Gwyneth Paltrow covers the November issue of Harper’s Bazaar in what is maybe the weirdest editorial I’ve seen in a while. The idea behind it was probably “Gwyneth Paltrow glams up a supermarket” or “Gwyneth is glitzy-tabloid!” But having Gwyneth strut around a stunt-supermarket is just weird – you can see the full editorial here. As for the interview, the highlight of this piece is definitely Gwyneth’s story about how her father called her an “a—hole” one time. Today, we are all Bruce Paltrow!!!
On facing down criticism & mockery: “When I was starting out, I would get printouts of what was being written about me that week. At first it was all good things, and then it started to turn. I very quickly learned, “This isn’t good, this isn’t helping me.” These were strangers, and they were opining on anything in my life, from where I ate dinner to what movie I chose to do to who I was dating, and I was just like, “This isn’t going to be beneficial to my process as a human being in this lifetime.” But it was a very important exercise for me in terms of really understanding that one’s sense of self is internal. I have had an extreme opportunity to learn that lesson, and I think it’s been such a blessed fortune. Occasionally I’ll come across something that’s just annoying, but for the most part it’s irrelevant to me.
Nature versus nurture: “My drive is something that I don’t fully understand. I don’t know if I came to this life with it or if it’s something that came to me in my childhood, but I do feel that some of the things my parents said to me and how they raised me really stuck with me. I remember when I started acting and didn’t get a part and was really jealous of the girl who got it. My mom would say to me, ‘If you don’t get a part, that means it’s not your part. It’s just not yours. You will have your parts.’ It really recalibrated me at a very young age to where I could be driven because I was trying to achieve things for myself, and that had nothing to do with what anybody else was doing.”
Whether she always does her laundry: “Yes, and I cannot go to sleep with dishes in the sink.”
That time her father called her an a—hole: “I remember when I was maybe 27 years old and kind of at the height of my movie stardom—it was around the time of the Oscar and this and that. I think I was very much believing my own hype, which how could you not? I was sitting with my dad, feeling great about my life and everything that was happening, and he was like, “You know, you’re getting a little weird…You’re kind of an a–hole.” And I was like, “What the hell?” I was totally devastated. But it turned out to be basically the best thing that ever happened to me. It’s the difference between someone who loves you more than anything in the world giving you criticism and getting it from some bitter stranger on the Internet. What my dad said to me was the kind of criticism where I was like, “Oh, my God, I’m on the wrong track.” I’m so grateful to him for doing that. He was such a no-nonsense guy in that sense.
She hopes no one will ever call her an a—hole again: “They won’t because you’re past 40, and by 40, all women are amazing…And if you’re an asshole at that point, then guess what? It’s over. If you haven’t taken all of life’s incredible knocks and disappointments and used them to become a fully integrated, self-expressing person by the time you’re 40, then what can I tell you?
You know the sign of a true a—hole? When they make a story about their father calling them an a—hole into a story about how they’re so amazing and they learned so much from that devastating experience. Taken with her statement about how she views criticism – “really understanding that one’s sense of self is internal” – I do tend to believe that Gwyneth has always been pretty smug and terrible. I mean, she’s not wrong and I don’t think that people should be beholden to internet commenters. But most of us also learn over the years – whether we’re famous or not – how to cull legitimate criticism versus the standard, stupid venom of everyday life. Gwyneth just ignores ALL criticism and believes that she’s always the most special person.
Photos courtesy of Alexi Lubomirski/Harper’s Bazaar.
Only once? Great restraint shown by her Dad, then.
This comment made me laugh out loud! And it’s funny because it’s true.
You are so right-LOL!!!
Obviously, the insult did not work, because she is still a pretentious bunghole.
Yep. Through and through.
Just as Kaiser said, she uses the story to illustrate what a wonderful person she is now.
Blech, ugh, can’t stand this woman.
Lol! That was my first thought as well…..just the once?! While she was at the height of her career and the like….what she was saying is when she broke off her very very short engagement to Brad Pitt. Her claim to fame……….and the “alleged” borrowing *stealing* of the Shakespeare In Love script from Winona Ryder. Of course it’s been denied, but even she admits she was an asshole so it could be true!!
I love Winona, but she would have been a horrible choice for that role. Her voice alone trying to mimic an English accent gives me chills.
This headline gave me a chortle.
She’s pathetic & that editorial is ridiculous!
AMEN! and What. The. Hell?
What the hell made her think she’s not an a–hole today?
I will just use her words: “And if you’re an asshole at that point (over 40), then guess what? It’s over. If you haven’t taken all of life’s incredible knocks and disappointments and used them to become a fully integrated, self-expressing person by the time you’re 40, then what can I tell you?”
What can I tell you Goop? See you in 3 years when Goop runs out of VC money and you’re on to the next self aggrandizing a–hole thing you think you’re the first to try.
Where is her navel in the last pic?
It’s there.
Who cares, the expression on the others in the picture- it’s priceless! Sums up how I always look when any words come out of her mouth!
How come her personality didn’t improve? Maybe she’s “nicer” in private? I’m so confused.
She seemed less annoying (though still kind of annoying, if that makes) when she was 27, but at that time things were going well for her. Now she seems kind of worse. But, again, maybe she’s better person in private? She is certainly a “fully-expressing person” now that she’s 40, so maybe that’s the problem.
I think she might be nicer and funnier in private. I once saw this interview, and man I wish I could find a video of it, she was on Oprah, while pregnant with Apple of right after she had Apple, and she did a rap that Chris Martin sang to her about the pregnancy. It was so funny and so cute and one part was about her boobs going up to Double Ds, it was so cute and endeared me to her.
Unfortunately her reputation has been goopy since then.
Samantha Bee let me down with that fawning “interview.”
The editorial is dumb, but Gwenyth looks great. Her hair is shiny (!) and as much as I hate to admit it, that goop black dress is gorgeous.
She looks like she’s morphing into Kate Hudson or vice versa.
Also, she is calling herself out beautifully. You are an awesome and 40. It is over!
photoshop much?
She looks like a plucked chicken.
She looks like Melania Trump….
Beef jerky wrapped in couture.
I think she made two really good points though. One, you need to curb your kids. You just do. Two, if you’re still a mess at 40 what the heck have you been doing all this time? I’m 35 and I feel like all the things I used to worry about are nonsense and I approach life differently as a result. I think that’s a very universal thing as a human being and if it hasn’t taught you to approach life differently then what the heck? I love reading “humans of nyc, paris, bombay etc” when it features people over 65… they say the same thing but they say it in ways that I know are beyond what I can grasp at 35. It’s like something to look forward to when I’m that age because if I feel free at 35 then I imagine I’ll feel even more than that at 65.
Yeah, I think she made really good points too. I just don’t get why she never executes them (in public, at least).
The lady in the background is making the same face I am.
Yup! They’re thinking, “This lady is an asshole”
Ha, ha, I was coming here to say exactly the same thing. The chap in the picture looks to be thinking, “would you tell this nekkid as*hole to get off the conveyor belt! She is holding me up, and I want to check out my groceries, and get home to watch Wheel of Fortune. Psst, these self engrossed Hollywood types”!
They’re models too.
The lady in the purple shirt, amazing!
I think she looks like she got a face lift.
“by 40, all women are amazing”
No, they’re not. Some people remain a-holes their entire lives.
Ugh, what a quote. “All women are amazing.” Give me a break.
Yeah, I read that line three times because it didn’t make sense to me. Women don’t suddenly become amazing because they are 40. Some jerks are just jerks.
Her dad called her an a-hole only once?! Wish my dad was that nice. Only once Hahaha.
Yikes… this is “better?” What was she like before that??
My thoughts exactly. Not better enough. Maybe better by Hollywood/celebrity standards tho.
I think her dad was onto something.
gywnsufferable til the bitter end
add gywnsecure as well
Gwynsecure— oooh, I like that!
I offer Gwyntolerable
major eyeroll, but ABS. My goodness.
She is now and always has been enamored of herself. She took it as a wake up call that her own father was aware that she was an asshole. Awesome family.
Those abs. I don’t know if it’s photoshop or strategic tanning, airbrushing, etc but it’s actually quite funny. Not even remotely natural looking.
People in the background are thinking that their lettuce is going to end up with a yeast infection.
Hahahahahahahaha
She’s a total asshole but I can’t help but have a soft spot for her because Shakespeare in Love is one of my favorite movies of all time and she — IMHO — was the best part of it. I just loved her work in that film and totally see why she won the Oscar that year.
Huh. She said something nice about her mom. Usually she only talks about her dad.
It does make me wonder if Bruce had not lost his battle with cancer, what we will be seeing of GOOP. I can totally see him saying it to her more than once.
Good point.
Omigod, that editorial is the literal representation of the way so many people think Goopy sees normies. She’s the great STAR! blessing the world by slumming around the supermarket, teaching everyone how to eat, while the gormless peasant people look on.
Something nice….this is the best I’ve seen her hair look in at least 10 years.
And yet we’ve been saying it for years and she hasn’t changed a bit.
My favorite line from the interview:
“I was very much believing my own hype, which how could you not?”
Um. You really could have not believed it, Gwyneth. Most people would know the difference between PR and reality. Just sayin.’
Facelift? Check. Airbrush? Check. Completely whacked out costumes? Check. I can’t tell if Bazaar is laughing with Gwyneth or at her. Or both, in a really meta sort of way.
Also, that cover photo makes me think she is plugging herself for the next installment of “50 Shades….” A mental picture which is now aggravating my killer migraine –