Rooney Mara denies privileged childhood: ‘We didn’t have a butler or a maid’

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Rooney Mara covers the January issue of Elle Magazine (US). She promoting Carol, which has already scored Rooney a Best Actress award at the Cannes Film Festival. Most critics are short-listing her for across-the-board nominations too, although there’s still some debate about whether she’ll be included on Supporting or Lead Actress lists. We’ll see! I was pleased to read this Elle Magazine piece, just because it feels like Rooney hasn’t been hustling that much so far, and I always “enjoy” her interviews. Rooney is sort of terrible, in a funny way. While she was David Fincher’s muse, she spent months bad-mouthing her early jobs (in Law & Order: SVU and Nightmare on Elm Street), and she has a funny habit of describing herself as “aloof” and “vulnerable.” Whereas I would describe her as a “pill” and “try-hard.” Anyway, here are some highlights from her Elle interview.

The pressure of selling a movie: “As an actor, you can’t just be in the film. You’re also in charge of selling it, and so you have to be very political and make sure to not say the wrong things. It’s exhausting. A lot of pressure is put on the people who were hired to make – not even to make, to be a part of making – the thing.”

Her football family (she’s the granddaughter of Pittsburgh Steelers founder and the daughter of the NY Giants founder): She insists her upbringing was “privileged” but ordinary, “People think that I grew up going to Barneys for my back-to-school clothes. I went to the Gap. We lived in a nice house on a cul-de-sac, but it wasn’t a mansion. We didn’t have a butler or a maid.”

Whether she follows football: “I’m so not keyed into it” but says she finds it “meaningful” when one of the teams is doing well “because it means so much to the whole family.”

What she felt when David Fincher joked about her trust fund: “He was being ironic. After that article came out, I was like ‘F—k you, David. I wish I had my g-ddamned trust fund.’”

Whether she regrets playing Tiger Lily in Pan: “In hindsight, I wish I hadn’t put myself in that position.”

Oscar hopes: “Getting nominated means something, you will get better parts, and I really do want people to see the film. But I don’t feel like it’s something I’m desperate for. I would forgo it all to keep my integrity.”

She’s so aloof: “I’ve always been a very sensitive person and people tell me that if I’m in a certain mood and I go into a room, my mood will permeate the room. It’s not on purpose – I’d rather be invisible in those moments – but I’m really bad at faking how I feel. Like, my emotions kind of live all over my body at all times, and there’s not a good way for me to hide it. Because I’m highly empathetic, it’s easy for me put myself in the character’s shoes.”

She’s so hardcore: “People don’t really want me to be honest. People want me – people want girls – to be grateful, gracious, poised. Not real. I watch interviews from the 1970s, of Patti Smith or John Cassavetes, and everyone’s smoking, drinking, totally misbehaving, but they’re being completely authentic, and I’m so jealous because that would never happen today. There’s always a pre-interview, so you know what jokes you have to hit, and there’s nothing genuine about it. And I hate that. I hate being a phony. I hate having to censor myself.”

[From Elle Magazine, print edition]

Much aloof. So empathy. I would argue that Rooney comes across as slightly bratty at times because her family background really was privileged, despite what she claims, and she’s used to getting her way about everything. While she says she didn’t have a “maid or butler,” nor did she live in a “mansion,” with the kind of family money her parents had/have, I’m guessing the house was big and there were some “support staff” around. The trust-fund issue is interesting too. I wonder…

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  1. Sara says:

    Simple: did you ever have to watch your parents worry about money? No? Then you’ve had a privileged childhood. Next question!

    • We Are All Made of Stars says:

      THIS. I didn’t have a maid either, babe. And the one time I decided I wanted something from the Gap, I had to bribe my mother by going half on an ugly orange raincoat. So there.

    • Esmom says:

      I like her but I was thinking the same thing. I feel like my upbringing was privileged and we couldn’t afford Gap level clothes. Although to be fair I don’t think she was trying to deny her family’s wealth, just put it into perspective compared to say a Trump kid’s lifestyle.

      I think she’s trying way too hard to be relatable here.

      • knower says:

        @esmom

        I think somebody told her it’s awards season and everybody thinks she is unfeeling and cold – so now she is doing ‘personality damage control’ to convince people she’s not like that.

    • Linn says:

      She explicitly says that her upbringing was privileged so the headline is very misleading. All she says is that she didn’t grow up as spoiled as some people believe she did.

      • Loulou says:

        Yeah, she openly acknowledges her upbringing was privileged. I don’t get what the issue is.

      • perplexed says:

        Oh yeah, it says right here:”She insists her upbringing was ‘privileged’ but ordinary.”

      • K says:

        I think what she is trying to say (and did badly) is she was very blessed but not spoiled. So yes she could have gone to Barney’s and lived in a mansion but she didn’t she went to the gap lived in a neighborhood. Which is similar to a lot of people’s upbringings. She for sure seems like a brat but she isn’t denying she is privileged but I do think she is trying to say she wasn’t spoiled and raised different then most people.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        I agree, the headline is very misleading. It says the opposite of what she said.

      • Carol says:

        yeah, I got what she was trying to say. She was privileged but not leading the high lifestyle like some other rich kids. What bothered me is her thinking that those 70s actors were more “authentic” than they are today. Half of them were posers, wannabee brats. When you read about their lives you learn that they weren’t as cool or authentic as they wanted everyone else to think they were. Although Patti Smith seems pretty authentic anytime and anywhere.

      • crtb says:

        I think privileged is relative. I grew up in a poor Black neighborhood. Both my parents were college educated and I went to Catholic school. We were lower middle class but in that environment, people saw my family as privileged.

    • swack says:

      Not only that, shopping at GAP isn’t exactly cheap. I feel my children had a privileged childhood and we shopped at stores like Venture (now gone), K-mart, etc. Also, what does having a butler and maid have to do with being privileged?

      • Grant says:

        VENTURE! Are you from the Midwest? I lived in Naperville, Illinois for about seven years during my childhood and I remember Venture–and that schnazzy black and white logo–very well.

      • Trashaddict says:

        When the kids were little, Target (pronounced “Tar-ZHAY”) was a great place to get clothes. Got a linen skirt suit that I adore there. I may not be the best dressed at work, but the kids are going to college. That’s blessed.

    • PennyLane says:

      Oooh, the Gap – how authentically downscale. Rooney Mara’s just like us!

      I see she neglected to mention the private school education, multiple trust funds, and luxury vacation estate that her extended family visits for the month of August every year.

      • Amy Tennant says:

        My freshman roommate in College was like that. “People say I’m rich, but I’m not. I couldn’t buy all my clothes at The Limited. We had to go to Rich’s (think Macy’s) sometimes.” I was just thinking, Wow, you went to Rich’s? But wealth and privilege is really subjective. I feel pretty privileged because I had everything I needed and almost everything I wanted, so I’m not going to complain. We’d never have gone to the Gap, but I always had something new to wear, and we may never have gone out to eat in a restaurant when I was a kid, but I never went hungry.

        What cracks me up is how she said she was really bad at faking how she’s feeling. Honey, you do realize you’re an actress, right? 😉 Not that she should have to hide her emotions. I just thought it was a funny statement, considering.

      • V4Real says:

        “She insists her upbringing was “privileged” but ordinary,”

        Ok, In that sentence I’m not getting where she said she wasn’t privilege.

        I don’t know a lot about Rooney. I just find her unconventionally pretty. But I don’t see anything wrong with what she said there. I definitely wasn’t brought up privilege but even I was able to shop at the Gap, which has gotten more expensive over the years. I think what she is saying is that she didn’t always shop at the more high end expensive stores. Maybe they didn’t have a Butler who was at their beck and call. But the point is the girl never said she wasn’t privileged, she said privilege but ordinary. Maybe she wasn’t like a Paris Hilton or Trump kid.

        I do like what she said about the lady starlets of yesterday. It was more of a realness to them. Today everybody is concerned about controlling their image as oppose to being genuine.

    • Talie says:

      She needs to have a seat. The girl never even worked a real job. She went from college to a volunteer, non-profit position to being an actress who had immediate success with the Freddy Krueger movie.

    • Pablo says:

      So what, does she have to apologize for it? We all would have loved to not see our parents worry about money

      • sarah says:

        This is so true. Why do people work so hard? To support their family and give their children opportunities and a loving childhood & cherished upbringing. I don’t think Rooney answered wrong at all and to say, “well you were rich, so you can’t sit with us! Poor you!” Is unfair and frankly petty as f*ck.

      • Saks says:

        This, and her answer was just fine.

      • Comity says:

        Very true. It’s like she’s expected to justify, explain , apologize for circumstances that were out of her control. just another way to shame a woman who actually seems genuine and forthright. Are we really going to judge her on her school clothes? Silly.

      • Original T.C. says:

        I agree that she doesn’t have to apologize for her family’s wealth. I have no problems with someone being rich. My issue is with the lack of exposure to people not of her background. I know nothing about football but I do know each team has many men that are people of color. How isolated would you have to be to not be aware of issues like Black face?

        How could you research a character like Tiger Lilly and miss every incarnation of her being a Brown skinned girl? She hates being PC and not bring genuine but please she is lying about not knowing that playing Tiger Lily as a pale White woman would be seen as insulting to Brown skin Native Americans.

        Additionally look up pictures of Rooney when she was promoting social network. Light color clothes, lighter hair color and smiles for the camera. Then she went method for The girl with the Dragon Tattoo, she stayed in costume changing her entire affect, fashion choices, hair color etc. she is keeping the look to remind Sony to give her that sequel. Sorry but that’s super fake and very Hollywood.

    • Mrs. Darcy says:

      This made me lol too – my back to school clothes were put on layaway at Sears, or Kmart, and if it was a good year I got them. And I don’t consider myself deprived at all, I always had a (rented) roof over my head and a warm bed at night, not quite as down to earth as a cul de sac new build mansion though! Jesus, I knew I hated her for a reason.

      • jess1632 says:

        Lol! I don’t understand the hate whatsoever. I knew plenty of girls like this from the schools attended (private and public). Rich and oblivious about it-I was also one of them in male form (lol) but my family was cheap af would shop at value vill and no frills. I don’t get the hate maybe cause of the better upbringing(??) but if you all had these great memories from ur upbringing that wasn’t so privileged, I don’t get what your mad about…

      • ladysussex says:

        Why on earth would you hate her for growing up in a successful family? And she never said anyone else should feel deprived if they didn’t shop where she shopped.

      • Mrs. Darcy says:

        I don’t resent her for having nice things or a nice upbringing (in fact I imagine emo Rooney must have been a real buzzkill at Superbowl parties). But in a world where children are going hungry, in America and other “first world” countries, every day, as a person who grew up with unquestionable privilege and opportunity, I do wish she would own it – her family are two halves of football dynasties. She and her sister have against all odds both succeeded in an almost impossible industry, and yet she can never muster the energy to seem grateful or enthused about any of it. I do find her attitude repellent.

      • CatFoodJunkie says:

        I think there IS a difference between privileged and ordinary. Two sides of the spectrum to my way of thinking. Ordinary seems more “take out student loans to get through college, schlep lattes while in college, and work your way up the ladder in your career.” Privileged just screams private schools and extended vacation and multiple houses, all of which I do believe she had. Maybe i’m splitting a hair, but i consider to have had an ordinary upbringing, and would have loved to have had a privileged one, to be sure; i’m not beefing that she was privileged…we all wish we were if we’re honest, but i do think there’s an expectation that you acknowledge how much you benefitted from such an upbringing. No whining about lowly TV show jobs (which people in her business would almost literally kill for) or the security in knowing you could try to be an actress, and try for quite a while before needing food made you rethink your ambitions…that is quite a luxury. Who amongst us wouldn’t aim a bit higher or a bit more lofty if we knew there was a trust fund to depend upon? In short, STFU, Rooney, and say thank you for the opportunities you were afforded.

      • Sarah says:

        @ CatFoodJunkie and Mrs. Darcy. I agree that she should own up to the consequences of her privilege. It was NOT ordinary. My sister and I grew up in a single parent home, started after school jobs at 16 and went through college on student loans. Her children have gone to private schools, had parents who had an investment property and had their college education completely paid for by those parents who also bought a $40,000 power boat so the kids could go wave boarding on the lake. That is privileged. That is different from most people.

        I had a classmate in law school who did this. She had a live-in nanny for her first child but insisted on referring to her as the babysitter. And I thought the same thing then – just own up to it already. I resent the deliberate misrepresentation more than I resent the privilege.

    • BooBooLaRue says:

      Word

    • Lou says:

      She literally said she was privileged. Why didn’t you read?

    • Bettyrose says:

      EXACTLY. Privilege isn’t just about the luxuries you had but the lack of stress/fear associated with struggling financially.

      • Cricket says:

        Having financial safety is very beneficial to a child’s upbringing but so is love. No amount of money in the world can compensate for abuse or lack of love to a child. I would have given up any Gap sweater for a mom that loved me and wanted to just be my mom and hang out and do girl things. I wasn’t that lucky or is it more of a prevlidge?

      • Bettyrose says:

        Nothing in my post even remotely addressed the horrors of child abuse/emotional neglect. I was commenting on the topic at hand, which was the spectrum of definitions for “financial privilege.” I am not a qualified psychologist but I was a child once and agree fully that a loving home is the most important thing a child can have.

      • Cricket says:

        My apologies Bettyrose. I didn’t intend my comment to imply you had done so, I was just adding to the thought but worded it very wrong.

      • Bettyrose says:

        Thanks, Cricket. 🙂

    • Green Is Good says:

      Sara, co-sign.

    • annaloo. says:

      We didn’t have everything, not by a long shot, growing up. I was a military brat, and was certainly not rolling in Benetton and Esprit back in the day as I would have liked to, but I know I was privileged. That I wasn’t under a bridge, or beaten, or starving…I was privileged.

    • manda says:

      AND neither she nor her sister would likely be actors if they weren’t related to the rooneys and the maras (wellington mara was the owner of like the Giants or something). They were quite privileged, which is fine, but just admit it

      • coolkidsneverhavethetime says:

        I have to say that I grew up very privileged but it took years of real work, working minimum wage for years and years, working with all kinds of people, challenging my comfort zone a lot, entering uncomfortable conversations and getting my cis rich white girl behind handed to me MANY times before I could actually see my privilege. Ignorance doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you an ignorant one. Learning to crush the boundaries of your own paradigm is a life long effort for some, and for others, the effort is never made. Who knows what camp Rooney really falls into? Maybe she’s never had a learning moment with someone who has actually faced adversity in their life. Seriously. It’s about perspective. And I will say yes, my parents were rich, I went to private school, but we still had budgets, I still worked since I was 13, drove a 20 year old clunker, took out student loans, etc. but PLENTY of my friends got a brand new Benz for their bday every year and had summer houses in Martha’s Vineyard and private ski estates in Wyoming they got to by charter jet when they were 13 and 14. And I’m from a mid-size Midwestern city. I can’t imagine the strata that must exist in NYC or LA when it comes to “rich kids”. I resent her myopia but I kinda get it when she tries to say not all rich kids have the same experience… True story. And I sometimes feel resentful when someone assumes that because I come from wealth, I’ve never earned a thing on my own. I don’t fault people for thinking it by any means but it can put you on the defensive.

    • holly hobby says:

      Also did you get your career handed to you based on family connections? If so, you’re privileged. Sorry she and Kate got their foot in the door based on connections. I don’t think the morose one is a good actress. Yes, she’s getting accolades for the new movie but I remain unimpressed. Kate too.

  2. Little Darling says:

    One of the few that I just can’t with most of the time. She seems soooo moody and soooooo elitist, and frankly, a Debbie Downer. However, she gives a great tortured read. She’s a GIT Girl. Goop In Training.

  3. Chelly says:

    Mhm. Sure

    • ldub says:

      who cares if she grew up rich, which she obvi did, this outfit on the cover is heinous!

    • cleveland girl says:

      Totally – I am calling BS on the no maid. Are you telling me that her mother was cleaning bathrooms and scrubbing floors??? Give me a break.. They probably had a house manager, housekeeper…something!! They just didn’t call her a ‘maid’.

      • Pinetree13 says:

        I agree…like they hired a outside housecleaner but didn’t have a live in maid. I do not for one second believe her and her mom (or dad!) cleaned their own toilets every week. As if. She must think we’re stupid to swallow that tripe.

  4. Nicole says:

    Ok Rooney let’s break it down.
    Money? You have plenty- class privilege
    You’re white- race privilege

    Please stfu

    • MP says:

      She said her upbringing was privileged so maybe you need to learn to read before you start telling people to stfu.
      The hate here for her is ridiculous.

      • Pablo says:

        Well said MP

      • jammypants says:

        Agreed. She didn’t say anything wrong.

      • qwerty says:

        Yes let’s make all the white and oriviledged people stfu and disappear, that will make everyone equal! Guess what? You have internet access and likely a roof over your head, you’re more priviledged than millions if not billions of people in this world.

    • OhDear says:

      But she explicitly says that her childhood was privileged (“She insists her upbringing was “privileged” but ordinary, “People think that I grew up going to Barneys for my back-to-school clothes. I went to the Gap. We lived in a nice house on a cul-de-sac, but it wasn’t a mansion. We didn’t have a butler or a maid.””). All she’s saying that her lifestyle as a kid wasn’t as rich as everyone thinks it was.

    • chaser says:

      STFU and sit down yourself. Learn to read.

  5. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    I find her spoiled, homely, needy and sulky. Not attractive in the least, inside or out. I’ve never seen her act, but I assume she must be wonderful to have gotten anywhere, because it certainly wasn’t because of her looks or personality. The fact that she considers the way she grew up to be “normal” says it all. Yeah, frowny face, it was “normal” to YOU.

    • Scarlet Vixen says:

      I really disliked her for awhile, too. My husband is a huge NY Giants fan, and I come from generations of Steelers fans, so I kind of took her dismissiveness of her family football legacy a bit personally. But, the more I read her explanations I feel for her. I know a couple of true introverts who often come off the same way, and I know they’re genuinely good people just SO uncomfortable and awkward in social situations. It can read as bratty, obnoxious, pretentious, rude, etc. They’re just not good at “small talk”. Rooney reminds me so much of both my friends, so I try to give her a pass. We constantly expect actors to be pleasant, friendly, funny, amiable people and I don’t feel like that’s a reasonable expectation.

      And, is there really a right way to answer questions on her childhood? “Yes, my parents are rich white people. I’m a spoiled brat! Now pease come see my movie!” I imagine that constantly being reminded how “privileged” you are simply because you grew up rich and white when that doesn’t really have anything to do with your job AND it’s difficult for you to converse with strangers is very uncomfortable and difficult for her.

      • littlemissnaughty says:

        There are ways to deal with it though. I used to come off as horribly shy and people used to tell me they thought I didn’t like them at first. Which was not the case but I began wondering how many people never even got as far as telling me that because they didn’t want to deal with me. So I worked on changing that. It’s hard at first but then I worked as a waitress/bartender during uni and had to get it together. People don’t tip the bitchy waitress. You can learn to approach social situations differently, you can prepare yourself for them. Have an answer ready when it comes to your crazy rich family for example. It can be done, although I’ll admit it takes time and it’s not always easy.

      • perplexed says:

        I’ve always been thought of as shy and very quiet (even when I’m talking what I think is a fair amount), and I”m really terrible at “small talk” (as in talking about myself). I don’t think my quiet personality attracts people, nor do I think they want to spend time with someone they might think is “boring” like me over the long haul, but people generally say I’m “nice.” (I guess I have a half-smile that makes me seem pleasant?). I don’t necessarily think all introverts are perceived as rude. Maybe she needs to stop explaining why people think she’s a certain way, which then makes everyone think it when before they might not have had an opinion either way. Among actresses, it seems to be just her and K-Stew who are perceived this way. Although she comes off better to me than K-Stew. I would have never thought either way that she’s nice or not nice if she hadn’t talked about being perceived a certain way. The extent of my opinion is that she wears some really awful outfits.

        Her sister mentioned that she was also perceived as shy or something on Ellen, and that’s how she got into acting (to improve on that quirk). I would never have guessed that she was once a shy person (maybe it’s a family trait?), so I think the advice about working one’s self does make sense and seems to have worked in there case. BTW, does the sister not face the same questions about the football legacy? Maybe Rooney Mara has a greater level or fame (or did? seems like she’s kind of forgotten by now), but her sister is a good example of someone learning charisma. Although maybe she doesn’t want to be mistaken for being her sister if they’re up for the same parts.

      • Dq says:

        Scarlet Vixen…introverts may come off a certain, but introvert or not, this girl seems very spoiled and ungrateful…but resting bitch face is a problem I get.

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        I have empathy for her if she struggles with shyness. That’s not really what bothers me about her. You can’t help it if you’re shy. It was, along with she’s so ordinary, the part about people telling her that her mood permeated the room but she couldn’t help it that turned me off, really. I know people like that – people who just suck all the air out of a room. It seems like she has to be the center of attention one way or another. Because she’s so sensitive. But she can’t help it. I don’t know why, but that annoys me. Maybe I’m not being fair, because she reminds me of someone in my family who drives me nuts.

      • Lou says:

        This!!! One thousand times! Exactly what I think. I also think she is a quite interesting, different and talented actress. I prefer her attitude than the absolutely Hollywood game player Jennipher Lawrence.

    • Mayamae says:

      @GNAT, tell us how you really feel (j/k). I saw a round table discussion with the cast and director of Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. She seemed almost cripplingly shy. I’m an introvert who tends to become shyer the more uncomfortable I am. I recognize it in others and tend to empathize. It’s not really something she would fake, IMO, because it’s rather unattractive and makes others avoid you and feel uncomfortable.

    • Kitten says:

      Yes all of this. This interview makes me feel like my long-standing “irrational” dislike of her may actually be valid after all.

    • FLORC says:

      From what i’ve seen of er whole family she is the norm among them. It’s their normal and have had little to no exposure to the majority normal.
      With loads of stories going back years of how she threw tantrums on sets with a parent or Kate soothing her until someone caved to her demands.

      A part of me thinks she’s a victim of circumstance having always been coddled and knows no other way.

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        I don’t accept that. I was very sheltered and my family was very comfortable. I remember thinking, when I was 8, “why do poor people like cars that have different color paint on them?” It was, of course, because they couldn’t afford nice cars. Until that time, I really didn’t fathom that everyone couldn’t afford to buy a new car. But I was 8 years old. She is far past the age where she should know how lucky she is, and how her life was far from ordinary.

      • FLORC says:

        GNAT
        Fair. I think in her case she is continously sheltered and she likes it that way. So, why would she rock her own boat by questioning things?
        Willful ignorance I guess. Then again some people are just dim and if it’s not spelled out it’s not understood. Even by very smart people.

    • lisa says:

      lol

      she does always look like she’s doing me a favor by showing up

      i dont get her either

  6. Allie says:

    It’s the fact that she never had to worry for anything. That is what makes her childhood unique. That is priveldge. Go away with your ignorance.

    I also absolutely hate when actors complain about selling their movies. You’re an actor, how are you bad at hiding what you feel?! Do you think everyday I want to pretend to be happy, talking to my coworkers or clients? No, but it’s called acting, doing what you don’t always want to do. Priveeeeeldge

  7. Gee says:

    I went to HS with her, I was in her brothers grade. They were absolutely privileged. She was very nice and very quiet, but they were rich kids from Bedford. No two ways around it.

    Also, from what I remember he flunked out of school and they sent him to prep school to repeat the year, then they bought his way into Fordham with a nice donation. Privileged.

  8. vauvert says:

    Agree with Kaiser, so try hard it makes your eyes roll. And seriously, promoting a movie has always been part of the job. Golden Age HW stars would promote their movies – in a different way, since we had no internet or social media, but they did interviews and appearances and so on. You think it is too much responsibility, walk away.
    She may imagine her upbringing was not privileged by some rich people standards. I seriously do not believe that a family who owns two teams of that caliber did not have maids. Maybe not a butler, they are going out of style somewhat, but I hardly think her mom would rush hone from work and start doing laundry, mopping floors while her dad fixed the porch light and took the car for a tune-up.

    • tracking says:

      ^this. I find her unbearably annoying and not a particularly compelling actress. Too precious and emotionally stilted for my taste.

    • Val says:

      It IS boring though, all of their interviews are scripted and pre-approved and bla bla bla… it’s all too overproduced and fake. I would much rather see candidness and honesty and dirt, than everything curated like an advertisement.

  9. Danielle says:

    Misleading headline. She agreed she had a privileged childhood, just said that they didn’t live as super rich.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Agree, but she also says they were “ordinary.” They weren’t.

      • ell says:

        she probably means ordinary, as in not over the top with expenses or lifestyle. rich, but not extravagant.

      • Lilacflowers says:

        Perhaps “ordinary” by the standards of those families who own multiple successful major league sports franchises?

      • Val says:

        Yeah I’m guessing it means they didn’t drink champagne for breakfast and have diamond-encrusted toilet seats.

      • qwerty says:

        Ordinary as in, ber mother or was it nanny didn’t put caviar cream on her head to toe before she went to sleep (like Donald Trump’s son)

      • Tiffany :) says:

        Ordinary is relative, though.

        Where I am from, if someone made $250k a year, they were “rich”. Where I live now, the $250k people think they are middle class, and see the $3M people as rich. The $3M people see themselves as middle class, and the $10M people as rich. The $10M people see themselves as well off, but not truly “rich” like the $200M+ or $1B folks.

        None of it is really accurate in a global scale.

  10. Lilacflowers says:

    The average NFL team is valued at $2 billion. The NY Giants are the 4th most valuable team and the Steelers are the 13th most valuable team. Not feeling Rooney as one of my economic peers.

    • qwerty says:

      It’s not like the owner has those 2 billions in his account though.

      • Lilacflowers says:

        The team is usually not the owner’s only source of income or asset. They usually had to have had enough wealth to buy the team

  11. GlimmerBunny says:

    So what if she grew up rich? It’s not like she’s not talented. I’d rather see priviliged but talented girls like her than poor girls simply admired for their “hustle” winning Oscars.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      I don’t think people mind that she grew up rich, just that she is so blind to the fact that she was very, very lucky, not ordinary as she claims. A very small percentage of people grow up the way she did.

      • K says:

        Except she isn’t downplaying or dismissing her wealth she is just pointing out she didn’t live like i would image she would have and she didn’t. I never would have thought the owner of the Giants didn’t live on an estate, I also wouldn’t have thought that his mansion wouldn’t have had a full staff. I made these assumptions and she is just saying yeah I have a lot of money there is a trust fund I grew up privileged but not like you are thinking. I think people are being way hard on her for the family she was lucky to be born into.

    • Div says:

      ITA. I find Rooney try hard at times but she’s incredibly talented and there are many, many wealthy connected male actors who are much worse about authenticity, complaining about past roles, etc. and they don’t get half the shit Rooney does. Did you see Carol? She’s incredible. It sucks Harvey stuck her in supporting because she’s lead and apparently it’s splitting votes, confusing people, and other people won’t vote her just because it’s such blatant category fraud. I’ve seen Carol, Room, Brooklyn, 45 Years at a festival, etc. and I totally think she deserves to be the front runner for Best Actress even ahead of Saorise, Charlotte, and Brie.

    • Snarky says:

      Rooney is definitely talented. Learning about her family does finally solve the mystery of why Hollywood keeps trying to make Kate Mara happen, though.

      GNAT is right–it isn’t the wealth itself. It is the talking it down that comes across as bratty.

      • Esmom says:

        I don’t know why I’m compelled to defend her but I don’t think downplaying her family’s wealth is so horrible — and when she says they were “ordinary” I kinda get it. I’m thinking she’s not referring to the material things but to the social-emotional stuff. We had extremely wealthy families in our old neighborhood and the kids were still just kids when it came to relating on a human level. The parents, too, for the most part, if you overlooked the fact that they had personal basketball courts and summered in Martha’s Vineyard. Those things were not the focus of our day to day interactions, though. Kids just want to be kids, having friends, doing well in school and doing the stuff they like.

    • FLORC says:

      It’s the ignorance to the world that is bothersome. And how she says there was a lack of privilege, but she has trashed her early jobs like they were below her. Like she should have started at the top.

      Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson needs to sit her butt down and tell her about the absence of privilege and how to be thankful. That selling a movie isn’t a hardship. That the obscene pay check they make isn’t proportional to the amount of work they do.

      I’ve never found her acting to have range. She plays 1 style well. Moody. And she apppears to act entitled to her current life, but views thw work portion as a burden or struggle.

      • HeyThere!! says:

        I hope this is under the correct comment!!! The Rock is the most amazing, humble, giving actor alive today! And non of it ever feels like it’s for show. He’s just so genuine. He’s my celeb crush!!!!!!!!

  12. Armenthrowup says:

    Interesting she says ‘my trust fund’ and not ‘a trust fund’, no?

    • RuddyZooKeeper says:

      I thought the same thing. Maybe she’s just not old enough for access to it yet. Or maybe somebody has to die first. But she certainly has one, if that quote is accurate.

    • Betsy says:

      Yeah, “I wish I had my trust fund,” is not a sentence I have or will ever utter.

      But depending on the rules and size, god, what fun a trust fund must be! My husband and I are comfortable by the standards of most in the US (although poor by comparison to many in our well-off neighbors), but I can still feel poverty nipping at our heels. I guess that’s an ongoing gift of the a Republicans having destabilized the middle class.

  13. Jem says:

    She has a weird shaped head. She looks like a character out of a Tim Burton movie.

  14. Div says:

    I think she’s try hard but I don’t get why she bugs so many…especially since she’s such a talented actress. She admits she’s privileged in the interview. She just tries to downplay it by saying it was normal. She also made a good point about having to hit pre-planned jokes on talk shows and the internet parsing every word so if an actor misspeaks one word it can turn into a big clickbait story.

    • Sara says:

      It’s really a question of perspective. We all hate some aspects of our jobs, I’m guessing- but we wouldn’t bitch about them in front of our friends who have been on the dole for months. I hope celebrities have support groups so they can complain about the downsides, but in front of civilians it comes off so annoying. unfair, but there it is.

    • tracking says:

      Is she a talented actress? I ask this seriously, since I have seen her in several things and not been impressed. Clearly she can do aloof and moody, but is that acting?

      • FLORC says:

        Same. I said upthread the same thing. She can do “Moody” well, but there’s no range. And to be talented in acting should mean range.

  15. littlemissnaughty says:

    She sounds so whiney about absolutely everything. Girl, you need to step back and examine your life. She sounds like she’s incapable of being grateful for anything. Work, money, success. I want to slap her a little.

  16. Word says:

    Much aloof. So empathy.
    ROLLING

  17. Word says:

    Much aloof. So empathy.
    ROLLING
    Plus I know QQ and a few other posters don’t like this girl. Should be interesting.

  18. VCostello says:

    I had to do it. I googled the price of homes on cul de sacs in Bedford. The cheapest I found was a 3 bed, 2 bath 1500 square foot bungalow for the bargain price of $497,000. (The average price was $1,000,000.) Sure Rooney, you’re JUST like me.
    Why can’t she just own her privilege? It’s not like we could like her LESS.

    • Kitten says:

      ….and yet that is still FAR more reasonably priced than my last 650 sq ft Boston rental that just sold for $525,000.

      Sigh.

      • swack says:

        Glad I don’t live on the East Coast! Couldn’t afford it.

      • FLORC says:

        It’s not so bad here! Well, it is, but there are pockets of reasonable prices 🙂
        My state is the worst state to retire in with unreasonable cost of living to income earned.

        Kitten
        If that place wasn’t laced in gold foil you must be a celebrity and your well off stalker just had to have your former residence. Outside of that it’s too damn much!

    • perplexed says:

      Never mind. I think I read the average price wrong.

    • MrsK says:

      I think David Letterman lives in Bedford, and Martha Stewart. It’s a *very* upper-crust oldish-money type of place. Letterman and Stewart aren’t exactly “old” money but they like that image.

    • WA3P says:

      You MORON.
      Rooney lived there as a CHILD. Which means her parents must have bought the house at LEAST 25 years ago.
      Do you THINK the prices of houses may have changed JUST a little bit in the last 25 years?

  19. Merritt says:

    She is insufferable. I don’t find her acting to be remarkable. She is rather meh. When actors diss their early roles, it is annoying. If you were so above the part then you should not have taken it.
    I do think it is okay to make fun of early roles though.

  20. NN says:

    I don’t have anything against her or other privileged people…I just find them really uninteresting generally speaking and wish they didn’t take up so much space in the media.

  21. Fiddy says:

    Google ‘Rooney Mara Trust Fund’ and you’ll see a few citations disputing her having a Trust Fund.

    There could be reasons for her being ‘aloof’ – i.e., just because she had a ‘privileged’ childhood, that doesn’t mean to say she had a happy childhood. Who knows – maybe she did; but maybe she didn’t, and trepidation is wired into her personality as a result.

    • lucy2 says:

      This is true – money does not equal happiness. Nor does her parents having money automatically mean she had access to it as a kid, or had a trust fund handed to her at some point. It’d be unusual, but not unheard of.

      She definitely seems like a morose complainer in every interview, but I can see that people make assumptions about her family life that might be completely off base.

  22. Sochan says:

    The way she describes herself/personality she sounds like a textbook Scorpio, but I googled it and discovered she’s a Taurus. Interesting. I really have no strong feeling for her negatively and positively, and I have zero interest in her as an actress. But I do get annoyed when people from wealthy families claim life was simple growing up because they didn’t have [insert just about any domestic servant: nanny, maid, butler, cook, driver]. I’m willing to bet my last long dollar they had babysitters and a housecleaning service at the very least. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Just don’t act like it was all down-home for you. And when I was growing up Gap was *really* expensive. I never had one single item from Gap the entire time I lived under my parents’ roof.

  23. Tania says:

    She annoys me the way Kristen Stewart annoys me. That is not a compliment.

  24. OTHER RENEE says:

    The Gap?! I couldn’t afford those clothes. I bought my daughter’s clothes at Target. And she looked really cute in them for the 2 seconds she was able to fit into them before outgrowing everything.

    • swack says:

      Thus the reason for not shopping at the GAP! I totally understand the outgrowning of the clothes. I bought my oldest some long pants in September for her to wear when it got colder and by the time November got there they were now high water pants and she never got to wear them! She also went through 3 different sizes of shoes in 6 months.

  25. Jackson says:

    Sometimes she comes across….poorly. This time though I’m not sure why people are jacking at her. She acknowledges that she was privileged. Are we supposed to dislike her because she grew up white and privileged? It sure seems that way sometimes.
    I also think she makes some good points about talk shows and interviews and the like. Nothing can be spontaneous or real. Every damn word has to be censored and considered because it’ll be parsed the next day like nobody’s business. Sometimes I think we all need to effing relax already.

    • Sochan says:

      Not at all. I personally don’t get on the “white and privileged” bandwagon. The problem is when people of privilege want to convince everyone that they have a “normal” life but then the examples they give only show that they’re clueless about what a normal life really is. Just say something like “my parents worked hard and provided well for us and I have a lot to be grateful for”. That’s all. Instead it’s lies, because no one believes her wealthy parents were at home cleaning their own bathrooms. And “we shopped at the Gap”. Girl, if only I could have shopped at the Gap.

      I definitely agree with the last part of your comment.

      • Sunlily says:

        This exactly. I just wrote a comment below that is similar, but you put it way better than I did. It’s the whole “See, I do stuff that regular folks do like shop at Gap” not realizing that that’s not really as cheap or as lowbrow as she thinks that it is. That bugs.

      • Farhi says:

        Who knows what is normal, though? I am very much above “normal” average salary of 50K.
        And I think “Gap” sucks and never shop there , because the price/ quality ratio is bad, It is better to buy a more expensive thing on sale but of higher quality.
        On the other hand I don’t know where all these people making 50K a year get money to go out seemingly every night?

        Everybody has their own definition of “normal”.

  26. Sunlily says:

    “People think that I grew up going to Barneys for my back-to-school clothes. I went to the Gap”

    Lol, ok. I didn’t know The Gap was a discount store or where the less fortunate go to shop.

  27. Colette says:

    She insist her upbringing was privileged…
    So what’s the problem.Most people in America upbringing is privileged compared to compared to people in many parts of the world.That doesn’t stop us from wining about stuff,wining about what we didn’t have.
    So pot meet kettle

  28. ell says:

    she says she’s privileged, but ordinary. i’m not particularly into her and never saw her in anything, but being also from a fairly privileged background, i get what she’s saying. here’s the thing though; why do these celebs not understand they would bug people a lot less if they just stopped talking about it? just admit you had opportunities a less privileged person would have never had, say how lucky you are, and leave it at that.

    also being introverted has nothing to do with being boring.

  29. Marianne says:

    I like Rooney and all, but I really wonder if she truly regrets playing Tiger Lily, or if she’s only saying that because the film bombed anyway.

  30. FingerBinger says:

    Mara regrets being in Pan because it flopped.

  31. frivolity says:

    She grew up in one of the wealthiest, most elite enclaves in one of the wealthiest counties in the country. She is uber-rich, entitled, and has no clue.

  32. perplexed says:

    If your director is ragging on you for being rich (even if it’s true), I guess I can see how that might make you turn a little more inwards. Sure, the rest of us might be doing this too, but I think it’s weird that her colleague would be doing it to her face. The latter is probably more annoying for her.

  33. Veronica says:

    It would hilarious to me how defensive rich people get when they get called on their privilege if it wasn’t for the fact that it ultimately results in so little empathy and understanding for people who lack the same.

    I think the biggest problem with her is that she tries very hard to convince us how different and unique she is while skirting around the reality that she got in there for pretty much the same reason most A-listers. Like, I don’t care that you grew up wealthy, but don’t quantify it (I wasn’t that wealthy!) and don’t tell me you don’t want the attention when you’re in an industry that requires a desire to be the center of attention.

    • poppy says:

      your last paragraph exactly.
      become an actuary if you don’t want to be seen.

      also, she is in dire need of an antidepressant.
      could she be more miserable?

    • JenniferJustice says:

      I have so much love for your comment. How many times do we have to hear celebrities whine about the lack of privacy and constant attention, when they intentially dove into the most narcissistic profession in the world?!

  34. eliza says:

    She does admit that she’s privileged. So whatever on that. BUT I find it really annoying that she is complaining about having to do PR for the movies. Its sOOOOOO Haaaaard to answer questions about yourself and what you’ve done. Are you effin’ kidding me?? All jobs have stuff that you don’t want to do. But I would gladly take being interviewed for a couple of months about something I love to do in exchange for millions. stfu.

  35. TreadStyle says:

    That’s a horrible cover photo. I find her so boring in real life and movies. She worked in the dragon tattoo bc that’s pretty much her personality! Anything else I’ve seen her in I’m like she looks miserable & her moments acting happy are not believe able. I really think Kate is much cuter and has a wide range of acting skills(& just a good actress in general), but it seems like Rooney is preferred. I don’t get it.

  36. Lou says:

    She’s right about celebrity interviews these days. How can you be authentic and yourself when you know the internet and tabloids are ready to jump on every single thing you say?

  37. Claire says:

    Rich or not, she’s a quite talented performer. I will give her that.

  38. perplexed says:

    If you’re trying to achieve a certain level of stardom, I don’t think it’s possible to be authentic (what does that even mean anyway?). That kind of celebrity actor-y fame doesn’t happen by accident, and the people who get it are usually the ones who wanted it badly (I’m talking about actors here, not the Dalai Lama or someone who aspires to a political position). Does anyone think Tom Cruise or whoever else would be that famous if they showed their true selves?

    I think this expectation that fame and acting jobs can just come to you while you don’t do something to try and facilitate the public’s good-will towards you on some level is odd thinking. There’s no way you can have the public willing to connect with you if they don’t like you on some level.

  39. lunchcoma says:

    If someone asks you about being privileged and if you admit you kind of were, say yes and move on. Don’t add any “but” statements at the end, because there’s always going to be someone who thinks the fact that you’re even using that as a standard is privileged and oblivious. Talk about your house on the cul de sac some other time.

    • JenniferJustice says:

      Yeah. I actually had to give Goop some respect when she said she refused to apologize for being rich. It’s the only smart thing I’ve ever heard from her.

  40. sarah says:

    let them eat cake?

  41. Amelie says:

    A bunch of the Maras attended my church (not Rooney) and I briefly went to school with one of them. They didn’t stick out much from other church goers apart from the fact a lot of them were blonde. They really do seem ordinary close up. It was my mom who told me they were football royalty. They just seemed like another white blonde middle class family. Nothing really exciting.

  42. kristen says:

    “I’m really bad at faking how I feel.”

    Um… maybe you should consider another line of work?

  43. Konspiracytheory says:

    “I’ve always been a very sensitive person and people tell me that if I’m in a certain mood and I go into a room, my mood will permeate the room.” Ugh. She’s the type where it’s all about her, 24/7 – exhausting.

    • Veronica says:

      LOL, right? I read that and almost laughed out loud. For one, SIT DOWN SON on your presumption that everybody cares that much. Second, if the entire room is affected by your mood, it’s probably because you’re being an a**hole and everybody wants you to leave.

  44. alice says:

    Interesting that she never mentions even having other jobs besides acting. I think that is the real privilege of rich kids or most celebrity offspring for that matter: they never had, and never will have to work for a living, so they are utterly disconnected to the real world, the struggle or even just the pressure to pay the bills or having to know the prices on a supermarket. I still have to heard of a celeb child that have to work because of their parents cut them off.

    • Veronica says:

      I agree that’s what wealth privilege (or any privilege, for that matter) is at its core. The simple ignorance of literally not being able to understand what it’s like to have to work your way even to the middle ground. I grew up lower middle class/working class with a single mother, and to this day, I’m still amazed at how much easier I had it than some people for the simple fact of my skin color (white) and being a step up from truly impoverished. There are so many doors that are opened up simply by connection to a big name or money.

      • Farhi says:

        And people in the US cannot understand what it feels like to not know where and when your next meal is coming
        from and how it feels to wonder from an acquaintance to an acquaintance in hopes of snagging a peace of bread or a cracker for today. And tomorrow there will be another day, and tomorrow’s food will be tomorrow’s worry. Maybe a rich prince will cross the road like in “Pretty Woman”. Yeah, right.

        Yet, here they all are attacking Mara for being privileged without realizing how privileged they are themselves. it is all relative.

      • Veronica says:

        There are plenty of people in America who don’t know where their next meal is coming from. We’re just fortunate to live in an industrialized nation where that’s not the case for the majority of the population and abject poverty is a rare phenomenon.

        Wealth is relative. We get that. That’s not why she keeps getting nailed for it. It’s because she won’t shut the hell up about it. She’d do a lot better to just say, “I’m aware that my privilege has given me opportunities others don’t have” and be done with it. Own it, and people will stop getting annoyed by her attempts to quantify it.

  45. HeyThere!! says:

    All wealthy is relative. Simple as that. She had a privileged upbringing, yet was taught to be modest? Or, maybe she wasn’t spoiled with Barney shopping sprees like some of her mates? She can’t help it she grew up wealthy. She certainly can’t help if a trust fund was in her name, or that her parents put her in private schools from kindergarten on up. All that aside….she’s not my favorite actress. I didn’t even know her name, but I did recognize her face!

    • Pondering thoughts says:

      She isn’t just saying she wasn’t spoiled. She tries to give us the idea that she grew up like Joe the Plumber by indicating that they didn’t have any household staff “no maid no butler”.

      She is the daughter and granddaughter of billionaire football team owners and the teams are largely still in her family. And basically she tries to imply that they scrub their floors all by themselves. It is pathetic.

      This is a rich kid complaining that she is called “rich kid”. See my comment under #48 because there I listed the worth of the football teams with links.

  46. Izzy says:

    I can’t comment on her immediate family (siblings, etc.), but I went to law school with a cousin of hers. He graduated, joined the military and was in the JAG Corps for several years, and is now an elected official serving in the House of Representatives. He may be rich and privileged, but he has chosen a life of public service. Yes, he can afford it, but he could have gone into the family business and made far more money. He’s a good guy with solid values and work ethic. And I say this coming from the complete opposite end of the political spectrum as him. So, I guess my point is that her entire family is may be wealthy and privileged, but some of them (at the very least) are paying it forward.

  47. toby says:

    “You’re also in charge of selling it, and so you have to be very political and make sure to not say the wrong things. It’s exhausting.”

    y’all are proving her point.

    • perplexed says:

      Trying to calculatedly seek out fame on an international level is an exhausting activity, I’m sure.

      None of these people become famous by accident.

    • Veronica says:

      She has the option of not pursuing such a high profile profession that involved such public scrutiny. Part of the job is PR, and celebrities are paid very well for it. I get that we all have parts of our job we hate, but come on now.

    • Original T.C. says:

      I would gladly trade places. Work for 3 months out of the year to make like 3 million and all I have to do is promote my film and not put my foot in my mouth? Sold!

      Some(not all) people complaining about being PC some times are those who are out of touch with people outside of their privileged circle and hate being called out for it. Cough*Tiger Lily* Cough.

  48. Nudie says:

    I believe her. So her grandpa or uncle owns the football team. That doesn’t equate to wealth for her immediate family. Even then it’s clear she was wealthy growing up but often wealthy parents are stingy with their kids to instill self-reliance. I have a friend whose dad is worth double digit millions but won’t help her out with a $50,000 housing deposit. And she’s a huge success career-wise, but early in her career so she doesn’t have it saved up. Meanwhile I just read about some “working-class” guy driving for uber during his retirement to fund exactly that for his daughter. For Rooney, it’s in the extended family, so I believe her when she claims she wasn’t skiing in Switzerland or fly to Paris for the weekend by private jet type rich.

    • Pondering thoughts says:

      It is two football teams. And it is her grandfather and her father who were the founders. The Rooney/Mara Family still owns these teams or parts of them. Miss Rooney Mara’s complaining about being seen as a rich kid is PATHETIC.

      Pittsburgh Steelers: worth: $ 1,9 billion
      Owner: Daniel Rooney, Art Rooney II [<<<—–]
      http://www.forbes.com/teams/pittsburgh-steelers/

      NY Giants: worth: $ 2,8 billion
      Owners: Steven Tisch, John Mara [<<<—–]
      http://www.forbes.com/teams/new-york-giants

      Even if Mara's family sold those teams early on it should have generated a pretty penny.
      As I wrote below: I doubt her mother scrubbed the floors all by herself. Billionaires' daughters / wifes do usually not scrub their floors all by themselves.

      And if she didn’t go skiing in Switzerland or fly to Paris for the weekend then perhaps she skied and week-ended elsewhere. Or am I supposed to believe that the daughter and granddaughter of billionaire football team owners has never skied and did never go somewhere for the weekend?

      @ Nudie

      Do you still believe her?

  49. HoustonGrl says:

    With the world as it is, if you grow up with a roof over your head and food on your table, yes you are privileged!

  50. OrangeCrush says:

    Does she EVER smile?

  51. lostinthought says:

    Ah my moody Mara 🙂 Jokes aside, you don’t need a butler or a maid to be privileged. I mean she went to George Washington Univ and nyu Gallatin, and those schools aren’t cheap. I mean come on? But I do like her charity work, that I can say.

  52. Skyblue says:

    I grew up pretty poor in a rural Montana community. I went to college on loans, pell grants and work study with a tiny bit of cash from my parents when they could. I didn’t have a car and would have to take a greyhound bus home if I wanted to visit my family on weekends. My first roommate also grew up in a rural Montana but her parents were hard-working, wealthy wheat-farmers. I will say I was pretty envious of her fully paid education, new car and a beautiful second home on a gorgeous lake. I don’t resent the privileged but I do respect those who realize there is often a world of difference and it sometimes physically aches to experience poverty.

    • Nudie says:

      The grass is always greener. Being wealthy isn’t going to solve everything, though obviously it can make things easier. I know rich kids who resent the dependence and the complications that money can bring to family relationships and envy people from less-well-off backgrounds for being much more motivated in life.

      • Pondering thoughts says:

        I always find that rich kids complaining is pathetic. They have all the options in life that their money can buy. Whereas the paupers may have as much motivation as possible – without mony you won’t get anywhere. And I mean that in a “broad” meaning. No money or no support or no scholarship or no … and you won’t get anywhere. Some poor kids can’t attend schooling post high-school because they don’t have the money for bus tickets or because there are no part time jobs to support themselves. Or because jobs pay so poorly you have to work full time to make ends meet – no time for study or further education.

        Rich kids complaining is pathetic. All they need to do is develop some back bone and not give in to each and every temptation that their money can buy. They have all the chances and options and they can buy a lot of help and advice.
        ADVICE FOR RICH KIDS:
        Do not attend each and every party just because your friends do.
        Do not try each and every drug just because you can afford it and your friends do it, too.
        You have enough clothes.
        You own enough shoes.
        Nope, you don’t need the latest fashion every season.
        One car is enough.
        Nope, you don’t need a holiday every two monthes.
        No, you needn’t do every stupid thing because your friends have done it.

  53. Pondering thoughts says:

    “I went to the Gap. We lived in a nice house on a cul-de-sac, but it wasn’t a mansion. We didn’t have a butler or a maid.”

    Gap is relatively expensive young adult clothes.
    So you didn’t have a butler or a maid? How about housekeepers, private tutors, gardeners, cooks, cleaners, drivers, nannies …

    Am I supposed to seriously believe that the granddaughters and daughters of the founders of American Football teams do clean their bathrooms and floors all by themselves?

    Girl, you gotta be kidding me.

    “Whether she follows football: “I’m so not keyed into it” but says she finds it “meaningful” when one of the teams is doing well “because it means so much to the whole family.”

    Girl, football is where your money and your families’ money comes from. Show some respect.

    ” She’s so hardcore: “People don’t really want me to be honest. People want me – people want girls – to be grateful, gracious, poised. Not real. I watch interviews from the 1970s, of Patti Smith or John Cassavetes, and everyone’s smoking, drinking, totally misbehaving, but they’re being completely authentic, and I’m so jealous because that would never happen today. There’s always a pre-interview, so you know what jokes you have to hit, and there’s nothing genuine about it. And I hate that. I hate being a phony. I hate having to censor myself.”

    For you to be authentic would include for you to be more honest to yourself and about your family. That kind of “honesty” which you presented in your interview is indeed not desireable.

  54. Blackbetty says:

    Lol you would think someone with a trust fund, would be a lot happier. It wouldve made my life easier.

  55. Tami says:

    We used to stay in Art Rooney’s Loyalhanna cabin in the summers (1979-1981) in Ligonier, PA. The sleeping porch has like 8 single beds on it and we were told that Mr. Rooney used to have his team out to the house to work/paint the house etc. Things were a little bit different back then to say the least.
    So to me that rings true abut her family, they are blue collar rich if you know what I mean.

  56. MrsK says:

    One of our local news programs starts out the evening news broadcast with the announcement “It’s 10 PM. Do You Know Where Your Children Are?”

    When I was a kid, my dad and I shared a running gag every night where, as the announcement came on, he would shout out “Future Mrs. K, do I know where you are?” And I’d giggle from my room.

    I had a privileged childhood.