Will Smith defends his marriage, family: “Jada is just absolutely hardcore”

Will Smith promoted the hell out of Men In Black III for what seemed like two solid months. It paid off, though. Sort of. MIB III finally dethroned The Avengers and became the #1 film over the holiday weekend with a domestic box office of $55 million. I’m sure Will and producers were hoping for even more money in the opening weekend, but still – at least the box office won’t be an unmitigated disaster and the film will probably make its money back, with a little extra.

For his film promotional duties, Will brought out his wife of fourteen-and-a-half years, Jada. Over the past year (and more), the rumors have been persistent and detailed about Will and Jada’s relationship problems, and it really did seem like they were headed for a split. But something happened. I don’t know what. Some theorize that it was all just a business decision, that their money and power is built on Will and Jada as a happily married couple. But I choose to be optimistic and think that while they were having big problems, they found a way to work through it and come out stronger. That’s what it sounds like:

For Will Smith and his wife of nearly 15 years, Jada Pinkett Smith, it’s all about being supportive.

“We make the effort to always put the family first,” Smith told PEOPLE at last week’s Men in Black III premiere in New York City. “Being there for each other and being present with our kids is the most important thing. I take being a parent very seriously.”

The couple are parents to Trey, 19, Jaden, 13, and Willow, 11, and Will flew back to L.A. from New York nearly every weekend while filming Men in Black III.

They will celebrate their 15th anniversary in December. And despite rumors of marital trouble lately – which Pinkett Smith recently said were ridiculous – Smith says that, as a couple, they’re as strong as ever.

“What’s helped us is being supportive, no matter what the situation is,” he says. “I’m so lucky to have someone like Jada. She’s really an incredible woman, wife and mother.”

What he loves the most about his wife is that “she is just absolutely hardcore, like she absolutely is unfazed by the weight and the pressures of life. She is so calm and cool and easy in any situation. She can bear anything, and I just love that about her.”

[From People]

Does Will sound like he’s reciting a prepared talking points memo that was given to him just minutes beforehand? Sure. Does Will make it sound sort of like they decided to stay together for their kids? Yep. But I also think that whatever happened over the past year was just a bad phase in their relationship, and they’ve worked some sh-t out since then.

That being said, I still find their body language so, so awkward. Remember when they would be all over each on red carpet after red carpet, and it just felt like Will adored his wife? And now it seems like he can barely look at her. But yes, they’re dealing with it.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. flourpot says:

    I read a blind at http://blindgossip.com/?p=43902#comments and I really think it’s these guys. It seems that Will is wanting things to work out but his lady seems to have the issues.

    I hope they work it out. Those children need strong parents.

    • ol cranky says:

      this could be true. Will has stated that he didn’t want his first divorce because he felt that as parents they should do everything they could to make their marriage work for the sake of Trey. I think a second divorce would be something he’d fight tooth and nail to avoid.

      Those kids do need strong parents or, more accurately, strong parenting. In public it seems like the kids careers come first and that the Smiths have a very CO$ attitude towards child rearing.

  2. sundaygal says:

    Hollywood is just one big ass closet…..

    • lw says:

      Yup. I think they love each other and created a lovely family together. But I also think they are both gay. A college friend says she knew Jada waaaaay back and she was out and proud. Of course, the same friend says that it was well known in certain circles that Tupac was also gay, and Jada was his best friend, never his lover.

      • Beatriz says:

        Well, I don’t know if she was a lesbian, but Tupac did say several times that she was bisexual. And no, they we’re never lovers (though I get the feeling that he would have liked to, but he was kind of a slut, so I’m not sure how serious he would have been about it), but very VERY close and best friends.

  3. lisa says:

    I don’t get why people believe all the blind items. Most are lies and made up, the others are written to imply it is about a certain celeb(s). I think to deflect from the actual person. Usually some minor actor/actress.. I don’t think these things are about the BIG A-listers. Later on you see these stories and they are about different people. It is easy for the public to believe it is about some well known person. Gets way more press and hits.

    Look at the Tabloids.. week after week printing stories that are obviously lies.. Yet the dimwits buy it. So I guess they know their audience.

  4. Zelda says:

    Both those kids look like *ssholes.

    I think they’re old enough that I can say that, right?

    • Rhiley says:

      I think so (but I don’t have kids). This family is so obnoxious to me. They are all a bunch of egomaniacs.

    • thataintright says:

      @Zelda: I rarely comment on stories but today I make an exception.

      Totally unacceptable to use that kind of language on pre-teens. Good Lord, what would even make you think it was ok? And because you are old enough to know better, I’m thinking you are an *hole. See, how that works?

    • QQ says:

      So long as they get put out there to fame whore and happen to be cocky and ungracious?, YUP!

      • Veruca says:

        I wonder if Jaden knows his “cool/smug” face actually makes him look constipated…

  5. DeltaJuliet says:

    I don’t know…I guess I can relate to what he’s saying. My situation is pretty similar (married 11+ years, couple of kids)….I’m not saying staying together for the kids is the best, but I also don’t think destroying a family willy-nilly is the best either.

    Anyway, I get the awkward body language etc. You can be trying to work things out and still not be entirely comfortable or thrilled with each other.

    Or whatever. I’m coming off a bad weekend myself. I’m just rambling.

    • Rhiley says:

      The body language between these two doesn’t seem very awkward to me, given they have been together for so long. I thought the body language between Ashton Kuthcher and Demi Moore– the kind they displayed on the red carpet when they were gushing over each other and making out with their eyes and hands– was suspect and slightly vomit inducing. I am also glad we no longer have to hear so much about how often Will and Jada “make love.”

  6. Jordan says:

    Wow, fourteen and a half years! That’s an accomplishment for a celebrity couple so congrats on that at least.

  7. Launicaangelina says:

    I still don’t know what to think about them as a couple but Will Smith has always seemed like a good guy. Jada has always come off as cold to me but Will always seems thrilled with his life and a warm personality. Also, I never thought he was gay.

    I think most couples go through tough times. Last year was a rough one for me and my SO. There were external strains (lack of money was our big issue) and I started to feel like calling the relationship off but we worked through it. This October will be our 6 year anniversary.

  8. lucy2 says:

    Yeah, Jada’s so hardcore that her daughter sitting there on TV saying she didn’t want to be famous anymore didn’t even phase her!

    • Mitch Buchanan Rocks says:

      I wasn’t a will or jada fan but what happed with their daughter was mean spirited, so if Will can allow this behaviour it seems like he is not all that and a cherry pie.

    • danielle says:

      I was thinking of that too…if Will is really that concerned about his kids he needs to stop what is going on with that poor child and get her some help.

  9. T.C. says:

    They come across like a normal couple. After almost 15 years you ain’t hanging over each other like newlyweds. Couples have fights and rough patches.

  10. Nan209 says:

    I was never a big fan of either. My impression is that Will is a nice enough guy and Jada is a control freak. I read an article in Jet a few years ago (2008?) when they interviewed her and she seemed controlling. Who knows what issues they have to deal with, lord knows I don’t live in that world and I have enough issues keeping my life in one piece.

  11. UniqJaz says:

    I love Will Smith.

  12. Maria_Spain says:

    Jada ” horse face ” pinkett

  13. Bobby the K says:

    ‘Strong’ people don’t usually make good parents. When your ego is your ride, it’s not nice for others around you.

  14. ViktoryGin says:

    There is something about this woman that has ALWAYS turned me off. Even before she began to date Will. She’s always come off to me as over compensatingly tough and cold. I can’t bring myself to like her tho’ I don’t expressly dislike her. Strange.

    • lisa good says:

      I have a friend who’s brother is a celeb hairdresser..word on the street is they are both gay and bearding…that is all.

  15. cannonball says:

    I saw Jada on a talk show years ago when she was dating Will or they had just gotten married and she said she didn’t want to give Will her time at first because she thought he was just bubble gum material.

  16. Belle says:

    Hmmmm. Maybe I just haven’t been paying attention to photos of Jada lately, because suddenly her face looks completely jacked. Maybe Will really can’t stand looking at her anymore… ?