Tom Cruise hasn’t seen or contacted Suri in three years, Gossip Cop confims


Tom Cruise and daughter Suri
We’ve been hearing for ages that Tom Cruise hasn’t seen his now 10 year-old daughter with Katie Holmes, Suri, in three years. Tom used to make a big deal out of getting papped out with Suri after his divorce and he even sued Life & Style in late 2012 for a report that he abandoned Suri. They settled that lawsuit in late 2013 with undisclosed terms and an apology from Bauer, the company who puts out L&S. So Page Six last month and now Gossip Cop are reporting that Tom hasn’t seen Suri since she was seven, which means they must have solid sources considering that he sued L&S for saying the same thing. Gossip Cop says that not only has Tom not seen Suri, he hasn’t even contacted her. Here’s part of their report, with more at the source:

Not only hasn’t Cruise seen Suri in three-plus years, but we can exclusively report he has not even contacted his daughter in that time. According to one of our sources, “There’s been no communication at all.”

Gossip Cop was told there were times when the actor, who can jet anywhere he wants, was just a few states away from Suri and never tried to see her, let alone contact her. When other tabloids, such as In Touch, published a number of erroneous articles in the past about Cruise seeking custody of Suri, an insider expressed to Gossip Cop, “It’s crazy people are focusing on [Cruise] looking for more custody when he hasn’t even attempted to contact [his daughter] in years.”

In January, for example, Gossip Cop debunked an absurd cover story from that publication which alleged the Mission: Impossible star had “ruined” Holmes’ wedding plans with Foxx because there was the specter of Cruise attempting to “get more custody and try[ing] to sway Suri over to Scientology.” In addition to the falsity of In Touch’s assertion that Foxx and Holmes were planning a “secret wedding,” an impeccable source revealed to Gossip Cop back then, “Trying to get custody? How about seeing [Suri] first?”

[From Gossip Cop]

So it sounds like Gossip Cop’s source is in Holmes’ camp, which makes me sad that she’s denying a relationship with Jamie Foxx because I like them together. I’m also sad for Suri. This is absolutely some Scientology disconnection sh*t. Remember how Cruise turned his children with Nicole Kidman against her? Multiple former Scientologists, including a comedian who spoke out earlier this month, have confirmed that this was the case. Bella and Connor were told that their mother, Nicole, was a “suppressive person” because she did not belong to or follow the cult. Cruise sees his own daughter as a suppressive person because her mother did the right thing, at great personal risk to herself, and left him and Scientology. She did it at just the right time to save Suri from being brainwashed too. Also read what Gossip Cop’s source said. As Kaiser guessed during her earlier coverage of this, it’s all on Tom. Katie would let him see, talk to and/or Skype with Suri at any time. He just doesn’t think his own daughter is worthy.

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  1. Bridget says:

    Of course Katie would let him. You don’t have to block visitation from someone that’s not even trying.

    • swak says:

      Honestly, you make it sound like she wouldn’t let him if he tried. I believe that Katie is more than willing to let Tom have a relationship with Suri. It’s on him and no one else if he chooses not to contact her. I have 2 grandchildren that don’t know who their grandfather is (my ex) because he chose not to be in their lives. It’s Tom’s loss in the long run.

      • Bridget says:

        I sincerely hope she would put up a fight if he tried, though if I remember correctly there are already stipulations in place about Suri not being exposed to $ci. Holmes always knew that Cruise wasn’t going to see Suri.

      • Audrey says:

        I don’t think Katie is blocking him. And it’s sad that Tom doesn’t even want to see his daughter.

        But you have to think Katie is a little relieved. Tom would almost certainly want Suri to eventually leave Katie and enter the Scientology cult. Suri is actually safer without Tom around….

      • swak says:

        @Bridget, Katie and Tom both have to follow the custody agreement. So Katie could not put up a fight unless Tom wanted something other than what was agreed upon. I’m sure there are stipulations in the agreement concerning the visitations, none of which we, as the public, would be aware of. While I don’t agree with his “religion”, I’m sure Katie is savvy enough (or her lawyer is/was) to put stipulations in how Suri is to be exposed or not exposed to Scientology. Fighting him seeing Suri, if it goes against the custody agreement, would only get Katie in trouble.

      • Bridget says:

        You know that custody agreements can be amended, right? Especially if there is a legitimate concern for the child’s safety.

        Again, the rumor on that custody agreement is that Tom wasn’t allowed to expose Suri to $ci. Which is why he’s not seeing her – if he can’t convert her she’s an SP. My point was, of course she has no problem with Tom seeing Suri, it’s easy not to have a problem with something that’s not going to happen.

        Also, this is a woman who had the legal representation from her father that made an epic prenup that helped her to get out unscathed. I’m not particularly worried about what kind of custody agreement she has, since I’m guessing it was very well done. Katie turned out to be far more savvy than anyone expected.

      • Winter says:

        Maybe she thought he would keep seeing suir because of his public image? He admitted in his lawsuit that he skipped a court schedule vist for a CO$ event and when he did see her was only for a couple then he admitted at that time it was 72 days since he had seen her. Katie sources has been saying since 2013 through tmz he has not seen then in a year and have kept saying that has the yrs have passed so my guess is suir Is asking for him they were having phone contact . For The People Saying she won`t notice BullShit I notice my Dad wasn’t in my life parents we’re not even married especially when the daddy daughter dance was announced my mom had great role model men too but it doesn’t replace the lost of my bio dad so yes she would notice especially since she was a daddy girl and they had phone contact then he stopped calling.but I do hold Katie to some responsibility for her daughter heartbreak she knew that tom was a Co$ crazy . CAN SOMEONE PLEASE Explain what kinda fucked up child hood he had to have for being ripe for cults picking?

      • MatgoRita says:

        Unfortunately – yes. It is his loss. But it’s suri’s loss, more so, because she will know and figure out, eventually, that her father chose not to see her. Who knows, and plenty of girls already know, what kind of rejection by your father can do to you. Her mother did all the right things. And I hope that whomever her mother is actually dating is being a good father figure for her. And I’m sure, if it’s Jamie Foxx – that he is.

    • CTgirl says:

      He’s too busy caring for his thetan.

  2. Luca76 says:

    What a horrible person. It doesn’t matter whether or not she is his biological daughter (I think she is but I know some people will mention it as the reason) he’s such a creep and a loser to abandon his child for a cult. Makes me so angry.

  3. Zapp Brannigan says:

    Tom Cruise’ greatest role was to play a human with emotions for such a long time. There is nothing behind that megawatt smile.

    Suri is better off without him.

    • Megan says:

      This! I’m sure when Suri is older she will be very hurt that her father abandoned her for a cult, but If she educateds herself about CO$, she will also be relived.

    • Tate says:

      Suri is better off without him. I know a child who’s father abandoned her. Different circumstances but at this point she is better off without him. She is a teen now and even though she is better off it hasn’t prevented her being messed up emotionally and mentally from it. Mom has had her in counseling for some time and is doing all the right things. So Suri won’t escape unharmed by being abandoned by her father but hopefully Katie does the things to help her deal and come to terms with it.

  4. mia girl says:

    He has been emotionally lobotomized by CO$

    • Prairiegirl says:

      Those suppressive children. They’re the WORST.

    • Danielle says:

      Seriously, he’s going to look back one day and realize they (cos)ruined his life.

      • Izzy says:

        Don’t count on it. He is so deeply entrenched in Co$, they have him on a pedestal and he is blinded by their adulation. I don’t see him ever coming around to realize how harmful they really are. Perhaps literally in the last few moments of his life, when he realizes he is dying and is surrounded only by people who are paid to be by his side. But by then it will be far too late.

      • Size Does Matter says:

        Yes, he’s going to be so disappointed when he dies and doesn’t go to the great Zenu in the sky or whatever they believe.

      • k says:

        Sadly, I don’t think he will. I hope he does wake up one day before it is to late and can have a real and meaningful life but I don’t think he will. I think Tom Cruise will think negatively of Suri on his deathbed and believe he was right in cutting her SP self out of his life which is heartbreaking.

      • tmot says:

        They won’t surround him when he’s dying. No one will. Dying isn’t a big deal in cos, because they think they’ll come back in a new undamaged body. They call it “dropping your body” and they celebrate it (while avoiding the dying person for being “low on the tone scale.”) Because they should be able to audit themselves into perfect health, or use their superpowers to control matter, energy, space and time. (Which, if they can do that, then why do so many of them wear glasses?)
        If anyone is by him when he is dying, it will be because there is still someone who genuinely cares about him as a person. Otherwise it’s so long, sucka.

  5. Mia V. says:

    As sad as it is, Suri is probably way better without Tom in her life.

  6. Lucky Charm says:

    I don’t think denying a “secret wedding” is the same as denying a relationship. I’m conflicted about him not seeing his daughter. Normally, I would find it horrible that he’s choosing not to contact his young daughter, but on the other hand it’s probably a good thing for her not to be exposed at this age to all that crazy Scientology stuff.

    • Aims says:

      That’s what I feel also. For a normal person not having contact with your child for three years is horrific, but this is a diffrent situation. I think it’s the best that Suri is not be around him. Kate seems to be doing a great job as a single parent and giving Suri a normal childhood. Also, it’s the job of a parent to protect their child from danger and sciencetology is danger.

      Will Tom regret the estrangment from his only bio kid? Who knows. I will say that Toms so deep in this cult that his outlook and reality is so twisted and sick. He’s made his choice and with his current mindset it’s the best for all parties.

  7. Mia4S says:

    Gross. He’s so obsessed with being a fake hero but cannot be bothered being even a mediocre father. So glad I wrote him off years ago. He doesn’t get a penny of my box office dollars.

  8. Jenns says:

    I honestly believe that David Miscavige is totally controlling Tom Cruise. Miscavige knows that Scientology is in big trouble and he can’t afford to lose his biggest star supporter. Their relationship has always been weird, unhealthy and co dependent. That’s why we haven’t seen a new Cruise girlfriend. I think Miscavige is isolating Tom at this point.

  9. HeyThere! says:

    Easy for me to say, but Suri is better off not around this whack job. BUT how absolutely sad. Katie seems to be super mom and has a great circle around Suri. Sadly, now Suri has this in common with so many children in this world. A dad with zero contact. Ever. I hope she has lots of positive males in her life. I’m sure she does. But how do you explain to a child that her father is in a cult and she’s better off??

    • Jwoolman says:

      Suri probably hardly notices his absence. He was always gone for long periods even when married to her mother. They may have had only a very loose bond, more like occasional visits from a distant uncle. She has a lot of other people in her life and seems quite happy now.

      You only need one good parent. That’s been proven again and again.

  10. Andrea says:

    Terrible he had his adoptive children write his mother off and equally terrible that he wrote of his young child. How can anyone get behind a religion where you are forced to disown family members?

    • Colette says:

      God I cringe when people you the term adopted or adoptive children in this context.Them being adopted had nothing to do with him not letting them see their mother,Nicole Kidman.Unless you routinely use the term “biological children” to describe biological children there is no reason to use “adopted” children,IMO.

      • Andrea says:

        I do use the term biological children sometimes to distinguish between that and adoptive children in the same family. I am not saying his adoptive children are any lesser, I was simply stating that he has done this twice now with all this children(either banning his first two kids from seeing their mother or not seeing his daughter because her mom is an SP).

      • Antonym says:

        Why not just refer to them as his children from a previous marriage? It would make the distinction without the implications that they’re “different” kinds of children.

  11. Aussie girl says:

    It’s either toms and COS way or no way at all. I’m sure there would have been some clause or stipulation in their separation where cruise was not allowed to expose Suri to COS crap. Seriously the guy is beyond despicable , out promoting his good guy image in these never ending ( flop) action movies. He seem to be close and bonded with Suri, so how he has just walked away is bafferling.
    I’m completely surprised that he isn’t remarried ( to a boner fide COS SP) by now with another child. I thought COS would try to fill any void. What a weird, sad, little man.

  12. Beckysuz says:

    so sad. I wonder if he will wake up one day and realize he let a bunch of crazy people talk him into ruining his life. Will he feel any kind of shame? I do think Suri is better off without him as long as he’s involved in that cult. But it’s still sad for her, that her father loves the crazy people more than her

  13. Lenn says:

    I’ve always suspected Suri is not his biological daughter, and i still do. He wasn’t able to conceive with Nicole, who did conceive with Keith. And Katies pregnancy was beyond mysterious. Also, Suri looks nothing like Tom. I think that’s why he didn’t fight for her.

  14. Pinky says:

    I’d feel sorry for him, getting wrapped up with those nuts, if he weren’t such a psychotic, self absorbed, self righteous, proselytizing turd.

    –TheRealPinky

  15. K says:

    This is terrible, and I’m sorry suri had this happen to her but considering how horrible tom cruise is and that horrible cult he is involved in I think suri is better off. That being said it will have an impact on her and her life, no matter what Katie does and she does seem to be an amazing mom.

    I do hope Suri has positive male role models in her life. Sad story.

  16. Elizabeth Beachwood says:

    Tom is trapped and it’s his own fault. He will always allow himself to be manipulated by the COS to avoid the public release of his deepest darkest secrets. When it comes to his career and public image, willful ignorance is necessary for survival. I refuse to believe that he does not have brief moments of clarity and question what he has done to his family.

  17. Annika says:

    This is makes me so sad.
    I never thought I’d say this, but I’m starting to feel sorry for Tom Cruise. If this is what CO$ has done to him, because I believe in the past he was a decent guy, if this is what the controlling, brainwashing, etc can do to a person…..ugh sad!
    I agree with the above comment that the head of CO$ is the puppet master in all of this.

    • Christin says:

      It’s going to be interesting to see how this plays out for him as he gets older. I think they’ll use his thirst for importance and work ethic until he just physically cannot do it. And once he cannot bring in the money stream, what happens?

      He needs a family member outside the ‘religion’, but will likely never have that.

  18. Mich says:

    Not all dads are good dads and Tom has been a terrible father to ALL of his children. He is repellent.

  19. Anne de Vries says:

    Gotta say that I think this is 100% in Suri’s best interest. Cruise could never have a normal, healthy father-daughter relationship with her, and I absolutely think she’s better off just not having him in her life at all.

  20. lucy2 says:

    Of course he hasn’t – he cut her off because his wacko cult told him he had to, and he listened. It’s disgusting, but not surprising, given the history of CO$.
    I’d love some reporter to push him on it, next time he’s out promoting himself as a savior of the world in some movie.

  21. kittTEl says:

    Suri isn’t better off without him.

    She was two parents and siblings.

    Looks like only one wants to her.

    There has to be a lot of sadness in her heart.

    • LA says:

      I think people just mean that she’s better off without that cult in her life. Would she be best with two parents and siblings that love and care for her? Of course. But as it stands now, this is the better of two sad options.

    • Jwoolman says:

      You’re extrapolating from your own experience. Some men just aren’t real fathers and don’t bond.

      Mine would show up for an obligatory visit once a year, in his cups. (He had traveled a lot before then also, so he was always in the nonresidential category to me). It was quite uncomfortable pretending to enjoy seeing him. When I was 14, for various reasons I decided enough was enough and that I wouldn’t see him anymore. I’m not sure if he even noticed…. He didn’t try to contact me directly or through my brother. It was not a sadness in my heart, it was a great relief. He wasn’t a bad person, just useless as a father and not someone I would choose as a friend.

      • Sam says:

        My dad had the experience of a genuinely bad father who left for good when he was, oh, around 12-ish. Even though my dad says he felt relief when his dad finally left and that he knows, intellectually, that he was better off, he still maintains that the lack of a father in a kids’ life leaves a real mark that affects the child’s adult life. There’s copious psychological evidence that the lack of a father, even when the child knows intellectually it’s for the best, creates negative outcomes. So I the OP was pretty much correct.

      • WingKingdom says:

        Sam, that’s fine if that’s your dad’s experience. I had a horrible dad who did NOT leave. I prayed every day that he would but he stayed. Years of therapy later, his presence in my life has still left scars that cannot be healed. So maybe it can be for the best when a bad parent leaves. I’d trade for that in a heartbeat.

      • Sam says:

        Children CAN be better off without a certain parent in their lives. However, you missed my point. Even IF the absence is better in reality than having them around, a child still generally suffers for the absence. Almost all child experts agree that having a father in a child’s life is generally preferable. Most would argue that if a parent has issues that prevent them from parenting decently, they should first try to correct the situation over leaving. I do not get the impression that TC is violent, or abusive or cruel in ways that would make him unsuited to be around a child. I think his issue is just not wanting to ceed anything on the religious front to Katie. And the child will, sadly, suffer for it. But Katie can’t force Tom to do something he has no interest in, either.

    • idontknowyouyoudontknowme says:

      Well.. I was raised by a single mother(only child). I met my Dad max 2x in my life before I turned 9. I knew he was a terrible person and role model and honestly felt relieved that we have no contact. Since we never had any relationship or connection I never missed him or felt his absence, no anger no hate, I just never thought about him. What really matters imo is that the family You do have loves and supports You (which my Mom and Grandparents greatly provided).

  22. Arshasgas says:

    Is this really surprising? Dads do it all the time. My dad did it to me. He lived only 20 minutes away and I never say him or talked to him. From the time I was 8 and on. I just recently started a relationship with him, and it was me that reached out. I’m 42 now.

    • Sarah says:

      I’m sorry you had to go through such a painful experience. Some dads do stupid things when a marriage ends. But not all of them do. If you are able to have a positive relationship with your dad now, I say do it. Not for his sake but for your own. I speak from experience. Good luck and be safe.

  23. Wren33 says:

    My daughter is only 6 and I can’t imagine the sense of betrayal if her father totally disappeared from her life one day. While I am sure Suri is better off without Scientology, it is not like she is not going to remember the role he used to play in her life.

    • AntiVogue says:

      That’s a major a–hole thing to disappear when your child is old enough like Suri was. It’s not that she has no memories with him. What did Katie tell her where “Daddy” suddenly went ? How the media hasn’t called him out yet is beyond me!

      I have seen the latest pictures of Suri, and she has the brightest smile and was surrounded by her friends.

  24. Sam says:

    I think he’s just written her off. There’s been enough reports to indicate that Katie, upon the divorce, went back to identifying as a Catholic, her childhood faith. I remember that she enrolled Suri in a Catholic school as well (not sure if she still goes). She’s made it very clear that she is not raising her daughter with any scientologist influence. And I think Tom has just written her off. Which is so horribly sad.

    I mean, I’m a religious person – but I’m also a mother. I can’t imagine cutting one of my kids out of my life over religious disagreement (and the vast majority of religious people will tell you the same). My kids could become militant atheists – they’d still have my love. Especially a young child who doesn’t have any say in her faith! Suri didn’t choose her parents, nor did she choose what religious traditions her home observes. She’s 10. Even if Tom thinks Katie is the devil made flesh, the child is not at fault. This just makes him look so awful. It would be hard for me to enjoy a film of his anymore.

    On the bright side, if the rumors are true, Suri now gets Jamie Foxx as daddy. Which ain’t bad at all.

    • Cee says:

      I’m agnostic and my parents not only still love me, but they respect my lack of faith, just as I do their choices and belief.

    • The Other Katherine says:

      Remember, Co$ believes that children are basically immortal adult souls in new bodies. So, if Suri doesn’t actively repudiate her mom’s “suppressive person” influence, Suri is an SP too.

      It really is a sick and dangerous cult.

      • Isedit says:

        Scientologists also believe that a child chooses their parents, before they are born. Thus, original sin is very technically applied to children who stay with “SP” parents like Katie. I will add that Suri is better off, but not just for the reasons stated here. Tom was either going to do this to her now, or blackmail her into cutting her *mother* out later. There comes a time for all Scientologists to choose the church over connections in life. The policy of disconnection is applied to those in and not in the church. Speaking from experience.

  25. kodakay says:

    It’s his lost; not hers. She seems to be an intelligent, well-rounded child thanks to Katie! Tom can kick rocks.

  26. Cee says:

    I used to feel sorry for Suri but now I don’t, not in the same way. If her father believes her religion are grounds to ignore her, consider her “supressive”, and remove himself from her life, then she will be better off with only having ONE parent who adores her, and an extended family who will always look out for her.

    I’m just sad Nicole Kidman wasn’t able to get out sooner or prevent Tom from taking her children from her.

    Tom sucks. The end.

  27. dana says:

    First, GC doesn’t have legit sources… and this sounds like a lot of hearsay. Theres truth somewhere but I doubt we have what that truth is.

  28. MinnFinn says:

    My religious faith is the alpha and omega. Pffft on whimpy theta stuck in 8th place in the order of the Greek alphabet.

  29. littlemissnaughty says:

    I’m ALL for gossip in general and exposing what an asshole Tom Cruise is in particular but I think at this point, we need to stop the clock on how long it’s been since he’s seen her. It’s so gross. Are we going to remember the anniversary every year now? Now it’s 4 years. 5 years. Etc. I hope she doesn’t use the internet yet.

    • Isedit says:

      In general, I would agree. I don’t like that kids can read crap about their deadbeat, hustler parents. But in this case, I am keeping the clock running (in my mind) until Hollywood stops thinking Tom as a commodity that should be protected. His movies are subpar, he ran away to Europe and does most of the business in worldwide BO not US, but people still treat him like he’s Tom Terrific. He is not. He is more of a deadbeat, POS than Jon Voigt ever was rumored to be, and Voigt was excoriated. In general, I also would not care that TC was active in COS or any other faith, but there are too many stories about how he treats those within his faith for me to think he should be “let alone to worship in peace.” He won’t ever get my dollars, or respect, but he also will not get my silence.

  30. Mrs.Krabapple says:

    So the little girl has to do the work to make that teacup spin, while he sits back and relaxes? What an @ss.

  31. MrsBPitt says:

    Just finished Leah Remini’s book…Tom sure sounds like a huge a$$hole…

  32. Kate says:

    Hasn’t Suri been labeled a suppressive person?

  33. m says:

    i wonder about what kind of relationship he has with his kids with nicole kidman. i know isabella got married but i don’t know anything about connorand seriously, poor nicole kidman. I can’t imagine her pain

  34. Frankly says:

    That teacup photo? Actual teacup. Tom so teeny.

  35. Anare says:

    I don’t agree with comments that this is “Tom’s loss”. He seems so delusional about his religious beliefs that he lives in la la land. He appears to glibly go about his life and the longer he stays away from Suri the more he erases her from his life. I doubt he thinks much about her now. Suri on the other hand is likely being raised to look outside herself, to question things, to have an open heart. She may grow up always wondering why her father turned his back on her and she will try to reconcile that loss. It will be her burden and that is sad. Tom won’t feel that loss but Suri will.

  36. Chris Ruiz says:

    This guy has serious “mommy” issues!

  37. Dana m says:

    Maybe Suri is Tommy Davis’biological daughter [used his sperm for the invitro]. This would make a much easier and justifiable split in Tom C’s mind.

  38. Blackbetty says:

    Tom is a cold hearted p****. Hes too busy with his head so far up David Miscavage’s butt.

  39. Tara says:

    I think he’s gotten way crazier over the years. I think he’s crazier now than when he divorced Nicole, and I think he was crazier when he divorced Nicole than he was when they married. I think Nicole got hurt the worst in all of this and I feel really badly for her. But Suri, we don’t know yet. Being abandoned by her father could have terrible consequences on her life later on. I hope not.

    I can’t watch his films anymore. He’s like Woody Allen to me, but for very different reasons. I shudder and get the creeps when I see either of them though.

  40. Crumpet says:

    F*ck you Tom Cruise. You are a DIRT bag to abandon your child like that.

  41. lisa2 says:

    I’m not surprised at all. People in COS that have family members outside of that cult have to cut ties. Tom tried at the beginning to see Suri it seems. But how could the Church allow Tom to still have a full relationship with his daughter when other members have to cut those people out. I’m sure when Tom was seen taking Suri out and about after the divorce that there had to be some screams of unfairness. It would cause massive problems and regardless of Tom being so important to the Church; I don’t thin even he could skip over cutting Suri out of his life.

    I feel bad for her. She still remembers her father and the brother and sister that were in her life. It has to be hard. And regardless of Katie being a wonderful mother this is going to scar her emotionally. Her name is Suri Cruise. She is going to know who her father is and that won’t go away. I don’t understand Tom nor his “religion”

  42. Velvet Elvis says:

    I hope that when Suri grows up she drops the last name Cruise and changes it to Holmes or something else. Anything else.

  43. Marianne says:

    Its so sad. I mean I understand that in their religion people who dont follow/believe in the cult are suppressive , but its not like his daughter had a choice in leaving the cult. You’d think he would want to maintain a relationship with her at least until she was older and could make decisions on her own.

    Oh well. Maybe its for the best that he cut ties when he did instead of later.

  44. DIrty Martini says:

    I don’t buy that Suri is missing out on relationships with her dad and siblings. No one gets a perfect life and some lives are worse than others. I read the book by Jenna Cavigne…..incomprehensible how children of Co$ are brought up. Suri got the paternal short stick of life, but thank god for her draw on mother and maternal grandfather. She has a chance to be normal. Good riddance to any adult in her life associated with that craziness — they have no way to inflict their mental head games on her, I read that book, I ached for the children of Cof$, and I wanted to scream at every adult “WTF is wrong with you!” I cannot begin To understand how any one of sound mind can buy into 99% of that lunacy. Religion? GTFOOH.

  45. Dinah says:

    I love the thought of Katie Holmes. She seems very strong and very smart. She probably would have made or still make an excellent attorney at law. If Tom’s a Toxic Tom, he doesn’t need to be around Suri. It may well work to everyone’s advantage for him to stay away. Let it heal at a distance.

    • CooCoo Catchoo says:

      Agree with you, Dinah. Maybe being out of touch with her dad is the best thing for Suri’s emotional health. Maybe it was something Katie demanded in the divorce / custody hearings. She knows the deep, inner workings of the CoS, and, of course, could spill so much tea on Tommy Boy. That’s a lot of leverage. In exchange for Katie’s silence, Suri gets an advantaged upbringing and the crazy is kept out of her life. Maybe not such a bad deal.

      • Winter says:

        I don’t think she demanded he stay away or she wouldn’t have her camp leak stories to the press he admitted in his lawsuit that he skipped a schedule visit for a CO$ event and he was reading stories on the phone too her. He barley spent time with Bella and connor once he dumped Nicole they were with his sister,Tommy davis and CO$ boarding school until happy family time so his behavior towards suri isn’t new . I think Katie must at least hurt for suir in 2013 she had tmz run a story about how tom had not seen her in a year

  46. CooCoo Catchoo says:

    Besides, Tom’s marriage to Katie and fathering Suri still feel like p.r. stunts to show the world how 100% heterosexual TC is. A p.r. stunt that backfired, as most believe he is more closeted and crazier than ever. Except children don’t just go away once their “usefulness” ends. I hope Suri remains a lifelong champion of her mother, and one day gives the biggest tea-spilling, tell-all interview about her looney dad.