Radar: David Beckham has screwed around on Posh many, many times

CARSON, CA - NOVEMBER 07: David Beckham  of the Los Angeles Galaxy makes his way to the locker room after the Galaxy defeated Seattle Sounders FC in the MLS Western Conference Semifinal match second leg at The Home Depot Center on November 7, 2010 in Carson, California. The Galaxy defeated Sounders FC 2-1. (Photo by Victor Decolongon/Getty Images)

Back in September, In Touch Weekly ran a large cover story about an affair David Beckham allegedly had back in 2007. The affair was with a hooker, who went on to go into great detail about what Becks is like in bed – he loves to kiss passionately, he loves blow jobs and jerking off with fancy hotel lotions, and he likes some girl-on-girl action. All in all, pretty standard sex stuff – nothing of the (ALLEGEDLY) Clooney variety. Anyway, Becks ended up suing In Touch Weekly, even though ITW’s editors and sources didn’t show any signs of backing down. Now Radar reports that in new documents that ITW has turned over, it looks like ITW was only reporting the tip of the adultery iceberg:

David Beckham was suspected of having late night hotel trysts with multiple women behind-the-back of his Posh Spice wife Victoria, according to court papers filed by a magazine publisher being sued by the soccer superstar in a massive $25 million libel writ. In Touch Weekly and Bauer, one of the world’s largest publishers, used the privilege of court papers to make the seedy allegations against dad-of-three Beckham, claiming in the papers they suspected he carried on an affair with a Los Angeles-based lingerie saleswoman and would secretly meet her at the Figueroa Hotel near Staples Center after LA Lakers basketball games.

RadarOnline.com has exclusively obtained the explosive documents lodged in a Californian court last week, in which it’s alleged:

* A source told In Touch how the lingerie store worker showed friends text messages she received from Beckham and that In Touch “continued to believe that Beckham did have a relationship with this lingerie saleswoman” even though he and the woman had denied it.

* A source told In Touch that Beckham waited in the lobby at the Sunset Towers Hotel one night “speaking anxiously on the phone” before leaving with a “pretty young blonde woman”.

* At least three sets of independent sources — including “an acquaintance of Beckham” — detailed his strange behavior at two different hotels, at which he “appeared to be spending time with women who were not his wife”.

* Beckham’s nanny saw “suggestive text messages” implying that he had an affair with Shery Shabani, the Beverly Hill mother whose children go to the same posh private school as Beckham’s three boys.

A source close to Beckham — who nows plays for the LA Galaxy — last night told RadarOnline.com he was not concerned about the cheating slurs.

“This is a smokescreen and it is not going to hold up in court,” the close pal said. “He is not backing down, he plans to go full throttle in this matter and this posturing, with no evidence and no facts, isn’t going to stall the inevitable.”

However, the move is a dramatic escalation in the battle against In Touch, its editor Michelle Lee and the mag’s publishers Bauer — owed by billionaire German businessman Heinz Bauerwhich — which printed sensational claims that he romped with a Bosnian hooker. Beckham, 35, is also suing the former prostitute Imra Nici, 26, who peddled the story that she slept with him for $10,000 cash in London and New York in 2007.

In court papers, In Touch’s executive editor Deborah Baer said the mag received information concerning stories detailing how Beckham engaged in “extramarital affairs” before it published Nici’s pack of claims.

“Well before we received the information concerning Mr. Beckham’s relationship with Irma Nici… the magazine had for months been working on other stories that built on Beckham’s reputation for adultery,” Baer wrote.

“First, in approximately March 2010, one of our Los Angeles-based reporters received information from a source who said he or she was aware that a woman who worked at a lingerie store in Los Angeles had had an affair with David Beckham.

“We learned that the lingerie store employee told some of her friends about the affair. We decided to pursue the story.”

The magazine sent a reporter to Hawaii in a bid to speak with the woman’s parents, but were unable to locate her, the documents revealed.

“We also learned that she showed another friend text message she received from Mr. Beckham,” Baer said. “We understood that Mr. Beckham often would meet the lingerie saleswoman at the Figueroa Hotel near the Staples Center, after Lakers games. We sent a reporter to the hotel and confirmed that David Beckham had stayed there more than once. Thereafter, we contacted the woman directly. Ultimately, she denied the story of an affair, as did Mr. Beckham, and we elected not to publish the article. But we continued to believe that Mr. Beckham did have a relationship with this lingerie saleswoman.”

Baer also recalled how one of the magazine’s sources had reported seeing Beckham at the Sunset Towers Hotel on Hollywood’s famed Sunset Boulevard.

“After dining, Mr. Beckham waited in the lobby for more than an hour, speaking anxiously on the phone and claiming to wait for a ride,” she said. “Another source at the hotel confirmed that Mr. Beckham ultimately left that night with a pretty young blonde woman. Further, this source recounted that this was not the first time he saw Mr. Beckham meet women at the hotel in the past and leave with them.”

The magazine executive also alleged how it learned Beckham’s nanny had seen “suggestive text messages” that implied he was having an affair with Shery Shabani, a Hollywood jeweller to the stars.

As RadarOnline.com was first to reveal, Beckham was named in a divorce case by the woman’s “jealous” and “delusional” ex-husband, who claimed Beckham had an affair with the married mother-of-two. Beckham and his Spice Girls’ wife are claiming the huge sum – around $25 million – plus punitive damages, alleging libel, slander and intentional infliction of emotional distress, given the publisher was expressly warned that the story was total fabrication. The couple’s writ states: “The case arises from defendants’ publication of lies to make money for themselves and to embarrass and inflict emotional distress upon Beckham, a world-famous athlete. Defendants published these statements with actual malice and with intent to profit by causing harm to Beckham.”

Nevertheless, Bauer has filed a motion to strike the case from court, because it said it “did nothing more than report what it believed was absolutely true” based on the word of Nici and notorious madam Kristin Davis, who served four months in prison for supplying prostitutes to New York’s elite.

“In Touch Weekly published its article based on the firsthand recollections of Irma Nici as confirmed by Kristin Davis and the other woman,” it is said, in the filing. “It was a story whose many details were independently verified by the magazine and one that was entirely consistent with the magazine’s own prior reporting, as well as previous widespread reports of other affairs by Beckham, including at least one with another prostitute. In the face of this evidence, Beckham provided only a general denial. In the end, the magazine and its editors absolutely believed in the truth of the story and most certainly had no serious doubts about its accuracy.”

It added, “Beckham… offers nothing other than his word to dispute the well- researched, well-sourced story that In Touch Weekly published. He ignores the years of press – unchallenged by any legal claims – documenting his prior affairs, including another one with a ‘high class prostitute’.”

[From Radar]

Is anyone else surprised with ITW’s due diligence? I tend to think ITW is one of the lazier tabloids, what with their multiple Kardashian covers and endless breakup stories for Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise, as well as Brangelina. But it looks like ITW was following legitimate tips, on this story at least, and really trying to nail down sources, and they ended up going with a story they thought would be the least likely to get them sued. I have to say… yeah, I think Becks has been screwing around on Posh for years, with multiple women.

CARSON, CA - NOVEMBER 07: David Beckham  of the Los Angeles Galaxy acknowledges the fans on his way to the locker room after the Galaxy defeated Seattle Sounders FC in the MLS Western Conference Semifinal match second leg at The Home Depot Center on November 7, 2010 in Carson, California. The Galaxy defeated Sounders FC 2-1. (Photo by Victor Decolongon/Getty Images)

Los Angeles Galaxy midfielder David Beckham (23) chases after the ball against FC Dallas in the Western Conference Fiinal playoff game at the Home Depot Center in Carson, California on Nov. 14, 2010.  UPI/Lori Shepler. Photo via Newscom

46592,LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA -Sunday October 24 2010. David Beckham thrills the fans as he strips down to his Armani underpants during a game between the LA Galaxy and FC Dallas! As a result of a minor cut, Beckham's shorts and shirt became blood-stained, which is when he decided to change on the sidelines to the tune of thousands of screaming fans. To make the crowd even happier, Beckham scored a goal in the 33rd minute for The Galaxy. The final score was 2-1 to The Galaxy. After the match, Beckham was thrilled to be joined on the pitch by his children. He was seen planting a kiss right on the lips of Cruz. Photograph:   PacificCoastNews.com

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  1. spinner says:

    Gosh!! So he’s just a big ol ho. Whatever…back to my breakfast.

  2. Scarlet Vixen says:

    What always amazes me in these stories is that these men are stoopid enough to send text messages to random women from their personal cell phones! That’s like, rule #1 of not getting caught. I can never decide if they’re just that stupid and cocky, or if the texts the women leak are fake.

  3. grace says:

    I would screw around with him myself, haha
    but, no, I actually like Victoria, she seems like a nice person in interviews.

  4. LOVE ANGELINA says:

    LOL ITW and the phrases “well-researched and well-sourced” don’t belong in the same sentence. This is all utter tripe. God still no REAL proof of anything. They can kick rocks because David is a good man and he loves his wife.

  5. emine says:

    are there any faithful men in this world anymore , or just men who get caught and men who havent got caught caught yet?

  6. mln says:

    I think its pretty obvious Posh doesn’t care what he does as long as she gets to be the wife. How dumb was he to sue it worked for Chris Martin and Ashton Kutcher just to bluster alot and pretend to sue until the attention dies down I think everyone would have forgotten about this already.

  7. Diane says:

    I’m racking my brain trying to think of an athlete who hasn’t cheated, got nothing.

  8. carrie says:

    nothing new in Beckham world!

  9. gg says:

    These guys always think they can get away with this – how in hell, since everybody’s pappz these days.

  10. lola lola says:

    Yeah, big surprise. So what? I’m with Spinner, back to my bagel….

  11. Linda says:

    God that guy is fit!

  12. Alexa says:

    I do NOT want to ponder or believe this about David Beckham. I love him and Posh as a couple, and I ADORE Victoria! The belief that David loves and respects his wife is what makes him so attractive. (So STOP RUINING IT FOR ME!)

  13. mln says:

    @ Love Angelina he already got caught with Rebecca Loos years ago. And well sourced means that legally he has not a chance of winning in court if the tabs can provide witnesses. He is also named in the divorce papers another couple- that is all a matter of public record.
    Usually on B.S. tab stories the source is a “friend” meaning no one.

  14. Ernestine says:

    He’s an athlete. The End.

  15. Johnny Depp's Girl says:

    And???

    I read a lot of “sources” and obscure reading of text messages, maybe perhaps he was seen here or there with another woman.

    Whatever. I can make up a better story than that.

  16. slymm27 says:

    @emine……at the risk of sounding like a broken record and pissing some posters off, the answer to your question is no, no, no……there is no faithfull man in the entire world. None. Each and everyone of them will cheat on you, its just the way they are wired. From the milkman to the teacher, to th dog walker, they cheat, how then do you expect a good looking millionaire pro athlete to keep it in his pants. We women ask for too much, monogamy is simple impossible for the male specie, and until wee understandd that, stories like this will continue to shock us. That is the reason i advocate open relationships and marriages.

  17. Praise St. Angie! says:

    “David is a good man and he loves his wife.”

    doesn’t mean he didn’t (or doesn’t) cheat.

    I absolutely believe he’s cheated. and yes, I’m sure he loves VB, but that doesn’t mean (like most men) that he doesn’t like to get some strange when he can. and let’s face it, this guy could get laid wherever he goes.

    “I think its pretty obvious Posh doesn’t care what he does as long as she gets to be the wife.”

    EDIT: I totally agree with this. and I don’t think she’s the only celeb wife who does. I couldn’t do it, but if it works for her…

  18. MarenGermany says:

    I think victoria doesnt give a crap.
    they have been a public joke since day one.
    seriously, who would want to f**k Posh? I think she is one of the meanest, ugliest, most superficial celebs out there.
    cant stand her, I would cheat on her on a daily basis. Just because.

  19. A friend once told me, regarding men being faithful, ” A man is only as faithful as his opportunities allow him to be.” Makes a lot of sense to me.

  20. Marjalane says:

    @ #20,

    Everything she said. It’ll be interesting to see if this court case even goes anywhere. I think Beckham filed it just to keep his icky wife happy. I don’t care how “happy” their marriages are- ATHLETES CHEAT! Even the Christian, family men- they’re all a bunch of hound dogs!

  21. anti says:

    love comment #1!

    in addition, i hope he’s using protection for his wife’s sake. that’s it.

  22. Raven says:

    Alexa makes my point. The thing that made the couple so attractive is that they were faithful to each other. If these stories are true, there is no way she would not have known. She’s a lot smarter than he is and likely knows everything that goes on with her family. So if he’s cheating and she knows, they both turn into sleazes, not an attractive couple who has it all.

  23. slymm27 says:

    @marjalne…..even the christain family men, they are all a bunch of hound dogs….lol! Lol!…so true. I wish women will just slip a condom into their mans pocket anytime he goes out, so when eventually he wants to screw a strange , he has protection, at least we women know that we are safe from std’s that way…..because like it or not he will screw a strange, just plead with him to screw strange safely. See i have given all my good friend this advice, and they say their relationship and marriages have neverr been better.

  24. Jenna says:

    genius idea for cheaters: GET A SECOND CELL PHONE… jesus!

  25. sarah says:

    I don’t understand why people were so sympathetic towards Elin Woods but aren’t towards Posh.I know she comes across harsh, and honestly I don’t care what she is like either. He should have more of an obligation to his family and children than to his dick.

  26. Rita says:

    @slymm27

    I will speak only for the one man I can confidently vouch for and I assure you he has never and will never cheat under any circumstances. My man has been away from me for months at a time and in 3rd world countries surrounded by “easy and cheap strange”. Cheating simply is not in him.

    Am I naive? Consider this. After years of marriage I sometimes sleep facing him and other times with my back to him but he always faces me. I thought he might just be a “left side” sleeper so after much convincing we changed sides of the bed. After several tosses and turns, pillow poundings, face down and face ups he finally settled onto his right side. After a week of right side sleeping I demanded my old side back to which he replied, “Fine but no more changing for the next five years, or the divorce…which ever come first”.

    There are many other examples that reassure me but this is one of my favorites. Stupid or not, I believe in the fidelity of our union.

  27. Kiska says:

    I’m always amazed that these high profile celebs are stupid enough to text (sext) to their mistresses. Are they hoping to get caught?

  28. Gabriela says:

    Of course he cheated on his waxy wife. Who wouldn’t?

  29. Gabriela says:

    ‘My man has been away from me for months at a time and in 3rd world countries surrounded by “easy and cheap strange”. Cheating simply is not in him.’

    Oh, so in 1st world countries such as the U.S. you can’t find easy and cheap strangers to have sex with? Hahaha OK.

  30. Cheyenne says:

    It wouldn’t work for me, but if Posh knows and is okay with it, who’s to complain? It’s her marriage and if it works for her, then fine. Everybody needs to step off and let her alone.

  31. mln says:

    I don’t understand why people were so sympathetic towards Elin Woods but aren’t towards Posh

    Elin Woods was a quiet woman who stayed out of the spolight except when she came out to support her husband. I genuinely believe she was blindsided by Tiger’s cheating.
    Posh is an annoying famewhore who when her 15 minutes with the Spice Girls expired took every opportunity to exploit her husband’s talent and good looks in order to socialize with bigger stars, try to get her own reality show, and get papped. She seems to know about David’s cheating and not give a flying fig about it.

  32. mia says:

    Beckham looks old. All that deception must be taking a toll on him.

  33. REALIST says:

    Smoking gun or just hooey? If David Beckham is a cheater, he deserves to be censured.
    On the other hand, I am a cynic when it comes to marriage. I am now single and I got the (very) short end of the stick in my divorce. In the end, despite my husband’s confession that he “didn’t want to lose me”, it was all about him getting the upper hand in child visitation as well as money. Long story, which I’ll skip; Washington State has a very odd system when it comes to visitation and child support.
    Victoria has lived well since she married David, much better than the other Spice Girls. Perhaps she’s looking the other way, especially since she’s launching her clothing line (something she would not likely be doing were it not for her name and fame).
    Sometimes couples just make tacit arrangements in their marriages. Of course, David could have been more discrete (the same problem Bill Clinton had with silly Monica..I’m sure that was why Hillary was REALLY hacked off).
    I am not saying that these arrangements are good or bad, they just are. The key is that both individuals must be honest and agree to the terms that are on the table.
    IF these allegations are true. I’m guessing DB has stepped over the line if there is indeed an agreement between he and his wife.
    Another point: what’s the nanny doing nosing around in his text messages? Not appropriate..

  34. eja102 says:

    I’ve been studying hard! and lurking, true.

    and decide to post again on the thread that trashes men. why not?

    yes, it’s true. they did a poll, across the world! all men cheat.

    *sigh*

  35. Whatever says:

    I said on here a while ago that I think they are just together for show at this point. It seems I see lots of pictures of her with the kids or him with the kids, but not both and never just them. Not for a long time. Sad.

  36. Ron says:

    Wow. This is earth shattering news.

  37. Juicyjuice says:

    Raven,
    “Alexa makes my point. The thing that made the couple so attractive is that they were faithful to each other.”

    So obviously they weren’t. What made you think they were so special? Because he didn’t wear a sign that said “I’m a cheating horndog that can’t keep it in my pants”? Here’s a point – there are affairs and there are affairs that have yet to be discovered. Nobody is above it.

  38. Green Is Good says:

    Men that send hot text messages to their bevy of whores want OUT of their marriage so badly, they’ll take getting caught.

    Sucks when the wife actually puts up with that shit. In this case, Posh isn’t giving up the cash cow. She has more status as Mrs. Beckham than former Spice Girl Posh.

  39. Whuh? says:

    In Touch has bupkus. If they did they’d have named the names of their so-called sources in their court documents. Instead they continue with the same old crap about “acquaintances” and “insiders” and “sources”. Beckham’s lawyers will make them name names in court and give dates and times as well as places – and produce phone records verifying these so-called texts that were exchanged between the mistresses and Becks. The lawyers will also get to cross-examing IT’s sources and you can bet your butt they’ll sing a different song under thread of perjury. Otherwise Bauer pulled the story out of their butts as usual. Personally I wouldn’t be surprised if Becks cheats more than he breathes, but IT ain’t exactly known for their accuracy and after 5+ years of being wrong about EVERYTHING Jolie-Pitt – nobody in their right mind is suddenly going to believe anything they say.

  40. Cheyenne says:

    mln: She seems to know about David’s cheating and not give a flying fig about it.
    =======================================

    Then neither should anyone else.

  41. slymm27 says:

    @rita, i am glad you have a rock solid marriage and such faith in your husband, if i were your friend, i would advice you otherwise, and beg you to slip a condom into his pocket and advice him on safe sex, but still it is nice to see hear of a marriage like yours…..all the best . On another note,, when are we going to hear of the cheating women, i am kind of bored with the whole man whore thing, it doesnt suprise me. I wish women will step up to the plate though. It is good for the goose………..whatever.

  42. Chicoulina says:

    emine:
    Men you cheat and men who don’t.
    The ones who don’t cheat are those that didn’t have the oppurtunity to do so.

  43. Camille says:

    Yep totally think this guy is a serial cheater and Posh knows and puts up with it. If any celebrity couple is truly a ‘Brand’, it is these two.
    They could never split up, think of all of the perfume and clothing etc that they wouldn’t be able to sell together any more. These 2 know what they are doing.

  44. Mistral says:

    Not all men cheat. It is ridiculous to make blanket statements about all men. I know many men who have never cheated on their wives, and never would. Of course, I know plenty who have. It really is a question of how much the person loves/respects their partner and how much they value their own integrity. You can’t discount people’s values systems. Everyone’s is different. Some people are into it, some are not. The end. You just can’t say no man can say “no” to strange vagina/cock, as if men have no capacity for rational decision-making.

  45. slymm27 says:

    @chicoulina……amen to that!!!..wish more women were as realistic as you and i, there will be no bs talk of heartbreak(whatever that is)…….

  46. Crash2GO2 says:

    @slymm27: “at the risk of sounding like a broken record and pissing some posters off, the answer to your question is no, no, no……there is no faithfull man in the entire world. None. Each and everyone of them will cheat on you, its just the way they are wired.”

    Erm…certainly you are free to your opinion. But it is just that – an opinion. And if that is all you expect from your man, than he probably will cheat on you.

    Me – I aim higher.

  47. buenavissta says:

    I can’t get on board with generalizations. Some men cheat, so do some women. Many don’t.

  48. Ruffian9 says:

    Um, duh.

  49. Ruffian9 says:

    “..at the risk of sounding like a broken record and pissing some posters off, the answer to your question is no, no, no……there is no faithfull man in the entire world. None. Each and everyone of them will cheat on you, its just the way they are wired. From the milkman to the teacher, to th dog walker, they cheat, how then do you expect a good looking millionaire pro athlete to keep it in his pants. We women ask for too much, monogamy is simple impossible for the male specie, and until wee understandd that, stories like this will continue to shock us. That is the reason i advocate open relationships and marriages. …

    And…um…a big fat no to this in its entirety. Advocate open relationships all you want, but using this as your excuse is..unfortunate.

  50. jc126 says:

    Yes, yes, I do believe he cheats on her.

  51. RB says:

    Some men cheat, a lot of men don’t. Some women cheat too. If the man is a boring, stay-at-home type, he might not be cheater. If he’s fun, outgoing, flirty, definitely more likely to be a cheater. It depends more on the personality type than gender – same goes for women – this has been my experience at least.

  52. jaye E says:

    Amen and WORD to all who poo poo this overblown notion that “all men cheat”. Yes…some men cheat, but there are still many many men who value their integrity and their relationships more than that. Making a sweeping generalization like that is unfair and immature.

  53. LindaR says:

    @ Crash2GO2 “And if that is all you expect from your man, than he probably will cheat on you. Me – I aim higher.”

    Exactly. Me too.

  54. putitstraight says:

    Victoria Beckham is a fabrication in every conceivable way. As far as I can tell, Elin Woods never tried to spin her life as being something that it wasn’t. Victoria Beckham spins constantly. The marketing of their brand depends on it. Its totally pitiable because so much of her reality is transparently a sham.

    Is she actually delusional or does she think that if she convinces someone (anyone) that she lives in bliss that’ll actually make it so?

  55. slymm27 says:

    fortunately, i really don’t care if he does or he doesn’t, there are far more things to worry about, plust the whole monogamy thing is such a bore, i mean one man your entire life??????? That can’t be good. But as some1 pointed out, its my opinion, so sorry if it seems like i am making a blanket statement. Hope i am forgiven? On another note though, beckham doesn’t seem like he will age well.

  56. slymm27 says:

    @putitstraight, i do believ posh is living the life she dreamed of. She seems like a very rich woman, and seems to be very happy with her children, i do not think just because her husband does what he does by being a man whore, she is all in pieces. She is healthy, has three lovely boys and certainly doesnt worry about her mortgage……i am sure two of them will work this out, like they always do anyway, so all will be well and good in posh land.

  57. Isa says:

    I think he does cheat on her, but she doesn’t care. So I don’t really care either. I just hope, like some other posters said, that he uses protection.

    As for the “all men are cheaters” debate. I truly believe that my husband is loyal to me. As for the saying about opportunities, there may be some truth in it. My husband has very few opportunities to cheat since he wants to spend all of his time with me.

    I’m not saying that he won’t ever cheat. I just trust him not to. If he breaks my trust then he’s gone. That may fly in some marriages but not in mine.

  58. Chicoulina says:

    51:We’ve wrote it here hundreds of times.Men will cheat if given the oppurtunity.If he’s a couch potato of course he won’t cheat,maybe with the calories he’s eating but not with a real woman.But still there is a big chance he’ll dial a hotline to talk to someone and jerk off.
    54:(Sorry i can’t see your name)How long are you married?We’ll see how you feel about that after 10-15 years being married.He won’t be clinged on you forever.I just hope that when he does cheat he’ll be smart and hide it well.
    The quiet ones that you swear would never cheat are the worst.When I read I know men that never cheated how the hell do you know for sure?There’s no way..

    And it also depends on the time you’re married.I’ll accept that a man will stay faithful the first couple of years so if you’re married 2-3 years yeah he may be faithful but if you’re married 10-20-30 there’s no way he didn’t cheat.Not all men have relationships,lots of them have one night affairs or hook up with hookers.
    There’s a way you can try your man but I’m warning you that he’ll fall in the trap.Pay another good looking woman to hit on him and then we’ll see how faithful he is.

    slymm27:You rock!!I’m with you 100%

    Of course woman cheat but not all of them.When a woman is in love there is no way she’ll cheat but a man will.That’s our big difference.Most women cheat for revenge,most men cheat because they want variety in their sex life.

  59. gg says:

    I’m with Crash and Ruffian. All men do not cheat. Far from it. I feel sorry for everyone whose partner is straying or liable to, but I don’t have that problem because I sought a man who wouldn’t do that, and I got one.

    Aim higher is right.

  60. gg says:

    and P.S. DB’s tatts make his arms look even shorter and scrawnier. blech.

  61. Heatherrr says:

    None of us are surprised.

  62. Isa says:

    Chicoulina: We have been married for three and a half years and together for six.
    Why would you hope if he does cheat he hides it well? I would rather find out so I can dump him. I just hope that if he does cheat he uses protection. I really would hate for him to break my heart AND leave me with a disease. There are just too many nasty skanks out there.

    Of course we never know for sure if our SO has cheated. But we trust them not to. Plus I know my husband well enough to not put him under some blanket statement. I think that he cares too much about the life and family we have created to throw it away for some cheap thrill.
    I am capable of being completely loyal to my husband so the same should be true for him. I will hold him to this. If he fails to meet my expectations then he is gone.
    There are some good men out there. Saying that all men cheat is just perpetuating a myth and giving men excuses to act like dogs.

  63. Kath says:

    “There are some good men out there. Saying that all men cheat is just perpetuating a myth and giving men excuses to act like dogs.”

    Exactly. Mostly, I think women say that all men cheat to make themselves feel better about having been cheated on.

  64. anon says:

    wow, whats with the bitter people!!

  65. kelly says:

    When men are thinking with their dicks, they wouldn’t know if the house was on fire around them, ergo the dumb texting and hotel swinging. It’s all about the next half hour and that’s where the cogitation ends.
    Does anyone seriously believe he’s never passed it around? PLEASE! Of course he does. Does Victoria give a shit as long as she gets her end? I doubt it.
    Yawn.

  66. slymm27 says:

    @ chicoulina…..lol!!! no you rock, you see, the truth is such a bitter pill to swallow, and to those saying i make such a blanket statement because my man cheated on me, that is such crap, my man hasnt cheated on me to my knowledge, meaning i have not caught him yet, but as i said, i dont really care, …monogamy is just a bore, and i dont care for it

  67. samihami says:

    @Chicoulina: Wow, you are so amazingly wrong that it just makes me sad to think about the relationships you must have had in your life. My husband and I have been together for almost 25 years and I would bet my life that he has never, ever cheated on me. And no, he is not a couch potato blah blah blah. He is an attractive, intelligent man. He is also a loyal man.

    I’m sorry that you have obviously had problems in choosing men who can stay faithful to you. You might want to get some counseling to find out why you do that. It might help. There is nothing in the world like the security of having a mate that adores you and is loyal to you 100%.

  68. Chicoulina says:

    samihami:I really hope that’s true but nobody except him can know for sure.
    Because of the relationships I had I’m not in denial.I know what’s happening around me and what to expect from a man.
    I really don’t care if a man is faithful because most of the times I was the mistress.
    I had an affair with a married man for a few years that everybody who knew him would bet their life that he never cheated on his wife.He was the quiet type and very much in love with his wife.As a married couple they were an example to others for loving each other and staying loyal to each other after 30 years of marriage.His wife called him all day and kept track of his every move.Well that’s what she thought.
    He would go to the garage and call me from his second hidden cell phone.
    He was under her nose in the house and cheating on her.
    I know many examples of men that did the same.I’m not saying it happens to every couple but I personally beleive that almost all men cheat someday and that most of them are good at hiding it.
    Everyone is free to their opinion.
    I really am hoping there are faithful guys out there but I personally don’t think so.

    Isa 62:I wish he’s loyal and faithful to you and if he ever cheats if you wish to find out I hope he’s stupid enough to leaves obvious signs immediately so you can kick his sorry ass and dump him.

  69. Kitty says:

    I guess the lingerie saleswoman, the young pretty blonde, Shery Shabani,Irma Nici and the other prostitute will just have to join Danielle Heath, Rebecca Loos,Sarah Marbeck, Emma Ryan, Jordan and Celina Laurie in the Beckham dustbin.

    “He ignores the years of press – unchallenged by any legal claims – documenting his prior affairs…”
    Ain’t that the truth. No prizes for guessing why.

  70. Kells says:

    I read the article because I was bored but it all sounds like speculation and the tabloid has no hard proof like pictures etc. All it has is unidentified sources saying something happened with nothing to back it up. He was seen with a blonde. How do they know the blonde wasn’t his sister? He’s a rich, famous athlete so yeah he probably cheats but they need better proof than this.

  71. julie says:

    Of course he cheats on his wife, he’s like all those other cheating premiership footballers they think it is their god given right to screw around with who they want and the girls that throw themselves at the footballers are just as bad, its all about money, greed and self gratification. Beckham and co may be good looking but inside they are ugly and rotten to the core with no morals.

  72. Kim says:

    I haven’t been able to find any candid pics of David and Victoria together on the Web since Sept 17th. There are many pics of David with the boys or Victoria with the boys but none of the two of them. I hope these rumors are false.

  73. Crash2GO2 says:

    @Chicoulina: “I really don’t care if a man is faithful because most of the times I was the mistress.”

    Well – that certainly explains your attitude. But you are still wrong on many levels, both ethical and factual.

    All you are relaying is your own experience. Married men have cheated with YOU. That is a far cry from all married men will cheat.

  74. Ruffian9 says:

    Crash2GO2: November 30th, 2010 at 3:52 pm

    You.
    Awsome.

  75. Ruffian9 says:

    “I sought a man who wouldn’t do that, and I got one.

    Aim higher is right.”

    This times 100.

  76. Chicoulina says:

    Crash2GO2:At least I have the guts to be honest and tell my side of the story.
    And trust me I’ve seen and lived more then you can imagine.I’m not living a fairytale dream,I’m just being realistic.
    Why does it bother some of you guys so much when we say all men cheat?It’s our opinion,if it’s false don’t pay attention.
    Maybe deep down inside you all know there’s a big chance it may happen to you and that scares you,so you prefer to be in denial and see the prince on the white horse.

    That’s ok,whatever makes you happy.I personally prefer to be stable on the ground and know what’s happening in the real world.
    Everyone has a right to their opinion.
    I just think that I’ve seen more things from men’s retrospective as being the mistress then I would as the wife or girlfriend.
    I also worked for 7-8 years at a job where I met alot of married men and saw what they are capable of so my opinion in not just based on my relationships.
    It’s also based on all my girlfriends marriages and relationships.I have a very good friend that would swear her husband wouldn’t cheat on her.They were married for 15 years.She tried to have kids for years and after a bad miscarriage she was in bed for months.Her husband was screwing the housekeeper and left her pregnant while his wife never had kids.He now has 2 kids with the housekeeper.That’s just one example.
    The biggest example for me is when I see women like Sandra Bullock,Eva Longoria,Christie Brinkley,Halle Berry and so many others that have everything be cheated on what’s stopping a guy from cheating on me?

  77. Anj says:

    He looks f-cking old. lost all his looks.

  78. slymm27 says:

    @chicoulina, let them be entitled to their opinion. Many of them aree angry because they know we are right, they don’t want to believe their loving husband/boyfriend has some side pieces he is bonning on the side. You all should snap out of the fairy tale, and worry if he is having an emotional affair, because that is the most dangerous, stop worrying about the 10min pleasure he is def getting from the ho on the side.

  79. Crash2GO2 says:

    @slymm27 & Chicoulina: Do I seem angry to you? Why do you feel the need to label me as angry simply because I point out the fact that your ‘evidence’ is anecdotal? And I’m not married, nor currently in a relationship, nor have I ever been cheated on that I know. Nor has any of my close girlfriends that I know of.

    It would seem to me, that the one who has the most need to be defensive would be Chicoulina who has participated in (not totally responsible for of course) the undoing of a promise made in a marriage between two people. As for slymm27, I have have no idea where you is coming from. But I hope the two of you eventually decide that you are worth more than being a piece on the side, or one of many.

    All else aside, can you simply not see how silly it is to say that ALL people do this that or the other? It simply doesn’t work that way – it isn’t human nature.

  80. Crash2GO2 says:

    Oops! Sorry for the awful grammar!

    @Chicoulina: The story about your friend, her miscarriage and her cheating husband is heartbreaking. But can you not see that you have been ‘the housekeeper’ yourself?

  81. slymm27 says:

    @crash2g2….i agree……looking back, it is really silly to say all men cheat, firstly i do not know all men, and again i think i came to that conclusion because of the media, no one seems to be faithfull anymore, i know somewhere in my heart, i am hoping there is a faithfull man out there. I know how annoying it is when some1 says all muslims are terrorists, i have amazing muslim friends who will never hurt a fly, so yeah we can not say ‘all’. It is in myy opinion though that too many men are finding it a man thing to have a piece or two on the side, maybe to fit in or something. And just so you know, i have never been the housekeeper, or the side piece….nah!, even though i understand a lot of what chicoulina is saying.

  82. Chicoulina says:

    Crash2GO2:”nor have I ever been cheated on that I know.”
    That says it all.That’s our issue here.You probably were cheated on but you didn’t find out.If not good for you.It also depends on the time you’re with someone.
    Ask 100 woman that you know for sure their guy is cheating on them and all of them will say that they’re 100% sure their man is faithful.
    So women’s opinions don’t really matter.Ask 100 guys if they’re faithful and then we’ll see the truth.
    I know what my role was and I could sit here and write lies without revealing what I did but I prefered writing the truth only to defend why I think all men cheat.
    Our issue isn’t what I did and why I did it,that’s my problem.
    Our issue is why men cheat and how many are faithful.
    I’m not going to spend more time trying to defend the facts.
    Everyone is free to beleive whatever they want.
    I’ll repeat one last time what I wrote before.
    As Chris Rock said,”Men are as faithful as their options. If they have no opportunity to cheat,they won’t.”
    and
    Men cheat because they can
    and women cheat to even the score.

    slymm27:Thanks for the support!

    And to be clear one last time all men that can cheat will cheat.Of course there are faithful men out there.But if a woman hits on them will they stay faithful???

  83. Crash2GO2 says:

    “And to be clear one last time all men that can cheat will cheat.Of course there are faithful men out there.But if a woman hits on them will they stay faithful??? ”

    Yes. Some men will.

    Thanks for the discussion. I wish you the best, but it’s not where you are now and I’m sorry for that – to all involved.

    Peace out.

  84. slymm27 says:

    @chicoulina honey…..you are very welcome