Princess Kate stepped out for Pancake Day at a nursing home, for Fat Tuesday

The Princess of Wales stepped out today in Slough. She visited a nursing home on Pancake Day, and I’m curious to see if we’ll get any photos of Kate digging into some pancakes (of course not). I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again – Kate’s staff forced her into pretending to care about Early Years crap, because Kate’s interest is more towards senior issues. I mean, she’s extremely lazy so she was never going to follow through on anything, but if she had her way, I bet she would have preferred to have more senior-issues in her portfolio. She’s much better with seniors than she is with kids – older people enjoy Kate and she enjoys them.

As you can see, Kate wore a very “inspired by Meghan” outfit for this visit. Black trousers, a black turtleneck, a cute purse and her Max&Co coat in camel. We’ve seen the coat several times before, especially after Meghan wore her camel overcoat just as the Sussexit was being announced in January 2020.

Today is “Shrove Tuesday” aka Fat Tuesday aka Mardi Gras, the Tuesday before Ash Wednesday and the start of Lent. Traditionally, people try to get all of their gluttony and “sinning” in before Lent. Thus, Pancake Day. Let’s pour some maple syrup over this bitch and get buck wild.

Photos courtesy of Backgrid.

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  1. Becks1 says:

    Are the pants black or navy? I can’t tell.

    Anyway, this is a perfectly fine look. This is the kind of simple, professional look she should have been wearing (in one form or another) for the past 12 years.

    The problem with the look, of course, its that total Meghan cosplay which is getting disturbing by this point and then we have the other obvious problem, which is that she is a garbage person.

    • Chloe says:

      It is a perfectly fine look but it’s rather boring. I do love that little bag and her earrings

    • Myra says:

      Saw the pic on social media and got excited for a minute thinking Meghan was out and about. Imagine my disappointment…

    • Ginny says:

      I also was wondering about the color — The trousers and bag look navy in some pics, while the top and shoes are black! If so, this outfit goes straight from being classic, chic, and fine to yet another head-scratcher of mis-matched colors. *face palm*

    • Amy Bee says:

      The sweater and pants look navy to me.

    • Mf says:

      Totally agree. The Meghan cosplay is grating but besides that: Kate actually looks good here. Professional, modern, polished. Yes, the outfit is a little boring but Kate looks better in looks that are on the boring side. (Let’s face it, she doesn’t have the personality to carry off more flamboyant styles.)

      • First comment says:

        I agree! She looks good and professional here! I’d prefer a different hairstyle (an updo, perhaps, since she had to cook and “make” pancakes) but whatever… after the black and white monstrosity she served us on Sunday, I’m happy for small mercies..

      • Kingston says:

        A copyKat can nevah! “look good.” All you see of a copyKat is the person theyre desperately trying to copy and all that THAT evokes in the onlooker is contempt.

      • Jojo says:

        Got to agree. She looks quite normal, boring and safe here, thank god. I don’t think I could take anymore ‘edgy’.

      • Lorelei says:

        Is she seriously wearing navy pants with a black turtleneck and black shoes??

  2. Still In My Robe says:

    She’s wearing buttons on her ears now….🤦🏻‍♀️

    • BW says:

      BWAHAHAHHAHHAA!!!! That’s what I was thinking. The coat has no buttons. Where are they? Why is she suddenly wearing so much cheap costume jewelry? Did Camilla lock her out of the Vault (TM).

    • Krista says:

      I know some people here liked those earrings – I guess my taste is for smaller, less obvious styles than she’s been serving up lately. The ones she wore at the BAFTA’s? *shudders* they gave me hives….

      • Lorelei says:

        @Krista, I’m with you. I was aghast at the Zara earrings and these are absolutely hideous too, imo. I prefer Meghan’s daintier jewelry so much to this kind of costumey stuff.

    • DouchesOfCornwall says:

      lol it’s so true, button earrings
      Her look today is quite cute, I like it. But the problem is her. Also her shoe game is always so so boring

    • Eurydice says:

      Very 80’s. My mother has a drawer full of button earrings in different colors that matched her outfits.

  3. Zapp Brannigan says:

    Older people enjoy Kate and she enjoys that they still believe in and are deferential to the monarchy ie; Her. Fixed it for you.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      My thought too. The monarchy is a thing just for older people now. Most younger folks are really over it.

      • JOJO says:

        Er, I’ll have you know that there are some of us ‘more mature’ (cough, cough) UK ladies who still have fully functioning brains and 20-20 vision for whom the monarchy is most definitely not ‘a thing’. I see them quite clearly for the bullying, racist, gaslighting, con-artist, trashy, money-grubbing, elitist, cockwombles they are. Harry has also now helped many of us understand more of how truly dysfunctional the whole family set up really is. Believe me their universal support among us ‘boomers’ (especially us BOC – boomers of colour 😂) is no longer the slam dunk they would like to believe. The appalling treatment Meghan has been subjected to has caused many of us to feel utterly ashamed and disgusted.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        I should have specified SOME older people. I’m seventy something myself. Although I’m American, I would be appalled by the idea of royalty if I lived in Great Britain. It’s just that what support they do have seems to be from older generations. And, yes, mainly white people.

    • Rapunzel says:

      And kids blatantly dgaf and openly show their disdain for her. And ask about Meghan- remember the “What else?”

      • Lorelei says:

        Kids generally look so sullen and bored when they’re trotted out for their photo ops with Kate. The best is when they blatantly roll their eyes or give a Jim on The Office style look at the camera, like, “really?”

        Every once in while they’ll (very obviously) set up a one-on-one photo of of a little girl thrilled to be meeting a princess and giving her flowers, but in group photos, the kids are always so over her.

  4. CrazyHeCallsMe says:

    Is she wearing a black top with navy pants? In the first picture it looks like the pants are black but the second pic the pants are clearly navy. Maybe it’s my screen. Anyway, yes this ensemble is pulled from her Meghan mood board,

    • Mslove says:

      The top looks like a darker navy, I think.

      • Mary Pester says:

        I’m more interested in her resting bitch face, just look at those pictures, smile, smile, smile for the camera, cameras gone, oh sht, smile, smile, smile, hope they didn’t get that one. YES THEY DID KHATE, and it shows how you really don’t want to be there. Your right, older people do like her, but I think it’s because most of them are deaf and can’t hear her blethering on about rubbish and the rest most probably think she is someone else’s granddaughter!!

  5. OriginalLala says:

    If she is interested in seniors there is so much she could be doing, but chooses not to. She is such a waste of potential and possibility.

    • Emily says:

      Right??? Old people are less marketable than babies, so if anything Kate could do more good there.

      The care crisis is probably too pOLiTiCaL but she could probably highlight nice community groups or take on elder loneliness/social isolation as a cause.

    • equality says:

      She probably isn’t allowed. Senior causes are Camilla’s. She is probably as territorial as Will.

    • sparrow says:

      Looking at her with the old people, I suddenly thought they would be an easier fit for her and potentially less controversial. I don’t know whether you’re a Brit, but care homes are a disaster over here, with ever-changing temporary staff and no continuity of care for residents. Care for the elderly in their own homes is even worse. Private agency workers are paid a pittance. Social care is even worse. This is a hugely worthwhile cause. She could factor in loneliness and the elderly. But, then again, she would be straying into government policy and underfunding. It is a tricky one. Whichever pie she tries to put her stupid finger in causes problems. She could try to highlight the problem. And it’s better than the BRF visiting foodbanks.

    • Norvell says:

      That Royal Family does not comprehend the wasted opportunities they had with Meghan, who would – not could – have been a bridge between the royals and the Commonwealth countries of color and the U.S. No matter what the trash British Press prints, they cannot stop publishing news – primarily false – about MM because the public wants information about her. Without Harry and Meghan, that coronation will be a yawn fest…

    • Princessk says:

      Slough is very handy as it so close to Windsor, an easy local engagement. I believe Kate has been told to raise her numbers.

  6. Krista says:

    Ugh, the earrings. She just cannot get it right.

  7. Julia K says:

    I like black and camel together but my word! Blue purse and blue earrings? She just doesn’t know how to accessorize.

  8. Christine says:

    I mean This is her demographic. I am sure they were thrilled. No shade there. She looks good ! I do wonder why she isn’t wearing a surgical style mask. I work in a nursing home in Canada and everyone coming into the building. Staff /visitors has to put on a new disposable mask.

  9. Chloe says:

    One thing I actually always sort of liked about kate was her versatility in hair style. But it seems like now she only knows 1 style. This hair is getting boring. Especially now that she seems to be getting out more.

    • Krista says:

      She has naturally curly/wavy hair – why would she not lean into that? (and no, I don’t mean the sausage curls – yuck) People with stick straight hair ( like me) would kill to have that kind of body in their hair. Occasionally it’s ok to straighten, but I would have so much fun with the curlier styles. I also think she needs to cut about 6 inches off. It’s way too long. Maybe a chic bob?

    • Dee says:

      William called Kate’s hair “nightmare hair” once, so you’re never going to see it with all the natural curl. It takes a lot of work to put all those wiglets in, so she can’t change it up quickly. The wiglet placement precludes a lot of up-dos.

      • Chloe says:

        @krista @dee; i don’t really believe that kate is wearing wiglets. And her hair is wavy at best. The only time i seen her with ‘curls’ was in pics where she walks down the runway in that sheer dress that caught williams attention. Even in her childhood photo’s she has a slight wave only around the ends of her hair. So there is nothing curly to rock.

        Personally i think she should cut it to just a little past her shoulder and dye it a darker brown.

        The only one i want to see rock her natural curls is Meghan.

      • Becks1 says:

        @Chloe there’s a video of her making pancakes from this visit (I’m hoping we talk about that tomorrow because LORDY lol) and the wiglet is so obvious. Like it doesnt move when the rest of her hair moves.

      • Princessk says:

        I don’t think her hair is naturally wavy. I think its dead straight. It used to be quite thick but seems to be thinning.

  10. Steph says:

    I don’t like the texture of that coat. It looks cheap.

    • dj says:

      Agreed. I thought the texture of the coat looked really cheap up close. I’m still with others the purse looks navy and are the pants navy too?

  11. Amy Bee says:

    She’s back to cosplaying Meghan. This engagement is probably part of KP’s “Operation she’s not a cold fish” tour. Another chance to show how caring and warm she is, this time with seniors.

  12. Cessily says:

    Something must be going on behind the scenes for her to be out and about so much.. it’s almost like she’s scared she is going to be kicked to the curb soon or something. As for eating pancakes she could use a few stacks, her starvation diet is truly showing in her appearance.

    • sparrow says:

      They’ve realised that Charles and Camilla are just going to coast it through, and the future of the BRF lies with W&K, esp Kate. For some reason they think she’s got the necessary “it” factor to keep them relevant. It must be knackering her nerves.

      • Chloe says:

        I am reminded of what harry said in spare. That in order to do more engagements william and kate were dependent on charles and his duchy money. And while i believe that they were also genuinely lazy, it does seem like that now the duchy money is exclusively theirs, they are doing a lot more bread and butter engagements.

      • Becks1 says:

        They’re not doing as much as it seems. I looked at the CC last week I think for William and he had done 10 events for the first five weeks of the year, so two a week. If he keeps up that pace he’ll be at 104 for the year. Kate had a boost bc of the stupid Shaping Us thing but I think that will peter out as well. They tend to work in fits and starts and it confuses people as to how much they are actually working.

      • Nic919 says:

        Kate has had more media coverage but not more actual engagements. Prior to the bafta event she wasn’t seen for over a week.

        She will do an about 150 for the year, like last year. But the numbers will be juiced up for the coronation events so they will put her at 200 like last year when the Times does their inflated count.

      • Tessa says:

        Kate has no it factor and she is a mean girl imo.

    • Eurydice says:

      She’ll probably be on holiday after the Chubbly and into the summer.

  13. Gingerbee says:

    Kitty never wore her coats unbuttoned, before Meghan. I see that she is also wearing a lot of turtle necks, with unbuttoned coats. Copy catting again

  14. girl_ninja says:

    Her makeup is always awful. Why can she not blend in her rouge or find a better color?!?! Those button earrings are dated too.

  15. sparrow says:

    She looks like the 90s to me, when we swathed ourselves in fabrics. I hate those puddle swooshing trousers on anyone. And when will she learn that camel doesn’t suit her tones. If you’re going to dress like your sister in law, do it better. And don’t get me started on the earrings! However, I do like the top once the coat is off.

    She is looking absolutely knackered; if this is what she looks like with photoshop, imagine the reality. It’s diet and stress. The great white saviour of the BRF. It must grind you down and she has my pity, to a certain extent. Why oh why did she push out Meghan, who could’ve helped lighten the load and worked together with her to move the BRF forwards? Jealousy has made Kate a very prickly bed to lie in.

    The hair is a lost cause. All I’ve got to say about that!

  16. Noki says:

    WHY can’t she do both causes!!?? She can do early years and equally take on some senior citizens concerns?!

    • sparrow says:

      I think she should drop her “life long passion” early years stuff. She’s made such a bodge of it. Elderly care would be so much better for her. It’s still a difficult social issue for the BRF, because it would mean straying into the government underfunding of elderly care, but I think less so than early years. She could highlight the issue less controversially. Many old people still have a residual love of the BRF – I think they look pleased to see her in these photos. She wouldn’t need to stand around at schools and nurseries with parents who don’t have the money to feed their kids, or drop into food banks where the hypocrisy is huge.

  17. equality says:

    Does she like seniors? There are no hugging pictures. And isn’t Kate quite the hugger with those she likes? Or did she magnificently and wisely “suss out” that the seniors were up to no good?

    • Serenity says:

      @Equality: OMFG 🤣🤣🤣 that’s hilarious 😂😂😆 I snorted H2O out of my nose!! If you started a blog and told us *Equality’s Take on the Royals* I would read it every single day and promote the 💩 out of it!!! You are effing brilliant.

  18. Jensa says:

    I imagine the Royal advisers at some point suggested that Kate try to be “more like Meghan”, meaning more proactive, coming up with ideas, actually doing some work, etc. But Kate being Kate, she could not relate this to anything other than *dressing* like Meghan. So this is what we get.
    It’s so underwhelming.

    • Debbie says:

      Interesting thought, but I personally doubt that any of her advisors would dare mention the name “Meghan” to Kate, not unless they wanted a box of sharp buttons thrown at their heads. (At most, I think they would suggest that Kate dress in a more “modern” manner, and she’d get the hint.). I just think that Kate likes Meghan’s fashion and styles. I think that it would never have occurred to Kate to be herself and to dress as a modern professional woman. First, because Kate has not worked in the professional field since graduating from school, and secondly because she lacked the confidence to be herself, so she’s spent all these years co-splaying Diana, the queen, other royal women, and now Meghan. Funny, but it just never seemed to occur to Kate to copy Diana or Meghan’s work ethic. She just mimics their styles, that’s all.

  19. A says:

    I’m pretty sure seniors are supposed to be camillia’s thing, plus focusing on kids gives her a chance to talk about her kids and not look like she’s bringing them up out of nowhere. The problem has always been that she has never narrowed down the issue like the importance of art/ nature programs in schools so instead she sounds redundant and the actual affect her “campaign” has is miminal.

    • Chloe says:

      I have mentioned this before too. I don’t understand why she isn’t incorporating her art knowledge and interest (that i am assuming she has considering she was an art history major in uni) with her early years ‘work’. That or a focus on sport considering she seems to be very into sports

    • sparrow says:

      It’s weird. To me, these elderly people look happy to see her, compared with the staff, parents and kids she meets at schools and nurseries who often look bored by her. How she has the cheek, as a tax funded incredibly wealthy parent, to stand with parents who haven’t the money to feed their kids or heat their homes properly is beyond me.

  20. Hannah says:

    It’s all navy. Saw other close up pics and yes those are navy & white buttons in her ears.

    I feel like this had the potential to work if trousers had been straight cut, ankle length, not flared and draping the floor. It’s all so terribly matchy matchy. Needs to break up the head to toe monochrome look by experimenting with texture and slight changes in colour of the navy

    Maybe a thinner belt, pastel blue clutch, smaller, real gold *rich girl* earrings and her pastel blue (Gianvito Rossi) shoes? Also as it was an old age home, I think a business chic elegant bun would have been more *professional*

  21. Samipup says:

    A couple notes.. I never realized that Lent was followed by any religions other than than R.C.?
    Also… broke my heart to read the newspaper quote where they refer to Charlotte the spare. Her Uncle is breaking out of those shackles.

    • sparrow says:

      Lent is also followed by C of E protestants. We try to ‘do’ Lent but fail pretty quickly or pick something to lose that isn’t a great loss!!

  22. Over it says:

    Pancake day is totally wasted on this twig

    • sparrow says:

      Agree, I was going to point out the irony (or the sadness) of her making a pancake.

      • SURE says:

        Errr.. you should see the bruised and battered pancake she served up just so her media buddies could get a photo/footage of her flipping a pancake.

    • Turnawry says:

      Kate manages a spatula with all the dexterity of Charles with a pen.

      • Carmen says:

        It’s really quite funny. Meghan cooked a whole dish on the Today show, while poor Kate couldn’t pry a pancake out of a frying pan without mauling it to pieces.

  23. B says:

    Kate is killing herself to become Queen and by the time she gets to the throne the population she will rule over will be apathetic or largely anti-monarchy. All this to say Kate enjoys the deference seniors give her more than the seniors themselves. Its the seniors who support the monarchy. Anyone 40yrs old or younger leans toward republicanism.

    I get the feeling she’s disrespected and ignored everywhere else in her life so the Senior’s respecting her title must feel good.

    • B, she needs to be careful and maybe a bit worried as well. To many outings by herself =to much media coverage on JUST her, do you all remember what happened when Diana built up a good media coverage in the UK press and Charles faded into the background because people just wanted Diana. I think maybe some bad media briefings are coming her way before to long, maybe they will lay of till after the coronation (camillas victory lap) but keep a close eye on the British rags after

  24. Over it says:

    Also , I can see why the seniors angle works for Katie keen . Seniors expect nothing from her which is good because she has zero to give . She can sit there and stay In her zoned out state while pretending to listen to the seniors share some life lessons and stories. All end up happy. They feeling they had someone new to talk to and her being well her. They’re but not there . Win win

    • sparrow says:

      Some of these residents are so lonely. I know people who work in care homes here in the UK and they tell me some residents wait months and months to be visited. They are parked in day rooms with no one to talk to properly. I suspect this visit was actually really nice for some of these elderly people; just a chance to chat and be remembered. Kate should embrace this as a project – the loneliness of the elderly in residential care and their own homes. It’s controversial, but I think she could manage to keep out of funding policy and focus her effort on visits and highlighting the issue. It’s not as controversial as her early years/food banks. These old people seem genuinely pleased to see a member of the BRF, whom they still tend to love.

      • Patti says:

        I totally support this idea. It breaks my heart how little the elderly are visited by their families once they’re in nursing homes; it would be an easy cause to promote (hey families, visit your parents in these homes more often, or hey people in general, sign up to volunteer in nursing homes and hang out with these folks so they have someone to talk to!) And unlike her early childhood idiocy, she wouldn’t come off as super rich and tone-deaf.

  25. kelleybelle says:

    Sorry, petty, but … the fillers in her face accentuate the jowls and she looks like she’s storing nuts for the winter. The resting face is looking close to 60, honestly. Meghan would have brought something, baked a banana bread, something, right? And Kate could use a couple of stacks of pancakes, lots of butter and syrup, girl.

  26. Nicegirl says:

    Maple 🍁 Syrup, Buck Wild 😂

    I can’t 😆 lady ok I’m rotfl 🤣

  27. QuiteContrary says:

    I imagine Kate leapt at the chance to have older people tell her approvingly that she’s so skinny that she should eat some pancakes. Also to hear them call her a “proper princess.”

    Some of them likely loathe Meghan — we know why — so they won’t realize Kate is cosplaying.

    (I know there are progressive senior citizens — my mom was one! But my British mother-in-law, lovely as she was, got a lot of her ideas from the Daily Fail. As did her circle of friends.)

  28. Lizzie says:

    She really should stick to going down children’s slides.

  29. tamsin says:

    I saw a picture of Kate and one of the elderly residents, and the resident was looking up at Kate, and Kate was looking straight at the camera, as if to make sure the picture is being taken. Where is the picture of Kate smiling at the senior?

    • Princessk says:

      Kate has taken the invisible contract too far, it is so obvious that she is all about photo ops. She needs to stop making it so obvious.
      Camilla always stops and pauses and smiles straight at the cameramen, leaving no doubt she is sucking up to them.

  30. RoyalBlue says:

    Was she attempting to cook live, like our princess Meghan, aka cosplaying the Duchess of Sussex. She failed miserably at making the pancake.

    • TheWigletOfWails says:

      She wanted a “together” moment (Meghan’s work with the ladies of the Hubb community kitchen always goes viral) and failed. I wonder how Mary Berry feels about that video when she previously called her a natural and great cook 🤭

    • Aviv says:

      What? Kate talks about cooking with her kids frequently. She cooked before the 3 kids came along, long before Meghan ever hit anyone’s radar.

      • RoyalBlue says:

        So now we know it’s a lie. Whatever they say is true, is a lie, and whatever they say is a lie, is true.

        During the pandemic there was a video of Kate and the kids baking a cake and I thought it was all show for the cameras, and now I believe it. She can’t cook a lick.

      • Nic919 says:

        Talking about cooking and actually cooking are very different things. She also has a cook at every home she’s lived in once married and William has more than once said she can’t cook.

  31. Patti says:

    Oh my God, the video of her messing up a simple pancake has to be seen to be believed:

    https://twitter.com/MattSunRoyal/status/1628012654617935873

    She has no idea how to cook or what a real job is, nor does she believe in basic hygienic standards while cooking (tie your hair back or wear a hair net, you gross woman!)

    • Rnot says:

      It really does have to be seen to be believed. The first pancake is usually a mess for average cooks but… She may have seen a pancake being cooked at some point but she’s never made one herself. Then she repeatedly used a metal tool on a nonstick pan! This could have been PR gold for someone with the ability to laugh at herself but instead it was just awkward.

      • Lorelei says:

        Thank you so much for that link, I needed the laugh! I’m a terrible cook, but I admit it. Kate’s PR is always about how much she loves feeding the entire family, blah blah. I can’t even scramble an egg, but at least I own it. Someone replied to that video with a still photo of the pancake mid-air, and it’s hilarious.

  32. Em says:

    She has completely stolen Meghan’s style. And you know what? I love it because she looks so much worse. All this copy-keening does is highlight how much more gorgeous Meghan is and how much better this style suits her.

    Carry on, Kate.

  33. Geegee says:

    Her face is looking rough. I think the fillers are settling

  34. Linney says:

    All I can say is, thank God she was wearing the mask during her pancake flipping. Otherwise we would have seen her tonsils as she guffawed up a storm!

    • Lorelei says:

      I had the exact same thought! Even with the mask on, you could still tell she was grinning and gurning. I can say one nice thing about her- at least she seems able to laugh at herself. Even she seemed aware of how bad that was.

    • Nic919 says:

      The hair over her shoulder while attempting to flip the pancake was gross though. Most people know you pull your long hair back when you are cooking so hair doesn’t end up in the food.

  35. HeyKay says:

    Pancake Day. Pancake Day.
    Is Kate getting credit for working for Pancake Day with seniors?
    Kate needs a good 4-6″ cut off the bottom of her hair. Shoulder length at most with some long layers cut in would really help.
    Do it as a show of mercy, ffs.

  36. j.ferber says:

    Block me if you want, but her face is as lumpy as a pancake. What the hell has she been doing? I mean, really? What would cause that? She’s only 41 and as thin as a rail. Any dermatologists who can comment?

  37. Dottibug says:

    Geez louise, am I glad no one here can see my terrible skin, boring hair, and woefully outdated wardrobe. She looks heaps better than I ever do 🤷‍♀️

    • SomeChick says:

      do you have her resources tho? it’s not really a fair comparison.

    • The Old Chick says:

      And? What’s your terrible skin /hair got to do with this lazy, tax-payer funded grifter with 4 houses, a dozen or more wigs /Wiglets, weekly skin treatments, regular fillers /botox, millions of pounds of clothes, thanks to taxpayers. And she insists on endless photoshop from her fav photographers and this is what you get otherwise. That’s the best you derangers have, isn’t it.

  38. ArtFossil says:

    Watching the video I gasped when Kate turned and walked toward the table. She looks so painfully thin. And this is on a video. I shudder to think what she looks like in real life.

  39. Dottibug says:

    I don’t know what a deranger is. I find everything about the monarchy gross, for all the reasons you listed. Absolutely judge her based on that stuff and her character. The comments about her physical appearance are harsh, though. Call her out for the criticisms you listed above. That’s the stuff that’s important to call out. No need for mean-girl petty looks-bashing.