Michelle Williams’ fiance seems to throw off one big red flag after another. [Pajiba]
Karl Glusman & Zoe Kravitz look so hot for each other. [LaineyGossip]
I keep forgetting that Ian McKellen will be in Cats: the movie. [Jezebel]
Shots were fired at a Nicki Minaj video shoot. [Dlisted]
It feels like Tucker Carlson has been lying about a lot of stuff. [Towleroad]
The Victoria’s Secret show was an absolute mess. [Go Fug Yourself]
Good dogs get excited for treaties. [OMG Blog]
Vanderpump Rules cast attended the PCAs. [Reality Tea]
Allison Janney looked great at the PCAs. [RCFA]
Her fiancee’s family are Trump supporters….And he has ALWAYS come off as cruel and controlling…like the TEXT BOOK CASE FOR AN ABUSER….
SERIOUSLY…DOES SHE NOT HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS WHO CAN STAGE AN INTERVENTION? FRIENDS…FANS…ANYBODY?!?!
Cause I’m Whoopi Goldberg in “Ghost” regarding this…
“Michelle…you in DANGER girl!”
I’m no Trump supporter but not sure what that has to do with whether he is a good partner to her. She’s really religious, do for all we know she might be a supporter too.
Just guessing here but maybe because she is a Black woman and Trump, and his policies, are hella racist??? That would give me pause. Especially if they are planning on having kids together.
Trump is a straight racist…and if you’re a Trump supporter…well…birds of a feather…Trump’s political narrative has NOTHING to do with conservative policies…yet it has EVERYTHING to do with any horrific, inhumane “ism” you can think of…
I’m not just speaking about just THIS situation with Michelle and her man…he’s got a laundry list of issues…but you keep that same energy regarding your Trump’s stance….
Cause I’ma keep mine also…
There are black Trump supporters out there, so she could very well be one. Still don’t know how his family being supporters means he is not for her. There might be plenty of other reasons why they are incompatible.
Not sure how Jesus relates to Trump. Pretty sure Jesus’s entire message/platform preaches against every single behavior/belief Trump promotes. Love thy neighbor, taking care of the poor, not judging others because they sin differently than you, etc etc. No longer can the GOP claim they are the patriotic party or family values party. That died when Trump picked golf over honoring Veterans and when he locked up innocent children.
If you are a trump supporter you support raciest views and policy. Because literally all trumps views and policy hurt someone vulnerable.
My whole family supports trump, and I was brought up in the church and aside for a few people I know like myself who are progressive, they are all racist assh*les to some extent. They either hate LGBT people (all of them) or subtly or openly hate POC. Im in california so I hear A LOT about the caravan bs.
I know A LOT of church people, been around scores of them all my life and 99.999 percent of them hate somebody.
It’s so not about Jesus and his teachings, it’s about the christian pride, purity, rules ect.
I also have family from various other states, Michigan, N. Virgina, Tenn, Texas, Arizona, Oregon all church going and trump supporters and Hey what do you know.. also racist pieces of s*it
That to say I do not one ONE person who voted fro trump and supports him now that isn’t some kind of hateful piece of Sh*t
@Cairinacat
Thank you. I could have written your exact same post myself.
Uuuuuuuugh I thought he was awful and then…THEN his wretched family pops up. She is lovely, smart, kind, talented and really, really needs to runaway bride this sh*t pronto!
I agree Lala! Red lights are flashing. I’ve dated white men before, and I make very frank comments about my experience as a Black woman. If the guy can’t accept and respect it, he can head for the door.
When I talk to ANY white person about race they better understand my concern is not about their feelings. I have other concerns, like the lives and safety of Black people living in this white supremacist patriarchy.
Sorry not sorry.
Save yourself Michelle.
meh. i watched the clip and i understood both their perspectives.
Me too and didn’t see a red flag. They may end up having a compatibility problem in the end so it’s a good thing that they are in counseling.
being dismissive towards her real and valid concerns about race as a black woman by throwing out the “don’t care if you’re green, blue, or purple!” line is a red flag in my book
@Olive Absolutely agree! How he feels about it is pretty much irrelevant and trying to shut down a very important conversation with a pronouncement of what a great person he believes himself to be is gross. Someone needs to tell him that not treating people differently based on race is a bare-bones requirement for being a decent human being and you don’t get a cookie for that.
@Olive-
That statement of his was a big warning siren to me, and I saw a similar reaction on the part of the therapist, too- she was momentarily taken aback.
He is utterly insensitive to her feelings. If he really loved her, he would work very hard to understand her experiences. He doesn’t, not the way she wants him to. She needs to walk away. Make that run away.
Same. I dont think he should be asking if she “took her meds”, but in the same way, I dont see how she can rationally generalize that all black people communicate in a way that he couldn’t possibly understand.
She seems like she has low self esteem in addition to depression.
Unfortunately, she has ALWAYS come off like that to me and every OTHER person I have ever spoken to regarding her…from the SECOND she stepped on stage with Destiny’s Child…I literally CRINGE at seeing her in public…because I feel SO BAD FOR HER!
This public life…it’s just don’t seem like it’s MADE for her…
RUN MICHELLE RUN
I’m not seeing anything based on that clip.
Gigi I take it you aren’t a black woman based on all of your very dismissive responses…
You would be wrong. I am indeed black but obviously not meeting your expectations as to how a black woman should respond.
She has told her fans to back off. They are actually framing these responses as people hating on her relationship with a white man. People are hating because you are marrying a racist white man after stating you are pro black.
Red flags indeed. His inability to accept that as a White man he really won’t understand her experiences and all he can do is listen, coupled with his throwing her depression in her face, suggesting her failure to agree with him is based on her not taking her meds? That goes beyond incompatibility. Thats emotional abuse. Also it’s rich of them to invite people into their relationship with a reality show and then be shocked when people have opinions about it.
Seriously. Does she think he’s going to be more compassionate when they’re married? Because in all likelihood he’ll just get worse and be more demeaning towards her.
I will have to amend my previous statement and agree that throwing in the meds comment is a red flag. Good thing they are in counseling.
And towards the end he’s basically defending the fact that he said it because “she knows how to cut.” That kind of low blow in an argument is just going to be the tip of the iceberg if they get married. Couples that don’t fight well don’t last.
Or they last miserably.
I didn’t know who that Michelle Williams was. And when I saw her fiancés name was Chad Johnson, I first thought “She’s marrying Ochocinco. ?”
When someone tells you who they really are, listen to them
Tucker Carlson also lied about protesters at his home. There were trained observers watching and the police confirm that the protest was completely nonviolent and nonthreatening and someone just knocked on his door. No violence to the door either… The number of protesters was also quite small, about a dozen I think. They came bearing one tambourine…
Stan Lee passed away today. He was 95.
I saw that! Such a creative mind. RIP Stan
Wow! He’s cold, not trying to understand her point of view, and then cutting her down using her mental illness against her to win an argument? run fast, it only gets worst. Her black experiences are different from his white experiences, he wont understand, but she still should try to explain them to him because he wants to know, if he is still insensitive to her experiences, then it can’t work . Marriage is a long term commitment, that subject is always going to come up.
listening to this male rachel dolezal tell his beautiful black fiancé he doesn’t see color is too damn much. if he doesn’t see color – why is he doing race cosplay?
girl take my advice and run.
That he asked her about taking her medication (in an argument) was a huge red flag to me. That reeks of gaslighting.
Not seeing colour is another flag. Dude, we all see colour, we all live in a deeply racist society. Denying this is actually harmful if you want to get to a truly equal society. If you are planning to have mixed kids you better learn about the black experience from your wife to be, because that’s part of the experience your kids are going to have.
+1000
He sounds like sooo many white people. They absolutely refuse to admit or simply cannot acknowledge or conceptualize that someone might have a different experience & POV due to their race, gender, sexual preference, etc. Alternatively, he gets it but he’s being dismissive of her feelings and is accusing her of using race as a way to avoid dealing with their real issues. Regardless, I agree with you: It’s a red flag. bleh
Is Victoria’s Secret still relevant?
I know they make a lot of money, but certainly not as much they once were?
She is desperate for love.
He is desperate to be a celebrity.
They should not be on tv. She is usually a private person and seems like she is trying too hard to be happy.
Why was a TV crew their on their engagement day?
My husband is greek. At the beginning of our relationship, everytime he shouted at me, he used the excuse of ‘that is how greeks act, it is normal’. For me, using a culture as a way to excuse innapropriate behaviors like screaming at your partner, it is not alright. We are also our own agent while navigating social constructs. After years at being together, our different cultures are mainly used as positive impacts in our lives and not as a shield or a sword against each other.
I am mixed race, my fiancé is white. It is just a non-issue. Am I somehow not ethnic enough wielding my race and branding it about lol? Maybe we are just too chill. We are happy, no intentions of having children, we travel a lot.
If he asked me if I had taken my medication it would be out of loving concern for my well being. Michelle’s fiancé is clearly being abusive and trying to deflect. Her wanting to initiate a discussion about her black culture is on point but she is going about it in the wrong way. Him saying he doesn’t care what color she is as an attempt at acceptance is hurtful and dismissive because he is rejecting any discussion about her culture. I think they can make it work if they start communicating the same language to each other. It’s just my two cents.