Jada Pinkett Smith’s neverending TMI about her sex life

I probably shouldn’t admit this, but Jada Pinkett Smith annoys the hell out of me. She’s not a very gifted actress, and I find both her performances and her personality to be “too hard”. I’m not talking about those lesbian rumors, and I’m definitely not saying I need women to be “soft” or “girly” to like them. It just seems like Jada is a difficult person to like or admire, or even relate to. She’s always talking about how great her life is, and how she and husband Will Smith are still hot for each other. She talks about their sex life constantly – so they’re either having sex constantly, or she’s very insecure and she overcompensates by giving too much information.

So it’s just more of the same with Jada’s new interview in Shape Magazine. Page Six has the early text of the interview, and they have a similar line of thinking on Jada’s constant TMI:

The more Jada Pinkett Smith brags about her incredible sex life with Will Smith, the more it makes us wonder whether she doth protest too much. Why the sales job? What are we buying?

Jada’s most recent over-sharing comes in Shape magazine, where she gushes: “When you have three kids, you’ve got to take your opportunities when they come. In a limo, on the way to the Academy Awards this year, Will started looking at me in this way that drives me wild. We started kissing passionately, and the next thing I knew, well, let’s just say we missed the red carpet and I ended up with almost no makeup on.”

[From Page Six]

On the Shape site, they only have interview excerpts, but Jada is still talking non-stop about her crazy sex life. Maybe she really is insecure? Or maybe she really is that hellbent on selling us something:

This shift has also created a sense of balance in Jada’s relationship. “Will and I are yin and yang,” she says. “He’s all sky, vast and bright and soaring, and I’m all earth. I’m here to ground him, and he’s here to help me fly.” Case in point: When Jada put her acting career on hold between 2004 and 2005 to go on the road with her metal band, Wicked Wisdom, as part of the Ozzfest tour, Will not only supported her, he and the kids also went along for the ride.

While family is the couple’s main focus, Jada makes sure she and Will’s love life stays, well, lively. Besides doing her daily Kegels (“It keeps the sex hot,” says Jada), she takes time to nourish their relationship. “Last week we were stressed out, so I packed a picnic and took Will to a place we hiked to on one of our first dates. We sat and reminisced on that time in our life. Then we went home and made love. Thank God Will has simple tastes. Even the littlest thing for him is like, ‘Wow!’?”

[From Shape]

I’ve heard Will do the TMI thing too, so it’s a family thing. Still, Will does it much more sparingly than Jada, and when Will is doing it, I tend to buy it. Is he a superior actor, or are he and Jada telling the truth about their awesome sex life? If it’s so awesome, why rub it in our faces? If it’s so awesome, doesn’t that mean it’s private and personal? Maybe I’m being way too hard on Jada. All I know is that I wish I didn’t know so many intimate details of her sex life.

Jada and Will are shown on 6/15/08 outside The Late Show. Credit: WENN.com

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  1. wow says:

    People who give TMI about their sex life are probably hiding something…

  2. lulu says:

    You know that thing that girls do when they’re teenagers and lie about losing their virginty or how hot the sex is, when everyone knows it probably sucks. I so get that with her, by her constantly bragging about it, i get the impression all is not well.

  3. ms truth says:

    jada is a horrible actress. she is always rolling her head and giving too much attitude on camera. look you married well so stay home with your kids. all this sex talk is so she can look relavant but you are not jada. you are a nobody that needs to stay in your lane.

  4. dewdrop says:

    What an untalented, boring, ugly woman. This woman has ALWAYS annoyed me. well said ms!!!!!

  5. bros says:

    they are overcompensating because they are eachothers beards.

  6. journey says:

    maybe it’s her message to all the little will-smith-groupie-girls. as in, “don’t even think about trying to snare my man. he’s getting so much hot sex at home that he’s not interested in fooling around with some little nobody, who’s not even half as hot as me! so back off!!!”

    i’d think that millions of little groupie girls slathering over one’s husband would make even an egomaniac feel slightly insecure.

  7. Jen says:

    Lulu I so agree – if it’s really that good then it’s like a sneaky little secret you wouldn’t need to publicise.
    All these celebrities talking about their great sex lives just annoy me – same with the one out of desperate housewives

  8. Iggles says:

    Wow! The lady doth protest too much!!

    I ain’t buying it. Blabbing all kinds of TMI does not negate the rumors which have been swirling for YEARS!!

  9. CeeJay says:

    Kaiser, I’m with you. The people who talk about sex too much are the people who aren’t having sex enough. I see it constantly with a couple of my girlfriends and a few of my husband’s guy friends. Other friends who are content with their relationships and sex lives keep it quiet and to themselves, as if it is something to hold sacred, like their “own little secret”, wink, wink.

  10. Scout says:

    yep…if you have to brag, there’s a problem.

  11. OXA says:

    Most people are gettin their leg over but do not feel the need to broadcast it. It is a red flag that something in koolaid aint right.

  12. Roma says:

    I don’t know, my girlfriends and I sit around and talk about our sex lives all the time – and mine with my partner is exceptionally hot so I have a tendency to over share. Maybe we’re not considering something: maybe Jada has no friends. So as soon as an interviewer asks her a question, she wants to get her gossip on…

  13. javelin says:

    I feel like she’s trying to sell herself as a love/sex/relationship guru, since the acting thing isn’t working out all that great. Maybe she aspires to be a “sexy Oprah”.

  14. the original kate says:

    why do i have a feeling she just blurts out this crap? example:

    interviewer: so jada, tell me about your tv show.
    jada: it’a hot…just like my sex life!
    interviewer: yeah, ok. so how is your family?
    jada: last night i gave will a handjob at a stoplight…he loved it!
    interviewer: thats great. um, so how do you like being on tv again?
    jada: last week, will and i had sex in the elevator of our hotel! we stopped between floors and…
    interviewer: stop talking about sex, woman!!

  15. DD says:

    Angelina was ostrasized by her haters when she admitted to having sex with her husband in the limo on her way to the red carpet. I wonder if Jada will be held to the same standards for saying the same thing.
    Anyway she doesn’t bother me much. She’s been in a stable relationship for a long time and I think that makes some people forget that some things should probably remain private.

  16. crab says:

    I always thought she looked very manly! I agree, when you brag about something all the time, it’s like your trying to convince everyone else it is and maybe herself too!

  17. Iggles says:

    the original kate – LOL!!! You’re killing me here! That is spot on :D

  18. danielle says:

    Lol the original kate! I liked Jada in some of her early roles, to me she seemed very real. But yeah, anymore her interviews are pretty annoying, and her new show looks terrible. But I haven’t watched a medical drama since early ER.

  19. SolitaryAngel says:

    @ original Kate: LOL!

    She doesn’t really have talent; to me, every character she plays is just her–and she’s all attitude, nothing else.

    Methinks the lady doth protest too much.

  20. lauren says:

    i so agree with you guys.. i think shes trying to compensate for something shes umm lacking in her life and stuff like her being a BEARD and vice versa for Will to her… BUT i dont get how shes UGLY? i dont see how shes ugly in the slightest? Annoying and irrelevant yes, ugly no.

  21. TaylorB says:

    If her tales of their insatiable sexual desire for each other are actually true, then bully for them and a hearty congrats to boot. But perhaps she should just keep that stuff to herself.

  22. lena says:

    i don’t really see how this is annoying anyone, AJ has said basically the same stuff and she is praised by some people for it…you know how happy her life is, how happy her brad are, how great her kids are, how great their sex life… and people defend her comments, yet Jada annoys you Kaiser? a bit hypocritical aren’t we. and before anyone jumps on my back, i like both women, i just don’t get the hypocritical statements…why is okay for one actress to share and not other

  23. Abby says:

    it’s funny because i belong to an online parenting group and these people are always oversharing about their crazy sex lives. it just makes me laugh. like how hot can sex really be if you have three kids under the age of three and you’re still nursing two of them? clearly they just want everyone to think it’s still getting done and getting done right. i just think jada is FULL of shiste.

  24. Bren says:

    People who have a lot of money don’t talk about it…… People who have a lot of sex don’t talk about it …………..

  25. clare says:

    Totally agree that she and Will are each other’s beards.
    And her new tv show is full of bad over-acting.

  26. Jo says:

    I can’t stand her!! She is so militant and every award show where an african american wins something she is pumping her fist etc… and yelling yeah! yeah! in this harsh manly way..ugh!!

  27. whatever says:

    Jada is just an ugly, bad actress and a compete bitch. No wonder Smith is cheating on her. That’s why she is coming forward and saying this crap, to get back at the mistress who is screwing Will. Jada wants her to know that they are back, having sex and so happy and fake. This is all for the same reason. To get back at Will and the other woman.

  28. Fan of None says:

    I agree with everyone about the AJ double standard…when she boasts breathlessly about creative sex while pregnant with her “Will,” she’s heralded.

    Still didn’t get me to go see Kung Fu Panda or whatever, and I still am not interested in Hawthorne.

    Not a fan of either one either way.

  29. Cara says:

    By who’s standards is this woman ugly? I’d like to see your pictures, if she’s considered ugly. And she has a smokin little body for her age and having had 3 kids. Lastly, how do you know she’s a bitch? Have you worked with her? or in the very least met her? Typical.

  30. ms truth says:

    jada had two kids. the first son is from someone else. jada has a little boys body. hopefully she will hit puberty and grow.

  31. Cinderella says:

    I think she’s full of it. This is just an attempt to deflect those pesky little rumors and revive her acting career.

    I guess the rocker thing didn’t pan out. From what I saw on video, her musical efforts sucked.

  32. Cara says:

    a body that bears a striking resemblance to the rail thin, flat chested bodies that populate countless runways and mag covers. Oh, my fault they’re also 5’10 and up (lanky too). So when is it acceptable/fashionable? When jada has a “little boy body”? or when a fashion model does?

  33. June says:

    Wow…I never comment, but I have to remark that the hate for this woman is astounding. I won’t wonder too much why it’s all “hard” “attitude” “not likeable” with her. Shaking my head. Some things never change…

  34. wow says:

    Jada is far from ugly. She’s a beautiful woman. But like Angelina, I think she over shares because she is hiding something. Truly if their lives are so fabulous and the sex is so great with their husbands, they would just LIVE IT and not broadcast it.

    Jada and Will will probably be the next Hollywood couple we hear about thats filed for divorce. But then again, probably not because I honestly think they are each others beards. That is why I think all of this overcompensating stems from.

  35. lucy says:

    I think it’s gross when any celebrity gives such personal information like this. Keep your private life private! They either do it for the attention and shock value, or to overcompensate for something that’s lacking. Either way, it’s lame.
    I don’t find her very likable either, and I know someone who had to deal with her for an event and was not complimentary.
    I think she’s pretty, and she was good in Collateral, but I haven’t care for her in other roles. I tried her new show and really didn’t like it.

  36. Eden says:

    Maybe she’s trying to battle the rumors about her bisexuality!

  37. Hieronymus Grex says:

    Operation: Will Smith is Not Gay

  38. Trillion says:

    Can’t stand her. I can barely stand her overhyped husband, but at least I can see the appeal. With her, I scratch my head.

  39. wizzle says:

    ugh she is boring. she sounds desperate for people to think they have the best sex. who cares.

  40. jane says:

    Wow, so judgmental…esp of someone I bet any one of you hardly know.

  41. Aspie says:

    Wow, I can’t believe how jealous sounding and petty some of you are. The hate meter for this beautiful and talented actress is really high today! Jeez!!!!

    @Jo: What’s wrong with Jada celebrating by pumping her arms if an African American entertainer wins an award? You do realize that AA women are underrepresented in the acting world so if an AA wins an award for work that her peers find to be very impressive, it’s a pretty big deal since it doesn’t happen very often.

    Lighten up!!

  42. whatever says:


    Anyone can have a smoking body with 3 full time nannies looking after your kids while your chef makes your calorie counted meals when you are being worked out by a top notch personal trainer. Jada has a good body because she pays $100,000 a year for it..PERIOD.

  43. JustV says:

    It seems like today’s commenters doth protest too much.
    I don’t think Jada’s acting skills are top-notch, but she’s OK.
    I could in no way see how she could be described as ugly. She’s got a pretty face, great skin and a petite frame.
    I think that the over-sharing is probably the result of a lack of good friends in her life, like someone else said. I think that this is true of Angelina as well. Depending on how an interviewer frames the interview, it may seem like a nice conversation between friends vs. journalist to entertainer.
    She seems to have established a good life, she’s working hard to maintain her relationship, I’m happy for her.

  44. someone says:

    I don’t care what her reasons are for announcing how great her sex life is, I just wish she’d stop!

    @Aspie: How often do Mexican, Latina, Native American, Indian and people of other ethnic backgrounds, win awards? I understand feeling a bit of pride when one of your ‘own’ accomplishes something, but far too often, people forget that African Americans are not the only opressed/overlooked people.

    Getting an African American man into office? Been done. Seeing a Native American actor earn an oscar? Not in our lifetime. I would be happy to see it happen, but I wouldn’t be pumping my fists and howling like a monkey. To me, that shows disrespect to the other nominees who walked away empty-handed. It’s possible to celebrate in a more quiet, appropriate and graceful manner.

  45. ogechi says:

    be happy for others..when others are happy in their marriage,do not beef them…who doesnt love those couples?..maybe the person is envious

  46. Luci says:

    I think that when people boast a lot about sometheing, its because they’re missing it

  47. lena says:

    @ someone “I would be happy to see it happen, but I wouldn’t be pumping my fists and howling like a monkey.” please don’t use the phrase howling like a monkey to describe a black woman cheering her peers on for winning an award….I don’t think you meant anything by it, BUT some people myself included, don’t like blacks being compared to monkeys, it’s just as offensive to lets say people who are jewish being compared to rats.

    On another note, just because other minorities are not largely representated in the hollywood doesn’t mean Black people aren’t going to celebrate when another Black person wins an award, if anything black actresses/actors understand what other minorities are facing in hollywood and would be just as cheerful if the day comes when other minorities get recognition for their work

    And i’ll say it again..if AJ can talk about the same stuff and she’s awesome..what’s so bad about jada doing it? They say the same damn things in nearly every interview that they do…double standards are not cute

  48. Cara says:

    @ Whatever

    If you read the comments above mine, you will see it was in response to someone who said she had a body like a boy. No one disputes she has the resources to maintain her figure. Do you? Jealous Much? Period. You guys are so transparent.

  49. Dr_Venkman says:

    “[...]and I ended up with almost no makeup on.”

    So, they went swimming instead of the Academy Awards? Nice touch.

  50. whatever says:


    What is your problem? Was I rude to you? NO. Then why are you acting like a child.You are transparent because you cannot take any type of opinionated post and you lash out.

    I simply and nicely put the reason why she looks that way.Every celebrity looks that way because people are paid to make them look that way. PERIOD.

  51. annie says:

    why would anyone talk about their sex life movie star or not? It’s just tacky

  52. sm says:

    common Kaiser and the rest of you idiots. you all are so jealous of their relationship. What is wrong with talking about it? nothing…. I’m sure the questions were asked of her. Why does everyone have to hate so much. if you don’t want to know about it. DON’T READ IT!!! I LOVE THIS COUPLE AND I WISH MY HUSBAND AND I SHARED THAT CLOSENESS. STOP HATING!!!!!

  53. Jeanne says:

    Huh, reading over these comments, I see that I’m not the only one who thinks Jada looks manly. I find her grating as well and unattractive as a woman because she looks like a transvestite.