Prince Harry wants to marry Cressida Bonas but she thinks she’s ‘far too young’

Here are some photos of Prince Harry at yesterday’s Virgin London Marathon. The London Marathon took place just six days after the Boston Marathon, and as with the Boston Marathon, London attracts some of the most elite runners in the world. In London, many of the runners wore black ribbons in honor of Boston, and they also had a moment of silence before the race started. I think Harry helped hand out medals and such, and I swear he looked kind of wistful, like he wished he could run with them. Also: how much stuff is Richard Branson going to tag with ‘Virgin’? Pretty soon they’ll just have to change the names to Virgin London and Virgin England.

Meanwhile, you know that Harry is still with his blonde, aristocratic girlfriend Cressida Bonas, right? Well, The Telegraph’s gossip guy Mandrake had a really eye-rolly story about how Harry is “ready to settle down” and how Cressida thinks she’s “far too young” to get married, so she’s been crying about it. Hahahaha. Yeah. I’m sure that’s exactly how it is!

Prince Harry wants to settle down with his girlfriend Cressida Bonas, but she is said to feel too young to marry. Characterised as a playboy, Prince Harry is, in fact, facing problems in his personal life because of his desire to settle down. Mandrake hears that the Prince, who turns 30 next year, has talked about marriage with his girlfriend, Cressida Bonas.

While many young women would be thrilled at the prospect of a royal wedding, the 24-year-old student at the Laban Conservatoire of Music and Dance has, however, been upset.

“Cressida has been in floods of tears,” claims one of her friends. “Harry is coming on very strong, but she is all over the place. She thinks she is far too young to get married and is scared by all his talk of marriage and settling down.”

Mandrake disclosed last November that Prince Harry had been in frequent telephone contact with Cressida from Afghanistan, where he was serving a four-month tour of duty as an Apache helicopter co-pilot gunner.

“Harry has been ringing Cressida regularly,” one of her friends told me at the time. “He’s been pleading with her to ‘wait for him’ until he comes back. Cressida is still very fond of her ex-boyfriend and, since Harry’s been on the scene, he’s been after her again. Cressida is torn. She likes Harry, but is not the sort to be bothered about his title.”

The former boyfriend was Harry Wentworth-Stanley, 23, whose stepfather, the Marquess of Milford Haven, is a cousin of the Queen. The pair were a couple while students at Leeds University, but he went travelling after graduation and their romance cooled. Last July, she was said to be “desperate” to rekindle their relationship.

In January, the Prince gave a bad-tempered television interview from Camp Bastion in which he complained about his difficulties in finding love. He said potential princesses were put off by his position, rather than attracted by it.

“You ain’t ever going to find someone who’s going to jump into the position that it would hold,” he said. “Simple as that. If you find the right person, and everything feels right, then it takes time … especially for myself and my brother.”

Harry is understood to have been influenced deeply by the happy marriage of the Duke of Cambridge, 30. His best friend, Thomas van Straubenzee, 30, is to marry Lady Melissa Percy, the Duke of Northumberland’s daughter, later this year.

Cressida began her flirtation with Harry before he went to Afghanistan. Her half-sister, Isabella Calthorpe, once spurned Prince William’s affections. Last month, she married Sam Branson, the son of the Virgin tycoon Sir Richard Branson.

[From The Telegraph]

Okay, I’ll be fair to Cressida for one moment: I think it’s perfectly reasonable for any young woman to find the idea of spending one’s life as a royal consort to be… overwhelming, to say the least. Being a princess/duchess is not the best job at all, and as we can see with Duchess Kate’s predicament, if you’re not interested in public work or charity work, it shows. But! If you’re an aristocratic (or even just wealthy) young woman in the UK, and you don’t have a lot going on, this is what is expected of you. You marry someone like Harry. Someone titled, someone wealthy, someone well-connected. It’s not like Cressida is some naïf unaccustomed to this kind of life at all. She was born into it, she’s friends with princesses and she runs in the wealthiest echelon of English society. And at the end of the day… she wants it. I don’t believe this report, because I just think Cressida is trying to reel Harry in and he’s the one with his eye on other things (or other girls).

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. Darcy says:

    It sounds like his comments were more about Chelsea Davy, who allegedly didn’t want that life and seems to be building a career of her own.

    • Lauren says:

      Exactly. I think it is pretty well known that Chelsy was the one girl he wanted to make things work with and be his wife eventually but she put an end to things for her own career.

      • Lucy says:

        Yeah I always think of her as his Camilla, they will keep coming back to each other and eventually Harry will leave his nice innocent wife for her.

  2. m says:

    Its pretty hard to marry a women who you arent even dating…

    • ANGELIC 20 says:

      yeah i am still not sure they are dating, i think they more like friends with benefit. he was seen at restaurants for dinner party, at a wedding with no Bonas by his side. i don’t think they are serious at all.

  3. LadyMTL says:

    Yeah, I don’t believe for a second that she thinks she’s too young. Rather, I think it’s that she doesn’t want the kind of stuck in a fishbowl life that Kate now has to deal with. Mind you, that’s based on the assumption that Harry actually does want to get married in the first place…which I kinda doubt.

    • Anna says:

      I don’t think he has much of an option. It’s what’s expected and he will comply. Plus he actually said in interviews that it sucks to carry out all the royal duties without a partner and he wants a wife and babies.

  4. SydneySpy says:

    Boy, does he have a type…

  5. Amelia says:

    I’m still rooting for Chelsea and Harry to get back together and completely shake things up. Although Chelsea’s a smart cookie with a brain in her skull, so I doubt she’d be a particular favourite of The Firm.
    I’ve got such a soft spot for Harry, a few friends and I went to the marathon yesterday and one of my pals disappeared for a little while and came back thoroughly proud of herself having had a little chat with him. Apparently he was just milling around with all the other spectators, no airs and graces whatsoever.
    Hoping everyone in Boston is recovering, we’re all thinking of you x

    • ANGELIC 20 says:

      I once met him too, he was so charming and charismatic in person . before meeting him i didn’t like him very much but after my conversation with (well not exactly hour long conversation but for about 7,8 minutes) i was charmed for life. he is very good looking in person ,more tall then you expect and very handsome in a uniform.

    • bluhare says:

      I’m jealous of Amelia’s friend and Angelic 20. Amelia, what’s wrong with you? You let a friend disappear at the marathon when HARRY was there????

      But I’m with you on Chelsy. I hope they do too, but they won’t. Even though their life won’t be quite a fishbowly.

      • Amelia says:

        Agh, I know, I really neglected my C/B stalker duties!
        Ah, well.
        I suppose I could always mosey on down to the South Pole …

      • Angelic 20 says:

        Blue hare,
        I was not at all looking forward to meeting him but had a compete 180 after that night. Forget about me even middle aged women with sons in their 20’s and in. the military were acting like giggling, stat stuck high school girls around him.

      • bluhare says:

        Amelia, well it will be summer down there when Harry goes, so just pack your insulated bikini ala Kate Upton, and you should be just fine.

        Angelic: I’d have been one of those old googly women too.

  6. JulieM says:

    I do get the feeling Harry wants to get married (or thinks he does), but it’s way too soon with this girl. He, himself, said it takes time in his position and he hasn’t been with her all that long. I think she wants a rich husband, but not the fishbowl. So I don’t think it will end up being her.

  7. DanaG says:

    By all accounts Cressida is flaky and pretty immature. She may want the title but she won’t want the work and lifestyle which she will have to do. Harry was supposed to be with when he did his big LV naked party so the feelings aren’t too deep for either. Don’t think he will pop the question anytime soon. Chelsy is dead in the water she doesn’t want to be a Royal and that isn’t going to change.

    • ANGELIC 20 says:

      well wanting to marry a rich titled guy and doing the work is working very well for kate so i don’t that attitude should be a problem for her either after all according to a lot of posters here she will be a princess and she have to do is look pretty and smile.

  8. jamminatorr says:

    Her?

  9. Regina Lynx says:

    Oh my God, this is simply too much Harry news in a short time… ooooh…

    First, he travels to the South Pole. I wonder what it would take to get to travel to his south pole?

    Then he attends Virgin London Marathon.

    Oy oy oy. Harry, if you come here, we could do a ‘virgin marathon’ together. I can be virgin for you. A blue-blood blonde, bordering on trashy. Anything.

    *goes to bleach hair and practice Received Pronunciation* Indubitably!

  10. LAK says:

    They aren’t dating.

    All these so-called quotes and analysis are culled from Chelsy’s time.

    Please can we bury the Harry likes a trashy blonde image since it’s not true nor has it ever been true? It’s just perpetuating a continued media denigration of Chelsy.

    • littlestar says:

      Once I learned more about her, it’s so sad how the media has portrayed Chelsy. She’s a young woman – a lot of young women like to party. But she’s also extremely intelligent with the drive to further her career, and she saw what kind of hellish life she could have had had she stayed with/married Harry. And unfortunately the media rarely reported that.

    • bluhare says:

      They aren’t dating??? So what’s with all the stories? A cover up because Harry’s trying to change Chelsy’s mind behind the scenes?

      • Reece says:

        That’s what I’d like to know because I don’t think they’re dating either.
        I also don’t think Chelsea’s going to happen. You may not ever get over your first love but you do move on from them.
        I hope he finds someone like her though, smart and with a work ethic.

  11. EscapedConvent says:

    The picture at the top of the page—is Richard Branson wearing a….*cowbell*?

  12. Flower says:

    If this report is true and the friends have been blabbing it seems like Cressida likes Harry a lot but isn’t really madly in love with him and she is right I think she is too young to marry. It may not be the case for many 24yr olds but I don’t think Cressida has the background family stability or personal maturity to be make a marriage at that age last.