Britney’s fiance Jason Trawick’s video message in bed: sweet or too personal?

This came out yesterday, but since it was a holiday I didn’t see it until after we’d checked out for the day. Britney Spears’ fiance, Jason Trawick, recorded a message to her in bed declaring his love for her and telling her how proud he was of her for working a couple days on the X Factor. I’ve never seen Trawick speak, so his voice seemed strange to me. I think that was more due to the fact that he was recording the message in bed and seemed sleepy in the video. It also looks like he has clear braces on. His lips are puffing out like he has braces.

We’ve heard that Britney is having problems on set, that she’s left at least twice during taping without warning, and that she took at least four performances off during her first day. People are scrutinizing her closely, and so her fiance is trying to show her support. He did that in this oddly intimate video that some say is way too personal to be posting publicly. Here’s what he said:

Princess. We just completed our first weekend in Austin, on X Factor. I just want to say I’m very proud of you, and I love you so much. Congratulations. Now get back in here so we can go to sleep.”

I can see how this guy would think it was sweet to give some words of support to his fiance. Everyone is ragging on Britney, and it’s probably wearing on her. I get the impression that she’s sensitive, and that this is probably a lot for her to handle. We’ve heard that Jason is with her while she’s been judging on X Factor, and in his mind he surely thinks it’s fine to record a message of encouragement for her. It would have been, if he either would have 1. kept it private between the two of them or 2. was sitting up in a chair, and wasn’t all sleepy and sexy sounding. That was weird to me, along with the reference to the fact that Britney was about to come to bed. That’s not for public consumption. People can be really careless with technology. Do I sound old? Sometimes I feel like I am, because I’m pretty guarded with what I put online. I don’t see the benefit of sharing such personal things.

Here’s Jason with Britney in NY outside the Fox upfronts on 5-14-12. Look at how he’s trying to hold her dress down for her.

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  1. Marjalane says:

    I have to agree with Lainey on this one- This little video looks like a manipulative “cookie” to keep Britney happy. It’s weird, it’s creepy, and I think there’s probably something very fishy about Britney’s financial status that made her “keepers” put her in this position. It sucks- they suck.

    • NM6804 says:

      I said it before: they keep dangling “Love” in front of her to keep her going until the bitter end.

      • Anaya says:

        They dangle love (or could it be faux love?)and they dangle her 2 children to keep her going, figuratively speaking. Britney’s got manipulative people around her: family, fiance, and management. It’s sad. :(

      • Tiffany says:

        He sounds tired because part of her contract is that Jason gets to be a “producer” and must be there working every moment she is there.


        If she can’t handle it on her own, maybe it isn’t in her best interest to be puppeted around?

    • TheFactsR says:

      Yikes he is as crazy as she is!

      God I pitty her children, she is crazy, he is crazy, the father is crazy.

    • Becky says:

      I read Lainey yesterday and thought it was gonna be much adorable is Jason covering her thighs so the paps don’t get one of those shots? Oh right that’s his JOB.

      • DreamyK says:

        Britney seems to only be loved for what she can do for someone else. If Jason truly wants to be her husband, he needs to back out as her manager whatever and just be the go-to guy for his lady on a personal level. I get the conservatorship, but to get paid to F* your fiancee is nasty.

    • phlyfiremama says:

      I agree with you absolutely. This whole situation is creepy & disturbing. Poor Britney~due to the conservatorship, she can’t even quit unless she ahs permission from them. No control over her own life.

      • VanessaP. says:

        Jason NO LONGER WORKS FOR HER. Hasnt been for a long time. It’s so NASTY for any of you to assume he’s using her just because she’s got mental issues. Can’t someone with Depression or Bipolar disorder find true love and function as human being? He’s been in love with her since the early 2000s btw. He’s a great guy, been through with her since her rise and fall and rise again.

        You guys should really stop judging, unless you know exactly what’s going on, you are in no position to suggest her engagement is a sham coz “Britney is crazy and people are ONLY after her money.” Puh-lease.

      • Tiffany says:

        Vanessa, for you to say he no longer works with her is COMPLETELY FALSE. (How do ya like them caps?)

        He negotiated her deal for X Factor, that makes him an agent.

        He negotiated a JOB for himself on X Factor, serving as producer who will be there for every taping she does.

    • anne says:

      Creepy is exactly the word that came to mind.

  2. Jacq says:

    Not that it matters, but that’s a 6-seater golf cart. He isn’t driving…

    I think Brit LOOKS cleaned up enough that they can prop her up for single events. I think that the largest part of the conservancy & image rehab is keeping her concealed. This will prove to be either sad or interesting, because I believe she’s always been (and still is) very delicate.

  3. Lauren says:

    I don’t see anything wrong with the video really but I guess since it has something to do with Britney Spears then everyone is going to find something wrong with it. Is it wrong that I find him kind of sexy? Haha!

  4. Tiegs says:

    Eh, seems cute to me. I get that it’s part of the PR for the show, but I think it’s sweet to give her some public support. And I’m sure the walk out rumours are exagerated.

    And he’s not driving the golf cart.

  5. nina says:


    Sit the eff up at least when you talk and don’t say princess to a 30 year old woman who’s paying your bills, bitch.

    I wonder if he youtubes her “congrats” when she remembers to flush the toilet too.

    Whatever the intentions of the video, it only highlights the notion she’s being “managed” to a claustrophobic degree by those who make a living off her.

    Poor Brit Brit.

    • StopItLuke says:

      Not including Britney’s mental problems it seems like people have the same prejudices against a woman having more money than a man they date. Jason probably has plenty of money since he’s been a manager for a long time but because Britney has hundreds of millions he’s some gold digger.
      It’s the same thing with JLO and Caspar (even though he probably has NO money) etc
      Britney is Bi Polar and more sensitive than the average person maybe but she’s also a human being, it’s not impossible for someone to love her for her especially someone that’s known her a long time like Jason has.

      • Snowflake says:

        exactly. it’s ridiculous how people are about her.

      • Eleonor says:

        Well Jason is not even near to Caspar level, he had a good job and a career before Britney, Caspar before JLO was only a backup dancer. I think if there can be a comparison it’s more Madonna and Guy Richie.

      • Shan says:

        I agree completely.Besides affirmation is always more affirming when its done publicly than in private. And I think that hand on her skirt is a very protective move. Him looking out for her.

        I’m not a cynic so when people seem to be in love, I am just happy for them.

      • Dap says:

        The problem is not she has more money than him. The problem is that she can’t spend her money without his approval and that somehow “her” money became “his money. See how he said “WE just completed our first weekend in Austin, on X Factor”? Well, “we” didn’t complete anything, SHE did and HE just stayed in bed waiting for her.

      • nina says:

        there is nothing wrong with her having more money. There is something sketchy about her manager becoming her lover, her fiancee, and now is co-conservator of her estate.


      • StopItLuke says:

        @Eleanor, I get what you’re saying about Casper and I’m sure Jennifer’s money is like a windfall for him but It’s not like she’s some decrepit old hag, even if she was broke he’d probably fancy her anyway and just because he’s broke doesn’t mean they can’t have a meaningful relationship behind closed doors just because there’s an age/wealth difference…

        @Dap, Jason has no control over Britney’s finances her father does, Jason just has 50/50 with her dad over personal stuff to do with day to day living.

    • TheFactsR says:

      He has to keep her privates “private” too, remember she likes to flash that thing.

  6. Jill says:

    SUPER CREEPY. Made me feel like gagging a bit honestly.

  7. Dani says:

    The funny thing is who 100% believes she is behind that camera or even in the same room? I don’t.

    • Lauren says:

      I don’t think anyone was supposed to believe she was behind the camera or even in the same room. If you watched the video you could tell that he was holding the camera and told her to get back in here so they could go to sleep.

  8. Zelda says:

    Even her shoes are too tight.

    Learn your size, Britney.

    And your venue. When the men around you are wearing suits, you should not be wearing clubwear.

    Gah…she always looks like a boulevard hooker…

  9. Rhea says:

    Perhaps the message would be more sweet if it goes directly in her ear only. I don’t know, I guess I’m a type of person who prefer to keep my private moment belongs to me only… :) Or maybe Britney really do needs that kind of open support at that moment.

  10. Snowflake says:

    Really? i think it’s sweet. he is not living off her, he has a job. he is trying to show his support for her as everyone else is dogging her out. i think he cares for her and is not using her. i date older men b/c they are very caring and protective of the women they love. i think that is the case here. she is prob down with all the comments from people and he is just trying to give her encouragement.

    • Tiffany says:

      He’s not living off of her??!?!?!

      He negotiated her contract for X Factor. He included a JOB for himself on the X Factor, being a “producer” that requires him to be there every day she tapes.

      How can you say he isn’t living off of her?

  11. Darlene says:

    Why are people assuming he posted it. It’s WAY more likely that he made it for her and SHE posted it. I mean, if she’s allowed to have a PHONE OF HER OWN now. :/

  12. MSat says:

    It’s all about perspective, folks. Need we remember K-Fed? This guy is a definite upgrade for Britney.

  13. Toot says:

    I think it’s sad that Brithey is still so out of it that Jason has to hold her dress down for her. That’s strange to me and shows Britney has major issues.

  14. Meecey says:

    Did not watch video. Do not want to. As for Brit, why IS he holdin her dress down? That is creepy. Is she that oblivious? Her whole conservatorship with this guy creeps me out. I hope she gets it together for her boys’ sake, at least.

  15. Jordan says:

    I don’t see it as people ragging on Britney. I’d say people are questioning her conservators motives. That being said, if this was for Britney he would have kept it private. But since he did it to try to show us that he loves her (and not her money), he had to make it public.

  16. Jess says:

    Too personal and too creepy!

  17. TheFactsR says:

    Brit is a trainwreck and Simon is exploiting this to the max! I hope it backfires on him, I am tired of the brits ruining my TV!

  18. Jayna says:

    She posted a brief snippet of her videoing Jason leaving on his motorcycle. She sounded cute and happy teasing him while she videod him. They seem really happy.

  19. Agnes says:

    maybe i’m too old too, but this is way too personal and sort of creepy to me.

  20. Mia says:

    I don’t get that creep vibe from him. Maybe I’m just blinded because I liked the two of them together in that cheesy Criminal video. Plus he looked hot. HAHA

  21. T.C. says:

    It’s like she is his little girl that he has to encourage. Calling her Princess? O.K. Like he is her father. This did not have to me posted for the public. TMI.

  22. Amy says:

    Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Is it a little weird that he recorded a video in bed? Yeah, probably. But it’s nice either way. When they aren’t “on” for the public or on red carpets and stuff, they seem happy together; for example, someone pointed out a video she posted of him on a bike or a motorcycle or something. Those quieter moments.

    I hope she gets comfortable on the xfactor and does a good job. Agreed, Brit and Demi are only there for ratings since they are essentially loose cannons with legions of fans, but I hope they both prove something.

  23. TG says:

    This is super creepy. This guy has the same blank stare and toneless voice that she does. And if he loves her so much why is this video being made public? My husband is supportive of me but he doesn’t need to announce it to the entire world. There was no love or emotion in that message. I don’t have any love for Britney since I think she is a talentless hack and is being propped up by the music industry but she needs to escape these freaks and maybe she will have a chance at happiness.

  24. deep says:

    I don’t know how she is doing mentally these days, but….she looks great!! I hope she is okay.

  25. Kel says:

    It is a shame that after all this time off and all the people around to support her, she still comes across as an emotional basket case who needs to be caudled and babied. It’s sweet that he wants to encourage her but I agree this is something that should have been kept private between them.

  26. Katija says:

    You guys are being way too harsh. First of all, is paying them to use this service, in the hopes that others will do the same and it will get popular. Secondly, I don’t have a problem with “Princess.” Yeah, it’s a smidge daddy-like, but all couples have weird nicknames. I had a boyfriend who called me “Teacup.” (Long story.) I think Jason is a normal guy who’s doing the best he can, and I think they legit love each other.

  27. Jackie says:

    Video was a little too personal for people that are supposedly avoiding the media and want privacy. Hmmmm strange? Seems like Britney has forgotten that she isn’t 25 years old anymore. The short and too tight clothes do not suit her. The hot pink outfit for Day 1 in Austin needed invisible tape to lift the boobs up. Demi looked appropriate and stylish.

  28. apsutter says:

    I wish that she would get a proper stylist and cover up more. That said, her face looks gorgeous in the pics with the white dress.

  29. Kandace says:

    I thought it was creepy – it made me feel like I was watching something that shouldn’t have been for my eyes.

    It made me uncomfortable and I hate his voice – listen to it in the beginning of her Criminal video here:

  30. Sunmoonstars says:

    I want to believe this is real, that Jason loves her despite her mental illness, but knowing what I know about MK Ultra and seeing their dead eyes, I think there’s something more sinister going on here. Britney makes lots of people lots of money and so the potential for exploitation is very high…and we all know the entertainment industry isn’t exactly about morals and decency. Poor, sweet Britney. I honestly don’t think she knew what she was in for, and I will keep her in my prayers.

  31. skuddles says:

    What’s the deal with him holding onto her ass in the golf cart? Is he afraid she’s too challenged to know how to not fall out??

    edit…just read upthread – no offense to any woman who may have fallen out of a golf cart in the past :D

    • the original bellaluna says:

      skuddles – But how do you feel about those of us who have crashed golf carts?

      Because, at a charity golf event (when I was in high school – it was summer break), a friend and I volunteered to drive around in golf carts with beers & sodas in ice in a big-ass trash can on the back of our golf cart to sell to the guys also playing for said charity.

      Suffice to say, we were sweet young things who weren’t unattractive, and the older guys bought us beers too. My friend crashed headlong into a big-ass tree. We were fine (and in hysterics – DUH, high school!) and got another cart.

      *Noted: we did not drive to the event, and no golfers or caddies were in danger, as were largely parked or on vast stretches of greenery between holes.

      • skuddles says:

        AHAHAHAHA thanks for the laugh bella! Crashing a golf cart… now that’s a whole other deal girl! What a great story, so glad to hear that “no caddies or golfers were hurt in the making of this drunken hottie teenage girl mashup” :D

  32. the original bellaluna says:

    Didn’t watch the video (don’t want to – it’s not meant for public consumption, IMHO; that’s too personal for me).

    I think it’s sweet if he’s actually trying to protect HER and not HIMSELF. If he’s only looking after an “asset” then shame on him!

    BTW, he’s not some K-Fed – he’s a high-powered rep/mgr in H-Wood. He doesn’t need her money, because he’s got his own.

  33. Kosmos says:

    I think she needs him around so that she can continue to function on a normal level, or semi-normal level. Without him, she probably gets insecure and crazy. I think he probably may well love her, but she needs hand-holding to stay sane. I find it odd that he is holding his hand over her dress to shield her from the paps, but why isn’t she doing that herself? Wouldn’t any woman be wary of showing too much with a tight short dress? And particularly since she’s been papped with the crotch of her panties showing, or was that the shot when she forgot to wear panties?

  34. kiyoshigirl says:

    Yes CB, people ARE very careless with technology. It’s as if something hasn’t happened or doesn’t matter unless they put in on the Net.

  35. galaxygirl says:

    J gives me the “bad chills”, creepie feeling. Idk what it is, I wasn’t a fan of B in her hey day, I wish she could find true love somewhere someday or to be happy by herself.

  36. emma says:

    I wish people would stop calling Britney crazy, it’s just plain rude.
    I don’t see what’s ‘creepy’ about the video to be honest, but then again I don’t read too much into everything. I know a few men who call their girlfriend princess, and although I wouldn’t like it, they seem to find it cute.

    Anyway, I think Britney looks hot in the last two pictures.

  37. Ally says:

    It’s 50-50 in the possible interpretation department:

    supportive fiancé / celebrity wrangler

    Beyond the video, the situation is creepy. Her husband should not have this much power over her. It’s like some kind of Victorian novel (Britney in the attic).

    She should have some kind of Board of Directors helping her out, not her personal boyfriend/father patriarchy.

  38. Belle Epoch says:

    That video is S T R A N G E. His expression and voice are tired and flat, like he doesn’t actually care. He’d rather be sleeping. Is this what he has to do to keep “us” going?