Ryan Gosling explains his Disneyland obsession, does ballet: “I think like a girl”

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Ryan Gosling is still promoting The Ides of March, which has done okay so far for a political thriller by scoring $29 million at the domestic box office, yet it didn’t certainly knock anything out of the ballpark. Still, the movie has generated some Oscar buzz already, which was probably the reason that Gosling signed on. You know, to diversify the resumé a bit and set himself apart somewhat from romantic comedies like Crazy, Stupid, Love and adrenaline-pumping movies like Drive. He also looks pretty great in a suit, right?

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As Kaiser has noted, Ryan plays the nice guy card a lot by talking up his ex-girlfriends like a real sweetheart and casually mentioning that he wants babies really soon. He also digs puppies (a lot) and even takes his dog to yoga class where it pees in the corner. This is not to mention the slightly bizarre Disneyland obsession that Gosling has going on. Well, Gosling felt like clarifying his thoughts on a few of those topics, so sat down with The Independent to discuss Ides and a whole lot more. Here are some relevant excerpts:

On Comparisons To George Clooney: Who the, what the? I don’t even know what to think about that. Let me get back to you.

On His Feminine Side: I think like a girl, I think. I was literally raised by my mother and my sister. And I just feel like I wouldn’t know how to think any other way. My sister was my best friend and my hero growing up. Because I was home-schooled I didn’t have a lot of friends and I did ballet, which was always just girls. All of that had an effect on my brain.

On Regular Jaunts To A Ballet Studio: I practise whenever I can. A lot of the students are young girls so they’re there with their mums but they just kind of watch and tell me to keep it up. They try and be positive but I’m so bad. I don’t even know what I like about it but it’s like acting, I’m just compelled to do it and I do it to find out why. The not knowing is interesting.

On Hollywood Vs. Politics: It’s very hard to be honest in both jobs. You can’t really tell the truth because everything you say is taken out of context and cut up. You just have to be careful what you say.

On Rumors That He’ll Soon Retire: (Sighing deeply) That’s exactly what I’m talking about. What I said was that I’ve been acting since I was 12 [he starred alongside Justin Timberlake, Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera in the children’s TV series The Mickey Mouse Club] and I’ve been feeling very creative lately but that I can’t see myself maintaining that pace or doing this for the rest of my life. I really can see directing becoming a big part of my life.

He Doesn’t Really Want Babies Now Either: Out of context too. I was saying that genetically we are programmed to have certain instincts and if you’re not fulfilling those instincts, they can manifest themselves creatively.

On Disneyland: I have a love/hate relationship with Disneyland but what’s so interesting to me is that the attention to detail there never gets old. There’s always something new to find, something they’ve thought of. And there is always the idea of somebody who had a dream and made it so real you can walk around in it.

[From The Independent]

He makes some good points on how words can be (and often are) easily taken out of context during interviews, but I still don’t get the Disneyland thing. Maybe it’s just me, but it’s still a little bizarre that Gosling enjoys spending tons of time at a tourist trap. The guy is an incredibly talented actor though, so I’ll give him that. Of course, I probably won’t watch The Ides of March in theaters because I’m not a huge fan of political movies. Now, Gangster Squad? That looks like an enjoyable Ryan Gosling movie in the making.

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  1. jazz fabulous says:

    He is so cute, and I really like that a heterosexual man is not afraid to declare that he “thinks like a girl.”

  2. Reece says:

    I think everybody who has worked for Disney in whatever fashion has a love/hate relationship with Disney.

  3. Stubbylove says:

    I know a ton of chicks love this guy but for whatever reason (may b’cuz I couldn’t stomach The Notebook) he has always bugged the shit out of me.

  4. Saskia says:

    They filmed the Mickey Mouse Club at Disney, right? I think it was Disney in Florida instead of California, but Disney is Disney no matter where you are geographically so maybe it’s a nostalgia thing for him? Especially if, as he said, he has a love/hate relationship with his Disney history then it’s probably easier to focus on the positive memories when you’re essentially standing inside a cartoon.

  5. Turtle Dove says:

    I feel for the guy, and I get why he’s reiterating on things that he’s said, but his PR have to stop being so militant about reading blogs, etc. I’m starting to feel that every interview and statement is a commentary to bloggers and posters.

    Just work. That’s all. No showmance bullshit. No posed doggy cuddles. Just act and create films. Fin.

  6. RocketMerry says:

    “I think like a girl”
    That might be why you’re so awesome.

    OT. Honestly, how fantastic would a man with a womanly mind be? I’d marry him.

  7. Ron says:

    I understand the Disney thing. I live in SoCal so whenever anyone comes here to visit, they want to go to Disney and i always think “another trip to f’ing Disney” then i get there and it’s always fun and there is a magic and charm about the place that is amazing with people who have never been there.

  8. Maria says:

    I have a bulldog, so that picture of him in his hat, kissing on a smooshy-faced pup, underbite and all, makes me so happy. Sweetest dogs ever.

  9. ShanKat says:

    He also folds his arms like a girl.

  10. Heine says:

    I grew up in a family of Disney fans so I’ve never found it strange to go to Disneyland as an adult. I also don’t see it as a tourist trap but maybe that’s because I live nearby-ish and have gone at least twice a year my entire life, I never buy anything there, just go on the attractions and bounce at about 7.

    I would love it if I had a boyfriend who liked going Disneyland.

    The Ides of March isn’t so much political as it is a morality play-which makes sense as it is based on a play. The politics of the characters aren’t central to the plot; it’s more about how they present themselves as opposed to who they really are.

  11. Relli says:

    I love him, cant help it we have the same birthday! But i get where he is coming from because sometimes i think i am way too much dude. I was a really ugly kid from like 6 to 13 and boys were my best friends, i had girlfriends but a lot of my young life was shaped by being one of the boys. So as i have grown up thats where i always find myself, being one of the guys. I also love ballet (best freaking work out ever) found myself drawn to yoga because of it and have been accused of being WAY TOO into my pets. Hmmm we may be a perfect match.

  12. NM9005 says:

    Disneyland is just PR-crap. Why anybody takes his Disney-outing serious, I don’t know. Mendes is a PR-stunt just like the previous girls. Gosling is a hussler too, he has to promote his work too.

    I think a lot of people (especially women) want to see him as “real” not a HWood-player and he just reacts to that with women friendly quotes and downplaying his hussling as something cute. And he gets away with it. He lives in L.A. after all and seeing how McAdams is much more low profile than he is, I think he does like to play the game and she didn’t. He loves fame and recognition.
    That said, he doesn’t appeal to me. He looks too boyish. I watch his films because he’s a good actor and delivers good work but don’t use him as a sexfantasy prop. He worked hard for his success so please Gosling, stop being a Hollywood player. Or at least stop trying to come off as a “real” person, be a slut then but keep on making good films please.

  13. StephanieMarie says:

    I totally hear him on the Disney thing!
    I’m obsessed with Disney for the same reason…The attention to detail is INSANE. I LOOOVE that place!! So MAGICAL!

    Ok..Now the grown up in me has something to say: Really? No one is going to get on him for reinscribing such strict gender norms?? Like, Disney and Ballet are for girls? How exactly does one “think like a girl?” How are we (girls) SUPPOSED to think??

  14. StephanieMarie says:

    Also, in that fedora…anyone else getting a young Roger Sterling vibe?

  15. Kitten says:

    Gah! There is no man on the face of the earth that I would rather have sex with.

  16. MJ says:

    RocketMerry – That’s what I did! I found a sensitive, emotionally open and thoughtful brain in a hot, masculine package and it RULES. He actually moved across the continent to be with me after years of long-distance dating.

    To be serious, my husband actually changed my old opinions on the above traits being feminine vs masculine – they’re really just goood people traits.

  17. layla says:

    I do not get the dong-love and fascination with this guy.

    He is average looking at best and I find his eyes beady. The more he talks the more unattractive he becomes.

  18. RocketMerry says:

    @ MJ
    Good for you!
    Now, does your husband have a single brother who’s maybe traveling across Europe, by any chance… ? =)

  19. Zzzzzzzzz says:

    There’s no denying he’s a great actor but man, he’s starting to weird me out with his interviews.

  20. mln76 says:

    I really think he’s a talented actor but I lost my crush on him sometime over the non-stop film promotions he’s done. Maybe it was the dog in yoga class story that killed my crush.

  21. jen says:

    I was born in L.A but now I live in the south & totally miss Disneyland.

    Disney World just doesn’t cut it.

  22. Eve says:

    You see that smirk in the first picture? That alone makes me want to punch him in the face.

    Dude tries a way too hard. And no, I don’t think he’s immensely talented — I think his acting is ok, nothing mind blowing.

  23. layla says:

    @Eve –
    Agreed.
    That smirk is him thinking he’s immensely talented!

  24. Kit says:

    He’s overexposed right now and this amount of fame just doesn’t seem to suit him. It’s as if he doesn’t know how to handle it and he’s getting bad advice.
    He’ll be going away for a couple of months filming with Refn in Asia. Hopefully that absence should sort it out, my crush is fading fast and Fassbender is so hot right now.

  25. Eve says:

    @ Layla:

    And thinking he’s super hot too and that he can pull off any look (for instance, the ridiculous pajamas-like shirt and the sateen tuxedo he wore at Cannes Festival 2011).

    EDIT:

    Look at the “I can rock any outfit” look on his face here:

    http://www.laineygossip.com/Articles/Details/20229/Ryan-Gosling-and-a-man%E2%80%99s-suit

    Or here:

    http://www.dlisted.com/2011/07/15/strut-strut-struttin-that-ass

    Maybe he’s the nicest guy on earth, but I get MAJOR douchebag vibes from him.

  26. Lena says:

    He will always be my favorite actor. He’s so talented and charming.

  27. I Choose Me says:

    I had a dream about Ryan a couple of weeks ago shortly after seeing Drive. I dreamt that he was my neighbor and now I can’t stop thinking about him. Oh yeah, the dream was hot! hot! hot!

    It was so hot that I’m going to ignore all unfavourable gossip about him so as not to kill the fantasy buzz. 😀

  28. aww says:

    ”And there is always the idea of somebody who had a dream and made it so real you can walk around in it.”

    This makes me love him even more. 🙂 How can you still not get his fascination with Disneyland? He explains very well why he loves going there.

  29. MS says:

    Love him, swoon.

  30. Kiki says:

    He is remarkably handsome.

  31. Anne says:

    Monarch mind control programming

  32. Callumna says:

    Ever since the Asperger’s syndrome theory I can’t help but be 100% on board.

    He seems flaky but then when you hear the concentration he has a slight social strangeness he seems a bit more genuinely eccentric.

  33. Cleo says:

    Even with an annual pass, Disney is SO expensive but it delivers on its promise – it genuinely makes kids happy. I wouldn’t walk into any of their parks without kids. It’s just TOO expensive and the food looks bad.

  34. JaneWonderfalls says:

    I think since he was raised by his mother along with his sister, he has a bit of a quiet sensitivity that some men don’t show. I like Ryan I think he’s a class act and a wonderful actor. I have always been a fan of his before all of the press he’s been getting recently! Ever since Half Nelson, I’ve been impressed with him.

  35. Vanessa says:

    I’m 27 years old and I love Disneyland. Not Disney in general, although I had my share of princess-mania when I was a little girl. But Gosling captured it perfectly – “the idea of somebody who had a dream and made it so real you can walk around in it” – I find that so compelling about Disneyland. Maybe we’re romanticizing Walt Disney a little, and it is an expensive tourist trap, but Disney’s mind is where it all started and now its a physical place. I can see how someone with an interest in how the creative drive works would be fascinated by something like that.

  36. Kitten says:

    To those that think he’s of *average?* talent-Have you seen The Believer? Half Nelson? Lars and The Real Girl ? DRIVE??? Um, sorry but who do you consider “talented” then? I understand this is a subjective thing TO A POINT. But when every critic, director AND actor are singing another actor’s praises, you kind of have to give credit where credit is due..

  37. MarilynM says:

    I have nothing against him, at all. But he is really overexposed and way over hyped by WB studios and others. It’s so bad it’s making me hope he does not get roles, and that is not fair to him.

    And, after reading this interview, it is even harder to see the talent through the squishy sweet aw-shucks celebrity image that’s being promoted.

    • deehunny says:

      Totally agree. And then he dropped the fact that he was home-schooled… Adds to the hyper-Christian squeaky clean image

  38. Adrien says:

    Posts about Ryan Gosling are like videos of kittens and puppies, they brighten up your day. You don’t have to take Prozac, just read posts about Ryan Gosling and you’ll be alright. I always thought he looks like a member of Steps or S Club 7, he’s that wholesomey. He’s still looks like Ian Watkins (H of Steps) but packed with phwoar.

  39. Hehastheherp says:

    He’s so sexxxy. I would eat him up like the cougar meat he is. I love him. At this point our relationship is pretty one sided.

  40. marisa says:

    I’d go to Disneyland with him any. damn. day.

  41. hammer says:

    NM9005: I totally agree with what you said. This “aw, shucks” persona is hoaky; I’m sure it’s meant to sell him, because he does have to sell himself, as his movies don’t, but it comes off so phony and cheesy, almost like the mush you’d read in Tiger Beat for swooning pre-teens. Personally, he never has done anything for me. Something about his droopy expression just inspires me to zzzzzzz.

  42. liv says:

    I’m in my 20s and I love Disneyland. I live in Orange County and I just renewed my annual pass (just went to Disneyland and California Adventures last week). So I get the Disney thing. It’s fun. It’s especially fun if you have a front of the line pass (not fast pass, but front of the line pass), which as a celebrity I’m sure Ryan has.

  43. lolaluvsu says:

    Once Disney is in your system, it never leaves. Ugh!

  44. grace says:

    I wonder if he’s just selling us the sweet and sensitive guy act to win over more and more women. Maybe he IS really nice. But I still get the manwhore vibe from him.

  45. Sto says:

    The most talented actor under 40.
    He should have won the Oscar for Half Nelson.

  46. normades says:

    He’s not perfect looking, but he really knows how to turn on the charm. He’s just adorable!!!

    But he really needs to stop dating Eva Mendes (tots mis-matched imo).

    Mendes should date Fassbender. Ryan should date Zoe Kravitz. (just an idea)

  47. sauvage says:

    I AM an actual girl and if a man’s (any man’s, even if he were to be as cute as Gosling) idea of a first date would be going to Disneyland, I’d be done with him in a hot minute.

  48. Mika says:

    Oscar bait is not a change of pace for him. Seriously, he’s made some great movies that were just off the radar, like the Believer and Half Nelson. I think the only people who saw his early movies were Canadian girls who still had a crush on him from the “Breaker High” days. Oh… and even then, he was still a little weird in interviews. That’s just Ryan.

    Any other Canadian girls here remember Breaker High? Or that time her was on Are you Afraid of the Dark? and Road to Avonlea? and The Adventures of Shirley Holmes? Before he hit Hollywood, he was a YTV boy!

  49. Meg says:

    ‘adrenaline-pumping movies like Drive’
    did you see drive? it was adrenaline pumping at all, it wasn’t a bunch of car chases, it was quite slow moving and was a slow paced film. know what youre talking about before you criticize it

  50. hammer says:

    Grace: “But I still get the manwhore vibe from him.”

    Of course he’s a manwhore…all single guys are, because you know they’re not sleeping alone every night. It’s only certain celebrities who get dogged for it, though. I guess everyone assumes the rest are leading celebate monk-like existences until they are finally linked with a starlet.

  51. grace says:

    “Manwhore” is a strong word. I guess I should have said “Ladies Man” instead. I have a feeling he dates/sleeps with many women, and I know it’s normal. I don’t have a problem with that. I just hope he treats them nicely. I don’t want to believe the less than flattering stories about how he treated some of the women. But I can’t believe all the things I read. He’s a hot, gorgeous guy, and if he’s a sweet person too, he’s darn near perfection!

  52. LuckyLilGem says:

    Disney is where his career started. Perhaps taking a girl there is a way to share a special part of his back story.

  53. hammer says:

    LuckyLilGem: “Disney is where his career started. Perhaps taking a girl there is a way to share a special part of his back story.”

    If my husband had taken me to a boy scout jamboree just because being a boy scout was part of his back story, he would never have become my husband. Just sayin.

    Well, maybe Goslin gets free passes to Disney and it’s his way of creating a cheap date. Or maybe Disney pays him to take his dates there….and gets free advertisement via the tabloids.

    At any rate, it’s all hokey.

  54. Ari says:

    He is the sex. The end.

  55. Anonymous says:

    Ehh the whole Eva Mendes thing has made my love for him fade….she’s gross and talentless. He needs to get rid of her so I can love him again.

    And those Disneyland pictures with her were staged. When he was there with Blake and Kat, he was NOT papped (even though people say Bale is ALL about PR) but with Eva, which was RIGHT before he started promoting dDrive they were pretty much POSING for the cameras and the pictures were then sold to UsWeekly. I wonder how long he’s going to have to keep hanging out with her , till he’s in LA filming GS (he lives in NYC now right?) or till their movie comes out next year (for which the first stills have been released…again, how convenient.)

  56. The Disneyland Obsession thing is easy for me to understand, I do suffer from the same affliction. The only cure, or at least the only treatment is an occasional dose of Disney. It can be visiting with other Disney addicted people, either in the Parks or on line. Ryan should stop by the Trader Sam’s Enchanted Tiki Bar at the Disneyland Hotel on any Friday night starting at 4:00 P.M. There he may find a few Disneyland fans that get together for a cold drink, and conversation. I’m sure that those in attendance will welcome him. And who knows he might just find a suitable treatment for his Disneyland Obsession.