Did Chappell Roan send her goons to bully a child who smiled at Roan at a hotel?

For several years now, Chappell Roan’s cause du jour has been how she has the right to scream at fans and photographers whenever she feels like it. She believes she’s setting boundaries and protecting her privacy and her peace. While there are certainly many instances where she has every right to set boundaries with paparazzi and parasocial “fans,” Roan doesn’t make it easy on herself when she, like, yells at photographers about her privacy when she’s half-naked on a red carpet at the Grammys. I have boundaries too – my boundaries include not seeing this woman’s boobs anymore, and she violates those boundaries constantly. In any case, Chappell is performing at Lollapalooza Brazil, and one of Chappell’s young fans happened to be staying in the same Sao Paulo hotel as her. The fan was Ada Law, the 11-year-old daughter of Catherine Harding and Jude Law. Ada’s stepfather is the Brazilian footballer/superstar Jorginho, who refers to Ada as his daughter. Jorginho posted on his Instagram Stories about what happened when little Ada saw her favorite artist at the hotel:

Jorginho is calling out Chappell Roan for allegedly sending a security guard to accuse his young daughter of harassment, leaving the child — a fan of the pop star — “in tears.” The professional soccer player, 34, alleged in a lengthy Instagram Stories post — which he shared in both Portuguese and English on Saturday, March 21 — that the “Femininomenon” singer, 28, sent a security guard to accuse his 11-year-old daughter of disrespecting and harassing the musician as they dined at the same hotel in São Paulo.

“I went through a very upsetting situation with my family earlier today. My wife [Catherine Harding, who also goes by Cat Cavelli] is in São Paulo for Lollapalooza Brasil. This morning, my daughter woke up incredibly excited. She even made a sign because she was so happy to see an artist she really admires, or used to admire,” Jorginho wrote of Roan, who is set to perform at the music festival in São Paulo on Saturday.

The pro athlete did not name the child, but appeared to be referring to 11-year-old Ada Law, whom Harding welcomed with her ex, actor Jude Law. Harding posted a photo of Ada smiling at a dining table at a São Paulo hotel, the Palácio Tangará, less than 24 hours earlier.

“By coincidence, they’re staying at the same hotel as this artist. During breakfast, the artist walked past their table. My daughter, like any child, recognised her, got excited, and just wanted to make sure it was really her,” Jorginho wrote of the alleged interaction. “And the worst part is she didn’t even approach her. She simply walked past the singer’s table, looked to confirm it was her, smiled, and went back to sit with her mum. She didn’t say anything, didn’t ask for anything.”

After his daughter walked by, Jorginho alleged in the post, “a large security guard came over to their table while they were still having breakfast and began speaking in an extremely aggressive manner to both my wife and my daughter, saying that she shouldn’t allow my daughter to ‘disrespect’ or ‘harass’ other people.”

“Honestly, I don’t know at what point simply walking past a table and looking to see if someone is there can be considered harassment,” the soccer pro continued, alleging that the security guard “even said he would file a complaint against them with the hotel, while my 11-year-old daughter was sitting there in tears. My daughter was extremely shaken and cried a lot.”

A representative for Roan and the Palácio Tangará did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s requests for comment.

Jorginho concluded his post by criticizing Roan’s treatment of a fan whom he said was not violating Roan’s “boundaries,” and cited his own experience in the public eye.

“I’ve lived with football, public exposure, and well-known people for many years, and I understand very well what respect and boundaries are. What happened there was not that. It was just a child admiring someone,” he wrote of his daughter. “It’s sad to see this kind of treatment coming from those who should understand the importance of fans. At the end of the day, they are the ones who build all of this. I sincerely hope this serves as a moment of reflection. No one should have to go through this, especially not a child.” He then tagged Roan’s Instagram account and wrote a message in all-caps: “WITHOUT YOUR FANS, YOU WOULD BE NOTHING. AND TO THE FANS, SHE DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR AFFECTION.”

[From People]

Many have pointed out that Chappell and her security guards probably behave like this regularly with her fans and random strangers, but we’re only hearing about this incident because it involved a Brazilian footballer with a large public profile. Chappell thought her Karen act would translate across borders and it really hasn’t. If you ask me, her Karen act hasn’t endeared her to Americans either – she’s consistently come across as an entitled, ignorant brat whenever she opens her mouth. Brazilians are already dragging Chappell for filth, deservedly so. She sends her security to bully and intimidate children for SMILING AT HER AT A HOTEL.

On Sunday, Chappell “responded” to the story with a video. Her side of the story makes no sense. Hours after Chappell posted her video, Catherine Harding – the mom who was berated, alongside Ada Law – posted a video as well. She ever so gently fact-checks Chappell’s bullsh-t and points out that the bodyguard was not hotel security, he was someone who works as a private bodyguard for celebrities. Catherine also told Chappell that she was in a public space and a child walking past her and looking at her is not a crime nor is it some kind of breach of celebrity etiquette. Catherine chose the most graceful way to call Raggedy Ann a liar and a f–king Karen.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red, Jorginho’s Instagram, Cover Images.

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75 Responses to “Did Chappell Roan send her goons to bully a child who smiled at Roan at a hotel?”

  1. Alice B. Tokeless says:

    If she doesn’t locate her manners and basic human decency soon, she’s going to have all the privacy she can handle.

    • kirk says:

      Maybe. Or maybe she’ll be back at the Grammys next year with her threateningly stabby Princess Pointy Hat that she can’t seem to keep on her head.

  2. Jais says:

    Look, I’ll never forget how she mispronounced Kamala’s name after saying both sides were the same. Good luck babe is all I gotta say.

  3. Bluesky says:

    Temu Tori Amos has been problematic for awhile so this doesn’t surprise me. I get not wanting to be bothered when you are out eating but the child didn’t even approach her. I don’t know if I believe she didn’t see the child. I’m laughing at the mayor saying he didn’t want her performing.

  4. Becks1 says:

    I believe the family’s side of this story. They don’t have any reason to lie. And its not like the girl even approached her for an autograph, she just walked past and smiled. So for her security to have gone off like that was really out of line – and you could say “well maybe they were on edge, maybe they were tired and overreacted, etc” but there have been enough stories about her behavior at this point that you do need to think there’s some truth there.

    It’s hard because there are coordinated smear campaigns as we all know – Amber Heard, Meghan Sussex – but this doesnt seem like that’s what it is.

    • Cee says:

      If there’s one child who knows boundaries is Jude Law’s daughter and Jorginho’s stepdaughter.
      Football players in Brasil are SUPERSTARS. Everywhere they go people will approach them. Internationally famous people will approach THEM. Everytime their team has a major win (local and international) they ride in caravans all over the city and people come out in the thousands just to have a glimpse.

      Add to that, Jorginho plays for Italy and has won many trophies while playing in Europe. The whole world knows who he is. And certain americans had the audacity to say this literal child was clout chasing while her mother, JLaw’s ex and the actual wife of a football megastar, was bullying Roal “because she is famous and wants to attach herself”

      There is no timeline in this universe in which Roan is more famous and more recognisible than Jorginho. She is a very complicated person and had the unfortunate thing happen to her: the child has famous parents and they’re using their platforms to call her out.

      • Becks1 says:

        Agree completely. I think many Americans just don’t get how famous football players are globally and how much money they earn, how well known they are, etc (I’m an American but we’re big football/soccer fans so I get it.)

        There is no way this is “clout chasing” or whatever else people might be saying. She was just rude to the wrong child. Imagine how many times her security has acted like this and it just hasn’t been called out.

      • Digital Unicorn says:

        Yeah – Chappell is back tracking as she picked on the wrong child with parents who are not afraid of her ‘celebrity’. The child’s parents are more famous than she thinks she is and it burns that they are calling her out on her behaviour.

        When a child behaves better than an adult then you know you are the problem.

      • Jais says:

        Just the fact that Chappell said the bodyguard was not hers and from the hotel and then the mom said nope, it wasn’t a hotel bodyguard. That’s messy.

      • MMRB says:

        ALSO, you’ll see how down to earth this family is as far as interacting and communicating with each other and others, if you watch them on “Married To The Game”. Chappell defo thought they were just some “others” and had no idea who she was messing with.

      • Booboochile says:

        Yeah, some Americans still don’t grasp the concept of internationally being renown, I mean look at the bad bunny incident. Chappel might be a huge celebrity here but out there it’s who? She’s not Beyonce or Taylor so calm down a tad. Mayhap?

  5. I’m constantly hearing about negative situations involving Chappell or negative and shady shit coming out of her mouth. She just seems like an awful and selfish person and I’m really happy NOT to hear about or from her again.

  6. Tuesday says:

    My favorite part of Catherine’s video is that she repeatedly mispronounced Chappell à la Chappell’s vid re Kamala.

    I think Chappell’s fans were giving her the benefit of the doubt regarding her mental health and boundaries for a very long time, but at this point, she seems to hate them anytime they notice her. This time it just so happens the fan that noticed her is the daughter of someone famous. I wonder how many non fame adjacent fans they’ve intimidated before.

  7. Gemini says:

    If it is a misunderstanding as she claims why not send a merch package to the girl and win her heart and win her back as a fan?

  8. Ginger says:

    Chappell has been known to act horribly to not just her fans but photographers at events that are just doing their job. She is very bratty and rude.

    The family is famous and has no reason to lie or get “clout” She messed with the wrong ones and karma is coming for her. Good.

    • Mightymolly says:

      She didn’t anticipate a family more famous than her who will still be famous 10 years from now. Will she learn a lesson from this oopsie of assuming everyone is beneath her?

      I just read her Wiki page this morning and girl had impressive hustle. No shame in absolutely feeling herself for being a success, but the industry is fickle and fans are what keep you relevant. 🤷‍♀️

  9. Beverley says:

    Well, just like our elders say: a skank is gonna skank.

  10. Brassy Rebel says:

    She looks like such a sweet little girl. And she has a great stepdad. When this story went mega viral over the weekend I bet Timothee Chalamet sighed in relief 😮‍💨 since Chappell has so massively outperformed him in the a**hole department. She blew him right out of the entertainment news.

  11. Queen Bee says:

    I’ve been wondering when her reckoning would begin. I already don’t like her and stopped listening to her after the ignorant “both sides are bad” nonsense she spouted during the election. That little smirk on her face when she says she doesn’t hate children says it all – she may not have told the security guard to yell at that little girl, but she was fine with it happening. Be careful what you wish for Chappell, you just might get it.

    • mightymolly says:

      I absolutely don’t understand why she assumed she was some kinda legend. She shot to stardom very quickly, but it takes zero minutes of research to know that the music industry will toss you aside without a thought and relegate you to small club shows with legacy fans for the rest of your life. CR wasn’t ever likely to be the next multi-decade star, but now she’s not likely to be a name we’re discussing in two years.

  12. tyrant_destroyed says:

    I need to insert Mariah Carey’s famous meme for this singer.

  13. Boo says:

    Can someone explain how the girl is related to Jude Law?

  14. Mrs. Smith says:

    I just watched the mom’s response. They were there to go to Chappell’s concert that night for the daughter’s birthday, but didn’t go because of the incredibly unprofessional and (I think) scary security guard confrontation?? I am so glad mom responded! And I love that Chappell is getting checked by people more famous than her to get a grip.

    • Jais says:

      It also stuck me that the girl asked for her birthday to go to this concert and then they didn’t even end up going. That’s how upsetting it was.

  15. Amy Bee says:

    All Chappell had to do is smile back at Ada and be on her way. Unfortunately for her, Ada’s parents have platforms and weren’t afraid to speak out about the incident. If Chappell wants to be left alone she should have just ordered room service.

  16. kirk says:

    “That someone was assuming something, that you would would do something, and that if you felt uncomfortable…sad…[something, something].”

    Cute girl! Wish she was my fan! I would pour love all over her.

    Notes for a medieval conehead: Tone at the Top girl. Tone at the Top.

  17. SIde Eye says:

    What in the world? Yeah she picked the wrong one this time – I love this for her. I don’t know her music or who she even is – I have heard her name multiple times in connection with stories of entitlement and being a brat – I’ll be sure to continue to avoid her.

    She wants to be left alone she may really get her wish if she keeps this up. And the correct thing to do – if she really didn’t send security to harass a child would be to cover their stay at the hotel, send a handwritten note apologizing to her and some VIP tickets to apologize in person. Instead she did this stupid video expecting cookies for saying she doesn’t hate children. wtf

    • BeanieBean says:

      I don’t listen to the latest music either, but my god, I heard Pink Pony Club at my local Don Quixote & had that song stuck in my head for several days. She got famous very young, so there’s still time for her to change her ways. We’ll see.

      • SIde Eye says:

        Omg I find that song so annoying! It’s my NHL team’s song lol. Now I really don’t like her. Hey Oilers – change songs!

      • BritChick says:

        She was like 26 when she got famous, that’s not so young.

      • BeanieBean says:

        She was in high school when she got her record deal, 22 when Pink Pony Club hit bg.

  18. Nicole says:

    I believe the family as well. I’ve been over Chappell’s BS for awhile. I’ve been trying to enjoy this woman’s music but she does not do it for me. It started and stopped with Pink Pony Club. As stated in the article, she strikes me as ignorant and entitled. Frankly, she’s feeding the Americans are a$$holes narrative. I hope she learns some manners (and reads a few books) soon.

  19. Beech says:

    So that’s Roan Chapell, I did a look see on Wikipedia and YouTube. Odd looking creature. Her statement is rubbish.

  20. TN Democrat says:

    CR is an entitled monster and fame has warped her. If she doesn’t want aproached, she wouldn’t create scenarios which will cause her to be approached. She is creating deliberate scenarios to have these intentional meltdowns. Feeling entitled to abuse fans and photographers and enjoying the ensuing meltdown are her mental illness. Outside the USA soccer players are the most famous athletes on the planet. This kid has a famous dad and famous stepdad. Her mom was present and the kiddo behaved. Roan is victim blaming to justify her petulant behavior. Again. Her “fans” need to hold her accountable. She needs fair consequences, which means canceled because dozens of more talented, less magat-ized artists exist who need and appreciate fan support. Stop giving magats money!

  21. therese says:

    Poor little darling.

  22. QuiteContrary says:

    Taylor Swift gets some heat here and I understand why (I wish she’d be more outspoken on Trump, too), but she would never allow a fan to be treated this way.

    Chappell is such a brat. She could learn something from this sweet little girl and her famous parents.

    • MY3CENTS says:

      Taylor would be taking selfies with that child. She really is amazing with her fans.
      CR “apology ” is almost as bad as the incident, disrespectful, bratty, insincere, she couldn’t even bother to get out of bed to film it.

    • Becks1 says:

      I was thinking that (and you all know I’m far from a TS fan.) Taylor would NEVER.

    • mighytmolly says:

      I’m sure this Roan person thinks she’s way cooler than Taylor, but Taylor is part of the culture lexicon. People will always know her name, but Roan is a flash in the pan. She’ll be forgotten by this time next year.

  23. Mayp says:

    My first comment, in support of Roan (about whom I know pretty much nothing) did not get published. Hmnnn. In short, Roan said she didn’t see the child and apologized. Why can’t the mother be gracious and accept that? She is setting a bad example for her child, rounding back at Roan.. Also, you don’t let your kids roam around in restaurants gawking at other people. That is rude. Just because someone wants to enjoy privacy at a meal does not mean that they should have to sequester themselves in their hotel room. Awestruck kids usually just don’t walk by and smile. They stare. And, not all celebrities can be held accountable for every single thing their bodyguard does. I say give Roan the benefit of the doubt. The mother is just making things worse for the child.

    • JayBlue says:

      I don’t think we can give roan the benefit of the doubt here as it has been a clear pattern of behaviour with her. Plus, she is absolutely responsible for the behaviour of her security guards as they act on her behalf. If she doesn’t want them acting like this, they would have been told not to, but if they feel comfortable approaching and berating a woman and child in roans name, then seems like they assume she’d be fine with it. Again, see her previous behaviours.

      • Margie says:

        She’s a child! Her dad is a famous soccer player. I guess some of us forgot what it was like to be one🙄

    • TigerMcQueen says:

      But according to CR, it wasn’t her bodyguard. Girl can’t even own up to it being her security, she had to lie about it (which was what Catherine Harding was correcting with her post).

      So Ms “Both sides suck lemme roll my eyes and mispronounce Kamala” can kick rocks.

      • Mayp says:

        @tiger, if Roan is saying that it wasn’t her bodyguard, she did not send him after the family, and the parents are going off half-cocked because they ASSUME he was her bodyguard (because he didn’t look like the rest of the hotel’s security staff (?)), then maybe the hotel needs to weigh in on this. This could have been someone that the hotel hired to provide extra security for Roan. Or, would Roan still be to blame? It just sounds to me like some of you want to find fault with her for this particular instance, regardless of the facts (that haven’t even been confirmed by a third party, i.e. the hotel)..

      • Becks1 says:

        Its worth pointing out the security guard didn’t just correct the child, ask the child to move, etc. he berated her for several minutes to the point where she was so upset she no longer wants to listen to this singer’s music.

        And if it was the hotel staff – Roan could have stepped in and stopped it. If Taylor Swift can interrupt a concert to tell security to leave someone alone, Chappell Roan can interrupt her breakfast to tell security to back off and stop yelling at an 11 year old girl.

        Someone on threads pointed out that this is a swanky hotel that is used to dealing with celebrities and so it most likely was NOT the hotel security that acted like this to another guest.

        There have been a few other similar stories about Roan that make me not give her the benefit of the doubt here.

      • vee says:

        She said it wasnt her ‘personal’ bodyguard. So she didnt even actually say the bodyguard wasnt with her or her entourage.

    • Ange says:

      I highly doubt a hotel that caters for celebrity across the board would allow their own security to antagonise guest’s kids. Even if this guy WAS theirs, there’s no way they wouldn’t be cutting ties and falling over themselves to publicly apologise by now surely.

  24. Normades says:

    I do not like CR and think she’s definitely crashing and burning in the fame game which she seems ill prepared. Like Sydney Sweeney I will not support your two sides or “unpolitical“ stance. Especially CR who made her whole artistic identity about something she was absolutely not. Here I might have cut her some slack. But no I won’t. Because like I said she was never an ally to others.

  25. Tis True, Tis True says:

    I do feel for Chappell, but she seems to be trying to protect her mental health, and yet taking actions that create even bigger problems that make things worse for her. One of the first rules of getting your shit together is that you don’t get to control how other people react to you. And she is perpetually doing just that. I hope she can step back and get a handle on all of this.

    As to the security guy, I must confess my default is to look for ways both stories can be true. At à hotel like this, everyone is briefed on the preferences of VIP guests and would work to carry them out without getting specific instructions from the VIP. So Chappell might never have seen Ada, but a security person did and chased her away. Who this person was and who they worked for, we don’t know, but entirely possible Chappell didn’t direct his actions. But her publicly stated preferences for not allowing strangers to interact with her without her first consenting to it is absolutely why it happened. Chappell will never understand this, of course.

  26. Crystal says:

    I have always disliked this Kate Bush wannabe with her MAGA uncle and completely stolen aesthetics. But that’s just me.

  27. HopeSays says:

    I agree with 99% of this commentary. I would like to point out that while nudity and privacy are linked in idea, they are not the same thing. Chooseing to show parts of her body some of the time in controlled settings (okay okay, all the time for her), is not an open invatation to cross other personal boundries. This strong link between naked bodies and ‘open invatations’ is a deeply American train of thought. Eupronean espcially have a much healthier mindset around nudity.

    But like I said 99% of this commentary of accurate.

    • Jais says:

      Just the fact that Chappell said the bodyguard was not hers and from the hotel and then the mom said nope, it wasn’t a hotel bodyguard. That’s messy.

    • Jais says:

      Didn’t mean for my comment above to end up here. But as far as the nudity, yeah, I agree. These are two diff things. Chapel is not the first to dress with little clothes at an awards show. The issue is her security being rude to a little girl over privacy but chappal bearing breasts at an award show doesn’t negate her ability to have privacy.

    • BritChick says:

      I’m European (I live in Britain but am French-German originally) and I disagree totally. Obviously being naked doesn’t invite people to cross boundaries, but it’s ludicrous to spent half your time trying to get more and more fame via nudity and shock value (instead of hard work and artistry) and the other half shouting about wanting privacy and hating fame.

  28. Digital Unicorn says:

    Was reading on another site that she thanked her security when she took to the stage at Lollapalooza Brazil AFTER this happened. Plus the Mayor of Rio banned her from performing in the city again.

    Brazilians are ripping her several new ones.

  29. BeanieBean says:

    Y’all, this is embarrassing to admit but…I have the same outfit as that 11-year-old! The torn jeans, the sneakers, the T-shirt, the striped blue big shirt. And I have several decades on that child! 🤦‍♀️ Although I don’t have a Chanel handbag, she’s one up on me there. 😏

  30. Scared_I_am says:

    Who’s she? Never heard of her… The things I learn here.

  31. Flamingo says:

    Past behavior predicts future behavior. She has acted like she is hunted by the fans and paparazzi. While she goes to places that paps stake out.

    She is literally turning into a parody of Sally Fields character in Soap Dish on the escalator. Trying to get attention for herself.

    Honestly for a one or two hit wonder she takes a lot of liberty for how famous she is and will be.

  32. jferber says:

    I think the mother is the ex of Jude Law whom he gets along with. She is very lovely and she made a perfect statement about the situation. Not sure if Jude Law sees his daughter. But the American ex with his daughter is not on good terms with Law, I think, and he probably never sees that daughter. Law has 3 bio children with his first wife and 2 bio children with his second wife. So yes, he has 7 children. I’m so glad Ada Law’s stepfather treats her like his daughter and that Ada’s mom was able to bounce back and move on and enjoy her life. I’ve never heard of the singer, but yuck. All the best to Ada and her lovely family.

  33. Talia says:

    This happened with Jorginho’s stepdaughter IN BRAZIL. There is no way the bodyguard was hotel security – the hotel staff would have been fully briefed on the family members of their VIP guests.

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