Gerard Butler admits he banged Brandi Glanville but never got her last name

Back in 2011, Gerard Butler and Brandi Glanville hooked up. I don’t know if the hookup was just one night or one hour or one week, but it began and ended pretty quickly and Gerard barely got her name. When the tabloids began repeating the rumor that they hooked up, Brandi ended up confirming it. And then a paparazzo ran into Gerry and asked him if her hooked up with Brandi and Gerry’s reply was, “Who’s Brandi Glanville?” Brandi had to do some damage control and she later said that Gerry had called her to apologize and admonish her for kissing and telling.

Yesterday, Gerry appeared on Howard Stern’s show and Stern ended up asking him about the Brandi situation. I can’t help it – I thought Gerry was incredibly funny describing what went down. Is he sleazy? Of course. But I feel like he isn’t pretending to be anything other than a dude who will literally bang a lady for a week without bothering to find out her last name or her occupation.

Gerard Butler, speaking with Howard Stern Monday, acknowledged making love to Brandi Glanville, and he clarified his earlier confusion when asked about the celebrity hook-up. Stern brought up the Brandi tryst to the dreamy Scotsman, who explained the circumstances behind his roll-in-the-hay with the Real Housewife, which she rated “11 out of 10.”

He said he crossed paths with Brandi “at a beach party,” and “had a little bit of fun” with the mother-of-two. He said in casual conversation, he asked her what she did for a living, but she changed the subject in the heat of the moment.

The 300 star said his “Who’s Brandi Glanville?” comment came when a pap ambushed him and asked him about the hook-up after she publicly bragged about it.

“You know what I said — ‘Who’s Brandi Glanville?’ — because I didn’t know her last name, didn’t know she was a celebrity, didn’t know she was going to run out and f*cking tell everyone about it!”

[From Radar]

My favorite part is Gerry asking Brandi what she does for a living and she’s like, “nevermind, don’t worry about it.” As in, “I know you don’t even care, so I won’t even bother describing it. Let’s do this. Take off your pants.” So, does everyone believe Brandi now? Gerry confirms it – they made sweet, sweaty, Scottish love. And he sort of remembers her.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. Vera says:

    Gerry is a total slut, but yes, I would, and I would be honored if he’d even remember my first name.

  2. Skipper says:

    Blech.

  3. brin says:

    Brandi was on WWHL last night and was asked about this…she said she & Gerry texted each other and it’s all good. Meanwhile, Brandi was on WWHL, RHOBH and 90210 last night…wonder if LR’s head exploded.

  4. Shy says:

    They probably slept one time. But it was funny the way he was describing it.

    Also – he is so gross looking. I can’t believe he was so hot back in a days. Totally lost all his hotness.

    • Christina says:

      Yup. I think he’s in the same category as Russell Crowe in ‘Gladiator’ or Henry Cavill in ‘The Tudors’. He will only ever be hot in one role – one that involves him having to take almost all his clothes off.

  5. Faye says:

    I’m she she’s not the first or last woman he’s banged without knowing her name. He just seems like such a skeeze, and his lifestyle is sure showing on his face — he’s like Dorian Gray without the picture.

    I try not to remember the little crush I had on him after Phantom of the Opera. Ah, the shame :).

  6. I.want.shoes says:

    Somewhere, LeAnn is adding “Have sex with Gerard Butler; score a 12 out of 10” to her To Do list.

  7. Lol says:

    well… he might be a bit sleezy but at least he doesn’t pretend to be something he isn’t. It’s not like the woman he’s banging don’t know it’s all about sex. If you hook up at a beach party/club etc it’s pretty obvious there’s no white picket fence in the future. He doesn’t promise them anything. I prefer a straight out manwhore before someone who promises the world (or maybe just being faithful) and then doesn’t keep his word *cough*Eddie*cough*.
    Also, he doesn’t seem to be kissing and tellling, as far as I know it’s the ladies that are bragging, and that counts for something in my book as well

  8. Lulu says:

    ‘And he sort of remembers her.’ <–brilliant!! Haha

    • BeachBelle says:

      He sort of remembers her, but he sure remembered having her phone number and got in touch with her. LOL

  9. Barrett says:

    Make love…. Yeah ok if that is what you want to write for our virgin ears?

  10. Jackie Jormp Jomp (formerly Zelda) says:

    I’d judge, but I have banged people whose first names actually now escape me. Am I the only one?

    • Oops says:

      no you’re not, and for me it was worst : I was unable to recognize him, sure it was four years later but… 🙂

    • Kiddo says:

      No, you’re not the only one. But have you gone on Stern’s show to glorify it? If not, you don’t suck. He wants to make himself above it, but that was a low blow, quite intentionally. What a dick.

      • Jackie Jormp Jomp (formerly Zelda) says:

        Meh. He was asked about it. He hasn’t gotten half as much mileage out of talking about it as she has.

      • Toot says:

        N@ Kiddo

        No, Gerald isn’t the dick in this situation. Lose lips Brandi should have kept her mouth shut.

        Gerald said himself that you keep things like that private. Howard brought it up because Brandi was just there and he loves mess.

      • TheOriginalKitten says:

        What Toot said.

      • RHONYC says:

        @ Toot

        ‘Loose Lips’ ??? 😯

        Ha! Not according to her book.
        Looks like we know WHO christened her new rejuvenated vajay-jay. 😛

        Burnnnn Eduardo Burrrrn. 😆

      • vvvoid says:

        I can mostly remember their names if I can even remember they happened, lol.
        All in good fun though.
        My fiance has only slept with 10 people, sometimes I wish I could give him a number that didn’t dwarf that a bit, to make him feel as special as I feel that I was his 10th…he’s the best in bed ever but was sexually victimized as a kid so he doesn’t take sex lightly…but he doesn’t ask me my number, never, so it’s nice I don’t have to confirm or deny.
        If I could go back I’d probably be more chaste in my decisions, but I don’t feel shame or regret about them either to any real extent. Like I said, all in good fun.
        Hope more women become impervious to slut shaming in the future.

    • TheOriginalKitten says:

      This is a terrible problem of mine. I sometimes can think of a face and dong only, with all other details escaping me.
      It’s embarrassing but what can I say?

      I had a lot of fun in my twenties.

      On another note, is there anything personal that Brandi HASN’T divulged to the American public? I mean, discretion really isn’t this woman’s strong suit.

      • Sandy Pandy says:

        Fuelled by alcohol, pot and hormones, who remembers now? Barely even then in some cases LOL. All fun though – nobody got hurt.

        Agree re Brandi – shut up already.

      • MorticiansDoItDeader says:

        @vvvoid, I was molested and married the only man I slept with. Being molested at 7-8 years old made me feel like people only wanted to use me for sex, so I withheld it and hung the promise of it over their heads so I could use them before they could use me. I’m sure your fiancé doesn’t regret having slept with *only* 10 people, just like I don’t regret having slept with only one.

    • j.eyre says:

      A girlfriend and I were trying to total up our prior “friends” and as I was naming them I went from “first name last name” to “first name” to “guy from the blackout party” to “Oh yeah, I did bang somebody in that bar’s bathroom, didn’t I?”

      I really can’t judge anyone.

      • Isa says:

        I wish my husband was my only and I could forget all the others first, last name and that it ever happened!

    • Fabgrrl says:

      No, not at all. But I was in my early 20s at the time, not my late 30s. And not a mother. And I didn’t discuss it on the radio.

    • Reece says:

      @Jackie nope you’re not.

      @Toot ITA

    • sauvage says:

      I know all their first names. Probably never got their last names. I also keep a list: number – first name – the year it happend. Yeah, I know, I’m a sleaze, but a girl has to know her statistics, right?

  11. peaches mcdooby says:

    so over Gerard, what a douch.e

    he rips Brandi a new one for kissing and telling than does the exact same thing on Howard Stern to an even wider audience

    and then he states he didn’t remember her name( but mysteriously had her phone number) because he has slept with so many women he can’t be expected to remember them all, what a creep and he thinks he sounds so cool.

    hope his small,skinny, uncut charles falls off

    won’t waste another dollar on his movies

  12. Miss M says:

    Gerry is such a sleazy, but he is “P.S. I love you” kind of hot again. Hahaha

    Scottish dong day! 🙂

    ps: He is so right in one thing… why did she tell the world about it? He would be in my shame ____ list.

    • Toot says:

      Brandi has no shame or filter and loves her name out there no matter what. No one needed to know, but Brandi thought it was a brag.

      • Miss M says:

        yes, she did think it was. Oh, and just to clarify… He would not be on my shame ____list? not after all the stories about him… I was saying only if I were her, I would keep in the list. Even if he was not in the list, keep your mouth shut about your private life, Brandi!

      • claire says:

        The whole thing came out, I think, because it was a question on the WWHL show a while back. One of their dares or quizzes or whatever segments. She could have lied, and said No, I’ve never slept with anyone famous, but then the next day Leann and her psychos would have been all over Twitter telling her secrets and bashing her. So she told the truth. I guess either way she would have gotten $hit for it.

  13. Toot says:

    I have no use for Butler and Brandi is just nasty too.

  14. Kiddo says:

    This makes him sound like such as ass, and I’m not a fan of Glanville.

  15. Cinnamon says:

    I’d judge….but i still love him from Atilla and I would be lying if i said an STD-free Gerard Butler wouldnt be something I’d jump on if Jason Momoa wasnt available (my marriage hall pass)

    my roommate in college banged 6 dudes during spring break in Cancun and referred to them only by things like “yellow shoes guy”.
    she said if she remembered their name she could not realistically lie about her shenanigans because if someone later down the road asked “did you sleep with paul brooks” she could say “no i dont even know a paul brooks”………….

    she’s a married housewife with two kids now so I mean, i guess it all worked out for her.

  16. Simple Red says:

    I like how he basically was saying Brandi shut Ur damn mouth, U talk too damn much…

    Not all men like their business put out there!!!

    I like how Gerard kept it real… It made me chuckle…

    He still cute to me

  17. mom2two says:

    He is a man-ho. But at least he’s honest about it.
    Honestly though, if I had to choose between him and Eddie Cibrian, I would choose him.

  18. K.T. says:

    But Butler, if he had a brain, should know that actor is going to sleep with people he doesn’t know and can’t be bothered to remember their name, than they will feel fully entitled to go to the media and blab about it.

    Its like written in some legal TMZ textbook, tee hee

    • Debra says:

      maybe he should have a bunch of ‘non-disclosure’ agreements made up for when he hooks up with all these nameless women?

      • K.T. says:

        I, Gerard 500 (now 50+) Butler, do solemnly swear that by not vaguely not acknowledging your name or existence to Howard Stern and annoying paparazi, shall hereby enforce you, The Lastnameless Co-Executieho, to never press legal action, memoirs or complaint against my (awesome/shrinking/medieval) sword skills.

        Please countersign before the festivities/outdoor public lavatory/heartfelt dirty-dancing will commence hereforth.

        😉

  19. Chrissie Malcolm says:

    Him a slut. Her a slut. A match made in heaven.

    Seriously though, the children of the world are watching these eejits, wanting to be them, aspiring to be as they are! Time our “celebs” dropped to their knees… wait for it… in thanks rather than for random hook-ups at parties. Be grateful for what you have, take some damn responsibility and set a good example. And don’t dare expect to be treated with any respect if you f*** around so publicly. Since when did it become acceptable to demean yourself and really not give a shit?

    • Ailine says:

      Not the tired “think of the children” argument. Do children even know who she is? Probably not. Slut-shaming is also tired. They are adults.

      • Annie2 says:

        Maybe she should think of her own kids. They can read. This whole damn blog world “shames” and makes fun of everyone. No need to be nasty. Soooo tiring

    • Moore says:

      These aren’t children. They are not even young adults. If middle aged people are not considered responsible enough to have sex no one can have sex. Children don’t look up to these people they have younger models. It is not our business.

  20. lambchops says:

    What happened to his Scottish accent? He sounds like he developed some strange Bronx one.

    • Jayna says:

      When he comes on Craig Ferguson’s show, his Scottish accent comes back thick since Craig is Scottish also. He is adorable on that show because they are both Scotts and have a great banter. I always forget Gerard got his law degree. His life before stardom is very interesting and Craig has more conversations on his show, than the canned, pre-intervew questions on Leno and Letterman, so learned a lot about Gerard.

  21. ThatGirl says:

    I’ve never found him appealing until now. I’m not sure what that says about me.

  22. SleepyJane says:

    Did anyone really ever doubt her story? I always believed it to be true, but thought it was pathetic of her to tell the world (I know, I know…she HAD to…it was under oath).

    As far as him contacting her, I’m sure his people tracked her number down once the story came out. I doubt they were in any contact beyond that little fling.

  23. Jayna says:

    Why was he a douche? He is walking and is accosted by a paparazzi screaming out what do you think about Brandi Glanville talking about screwing you, blah, blah? The guy is an A List actor and is being out of the blue asked a question out on the street by a creep about some one-night stand blabbing to the media about screwing him? Plus, he probably screwed a lot of Brandis and women’s names he doesn’t even remember. If I was an A List actor I certainly wouldn’t have been all worried about the one-night stand’s feelings, you know, the one bragging about it on TV. The guy is notoriously private.

    Stern asked him about it, and I thought he handled it well and classy. He said he met her at a party, spent time with her, knew her first name, didn’t even know her last name (probably how he put it in his cell phone contacts, just the name Brandi, when he said he would call her again and didn’t LOL) and knew nothing about her like that she was on TV, and responded to the paparazzi in the moment when blindsided. He said he didn’t appreciate her blabbing but was respectful on the radio show.

    Brandi even said last night on WWHL that he is a great guy. I think so, too, in that he is private about his male whoredom.

    I watched WWHL last night. Brandi was so slutty in her humor, as usual, but very funny. Sometimes her slutty humor, like her previous WWHL appearance was forced and the sthick was tiring, but last night was a riot. The audience really enjoyed her.

    But can I just say I am getting sad over what’s she is doing to her face. On WWHL last night those overfilled cheeks are just bad and she really can’t smile too brightly because of whatever she does to her lips. It really distracts me as I keep looking at her face and what she’s done. Her hair is way too bleached and extensions and style is like every other Real Housewife’s hair now. I really thought she was so pretty and fresh last season with low lights in her hair and thinner face. I wish she would stop the madness wth her face. I hope it’s not permanent and is fillers.

    • Kizzy says:

      I feel you girl.

    • littlestar says:

      I am so with you on this too – I wish Brandi would STOP with putting all of that crap in her face. Fillers just freak me out. They look so un-natural and plastic’y. She’s a gorgeous woman naturally, she doesn’t need that stuff. It’s making her look older, and ironically enough she said in her book she gets them to look younger. Maybe she should try a vampire facial instead hahaha.

      Kind of on a tangent here. I find it hard to believe Gerard Butler didn’t know who Brandi is. He lives in LaLaLand – her face has been on the cover of gossip mags many times. Does he not pay any attention to what goes on in the gossip world? I guess not lol.

  24. Janet says:

    Oh puh-leeze. That he-whore will bang anything breathing with two X chromosomes.

  25. Agnes says:

    Isn’t Brandi embarrassed to put stuff like that “out there”? I mean, the woman has children. They’re bound to hear about this crap from someone. I’m not picking on her here, not at all. It’s just an entire gross culture of TMI, nothing private, nothing held back. I’m sometimes embarrassed for these people.

    • claire says:

      What does having children have to do with it, realistically?

      • Agnes says:

        That her kids will hear all about her business – no one wants to know that sort of crap about their parents.

      • Joanna says:

        true, she should keep her mouth shut, whether she has kids or not. she should have some discretion…you don’t put all your business out on the street.

  26. Cam S says:

    I remember a blind item about him hooking up with a “housewife” and it rumored to be Brandi. Pay attention to those blind items ya’ll, I’d say a lot of them are true

  27. Jayna says:

    Gerard does nothing for me anymore. But I have to say when I first saw him in that movie with Hillary Swank where he dies and he comes back in her mind and talks to her throughout the movie, his gorgeousness, raw sexuality, and charm and love for her had me in that movie.

    The one scene that I still remember was going back to when they first met in Ireland and walking down the country road where he is trying to talk to her. The only thing that ruined that scene was Hillary was so not the right person in this movie. Her face was just too angular and her timing for romantic comedy so off, but Gerard in that whole scene on the country road was perfection. I wanted to rush off to Ireland and walk down a country road and run into him as his character. I was melting. LOL

    • Esmom says:

      Lol, it’s how I felt about John Cusack in Say Anything back in the day. I wanted him to hold up his boom box for me. But it was really only that one movie that I melted for him, he does nothing for me now.

    • Dani says:

      I always thought they should have cast Jennifer Garner instead of Hilary Swank. Ever seen Catch and Release? These are her types of movies.

    • Miss M says:

      @Jayna: the movie is “P.S. I love you”.

      When the movie first came out I was so upset because the book is far better. But I saw it recently while exercising on the thread mill and it was not that bad. Yes, he was super hot in it!

  28. Cody says:

    Lately, it is really hard to watch Gerard in a movie role ,without thinking to myself, he is such a sleezy guy.

  29. flor says:

    he looks so tired in that picture

  30. Dani says:

    As someone who wants to be such a positive influence on her kids, she has no problem airing her dirty laundry. I’m sure her sons would love to go online and read about mommys vag rejuvenation and the random guys she’s slept with. I feel the same way about Eddie; aren’t they ashamed of the lives they lead? Poor kids.

  31. Deedee says:

    Gross!!! Didn’t need to know that.

  32. Sara says:

    I know he’s a slut and starting to look old for his age but I find him very appealing. He is a great actor imo and love the accent.

  33. Madpoe says:

    Eccch! I need a hot shower and some holy water *cue crying game song*
    why does his p3nis continues to go to the dark side!!! why!!!?!?!

  34. i'm french don't kill me says:

    he deserves better: he’s a movie star,he parties with Dicaprio,Cooper…

  35. paola says:

    To me Gerard Butler is scorching hot! I can’t really blame Brandi for telling the world she slept with him, I would have done the same! 😀

  36. Samigirl says:

    I wouldn’t have been able to keep it a secret either. He may not be as attractive as he was in 300, but he still has sex appeal. And is apparently amazing in bed.

  37. Anne says:

    At least she gave him a great grade right?

  38. Rita says:

    I thought when Brandi said she “hooked up” with him that she was exaggerating about Gerard being an 11 out of 10 in bed. Apparently, she needed a good post-divorce thumping, and got one!!!!

    At least he didn’t refer to her as a “speed bump” he hit the night before.

  39. KellyinSeattle says:

    I’d really like to see him in a kilt.

  40. Dave says:

    I doubt there was much “love” involved. Let’s stop saying they “made love” and just call it what it was – having sex. There’s a difference.

  41. katherine says:

    Glanville is always candid. Vindicated once again.

    Honest to a fault.

    THE FACTS.

    Butler’s initial denial was not in response to a journalist during an interview, he was instead ambushed by a backwards walking, flash strobing paparazzi shouting a confusing and quite rude question.

    Glanville’s admission, last year, was simply an honest response to a direct, albeit intrusive, question. Glanville is renowned for honesty. No surprises there.

    Butler was also similarly sardonic and amused, yet honest, during a real interview.

    There’s a reason her memoir is No. 1 on the New York Times combined Bestseller List and her 1000 purchase reviews on Amazon equal a full five stars.

    • nomorerimes says:

      Totally agree with you about how Brandi’s honesty! Totally unlike all the lies that LeAnn spews out of her mouth and on twitter all the time. Can’t believe ANYTHING SHE says!

    • Jayna says:

      Actually, though she talked like it was a little longer in her remarks to Andy than a one night stand. He said it was an afternoon.

      The same with her saying in an interview that just kissing and no under the waist action with girls with Eddie watching. Then she goes on Howard and it was way more than that, way more with her and girls in front of Eddie. I saw fans call her out on it.

  42. Anna says:

    He filmed Olympus has fallen in Shreveport, LA where I live. While he was here he hit on a 15 year old I went to High school with until he asked her how old she was and quickly disappeared. She didn’t even look close to 18.

  43. Bored suburbanhousewife says:

    I still find him sexy, handsome and charming. I can’t help it. He’s smart as well. The comment upthread he was hot only in 300 is just wrong. As others observe, he was hot in Attila, Phantom, PS I love you ( Hilary =terrible casting) Ugly Truth, Dracula 2000 and a couple Scottisg flicks he did like Frankie where he could not have been cuter.

    While Skeezy and man whorish, he is not different from many male stars, especially rock stars, who screw around for decades with anything that moves and then in their fifties the light goes on and suddenly it’s marriage and domesticity and kids. Think Warren Beatty and Don Henley to name two. At least he’s not doing it whilst pretending to be married like Tiger and many others.

  44. Barbara says:

    Truthfully I have to admit I have done the same as he in my youthful 20’s & 30’s…but she should really keep her mouth shut. Sometimes a roll in the hay is just that…a roll in the hay.

  45. e.non says:

    i still think he looks like he smells and is dumb as a post.

    • Kizzy says:

      Come on. Really? Maybe I can understand why people say other things …but dumb? You may not want to invest the time but have a 5 second look at least.
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYfgiQ3rFfE
      The guy may do some wild, gross (port-a-potty incident – which hasn’t been confirmed by the way) and crazy things and may dress like he doesn’t care sometimes but he’s very, very smart.

  46. B says:

    “Dreamy Scotsman” and “roll-in-the-hay??”

    That article sounded like an ’80s Harlequin novel blast…just weird dramatics & verbiage.

    Whatever, apparently she looked hot @ the ‘beach party’ & they both were horny & hung out & after she was unfiltered, as usual…nothing out if the norm…

  47. Sara says:

    Wow, I just looked up his girlfriend and she was freakin born in 1988! He was born in 1969. Why oh why can’t these forty something actors find a beautiful women in her early thirties? So much more in common. These two certainly won’t last.

  48. Kiel says:

    I have to tell you, this whole sexual liberation thing; it’s got all the maids giving away the milk for free these days with no screening process. If it’s what the girls want, more power to them, I suppose. I know it’s working out pretty well for the boys, that’s for sure.

    • Loira says:

      She also enjoyed it, sex is not just a man’s thing. Yes she has children and yes, she was recently divorced.
      I personally doubt I would do that if I had. Children, but I do know some divorced women that do thing like these, let off the steam after a broken relationship, it is reaffirmating and fun for them.
      Only thing here is that she told that in her TV show, and she has kids, but call her names? They are both adults and with no attachements athe time. Why not?

      • Kiel says:

        Oh, I don’t know – disease, maybe?

      • Loira says:

        There are ways to protect yourself from a STD. Even people with AIDS can have sex if protected.
        First you seem to slam her because she is “giving it for free”, Nd that the boys are taking advantage if girls like that, (you never mentioned health risks being the risk) then you add that.
        I think that if you are a single adult, and your partners are adults too, you can practice safe sex.
        I feel that your comment seems sexist.

      • Kiel says:

        Well, if you think about my comment, you’ll see that it’s not sexist.

        I wasn’t ‘slamming’ her anymore than him.

        However, I do find it irresponsible for someone with two small children who depend on her for love and support, to not do everything they can to make sure that she is safe and healthy for them.

        That would go for single fathers as well as single mothers.

        It doesn’t help that the ‘event’ was disclosed to the public, thereby exposing her elementary school children to ridicule as a bonus.

        To be clear, to me, Gerard’s no prince in this matter either. And, I’m not sure what his story/background is.

        I also would ask you to question the wisdom of your perspective on someone saying, ‘I don’t really know you, and I’d like to have sex. I have an STD, but it’s okay, I’ll use a condom’.

        That’s assuming the person with the STD chooses to disclose it.

        But hey, it’s Brandi and Gerard’s life. If something happens, I’m sure the kids ‘bonus mom’ will be happy to pick-up the slack.

        I don’t have a dog in this fight, I just come to this site as an occasional distraction from the financial pages. The articles and comments section are much more enjoyable than TMZ.

      • Joanna says:

        but if it was just fun, why would she be upset he didn’t remember her? to me, if she didn’t care she wouldn’t be upset. I agree with Kiel, it works out good for men . but most women I know who try it, just for fun, get attached, and try to make the fling into their boyfriend. that was what I used to do, too. and then, the women get hurt b/c the man doesn’t want a relationship with them.

        I had a gf who met a man off a dating website. it started out as a fling and she did him in his car. then she kept on doing him. two years later, she was still doing him in his car only now she was in love with him. and her girlfriends were trying to get her to stop seeing him. b/c we could see that he was keeping her from pursuing a real relationship, b/c she wanted one with him. and he just kept using her. b/c he could keep it on a just sex level and didnt care that she was in love with him.

        so in other words, it works out well for the guys, like Kiel said.

    • Kiel says:

      My final point, then I’ll shut-it; in my humble experience, there is no consequence-free sex.

      One way or the other, male or female, there is a toll to be paid – be it emotionally or physically.

      This is not a sexual liberation issue, this is a human issue. It has to do with the way we’re wired. Fidelity is hard, but infidelity has punitive price as well.

      There’s a reason things evolved that way. I suspect back in the mists of time, men wanted to be assured that the child they worked to raise was their own – and I suspect women wanted the efforts of their mate to be directed toward the family created by the two of them, and not be divided among others.

      As long as we’re human, we’ll struggle, be it a committed relationship or marriage, traditional or same-sex.

      I know in the case of men I’ve known who’ve lived selfishly, payment comes due if/when they have a daughter; and from the men I’ve known who lived that way, it’s a steep price.

      Women I can’t speak for, but I suspect the price to be paid is even more difficult.

      Brandi’s not helping herself, and Gerard’s not winning any prizes either.

  49. Sam H x says:

    I thoroughly enjoyed watching him & Craig Ferguson on the LLS, their banter is great to watch and v funny. They need to have him on there more often. He doesn’t look too bad but he comes across rather charming and oozes sex appeal which I find rather attractive.

  50. why? says:

    Aren’t there photos of GB making out in the streets with women? Weren’t there photos of him grabbing on JA behind? So he isn’t concerned about his privacy. He is papped just about every day every week, so privacy isn’t his #1 priority.

    What about the ridicule the children face when Eddie and Leann were making out on the sidelines of their soccer games before either one of their divorces were final, Leann and Eddie take the kids on vacation and then Leann and Lizzy makeout while Eddie watches when his kids are just a few feet away from them, and Leann dry humping on Eddie while his son sits right next to them. I’m not saying that what Brandi does is right, but where was the concern for the kids when Leann and Eddie were doing all of this?

  51. Jane says:

    I’m wondering if Leann is having s hissy fit because a rather successful star admitted to having a fling with Brandi. I know he is not an A List actor but he sure isn’t a D Lister like Eddie. There is no way she can SWF Brandi on this one….of even one up her.

  52. elceibeno08 says:

    I don’t know what the criteria is for rating movie stars into A, B, C, or D categories, but my guess is that Gerard Butler is a solid B. He is so handsome it is hard to hate him, and I wouldn’t blame any woman for sleeping with him.

  53. Aqua says:

    You know,maybe I’m being a wet blanket here but all I kept thinking about is What about her boys?People talk,kids talk and tease.Hope they are not a casualty of all this TMI.

  54. Vesper says:

    One inaccuracy in the CB article. The tabloids did NOT begin repeating a rumor about the hook up which Brandi then confirmed. Brandi was on some unheard of tv show and she was asked about her most famous hookup. She proudly announced it was Gerard. Only after that did the media roll with it and approach Gerard for confirmation.