Is Michael Fassbender dating his ‘Shame’ costar Nicole Beharie?

So far, it seems like LaineyGossip is one of the few sites talking about this. Michael Fassbender might be dating his Shame costar Nicole Beharie? What the…? No, I’m not really shocked. She’s his type – petite, dark-skinned, exotic beauty, full lips. That really is his type. All I’ve got is the dark-skinned part (GAH!). Anyway, if you go here, you can see the new photos of Michael and Nicole walking around New York yesterday (or sometime this week?). The photos in this post are of Michael and Nicole filming Shame last year – March 2011.

You know what else was happening in March 2011? Michael was dating Zoe Kravitz. I suspect Zoe and Fassy were living together in her NYC apartment too. So just how and when did Nicole couple-up, if that’s what we’re seeing? Is it one of those “we worked together a year ago and now we’re dating” things? I never buy those things. I always think that the people were hooking up as they working together. So was Michael fooling around with Nicole while he was with Zoe? Eh. For what it’s worth, I’ve never been completely sure that Michael and Zoe were as “couple-y” as was assumed. They spent months apart at various times, and I think they had a loose definition of their “relationship.”

What do you need to know about Nicole? She’s 27 years old. She’s an up-and-coming actress who has begun to work steadily in film and television over the past few years – you can see her IMDB here. I think she’s really beautiful, and she’s one of those women who looks totally different depending on her makeup and hair situation. Considering this is the first time they’ve been photographed together in a casual situation, I don’t know what to think about their relationship. Dating? Friends with benefits? True love? GAH. Oh, and over the past few months, there have been rumors and “sightings” of Fassy with an unnamed dark-skinned beauty – so maybe it’s been going on for a while? There’s also a report from London a few weeks ago that Michael and Nicole were loved up across the pond.

I’m not saying that Fassy hasn’t broken my heart a little. He has. But if this is what he wants… *sob* I’m not going to blame Nicole for ridin’ the Fassdong. God bless her, you know? Somebody’s got to.

Photos courtesy of WENN, stills from ‘Shame’.

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  1. Blah says:

    She is way hotter than him.
    Never seen the appeal in this guy. Well, at least he has some talent.

    • elvyn says:

      True that she is more beautiful than him. But they are both talentuous.

      They could also be friends. Why do you never consider this possibilty? Man and women, girl and boy, can be friend even best friend without any sexual tentation. I had a best friends (boy and girl) during my high school.

      • maemay says:

        they could be friends but men just don’t hold hands with women friends. Holding hands is the international sign of “this is my woman” at least for now.

      • elvyn says:

        Not true! It depends on the situation. If you are both confident in your relashionship and know it boundaries, you won’t have any problem.
        Also in these pictures, they don’t hold each other hands.
        They are just walking quietly on the street. Their nothing which can make you go other way.

      • maemay says:

        Here are some pics of them holding hands: http://fassbendertheginger.tumblr.com/

        Just in my opinion male friends do not hold your hand unless they are leading you somewhere or guiding…in these pics they are side by side casually holding hands. When not holding hands he has his arm around her shoulder.

      • Toot says:

        @elvyn
        In the new pictures that are linked to in this article there’s a pic of them holding hands. He’s also touching her almost the whole time they’re walking, so I definitely think they’re more than just friends.

      • elvyn says:

        I haven’t seen these pictures.
        Might be true they are an item.
        We will see.

      • lisa says:

        This whole “men only hold your hands if you’re their girl” is kind of childish.

        I regularly hold my friends hands (guys) when we are out and about, whether they are guiding me or we are simply taking a stroll.

      • elvyn says:

        True!

      • Rita says:

        lol, never seen or heard of a guy and a girl holding hands and being touchy unless they are in a relationship, on a date, or related. i’m american and from the northeast (so a little bit puritanical haha), but maybe where some others of you are from it’s different.

    • maemay says:

      On closer inspection their fingers are entwined….do friends entwine fingers?? yes, no, maybe?

  2. sassyspank says:

    I will take this man with a side of toast. This guy is sex on a plate. More please!

  3. Jen34 says:

    She is gorgeous and age appropriate. Plus, I’d rather he be with her than that (maybe) crazy ex.

    • Aiobhan says:

      ITA! He needs to stay as far away from her as possible. I loved their chemistry in Shame. If true, I hope they work out. In my head he is still my husband though. I guess I have to share. lol.

  4. Wendi says:

    They make a nice couple. Plus, no disappointing surprises when he takes his pants off. Lol

  5. T.C. says:

    I want to hate her but I can’t. The pictures of them together in New York are so sweet. Like Taylor Swift sweet. She is really pretty.

    Oh Fassy how could you go and fall in love before you met me? *goes to a corner to cry*. Dam I need more caffeine to survive this shock.

  6. Lady says:

    I’m not really surprised. They had hot sexy chemistry in Shame.

  7. maemay says:

    I like them together. She is pretty yet she is on the serious actress track. I assume they only started dating during the promotion of Shame and Michael’s comments about relationships reflect that. At first he said he was too selfish and then recently he said something about being OPEN to love. I hope he has found the one, or at lease someone to prevent him from becoming Gerard Butler part two. I think he wants to be more of a character actor and not just the next heart throb.

  8. cerulean says:

    It’s kind of her to keep him company while I extricate myself from my marriage so I can elope with him. We can’t be seen together so she volunteered to watch him for me and be a shoulder to lean on as he yearns for my return. Such a giving soul, she is.

  9. kit says:

    They look great together.
    She’s really beautiful and talented and he’s hot, sexy and talented.

  10. Shel says:

    Um… Are they looking for a third? Because I would SO be their third. Fuck, I can’t even be jealous because their hotness turns me on. Damn that movie and that scene. And now they’re doing it in real life. And to completion and…gah! They’re like totally adorable and I wish them the best. But they should totally call me if they need a third 😉

  11. Nessa says:

    She is really beautiful. Hopefully she is worthy of the Fassdong. He is something special, that one!

  12. Rose says:

    I loved her in Shame, she was so natural, super talented actress and damn was she hot!

  13. TheOriginalVictoria says:

    Michael Fassbender has the black women on Lipstick Alley acting a fool and going at each other’s throats. This was posted on LSA. I am of the camp that thinks Michael is overrated in every which way and so I do not get his appeal, but the FassNation is strong on LSA and they are on the attack of anyone who dare suggest Whitestrips or collagen. And now he has even sparked a debated about interracial dating and black women “dating out” because of self-hate.

    This man must be muzzled. He is like Kryptonite for all women. LOL!

    • Alexis says:

      LOL @ “muzzled”

    • carrie b. says:

      Nope! I will not join the FassNation. It’s nice that he’s open to dating women of various races especially, petite ones with dark skin and full lips…oops! I’m covering my eyes and saying LALALALALALA while thinking of Crest Whitestrips intervention. The Fassdong will *not* get me too!

      • TheOriginalVictoria says:

        Yes! One more on our side.

        I gave into the power of Cumberbitches and am now kind of in love, but I will not succumb to FassiNation.

        They should be happy I coined their group term for them. LOL.

    • elvyn says:

      Sherloooock!
      This man is so… Smart that it is fascinating.
      I’m waiting the 3 season.

    • MST says:

      Self-hatred? Well, I am black and was married to a white jewish guy and it didn’t have anything to do with self-hatred. He was smart, funny, and we came from similar backgrounds (mainly, we both had crazy families)and we had lots in common. We grew apart over the years and are now divorced, but are still friends. While there ARE some people who date outside of their race because of self-esteem/self-hatred issues, there are many others who happen to fall in love with someone who doesn’t look like them.

      I don’t find this guy that attractive, but they do make a cute couple.

  14. Kate says:

    What is with him dating his costars? First Zoe and now Nicole. I’m really wary of actors who do this. Does Nicole have to worry about the next girl that Fassy works with? I hope not. 🙁

  15. Stacie says:

    I love them together .I would be totally happy if they dated . I love him so that helps and I’m black girl too .

  16. Kola says:

    Well he seems to have a type. Cute couple, get it girl!

  17. Cathy says:

    I have yet to be able to find Shame on DVD. I need to see his fassdonginess. All I have now is my imagination, and I have a pretty good imagination.

  18. Rux says:

    He seems to have a thing for co-stars. Get you acting classes together Kaiser.

    • T.C. says:

      LOL, true that. I will go with you Kaiser. Acting classes, collagen lip injection treatments. We can win him back.

  19. k says:

    I thougt their sex scene or whatever it was, was effin hot in shame. Too bad it ended with such a ‘limp’. She has an amazing body btw, and yea, she’s totes his type. Micheal Fassy is the new Deniro. Lol

  20. author says:

    Hey I ain’t mad at her. LOL. If he’s throwing down and she’s picking up then good for her. I would totally go after that. Plus she’s pretty normal looking. She doesn’t seem like manic pixie dream girl, nor iman I am so fucking stunning that it’s mythical. She looks like a chick I would see walking around in BK fort greene section. Before it went shitty.

  21. GoodCapon says:

    He looks soooo much better without the beard.

    I’ve never seen Shame so I’m only judging her appearance based on these pictures… she’s not that attractive. But then I’ve browsed through her IMDb photos and I did a 180.

  22. normades says:

    He has good taste in gals. I approve.

  23. The Truth Fairy says:

    Kaiser – Have you done an astrological compatibility with you and Fassy yet? It’s fun!

    http://www.astrotheme.com/celestar/

  24. Addison says:

    Kaiser, I’m sad with you. Wah! But if he is happy, that is all that matters. AND YOU PEOPLE that say you don’t see the appeal. Don’t even click on anything associated with Michael. I personally don’t think George Clooney and that Alexander Skaagsmer (or however it is spelled) are anything to look at. SO YOU KNOW WHAT! I read the headline and MOVE ON! Stop coming here and complaining about his looks. He has thin lips and pale skin, BIG DEAL, since when is that a crime. That is the way he was born and thank goodness he accepts himself as he is. Not like that Cumberlach (spelling ?) guy. He looks creepy with the surgery he has had.

    • elvyn says:

      Wow wow, do you remember anything about free speech? No? Yes?
      What a sad world if everybody must agree about anything or act like some stupid sheep.

      • Addison says:

        Free Speech! HA! You definitely know nothing about it or anyone that ever says that phrase. Free Speech as intended by the founding fathers, was free speech against the government. When people came over to this side of the world, they did so to escape being singled out by the government for their viewpoints on things like religion and government. People would be persecuted for disagreeing with the government. This society was founded so that we can disagree with our government and not worry about going to jail or being killed. We still must be civil to one another. I did not insult anyone with vile words or just lame name calling like you did. I merely stated that it is crazy to even read something about someone you don’t even like. SO, I don’t read anything about those I really care NOTHING about. This is a celebrity post, if it were political or something relevant in regards to world affairs, I would read that. But something as meaningless as celebrities lives, PLEASE…

        …Oh, wait, I see George Clooney just got arrested for protesting in front of the Sudanese Embassy. I have been keeping track of that for years now. I will probably read that.

    • TheOriginalVictoria says:

      I will post whatever I want, whenever I want as long as I am compliance with the rules, which I try not to break but people like yourself really test me.

      How about stop trying to police what other people say. Someone is always trying to censor anyone who doesn’t go along with the group think.

      • Addison says:

        As merely was I, posting this because it’s what I wanted… And I will keep posting comments like this. If you don’t like it, then the best way to avoid it is NEVER coming here! 🙂

  25. Esti says:

    Why does every description of a black woman have to say she’s “exotic” looking when they describe how pretty she is? Nicole is American and she’s usually photographed wearing (nice but) very normal clothing. She’s a beautiful woman, full stop.

    • Stacia says:

      I agree. She has very pretty features, but far from exotic. I’m not hatin’ on her. She’s African American, as am I. I’ve never been called exotic because of my AA features.

      Also I find Fassbender HOT! at times and other times just plain average…don’t know what that’s about.

      • YEP_ITS_HER says:

        You find him plain cause he is kinda really just plain. But he there is something filthy about him that the ladies seem to dig.

    • Raised Brow says:

      Esti, I was thinking the exact same thing. Kaiser, why can’t his ‘type’ be described as “He tends to date black women”?. Not to mention, both of his exes (Zoe and the crazy one) can HARDLY be described as ‘dark-skinned’. Are you serious? Down here in the south, fair-skinned sistas are called ‘Red-bone’ or simply ‘Red’, an obvious distinction from our darker-skinned sisters. And ‘exotic’…..well….if that’s what you want to call ‘us’. Um…thanks? But for the record, you can just call a black girl a ‘black girl’, and I PROMISE you….no one will think any less of you.

      • cameron says:

        I thought the same thing, why don’t you just call it what it is . He has a thing for black girls, like Robert DeNiro. But I love the exotic, dark-skinned, full lips girl label.

      • rose80 says:

        I was thinking the same thing! Animals are exotic not human beings. Ive been called exotic looking for a black girl and I took it as a major insult and politely let the guy know to never refer to me or any other woman as “exotic” for (insert race). If you find me attractive just say you find me attractive. Saying I’m “exotic” as if my looks is going against the grain of what you think black women look like is insulting not complimentary.

        And @ raised brow..don’t forget high yellow lol

  26. UKHels says:

    lucky bitch. Every time he gets a new chick it makes me more depressed that I’m clearly not his type

    and I’m single now too!!!

  27. Sasha says:

    I love that he loves exotic women. It’s a very hot quality in a guy. No bottle blondes for Fassy!

    If I’m remembering correctly from the film, this lady has an incredible body. I love them together!

  28. Sara says:

    Hey you guys if you follow Kaiser on twitter she has a great link to a”scene” from Shame. It always makes my day when it’s posted!(sorry I don’t know how to replay the link)

  29. missalmostfamous says:

    (SCREAM!)
    i’m super uper jealous!!! 🙁
    i would be really cheering if she was an unknown (not in hollywood).
    but it does make me 😀 to see out of all the starlets in HW, he picked her (although i was disappointed at her going topless in Shame. i was hoping she would just stay in her bra and not let her girls out).

  30. michelle says:

    Didn’t he recently say that he didn’t have time for a relationship because of he’s too focused on his career? Hmmm…

    • Maemay says:

      Yes he did but recently made an about face and said he was open to love and how much better it is to have someone to be with. He sounded smitten. Maybe he was talking about Nicole.

  31. Jamie says:

    Seems all that talk about not having time for a relationship was to let Zoe down easy while he moved on to greener, cleaner, more mature pastures. This woman is a much better choice. That Kravitz relationship made him seem immature and it was hard to take him seriously.

    • Mr.Smurf says:

      I agree with Kaiser when she says it wasn’t really a traditional boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. They seemed to be friends with benefits, whenever they wanted. I actually thought they looked cute together, probably because I’m five years younger than Zoe :)…what we really need to find out is if he dates half black girls who look white…I’m perfect for that shade of the rainbow.

  32. Jamie says:

    Also, I co-sign the poster who said that not every African-American woman needs to be called exotic. There’s nothing about Nicole’s looks that fits that description.

    • Alexis says:

      I’m black, too, and I don’t co-sign it being not okay to refer to black girls as exotic. There’s not a hard and fast definition of exotic-looking in the United States other than “not conventional-looking white,” and black women certainly aren’t that. Calling a black woman exotic is pretty much a way to celebrate the beauty of her black features while avoiding the rather stressful and decidedly not-sexy language of race and ethnicity. Also, it’s usually meant in a complementary way. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth. I don’t normally judge the way someone compliments me. So if someone wants to call me exotically beautiful (which has happened before), I just say thanks and keep it moving!

      • Hypocricy says:

        ITA

        I remembered Sade being called exotic, same at times with Diana Ross…even rarelly Jolie being called exotic looking as was at times called Heidi Lamar and Giene Tierney.

        I have been called exotic and i am mixed.

        Exotic is not derogatory and usually used positively to describe a beauty that is not the norm of the majority, hence in here non caucasian. It means ‘coming from a far away country presenting a different type’.

        A sweedish or white person is exotic to Africans.

        And Nicole looks exactly like a nigerian, which she is through her father since she is nigerian and jamaican born in the US. Plenty of nigerianS, ghaneeanS, africans look like her.

        It seems for many people, including AA, exotic means ‘presenting a certain type of african features and skintone’. It’s not, it just means something different than the majority. Basicly any minority is exotic to the majority. Again, a caucasian person is exotic to an African.

        It’s just that it has been more used in the other way around and it’s definition has been distorted in the perception of many black, white and whatever ethnicities people have who all link exotic to a certain type of african features…which is absolutely not the definition to begin with !

  33. CitizenErased says:

    God, he’s fricking shaggable I’m jealous of anyone that gets to climb all over him. But I’m pleased he doesn’t have a taste for vapid, emaciated airheads.

  34. alex says:

    This actress, and that Zoe Kravitz girl? He likes the many colors of the rainbow! Yay! Which means, I have a better chance of dating him! I’m just 6,000 degrees away form it, but it might happen.

  35. Meanchick says:

    Listen up Bitches! Fassie is MINE! I’m ALLOWING him to get these flings out of his system before he boards my friendship train into Loveland! Don’t make me hafta cut a bitch!

  36. LucyOriginal says:

    Good for them! I like this couple.
    ps: glad he is not with that ex of his and I am not talking about Zoe.

  37. FOREVER says:

    Ok he is cute I don’t know much about him, pls help fassdong? where did you see it and how big is it? She says lucking her lips😜

  38. FOREVER says:

    Sorry typo ( licking) lips

  39. YEP_ITS_HER says:

    She’s gorgeous and he’s interesting looking. Here’s hoping he treats her well and keeps his fists in check.

  40. Manuela says:

    she is hot and downearth michael is absolutely sex on legs so even if it s only short term @party@ i dont care. they r so busy for building their own career so seems it s only temporary but i love them together

  41. Paul Ó Duḃṫaiġ says:

    As a fellow Irishman I’ve got to agree with his choice in women. Then again given that Irish people are quite pale (the clouds block out the sun 50% of time!) it’s hardly surprising we like “exotic” women.

  42. Crissy says:

    I mentioned before in another article that he could date her. Glad he took my advice! Loving this couple and this does not spoil anything, it just gives me hope–:). Another nice pairing would be Michael with Kerry Washington!

  43. Susie says:

    Kaiser, I tried to tell you in an email back in Nov: “In the meantime – I do have news as to whom he’s schtupping right now…” remember? 😉 They “reconnected” at the LA premiere early Nov (I remember her looking like the cat that ate the canary…) Before that he was still with Zoe as of the Toronto Film Fest…

    He followed that with a series of press in NY in the couple wks after… As for her, she hadn’t shown up at any of the premieres/film fests etc until LA, and then then suddenly she was at the Paris premiere on Nov 22…
    http://www.wireimage.com/celebrity-pictures/Steve-McQueen-Nicole-Beharie-and-Michael-Fassbender-attends-the-Shame/133946215?r=133946184,133946216,133946186,133946203,133946215,133946214,133946212,133946206,133946205,133946199,133946192,133946188&st=Search

    Would’ve beaten Lainey to the punch 😉

  44. Madpoe says:

    Fassy, don’t go down the path of the Butler.

  45. Lisa B. says:

    I absolutely love his work, I think he’s flawless as an actor. But I don’t understand why girls are all over him. He’s so meh.

    Don’t know if it’s just me, but I find a bit disturbing when guys start dating girls who all look very similar to each other. If you line up his ex girlfriends, they all look like the same person, with subtle differences. Weird. Reminds me a bit of Johnny Depp and Leonardo DiCaprio.

    • missebene says:

      It’s not weird at all, it only means they’ve got a “type”. MF’s type is black women, Leo’s is models and so on…
      We all have preferences!
      By the way, Nicole is a beautiful women, she’s not the beauty of the year but she probably has qualities that Michael appreciate, if he dates her since the end of last year there’s a reason…

  46. Cathy says:

    Fassbender is gorgeous! He seems the perfect guy..his only flaw being his taste in women! No offence to Nicole but she doesn’t look anything special, so maybe it’s the personality, talent that draws Fassbender etc..I can certainly think of much more better looking black women.. But anyway, as the saying goes, love is blind! So Fassy must be in love haha. Good for him 😉

    • missalmostfamous says:

      I agree a million times over with you Cathy!!!
      And I hate that everyone keeps saying she’s SO beautiful and classy- eyeroll. She’s cute but average looking at the same time- and she’s def NOT classy- she did a topless scene for God’s sake!
      But I do love that Michael’s girlfriend is black- it gives me hope if the gods smile upon me and I meet him one day 😀

      • Cathy says:

        I totally agree with your comment! I reckon though that the people who keep saying she’s beautiful must be average-looking themselves…A person’s own looks usually says a lot about people they deem beautiful ;)I for one, usually have arguments with friends about who they think is “hot” haha! But I guess, each to his own 😉

      • Alix says:

        Oh please.

        She’s not classy because she went topless? So what’s Fassy for showing his dick?

        Prudish hypocrites. Come over to Europe. You’ll see tits all over TV.

        Agree or disagree on her attractiveness but from all the women throwing themselves at Fassy he chose her. And its now June.

  47. Anon says:

    Nicole Beharie is a beautiful woman. I hope to see more of this talented and serious actress on the big screen and on stage. I hope she and Michael have a wonderful relationship; they do not seem to be shallow people.

  48. Shel says:

    So he can do SEVERAL fully nude scenes and keep your respect and admiration but she does one topless scene and she’s not classy? Please. She’s an actress. And sometimes actresses do nude scenes. That has nothing to do with whether or not that person is classy. You sound mad jealous! Lol. He’s banging her and loving it. And the girl is beautiful. Michael sure thinks so. Get. Over. It.

  49. Deneyah says:

    Not a bad couple. Like that he can date women who aren’t drop dead gorgeous, supermodel types. Shes cute, but like ‘work behind the beauty counter at Dillards cute’. You see girls who look like her everyday. Makes me feel like hes more down to earth, unlike Clooney and Dicaprio. Doubt it will last though, he seems like he will wanna enjoy his new found superstardom. Along with all the perks that come with 😉

  50. Deneyah says:

    Not a bad couple. Like that he can date women who aren’t drop dead gorgeous, supermodel types. Shes cute, but like ‘work behind the beauty counter at Dillards cute’. You see girls who look like her everyday. Makes me feel like hes more down to earth, unlike Clooney and Dicaprio. Doubt it will last though, he seems like he will wanna enjoy his new found superstardom. Along with all the perks that come with 😉

  51. Deneyah says:

    Not a bad couple. Like that he can date women who aren’t drop dead gorgeous, supermodel types. Shes cute, but like ‘work behind the beauty counter at Dillards cute’. You see girls who look like her everyday. Makes me feel like hes more down to earth, unlike Clooney and Dicaprio. Doubt it will last though, he seems like he will wanna enjoy his new found superstardom. Along with all the perks that come with 😉

  52. jay says:

    They are both talented and beautiful people. She is a woman who represents something we rarely see in hollywood and that is a healthy womanly body. I wish them the best and hope people stop rubbishing her for her topless scene she is a performer and it is all part of her act . STOP THE HYPOCRASY.

  53. -.- says:

    Why does he only like petite women??? I’m still shorter than him, but taller than her……