The more I think about it and read about Demi Lovato these days, the more I’m convinced that she’s actually really perfect for Henry Cavill. She’s young – he likes ‘em young. She’s clean-living and sober, and I get the feeling he’s pretty clean-cut too. He likes physically strong, tough women – Demi boxes and does Muay Thai, and she tells InStyle that she could totally kick anyone’s ass. Basically, her entire InStyle cover interview reads like an online dating profile aimed specifically at Henry Cavill. Why aren’t they happening already?!!? Some highlights from InStyle:

She does jiu jitsu, boxing and Muay Thai: “If I were in some sort of danger, I know I could easily break somebody’s arm or choke them out. I just feel like I can take care of myself…Sometimes I imagine it’s our president,” she jokes as she throws a powerful jab at a red punching bag, followed by a left knee kick. It’s the only reference—serious or comic—this avid Hillary Clinton supporter will make to Donald Trump today because, she explains, “I feel like 1) it falls on deaf ears, and 2) my feelings towards anyone or anything are not going to change the situation.”

She doesn’t like yoga: “I recently started doing yoga on Sundays, but I don’t like it. I’m not a yoga type of person. I’m trying it, though—I’m trying to calm my mind.”

She’s open to dating a woman: “I’m very fluid, and I think love is love. You can find it in any gender. I like the freedom of being able to flirt with whoever I want.”

On #MeToo, peer pressure & role models: “You have to speak out about stuff. You have to use your voice for good. That’s what I think a lot of people are starting to do. I didn’t have anybody who was doing that when I was younger. I grew up in the era of really, really skinny celebrities. That was the look. And it was cool to be seen partying. Drugs were glamorized, and when I was 12 or 13, nobody [I looked up to] was talking about mental illness. Nobody was talking about eating disorders. Nobody was talking about cutting. I wanted somebody for my little sister to look up to. I took on that role because I knew it was important.”

There are triggers everywhere for her: “Weed doesn’t bother me, but if I see coke or pills or even needles, it just puts them in my brain, and I don’t need to see that.”

She eats what she wants: “It’s OK. Sometimes you’re going to have two desserts. You’re not a bad person. It’s just food, and it has no power over you.” She sees a therapist twice a week and a nutritionist once a week, “so it’s kind of like [I go to therapy] three times a week.”

She’s enjoying being single & dating: “I’m not suffering because I’m alone. There were many years I was in a relationship and I wasn’t learning about myself. Now I’m learning about what I like, what I need, and what I want.” That includes someone who is going to make her laugh and “treat me like a queen,” she says. Besides, just like in the boxing ring, “I’m normally the first one to make the move. I’m always the one who says, ‘Let me get your number.’ Or I slide into their DMs on Instagram.”

[From InStyle]

It must be so strange to have those kinds of triggers for cocaine or pills or needles, and never know when those images are going to pop up in a movie or a TV show or even a commercial. Think about how often you watch TV and a commercial comes on and you see a milkshake and you think “damn I could really go for a milkshake right now” and that’s in your head for DAYS. Now imagine that it’s not a milkshake, it’s a line of coke.

As for Demi’s dating vibes… I’m pretty sure she’s still dealing with Wilmer Valderrama, unfortunately, but they’ve broken up so many times, maybe he’s just a placeholder until someone better comes along. Keep sliding into Henry Cavill’s DMs, girl. Get it.

Photos courtesy of Carter Smith for InStyle.