Lohan’s first girlfriend devastated she didn’t come out for her


Courtenay Semel and her new girlfriend, Tila Tequila, on 8/14/08. Tequila confirmed to in Touch in their 8/18 issue that they’re a couple. Credit: Faye Sadou / WENN

Lindsay Lohan was living with socialite Courtenay Semel in LA late last year. There were rumblings that the two were more than just friends, but Lindsay was also dating guys at the time and she wasn’t seen out much with Courtenay.

Courtenay was said to be jealous of any other women that talked to Lindsay and moved out of the Hollywood home they shared in late January.

Semel is the daughter of Yahoo! CEO Terry Semel, and is now openly dating idiotic reality star Tila Tequila.

Apparently she’s not over Lindsay, though, because she’s resorted to talking to the UK paper that gives ex lovers of celebrities a chance to sensationalize their past – The News of The World. Courtenay told the rag that she’s perplexed that Lindsay so quickly moved on to Samantha. She’s also upset that Lindsay refused to acknowledge their relationship, but is openly dating Samantha now:

Lindsay now does little to disguise the tenderness of her relationship with British DJ Samantha Ronson—but this is only after months of covert gay experiments with stunning brunette Courtenay Semel.

Everyone thinks Samantha is Lindsay’s first lesbian love, but we were very passionate until her fear of being found out drove us apart,” Courtenay told a pal.

“At the time she was terrified her career would be over if she revealed her sexual tendencies.

“But then Samantha came on to the scene and I was dropped.”

Courtenay, 25, also told how 22-year-old Lindsay, whose films include Herbie, Fully Loaded and Mean Girls:

BEDDED a string of men in a bid to suppress her lesbian urges — and to hide them from her public.

SANK into addictions as the pressure of her double life grew.

SLIPPED into a bizarre love triangle with both women.

Courtenay’s pal explained: “She met Lindsay in the summer of 2006 at a party in Malibu.

“From the start Lindsay was very confused about her feelings for Courtenay so did more and more drugs to stifle the sexual attraction she was experiencing.

“But eventually she just gave in and at every party they’d kiss and touch each other in the corner. It’s a miracle nobody found out.

“Both of them would do lines of cocaine in the toilets then head home and fall into bed together.”

Throughout the following year, the pair stumbled through an on- off relationship as troubled Lindsay checked into a succession of rehab units and continued to date men as a ‘cover’. But it was as early as January 2007 that she first met 31-year-old Samantha, sister of pop guru Mark Ronson.

[From News of the World]
This makes it seem as if a lot of Lindsay’s addiction and sexual problems came about as she tried to cope with her feelings toward women. Of course it doesn’t excuse her very obnoxious and harmful behavior, and she’s probably still a self-entitled brat, but at least she’s relatively sober and well-behaved compared to her wild past.

Courtenay eventually left Lindsay when she kept sleeping with men and didn’t seem able to take the relationship seriously. She says that Lindsay and Samanth were just friends for a while and that Samantha often gave her advice. The article concludes by making Courtenay seem like a crazy jealous person who is unable to move on:

By October, Courtenay appeared to have the upper hand. [over Samantha] She and Lindsay moved into a rented house in Beverly Hills. “But still Lindsay brought men back,” the pal added. “Courtenay would throw fits of rage, writing her hundreds of angry e-mails from another room in the house.

“The sexual attraction between them was electric though and they’d still kiss and make up.”

That ended last December when Lindsay bedded one man too many and, unable to take more humiliation, Courtenay moved out.

It was less than a week later that Samantha was back on the scene. Outwardly, at least, Lindsay became a changed person, even turning blonde.

The pal added: “Courtenay still can’t understand how Lindsay is now so open with Samantha.

“Every time she sees a picture of them together it kills her.

[From News of the World]
Maybe Lohan just never openly dated Semel because their relationship wasn’t stable. It’s no wonder she refused to make it known that they were together when Semel was acting like that – she must have doubted it would last.

Star Magazine reports this week that Courtenay ran into Lindsay and Samantha at a lounge at bar in LA and that she “was staring daggers [at Lindsay and Sam] all night.” It looks like Tila Tequila is more this woman’s speed and that Lindsay made a wise choice by picking Sam.

Lindsay and Courtenay are shown below in December, 2007. Credit: Splash News

Here are more photos of Courtenay and Tila Tequila on 8/14 and 8/18. Credit: WENN and PRPhotos. Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are shown out at the movies and to lunch on Saturday and out for a walk on Sunday. Credit: Fame Pictures

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  1. CoCo says:

    I actually think Sam was a total upgrade compared to Courtenay… lol

  2. SeVen says:

    What Coco said… Sam seems so much better

  3. Nouvel says:

    Linds and Sam are in love. I don’t think the other 2 were in love. Plus it takes some time to transition, so Linds is probably more comfortable in her skin now and feels it is real, so she wants people to know, that is the difference. Although I bet that other chick is loaded being Yahoo’s CEO’s daughter..:)

  4. czarina says:

    I think for some people embracing their sexual preferences must be very scary–especially for someone in Lindsay’s position because being gay DOES effect what acting roles you will be given (despite Hollywood’s ‘look how liberal we are’ pose), and obviously she has had no family support at all.
    I hope when she’s ready (and if it’s right for her) she comes out publicly and doesn’t feel as if she has to be coy or evasive about who she is.

  5. xiaoecho says:

    BEDDED

    SANK

    SLIPPED

    gotta love NOTW

    Lindsay’s doing wonders for Sams style

  6. Syko says:

    “Stunning brunette”?

    Where?

  7. Codzilla says:

    “Both of them would do lines of cocaine in the toilets then head home and fall into bed together.”

    And who said romance was dead?

  8. Bodhi says:

    But it was as early as January 2007 that she first met 31-year-old Samantha, sister of pop guru Mark Ronson.

    I though sam & LL have been friends for WAY longer than that!

    As for, Semel… I wouldn’t tell anyone I was dating her either! Woof!

  9. CiCi says:

    lmao syko. 🙂

  10. Jenna says:

    Lohan must click with Sam better. End of story as far as the other girl goes. Either that or she knows what to do in order to make Lindsay not bring boys in 😈

    But I suppose if she wanted attention, Tila is certainly the one to give it to her. Unless they get a television show… then it will get ugly.

  11. Sarah says:

    I second what Bodhi said… all one has to do is a little googling and you can easily see that a. Courtenay is all about the publicity b. Samantha and Lindsay knew each other long before Courtenay was ever in the picture c. The “source” is likely Courtenay herself d. dating Tila Tequila is all about publicity, especially since they seem to frequently show up at the same events that Sam and Linds are at.

  12. Lauri says:

    Stunning? Really? Stunningly unattractive, maybe.

    That is not a pretty woman, by any stretch.

  13. Orangejulius says:

    Slutty McSluttson

  14. elisha says:

    Ever since I saw her on Filthy Rich Cattle Drive, I thought Courtenay looked a helluva lot like Sarah Silverman.

  15. Kaiser says:

    Lord, does Courtenay remind anyone else of Jenny Shimizo? I guess that means Lindsey Lohan *is* the next Angelina Jolie.

  16. Blackalicious says:

    Maybe Courtenay (dumb spelling btw..) can search in that massive bag for her chin.

  17. jaundicemachine says:

    Since when did college experimentation become a ‘life-style’? She was a booty call, not a lover. Get over it, and enjoy your 15 minutes with the Mongoose.

  18. vdantev says:

    Linds likes her women ropey and ape-like, doesn’t she ?

  19. RaeJillian says:

    i hate to state the mean and clear BUT – that chica is barf! like YIKES! and now that sam has her cute hair cut she’s WAY cuter than that.

  20. Snowblood says:

    That Yahoo chick is absolutely ugly, and I mean really, really painfully unattractive. And isn’t “devastated” a little dramatic? More like “pissed off and jealous.”

    And yeah, Samantha Ronson & Lindsay Lohan have known each other since childhood, I thought. At leas, at the very LEAST for about 6 years. They didn’t just meet recently, they’ve been knowing each other a while.

  21. Codzilla says:

    And isn’t “devastated” a little dramatic? More like “pissed off and jealous.”

    Snowblood: So funny and so, so true.

  22. Victoria says:

    You said it, CZARINA…… Lindsay, has always been everyone’s little Parent Trap Girl, she once said. That was a hard act to follow and leave behind, because the movie made such an impact on so many people… She told David Letterman that it took her forever to make people believe that there was not 2 of her. That she was not a TWIN… I believe now like you said, that maybe she thinks this may hurt her career, but it did not hurt Ellen Degeneres’s. I hope she stays happy, with whomever she stays with…. It was funny that she e-mailed Michael Phelps the USA swimmer, and apparently used cussed words…. His mother saw this, and said ” no way “, and deleted the message… she told the reporters… Lindsay said ” he was cute” but in other terms, which she found not amusing. Michael did NOT either. He said he would not date her either, as she goes from one person to another as does most Hollywood people… So maybe that is her cue to stay with Samantha… Good luck with that Linds…

  23. Christina X says:

    I’m no Lindasy Lohan fan, but I refute the credibility since she’s obviously with that contract bisexual, Tila Tequila.

  24. Nicola says:

    Lindsay and Samantha are a very pretty couple – comparing wonderful to each other. I wish to them that their relationship will become a stable marriage so that there´s in future no need to “hide” something. I think this would also helps Lindsay very much to come off from the drug consuming and alcoolism before she´s ruining her health.

  25. Snowblood says:

    Aw, screw it. Lindsay Lohan can handle “ruining her health,” believe THAT – she’s barely 23 years old. She can ruin away to her heart’s content for another good fifteen years or so, and STILL come out on top looking like a fukking Gaelic Goddess, so don’t stress yourself out worrying about poor little Lindsay Lohan. She will be JUUUST FINE.

    And just becaue she’s got a good thing going right now with a really cool, down chick, doesn’t mean that at her age she has to be pressured into talking about – or FUKK forbid – marrying – her girlfriend. Did any of YOU marry your boyfriend/ girlfriend when YOU were 23 years old?

    O.K., don’t answer that! 😆 I’m just sayin’…

  26. Nicola says:

    @snowblood

    We can in fact see much 23-year-old drug wrecks everywhere – it´s not necessary to remember to Amy Winehouse. The combination of cocaine and alcool makes a pudding in your brain.

    And I think in fact, too, that a stable relationship with a woman like Samantha is necessary for her not only in relation to her health but also for her emotional well-being and her mental stability.

    Yes, and last but not least I think it´s normal to marry a human being which you love and with which you´re staying together – even with 23!

  27. Snowblood says:

    O.K., whatever you say, Momma Nicola! 😛 I won’t arue with you, I don’t feel like it. 🙂 Too tired, at this point in the night.

  28. Nicola says:

    @Dear Snowblood

    I´m not a mommy 🙁 – unfortunately, because my mommy wants to have grandchildren from me since a longer time 😳

    I fear I would be also a bad example for Lindsay Lohan, too – I like much too much partying hard and becoming drunk. But Lindsay and Samantha are really a wonderful couple, aren´t they? 😀

    Sleep well and have a sweet good-night-kiss,
    yours mommy Nicola 😆