Taylor Swift is probably romancing 18-year-old One Direction hottie Harry Styles

I still believe that Taylor Swift and Conor Kennedy will be getting back together during his Christmas holiday (when he’s on a break from his boarding school!), but until then, Swifty is playing the field. And what does the field look like? Well, she might be lining up Ed Sheeran for a fling at some point (they’ll be touring together), but she’s also got little 18-year-old Harry Styles on the hook. In case you’re old (like me), I should explain who Harry Styles is – he’s one of the kids from One Direction, he’s English, he has good hair and he’s pretty full of himself. To be fair to Harry, he’s 18 years old and he’s part of a band that is like the new N*Sync/NKOTB etc. And now he’s romancing Swifty?

Taylor Swift appears to be taking her love life in a new direction. The “Never Ever Getting Back Together” singer is seemingly taking her lyrics to heart as she moves on from recent ex, Conor Kennedy, and enjoys the company of One Direction hottie Harry Styles.

“I had to literally do a double-take,” an onlooker tells PEOPLE of finding Styles, 18, with Swift, 22, on the set of The X Factor Thursday morning.

Styles was on hand to watch Swift rehearse the debut of “State of Grace,” which she performed later that night on the Fox reality show.

“He was smiling at her while she rehearsed. When she was done he jumped up on stage, picked her up, put her over his shoulder and carried her off stage,” the onlooker says. “The whole crew was really surprised.”

The young singers were also spotted by X Factor host Mario Lopez, who says he was slapped on the back by Styles during Swift’s rehearsal.

“I said, ‘What are you doing here,’ ” Lopez said on his 104.3 MY FM radio show Friday. “And he sort of [pointed] toward Taylor.”

Lopez went on to say he later saw the two “hand-in-hand.”

A telling sign of the budding relationship may have been a look Styles shared with his bandmate Niall Horan a week earlier after Horan told PEOPLE his favorite song of 2012 was Swift’s “Never Ever Getting Back Together.”

When asked if he would ever date Swift, Horan gave a small laugh, looked at Styles and answered with a succinct, “no.”

[From People]

Once again, Harry is 18 years old. The same age as Conor Kennedy, although I guess we have to give Harry credit for being out of school at this point. Taylor is still 22 years old, but we have to give Harry some credit…? When he was 17 years old, he dated a 33-year-old named Caroline Flack. Which is gross, in my opinion. And don’t even accuse me of double standards – I would find it gross if it was a 33-year-old man dating a 17-year-old female pop star too. Anyway, Swifty is closer to Harry’s age, but I do think he’ll probably figure out that as far as her personality and maturity level goes, he’s a lot more mature than her.

Last piece of Swifty news – Swifty is leaving a trail of breadcrumbs for anyone with half a brain, explaining her latest song and why it’s totally about Jake Gyllenhaal:

Taylor Swift’s secret’s out! The 22-year-old dated Jake Gyllenhaal two years ago, and on her latest album, Red, waxes philosophical about their relationship on the track “All Too Well,” an insider confirms to Us Weekly.

Calling Red her most “adventurous album yet,” Swift told Good Morning America the writing process for “All Too Well” was a tedious one. “‘All Too Well’ was the hardest to write because it took me a long time to filter through everything I wanted to say,” she admitted. “It started out being a 10-minute song, which you can’t put on an album. I had to filter it down to a story that could work in the form of a song.”

In the track, Swift reflects on her 2010 Thanksgiving outing with Gyllenhaal, 31, opening about spending the holiday at his sister Maggie Gyllenhaal’s home in Brooklyn, N.Y.

Swift even sings about a mysterious black and white striped scarf both she and Gyllenhaall wore during their courtship. “Left my scarf there at your sister’s house / And you still got it in your drawer,” Swift’s lyrics read. While the ode is indeed about Gyllenhaal, a scarf thief he may not be. Consider: The knit in question could, in fact, be his! Both were snapped wearing the wrap, but he stepped out in it first on Nov. 11 and 15, long before Swift donned it for their Thanksgiving stroll in Brooklyn.

Writing songs about her failed romances has become a preferred pastime for Swift, who was dumped by Gyllenhaal around Christmas in 2010 — via a phone call. “It’s safe for her and it’s something she loves,” explains a source of Swift penning the tracks. “She goes back to it because it’s something she’s good at — and she’s not good at love.”

That’s not to say Swift isn’t still on the hunt for The One. Splitting from Conor Kennedy in October, the country queen is now “officially hanging out” with One Direction’s Harry Styles, whom she recently bonded with at an X Factor taping. “Love is not a reality for her yet, but she knows it will happen,” says the Swift source.

[From Us Weekly]

Oh, the scarf! THE SCARF!!!!! God, remember when you were, like, 16 years old and your whole romantic life was summed up by these little talismans of love and panic and deceit and you would look at your BFF and say “The scarf!” and you would burst into tears? Ah, high school.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. Mema says:

    There’s something so ‘off’ in her eyes. Like I get a real Kathy-Bates-Misery-vibe from her..

    She does have nice hair though, glad she dropped the curls.

  2. pastyousayyouneverknew says:

    HAHAHA Kaiser, I was waiting for when you’d talk about these two, I love Taylor but at this point, I can’t even. If I were a guy, I can honestly say that I would not go anywhere near Taylor (not even as a friend), because you will at some point be a track on her album, but then again, that might be what Harry wants, to be immortalized in a Swiftie song. And apparently Directioners (dumbest name ever? lol) are already handing out death threats to Taylor which I think is the dumbest and most asinine thing ever. All in all, I can’t find it myself to be too worked up about any of Taylor’s relationships any more, can’t wait to hear all about it in another album in two years.

    • Fiery Pits says:

      Ok I confess to knowing far too much about Harry Styles and no I am no “directioner”. I think Kaiser got the angle on this story very wrong.

      First Harry Styles is very good friends with Ed Sheeran. Its no secret that one of his tattoos was done by Sheeran. Sheeran has expressed interest in Taylor (probably more) and now Harry, his close mate, is on that?

      Second, I am fairly sure that Harry is gay or atleast bi and currently dating Nick Grimshaw. Grimshaw is a 28 year old radio DJ. They have been snapped doing the walk of shame after sleep-overs, sharing clothes and Harry routinely drops Grimshaw off at BBC studios in time for his show. And because they don’t spend enough time together Harry recently purchased a house down the road from Grimshaw. Harry spent last Christmas with Nick Grimshaws family. Harrys mum and Nick tweet each other on the regular. Grimshaw is the last and first person Harry is spotted with before or after leaving the country. Grimshaw cant go a a show without mentioning Harry and something they did together. He has often mentioned that Harry is in the studio during airing, not because hes a guest but …..I don’t know why. Grimshaw by the way is openly gay. Now ordinarily I would dismiss it as a sweet bromance but that age gap is curious. Grimshaw was 28 and Harry had just turned 18 when they started to be snapped together pretty much every weekend. Honestly if Grimshaw was a girl wouldn’t we be paving the path to the alter?

      Third, if you follow this kid you cant go a week without him being linked to a new female usually older. Because if that doesn’t cement heterosexuality what will? Thing though is that most of the females are Grimshaws long time galpals so you have to wonder if they aren’t doing them a favour. And they never seem to “date” longer than a month. And the pics, Grimshaw is always in the background.

      Heres the thing, a big part of the Harrys fanbase is aware that hes likely gay. Some think he is still with his bandmate Louis Tomlinson. Others think its Grimshaw. Either way, they are a loud and aggressive bunch and they rail about the perceived bearding. Their beef is that they believe that Management forces the boys into hetero relationships. (They give Louis girl hell btw). They are very different from Biebers fans in that way.

      Way too much info, I know.

      • Amelia says:

        Grimmy’s gay?!
        How did I not know this?

      • Kartel says:

        Amelia, he came out in the Guardian in August this year. Link here http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/2012/aug/17/nick-grimshaw-radio-1-breakfast-show

        Its towards the end of the article and its a very under the radar coming out. The author notes that many speculate that Grimmy is gay and then writes “today he is very happy to confirm that he is [gay]“

      • Suzy says:

        Also, this kid can’t go ANYWHERE without being photographed, so you mean to tell me that he was at the XFactor and NO ONE snapped a pic of him??

        Mario Lopez talked about their “meetup” on his radio show, but my guess is Taylor’s publicist paid (told?) him to say it b/c both she and Harry have albums to promote. Also, Lopez is a Grade-A tool.

        And Harry likes cougars (Google Caroline Flack if you don’t believe me) and/or his bandmate, Louis (LARRY FOREVER!!) :)

      • Miss Kiki says:

        Ok I was pretty sure that Grimmy was gay but Harry? I’m not expecting a blow by blow (LOL) account but give me a link or something referencing Harry beng gay. I know it’ll just be speculation but I need something, cos I’m struggling with that one

      • Suzy says:

        Go to Tumblr & type in “Larry Stylinson” in the search box. Prepare to read a lot of fanfic but many fans are convinced that Harry & Louis are more than just BFFs (even tho Lou has a girlfriend).

        IDK ab Grimmy/Harry, though…

        /I know waayyy too much about this situation lol

      • Joyce n Juice says:

        Kiki – My system is ridiculously slow today, hopefully someone will send you links. Here are directions though.
        Datalounge aggregates the drama best. Its a gay site and there are some industry insiders on there. Tumblr is a much younger crowd but they are incredible with collecting tweets and finding footage.

        You can search with both their names or you can use the monikers “Stymshaw” or “Gryles” for Harry Styles and Nick Grimshaw (get it?)

        OR “Larry Stylinson” for Louis Tomlinson & Harry Styles.

        Edit: Suzy beat me to it, it seems. I’ll leave my post as it is though

      • Miss Kiki says:

        I just read that guardian article. I don’t know why I’m shocked, I always suspected that he was either gay or maybe just A-sexual but I didn’t know he’d actually addressed it in an interview.

      • stellalovejoydiver says:

        There is a high probability that this is exactly what is going on, and I get why their management thinks they have to do this(girls being able to project themselves as their girlfriends). On the other hand if they had two openly gay singers they could appeal to a whole new demografic target group, older gay men, who have more money than the teenage fangirls and will not suddenly stop listening to them once they grow out their boyband phase. Besides that it might be a smart move longterm economically, considering how many fanfics are shipping two men, I don´t think there would be that much of a backlash if they came out.

      • clickhere says:

        Some women are attracted and attract gay men and it looks like Taylor is one of them. Going by how upset she gets over the breakups, I can only assume shes completely oblivious of it. Like Liza Minelli or even her mom Judy Garland.

        Taylor honey, word has gone round that you are an easy way to shore up “straight” cred. And child, if you can date Taylor Lautner without bells going off in your head, you really should never trust your senses. Get your girls to check out these guys before you date. Ok? Ok.

      • Esperelda says:

        Harry and Louis used to be so adorable together. This is one of my favourite moments; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iRTQ0989T8.
        Since I am sure that you guys have lives and couldnt be bothered with watching, let me describe it. At 2:13 the interviewer places his hand on Louis’ knee. Harry gives the interview a look that would sour milk and then places HIS hand on Louis knee. Its so spontaneous and seems like such a genuine act of jealousy from a 17 year old that I. Just. Can. Not.

        Please dont judge me.

      • Suzy says:

        Sorry “Joyce N Juice”…great minds think alike :)

      • pastyousayyouneverknew says:

        OK wow, I definitely did not know all this, it’s kinda sad really that being gay /bi is still such a big deal in Hollywood, it’s sad that people feel like they literally have to hide who they are.

      • kasuku says:

        @ Esperelda: No judgement here. Glad to see I am not the only grown woman who ships Harry and Louis. My personal best is when they walk into a press conference room and Harry takes one look at the place cards and goes into a sulk. While the others are posing for photos, Harry can be clearly heard asking a handler why he and Louis are not seated together. Then he turns to Louis and asks “who do you want to sit with” Louis mutters “with you”. And then Harry looks pointedly at the Handler who says that its too late. Harry sulks through the rest of the interview. I’ll try and track down the link.

        Notice how nasty Grimmy is towards Louis on his show? He calls Louis the most boring in 1 Direction. Then there was the putting Louis in the “ugliest pop star” category. Honestly if Harry was a girl this triangle would be a regular headline maker.

      • Charlotte says:

        Wow, you know a lot about him.

        I wouldn’t day his gay/bi until it’s confirmed because it seems to be more of a fan fantasy to ship Louis and Harry – which I will admit is adorable but they play it up for the cameras. It seems to be more like a JD and Turk thing (for anyone who watches scrubs :D )

        Also, the girls that Harry’s linked to? He has denied being in a relationship with any of them and said they’re all just friends in interviews so… not very good ‘beard’ material. However, he does seem to bed/bootycall a lot of girls even out of the limelight:

        They probably wouldn’t leak that on purpose because it detroys their ‘good guy’ image given that Zayn (his band mate) has a girlfriend.

        He might be bisexual, but I wouldn’t think that he’s gay.

      • spugzbunny says:

        agh, can’t reply to the original post but that youtube clip where he puts his hand n his knee. I squeeked! Out loud! In the office!

        I had never heard this before but after seeing that video I have absolutely no doubt that that boy is gay! As gay as dancing flamingos in sparkling tutus.

        blimey what a revelation.

    • Suzy says:

      Esperelda, we don’t judge :) Harry makes me swoon & I really hope “Larry” is at least somewhat true!

      PS If you want to know ANYTHING that’s going on in these young lad’s lives, follow the fan girls on Twitter. Dear LORT, they know EVERYTHING

  3. Amelia says:

    On behalf of British music lovers, I would like to apologise for the recent influx of sh*te musical acts that have been trying to ‘break America’.
    *sighs* How have we manages to get from the Beatles and the Stones to One Direction, Cher Lloyd and *shudders* Cheryl Tweedy?
    This doesn’t really surprise me, tbh. By all accounts, Harry whatshisface is a bit of a wannabe player. I say ‘wannabe’ because I cannot take any guy seriously who deliberately tries to portray that player bravado act, yet cannot grow facial hair.
    *Ahem* Bieber.

    • Ms Kay says:

      Speaking of which did you watch Children in Need last Friday? Weren’t Girls Aloud just bloody awful? Cheryl and Nadine fighting for the ME spotlight.. *facepalm*

      As for “music” nowadays, hope is lost… From a Barbados beaten up girl parading half naked to a serial dater to a prepubescent boys band to X not to say Zero Factor… *sob* *puts on Ella Fitzgerald*

      • Amelia says:

        Oh my GOD I had to change the channel. It’s laughable! Ugh.
        The same with their Strictly performance – so bad. Even when they’re miming they can’t stay in tune.

      • Miss Kiki says:

        I’m still confused as to why GA felt they needed to get back together. I genuinely wasn’t aware that they even had much of a fanbase anymore, clearly I’m not ‘own with the kids anymore’.

        The boy band thing I can deal with, there’s always some boy band for every generation but Cher Lloyd? Cher bloody Lloyd? Shocking!

        I hope Cheryl does ‘crack’ America, then hopefully I won’t have to see her vastly over rated face plastered everywhere anymore. Have you guys seen that she’s got a fly on the wall thing starting on itv2? *groan*

      • Ms Kay says:

        @ Amelia & Miss Kiki indeed! I don’t know why I watched it, sorry but I’ll say it out loud, Children in Need as much as it’s for a noble cause it has aslo become a gigantic platform hoopla for “artists” to make their promo…

  4. Gracie says:

    I weep for the future of music sometimes.


  5. daz says:

    Slowly shake my head in woe. Lord give me strength.

  6. Amy625 says:

    Harry is just John Mayer, Jr. I really wish Taylor would grow up. She dates guys for a few months and acts like it a huge tragedy when they breakup.

    • Dani says:

      Ugh YES! I’ve been saying this forever! He’s a baby John Mayer in training.

    • Rachel says:

      I know nothing about this kid. However, I agree about Swifty. She’s just way behind the curve. Like she’s still in 7th grade and it’s the greatest tragedy of her life when the guy she “dated” for 2 weeks moves on to someone else. Doesn’t she have any friends to tell her she’s making a fool of herself???

      • erika says:


        i was reading my journals from 7-9th grade a while back and every other WEEK “I’m so in love w/ Ryan” “I caught Ryan staring at me today” “OMG Ryan’s foot brushed up against my chair in assembly today…is that a signal?”

        “I wonder if Ryan knows my name..”

        that kind of crap….falling in love, LOVE, with a boy who, you’re not sure even knows your NAME!

        she is way embarassing herself, at least by 22 i had graduated to walks of shame the next morning…

  7. T.C. says:

    Taylor Swift is almost 6 foot tall. Who is this 18 year old boy that can pick her up like it’s nothing. The song about the US magazine photo up weekend is so corny. Going on about your scarf being at his sister’s house? Oh Jake did you really date this immature mean-girl?

  8. SmokeyBlues says:

    Actually, when a musician has some real talent, they certainly can put a ten minute song on an album. Bob Dylan, Led Zepplin, etc. But not you, Taylor, not you.
    She’s starting to really freak me with all these young guys. 18 is stil a kid. I have taught 18 year old boys – they are smelly, confused, immature, crazy kids. Kids, I tell ya!

  9. Emily says:

    Priscilla Desert strikes again!

  10. Itsjustblanche says:

    I plowed through a lot of boys at that age I just didn’t have to do it publicly. I’m sure I was a little melodramatic about them too.

  11. Lulu says:

    I like what she is doing with her eye makeup these days. It makes her eyes look SO much bigger, it’s amazing. I like Swifty. I’d much rather my daughter look to her as a role model than Katie Perry. *sigh*

  12. Saphana says:

    He tries to bone every girl he gets his fingers on and she tries to fall in love with every guy that she gets her fingers on.
    they seem perfect for each other.

  13. Micki says:

    Before all those songs and albums about Jake Gilenhaal I knew he existed, have seen 2-3 films with himand that was it.
    Now I begin to wonder what’s so special about him and why is Swift smarting so long after the split.

    Oh, and last weekend I heard “Never Ever Getting Back Together.”

    Is it supposed to be catchy? It annoyed the shit out of me.

  14. serena says:

    I’d say Harry Styles is very very cute, but I feel like a creep. Oh well..

  15. Diva says:

    If this is the new NKOTB/Nsync then I feel sorry for this kids.

  16. Jenna says:

    Oh Swifty, Swifty. Tsk tsk tsk.

  17. CTgirl says:

    At 22 it’s just kind of creepy that she keeps dating 18 year olds.

  18. Riana says:

    I just don’t get the age concern.

    Most 18 yr olds and 22 yr olds run in the same circles, hang out together, sometimes take classes on college campuses and date all the time.

    It’s like people think 18 yr olds are 8.

    • Esperelda says:

      Its just Bible Belt type of thinking. The woman should be submissive see that means she must be younger and shorter and less successful and…other such bs. A 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl would raise no eyebrows whatsoever. Hell thats pretty common isnt it, final year student dating a freshman.

      Women will always be their own worst enemies. I’ll stick with male mysoginists myself, they are more amenable to change.

    • JN says:

      I agree. I was 21/22 my senior year of college, and I made quite a few freshman friends, who were 18/19 at the time. But, most of the freshman were pretty immature, but the same could be said about some of the older kids (some people never change). Dating that far across years was unusual (any direction with genders), but it happened, and it wasn’t terribly weird. After all, like you said, we (18-22 ish) socialized all the time.

      It also helps that I have a sister whose 5 years younger than me (18), and she’s my best friend.

      Taylor seems to be quite immature (at least in this aspect of her life), so maybe the younger boys match her well. Of course, she’s also still young. At the same time, the Connor Kennedy phase was creepy, because even though he was 18, he was still in high school. Harry is 18 (and gay rumors aside), but he’s out of school now.

      I think this whole “older” woman going after a “younger” guy, who we know is not all that much younger, is way overplayed here.

  19. Christina says:

    In her defense, as far as the falling in love so easily and her writing songs about the guys she dates, I get it. She is very young. I remember when I was in my late teens , early 20′s thinking every relationship was a huge deal. It did not matter if it lasted 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years..etc. It felt like love and it felt like the world was ending when the relationship did. The fact that she can take those experiences and make music, is not a bad thing. Good for her. I read the lyrics to her song allegedly about Jake, and I related to how she must have felt. I have been there too, many of us have.

  20. INeedANap says:

    She gives me serious mean-girl vibes. She seems like the kind of chick that would drop you in a hot minute when she has a new guy and would be ready to claw out your eyes if you so much as say hello to her man. Ugh. I can’t with girls like that; I’m fortunate enough that my lady-friends are all sane and confident people, I couldn’t handle Swifty.

  21. kimcheee says:

    She’s a cougar at 23. She must need to be dominant for some reason. She’s choosing younger, weaker males time and time again, isn’t she? A pattern to watch.

  22. Talie says:

    I can’t figure her shtick out…I mean, Harry Styles is sexually active. Is she? I would think so.

  23. TheOneAndOnlyOnly says:

    This simpering twit has become such a corporate gimmick wasn’t it just yesterday the media was all agog over the Kennedy connection; after she achieved her sales mark, connor was dropped she got all the pr she needed to shill her crap music; amelia, gracie and others there’s good music out there just not the pop shit that’s shoved down our throats; hell, mumford and sons outsold the biebster with their new cd, also esperanza spalding, gary clark, rodrigo and gabriela,etc. but they aren’t pop.
    Yes, micki and suzy I agree that We are never ever yada yada yada is truly awful.
    It may compete with Friday as one of the worst songs EVA, except to Shifty McVeneer’s tone deaf tweener fans.

  24. Chelley says:

    I don’t know. I hesitate to believe that they’re dating. Until I see actual pictures of them together, I’ll believe it. But I don’t think these two should even be near each other. I think Taylor is too good for Harry. She’s looking for a real, committed relationship, and he’s not. She needs to stop wasting her time with boys who will break her heart. I know it’s great song material, but at the end of the day, sanity is important to maintain and she can always write anti-ex-bf anthems that aren’t personal.

  25. Steph says:

    I wonder if she’ll stop dressing like she raided an Anthropologie and adopt a new style closer to Harry’s or whoever that red-headed kid is. I remember doing that in high school as well.

  26. Brooke says:

    Harry is not gay, maybe bisexual but not gay, I know this for a fact (he prefers black girls BTW) This relationship with Swifft is PR, it will be over in a month

  27. KellyinSeattle says:

    He’s cute. She looks like a mime in that outfit.

  28. erika says:

    she’s starting to come off as psychotic.

    “date. Date. Date…I just date. I need a date. I don’t wash my hair on Friday nights….date. I must have a boyfriend. My career survives on it.”

    is it me or does anybody else think those One Direction boys are UGLY!!! and what’s with their hair? do they still wear diapers??really it’s a vibe i’m getting

  29. LouLou says:

    I am old, so he looks like a toddler to me. A gay toddler.

  30. oliveo says:

    I can’t keep up with Swifty’s escapades anymore. All these dating stories are so frequent that they’re getting old and all blurring together in my gossip-addled brain

  31. Lindsey says:

    She went from dating older, more experienced, player-type dudes, to dating younger, less-experienced hairless boys.

    What’s up with that??

    • Suzy says:

      And Harry fancies cougars-his last girlfriend was 31 when he was 17 & he’s been linked to Natalie Imbruglia who’s 37. Rrrow

      • kasuku says:

        *cough* Natalie Imbruglia is a good friend of Nick Grimshaw, the gay male DJ that Harry has been linked to. Caroline Flack, the other name frequently mentioned with Harry is one of Grimshaws best friends. Same goes for Peaches Geldoff. Neither of the girls pretend otherwise and there are plenty of pics of them with Nick in parties and such.

        So either Grimshaw is pimping Harry to his galpals or something else is going on here. Guess where my money is.

  32. Sean says:

    How much does she get paid for beard duty?

  33. Rhiannon says:

    I got a Harry stand-up cut out for my boyfriend’s daughter 12 th birthday. When I walk by her room I always think I see my stepmother lurking in the corner. But no it’s Harry. That’s all I’ve got.

  34. Izzy says:

    Romancing? Come on, let’s at least call it what it is: Stalking.

  35. kfdlfjsdl says:

    Taylor swift and that boy would be a cute couple. I still think she and jake gyllenhaal should give it another go, but that’s just me.

    I’m a little confused when I see comments not only on this site, but on others as well, an example being youtube. Take Chris hemsworth and Tom hiddleston, and the comments such as “Make out!!!!!!!!!!!!” ” They make such a cute couple” ” How hot would it be if they banged in front of me”. If I like a guy, I’m hoping that he’s straight, and has an attraction back to me. Not that he’s bi or gay. Back in high school, I liked a guy that I thought was straight, turns out he was gay. I remember feeling crushed, knowing there was no chance for me at all. Maybe I’m just getting old, I’m 24, so maybe.

    Before anyone leaps to the idea that I’m antigay, I’m not. My best friend since I was 4 is gay, someones sexual orientation doesn’t bother me.

    Also, I found it very frustrating that some so called gay activists are always trying to out people. If they don’t want to come out, then they don’t have to. Stop acting like it’s some personal offense against you. How can you be a gay rights activist, yet be actively trying to force someone who doesn’t want to come out of the closet out, and criticize them when they don’t?

    I had a friend who killed himself because one of his so called hardcore gay rights friend told his family that he was gay. My friend repeatedly begged this person not to, that they would come out in their own time, that they weren’t ready, yet this person did so anyway. I talked to this person as well, asking him not to, and got told off. How I was helping my friend hid in the closet, and how I should be ashamed of myself for not forcing him out. He still doesn’t feel like he did anything wrong by going against my friends wishes.

    When your making these comments about celebrities, he’s gay, she’s gay, realize that they are a actually human being, that these comments aren’t making it any easier for them. Perhaps these celebrities have already come out to their loved ones, just not the public. It’s their right, and you shouldn’t begrudge them that.

  36. G says:

    Isn’t this the one that is gay and with another one in the band that’s also his “roommate”??

    Anyway I’m starting to thinks she’s kind of a ho LOL!!

    • Reluctant Fan says:

      As someone who knows much too much about One Direction (blame my friends, they never shut up about them), I think Harry’s bi/pansexual. Louis (the other guy) actaully comes off as the straightest guy in the group. Everything that you’ve heard of it is just a loud minority of the fandom (‘Larry Stylinson’ shippers) who really, really want them to be in a relationship because since said fans can’t get in their pants they might as well.

  37. Jill says:

    Bouncing from one man to another, to another, to another, to………..

  38. Sara says:

    Oh taylor, honey, he looks like he’s nine come on

  39. spugzbunny says:

    Thank you folks. I had no interest in one direction until this! I am now obsessed with looking at Larry Stylinson tumblr.

    God help me. Bless those pretty little gays though

  40. Teri says:

    She is just a slut!! She goes through men/boys like underwear…It annoys me that she tries to come off a innocent and is just not