So is Emily Ratajkowski’s new husband a douche-bro or nah?

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It’s clear that a lot of people don’t really care for or about Emily Ratajkowski. I’m not here to convince you that she’s an awesome person or anything, but I’ve never thought she was absolutely terrible either. In fact, I have a sliver of affection for her because she’s not-terrible and she does stuff like raise money for Planned Parenthood. So perhaps this is my sliver of affection speaking, but I’m actually worried about Emily. Emily got surprise-married to some dude last Friday. His name is Sebastian Bear McClard. They reportedly have only been dating for less than a month.

So what’s bothering me? The suddenness of the wedding? The fact that Emily looked like she was really high in her wedding photos? The fact that Emily’s wedding outfit was an inexpensive mustard-colored suit?? Or the fact that Sebastian looks like Spencer Pratt’s older, douchier brother? I can’t decide. It’s all kind of bad.

It seems like a lot of people are getting bad vibes from Sebastian, so many outlets have been internet-investigating him. He’s about 36 or 37, he’s an actor and film producer, and he had a producer credit on Good Time, that film starring Robert Pattinson. Many of you claim that his social media is shady AF but after scrolling through his Instagram for a few minutes, I haven’t seen anything super-questionable. He mostly just seems like a bro, you know? Like a dumb frat guy. Blah.

Here are photos of Emily and Sebastian a few weeks ago at a basketball game. They had just started dating and they already looked over it. WTF is happening, Em? Blink twice if you need an escape route.

Emily Ratajkowski enjoys a drink and a game with a kiss happy mystery guy

Emily Ratajkowski enjoys a drink and a game with a kiss happy mystery guy

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  1. HonestGirl says:

    His weird mouth is freaking me out.

  2. DiligentDiva says:

    I hope it’s true love but given all the rumors about her it’s probably not.

    • INeedANap says:

      The fact that she broke up with her ex in January and married this dude February makes me think she’s been dating him a while and there was overlap.

      He looks like a glass bowl, and his insta pre-cleanup doesn’t change my mind.

      • Una says:

        Or she married the first guy she came across after the break up to “punish” the ex. I don’t know why people do this, it always ends horribly.

      • Megan says:

        His custom rings with her initials make me think there is a lot of overlap. We ordered custom wedding rings and it took longer than three weeks to make them.

    • Pinetree13 says:

      Men who act that passionate, romantic and intense and rush commitments very shortly into their relationships are way, way more likely to be abusers. I am worried for her. This is the charming phase, next comes controlling…then worse 🙁

      • Sophia's Side eye says:

        I completely agree with you, Pinetree. Been there. He already looks controlling just by the way he hangs on her. Yuck.

      • Lady Medusa says:

        Agree completely, Pinetree. I’ve been there, watched friends go there, seen plenty of celebrities go there, and watched way too many true crime shows that start there. It’s not a guarantee for physical abuse or a violent end, by any means, but it certainly seems to guarantee an unhealthy relationship.

  3. Team Hardy says:

    He’s gross. Looks like that guy from the 2Ge+her band created by MTV. At least their lips match.

  4. Yeahright says:

    You missed all the racist arseholey stuff or the cleaners deleted it all?

  5. Anna says:

    I know she’s a celebrity so I don’t actually “know her” but this seems so unlike her. Like why would she marry a guy after only a few weeks???

    I’ve honestly always been a fan of Emily, I remember when #blacklivesmatter started and she was of the first celebrities to publicly support it even though at that point it was still seen as a “radical black movement”. I actually found it quite impressive because at that time people thought that supporting a movement like that would be career suicide.

    I hope this relationship works out but I have a feeling it will be annulled.

    • Kitten says:

      Hasn’t he used the n-word several times? Emily is ok with that?

      • magnoliarose says:

        And he had an illustration making fun of rape with a man kicking a woman in the crotch. N word. Racist. Misogyny.
        Such a catch.

      • Pinetree13 says:

        He’s very likely an abuser. Abusers generally rush commitments and act very intensely romantic in the beginning. Him being misogynistic and racist is more red flags. Run girl!!!!!

    • Merritt says:

      It is exactly like her though. She is always trying to get publicity and the nude pictures aren’t cutting it anymore. And considering this guy has some racist posts, her support of POC is now questionable.

  6. Nicole says:

    Not sure if its been scrubbed but there were some memes around rape jokes and misogyny that were gross af

  7. SoulSPA says:

    Checked out his instagram acount, don’t judge me. Gross, disgusting, violent against women. Very disturbing mainstream-wise. I hope it’s a publicity stunt. Who would want to go public with such a man? I am worried for her.

  8. Kitten says:

    As distracting as his weird mouth is, I completely forgot about it after creeping on his IG. He is effin disgusting.

    I’ve never cared for Emily or her brand of feminism, but I actually worry for her because this douche seems like a mess. I’m not one to read too much into body language but the basketball game photos are telling in a way that’s impossible to ignore.

    He’s really repulsive and I have to side-eye any self-proclaimed feminist that would date a guy who is misogynistic.

    But again, as much as I dislike her I can’t help but worry for her. Something about the recent photos of the two of them combined with the shotgun wedding….something just seems very off. I want to preface this by saying that I am NOT saying that she is suffering from a mental illness, but this does strike me as behavior that is near-manic.

    • DiligentDiva says:

      I’m wondering if she’s pregnant and that’s why she got married so quickly. But idk if she wants to screw up her modeling career by having a baby thing young.

      • Léna says:

        Well she doesn’t have that much work, right ?

      • magnoliarose says:

        She doesn’t have much of a career, and plenty of models have babies and still model. Natalia V. is always pregnant it seems but works, she has five children. Jordan has a child. Adriana Lima does. Loads of others. Heidi Klum did. Stephanie Seymour had one young.
        A baby doesn’t matter if you stay in shape.
        I hope she isn’t pregnant. This guy is not father material.

      • Hollz says:

        She’s 26. Not exactly young.

      • Dee says:

        Bahati Prinsloo just had her second kid lol. She still models. Candice Sweonpole had a baby and is pregnant again, so did Rosie HW. Let’s not forget Doutzen Kroes. They all still have banging bodies and had babies.

      • Dee says:

        Hollz – if 26 isn’t young then what is???

      • Merritt says:

        26 is young but not crazy young to start a family.

      • ABC says:

        I think Hollz was referring to her modelling career. 26 is a brilliant age to start a family but it’s at the older end for models. Or maybe not.

    • Eva says:

      I agree it seems like a manic episode (my dad is bipolar and his mania always included falling head over heels in love with some woman, until he got treatment and medication).

      Something here seems sinister. I hope she’s okay.

  9. ines says:

    Another ‘Dead Eyes’ girl.

  10. Naddie says:

    Dumb frat guy IS questionable, lol. I’d try my best to raise my non existent son to not be one.

  11. Merritt says:

    His Instagram has MRA propaganda about women stealing sperm that also advocates for being violent towards women. He is far worse than the average douche.

  12. KBB says:

    In some of the pictures from the basketball game he’s pulling on the neck of her sweater and she’s leaning away. He is always invading her space and she seems to be uninterested, so I don’t understand why she married him. Their body language is troubling to me, mostly his.

  13. Hmm says:

    I don’t know who that lady is.

  14. Juliette says:

    I don’t like her. She was so bad in Gone Girl

  15. tracking says:

    When I see photos of them together, for some reason the “this is your brain on drugs” (with the egg dropped into a sizzling pan) PSA from my youth flashes before my eyes.

    • tw says:

      I feel like they got married in the middle of an ecstasy bender, thus the mustard suit and ridic hat. And they look high AF.

  16. Rachel in August says:

    Well she’s a liar, so yes. I think he is and she deserves him.

  17. upstatediva says:

    According to the podcast Who Weekly, both of them have artist parents. So maybe they knew each other from that world separate from the dating. I am certainly not invested enough to look into it or him. I am not so keen on EmRat, but of course I hope that things go well for her.

  18. Yaya says:

    His liver lips really gross me out.

  19. BooBooLaRue says:

    he reminds me of the killer in “Happy Valley”

  20. Spring says:

    Deleted posts or not, that instagram hits all the asshole, douche-bro notes hard. If she looked through his account before marrying him — surely she did? — then at least she knows who she signed up with, and they can both go away now. And if she didn’t, well, bless her, she needs to take a good, hard look to see if she has to check her values at the door in order to be with him. Gross.

    • Rachel in August says:

      Her values? She lies about her boob job, swearing they’re real. They’re not … real boobs don’t have corners and sometimes her implant scars show up. Never mind the huge gap.

  21. Dee says:

    My money is on oopsie baby.

  22. Feedmechips says:

    He could be my douchebag ex’s identical twin, so I have no warm feelings for him.

  23. Miss Kittles says:

    I thought that was Kendall for a minute ….

  24. perplexed says:

    He’s not nearly as good-looking as she is. That’s what I’ve gotten from seeing the pictures.

    I’ve always wondered why people who are considered as beautiful as her need to be such attention-seekers. I suppose I’m automatically assuming she married him for attention (because, otherwise, why?).

  25. Abby says:

    2 minutes on his IG–how disgusting. I need to go take a shower.


  26. AssViolator says:

    He looks like a Ryan Philippe impersonator

    • HelloSunshine says:

      He really is a mix of the worst features of some awful Hollywood people. Plus he has such a shining personality, what could go wrong for our dear Itssohardtobehot Emily 🙄

  27. Yawn says:

    if it looks like a duck… all signs point to douche-bro

  28. trh says:

    do not want

  29. Lala says:

    All I have to say is this…if my girl friend was DATING a guy with an IG account that posted the horrific crud I just saw on her husband’s…THERE WOULD BE A SERIOUS INTERVENTION!!!!

    • Sophia's Side eye says:

      This whole thing has me wondering, where are her friends and family?? Does she have people in her life, because she definitely needs an intervention.

  30. Classicmoviefan says:

    One commenter on datalounge claims to know him…says he’s a drug dealer moonlighting as a film producer. Usually I doubt such claims, but he’s so sick (from his insta) and she looks totally zoned out.

  31. Isn’t he too old to be wearing that stupid yellow shirt?

  32. Ackee says:

    I hope he is reading these wonderful comments. It is hard to imagine he believes the entire planet is cheering him on. The only way this relationship functions, is that something is seriously messed up with Emily – low self esteem, extreme narcissism, addiction, self harm – and he allows her to not take responsibility for her dysfunctional or destructive behaviour.

  33. Hoping says:

    Even the lovely pug in the background looks puzzled and a bit scared.