Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are in couples therapy

Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson seem to be on the verge of breaking up. According to multiple sources, things have gotten so bad that the pair are in couples counseling. There have been increasing reports of the two fighting, and Lohan’s insistence that she’s not a lesbian couldn’t have gone over well with Ronson.

THE most talked-about twosome in Hollywood are talking with a couples counselor to resolve their escalating problems, an insider told Page Six. Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson “are fighting like cats and dogs,” according to our source. “They fight every day, screaming, crying and yelling at each other.

“Sam and Lindsay are still very much together and very much in love, but drama just seems to follow Lindsay, and Sam hates it. She deals with Lindsay every day. And every day for Sam means questioning, ‘Is this worth it?’ ”

Page Six spies saw Lohan and Ronson get into a spat outside of Citrine on West 21st Street recently, and the London Sun published details of a explosive argument this week outside Boujis in London, where Ronson was deejaying. The paper reported “all hell broke loose” and the the screaming match ended with Lohan “in tears.”

On Nov. 4, a video posted online showed Lohan, 22, snapping at Ronson, 31, to “pull the car up, Sam” in front of a slew of fotogs. “Lindsay is high-maintenance and a lot to deal with,” another insider divulged. “And Sam has always dealt with her. But it isn’t easy.”

“The things they argue about have to do with their age difference,” said our insider. “But no matter what happens, at the end of the day, they are always fine.”

[From Page Six]

Lohan’s rep said she’s “unaware” of any therapy, and for once I’ll buy that. I seriously doubt even attention seeking Lindsay Lohan would call up her publicist and say, “Hey, just to keep you in the loop, Sam and I are seeing a counselor because I’m so crazy and she’s tired of dealing with it.” Which I assume is what most of their issues come down to.

It seems pretty clear that Lindsay’s dealing with some issues regarding her sexual orientation. Page Six’s source claims she’ll go “straight back to guys” if she and Samantha break up. Combined with all the “I’m not a lesbian,” and the admittance that “maybe” she’s a bisexual, it doesn’t appear that Lohan is really clear about who or what she wants these days. Which is fine, but considering all that, it’s probably best not to be in a relationship that’s so serious it requires couples counseling.

Here’s Lindsay at the launch of the new Atlantis Hotel on the Palm Jumeirah in Dubai last night. Images thanks to WENN and Fame. Header of Lindsay watching Sam deejay a set at Cafe de Paris in London on November 15. Images thanks to Bauer-Griffin.

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  1. Cesar Moves says:

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  2. Kaiser says:

    Yeah, I don’t believe the couseling bit.

    Let me say this though – every pic I’ve seen of Linds the past few weeks has been *stunning* – whatever Sam is doing to her is making her look great.

  3. Kate says:

    Lindsay already admited she is seeing a therapist since she got out of rehab in order not to get back in drugs and face her childhood problems ,she said it on her blog named drug free.
    I believe they love each other but Lindsay cant have things everything in her way.She must commit.She cant have Samantha and at the same time want to flirt and dance with men openly.It humiliates Samatha.I hope they work it out.

  4. JaundiceMachine says:

    Kaiser approves of the coke diet!

    Yeah, I hope this doesn’t end badly for Sam, but it looks like this relationship is going down – and not in the fun way.

  5. Kaiser says:

    @Jaundice – :lol: Well, I don’t necessarily “approve” of said diet, but Lohan really has been looking amazing lately. Something’s agreeing with her.

  6. Susan says:

    This WILL end badly for Sam. Lohan is wacked.

    “something is agreeing with her”

    It’s called cocaine.

  7. says:

    Or maybe this is all calculated PR to keep LiLo’s heterosexual status alive to keep execs thinking she can still be a viable sex kitten for the box office.

  8. MsTriste says:

    If Sam wasn’t a DJ, then LL wouldn’t have to go to bars and drink and be tempted by guys. How can she possibly stay sober under those circumstances? How can she stay away from guys? And of course Sam is going to get attention as the DJ, which would piss anybody off. It’s never going to work as long as Sam continues to DJ and LL goes along with her to her work.

  9. gg says:

    Uh, hate to break it to ya, but nothing about this relationship sounds right. The age gap between 22 and 31 is emotionally larger than just nine years. They haven’t even been seeing each other all that long and they have screaming and crying fights every day? Even once a month is way too much! Big surprise here, but if you have that in your life, you need to split, and the sooner the better. She’s too skinny again and hanging out in bars, which should be a huge NO-NO for LiLo. I predict another nasty public showdown/meltdown soon.

    And if you get attention because of your job, that is no reason for your mate to get pissed off at you. That’s just more jealous codependent BS. Not to mention, attention seeking by habitual flirting is terribly immature.

  10. Claire says:

    At Least they are trying to work through their issues.
    Lindsay needs to understand if she is in a committed monogamous relationship …then that comes with some responsibilities:
    – trust your partner…Samantha is not purposely making her jealous and flirting, she is just doing her job…she cannot control the fact that being with Lindsay makes her more attractive to others;
    – the fact that others find Samantha attractive, but that she is committed to Lindsay, should make Lindsay feel special, wanted, needed etc. not jealous;
    – Samantha appears to want to spend the rest of her life with Lindsay (prop8 permitting), which I think scares Lindsay, but she doesn’t seem willing to admit that…but I think it is what she wants to;
    – when you are one half of something…the other half’s feelings, emotions are important too…try living in Samantha’s shoes for a second and you will see how hard this is for her….but how invested she is in the relationship (a person as shy as she is wouldn’t do this for anything other than love!!)

  11. Bodhi says:

    Laniey is reporting that they got into a HUGE fight at a party in Dubai. Like screaming & shoving & whatnot.

    I doubt that they are actually in therapy. LL would have to own up to her resurected coke habit

  12. Kate says:

    I agree Ckaire.Samantha being so shy has to face the paps every second of her life,and even more the mean comments about what an ugly lesbian she is.

  13. Baholicious says:

    Being 31 I’m sure Sam has more than half an idea of what she wants. Lindsay on the other hand hasn’t a frigging clue and Sam’s going to get her heart broken. I’m sure Sam is very kind-hearted and maybe a bit of a ‘rescuer’ (she has to have been to get involved with LL) but realizing Lindsay hasn’t come around and is not on the same page.

  14. Yourself says:

    Sam always looks like she is in need of a bath ASAP. They are both using each other.

  15. Nouvel says:

    YOu all have to remember this is not Lind’s first lesbian relationship. It is evident she wants to be with a woman and it seems like she really really loves Sam but she is a young girl.. everyone has to go through crap to learn lessons. Life is a series of lessons that have to be lived to be learned… everyone has to go through it, and Linds is doing that. lesbian relationships are very very close and really emotionally strong.. but again the age difference here is rough.

  16. Ter says:

    I used to work with a couple of gals that were in a relationship. The gals would show up with bruises at work and wouldn’t want to talk about it. They eventually broke up, after a suicide attempt on the part of one, but I later learned through friends of theirs that they used to beat each other up at least once a month because of infidelity issues,this was when clubbing was really ramping up. My point is, I hope this shoving stuff doesn’t esculate into this sort of behavior.

  17. vdantev says:

    But they’re not a couple and Lindsay Lohard isn’t a lesbian- Lindsay said so herself. I guess she didn’t get the memo that guys are only interested in lesbians who date attractive women, until it was too late.

  18. paris herpes says:

    When you’re 31 it’s way different. You’re not interested in slutting around half as much as you did when you were 21. I’m about Sam’s age and all the attentionwhoring that Lilo does is just shameful, but not as different as most women around her age. Fame’s also gone to her head so that’s another thing as well that Sam has to deal with when it comes to their relationship. I wouldn’t be surprised if they call it quits in the next couple of weeks…

  19. Tinsel Man says:

    They might be in counseling but that still doesn’t stop them from making out in public ;) Check the source here: So despite circling around say Lindsay ain’t gay I think we now have proof that she is!