Sean Penn: insufferable jagoff or misunderstood, emo man-child?

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This interview is from a few days ago, but it’s worth covering. Sean Penn gave an extensive interview to The Hollywood Reporter, likely to draw more attention to his continued work in Haiti. As I’ve said before, I admire Sean’s work in Haiti – I think his heart is in the right place, and he is making a difference. But, as I’ve also said before, Sean ruins whatever respect or warmth you might have for him by being such an insufferable jag. In the piece (done over the holidays in Haiti, which is where Sean spent his Christmas), Sean ends up saying a lot of crap about Robin Wright and their divorce. The full THR piece is here, and here are the highlights:

Sean on the chaos of his life: “There’s a great thing Paul Newman said about his long marriage,” he says wryly. “ ‘As it turns out, we still love each other.’ That’s how I feel: ‘As it turns out, I’m still here.’ ”

Sean Penn on the United Nations (versus his own Haitian-based charity, J/P Haitian Relief Organization): Penn sniffs at “the amount we’re getting done, versus what they’re doing — which is nothing. Quite honestly, if you want something done, do it yourself.”

Sean on his divorce, and money: “I didn’t have commitments, except for way in the future; I had nothing pressing,” as if this will make everything clear. But he admits, “I got practical issues, like everybody. I had two federal cases against me at the time, and one criminal one,” he says, referring to charges for illegal trips to Cuba and assaulting a paparazzo. Also, he says, about his former wife Robin Wright, “I had just got taken for one half of everything I had in the divorce, so it’s not like I don’t have to work.”

Also: He says the divorce impacted him much more than his move to Haiti. “A much more profound change in life for me personally was not being able to raise my son in a whole family through high school,” he professes bitterly.

Sean on his alienation: He speaks of a future when he might leave the camp in others’ hands, then wavers. On some level, he belongs here. “Let’s face it,” he admits, as the daylight begins to fade, “I’m a person that feels pretty alienated from the rest of the world and never felt understood by anyone.”

He‘s moved to Haiti now: “There’s no end point,” he says, drained to the point of collapsing. “This is where I’ll be when I’m not working, for the rest of my life.”

[From The Hollywood Reporter]

In a previous interview, Sean described his involvement in Haiti as some kind of agreement with God – that when his son was hospitalized, Sean prayed and pledged to be more involved in the world if Hopper was spared. What kills me, though, is that since his involvements in Haiti have grown, he barely sees his kids. I seriously doubt it’s a matter of “Robin won’t let Sean see the kids” either – it seems like he just found a project, and he’s ignoring everything else, including being a parent.

Also – “I’m a person that feels pretty alienated from the rest of the world and never felt understood by anyone.” Sean is so emo. That must explain the Robert Smith hair.

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  1. Canuck says:

    He got “taken” for half? Didn’t he spend much of his marriage cheating on his wife? He sounds like a real dirtbag

  2. T says:

    He cheats on Robin, and it’s her fault he lost half of everything and his son isn’t going to finish out high school in a ‘whole’ family setting. Does ‘whole’ family setting include Petra Nemcova doing dishes while Robin puts away left-overs?

  3. samihami says:

    Don’t even have to read the story. He’s an insufferable jagoff of the highest order.

    Ugh.

  4. David says:

    I hate this man. I wish she gor more

  5. brin says:

    How about douche of all douches?

  6. Mia Girl says:

    I vote for “man-child who is an insufferable jagoff”

  7. original kate says:

    baby-man with a catcher’s mitt face.

  8. redlips says:

    Total jagoff! He is the “poster child” for the word “narcissist”….

  9. sara says:

    Sean Penn feels that nobody understand him. Um, maybe somebody should tell him that life isn’t about people “understanding you”. The classic misunderstood celebrity actor. Nobody gets me wha. Please spare me, what do you want to bet that something bad happened to him in his childhood that doesn’t allow HIM to connect with other people in a normal way.

  10. Kaboom says:

    Can’t stand the jerk.

  11. hairball says:

    Insufferable jagoff

  12. Jen says:

    Insufferable jagoff.

    And I didn’t read anything but the headline.

  13. HotPockets says:

    Didn’t Sean Penn cheat on his wife during a holiday trip with their family? With two prostitutes coked and drunk out of his mind? He then paraded some 20 something year old model around right after Robin filed for Divorce? This guy is like a more A-list version of Charlie Sheen and do any of us feel like we misunderstood Sheen’s persona? These people are royal douche-bags. I won’t even watch a Sean Penn movie.

  14. Riley says:

    Robin Wright seems like the coolest lady in town. I don’t think she would keep her children from Sean. He just seems very full of himself. I bet the set of Harvey Milk was a real downer for the crew, having both Franco and Penn to deal with. I love Franco though and suspect he is probably a pretty happy/friendly guy, but I bet these two tried to one up each other in between takes with their philosophical buddist emo bs.

  15. Sarah says:

    I love him in movies. Ever since the days of Fast Times. Never been much of a fan of Sean Penn the person, but I love Sean Penn the actor.

  16. mslewis says:

    I think he is pretty insufferable and most likely everybody else he meets thinks the same. He’s just not a very nice man, that’s all. Robin Wright left him and came back to him innumerable times during their marriage until she just couldn’t stand it anymore. But, rather than taking responsibility for the things he did to ruin that marriage, he would rather just blame Robin for not sticking around a few years longer so Hopper could finish high school in a “whole family”!! That right there is a man with an enormous sense of entitlement and no sense of responsibility.

    I do think his heart is in the right place when it comes to his work in Haiti but why kick the United Nations in the butt? Haiti is not the only country in the world with major problems. He only has to deal with Haiti; the UN has to deal with 100 other disasters. They do what they can. Don’t knock them.

    That’s all I have to say because I really don’t like Sean Penn. Never have and never will. And all I have to say is: the kids are lucky to have a mother like Robin Wright since their father has apparently decided to ignore them and take care of the children in Haiti who need him. Guess those humanitarian awards that are coming his way will take care of him in his old age.

  17. Nancy says:

    I really like Sean Penn I think he’s a really great actor but there’s just something not quite right about him. He is always majorly bitter when asked about Robin I mean he cheated on her constantly now he’s whining about how she got half of his money he needs to suck it up and move on it happens all the time oh and instead of spending a year down in Haiti maybe he should have spent it with his kids if he wanted them to be raised in a whole family just because you get divorced doesn’t mean you divorce your kids to.

  18. Johnny Depp's Girl says:

    BOOOO!! He comes off sounding like the conceited a$$hole he is.

    Yes he is doing great work in Haiti but sounds like he wants us to lick his butt too.

    Douche.

  19. Tammy says:

    Insufferable jagoff.

    When he said that journalists should be jailed for govenment dissention that was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me.

  20. hatsumomo says:

    Youi know what, I like him. What he is doing is admirable and not the easiest path. Yeah, so fucking what if he lives in Haiti and only comes to the States for work and promotional duties? And his kids aren’t stupid young naive children anymore. Im sure they understand what their father is doing in a less fortunate country, a hell-hole. If this was my father, had I ever had one, I’ve would support him to the fullest degree instead of letting people slag on my dad because he ‘isnt there’ by their standards. So fucking what if you dont like Sean Penn, and so what if his wife did get half his fortune. The camp he runs costs 420k a WEEK(info via MSNBC) and when the funds wernt coming in when they were supposed to, instead of cutting resources in the camp, he footed the bill himself until other sponsors were secured. So what if that does make him a jag-off or douche?

  21. Justaposter says:

    EMO Man-child?

    So I guess we can call him a Dark and broody teen old fart in a few years?

  22. anoneemouse says:

    Yes…he’s way too “deep” for the rest of us (sigh rolling of the eyes).

    Maybe his son would have had 2 parents to raise him through high school if his Father hadn’t cheated on his Mother so much.

    Something tells me he is a wife beater too.

  23. Whatever says:

    Insufferable jagoff. And self serving douche. Aww, he “got taken” for half? Asshole. It isn’t like she latched onto him a few years ago and went for his money. They raised two kids and she put up with him for how long? She deserves half. He sounds like a bitter moron. She probably wanted the divorce (and who can blame her??) Now he’s pissed. Too bad. Should have been a better husband.

    The kids are also grown. The oldest is over 18 and the youngest is 16. Yeah, doubt Robin is keeping the kids from him. If he isn’t seeing them, that’s his choice.

  24. mln76 says:

    He is a class A jagoff and the fact that he is documented to have beaten Madonna makes me think he’s closer to Charlie Sheen than humanitarian. My politics are really close to his but his demeanor towards the mother of his children makes it hard for me to believe its not all about control for him.

  25. WhiteNoise says:

    @Hatsumomo – I agree with much of that. He’s not the easiest person to like but hats off to him for his commitment to Haiti. There’s a decent man underneath that bitter & permanently frustrated persona of his. He’s also a very good actor and always delivers on-screen so I can easily ignore his less likeable qualities.

  26. Anti-icon says:

    Your headline says it all about la Penn. We can’t do anything about him…..except to accept.

    LOL!

  27. Vee says:

    Insufferable jagoff for $100 Kaiser!

  28. Lola says:

    Actually you’re wrong to a certain extent team jagoff- my friend works at the camp and he is committed there, believe me.

    As to his family you have no idea the arrangement. Stop ragging on him so hard.

  29. Attagirl says:

    You know what Sean?? There are a TON of people working tirelessly all over the sh*tholes of the world who do it without your self-pitying, maudlin, “nobody understands me” bullshite. You’re a mean, difficult, moody, broody Irish bastard who seems to think you can careen through life bashing into people and blaming them for it so STFU and keep doing God’s work in Haiti.

  30. bluhare says:

    He’s all of that. SO, he’s an asshole of the first order, bitches that his wife got half — in a community property state, no less — in their divorce, gets stoned out of his mind and isn’t the best of partners.

    BUT, he went to New Orleans rescuing people on his own dime, and is now in Haiti trying to help there, a lot on his own dime. So he’s not as self absorbed as the above might indicate. And bottom line is that sometimes it takes assholes to get things done. Being all nicey nice to people doesn’t get them moving but being the dick no one wants to deal with does. People just want dicks out of their faces. So he’s working with what he’s got, people!

  31. Nanea says:

    Sean Penn is, like so many other actors, quite full of himself.

    But unlike most other actors, he is really trying to make a difference in Haiti, to help out, and for that I applaud him.

    I admire Robin and wish her happiness.

  32. meg says:

    Jagoff. If you want people to call you Mother Theresa, freakin act like her.

  33. Siren6 says:

    Jag. And a brilliant actor.

  34. JustBe says:

    Because I respect his acting skills and the work that he is/has done for NOLA and now Haiti, I have to try to think the best of Mr. Penn.

    Is he a pouty, selfish, difficult person to deal with on a personal level, no doubt. But, I suspect that the level of pain that he has, his demons, push him to be both an excellent actor and humanitarian (and probably substance abuser). Unfortunately, they diminish his ability to be a great husband and father. At this point, with all that he has put his wife through, he is most likely reluctant to be around her or their children because the pain that he has caused is reflected in their eyes. Not to mention that his mind can’t accept the fact that Robin Wright has chosen to move on and let him lie with his demons since he seems to refuse to conquer them.

    I still have a tremendous amount of respect for him though. Most people with big issues/demons are just content to be a$$holes and/or substance abusers. He’s the bigger man for doing that and giving back to people who really need any help available.

    Maybe his kids can see that good part in him too to balance out what his actions have done to the family.

  35. Chris says:

    The petty criticisms of his surly demeanour pale into insignificance next to the fact that he’s one of the best actors in the world and that he uses influence to help people.

  36. Garvels says:

    What a self absorbed narcissist!Excuse the redundancy! I hope he pulls his head out of his a** and realize the feelings of chaos and rejection his children may be experiencing during this time. Perhaps that wouldn’t serve his purpose of a good photo opp like being filmed and interviewed in Haiti.

  37. nnn says:

    He is full of himself and kinda arrogant but i think he has a good heart and i admire his efforts in Haiti.

    I love Robin. She is sweet and cool. I often thought that he had a strong personality and never thought they would last and that he chose her as the antithesis of madonna with who he had one of the most passionate, wild and violent relationship.

    Again, Robin is certainly one of the most patient person on Earth.

  38. TeeTee says:

    OK!OK!OK!!

    He sounds like a Jag-off BUT at least he is doing MORE for Haiti than our Sweet Sex Symbols over here in the States…while they are getting tanned on the beach, and buying TWITS engagement rings or being BEARDED by some waif.

    he’s in the trenches, I guess.

    that’s all I got

    Have a good weekend everyone!

  39. Rosanna says:

    I used to like Robin Wright. I don’t anymore. I lose respect of a woman who takes support half of what her ex made when she obviously doesn’t need it.

  40. JO says:

    Don’t forget all the other affairs.. left Robin to move in a mobile home in malibu with that singer Jewell and also fooling around with Natalie Portman, and the two hotel hookers… Great actor idiot as a person

  41. Zzzzzzzzzz says:

    Fantastic actor. And I liked the whole Poison Penn thing when he and Madonna were married. I keep waiting for them to hook back up with each other. Other than, I got nothing.

  42. GeekChic says:

    There seems to be something off with him, like he has some sort of mental disorder. Clearly he is depressed, but also maybe there is something else going on like bipolar disorder?

    I think the work he is doing is extremely admirable. How many other people are actually there, in the trenches, living the life? He could just write checks and live at home in the lap of luxury, but he doesn’t. He’s there in Haiti working every day to help people.

    He’s obviously got a heart and a conscience, but I wonder if some sort of mental illness or personality disorder just masks it and makes him seem like a jackass. It’s such an incongruity–a guy who is dedicating his life to helping people but who can’t give an interview without sounding like a jackass. Strange.

  43. Jayna says:

    Robin stuck it out as long as she could and probably decided she deserved a happy life before she got too old with a normal, loving man.

    Sean Penn is an unbelievable actor and is doing great things in Haiti, but he’s losing it mentally. His thought process is all over the place and is playing victim and whining. UGH.

  44. LolaBella says:

    Misunderstood emo man-child with a hint of douchebag.

    He’s a phenomenal actor (Mystic River, Milk), but he’s a serial cheater douchebag(Petra Nemcova, Jessica White, Eve, Jewel, Natalie Portman).

    There’s no denying that he’s a true humanitarian who continues to serve in the trenches even after the telethon is over and cameras are gone, but his political views detract from his good deeds.

    The ‘woe is me, I had to give up half my money’ is whiny and emo, but I absolutely hate to hear this ‘he was a bastard and cheated on Robin so she DESERVED to take half’ argument that some people put forth.

    FFS, she got half because she was ENTITLED to it under the terms of the divorce. Not because she was a long suffering wife who stayed and let her husband constantly humiliate her.

    I too lost a lot of respect for Robin for taking him back so many damn times.

    Also, ITA agree that Sean is bipolar as well as being a complete narcissist.

  45. Lola says:

    Yes, he helped after Katrina, yes, he’s helping in Haiti. But why do we have to hear about all the great work HE’S doing and everybody else is just screwing up. Why all the pictures? Just do it and shut up. You didn’t deserve Robin – she’s WAY better than you.

  46. mimi says:

    He is being a Bitter B*tch, he cheated on Robin for years and when she finally got the backbone to leave his ass for good he goes to trashing her in the press!

    He’s a fantastic actor and gives greatly to charitable causes but a horrible person. He makes everything ABOUT HIM

  47. Liana says:

    I used to like Robin Wright. I don’t anymore. I lose respect of a woman who takes support half of what her ex made when she obviously doesn’t need it.
    *********

    It was community property. It was 1/2 ALL the marital assests; “his” money, “her” money, and any property they accrued during the time of their marriage. I would imagine they both had plans put in place to deal with anything they came into the marriage with. It’s the law.

  48. NJMDPS says:

    What a jackass.

  49. Crash2GO2 says:

    You tell him attagirl.

  50. hellen says:

    “he’s not as self absorbed as the above might indicate.”

    Yes he is. I’m pragmatic enough to be grateful for jerks like Penn who work hard for others. But I reserve the right to my opinion that these drama queens are self-righteous, self-absorbed and totally feeding off the drama and the notariety that this brings to THEM. Two-way street here. Sean Penn would not be interested in anonymity.

  51. echolocate says:

    Suffice it to say, if Sean was spending “his” money on coke and hookers, then the whole of which Robin got half was probably much less than it otherwise could have been. I applaud his work in Haiti, but by getting snippy about Robin, he got all our brains back on the topic of his lousy behavior. Hey, dumbass, the world wants to think of you like Gallant, so stop acting like Goofus.

    It’s not like Robin entirely dropped her own career,but she appeared to have been the primary caregiver. They put their chips behind Sean’s continued success while she took a more low-key approach and raised the kids. That’s why the unmarried version is called “domestic partners,” not “domestic sole proprietors who happen to share living expenses.”

    But yeah, it’s a moot point, because it’s the well-known law in the jurisdiction in which he chose to live. It’s their money, not his. And who’s he trying to kid? If he was motivated by money, he’d have gone the route of Cusack (sigh) and Cage. He’s an actor’s actor.

  52. nycmom10024 says:

    I once had a good friend whose father is a well known and philanthropic former athlete. He did/does great work with inner city boys and former gang members. Everyone speaks of the wonderful things he did. Guess what he had 5 kids that he barely ever saw and no they don’t look at him and think what a great man. Three of the 5 stopped speaking to him in their teens.

  53. hairball says:

    @attagirl: Agree!

  54. di butler says:

    Can someone please explain to this abuse sufferer why someone like Penn can continually beat their wives (yes,wives), have drunken rage fits, bust up their houses, beat up paps, etc, and still be admired, but someone like Chris Brown who is still very young is to be ostracized forever? I can understand he needs to be shamed and pay for his mistake, but some people really don’t do things like that but once. Penn has a looong history of douchebaggery. And people love him because he’s in Haiti. BFD.

  55. lennyandsita says:

    Does anyone remember a little movie named Forrest Gump? Its not like she didn’t contribute! In a marriage, the money is BOTH parties, not just one persons. He’s such a dope. What a self serving piece of garbage. “She took me for 1/2” HALF WAS ALREADY HERS!!!! Robin was his biggest supporter and he treated her like crap. He should be bitter, he really threw everything away by acting like a selfish little boy. BOO HOO for him.

  56. Crash2GO2 says:

    “Robin was his biggest supporter and he treated her like crap.”

    Right on the money. Except he didn’t throw her away, he just didn’t expect her to have any self worth. She was supposed to recognize his greatness and worship at the feet of his accomplishments (much like he is expecting us to do). Typical Hollywood narcissist. Good for her for getting the hell out.

    He’s not misunderstood at all. He is as transparent as they come.

  57. Mrs.Rut says:

    I don’t get this term “jagoff”. It is jack-off, is it not? Where did this start? Jagoff doesn’t even make sense…

  58. LittleOat says:

    @echolocate, I LOVE your pic. One of my favorite albums ever.

  59. kelly says:

    I think he’s probably a difficult douche in the same way many people, myself included, are 50% of the time. Determined, selfish people are good for some things, bad for others. Good for getting shit done in a place like Haiti, bad for being modest or accommodating about it. Good for acting (although I think hes a little overrated), hard to live with. Totally fucking uncomplimentary about the people who challenge him personally.
    But that’s most of us.

    Given his opportunities and wealth, I’d like to think I’d have a little more fucking perspective than this dick were I in his position, but I’d probably still blow it with the press by being honest about my selfish impulsive sentiments on record. I don’t know if it’s better to be a smarmy lying schmoozer or a spiky prick.
    I lied, it’s better to be a spiky prick.

    And Robert Smith is so not emo, come on; were you even born back then?

  60. Po says:

    I have to disagree with the idea that his heart is in the right place. If his heart was in the right place he would simply do the work without bashing others and trying to promote himself. I don’t know if anyone else noticed how article, and all of his interviews, are really about him and his charity. Its usually not about Haiti.

  61. Anti-icon says:

    If you guys want to get seriously indignant about “esteemed” men who were DICKS to their wives and family — read about the esteemed architect Frank Lloyd Wright, who fathered 6 or 7 children, abandoned his wife and children entirely….went to live in Europe with her; but HE returned and made a HUGE name for himself here….and NO mention in the news media about his familial abandonment….until he was brutally murdered at the hands of a servant, who thought he was a good man, and flipped out when he found out his esteemed employer was a louse. History has forever covered up the “truth” about him. I just found out myself about two weeks ago….and was HORRIFIED.

  62. jzhz says:

    Yeah, I don’t think he’s a decent man at all. I think he’s an asshole who does decent things, sometimes, but is still very self-serving and self-righteous about it. What a d#c&hole. Too bad his wife didn’t get away from him earlier.

  63. Liana says:

    There are a lot of directors in H-town who admire his ability but wouldn’t necessarily choose to work with him if there were an equally talented option (and there are many actors equally if not more talented than Penn).

  64. Cheyenne says:

    @attagirl and lolabella: Cosign.

  65. JenJen says:

    I am glad Robin got half of his money, for all those years she put up with this A-hole. He totally burned himself in Hollywood I think with his games of filing, un-filing and re-filing for divorce to someone that actually deserves the title of “America’s Sweetheart”.

  66. Javagirl1 says:

    @anti icon wright wasn’t murdered by that guy. His mistress, her children and his servants were. Wright was out of town at the time.

  67. JenJen says:

    Didn’t he have an affair with Lindsay too, way back? They were supposed to be filming a movie in New Orleans as I recall, but don’t remember it ever coming out if that is the case.

  68. lexirei says:

    I think he’s a bit of both. Great actor too.

  69. Twez says:

    misunderstood, emo man-child = insufferable jagoff.

  70. cindy says:

    He is a douche and a traitor to his country

  71. Trippin says:

    I never forget that he used to hit Madonna. Classless asshole to the max. Kinda like Charlie Sheen but a better actor.

  72. nick the bet says:

    He sure is a secretive character.

  73. eja102 says:

    2 questions:

    what does being Irish have to do with anything?

    and

    How is he a traitor to his country? In what way has he been (past or present)?

  74. mia says:

    Sean Penn does whatever gets him the most attention i.e. Haiti, Iraq, Cuba… When Robin Wright quit worshipping him then he was all angry and bitter about her.
    What happened Sean? Didn’t get breastfed as a baby???

  75. Stronzilla says:

    Whatever Robin got she earned it the hard way, just like Mel Gibson’s ex-wife, coincidentally named also Robin.

    Is this chucklehead still living in his airstream trailer in Malibu because he was too cheap to rebuild the house they lost? Spam in a can.

  76. Kim says:

    All of the above EXCEPT misunderstood.
    He is an absolute idiotic ego maniac.

    “I just got taken!” Oh brother! After how many affairs taht Robin got sick of along with his volatile personality.

    So because his son doesnt live with him full time he moves across world to Haiti where his son will NEVER see him? Why did you move and then complain about it like its someone else fault besides your own??! He is such a moron!

    People who truly are helping for the right reasons dont bag on other groups or to talk about how much they are doing to the media get warm fuzzies. They do it because its the right thing. Sean is only in Haiti for publicity and to ease his guilty conscious that he is a spoiled, rich celebrity.

    Snort some more Cocaine Sean and keep living in la la land.

  77. jess says:

    Robin really did deserve better. She put her own career on hold while he was able to do whatever he wished. And it is somewhat funny considering how many times HE filed for divorce throughout their relationship but he gets taken for half when SHE files for divorce.

    I think he’s a decent actor but he is definitely a dick head.