Travis Kelce flew to Argentina to spend time with Taylor Swift this weekend

Travis Kelce skipped Taylor Swift’s first Buenos Aires concert on Thursday night. He attended a charity fundraiser with his friend and teammate Patrick Mahomes… and then he hopped on a flight to Argentina right after. Travis arrived in Buenos Aires on Friday, and within hours of his arrival, Taylor canceled her Friday night concert!!! It wasn’t because she wanted to bang Travis (although I’m sure that played a part) – she canceled because the venue is open-air and there was a big storm coming on Friday night. So she just rescheduled the concert for Sunday night, and Travis is apparently with her for the weekend. I wonder if it’s his first time in Argentina? Probably. So they did manage to go sight-seeing. Well, not really, they just went out to eat.

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s romance never goes out of style! On Friday, the pop star, 33, and Kansas City Chiefs tight end, 34, reunited in Argentina for a low-key date night. The two grabbed dinner in a private room at Elena, a restaurant in the Four Seasons Hotel in Buenos Aires, and appeared to be joined by Swift’s dad, Scott Kingsley Swift.

While it’s not known what exactly they ate, Elena is well-known for their dry-aged meat, brasserie and charcuterie.

A source tells PEOPLE that the two “looked so cute on their low-key date night” and that “they also left holding hands.” The source adds that “the crowd in the restaurant briefly cheered as they walked out” and that “Travis was beaming.”

Their outing occurred hours after the NFL star was seen exiting a jet at an airport near Buenos Aires. Although Kelce is currently in the middle of the football season, he was able to make the trip abroad due to his team being on their bye week.

[From People]

“The crowd in the restaurant briefly cheered as they walked out” – that is so sweet. It’s like a global thing, people are like “yay, Taylor Swift might have really found the One this time!” Either that or they were simply cheering for Taylor, because she is a global superstar. As for dining with Taylor’s dad… we’ll see. She usually doesn’t make it a huge priority for her boyfriends to spend time with her parents (meanwhile she prefers to meet the guy’s mom after one date).

Also: in her first concert in Argentina, she performed “Labyrinth” and people think it’s a sign.

Travis went to her concert last night and he was singing and dancing along to all of it. Then this happened.

Photos courtesy of Backgrid.

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  1. Osty says:

    They were so cute, and the way she run to kiss him , chills woman is in love . And the lyrics change , I don’t know whose reaction was cuter Travis or her dad 😍😍😍. Anyways I wish then the best

    • Kebbie says:

      lol she was also saying “I love you. You know who you are” and “I’ve never been so happy in my life” on stage a couple of months ago during her Matty Healy fling.

      • LooneyTunes says:

        Yeah. Yawn… Rinse and repeat with every new guy. 😴

      • Kebbie says:

        Right? And how is her singing a love song she wrote about Joe Alwyn proof that Travis Kelce is the one? lol if anything it’s proof he’s just the next one.

    • Marly says:

      It cracks me up how people fall for these performative relationships and don’t see how transparent and transactional it is. This comment section is a great example. The same people who thought Joe Alwyn was endgame. The lyrical changes to shout out the boyfriend. The filmed/photographed running and hugging. But most of all, the success of burying what happened a few months ago: Taylor Swift *doubled down* on Matt Healy AFTER it was widespread info he proudly jerked off to black women being brutalized on camera. The same gushing shoutouts, the articles claiming Matty despite his sickening racism and actions was ‘him and Taylor against the world / she doesn’t care what everyone thinks!’ The mouthing of ‘I Love You’ – Matty Healy hanging out with her dad.

      It’s fascinating how everybody embraces this amnesia. But yes, let’s shout ‘omg how ADORBS they are SO gonna get married with babies’

      Remember who you’re stanning. And just like that, watch white feminism work.

      • JennyJazzhands says:

        Omg thank y’all. I was starting to feel crazy. She just so happens to fall for America’s sweetheart who plays America’s game and is down for the public showcase, who, due to his personality and dating history, would never be accused of being racist. And everyone completely forgets that she just caped for a racist monster multiple times before finally (publicly anyway) giving him up.
        This is amazing.

      • Hillary says:

        I don’t think people have amnesia, I think people accurately remember the timeline- how she dd the big relationship roll out with Healy, how she went suddenly silent when his past interviews were unearthed (only except for announcing a duet with Ice Spice), and how she quickly dumped him quietly.

        Most people do not want women who date men held accountable for all those men’s past actions that we later find out about…even if you already hated her.

      • Arizona says:

        Jesus, just let people enjoy this and carry on if you’re not interested. we need something a little fun and light-hearted.

      • Sass says:

        THANK YOU MARLY. It’s hard to be happy for her when she does this every time.

        Recently someone here said it’s unfair of us to judge Taylor for her dating behavior in her 20s. Well no it isn’t when it’s the same behavior in her 30s.

        While I do hope she finally finds the right person, if that’s what she wants, I’ll never forget her frankly disgusting behavior with Healy. She had an opportunity to do the right thing there. Instead she chose to act like it never happened. While it isn’t her responsibility to change anyone, anyone decent/well adjusted would’ve ended it and publicly said she does not condone such things. Instead she doubled down and then when it backfired pushed it under the rug…and everyone was happy to look the other way.

      • Anonymous says:

        @Hillary

        Except when you date someone who is a racist, who likes watching and gets turned on watching violence against black and brown women on camera, she is ENDORSING that behavior. There is no excuse, period. And after that info spread like wildfire among the public, she doubled down on the relationship, showing she did *not care* – that alone is heinous.

        My mind is blown watching people on here getting mad at people speaking out against her & Healy just a few months ago, saying we are ruining the escapism…escapism?! What about the POC who deal with this constantly? Smh how disappointing to see this in the comments on a progressive site like this.

      • SunnyDays says:

        Marly! Say it louder!

      • Hillary says:

        When a woman briefly dates a man, then finds out about his racist past & dumps him because of it….yeah, that woman should not be attacked for it.

    • Anonymous says:

      Hey @Arizona
      Here’s translation of your comment:

      ‘Jesus, just let people enjoy [forgetting her doubling down on dating/endorsing a racist] and carry on if you’re not interested [in forgetting her endorsing a racist] we need something a little fun and light-hearted [and if that means forgetting her supporting/dating a racist, good! You’re a hater!]

      Fixed it for you.

  2. Kate says:

    She also changed the lyrics of Karma to say “karma is the guy on the chiefs coming straight home to me” and sang End Game as a surprise song, she is in deep.
    End Game has a perfect lyric for them on top of being about being someone’s end game: “ooh you and me would be a big conversation,” which it certainly has been.
    Anyway thanks for all the rom com content this weekend Taylor and Travis!

  3. Anonymous says:

    Oh noes! she’s falling in love again…

  4. Sof says:

    Let me tell you, Taylor has Argentina at her feet. Usually, when international artists tour this part of the world, they bring a downsized version of their show (I assume it has to do with financial reasons). But not Taylor, she brought the exact three hour show, she sang three special songs instead of two as she regularly does, she interacts constantly with the audience praising them and thanking them for the efforts they made to be there (particularly the girls who’ve been camping since June!), etc.
    Oh, and the fact that she didnt cancel the show and decided to play on Sunday earned her big points. Even people who had never listened to her music are watching videos and livestreams of the show. It’s a 100% swiftie nation right now.

    • Bettyrose says:

      She does seem to do right by her fans. As I understood it, the venue called for the cancellation due to weather conditions, it wasn’t Tay’s decision (to cancel. It was her decision to reschedule and make good on it for the fans).

      • gah says:

        we live in Buenos Aires right now and had Friday tickets. it was approaching a tropical storm with the level of rain/wind. it would have been miserable for everyone, especially Taylor I imagine. I’m really glad she had the built in buffer to postpone and not cancel.

        argentines are OBSESSED. it’s been a party atmosphere here all week bc of Taylor.

      • Twin Falls says:

        We were on vacation adjacent to a Four Seasons but friends were staying there so we had dinner with them there one night. I honestly can’t remember what I ate but one of them had the fish, the kind where it’s the entire fish on a plate, and got horribly sick. That’s my one and only food at a Four Seasons story.

      • bettyrose says:

        @Twin Falls – I have a general prejudice against hotel food. It’s a necessary convenience sometime, but especially if you’re in a city known for restaurants, it seems like a waste of an opportunity to experience the local culture. Not to say anything about Tay, especially given the storm and the apparently amazing reputation of this particular hotel (I googled it), but it is funny because White Lotus is based on the Four Seasons and rich people eating every meal in the hotel is a big part of the show’s commentary.

    • AnneL says:

      I watched some clips from the shows and some fan stories from their nights there. What an amazing crowd! She gave them her all and they gave it right back. It was so fun to watch through someone’s iPhone video, where you can hear them singing along the entire time. The line “F**k the Patriarchy!” always got an extra jolt of enthusiasm, lol.

      The people who could see screamed extra loud when she ran and kissed Travis. They even did an “Ole Ole Travis!” for him. It was so funny because this 5’11” woman in heels ran straight into him and the guy didn’t budge a centimeter. If (big if!) they do end up getting married, he will have zero trouble carrying her over the threshold.

  5. Plums says:

    lol well I hope the Chiefs win in their super bowl rematch next week, because he’s never gonna hear the end of it about this if they don’t and he underperforms.

    • Backyardmogul says:

      He’s been a pro football player over a decade, I think he knows what he’s doing on a frigging bye week

    • Truthiness says:

      I bet Travis is healing up fine, he flew alone and must have slept the whole flight. Remember the Marvin Gaye song Sexual Healing? To witness this giant stadium enthralled, singing along with his girlfriend must have been a real trip.

    • Agreatreckoning says:

      I’m very fascinated that people believe that a potential Chiefs loss is on Travis Kelce’s shoulders and a trip to Buenos Aires. It’s not. We need a definition of underperformance. The Chiefs/Dolphins game that recently took place was one of his worst games since 2018. He was only targeted 4 times due to being double/triple covered. The Dolphins defense did their job (except the Dolphins didn’t win). They shut out the Chiefs in the 2nd half.

      Kelce going to Buenos Aires during his bye week isn’t a scandal. Look up the 2005 Vikings love boat scandal and players pissing on a lawn.

  6. girl_ninja says:

    This is damn cute. Obnoxious and showy? Yes. Cute still, super cute.

  7. Aimee says:

    I LOVE IT!!!!!!

  8. K says:

    Tay Tay is GIVINGGGGGG with this romance and I am present and accounted for Ma’am. This is a live interactive RomCom❤️❤️

  9. H says:

    I’m not a fan of Taylor Swift’s music, but I am totally here for their romance. Why is this guy different than Calvin, Tom, Jake…who knows? But I’m starting to think Travis is The One.

    • AprilUnderwater says:

      @H Travis isn’t acting like he’s embarrassed to be seen with her or trying to hide her, or trying to compete with her for career attention. Given her history, that’s pretty cool.

    • AnneL says:

      Apparently there is a scene in the “Miss Americana” documentary where she runs to find Joe after a show. He’s backstage. She runs into his arms much as she did with Travis and says “I thought you’d left!” He hugs her and smiles sort of shyly. He’s supportive but clearly feels a little awkward about it.

      There was just such a big contrast between the two moments. I don’t know if Travis has a naturally outgoing personality (he seems to but idk), but he’s been in the NFL for years now and knows how to handle the camera, the crowd, the performative aspect of the whole thing. So if his GF wants to run and embrace him in front of a stadium of thousands of people with iPhone cameras, he can roll with it.

  10. Slush says:

    I was one who said it was unlikely he would be there, just due to his work. But I was wrong! I still stand by that if he hadn’t gone, it wouldn’t have been a bad sign, though.

    Whether they work out long term, I’m happy Taylor has found someone who is so willing to be open and in public with her. You can tell she is just wildly in love and I love that for her

    • Twin Falls says:

      I’m here in the so wrong seats, too. Flying by private jet is probably a lot easier on a person than mere mortals can understand lol. The run off after the show was adorable and I’m sure totally worth being there to him.

      • Slush says:

        It’s FOR SURE easier on you to fly private. But even then, I wouldn’t have thought it was a bad sign if he stayed home.

        I agree, I’m sure he loved being there. They are so cute.

    • Pittie Mom says:

      I am another one on the “wrong” bench 😂

  11. Blithe says:

    I am so Not a Taylor Swift fan. Or a football fan. But I think this is adorable as heck! Awww! lol

    I’ve been flinching for months every time I check out the news: politics and war. Now, I’m like: “Travis has pants with little ice pops on them!…Taylor looks Happyyyyyy! …. “ lol. It’s fun.

  12. Bettyrose says:

    Eating at the Four Seasons and not at a local place is so White Lotus, but I get that it’s a huge production for Tay to go out in public (and she probably doesn’t want to leave that hotel room with Travis for too long). I’ve never stayed at a 5 star hotel. Is the restaurant food actually good? I’m picturing pasta at the Marriott and cringing.

    • gah says:

      the Four Seasons bar has the best burger in Buenos Aires and it’s…$14 approximately!?

      they also (according to my 9 year old) have the best chocolate ice cream in the world.

      BA has some amazing restaurants and the prices are cheap. the Four Seasons has impeccably trained staff, a good solid but small menu for each of their dining options and must have the security on lock- her guys were there and kept people from bothering her from what I could see.

      def not Marriott levels! the only fancier hotel is the Duhau but it doesn’t have enough rooms I think for her team.

    • Felicity Fox says:

      I’ve stayed at many 5-star hotels and the food is not always good—sometimes it’s awful.

    • sunny says:

      Yes, five star hotels usually have terrific in-house restaurants or at least the ones I have been lucky enough to stay at. The markup on menu items is pretty wild though because you pay a premium for both the atmosphere and convenience

    • Kate says:

      I think there was also a terrible storm that day, which cancelled the concert, so probably added reason to stay in. Hotel restaurants are hit and miss but I’d assume the four seasons is reliably good.

      • Bettyrose says:

        Yeah the storm is a good point. Indoor eating probably ideal. But I’d love to wander the streets of Buenos Aires and let the culinary smells decode where I eat.

    • Ciotog says:

      Buenos Aires has amazing food everywhere.

    • Slush says:

      I would give her a break on that. Aside from the storm, you’re right on that her going anywhere is such a huge production. We all saw the crowd outside that wedding she went to. I wouldn’t really want to go out in the world if I were her either.

    • Agreatreckoning says:

      @Bettyrose, why are you picturing that? It would take a few seconds on google to learn about the Elena restaurant.
      https://www.thebespokeblackbook.com/elena-at-four-seasons-hotel-buenos-aires/

      I’m lost in the thinking. Maybe I have bad taste? Two of my fave meals were at hotel restaurants. Hotel del Coronado and the Renaissance’s Sam & Harry’s (no longer in existence, Covid took them out, amazing food).

      But, I am probably less fancy. I enjoy remembering ordering the Super Sailor at Howard Johnson’s.

  13. Nicki says:

    She’s always dated boys before. Grownups, but boys. Travis is a man, seems grounded and normal. I hope this works out for both of them. His bde certainly doesn’t hurt. 🙂

    • Bettyrose says:

      I love that description. Most of us can relate to the difference between an emotional child and an emotional adult.

    • Shawna says:

      And they don’t look like siblings, either.

      • Christine says:

        LOL!

        I’m new to caring about Taylor’s romantic life, which ex looked like her sibling?

      • Barbara says:

        lol – Joe Alwyn definitely looked like her sibling.

      • Abby says:

        @christine I always thought she and Joe Alwyn looked like siblings.

      • Christine says:

        Thank you! I just snagged this comment from the CB post about Joe and Taylor’s breakup, and it’s making me roll:

        “IMO I think Taylor has gotten so famous she’ll have to date someone not in the public eye to get it to work. No man is going to be equal to her level of fame, and I can’t see any man who’s trying to be famous handling being second fiddle and they always will be.”

        The internet didn’t see Travis Kelce coming.

      • AprilUnderwater says:

        @Christine – Calvin Harris could’ve been a sibling too

  14. Elle says:

    As soon as I saw he was a libra, I knew this could be a good match. I don’t think she’s been with a libra before. I’m a Libra and my hubby is a Sag. It’s super compatible. In an article I read Travis has a Sag moon. My husband also has a Libra moon. The partner who has the same moon sign as your sun sign loves and understands the way you act in the world and the sun partner understands how to put your thoughts into action. I already am getting this vibe from them, like he is totally impressed with her and she is feeling pumped up. Fun to watch.

    • Smalltowngirl says:

      Travis also shares a birthday with her beloved late grandmother. When I read that I got chills because I am big on signs from the universe. They do have such compatible chemistry.

    • Libra says:

      Fellow Libra here. I’m surprised he is Libra with the way he is jumping into this relationship head first.

    • AnneL says:

      I’m a Sag and I only recently found out Taylor was one too. I didn’t really follow her before this whole fun distracting romance started, though I was familiar with a lot of her songs. Britney Spears posted something supportive of Taylor over the weekend and apparently she’s also a Sag. My birthday is between theirs.

      I have no idea what that means, lol. Does it mean that you like to socialize and can chat up a total stranger, but also need to power down like a robot after a big party and re-charge? ALONE?

  15. kelleybelle says:

    Do these two have to make the “news” every goddamned time they turn their heads?

    • Mika says:

      They dont have to but… read the chat above.

      Sometimes we just have to give the people what they want.

      • Christine says:

        Sincerely, kelleybelle, everything in the world news is horrific. Except for Travis and Taylor. I don’t even care if they are true love goals. I am 49 years old, and my gaze is not ever starry, I’m a single mom to a 13 year old that is very cranky.

        They are giving me a moment of time where things are just fun, and I don’t have to worry about anything other than watching two pretty people fall in love.

        Maybe find some peace in a happy celebrity story?

  16. Cali says:

    Taylor went to a steak place and brought her own beefcake!

  17. Normades says:

    OMG that body language is adorbs. She runs after him like a big dork, he’s beaming, kisses her and quickly escorts her backstage (while she’s still kissing him). I think I watched it 9 times.

    • Truthiness says:

      💯. He always looks like the cat that got the cream. And she IS a big dork, wearing her heart on her sleeve and he’s into it. With the whole world in a shit storm, it’s nice to see a real life rom com happening.

    • AnneL says:

      She really is a big dork. I said it before: she has golden retriever energy and so does he, IMO.

      It’s just so funny to see this woman give a three hour concert, singing hit songs she wrote, playing two instruments, interacting with fans easily, and even doing something that does NOT come naturally to her (dancing). Then she gives a triumphant bow and…..runs straight to the guy waiting in the wings with a cheesy grin on her face and launches herself at him.

  18. Lucía says:

    Here in Argentina we’re one week away from the Presidential elections in which the (god awful) far right candidate is not going down without a fight. Things are quite tense on that aspect right now. However, Taylor’s presence here is just..something else. I’m not even going to the show and I just feel so happy to see all of her fans so excited. It truly makes me emotional. Not everything is lost.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes, an existential threat politically to the entire country but aT LEaSt tAyLOr SwiFT iS hErE, hOpE iSnT LoSt !

      🙄

      • ML says:

        Javier Milei, that horrendous, chainsaw-wielding Trump admirer, is doing waaaayyy too well in the polls. The Argentinian economy is so bad that the prices for stuff (like bread, for instance) changes twice a day. This is what we get in the news over in Europe, anyway. Remember the chaos and hopelessness of Trump? I totally understand (especially TS fans) being sooo happy she’s there to let them escape reality a bit. Taylor is controversial, but she is in no way Trumpian.

      • Cee says:

        Yes, and on the other side we have Massa, the current Economy Minister and de facto president since he took office as Minister, seeing as the current President and VP are in hiding and silent. He calls ALL the shots. He has also risen inflation to 140% in ONE YEAR, decimated jobs and empoverished people. 8 out of 10 kids do not eat even 2 meals in a day. People with university and master degrees can barely cover rent. A coca cola bottle is more expensive than our second highest denomination bank note. Public Hospitals are forced to reutilise medical goods because there is a shortage and imports are closed unless you pay a bribe (10-15% FOB) Suegeries are being postponed and cancelled.

        But yes, the other candidate is the only scary one. We’re screwed either way but don’t let facts get in the way!

      • Lisa says:

        Was this necessary? Someone talked about how stressful things are in their home country and this visit brought some joy and you felt the need to be a jerk?

        If Taylor upsets you to this degree, or people liking her and having fun with this does- skip the post.

        But grow up and stop being a jerk because people don’t agree with you.

  19. crazyoldlady says:

    I am happy for them both — this pairing makes perfect sense to me. He fits the bill – the man she has been singing about all these years. He takes care of her, respects her, can protect her — he has his own very different career where is he is very successful, he’s hysterically funny (listen to New Heights and die laughing) and he’s hot AF. My guess is their childhood backgrounds are fairly similar. She has found her Hallmark ending hero – she is living the Rom Com — and it’s perfect for her. Go Taylor!

    • Christine says:

      Complete with divorced parents who act like actual adults and can still be around each other!

  20. Abby says:

    This whole thing has brought me so much joy. Her singing end game, changing the lyrics to Karma and running into his arms, and his responses to her and the fans. He held up a PRINTED out sign that said “We Will Stay” (while she was singing The Archer, which has the lyrics “I’ve been the archer
    I’ve been the prey
    Who could ever leave me, darling?
    But who could stay? You could stay.”)

    It’s so perfect. I’m really rooting for them.

  21. Tila says:

    The investment people have in this relationship is creepy. Honestly, I really think a lot of TS fans need help.

    • Kebbie says:

      Seems like it’s not just Taylor Swift fans, the general public is really buying into all this. Like believing it’s real and he’s *the one* for her.

      As I said above, she was just telling Matty Healy “I love you” on stage a couple of months ago. It’s always like this with her.

      The only difference this time is it’s a charming, well-liked football player, so the general public (in the US) is more interested. Nothing else is different. It just makes me laugh.

    • QuiteContraryi says:

      You must be fun at parties LOL.

      It’s called escapism. The real world is terrible right now. Finding a little vicarious joy is a good coping strategy.

      • Lola says:

        @QUITECONTRARYI

        Someone points out just a few months ago Swift was doubling down on dating a racist – someone who literally watches black women get beaten & SA’d on camera and gets off on it – and YOU have the gall to knock that person, like they’re raining on your parade of escapism by daring to point out how this whole charade is making people forget what happened.
        ‘You care about racism? You must be fun at parties LOL’ – that’s you, right here, right now. Don’t ever pretend to be an ally, ever. We see through you.

      • Christine says:

        Word, QuiteContrary.

        I can watch Trump spew his vomit all over the place, or focus entirely on the fact that Ukraine is STILL fighting for their country, not to mention Gaza and Israel.

        What I am not going to do is stress over Taylor having a brief moment with a racist. And he is a racist, but the planet is falling apart, entirely.

      • QuiteContrary says:

        @Lola: I wasn’t responding to Kebbie’s post about Matt Healy — I only saw that just now.

        I was responding to Tila.

        Lesson learned tonight: Don’t comment on my phone, when it’s not clear where the comment will appear (I actually just logged onto my laptop to clear this up.)

        Matt Healy is a monster. I’d never dismiss anyone’s concerns about that a**hole.

        I was being glib about the fact that Taylor’s relationship with Travis Kelce is making people happy right now. The world is truly terrible — that’s all. Second lesson learned: Don’t be glib.

        Take care.

  22. J.Ferber says:

    I have to admit when she ran into his arms, they kissed and he pulled her behind the curtains— swoon. They are so hot and so cute together. They really seem to be on the same wavelength. Good for both of them. And I agree that things are so crappy in the world that this happiness and joy of theirs is really a small godsend to the rest of us. So nice to see.

  23. Eva says:

    She is giving me “most popular girl in school who is main cheerleader and has her clique and likes bullying nerds” vibes.

    • AnneL says:

      She doesn’t have a bullying vibe at all to me. She’s not Regina George; she’s too much of a dork for that. She’s popular, yes, but she’s not cool. There’s a difference.

  24. Michelle says:

    I love this relationship and it’s not just about the romance. It’s about rooting for a woman who has taken on the male-dominated music industry and beat them. She’s a badass in business who couldn’t find a partner who wasn’t put off by her success. Then she met Travis who supports her and all that comes with her.

    THAT is why some many are invested in this relationship, IMO. And he is HOT.

  25. Leah says:

    Lots of old bitter peeps in these comments. I think this is a great relationship for both if ya really look at them. Both at the top of their fields very close to their parents that come to all the games/concerts etc Both have dealt w/ the media/fame for over a decade and they light up around the other. I think these two might be together for the long haul. Also they are private but not secret which was her last dudes issues w/ her fame. PS TS doesn’t need a PR relationship & TK really doesn’t either. Celebrate love y’all