Dr. Jill Biden always packs a lunch, always finds a SoulCycle & always has a plan B

Jill Biden covers the latest issue of Women’s Health Magazine. As FLOTUS, Dr. Biden hasn’t been on eleventy billion magazine covers, which is a shame because she’s very cool. One of my favorite interviews in recent years was Dr. Biden’s Harper’s Bazaar interview where she talked about her awful first marriage and how every woman needs to have a job and skill set to fall back on. She was basically like: don’t marry scrubs and always have a separate checking account. It’s something a lot of women still need to hear. Dr. Biden has the same kind of message in Women’s Health, plus she talks about how much she loves vegetables fresh out of the White House garden and how much she loves working out. Dr. Biden is 72 years old and she still trains like she’s always preparing for a marathon. Some highlights from her interview:

She’s the oldest of five sisters: “Our mother was such a good listener. She was my role model.” When Bonny passed away in 2008, Biden was devastated, but even so, she immediately stepped up to assume the role of mother hen. “I feel like I got my inner strength from my mother.”

Why she fell for Joe: “I was drawn to his strength… I was drawn to…to what kind of strength was in this man that allowed him to find joy again.”

Joe had to propose five times before she accepted & the real reason she didn’t say yes right away: “I had to be sure we were going to make it.” Sure that she would be Joe’s wife forever and ever. Sure that Beau and Hunter would not lose another mother, this time to divorce.

She carries a lunchbag after years of teaching: “I like fresh food more than fried cafeteria food, so that’s what I pack.”

She’s an expert meal prepper. “I had to be organized. I would [make] my shopping lists to make sure there were balanced meals with proteins and vegetables…I went through phases, like when I got a pasta machine. The kids just loved it when I made flavored pastas for them.”

She was shocked when Beau Biden passed away: “I didn’t think he was going to die. I just kept praying he was going to live. And then when he did [die], I found I could no longer pray.” After about two years of taking one proverbial step at a time, in spite of her disorienting grief, Biden found that she could pray again.

She loves fitness classes, especially SoulCycle: “I need to be with myself and find inner strength so I can be strong for everyone else.” Wherever she goes, it’s not a question of if she’ll get a workout in, but where, when, and how to manage the logistics. At the White House, she’s up at 5:45 a.m. to feed the family cat and dog, then is outside as quickly as possible to walk Commander, the Bidens’ German shepherd, while catching the sunrise. (Joe is more of a night person and does the final dog walk before bed.) She loves jogging in the White House driveway. Well, she loves jogging. She makes it work in the driveway because it’s too difficult to arrange for the security that would be required for her to run the sidewalks of D.C.

Why she’s an effective public speaker: “I practice, I rehearse, I want it to be really good. Because I care! And when you care, you want it to resonate with people, you want it to matter.”

Biden wants women to know that it is crucial to be independent…financially, emotionally, mentally. That’s why she believes education is so critical: It gives women the skills to secure a job, to make a living, to stand on their own two feet. “You never know where this life is going to take you,” Biden says, and it strikes me as a little dark, but it’s also honest. She saw Beau’s wife, her daughter-in-law, go from married to single mom with two teenagers in an instant.

[From Women’s Health]

I find Dr. Biden so inspiring. She talked about her job as a professor at a Northern Virginia community college as well, and you can just tell that she finds it so fulfilling and so important. Important not just to her students, but for herself. She’s a Peak Teacher too, she reminds me so much of my mom (who was also a teacher). Also: I love every story Joe and Jill tell about their courtship and how many times he proposed. I find it charming, but the reason why Joe didn’t walk away was because he knew Jill was the real deal. Plus, she was a hot blonde from Philly.

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  1. Flowerlake says:

    A lovely and inspiring FLOTUS.

  2. Pinkosaurus says:

    She is an absolute babe, and such an inspiration. She needs to be on all the covers. I’ll pick this one up if I see it in the store.

    • BothSidesNow says:

      She is!! And I adore their history of courtship and how much Joe loves her!! Jill has such compassion, commitment and is fully dedicated to her position as a teacher. It also tells us that Jill would not be sitting on her laurels as FLOTUS as well. And damn, she looks stunning at 72!! 😳😳

      I admire Jill’s chic, well chosen and excellent taste in her clothes as she always looks perfect!!

      I simply love her!!

  3. seaflower says:

    Love her.

  4. Nanea says:

    I’d love for Dr. Jill to be seen and heard by many more people than she already is, she’s an (inter-)national treasure, apart from being just another FLOTUS.

    And I’d love for a rota 🐀 or a BRF-adjacent deranger, one of those who always insists that the Keen Wiglet of Airlie Yarrs and Dr. J are such good friends, to send her a note with this particular pearl of wisdom ⬇️ that everyone I know has incorporated into their routine for preparing and delivering speeches.

    * Why she’s an effective public speaker:
    “I practice, I rehearse, I want it to be really good. Because I care! And when you care, you want it to resonate with people, you want it to matter.”

    Mumblina Guffaw McButtons could neva. And is too lazy to even try it anyway.

    • Ash says:

      Remember their engagement in June 2021? I still cringe thinking about it omg Mumbles was so embarrassing!

      • Jaded says:

        I still feel second-hand embarrassment (fremdschämen) when I think of the utter mess Mumbles made of the “roundtable”. What a golden opportunity to learn from Dr. Biden — a PhD no less — about her experiences in teaching and education practices. But no, Mumbles was not prepared at all, she totally fumbled the ball and made a complete hash of it.

      • Nanea says:

        @Ash & @Jaded

        Ah, good times!

        Back when Duchess Lamebridge of Keensington Palace needed a cue card to introduce Dr. Jill *and still stumbled*. How absolutely embarrassing!

        And fremdschämen is surely too big a word to grasp for someone like Ms Tights&Tiaras – who sadly only speaks one language, barely.

    • Coconut says:

      Brilliant and hilarious!!!

    • MY3CENTS says:

      I couldn’t help but compare the two as I was reading this as well.
      I guess they really had a lot to talk about…(or not)

    • Stephanie says:

      The exact thought I had! I came to the comment section to check if anyone else made the comparison lol

  5. Kaye says:

    God, I love that woman.

  6. Ash says:

    Jilly from Philly! She’s such an incredible woman, I love her advice to young women because we desperately need to hear those words.

    • BothSidesNow says:

      @ Ash, we do!! It is paramount that we have an education, not take long time absences during our careers and that we have financial stability and know exactly what our financial details are if we are in a marriage. It’s sad when I see women that are SAHM that has been absent for 15+ years and they find themselves divorced. Not many companies will take on an employee with that much of an absence. I know! I was so stupid…..

      • McGee says:

        Yep, was also stupid. Unintended, really, but those short-term decisions that are more amenable “for the marriage” or “the family” come at a price that falls only on your own head, and you can find yourself cornered.

      • BlueNailsBetty says:

        @BothSidesNow Yes!

        Another thing I try to get people (especially women) to consider is when you are a SAHP and not earning money (via job or business) your future Social Security amount is affected. I know so many women who were SAHMs for decades until they were widowed or divorced and their SS was a mere pittance and they had to get low paying jobs (no formal education, no W-2 work experience) to survive. It is so heartbreaking.

      • windyriver says:

        @BlueNailsBetty – that’s interesting in the case of widows, as they should be eligible to receive their husbands benefits if the amount is higher than what their own would be (you get one or the other, not both). Plus, there are survivor benefits.

        https://www.ssa.gov/benefits/survivors/onyourown.html

        Divorce is of course another question, and @BothSidesNow (and Dr. Jill) make good points..

      • Ash says:

        @bothsides sadly the same thing happened to her daughter in law Kathleen after she divorced Hunter. He was the breadwinner, she was the stay at home mom, and she found herself having to be fully dependent on him during their marriage and after. She’s now working to rebuild her career and life.

  7. Ama1977 says:

    My throat closed up and tears gathered when I read her quote about Beau’s death. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. She and Joe (especially Joe!! My god, the loss that man has endured) are truly inspiring, that they turned toward each other and made it through that and still give so much of themselves.

    Love, love, LOVE Dr. Biden. A role model for women everywhere. And yes, as the daughter of an educator, she is Peak Teacher and it’s absolutely endearing!

    • Ash says:

      Have you read Hunter’s memoir? I recommend listening to the audio version. I couldn’t stop crying when listening to chapter two in particular, he discussed everything about Beau’s cancer and all he did to take care of him and he there for him until the very last moment.

      During the time of the books release I too was losing a loved one to cancer and I feel his book came into my life at the right time, he gave me a lot hope and prepared me for what was to come. I highly recommend it.

  8. Teddy says:

    She’s wonderful and inspiring. Such a relief after the black hole of her predecessor. I’m grateful for her honesty about faith and prayer. I think it’s going to help a lot of people dealing with grief.

  9. Maeve says:

    She’s so great, she conveys so much energy. There’s something quintessentially American about her – bright, optimistic, sporty. She’s like a Ralph Lauren ad brought to life! And I love how into each other she and Potus are – Joe’s got a definite “Jeez, how did I get this lucky?” vibe whenever she’s around.

  10. Lisa says:

    Dr. Jill Biden is incredible. I would prefer her to be the president over any of the other candidates, frankly.

  11. QuiteContrary says:

    She’s a diehard Philly sports fan and her genuineness just shines.

  12. trillion says:

    72? #goals!

  13. bisynaptic says:

    She is indeed a welcome change from Melania.
    I wonder how she feels about the way Biden handled Clarence Thomas’s SCOTUS confirmation hearings, especially his treatment of Anita Hill.

  14. Kirsten says:

    She’s wonderful.

  15. Ameerah M says:

    She’s still a hottie at 72! I read her schedule and I feel exhausted- she has waaay more energy than I do and she’s 30 years older than me! And I agree with everything she said in regards to women’s education and financial independence.

  16. Janet says:

    She looks just like Marlee Matlin here!

  17. tealily says:

    She’s so relatable. She seems like such a smart, capable woman, and it’s a pleasure to have her in the White House. I wish we could be friends!