Nicholas Witchell: The Palace should have tried harder to work with the Sussexes

Nicholas Witchell was the BBC’s royal correspondent for 25 years, and he retired this week, on Christmas Day. Ahead of his retirement, he sat down with Roya Nikkhah at the Times of London to talk about the Windsors, the role of royal reporting and of course the Duke and Duchess of Sussex. Witchell went viral in 2019, on the day Prince Archie was born, because Witchell, doing a live BBC link-up, lost his train of thought completely and stammered around, trying to avoid saying “the first mixed race child in the royal family.” Witchell’s interview got a lot of headlines this week but really, he’s just saying what most royal reporters have said a million times. Some highlights from this interview:

They can’t ignore the Sussex saga: “You cannot ignore Harry and Meghan and that story, however tedious at times it may become. We’ve fully reported the split, the biography and all the other machinations of it. There have been soap opera aspects to the royal family for a long time and an appetite for the tittle-tattle, scandal end of reporting. It’s not an aspect I feel at home with, but I recognise it is part of the job.”

His viral moment in 2019, when Archie was born: “That was my worst single moment in 48 years. Drying up in front of the audience live on the telly. It was about Harry and Meghan and maybe subconsciously I just wasn’t that interested… I’ve obviously asked myself what went wrong. I was tired, you need to wind yourself up to stand there and do that, and I hadn’t. I was complacent, you cannot be complacent about live television because if you are, as I demonstrated in front of however many million people, it can bite you.” The public were mostly kind and he received letters of support from actors who had dried up on stage. “I’ve never been able to watch it and it shook my confidence quite a bit.”

His thoughts on the Sussexit: “I think probably it was always going to happen because he was looking for a way out and he perceived her [Meghan] as being the route out from a life that, as we now discover, he had never felt entirely comfortable with — a life to which psychologically I think he was not suited. Should the Palace have tried harder? Yes. In different hands, might it have handled things differently? Yes. I think by that stage the Queen was the age she was and would have found it difficult to understand the anguish Harry was going through.”

He dismisses the Sussexes’ narrative that the Palace machine was against them from the start. He praises their team of unstuffy courtiers — Samantha Cohen, a punchy Australian who served as their private secretary, and the equally punchy Americans Jason Knauf and Sara Latham, who both worked as their communications secretaries. “That team bent over backwards to accommodate them and to be in sympathy with her [Meghan]. Not one of them was the archetypal Buckingham Palace courtier and if anyone was going to carry it off, that team would have done so. Meghan is clearly a very intelligent, articulate, ambitious woman, and you would have thought she would have appreciated the fact that these people were working so hard to make it work.”

Meghan & the culture clash: “It was hugely complex, but I think there was a clash of cultures. I really don’t think race was a significant factor in it, I think it was more nationality and culture than it was race. But I must recognise that I’m an elderly white male — of course that colours my outlook on the world — and it clearly is not how she or they saw things. It’s a huge loss to the royal family, when you think what they might have done had they been prepared to try harder and give it more time. If she had perhaps just been less impatient, less inclined to see well-meaning people as being in some way against her. It’s sad, particularly the relationship [breakdown] between Harry and William.”

He has sympathy for Harry after reading Spare: “I hadn’t fully appreciated the degree to which he was struggling with his mental health until I read Spare.”

But he hates Harry’s battles against the press: “I think they’re misjudged, misguided, a touch paranoid — there is nothing to be gained from them. There is no doubt at all that he, like other members of the royal family, has been badly treated by the media on occasions. But I think they’ve [Harry and Meghan] been overly sensitive. They are public figures, they make use of the media. So they should be more prepared to take the knocks with the positive moments. But that’s not their way. I think their focus has become so narrow and is so suffused with this sense of paranoia that they are failing to recognise the bigger picture, the opportunities that they have. They’re obsessed, he is certainly obsessed, with the way the media portrays him. Unhealthily so.”

His thoughts on William & Kate: “He’s fulfilling a difficult role with considerable skill, panache and commitment — as is his wife. They are capturing public sentiment in a very positive way, I think their image is a good one, they both care very much to do it correctly and to do positive things, to find areas of relevance.” Referring to their work on homelessness, the environment and mental health, he says: “Their commitment to the various causes that they’ve taken to their hearts strikes a chord with the British people. Not everyone, not in all parts of the United Kingdom, but I think they are doing a difficult job as well as anyone could.”

[From The Times]

This is always so hilarious to me: “I think it was more nationality and culture than it was race.” We don’t hate her because she’s Black, we hate her because she’s American! They think that’s a winning argument, that they were on Meghan’s throat from the jump because she’s an American but of course it was never about race, nevermind all of the racist dog-whistles and dehumanization, lies and racist scorn. “If she had perhaps just been less impatient, less inclined to see well-meaning people as being in some way against her.” Kate lied and told everyone that Meghan made her cry. KP staffers were calling her ME-gain and Degree Wife. William’s press secretary sold out the Sussexes in exchange for burying the Rose Hanbury story. But Meghan was just so impatient! She saw the worst in people! His comments about Harry’s press lawsuits are interesting, in that they indicate (once again) that the British media acts as a cartel, and that includes the BBC.

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  1. Tessa says:

    Witchell Harry is not paranoid about the press

    • yupyup says:

      @Tessa Agree! Didn’t Harry just win a case against the press for hacking his, his girlfriends and his friends phones illegally?! I think he wants to really say “If he just let us get away with it then he could stop being so paranoid and just know we do that kind of stuff”. Saying Meg wasn’t patient was more gaslighting bs. This wasn’t a take the good with the bad about being a public figure, the racism was so potent and they wanted and still want her dead.

      I will admit that the UK press adored Meghan at the beginning but William was caught in some rose bushes and didn’t hesitate to throw Meg under the bus. I still think that Will at the time could not understand for the life of him that Harry really did love Meg. Marrying that woman he loved changed Harry’s loyalties and rightly so. Look how Will treats Kate… yikes!

      Yes same stories over and over. We just wanted to abuse them but we didn’t want them to leave either. Even the backhanded “sympathy” for Harry’s mental state not what caused it is gross but let’s keep acting like incandescent rage monster Will is just fine.

      • Christine says:

        “— a life to which psychologically I think he was not suited.”

        Yeah, I agree, yupyup. This gasbag is ringing that bell hard for the British media. Come the fuck on, Harry is the member of that family MOST suited to a life of public service, as evidenced by his LIFE DEVOTED TO PUBLIC SERVICE. Invictus and Sentebale are what, vanity projects? Please.

        They keep cranking out the same old tired narrative, completely ignoring the fact that it’s all lies. Cannot and Willnot are obviously not devoted to anything, much less each other or the U.K., but sure, let’s malign Meghan, Harry, and Americans (while we are at it), AGAIN.

        I can’t believe he has the nerve to say he’s not that interested in Harry and Meghan, in an article heralding his retirement where all he does is talk about them.

        The grieving families of Uvalde murdered children are jumping into the fray, FFS. How in the hell does anyone in England think their con is going to last?

      • Kat says:

        The UK press was just biding its time waiting to attack. Praising Meghan to compare and get a rise out of Kate and William and it worked.

      • Bravo says:

        When exactly did the press “adore” Meghan? I recall Harry’s letter telling them to back off and f off with the racism against her when they were still gf/bf in the dating stage. They never adored her or treated her fairly.

    • DK says:

      The man literally blames his viral F*up moment on “Even though it’s literally my job to be interested, I was so bored by the birth of the Sussexes’ first child, I literally couldn’t form sentences” but yeah, Harry, you’re overreacting and paranoid that the press it out to get you.

      What a self-important nincompoop.

      • yupyup says:

        Yes, it’s the most telling part that he is a racist. What does it being about H&M make it a royal prince being born child’s not something he is interested in? Not really asking but he sure as hell answered it. Because he is bi-racial and that means the white supremacist royal family thing isn’t going if Archie is treated according to their protocol and pecking order.

  2. Anonymous says:

    The palace, royal family and friends should not be racists. Trying means nothing if who they are is racists who hate a biracial woman and her children for being in that family and just existing. Trying at that point would just be pretending and lying. Nothing good comes from that.

  3. SarahLee says:

    Good grief. The only part of this (two parts) that I’ll give him credit for is his comment about not understanding Harry’s battles with mental health issues and also his acknowledgement that he is an old white man who probably doesn’t see things the same way as Meghan and Harry. Spirit of the season has me commenting on the positives, LOL!

    • ShazBot says:

      A few of them are *so close* to getting it sometimes but then it’s like the system comes back in and they robotically spew the palace talking points.
      “I didn’t realize how bad his mental health was” to “they should have just bore it” and
      “I’m an old white man so I probably don’t see it their way” to “they should have just done what all the other old white people said”
      It’s like their brains short circuit at any hint of critical thinking.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        Yeah, there were a few times there that I thought he was going to be okay, but, then, he went completely off the rails. “I’m an elderly white man…” Very perceptive! However, instead of deciding to shut up because what could an elderly white man possibly know about a Black woman’s experience with racism, he just plows ahead to suggest she lacked patience. And he conveniently forgets her suicidal ideation. The BBC and the Guardian often sound just like the gutter press. Our American media is very bad. The British media is many degrees worse.

      • Snuffles says:

        And they never will. Because once they DO get it, they will start questioning the purpose of the whole institution and they’ve been brainwashed their entire lives to believe in it.

      • Jes says:

        And that he had his confidence knocked after *one* viral moment. He can’t take the step further to imagine what the media frenzy and attacks would feel like for Harry and Meghan. Racist, personal, unyielding. And no support from the royal family.

    • Elizabeth says:

      He admits that he’s an old white man who probably didn’t see it their way but still blames Meghan for not trying hard enough or being patient enough when the KP staffers not to mention WIlliam, Kate, Charles and Camilla were were informing the press against them.

    • BeanieBean says:

      I did notice, too, the part where he said Harry really wanted out & saw Meghan as a way to do that, but then so much of the rest of the article was crap. He was right to retire.

  4. Em says:

    It’s been 4 years, when will they stop talking about Harry and Meghan?

    • Leslie says:

      They will never stop talking about Harry and Meghan. Disgustingly, it’s a money-making machine for the press, and the royal rota don’t care about decency, integrity, principles or kindness – their bottom line is all that matters to them.

      • JaneS says:

        Agree! This truly bothers me. The Firm, RR, gutter press will never let up on H&M.
        They are private citizens, living in the US.
        This should have ended all the ugliness in the press, private citizens.
        Nope. IRL, Harry and his family will be dogged by the gutter press for decades if not longer.
        The gutter press is now free to lie at will.
        Because Charles does NOT use his power to cut a deal to get them to back off.
        In fact, sadly, Chuck and William are just fine with letting everyone use Harry as the punching bag.

        IMO, H&M might get some peace and quiet if they moved to Switzerland or Monaco. I only think of these places because several internationally known film stars lived there in relative quiet from the press. Audrey Hepburn, Sean Connery.

      • yupyup says:

        @JaneS Why should they move to Switzerland or Monaco to live in peace and quiet when they live in peace and quiet already ? The RR has always been able to lie at will. They are the ones with H&M living rent free in their heads. H&M moved on and the RBF/RR don’t know anything about what they do until they do it and they still get international headlines. The RR is not the world media and the more they talk the more evident is is that their is zero journalistic integrity. They are still talking about things that happened years ago.

        Even more confused on Charles using this power? He did use this power… to cut off H&M security, to not update their children’s titles, to treat him horribly at the queen’s funeral, his coronation, took away H&M’s home. He uses his power all the time. Charles IS the RR and RR is Charles. He doesn’t want to help them and used all of his power to do what happened to them long before the queen died. He also used his power to make Camilla Queen and not Queen Consort. He doesn’t care about Harry at all and it’s all just for show and story lines of a loving father. He only loves himself and Cam and that’s it. Cam and Charles host teas with the RR. They are the same company/firm.

      • Tessa says:

        No matter where they live. They will still be subject to this constant barrage . Charles is a bad father and could have stopped the media abuse early on.

  5. equality says:

    I think Meghan gave all of them ample opportunity and chances to behave better. She also gave them the benefit of the doubt and didn’t go as hard back as she could have. There is no telling how nasty what Kate said was when she made Meghan cry, but she forgave her and tried to work with her. The only place he is accurate is where he calls himself an elderly white man. And miss me with “maybe subconsciously I just wasn’t that interested” in H&M. When he shuts up about them someone might believe that.

    • Nic919 says:

      I was surprised that Harry referenced stories like the lip gloss one and the baby brain one in his book, but I think he was trying to lay out a picture of all the micro aggressions kate was pulling off against Meghan from the outset.

      And Knauf was a traitor to them.

      • equality says:

        I wonder how much influence his ghost writer and his editor had on things of that sort. One or both may have also realized that all the small things taken together painted a picture without PH coming right out and repeating what was said by Kate.

    • Christine says:

      I am in awe of the grace Meghan continues to show. They haven’t stopped the utter lies in the four years since she’s been gone. Who wasn’t patient, again? Who wasn’t doing their best in horrible circumstances? Please. Just stop.

  6. Wow the gymnastics that were accomplished with this crap article are on par for them. You can say they aren’t a racist family and it wasn’t race till your blue in the face but that is exactly what it is and the icing on the cake was she is also American.

  7. Snuffles says:

    He got one thing right. Harry was always going to leave. If he never met Meghan, he probably would have left after the Queen died. Most likely moving to Africa to live full time, living off of his inheritance.

    • Glamarazzi says:

      Yes I agree with that too. Harry was not going to be the whipping boy forever. He found himself a woman who could help him be independent post-royal-life, and he got out.

    • yupyup says:

      @Snuffles I don’t think Harry would have stayed away had Meghan not married him to be honest. Maybe move away but they would still yank his chain whenever W&K or C&C needed a distraction and then for Will’s kids too. He was not good at finances and was not taught about money and had little or no connections outside of the UK at the level of Tyler Perry. This is how they controlled him. They cut out and control who they can associate with like they did with Meghan’s niece because they want them surrounded by other cult members only so they can’t ask for help. Meghan was and is a god send to Harry. She was the one that inspired people like Tyler Perry to support the first bi-racial princess and her children the royal bi-racial prince and princess of the UK. This American bi-racial, former actress and Duchess did what was impossible to even fathom for Diana, live her own life and leave the RBF in the dust. Could Harry do this on his own and to this level? I don’t think so. He suffered years of trauma and brainwashing that he is now healing from Meg in my opinion already bounced back to confident, joyful, happy and very accomplished life. Seeing her drive is what I think kept Harry going, her drive for her self and for their family.

  8. Beverley says:

    Meghan was impatient? So she should have waited longer to see if they’d stop dragging and racially abusing her? How much longer? 2 years? 5 years? 10 years? How long should one expect racial abuse to finally cease?

    Inquiring minds want to know…

    • HeatherC says:

      Twenty years. By then George may be seriously dating/engaged and there will be a new woman to beat up on. But it may have only been a temporary reprieve, if the hypothetical woman is white, British and vacant, she would be acceptable and then it’s back to Meghan. And powers forbid that Charlotte should “act up.” it would have been blamed on Meghan’s influence obviously. And who knows what kind of antics any of the Wales kids could get up to that would be blamed on the Sussex kids.

      I am so glad she and the kids are out of that pus filled fish bowl.

      • equality says:

        No, then they would have transferred to Archie and Lili and been abusing them more. You know anyone that Archie dated they would consider fair game. Getting out was the best move. And how long had PH been in? Things didn’t ever get better for him even with being a veteran who served his country.

    • Eurydice says:

      It seems the answer is she should have waited until she committed suicide.

      It’s so weird to me that this guy can acknowledge Harry’s pain, but not Meghan’s.

      • Caplan says:

        Because he dehumaizes her like they all do. The victim blaming is strong.

      • Christine says:

        Agreed. Meghan was the one who completely changed her life to marry Harry, and this man has zero compassion for her, at all. It’s absolutely insane to me that anyone would buy this, even a little bit.

  9. Amy Bee says:

    If he wasn’t interested in Harry and Meghan why he did spend a lot of his time speaking about them in this interview? He would have more credibility if he had just admitted that he trying very hard not to say the wrong thing. There’s no doubt that Meghan’s race was the main problem because as he points out there were Americans in the Royal household. The fact is the Royal Family believed that didn’t need to adapt and change to accommodate Meghan but she had to.

    • Islandgirl says:

      “If he had just admitted that he trying very hard not to say the wrong thing”.
      This!!!
      And I would give him some grace for that challenge…not wanting to say the wrong thing.
      Even though, as a professional, from the time he received the assignment he should have written something that he was comfort with ànd practiced it.
      The rest is him justifying and making excuses for the horrible way Meghan and Harry were treated.
      What did they want, for her to give them enough to to make her actually commit suicide?

  10. Thelma says:

    I’m glad Witchell acknowledges that he’s out of touch. If he can’t accept the documented microaggressions that Meghan faced, he has no business commenting on whether there was racism or not. I’m just glad that with the passage of time, these old dodders with significant unconscious bias will be fewer. It’s clear from polls that younger people are significantly more open and that’s what’s going to help spell doom for William and Kate— they are just so out of touch with modern England. Combine that with their laziness and William’s intention to scale back on the work that the monarchy does….

    • Jais says:

      It will be interesting to see who takes Witchell’s place at the bbc. It won’t be an old white man but it will surely be another person that will say the same bs that Witchell just did. I’m wondering if it will be roya nikkah. I saw a tweet saying it’s bw roya nikkah, Chris ship of itv and Rhiannon mills. Not sure how true that is though.

    • Jais says:

      It will be interesting to see who takes Witchell’s place at the bbc. It won’t be an old white man but it will surely be another person that will say the same bs that Witchell just did. I’m wondering if it will be roya nikkah. I saw a tweet saying it’s bw roya nikkah, Chris ship of itv and Rhiannon mills. Not sure how true that is though.

  11. Snuffles says:

    These people are going to spend the rest of their lives trying to justify and explain away their horrible behavior. None of it will bring Harry back into the fold.

  12. Eurydice says:

    With regard to the media, I think H&M would have been more prepared to take the knocks along with the positive moments, if there had been actual positive moments.

  13. Myeh says:

    I recently read a very apt quote which should be written on a piece of paper used to smack feeble minded mealy mouthed a**hats like this man upside their incongruously absurd logic performing mental gymnastics, while displaying their cowardice both sides-ing the issue “..that the great stumbling block in his stride
    toward freedom is not the White Citizen’s Councilor
    or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who
    is more devoted to ‘order’ than to justice; who
    prefers a negative peace which is the absence of
    tension to a positive peace which is the presence of
    justice; who constantly says: ‘I agree with you in the
    goal you seek, but I cannot agree with your methods
    of direct action’; who paternalistically believes he
    can set the timetable for another man’s freedom;
    who lives by a mythical concept of time and who
    constantly advises the Negro to wait for a ‘more

    convenient season.
    -Martin Luther King Jr.

    • Jaded says:

      Very apt quote. I’m currently reading “Brit(ish)” by Afua Hirsch, a biracial woman born and raised in England, and am riveted by it. She details the countless microaggressions she’s endured and the whitewashing of the history of the British slave trade in most schools and universities. I highly recommend it. https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/jan/18/british-by-afua-hirsch-review

      • windyriver says:

        I remember her from the commentary she and David Olusoga did in the H&M documentary, providing background about the Empire, the slave trade, racism in Britain, etc. I particularly recall her discussion around the blackamoor brooch, noting how pervasive that imagery continues to be in any “traditional” venue in Britain – palaces, stately homes.

      • Myeh says:

        Thanks for the book recommendation Jaded, I requested it online at my library.

      • ArtHistorian says:

        Btw, David Olusoga needs a bodyguard when he gives public talks about the history of the British empire because he receives so many threats against his person.

        It really says something about the toxic state in the UK regarding its less that stellar past. However, it is mainly non-white historians who gets threats when they talk about the UK’s imperial history. It is something the Scottish historian William Dalrymple has spoken about. He researches the same history but he’s a posh white Scot – and he doesn’t get threats when he writes and speaks critically about the same sore imperial subjects.

  14. Jais says:

    Whew, way to show yourself out the door, Witchell. Everything he said in this interview just makes it all the more clear why Meghan had to get out of there.

    • Amy Bee says:

      Yeah he thinks he’s helping the family with his comments but they just made me think that things were much more worse for Meghan than we know.

    • Christine says:

      Well said, Jais. He is doing no one any favors with this one, including himself.

  15. Slush says:

    I do think Meg being American could have played a part because she wasn’t born into the cult like royalist Brits.

    The whole machinations of the royal family really depend on each person buying into all the bullsh*t, and as an American, I’m not sure what was possible for her. We just fundamentally dont believe what one needs to believe to prop up a hereditary monarchy.

    That is absolutely not to belittle the racism against her, to be clear. Just pointing out that intersectionality exists.

    • Brassy Rebel says:

      The racism was surely the primary factor. But you’re not wrong about the difficulty any progressive American would face in adjusting to being part of a family which believes in its own inherent superiority. I believe Meghan did experience cognitive dissonance since her own beliefs and values are so different. And the royals knew, so the distrust on both sides was real even though Meghan was determined to fit in for Harry’s sake.

      • Slush says:

        Yes, exactly.

        If she were a perfect royalist, but still black, she still would have faced the racism she faced. Any friction caused by her being American was secondary- but to pretend it didn’t exist is incorrect, IMO.

    • Nerd says:

      I have always had an issue with the premise that being American is an issue. There are millions of people all over the world who have moved to places where their culture and even language is different from what they grew up knowing, yet they manage to acclimate to their new cultural surroundings. Meghan live old in Canada for close to seven years, traveled extensively to countries and cultures different from her own, lived briefly in Argentina working with diplomats and has had a long history of interacting with different cultures and becoming more involved in learning their culture and becoming more fluent in not just their language but their way of life. Something that most of the royals she is now related to can’t have said about them. I have a hard time believing that someone who is not only college educated (International Relations being one of her majors) and her extensive travels working and learning about various cultures would have an issue adjusting to the culture and country where she was growing her family with the man she loves. I think the truth is that there are people who have a distorted view of what an American is and are using that view to pass this off as xenophobic and not racist. They know that their followers will believe the stupid American who is incapable of understanding the most mundane things would find learning a new culture but ignore the fact that Meghan doesn’t fit that description. Meghan has even shown that she is more capable than the ones British born and in most cases royally born.

      • Slush says:

        @nerd- you’re totally correct if we’re referring to British culture in general. But that’s not what I’m talking about.

        What I’m talking about (as an American, BTW) is the specific culture of the *aristocracy*, particularly within the Royal Family. If I didn’t make that clear or misspoke, apologies.

        I don’t think there are many Americans who would take kindly to the ideas inherent to hereditary monarchy.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        “The racism was surely the primary factor.” Thought I was being clear about that. But two things can be true simultaneously. I described Meghan as “a progressive American”, not just any American. Most people, including Meghan, who have lived in completely different cultures, have never lived in a family which sees itself as “inherently superior” to the rest of humanity. I stand by that as a part of the problem Meghan had with this bunch.

  16. Slush says:

    I think Meg being American could have played a part because she wasn’t born into the cult like royalist Brits.

    The whole machinations of the royal family as an institution really depend on each person buying into all the bullsh*t, and as an American, I’m not sure what was possible for her.

    That is absolutely not to belittle the racism against her, to be clear. Just pointing out that intersectionality exists.

    • sevenblue says:

      If she was an american white woman, there would be no dog whistling from the press to all the racist people in UK. All the names she was called on royal social media was racist ones. The hatred she got was because of her race, if she was a white woman, they would just make fun of her, not create a whole industry based on hate.

      • Slush says:

        Correct. She experienced really horrible racism in her time in the BRF. I’m not arguing that she didn’t.

  17. Kokiri says:

    The queen reigned for 70 years so a jubilee, she died, a new king, a coronation.
    Monumental events for the rf these past years & all they can talk about is how bad Harry was for leaving, & the Meghan was wrong.
    The rf is so boring. Mind numbingly boring.
    The hats, the coats, the kids, all boring. There’s not an ounce of charisma among them.
    It was all Diana, & now it’s H&M.

  18. Over it says:

    Oh please, he just wasn’t that interested and was complacent. B-ch you a big racist. You could not fix your face to acknowledge the first mixed race child born into that family. It was literally killing you that your perfect all white balcony was about to have a little more color. Imagine Just hating a child for not being pure white. This man is a disgrace to journalism and society as a whole. May his retirement be miserable as he is

    • Nutella toast says:

      He kept saying , “the first Anglo-American birth in the royal family” over and over. Yikes.

  19. Josephine says:

    If Duchess Meghan waited, 1 ) she would have self harmed and died, 2) she would have had an accident a la Diana for herself and Archie, 3) her reputation would be so damaged via the British press she would never work again. The system and psychological torture Prince Harry and subsequently Princess Meghan were subjected to from the symbiotic relationship between the Firm and the Tabloid Media is due to money. Prince Harry wanted a family and they (Media and Firm) wanted the status quo ( single Prince Harry) who they could make stories about and create drama for the media. Ultimately, Harry and Meghan would have lost each other and their relationship; which was the ultimate goal of the Firm, Family and the Tabloid Media.

    • Caribbean says:

      Exactly @Josephine.
      I still do not understand how fans and haters alike gloss over everything that was done in plain sight…WE ALL HAVE SEEN IT!
      Just 1…Taking away their security was and is HUGE…this is not saying, we disagree with you, this is saying we want you D$AD…PLEASE NOTE…this was BEFORE any Oprah or Netflix or Book Deal.
      The RF deemed an accused pedophile worthy of security (and inclusion in events including going to Church), but a son that asks to make his OWN way and work for the Crown must be exposed to SURE DANGER.

      AT the very least, if H & M had stayed (to seem benevolent), the RF would have exiled H & M to Africa under house arrest and tell the world that they were there working for the crown. At the worst, we can use our eyes and imagination…

  20. Becks1 says:

    Some of these people come so close and then just completely miss it. He admits he’s an elderly white man so his perception of what is racist may not be the best. Okay. And then he completely wanders away from that point and insists H&M should have waited, that the press intrusion wasn’t that bad, that Meghan was impatient, that Jason Knauf is so brilliant he could have figured it out for them, etc.

    Like……no. Just no.

    • Eurydice says:

      I imagine Jason Knauf could have figured something out for them, if he wasn’t actively working against them.

      • Angie says:

        No just no. He is not a white savior. Meghan and Harry had to figure out what to do themselves. I believe Meghan saw what was down the pike after her treatment from the family and tabloid press and said I have to get out to save myself from the madness. Having no support was not a way for her to exist in that family. The only safe and reasonable way was to get out. I am glad they put their family first meaning her, Harry and Archie. They are never ever getting back together with that family. Living their life in California is the only way for them.

      • Eurydice says:

        @Angie – I was being sarcastic.

  21. Blackapinay says:

    If Meghan was a British subject, what would be the excuse then?

    Such clowns.

    • Sherri says:

      This! If Meg had been a black woman from Liverpool or Bristol or Newcastle, would it have made a difference? No. The BRF is racist – end of story.

  22. bubblegum dreams says:

    I am going to pay this slug’s bs no mind and just say that I love that picture of Harry and Meghan exchanging glances in that private moment in a crowd. Beautiful picture of two people in love and a team.

  23. kyliegirl says:

    I find it repugnant when they say Meghan was impatient. These are the same people who when they receive a 10th of the harassment that Meghan has received break down and cry and say they can’t bear it, and go into victim mode. They never acknowledge how unbearable and in Meghan’s words nearly unsurvivable the treatment Meghan receives, they just keep contributing to it and say she and Harry are thin-skinned. But yeah, she was impatient and should have waited it out. Unbelievable.

  24. Nerd says:

    So is he’ saying that “We don’t hate her because of her race. We hate her because of her nationality AND her race”???

    Does he seriously think that saying the biggest reason for hating her was more because she’s American than her being a woman of color makes this hatred okay? He’s seriously trying to imply that being more of a nationalist and less of a racists makes all of this okay. Being a little or a lot nationalist, bigoted, racist, antisemitist, homophobic or any other form of hate towards someone for being different from you is wrong. This isn’t some chemistry lab where there is some precise concoction of hate is reasonable or okay.

    His attempt to pass his fumbling announcement of Archie’s birth as just him not being interested in Archie’s parents and not an obvious display of a racist (with five decades of experience) malfunctioning on live television basically him calling all of us idiots who will believe anything.

    • ChattyCath says:

      Huh! So much for WanK ‘winning over America’ or some such nonsense. Peace in the Middle East went well too didn’t it?

  25. Steph says:

    The palace removed Meghan’s name from Archie’s birth certificate. How the hell is that trying to work with them?! Miss me with the bs.

  26. Mary S says:

    If there was an ounce of truth to the notion that Meghan should have been patient and everything would have worked out, hating and destroying her wouldn’t be a billion dollar industry 8 years and counting. Staying just would have meant the continuation of the industry posthumously for her. Leaving gives her the opportunity to survive and to partner with Harry in protecting their children.

  27. aquarius64 says:

    Xenophobia played a big role of Meghan’s treatment. What cracks me up is Americans who defend the BRF, as if the would have received better treatment. That class of Brit will still look down on you because you’re an American, even if you come from generational wealth. They may take your money but you’re still trash to them. Yoko Ono’ing Meghan is a lazy way to not accept responsibility.

    • AC says:

      They’re using a lot of these MAGAs to push the BRF narratives. If they’re smart one day, they’ll realize the BRF looks down at all Americans esp the MAGAs.

  28. Haylie says:

    I’ll just toss this old vile racist into the pile of the ones who hoped Meg would eventually kill herself if she stuck around long enough for the abuse.

    I mean, he was so broken about a child who is 1/4 black being born into the family, he had a breakdown on tv. He was deffo interested.

  29. Lizzie Bennett says:

    Once again we have someone who doesn’t understand or refuses to try and understand how insidious racism is because it doesn’t directly affect him. Witchell needs to have several seats and STFU.

  30. crazyoldlady says:

    more old white people blathering on about things that are not their business

  31. Seraphina says:

    If reading this article doesn’t drive home the idea that H&M are free from an archaic, classist and racist family/institution, I don’t know what will. It is time for this institution to be thrown out.
    As far as his statement “he had never felt entirely comfortable with — a life to which psychologically I think he was not suited.” He tries to put the blame on Harry but that would be like saying to an abused wife that she was not psychologically suited for that marriage or when dealing with a toxic boss the employee is not psychologically suited for it.
    And as far as the queen not understanding what H&M were going through, HTF would she??? Everyone kissed her ass from the day her father became king to the day she died.
    This article did a great job of raising my blood pressure.
    END THE MONARCHY and all the men and women like this assclown.

  32. Jaded says:

    “But I think they’ve [Harry and Meghan] been overly sensitive.”

    DAFUQ?? For the love of god Witchell, they were receiving credible death threats and vicious racist bile against Meghan CONSTANTLY. You seem to have conveniently forgotten the media attacks — “Straight Outta Compton”, “Doria’s Hanging Out With Drug Dealers”, the cartoon of Archie as a chimp. They were surrounded by leakers and briefed against by Harry’s OWN FAMILY. His dogsh*t father pulled their security and took their house away. Oh but the Sussexes were just being *overly sensitive*. GMAFB.

  33. MsIam says:

    I LOL at these media folks pretending like they weren’t reporting months before the Sussexes left that the “family” wanted to send them away to Malta or “Africa”. ” If only Meghan had been more patient and given things more time!” Time for what exactly and who was it that needed to be more patient? Time for their evil plot to cause Meghan to divorce Harry is the real truth whether this old fool wants to admit it or not.

  34. Mary Pester says:

    You didn’t get it wrong. YOU LIED just like your lieing now, you didn’t “dry up” you couldn’t, as an “old white racist man”, bring yourself to say, “the first biracial baby”, you bloody hypocrite, YOU wrote an article years ago saying that “Harry was founding Invictus as” through his own mental trauma as a young boy, and as someone who has been and seen first hand what a war zone can do to someone “, he is finding the founding of it of great help to his own mental wellbeing! Oh and a final thing you little prick, actors don’t dry up, they NEVER call it drying up, THEY call it corpsing! Just ask Kate, because she” ACTS “the part of An Aristocrat every day of her miserable life

    • Eurydice says:

      Yes, this is the point. All this self-deprecating “I’m just an old clueless white man,” is just a cover-up. He’s a liar, and a liar about everything. There’s no way he could have been a BBC royal insider for a quarter of a century without knowing where every stinking thing is buried.

  35. Lulu says:

    Listen, he knows the truth but like so many of the British press he will repeat the palace lies while expecting to be rewarded with an OBE or some such.

  36. Mary Pester says:

    Well my celebchy friends, I hope you had a lovely Christmas day. I had a quiet one with my lovely Glynn. I managed to cook him a proper Christmas dinner and you should have seen the pleasure on his face while he was eating it. I’m having to spend the full day in bed today as it took it out of me! Glynn is sat in his chair next to the bed, watching war films on the television (his favourite thing) lol, and me, well today is my birthday, and I’ve had a lovely lot of cards and a few visitors and I now have a bungalow full of roses, lol, white ones, peach ones, pink ones yellow ones (my favourites) a red one with 3 small rose plants in an indoor planter, so I’m feeling really blessed and spoilt. Enjoy the rest of the festive period, love to all x

  37. JaneS says:

    I promise you, QE KNEW that when she passed, The Monarchy was effectively over.
    IMO, everyone knew it.

  38. Melbs says:

    It’s clear that he only person he really takes issue with is Meghan. His takes on Harry were largely on point. Especially the one about him always leaving. But he’s still from the crop of British media who thinks they should just be able to say and do whatever. And if anyone pushes back they are the problem. Which makes Harry a problem. You can’t credit Spare then walk away and still have that position. What a toxic country.

  39. kelleybelle says:

    I came here to say a great big duuuhhhh, and was greeted by a picture of one of my least favourite people, that pompous ass Dickie Arbiter. Ugh. Now, going on eight years, he finally gets it?

  40. QuiteContrary says:

    Harry’s mother was chased to her death by the rabid media. He’s not paranoid—he’s determined to save his wife from a similar fate.

    And Winchell’s dismissiveness toward Meghan is yet another illustration of the racism Meghan endured.

  41. sevenblue says:

    What confuses me, these people now know that Meghan paid for her own clothes, Harry & Meghan weren’t living in high luxury like it was reported at the time, whatever Harry was getting from crown was in no way would help them build generational wealth for their children. So, when they say, Meghan should be more patient, waited a little longer, I want to ask “for what?”. So, they would have to ask for money from William after he gets the crown? The status quo didn’t offer anything to them to make them stay. They were already paying market rate for the home they were “gifted”. You should be really dumb to stay where you are or willing to do shady things to make some money like Andrew & Fergie. The future looked so bad when they were in the firm, that’s why it was / is no brainer why they left.

    • They are saying that Meghan should have accepted that they she couldn’t possibly know she was better than their crappy racist terms.
      In their warped vision of the world, if Kate and Camilla could accept being handmaidens to abuse and misogyny, why wouldn’t an American?
      Note: if someone working at the BBC for 25 years doesn’t understand how British national newspaper enabling phone hacking, invasion of privacy and vendetta journalism destroys social cohesion….what does that say about the BBC?

  42. Shoegirl77 says:

    Nothing to see here, just another day in DARVOland.

    • Slippers4life says:

      Right? This is all because Harry won on 15 counts in the phone hacking case. They all felt the magnitude of this so they now need to darvo the crap out of it. Harry’s coming for them all!

  43. Lululu says:

    Good grief, he is wrong about literally everything in this interview. Telling, isn’t it?

  44. Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday Mary! So glad you and your Glynn had a lovely Christmas. Sending you love from Canada ❤️

  45. Saucy&Sassy says:

    Wow, Meghan should have been patient to the point of suicide, huh? That’s what he’s implying here.

    ““I think they’re misjudged, misguided, a touch paranoid — there is nothing to be gained from them. There is no doubt at all that he, like other members of the royal family, has been badly treated by the media on occasions.” But not one word does he say anything about the illegal things the bm did in order to harass and abuse Harry–it’s not paranoid if it’s really happening, you fool.

    It does sound like he doesn’t expect Harry to return. I think that’s progress of a sort.

    If they really want WanK to look like they’re doing their jobs, I suggest they fire all of the yes men in the palace and hire people who know what they’re doing. It’s always possible that what the government want are these two to flail along and do what the government wants them to. Probably closer to the truth than we think.

    As many times as the bm tries, you cannot redefine racism to fit your wants. It is what it is and if the shoe fits . . .

  46. Harper says:

    Meghan should have been patient until William had sorted out his affair with Rose, offloaded Kate, and established himself as the King of the Royal Siblings and Most Popular Royal Ever in the History of the World. Instead, H&M saw the writing on the wall of what their family’s future would be like under the heel of a man that actually uses violence when aggrieved and they smartly peaced out.

    • Angie says:

      You said it.👏👏👏👏👏

    • Christine says:

      I shudder to think of how much worse it would be if they had stayed to the point where Willnot was in charge. We can all see he has slashed the clothing allowance of his own damn wife, Chuck was far more generous, and he told Harry he didn’t have the money for Meghan. These people are unbelievable in their delusions.

    • bisynaptic says:

      🎯

  47. Lady Digby says:

    In 2005, Prince Charles and his sons Princes William and Harry were on a skiing trip together at Klosters in Switzerland. Several media members were present and had questions for the heir apparent as it was just a few days before his wedding to Camilla Parker Bowles.

    When asked: “Prince Charles, how are you feeling?” The future king responded: “I think, it’s a very nice thought, isn’t it? I’m very glad you’ve heard of it anyway.” He then began to smile wryly while muttering to his children and when he did, the microphones in front of him picked up every word.

    “I hate doing this. Bloody people,” Charles was heard whispering under his breath and then singling out BBC royal correspondent Nicholas Witchell specifically, saying: “I can’t bear that man anyway. He’s so awful, he really is. I hate these people.”

    • Lady Digby says:

      And other people say…

      “Wasn’t his office nickname reported once to be the “Poison Carrot”? Presumably after he worked through the 1989 strike?

      Although Charles calling him an “odious little man” is very much a case of pots, kettles and soot-encrusted bottoms, if reports of the heir to the throne’s attitudes and prima donna behaviour are to be believed, the man is a self propelled advert for Republicanism.

      Witchell and Wales deserve each other.

      I find him and his fawning over the royal family utterly excruciating. Just the way that he gushes over them is annoying. He was on the news last night reporting on the preparations for the Diana concert (2007) and to say he looked out of his depth reporting on a pop concert is an understatement.

      I thought Jennie Bond was bad, but he is far worse.”

  48. AC says:

    “We don’t hate her because she’s Black, we hate her because she’s American”

    It’s going back to the narrative that the BRF and the BM are really anti-American. I hope that more Americans will get to know that esp the MAGAs.
    BTW M is in America now and hasn’t been back to the UK- why are those idiots still talking about M and harassing a private U.S. citizen 🙄. They have the leftover Royals they can talk about who are actually still in the UK 🙄🙄.

  49. AC says:

    Meghan worked so many different jobs since she was a teenager.
    Bottom line – No one else came forward and claimed she bullied her co-workers or the staff she worked with. So funny that the One and Only abuse claim came from the BRF staff. If she was that bad, we would have also heard it from Others by now(Americans don’t keep quiet on that stuff either, IF anything of that sort actually happened).

  50. blunt talker says:

    I want to make apoint about the activities of the royal family the past 2 or 3 days during this holiday-they had their church service-Kate’s Christmas program-Christmas luncheon-the walk to church service-I did not hear one peep from the Sussexes during these events-the UK press had all these events and pictures of the royals-Meghan and Harry did not interfere with the royals events-they were quiet and minding their own business this holiday season-If the royal media and talking heads had all the attention on the royal family why in the hell do they keep talking and gnashing their teeth about the Sussexes-the Sussexes did not take the spotlight from the royal family-If the royals got all the attention these past few days what is there to discuss about the Sussexes-absolutely nothing-if everyone is moving on then all parties should act like-no briefing against the other side-going about your business the best way for all to behave-the royals need to stop feeding the royalists and the shitstain tabloid media anything about the Sussexes.