saved four innocent lives.

    • mel2 says:

      Too bad the cops didnt do their jobs. Just like Jaycee Dugard’s situation they (cops) knocked on the door and left when no one answered and never bothered to return. I’m sure those cops are retired now and enjoying their pensions.

  7. Addison says:

    This is just beyond belief that a human being is capable of treating another this way. I really do believe that many of people that go missing end up this way. It’s just disgusting.

    And how their miscarriages were provoked. Sick. Hoping these girls get the love and support they need to live the rest of their lives.

  8. fabgrrl says:

    I just so amazed, that after 10 years of captivity, Amanda Berry had the fight left in her to attempt escaping.

    • JenD says:

      According to some news reports, they have been trying to get away for years. Other neighbors have called the police to say they saw a girl banging on the window, yelling for help, but the cops didn’t get an answer on the door, so they left. How horrific that they made actual contact with someone outside the home before, but it took this long to actually get out and away. It’s sickening to think of their plight.

      • Rachel says:

        I will be interested to read more about this as it develops. Especially the police responding to the fact that they were called to the house several times over the years, yet instead of investigating, simply left. If you are called to a house to investigate a suspicious incident, you INVESTIGATE. If the owner doesn’t answer, you go back and try again later until you resolve the matter!

        I very much empathize with Mr. Ramsey and his guilt over not being suspicious of the neighbor’s activity with the little girl. Several weeks ago I saw two small children playing in the neighbor’s yard. They were enamored with my dog, and I just thought it was cute. I don’t know the neighbor. She hasn’t lived there long, but I had never seen children there before. I just assumed she had family visiting. Two days later, police swarmed the house. The children had been kidnapped a couple of weeks earlier. It just goes to show you that we see things all the time, and they’re completely benign, so we don’t really give them a second thought.

      • Louise says:

        Rachel – oh my God. I cannot imagine that happening. I would have made the exact same assumptions you did. Are the children okay? I understand that you feel guilty, but there’s no way you could know. Most people would have thought the same things you did.

      • Rachel says:

        Thanks Louise. As far as I know, the children are fine. They were found safe in the house and returned to their home in Michigan. But I live outside of DC, so I’m assuming the kidnapper is being prosecuted in MI, and we haven’t heard anything more about it. They were very young – 2 and 4. And just playing outside like any other kid would do on a sunny spring afternoon. That’s why I never thought anything of it.

        A friend and I were talking about all the horrible things that go on in the world, and if you don’t have some healthy illusions (the belief that your are safe in an unsafe world) you’d never leave your house. Or allow your children to leave your house.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        JenD, keep in mind the neighbors are probably feeling some guilt.

        According to the police, they were NOT called to the house except for two times: once was by the occupant himself because of a fight on the street. The second was in relation to the charge that he left a kid on the bus he was driving to stop at a fast food place. That would not legally justify a search of his home.

        There is no documentation, despite the neighbors claims, that they called police to report girls in the attic window or girls in the backyard.

    • Christin says:

      Amanda sounds like a strong person, based on her 911 call. Also, having a daughter may have kept her going. I hope they all can now thrive.

  9. Stace says:

    This guy is my new favorite person – what a class act.

    • SolitaryAngel says:

      +1,000,000.

    • Chicagogurl says:

      I kinda adore him and how colorful he is. He seems like he has a really big heart. These ladies have been through who only knows what. My heart goes out to them and their families, their children. I can’t even fathom.

  10. brin says:

    He is awesome, a true hero!

  11. Al says:

    Charles Ramsey absolutely IS a hero! People in that neighborhood knew something was wrong in that house. Some people reported it to the police and some just looked away but people KNEW. Mr. Ramsey lived there only a year and he helped to free those people.
    Proving once again that what we call common sense and common decency are not really all that common after all.

  12. Ravensdaughter says:

    This man is amazing!!!

  13. Ag says:

    Awesome, heart-warming end to a horrific story. Good for this dude. More people should get involved when they see something is wrong. That’s how a society flourishes – all of us taking care of each other. 🙂

  14. Gabriella says:

    He is a hero for stepping up when so many would have “minded their own business.” This just makes him more admirable.

  15. V4Real says:

    This story is heartbreaking but thank God these girls are now safe.

    As for the cops; I just don’t get it. If you have received several complaints about the same resident from various neigbors do you just walk away because no one comes to the door? If someone tells you that they saw a naked woman holding a child banging on the window for help do you just knock on the door and leave because no one answered? The only thing the spokeperson for the Police department could do is lie and say that they never received such reports. So several different people just made the story up. I think the police department is trying to cover their ass because they know they could have rescued these girls a long time ago.

    • Esmom says:

      Yeah it seems like they had numerous opportunities to crack the case and totally blew it. Seems like some serious incompetence.

    • GoodCapon says:

      I really don’t know why they didn’t look more into the matter considering the numerous complaints. If they get several calls from neighbors surely that makes the house and its residents “of possible interest”?

    • pwal says:

      I’m not going to go in on the cops, mainly because I’m going through issues with the neighbors right now, namely, domestic violence. Neighbors call the police. I call the police. They live below me so I can hear when they go at it, or rather, I hear when he takes her cell phone when she calls her friends (she never call the cops) and whenever I call the cops and they come, the couple pretend that they aren’t home. A half hour after the cops leave, they start up again. The last time I called, the cops came to my door and basically said that no one answered and I told them that they’re in there, since I heard them five minutes before the cops arrived. They mentioned that they were well-aware of the situation, but they can’t do anything until the woman decides to file a complaint. I saw the frustration on their faces.

      My neighbors’ situation isn’t exactly the same, but I can empathize with the cops who made attempts to investigate and the Cleveland neighbors who tried and eventually gave up. There was a point when I tried to ignore what was happening because the stress of the situation was shredding my nerves and frankly, I couldn’t understand why the woman was putting up with the bull$h*t, but I couldn’t stand the person I was becoming. So I’m back to calling the cops again, although I haven’t had to in a while. Fingers crossed that their lease will not be renewed.

      • V4Real says:

        @pwal since the cops couldn’t do anything about that situation with your neighbors perhaps you should have turned it into a noise complaint. Here’s why I say this. If the cops are telling you that they can’t act on this because no one is home or answers the door, they might respond to a noise complaint. I had neighbors who lived above me that were so loud that I had to get the cops involved. Here in NY we have something called the Nuisance ordinance. I complained to the landlord as well as the cops so this could be documented. These neighbors also played the no ones home now card and wouldn’t open the door for the security guards or the cops at one time or the other. But I kept complaining and believe it or not one officer kept responding until he spoke to the neighbors about the noise. On one occassion they were pissed that I had made a complaint that when they thought the security guard had left my place they started stomping on the floor to piss me off. Unbeknownst to them the security guard was still in my apartment and heard them. He wrote a report gave it to the landlord and the cops told the landlord to do something about this now. Long story short, they were forced to move out. The cops even made unannounced stops by their place and that’s how he was able to get them to open the door.

        Make the situation about you by issuing a noise complaint. You might not be able to stop the abuse but the boyfriend would be fully aware that the neighbors could hear them fighting and may be less incline to attack her for fear of the cops showing up. Maybe the cops might just knock on their door to complain about the noise and find something else completely. I really hope she gets herself out of that situation before it’s too late.

        This being said, I find it baffling that cops would take time out of their hectic schedule to deal with my non-life threatening noise complaint but cops would not further investigate when several people made complaints about the going ons in that house. I understand in your situation the girl who is the victim is telling the cops that she was okay and nothing happen between her and her guy. But in the Ohio situation it wasn’t the victim, it was several differnt people saying hey something is wrong here. As people who are supposed to serve and protect shouldn’t they have made several unannounced visits to that house until someone open the door. They only say that they knocked and no one was home so we left and never looked back. Then to have the spokesperson lie and say they never received such calls from the neighbors. Didn’t they have the right to break down that door when a 911 call was placed and the caller said I just saw a girl holding a child banging on the window for help. Isn’t that probable cause to knock that door down or at least get a search warrant? Not only was a woman in danger but a child as well.

      • BooBooLaRue says:

        Oh Pwal, I have been through this with a landlady and her sod of a boyfriend, they lived above us and it was horrifying. When we did call the cops, she would never file a complaint and have him arrested, probably because she knew he would beat her senseless when he got out. And the prick would give us murderous looks the next morning after we called. Sorry, but we finally moved out. It was a terrible situation to be living under or above as you well know.

    • Kristin says:

      I used to work as an RA at one of the largest univerosties in the U.S. And whenever I would call the police about anything, even marijuana calls, they’d be there at least within a half hour and investigate.

      After graduating, if I call the police, like I did several times hearing my female neighbor scream about how she was thrown against a wall by my bodybuilder neighbor, I get a lecture from the dispatcher about how they can’t do anything unless I’m home and the offender is home as if that’s something special. I don’t get it at all. I’m afraid she’ll get killed one day.

      • Emily says:

        It’s because police departments don’t give a crap about violence against women. There is a staggering amount of evidence to this effect, from the way they treat women trying to report rape to the way they turn their backs on domestic abuse to huge cases like this. It’s not just the police, either; the entire justice system is at fault. If the cops had some judges breathing down their necks, you better believe they’d act sooner. And if they had the media covering them, they’d also clean up their act. But judges tend to be political and self-involved, and the media is more interested in the Kardashians*, so here we are.

        *It’s fine for gossip sites to be interested in the Kardashians, that’s what they’re here for. It’s when so-called serious media outlets spend more time on celebrities than on issues — which they all do — that they are turning their back on their duty to the public.

    • Tiffany :) says:

      As I posted above, according to the police, they were NOT called to the house except for two times: once was by the occupant himself because of a fight on the street. The second was in relation to the charge that he left a kid on the bus he was driving to stop at a fast food place. That would not legally justify a search of his home.

      There is no documentation, despite the neighbors claims, that they called police to report girls in the attic window or girls in the backyard.

      As you say,it is possible the police are trying to cover their sloppy work. It is also possible that the neighbors who said they made calls are feeling guilty and lying as well.

      • TG says:

        I agree I believe that both the cops and the neighbors could be lying about the calls since it is obvious from the various interviews that most of the neighbors aren’t too bright and didn’t want to get involved. Even the hero who had only been living there for a year said that his people told him there was something strange about that house and that he should just ignore it.

      • V4Real says:

        @ Tiffiany but that’s the police side of the story. In the beginning they said they received no calls at all then chaged it to the story you just posted. Could be a case of both sides lying but from the news I’ve been watching, the cops are trying to cover their asses.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        The information the police are releasing now has proven the neighbors to be wrong at this point.

        They are saying hte women were allowed out of the house only twice…both times were to go to the garage and they had to wear hats and wigs. There is NO mention by the victims of being naked outside on a leash.

        Keep in mind, information released early tends to be wrong. I think we should hold off judgement against the police response until we get all the details. So far, it looks like the neighbors aren’t reliable.

    • pwal says:

      V4Real:
      Actually, noise was usually the reason for my calls to the police. In fact, the only call that I’ve made that yielded results was when I was on the phone and the altercation was still happening. Unfortunately, it was the dude’s friend who was responsible for the noise i.e. yelling profanity in the parking lot, which escalated to him hurling a rock or brick at the apartment’s balcony door.

      The last time I called, it was 911 because she kept screaming ‘Don’t hit me’ and I heard someone being thrown against the wall. And later, I heard him saying that if she didn’t STFU, he would do, whatever, again.

      • V4Real says:

        That’s horrible and hats off to you for trying. I understand that you can only do so much. Also we don’t want that prick setting his sights on you. Be careful.

  16. bridget says:

    I just cant believe there is such darkness out in the world, but I am so thankful there are people like Charles and Angel that can do the right thing. Bless them.

    • bridget says:

      Also, Betheny’s Brutal Divorce sharing a cover with THIS story? Makes her look even more petty.

      • Joiq says:

        The whole “Bethenny’s Brutal Divorce” tag line is especially tacky for this cover. My mom called me yesterday to tell me about this story and I couldn’t believe it. We live about an hour away from Cleveland, and can’t even begin to imagine what these girls went through, and their families. Thank God Ramsey called the police.

      • kc says:

        Thank God Bethany is on the cover too. We have to keep things in perspective and realize divorce is the worst thing that could happen to you. What’s losing a decade of your life to having to pay the father or your child a couple of million of your skinny girl money?

  17. Liberty says:

    He is wonderful!!!! A true hero.

  18. tifzlan says:

    I love how he calls Anderson Cooper ‘bro’.

    • MonicaQ says:

      I died because I just couldn’t. It was amazing. He’s the least bro-y bro ever hahahah.

  19. Faye says:

    Life is so strange sometimes. It’s amazing how the same story that showed us the horror humanity is capable of inflicting also gave us an example of its greatness of spirit. Not only the rescue, but giving up the reward money afterward when he clearly isn’t wealthy — wow. I’m humbled and speechless.

    This man should be an example to us all. You don’t need to be rich, powerful, super-strong, or an international philanthropist to be a “hero.” You can make such a difference in your own sphere of influence. If every person just tried to do their part in their own neighborhood, like Mr. Ramsey did, what a different world this would be.

    I hope only good things come to him.

    • QueenFreddie says:

      I wish I could hit “like”.I totally agree with Faye. +1

    • I Choose Me says:

      Yes! to everything you wrote.

    • Tiffany :) says:

      “It’s amazing how the same story that showed us the horror humanity is capable of inflicting also gave us an example of its greatness of spirit.”

      So very, very true.

  20. janie says:

    What a terrific man! Unbelievable story! He is certainly a hero, and quite a character! What a wonderful day for this family. I shudder to think what we’ll find out when details surface. God bless them all.

  21. Annie says:

    It terrifies me to think what happens to missing women and children. Murdered by a serial killer? Taken by a sex slavery ring? Abducted to be a sexual slave by some seemingly normal guy right under everyone’s noses?

    I can’t help but think of Madelein McCain. Who has her, where is she??! I don’t think she’s dead. She could very well be in some creepy guy’s dungeon.

    It also terrifies me to even go outside alone! These women were at ordinary places doing ordinary things and just vanished.

    • Tiffany :) says:

      I have heard there are millions of sex slave workers trapped all across out country. It is so sad…but how to stop it? Sigh.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        Cirque28, that is a great link and really informative!

        Part of the information that was on site illustrates why this is such a challenging problem. If a person doesn’t hang out at truck stops, how are they going to notice girls who are servicing them? If the pimp keeps the girls from socializing or traveling, how will others have the opportunity to even witness the warning signs?

        Victims of sex trade are usually kept away from society and have little contact with anyone other than their pimp and “customers”.

  22. Mac says:

    “Cops and child protective services were called to Castro’s home by suspicious neighbors several times over the years, but authorities left when no one answered the door.”

    Reports of naked women on leashes digging in the back yard. Dismissed as a prank

    Reports of a woman at the attic window holding a baby and begging for help. Dismissed as a prank.

    I have a feeling that the chit is about to hit the fan and that it’s gonna be a long hot summer in Cleveland

    • Belle says:

      Totally agree… even the 911 call was not handled appropriately. Yes, the operator did get the police there quickly, AFTER Amanda told him she needed help NOW, before ‘he’ got back. The operator seemed to recover, but only slightly after that, asking what the guy’s name was and what he was wearing… but should have stayed on the line with her and continued to get information… if her captor might be armed, if she was hurt, etc., etc.

      I’m thrilled these women are now safe, and I adore Charles Ramsey… what a nightmare though. 🙁 Hind-sight is 20/20 of course, but there is going to be A LOT of scrutiny on this case.

      • TG says:

        I was amazed at the authoritative voice and manner of the victim on the 911 call. She knew the guys name and age and after just telling the operator that she has been kidnapped for 10 years the lady said we will send a car when one is available and she said “No. I need one NOW.” You would think after 10 years of captivity and abuse she would be cowed but she wasn’t

    • Emily says:

      I certainly hope so. The police turn their back at “domestic abuse” and endangered women and children all the time. It’s pretty much their default setting. I hope all the focus on Charles Ramsey (who is awesome and deserves praise) does not take heat off the cops. Police departments EVERYWHERE need to take a good long look at themselves and clean up their acts, because right now, the way they treat women who are victims of sex crimes and domestic abuse is utterly unacceptable.

      • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

        I had a neighbour get stabbed to death by her estranged husband in front of her own mother and son because of bullshit like this.

        To Serve And Protect…Unless it’s too cold, or the thirteenth, or it’s a personal day, or the coffee was really bad that day, or if Game Of Thrones is on, or you are trying to get some scalper’s tickets to Book Of Mormon, or haven’t yet found true love, or it’s raining–which is bad for your new suede booties, or if someone gets some dust in his eye, or there isn’t a fire sale, or the moon is waxing, or One Direction is in town, or if your arm hurts when you do *this*, or you bit your lip, or are wondering if this badge makes your ass look big, or writing a spec script for 2 Broke Girls, or the late night wars are bringing you down, or the price of stamps went up AGAIN, or MythBusters is doing a piece on the feasibility of creating real-life human centipedes and you’ve GOT to see how this ends, or if you were looking for Fudgesicles and all they had were Creamsicles, or are writing a strongly-worded letter to the new Community showrunners, or a WKRP In Cincinnati marathon is on, or if these pretzels are making you thirsty, or you’re ‘man-scaping’ or auditioning for the new 50 Shades Of Grey film, or you’re trying to settle who’s the Mary and who’s the Rhoda (or wondering why that show was on the air for so long), or have taken it upon yourself to disprove Fermat’s third theorem, or it’s Christmas in Oktoberfest, or you’re about to find out the true identity of ‘Rosebud’, or are unsatisfied with Chapman’s translations of Homer and you’re the only one who can right that wrong, or are perfecting that cake-less cake recipe, or something like this were happening to you to make you actually give a damn, and finally: if you give a damn.

        Are you proud, thin blue line?

        In all sincerity, I don’t know what to think of the neighbours, one way or the other. I don’t have trouble believing that calls were made and no one did anything. Those are some weird stories to dream up out of the ether. If they saw or heard stuff and didn’t do anything…who knows? After a certain point, how can you see images like that and ignore it. Worst case scenario, the neighbours are just into that kind of stuff and understandably you were mistaken and it’s a false alarm.

        I don’t know. They’re all coming out of the woodwork now. You didn’t know, you didn’t know, then stop reaching for the spotlight. And cops like this should remember that it’s their job to police not everyone else’s. Of course, it was a poor area with a lot of minorities so, yeah, 911 is a joke in your town.

        Cover your asses, kids.

    • Tiffany :) says:

      According to the police those calls were never placed.

      I feel like the neighbors are using the police as an excuse for their own inaction. I don’t blame the neighbors for not jumping to the conclusion that there were captives inside the house…but you can’t blame police for calls that were never made.

      • Debbie says:

        I think it’s a mixture of both to be honest. I think some calls were made and ignored, not recorded or followed up on and some are just neighbors trying to get spotlight or feel better about not noticing or ignoring signs which in some instances would be easy to do but not all that have been described.

        I mean honestly if you called the police to report naked women wearing dog leashes and being controlled by men in the back yard and no cop showed up would you not call a million more times? I mean I can’t imagine a more disturbing image so I don’t think you if you have a soul could go about your business and assume its all good and the guy was fine.

        Now the people claiming to hear screams and the cops didn’t believe it follow up on their call totally buy it! This is a poor minority neighborhood so no way the cops cared, they are bad about responding to domestic calls in upperclass neighborhoods so poor neighborhoods are just completely ignored.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        Here is info from CNN regarding the naked women on leashes in the backyard:

        “Faliceonna Lopez, Samoylicz’ sister, told a slightly different version of events Tuesday on CNN’s “Piers Morgan Live.” She said after seeing the naked woman, they told their mother, not police. The mother, Annita Lugo, told Morgan that she didn’t call police, either, saying, “I definitely would have called then but it was hours later and I really — I really didn’t — you know, I was just stuck. I was dumbfounded, didn’t know how to take it, you know?”

      • Mac says:

        I’m less inclined to believe the CPD’s version of events concerning the Castro house. The neighbors have no reason to lie.

        A cover-up, which would ultimately be proven, will be much more damaging to the city of Cleveland.

        At this stage I wouldn’t even trust the Ohio State Police to conduct an unbiased investigation into allegations of police malfeasance in Cleveland.

      • Cirque28 says:

        If there’s any doubt the authorities were disinterested, you only have to listen to the 911 call.

        If Ariel Castro was growing marijuana in the backyard, would the police have managed to investigate beyond “no one answered the door so never mind”? If a police officer was in trouble, would the dispatcher have managed to stay on the line? But women and children in danger in a working class neighborhood? Meh.

        Besides, what if they weren’t 911 calls, but calls made to the precinct? What if it’s talking to an officer in person instead of calling? Would there necessarily be a record of those?

      • Tiffany :) says:

        Mac,
        I think the neighbors could have a reason to lie if they feel in hindsight they failed to help when they saw something suspicious.

        Secondly, one of the incidents that people are repeatedly stating was reported to the police was admittedly NOT reported to the police by the neighbors themselves. Yet people are still saying they called police, when the person who supposedly made the call is saying they did not.

      • carol says:

        maybe they were brushed off as pranks and not recorded for the record. It isn’t a stretch to believe that the police tend to not care about poor neighborhoods

      • Tiffany :) says:

        The police have released more information. The victims are saying they only went outside twice, both times in wigs and hats to go to the garage. They do not say that they were naked on leashes in the back yard.

        So we have neighbors who said they called, and then corrected themselves and said they didn’t. Now it sounds likely that their claim of seeing women on leashes in the backyard is also not correct.

  23. Beatrice says:

    Charles Ramsey is awesome–a real hero.

    • Meaghan says:

      Another story the neighbors are saying doesn’t fit with Charles Ramsey’s report, and I believe everything he talked about. He said he saw kids playing in the backyard, yet a neighbor said when they saw the naked girl (or girls, I’ve read 3 girls and another source said 1), tarps were put up in the yard so nobody could see in, but Charles said that he could see the backyard from his bedroom window. I hink the neighbors are lying to get their 5 minutes of fame when they get interviewed.

    • Meaghan says:

      Another story the neighbors are saying doesn’t fit with Charles Ramsey’s report, and I believe everything he talked about. He said he saw kids playing in the backyard, yet a neighbor said when they saw the naked girl (or girls, I’ve read 3 girls and another source said 1), tarps were put up in the yard so nobody could see in, but Charles said that he could see the backyard from his bedroom window. I hink the neighbors are lying to get their 5 minutes of fame when they get interviewed.

  24. Maria says:

    wow think about it, you are having one of those neighbor BBQs and they are awkward anyway, you crack some silly jokes, have some small talk and compliments about the food and all that time he had three women kidnapped…

    • Faye says:

      Besides the obvious horror of what happened to the three women, that’s one of the worst parts of this story, isn’t it? Knowing that really almost anybody could be such a monster, and you wouldn’t know. The neighbor who barbecues with you, the UPS guy who smiles as he delivers your packages, the guy on the treadmill next to you at a gym. It just makes one feel so paranoid and threatened, somehow, at least in the immediate aftermath of hearing about something like this.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        I agree, Faye. It wasn’t like this guy was a loner who kept to himself. Lots of people knew him and his brothers and interacted with him on a regular basis. Very troubling.

  25. Jane says:

    All I can say is “Way to go, Bro!!!!”

  26. Nicolette says:

    The most frightening thing to me about all of this is thinking how many others are out there. How many other women/children are being kept in some maniacs lair, chained up and tortured for their captor’s own sick gratification? It is beyond horrific, but you know they are out there.

    Maybe the police department should have taken a serious look at this asshole when neighbors called to report three naked women on all fours, being walked on leashes in the backyard. That should have been a clue to something heinous don’t you think? Or is this world so sick that it was just brushed off as some sex fetish thing? Disgusting and sick.

    I wish these young women peace, and the ability to move on with their lives. I hope they get all the counseling they will surely need to be able to deal with the horrific memories of the last ten years. God Bless them and their families.

    Charles Ramsey is the most amazing interview to watch. How many others would have turned a deaf ear to Amanda’s screams for help, and not gotten involved? And he wants the reward money to go them. Hope something good comes from this for him, as it should for a hero.

    Now to the three brothers responsible for this, I can’t write what I wish for them as it would be censored. Suffice to say that nothing would be too harsh a punishment in my book. Maybe let the male relatives of these girls have their way with them, that would be a place to start.

    • Tiffany :) says:

      “Maybe the police department should have taken a serious look at this asshole when neighbors called to report three naked women on all fours, being walked on leashes in the backyard”

      According to the neighbor, she did not call the police. From CNN:

      “She said after seeing the naked woman, they told their mother, not police. The mother, Annita Lugo, told Morgan that she didn’t call police, either, saying, “I definitely would have called then but it was hours later and I really — I really didn’t — you know, I was just stuck. I was dumbfounded, didn’t know how to take it, you know?”

  27. Sassy says:

    What a wonderful man. Gives me faith in the human race.

  28. judyjudy says:

    Thank you sir for being a decent and kind human being.

  29. anneesezz says:

    Boy, this guy is the opposite of the famewh0res we usually talk about on this site. What a great story and a great man! I hope some good karma comes his way. Cheers to him!!

  30. Talie says:

    The police dispatch in Cleveland should be ashamed that they ignored so many calls from people reporting suspicious behavior. Ridiculous!

    Thank God for this guy. He did the one thing so many people don’t: He didn’t turn his back.

  31. yeahright says:

    “If I had know that, this interview would have turned out a different way.”

    “Its about cajones and not looking the other way.”

    God bless this man.

  32. lovegossip says:

    There are reports that there was a second man who may of played a bigger part in it but because this Charles guy was interviewed 1st, they have largely ignored him. If you listen to the original interview, he says “We”. One news channel spoke to the other guy and asked how he felt being ignored, he was very humble and said it is fine the girls are out, so that is all that matters.

    Also, did you see how mcds is totally going to use this to their advantage? Sending out a tweet saying they will be in touch Gross.

    Btw, Amanda is the real hero. She rescued them with help I think. 🙂 Bottom line, they are free!!!

    • GG says:

      What a comment.

    • Belle says:

      Totally agree about Amanda being the real hero, and having the courage to try and get out when she got the chance…. even after all that time, given the extreme amount of psychological trauma those women had to have endured.

      I applaud those who helped her… but I seriously can’t imagine neighbors who would just ignore a woman screaming for help, trying to get out of a locked door. Sadly, I’m sure people like that exist… I just think most decent people would have helped. 😉

      • TG says:

        Those people do exist most of her neighbors are the kind that wouldn’t help. Charles and u guess another man stepped up at their own risk.

    • Debbie says:

      For you to do anything but praise Charles Ramsey is disgusting. The other man was interviewed and got plenty of attention but Charles was the more active helper hence why the girl ran to HIM! Also this man obviously isn’t rich he is a dishwasher and he wants to give the award money to the victims!!! Charles Ramsey is the TRUE HERO!! And honest to god the type of man we in this country should hold up as an example of the way to act. And yes same for the man Candero (I know I spelled that wrong) they risked their lives to help those poor girls and that should be commended.

      As should these young women for their strength and determination to survive and get free.

      Don’t dismiss what this man did or the unbelievable level of character he showed.

      • Lauren says:

        Agreed Debbie!

        The thing is there can be two heroes in this story but for some of the people above to be nitpicking at the importance of him helping… well she needed help from the outside to escape.

        The woman and the two other victims are all very brave beyond comprehension for having suffered in that hell but why can’t Charles also be commended without people having to make statements in the realm of “Oh yeah what he did was good and everything BUT so and so is the real hero.” It’s just very classless and neither is the time or place to be making such comments. The man went and help which is a lot more than can be said of many of the neighbours.

        It’s sad that human decency is so unapparent in the world that when it is displayed the media acts like it is something to marvel in. It’s sad because as humans we should be humane to others from the goodness of our heart and nothing more.

      • lovegossip says:

        I never said anything negative about him and I never would! My point was there was someone else helping, and SHE is the real hero, there were they to help her which Thank God for both of them. Don’t analyze what I said and twist it in to what you want it to say. Reading comprehension seems to be lost, try it, it’ll change your life!

    • Lauren says:

      @lovegossip Never implied that you said anything negative but that you are trying to somehow downplay his contribution or rather negate his role. That’s my opinion on what you wrote so maybe you may need to work on articulating your point more properly (you had to get snarky so here I am getting snarky back).

      In my opinion they are both real heroes of this story and for different reasons. This doesn’t need to be a game of pick and choose. It’s the media’s predictability that right now is pushing him into the spotlight. But both people are inspirations; the woman for being so strong and enduring as she has/ finding the courage to escape and the man for displaying human decency and not ignoring her calls for help.

      • lovegossip says:

        Yes, that was what I meant. He is in no way a hero! Jeez. I am amazed by what he did, I think it was wonderful and absolutely he is a hero! I would never downplay this at all, seriously. I just think that some credit needs to go to Amanda, the one who actually started this. He seems to be getting all the credit, and again I do not mean that in any negative way. Give credit where credit is do. Simple enough for you to understand now????

      • Debbie says:

        @lovegossip or maybe she isn’t available or ready to be interviewed maybe for once the media is respecting the victims privacy. Also both these wonderful men could have ignored the screams and continued to eat their Big Mac especially when it appeared to be a domestic violence situation and that is what the vast majority do in these situations but they didn’t.

        I think if we really want to honor Amanda and the rest of these women we will leave them the hell alone!

      • lovegossip says:

        Debbie, I never said she needs to interviewed as I am sure she isn’t ready, and may never be. This was a horrible thing that happened to her and I don’t want to hear the details, I am just glad she is ok, at least physically. As far ase getting snarky, I wasn’t snarky but if you are going to attack me because I did not explainyself in simple enough terms for you’re dang right I will defend myself. I am done with this back and forth crap, I will not respond again.

        I think you misunnderstood me and instead of asking what I meant, you attacked my opnion, which was misread.

        Bottom line, they are safe, they are free and the disgusting freaks are arrested. That is all that matters. Go ahead and think what you want about me, but I would never in a million years downplay his importance in this amazing rescue. I think people need to acknowledge her Parr in this, and that doesn’t mean interview her. That is a ridiculous thing to ask of her and that is not what I implied or said. We as people need to aknowlegde her.

        Have a good day.

      • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

        I don’t know how telling people that they don’t have reading comprehension skills can be interpreted any other way, but whatever.

    • Emily says:

      There is not a finite amount of love and praise in the universe. He can be a hero, and Amanda can also be a hero. See how that works?

    • tank says:

      I realise that this is not the time for this but I cant help wondering if she had been trying to get out the whole time. People do slip in and out of Stockholme syndrome I guess. I do wanna hear her account though. Charles is a true hero.

  33. Adrien says:

    I can’t get over this. 10 years of misery. Just sick, sick, sick.
    Anyway, God bless Charles Ramsey.

  34. Tiffany says:

    All of the local radio station’s were playing soundbites of his interviews were trying to be edgy and make fun of him but I thought he was fantastic. I would love for him to sit down with Letterman as he has such a great rapport with human interest subjects. But my money is an Ellen appearance and him getting a killer gift.

    • prayforthewild says:

      The radio stations were making fun of Charles? How does one take a situation where women and children were held captive, raped, tortured, starved, and make fun of one of the people responsible for helping in getting them out of it?

      Is this the kind of thing we find amusing now? What a massive FAIL on their parts.

      I know this is probably over the top, but I hope they get fired… Oh, and that Charles gets their job, he’d make a great DJ with his personality and candor.

      • Tiffany says:

        Yeah, they call themselves ‘shockjocks’. They said anything and everyrhing except own up to the fact that this man with the wild hair and candor demeanor help do this fantastic thing.

  35. Chell says:

    This Cleveland girl just wants to say “THANKS” for covering this amazing story! My heart aches for these girls!
    Thank goodness there are still people like Charles Ramsey in this world!

  36. Joy says:

    Ugh you should see some of the trolls commenting on other sites saying “why didn’t they just get out sooner?” Morons.

    • Victoria1 says:

      I was talking about this story at work yesterday when one woman, who claims she’s “Christian” and knew nothing about the story said “they weren’t kidnapped, they went with the guy”. I flipped out, how do you make a judgment call without knowing the full story??? She couldn’t believe I gave her the side eye.

  37. dorothy says:

    What a hero and an amazing man!

  38. minime says:

    Nice to see that there are still people that care and react in these kind of situations. This man is indeed a hero!

  39. EIleen says:

    I laughed and marveled over Mr. Ramsey’s 911 call and demeanor and actions – it was refreshing and gives a small ray of hope in an otherwise dark,evil story. So glad McDonalds has mentioned him on their twitter account also

  40. The Original Mia says:

    Aww…just when I didn’t think he could get more awesome, he does! Way to go, Charles!

  41. Samigirl says:

    I really hope someone doesn’t do something ugly and turn this guy into a meme or something like that. He seems like a genuinely good guy. I’m boohooing at my desk right now.

  42. Smer says:

    He is a good man. May God bless him. He is seriously a cool dude with such a good heart.

  43. Cam S says:

    Heroes, however unlikely, are born the moment the opportunity arises to do the right thing. No cape needed.
    Right time, right place, right decision. Rock on Mr Ramsey!

  44. Veronica says:

    Has anyone read the book “Room” by Emma Donoghue? I just read it a few months ago and the stories are ridiculously similar!

  45. erika says:

    HEROS! HEROINNES! cheers all around! bravery, survival, strength! i was clapping cheering yelling “*#&@#* YEAH!” when i saw this on the news.

  46. Isa says:

    I wish his name were on this headline. I wish people had included him on the cover.
    We need more Heroes as less bad guys in the news.

  47. MojoRising says:

    He’s just awesome. What else can you say? Just a truly stand up guy. And him calling out those moron 911 operators was AWE – SOME!

  48. MsLib says:

    How sad to think that neighbors gave the police AND social services a heads up on this situation and they failed to follow through.

    It is a difficult situation to know when to keep asking for help or just shrugging your shoulders and believing you did all you could do once you have notified the authorities.

    TG – it has ended for these women and children.

  49. Maggs says:

    I hope Charles takes the reward! The FBI supposedly has some reward and I hope he takes it. I’m sure the 3 women will all get deals for their story, etc. Charles said he hopped on his “bike” to go get a big mac, sounds like he doesn’t even have a car.

  50. jcstar says:

    He set a good example for all of us not to look the other way! He really is such a hero for helping the girls escape after ten awful years. My prayers are with the girls!!

  51. Emily says:

    Cops and child protective services were called to Castro’s home by suspicious neighbors several times over the years, but authorities left when no one answered the door.

    What in the hell.

  52. MojoRising says:

    He needs to take the money – the more I hear, the more I know Cleveland is about to pay those girls BIG money. They f*cked up. The 911 operators alone are screwed.

  53. Deebo says:

    Charles Ramsey is AMAZING. I hope this episode at the very least results in the betterment of perceptions about people of his social class.

    Btw, there should be some kind of national campaign where everyone goes and meets their neighbors so that more cases like these can be uncovered.

    • Emily says:

      That’s not at all a bad idea. The way our society is these days, we don’t know our neighbors, and that is not the way humans evolved to function. The vast majority of people we live near are not horrible, but that’s even more reason to get to know them. In this country, we’re all alone in these little nuclear family units, and that’s really a pretty horrible way to be.

      • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

        Last night I was reading some medieval history and something interesting stood out. Skipping details to most important part: At age twelve, all boys were required (lest they be outlawed) to join a group of ten males to act as a sort of neighbourhood watch. What held it together is that there was no concept of individuality among them under the eyes of law because they were a single accountable unit. If one member of the group did something wrong, the group had to report it and if they didn’t, they would all be punished for the crime as if one person had done it.

        I’m not saying that we should live under the thread of blinding and castration in order to police ourselves and I’m aware of the fact that we’re more urbanized and there are just so many more of us now, but it was interesting to see the way that everyone was responsible to and for everyone else. There have always been are will be monsters who go undetected by outfoxing us or hiding in plain sight, but when you know the people you care about them.

      • Cirque28 says:

        @Jo Mama: You always write such interesting posts!

        Signed,
        A fan

    • Tiffany :) says:

      Good point, I do think we would be safer for that.

      However, even that strategy has its limitations. This man didn’t keep to himself, his neighbors frequently had BBQs with him. His son has pictures of him and others inside the home. The basement was padlocked, but guests never heard anything from downstairs.

      I think it wouldn’t be enough in a case like this to “know” your neighbors…you would have to do a complete search of everyone’s homes to uncover everything. I don’t know if that is reasonable.

  54. Deebo says:

    I want him to get his reward!

  55. logan says:

    I love this guy. He has more common sense than all of Washington. Please, please media stay out of his past. I don’t need to hear of any DUI’s or past record. Leave the guy alone in that respect and just celebrate his awesomeness!!!! He is a hero in my book and heart.

  56. jwoolman says:

    The reason the media focus on him is because they are attracted to the bright and shiny… And he certainly is wonderfully colorful! If I were the other person involved in the rescue, I’d have no qualms pushing him front and center toward any microphone. But the guy really has used his media time exactly right. He’s tried to keep the focus on the women, and reminded people that you don’t need special training to help in a crisis. You just have to set aside your normal fears and hesitations for a little bit. And he’s expressed real regret that he didn’t know what was going on earlier, that he didn’t spot any clues. I’m sure other people are feeling the same way, and neighbors who did report suspicious activities over the years must be also feeling extremely frustrated that the police didn’t diligently investigate. It’s a real dilemma- we don’t want a police state or lynch mobs, but how do you deal with a worrisome situation like that, when the police don’t try very hard? How do you distinguish between someone just being eccentric and a real danger? It’s natural for people to hold back and wait for police to do it, otherwise they themselves could be hurt or even killed and even just charged/ sued themselves. The police don’t want vigilantes either.

  57. Dedrie says:

    I ain’t got time to be taxed for this cash.. I’m a alert hero doing what’s right.. on the job, just being myself, normal dude..

  58. jwoolman says:

    Another thought: maybe when some of the things reported by the neighbors are seen, we should make a call to the FBI as well as the local police especially if the police don’t seem up to investigating. Some of it did point to possible hostage situations. The FBI would be more likely able to spot the patterns better. For instance, that neighborhood was the site of at least four unsolved disappearances of young women over the past ten years. That’s something the FBI might be tracking but the local police may not be so focused.

  59. Paige says:

    This guy is loving his fifteen minutes of fame. Awesome! He’s a hero for sure! Absolutely disgusting what these poor girls had to endure. I wish them the best after the hell they’ve gone through. I can’t even imagine how awful it must have been.

  60. Cirque28 says:

    To be half as heroic as Charles Ramsey, we’ll have to open our eyes and ears to what is going on in our own communities. Human trafficking is a $32 billion a year industry, and believe it or not, the US is the biggest part of that pie. All around us, normal-seeming people ‘own’ other people and we don’t even realize it. Talk about brutality. (Sit DOWN Bethenny.)

    Thank god for Charles Ramsey and thank god Amanda Berry’s spirit is so strong.

  61. Jade says:

    this man is a hero! we need more like him. GG is right on the money these creeps need to have there
    di5ks cut off! nasty things! at least there all safe and sound now

  62. megsie says:

    The courage and willpower Amanda Berry displayed following years of physical and psychological torture absolutely floors me.

    God bless Charles and Angel. We are our brother’s (and sister’s!) keeper. We must be.

    “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” Mr Rogers

  63. KellyinSeattle says:

    Good for him for not conveniently looking the other way!!

  64. Christin says:

    I hope good things happen for Charles and others who helped. One of the young women has numerous family members living in my hometown region, and word is that she may be coming within a month or so to visit as she regularly did years ago. May all the victims have peace and healing.

  65. Joney Says says:

    I can’t even imagine what these women had to endure all these horrible years. Glad they are safe with their families again.
    Mr. Ramsey, You have renewed my faith in humanity; while there is evil in this world…there are good people who will answer the call to help others. He had the conscience & heart to care enough to put himself at risk for another human being. These days most people would rather turn their heads & don’t want to get involved. Big props Mr. Ramsey & Angel Cordoro; they deserve every good thing coming their ways.

  66. Dopey says:

    Just want to say – this man is my hero. The word hero gets thrown around alot but to me, he is. He knew that one young lady was in trouble as soon as he saw her and rushed in to help, with no thought to his own safety. He turned down an offer of a reward – who of us couldn’t do with some extra cash – because he felt (IMO) that he didn’t need or deserve it, he was doing what was right. We need more men like him in the world. I hope the young women are able to overcome their horrendous experience and I hope that they find away to keep in contact with the people who helped to rescue them from their nightmare. My best wishes to them all.

  67. chria says:

    it really makes me happy to know that there is actually some good people out there. he’s right in saying it’s not about being a hero it’s about doing the right thing. im glad to hear they are all safe now.

  68. mrsmc says:

    God bless you Charles Ramsey. and also to those women and child that he saved.

  69. LaurieH says:

    It’s people like Charls Ramsey that restores my faith in humanity. The definition of a good man.

  70. Jag says:

    “Cops and child protective services were called to Castro’s home by suspicious neighbors several times over the years, but authorities left when no one answered the door. ” So what the f are they being paid for? They should’ve kept going back until they knew for sure that the suspicions weren’t correct! Every cop and every CPS worker who went to that house and did nothing should be fired, imo. Ramsey IS a hero, and blessings to him.

  71. Miss M says:

    This man is a true hero!

  72. lena80 says:

    This man may not LOOK the way we think he should look or SPEAK the way we think he should speak BUT he ACTS in a manner that we ALL should aspire to. God Bless this MAN for his heroism!

  73. KAS says:

    He is a hero and so is Amanda. This New Yorker article really sums up why what they did was important. http://m.newyorker.com/online/blogs/closeread/2013/05/amanda-berry-charles-ramsey-cleveland-kidnap.html

  74. Loira says:

    So a story like this is what it takes to kick out the celebrities from the People cover? Unbelievable and I am not even an American.
    I remember the good PEOPLE covers with more human stories. Rescues, uplifting stories, etc. Stories of recovery and lots of winning”.
    Tnx Celebitchy for featuring this story here.

  75. Jennifer12 says:

    What bugs me is that they’re chasing down others who have suffered like Jaycee Duguard, Elizabeth Smart and Shawn Hornbeck. And right there on camera, the reporter said to Shawn, “Well, you were only held for four years and these women were held for ten. So how must they have felt, since they were held so much longer than you?” or something like that. And Shawn- a victim of rape, nearly murdered, held as a sex slave from the age of eleven on- was polite and said that his four years felt like an eternity to him, but he couldn’t imagine how the women felt and his heart went out to them. He said it twice (and this after willingly talking about it to the reporters). The reporter ignored the gentle rebuke and kept on going without an apology. The media sucks. They’re already going on about Charles’ past. Suck it!

    • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

      Whoever asked that question needs a good slap…with a brick.

      And as for the police: what is the point of you?

    • Cirque28 says:

      The media makes my blood boil with that nonsense. If anyone remembers Steven Stayner, it seemed like he was really blamed for not trying harder to get away. At least that’s what I recall from the movie I Know My First Name Is Steven— the tremendous insensitivity that was shown to him. And poor Stayner was a huge hero who not only survived, he rescued that other little boy. (The kidnapper did FIVE YEARS. Altho I think the laws have gotten stronger since then.)

      How dare anyone be insensitive to people who have endured such horrors? We should all thank our lucky stars that we don’t know what they went through and be as gentle and empathetic as possible.

      • Karma says:

        @Jennifer Ugh, I missed that part of Shawn’s interview and only caught the last few seconds. His eyes looked so sad. I didn’t realize he had been badgered like that. Disgusting

        @Cirque. Yes, I remember that story, and agree the media did treat Steven like he didn’t do enough. The media was horrible to him even though he was clearly a hero. And it didn’t stop there they were like vultures trying to get all the most sordid details out. You could almost see a bit of him die at the thought of it being known to everyone. Poor kid, apparently he was tormented at school as being gay, since everyone knew what happened.

        I can still see that creepy, filthy, commercial vehicle, like a smaller version of a UPS truck. Backed into the spot in a parking garage.

        Speaking of the media’s influence. When they went to Steven’s home to interview his family. His brother, Cary, who was standing behind their family on the front porch. He gets this weird look on his face and walks off in a huff. Like he was upset the media wasn’t interested in him. At the time, it made such an impression I knew we would be hearing from him again. But genuinely thought it would be due to drugs or drunk driving arrests, not growing up to be a murderer. Cary Stayner went on to become the Yosemite Killer. In some of his later mug shots, you can tell he’s extremely satisfied that the focus is on him now.

  76. homey says:

    We all get anesthetized to odd behavior. That man who took that autistic boy off the bus into his underground bomb shelter? I wonder for how long people put up with his aberrant behavior before it became imminently harmful to the innocent. The neighborhood in Cleveland has boarded up falling down houses everywhere, and domestic violence is supposedly common. Just because we are poor, doesn’t mean we can’t be decent. This should be a lesson, because poverty is seeping into every neighborhood. We may loose our money, but this man is testimony that we can’t lose our decency!

  77. Thiajoka says:

    Based on how the 911 dispatchers sounded annoyed with both Ramsey and Berry, I’m not surprised that it might be indicative of a bigger problem with the police department–the dispatchers were very apathetic about the plight of the callers, seeming instead to be focused more on the fact that both parties were over-excited (as well they should have been) and not thinking logically. In emergencies most people don’t act calm, so what else would a 911 dispatcher expect?

  78. lilsmidge says:

    What dude ran across the street when the girl was screaming? Was is a neighbor or some dude in the house? He said she was screaming and some dude ran away across the street? He mentioned this at the beginning of the interview. Shouldn’t that guy be prosecuted as well for doing nothing?

  79. lilsmidge says:

    What dude ran across the street when the girl was screaming? Was is a neighbor or some dude in the house? He said she was screaming and some dude ran away across the street? He mentioned this at the beginning of the interview. Shouldn’t that guy be prosecuted as well for doing nothing?

  80. Francesca says:

    This is an example of a true American hero.

  81. ann valor says:

    Exceptionally fine piece if commentary, very well written. A+

  82. tmbg says:

    I love this guy! I wish he was my neighbor. I’d invite him over for a Big Mac.

    What a hero.

  83. Thora says:

    Whoops! Egg, face, much?

  84. Amy says:

    Some faith in humanity has been restored.

  85. LittleDeadGirl says:

    I think there’s so many times we see things that feel deep down as wrong but we don’t want to get involved fearing embarassment but I think we all gotta push ourselves and push past that fear and listen to the voice inside and speak up when something is wrong. This man is really an inspiration to what it means to be a good human being.