Jonathan Van Ness and Nicola Coughlan are besties who met on Instagram

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It’s Pride month and many folks are coming out to claim their besties in public. This is the case for Queer Eye’s Jonathan Van Ness and Bridgerton’s Nicola Coughlan. Jonathan and Nicola told People that their meet-cute began when Nicola tagged Jonathan on Instagram in 2018 while wearing a sweater with his face on it. They have been thick as thieves every since. JVN and Nicola said that they were both fans of each other’s work beforehand and met in person a year later. Since then, Jonathan stated that Nicola has helped him navigate his new found fame. Below are a few more highlights from People:

Before they became friends, the pair were fans of one another. He loved her work as Clare Devlin on Derry Girls, and she — like the rest of the world — was instantly enthralled by the benevolent, non-binary super-hairstylist on Queer Eye.

“Queer Eye had just come out, and I was like, ‘I don’t know who that person is, but I love that person,'” Coughlan, who was so taken with the new self-care guru that she got his face screen-printed on a sweatshirt, recalls to PEOPLE.

After Coughlan tagged Van Ness in a photo of the sweatshirt, the stars, both 34, became fast friends on Instagram in 2018.

“Our friendship really is just so special to me because Nicola’s been in this industry for a minute, and I haven’t, and there’s just been so many times where I had questions and didn’t know what to do, and needed feedback,” Van Ness says. “She’s helped me navigate all sorts of situations that I never thought I’d find myself in.”

The duo finally met in person a year later when Coughlan visited New York City, where they went to see Harry Potter and the Cursed Child together on Broadway. During the play’s intermission, Van Ness — who was working on his memoir at the time — told the Bridgerton actress that he wanted to publicly reveal his HIV diagnosis.

“A lot of folks in my orbit were like, ‘Are you sure?’ But Nicola has consistently been so supportive,” Van Ness says. “We are consistently there for each other.”

Adds Coughlan: “It felt like we had met before. It just felt like we’d been friends forever. Then our friend groups just sort of melded together.”

[From People]

I absolutely love these two. I haven’t seen Derry Girls yet but I have been loving Nicola from Bridgerton and the Great British Bake Off. I have also been following her on Twitter and she is the sweetest person. And Jonathan is my second favorite Queer Eye guy as Tan and I need to be besties. I have met several of my besties online as well and they have been some of the best friendships. I still haven’t met several IRL yet and some it took damn near a decade before we did. I am so loving that Nicola and Jonathan are besties and it is so cute how they met. hope to see a full collabo between these two. The only thing that has come close is their attending the Elton John Oscar Party together last year. Perhaps Nicola can be a guest on Queer Eye and Jonathan can do a cameo on Bridgerton. The possibilities are endless. Also Tan call me.

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  1. Jais says:

    Aw I really like them and had no idea they were friends. Oya, watch Derry Girls! It’s really so good.

    • lucky says:

      Derry Girls for the win! I love them.

      • KNy says:

        Honestly, Derry Girls >>>> Bridgerton. It’s so good, so funny, so thoughtful.

        P.S. For someone watching it for the first time, used closed captioning if you are not from Ireland.

      • Anners says:

        Honking for Derry Girls – that show is brilliant, especially if you were a teen in the 90’s (and second the suggestion to use subtitles).

        JVN just seems to radiate goodness. I really like this friendship pairing.

    • Anne Call says:

      Stop whatever you’re doing right now and watch Derry Girls. I’ve watched it twice. So good.

    • K says:

      Love Derry Girls! I watched it a few months ago and when finished immediately started rewatching it with my mom–that’s how starved we were for silly, light comedy.

  2. Happy_fat_mama says:

    What a great way to start the day. Thanks for that Oya!

  3. Coji says:

    Love them both, too. Wouldn’t it be fun if he did a cameo on Bridgerton?

  4. sunny says:

    What s sweet story! Love them both. And Derry Girls is the best! When anyone asks me for a tv rec, I say that or Ted Lasso as both shows have heart, hilarity, and can appeal to so many.

  5. Derry Girls is the BEST! Jerry pass me the wooden spoon…LOL!!!

  6. Esmom says:

    I’ve only listened to his podcast and am not a fan of his interviewing style but they are adorable together. And she was on the GBBS? Does anyone know where I can find that?

    • Red Weather Tiger says:

      It was a New Year’s Day episode at the very start of 2020 with the rest of the Derry Girls cast, if that helps! I think it’s on Netflix.

      Derry Girls is WONDERFUL. I LOVE IT.

  7. CommentingBunny says:

    I remember stumbling across Derry Girls on Netflix. That scene in the first episode when they’re in detention with the nun … I hadn’t laughed that hard at a show in years! You really should gibe it a try if you like Nicola. She’s hilarious as Claire.

    I think I just talked myself into binging Derry Girls (again) after work!

    • AMA1977 says:

      I’ve watched the whole thing twice and will likely watch it again. It’s SO GOOD!! Anytime I see or hear the name “Michelle” I hear Erin saying it in my head in that way she has and I crack up inside. The music is great, the actors and stories are fabulous, and it’s hilarious. If you haven’t seen it, please do, it’s great!!

      • Anne Call says:

        Also watched it on my own once and then watched it again with my husband. The episode at the end of last season with Bill Clinton visiting just made me laugh and tear up.

  8. manda says:

    I love this so much and at the same time it makes me so jealous! I love them both and want to be friends tooooooo!!

    Derry Girls is so funny, and the first season finale made me cry. Nicola’s character in particular is amazing. Might re-watch that this weekend

  9. minx says:

    She is just as cute as a button.

  10. Jess says:

    I’ve been watching JVN since the first season of “Gay of Thrones” (its a YouTube recap show of Game of Thrones and even if you’ve never seen it, his commentary is hilarious). I always knew he was special because it just seemed like everyone on the show had so much fun. Nicola is sooo good in Derry Girls!! I love that they’re friends, they’re so cute! The only thing that would be better is if Adam Rippon (another of my faves) had them on his ice skating show together 🙂 (JVN is an amazing ice skater for being an amateur). Happy Pride everyone!! <3

  11. Eh says:

    Derry Girls is amazing. We binged it a few weeks ago in one day and it was the best day I’ve had in a while. Sometimes shows that are supposed to be funny don’t really make you laugh but this isn’t one of them. We laughed and laughed.

  12. Tulip says:

    Love love love these two!!! And Derry Girls is a work of comic genius – you will cry laughing!

  13. Lurry says:

    I cannot believe she 34. I thought 24 MAX

  14. Summer says:

    Aww! This makes my heart happy!

  15. agnes says:

    Derry Girls is so great.
    I might or might not be on the fifth re-binge.

  16. guilty pleasures says:

    I am so jealous!! I love JVN, he does a short yoga routine on FitOn, it’s how I draw myself back into fitness when I’ve fallen off the beam.
    I wonder if he has another buff vacancy? 😀

  17. Sue M says:

    You are in for such a treat to watch Derry Girls. It is just so screamingly funny. And a sweet comedy about community and family. One of my favourite shows every.

  18. Christine says:

    I am NEVER jealous, but I am, right now. I think hanging out with these two might just be on my bucket list now. They are so delightful!

  19. Chrissyspo says:

    Derry girls is one of the funniest shows I have ever watched.