Are J.Lo & Casper close to splitting following ‘transsexual affair’ stories?


Back in 2012, there was a decent sex scandal about Jennifer Lopez’s boyfriend Casper Smart. Paparazzi got some photos of Casper entering what appeared to be a shady massage parlor, and he allegedly likes A) women to give him quick handies during a rubdown or B) he meets his gay lovers at the allegedly notorious cruising venue. But Casper and Jennifer weathered that storm and obviously, they’re still together. But will they be able to stay together much longer?

Last week, Radar/Star Mag and The Dirty reported that Casper has been having an affair with “a transsexual model named Sofia Vissa.” You can read the basics of that story here. Allegedly they met online and began meeting up in the real world for hookups and such. As soon as that story came out, Jennifer’s people tried to shut it down, sending out a denial from “an unnamed source” to The Daily Mail, which you can read here.

So why are we still talking about this? Well, The Dirty claims that Casper has been hooking up with another transsexual model, this one named Xristina Marie. Now “sources” claim Jennifer and Casper are on the verge of splitting.

Jennifer Lopez’s boyfriend Casper Smart is again being accused of stepping out on the American Idol judge. On Monday The Dirty published a report that the 27-year-old choreographer has been seeing transsexual model Xristina Marie behind the 44-year-old superstar’s back. This comes exactly one week after a claim was made that Smart had been having a fling with transsexual bikini pinup Sofie Vissa.

Hours after the latest accusation, RadarOnline reported Lopez and Smart are on the brink of a split. ‘The relationship is all but over,’ a source told the site. ‘Jennifer has been embarrassed by him yet again,’ a friend told the site. ‘He was not invited to accompany her to New York.’

The beauty is holed up in her New York apartment where she’s making plans to dump her boyfriend of nearly three years, Radar maintains.

‘Casper was told he’s not going to Brazil for the World Cup,’ the friend said of the soccer tournament that starts June 12 – Jennifer made the Cup’s official song, ‘We Are One (Ole Ola)’ with rapper Pitbull in May. ‘Soccer is his favorite sport, so it must really suck for him.’

[From The Daily Mail]

Yeah. I hope she’s finally done. It’s past time for him to go. I feel a little bit weird about the tone of the tabloid stories, which I think are tinged with transphobia. I’m not disturbed by the idea of Casper (or any man) liking or being sexual attracted to trans individuals – different strokes, etc. What worries me is that Jennifer’s boy-toy – who only has one friggin’ job and that’s to be at her beck and call and not embarrass her – seems to have been blatantly cheating on her this whole time. THAT is what is gross. That Jennifer has sold herself short in the love department.


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  1. Izzy says:

    She has terrible taste in men. This one is no exception, a cheating douchebag.

  2. Dame Snarkweek says:

    They’re still together? Oh, well that’s nicezzzzzzzzzzz

  3. Audrey says:

    I agree. Everything I read is more focused on the fact that he’s sleeping with transsexuals than the fact that he’s a cheater. Pretty gross.

  4. pru says:

    I’m a horrible, horrible person and am probably going to hell for saying this, but his gigantic nostrils freak me out. And he’s always seemed kind of shady.

  5. Wren33 says:

    Definitely transphobia is what gives the story its extra salacious spin, but I also think there is an element of “maybe this was a fake relationship for him all along” if he is meeting for gay hook-ups and sleeping with trans models. In reality he could be a plain old bisexual cheater, but the fact that he is younger and she is a woman makes everyone doubt the relationship to begin with.

  6. kcarp says:

    I have been reading the story on The Dirty. There is no transphobia going on. Just because a report is out there he is picking up a transgendered person does not mean a phobia is going on.

    If someone is outed does not mean the report, the website, or the outer is practicing homophobia.

    • LeahMommy says:

      I read the story last night and I didn’t see transphobia either. The fact that he was cheating with men or trans women does IS an important part of the story. Reporting it is not transphobia in my opinion. It’s like wow not only is he cheating but the whole relationship may have a complete lie on his part. It means that Jlo has been used by a little turd that is not even worthy of cleaning her shoes. Jlo knows something is up anyways, she’s been with this guy for a while now and hasn’t marry him. I’m guessing she is terrified of being alone and that’s why she keeps him around.

    • Jericho says:

      Agreed! “Transsexual” was used as an adjective in the quoted story, just like the “bikini” modifier for Sofie Vissa. It’s an important part of the story and I read nothing transphobic, implied or otherwise, in this article. A mere mention of it does not mean an automatic negative bias.

  7. Rhea says:

    It would be embarrassing for her if it’s true—as this would makes her looking like a foolish sugar mama.

  8. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    I don’t like Jennifer Lopez, but that slimy little moocher cheating on her galls me. I hope she kicks him to the curb. In a hefty bag. With steel toed boots.

    • Hiddles forever says:

      Hahahaha post of the day! I agree with every single word you said!

    • Lionbdadddy says:

      I really don’t like Jennifer Lopez either and think Casper is another temp skimmer on her atm, a real slime ball. At some point Jennifer needs to look at herself too. If you keep dating losers and refuse to see what is so obvious then it’s a reflection of your character. I think Casper is an opportunist, but I also think Jennifer was an opportunist in her early days. If the rumors are true that Casper continually cheats then Jenn should dump him, instead of keep buying him fancy new toys.

  9. Dhavynia says:

    I wish she can pose with her mouth closed

  10. LeahMommy says:

    How desperate does someone like J-Lo has to be to start and then continue a relationship with someone that looks/acts like Casper. He’s just disgusting. Her love addiction must be ridiculously strong. Hopefully he’s been using a condom because often times cheating douches like Casper don’t respect the health of their significant other. J-Lo is so sad.

    • melissa says:

      Exactly! If she’s going to have a fake relationship in order to keep her image ‘young’ or whatever, than I would think she could find someone who will play by the rules. I’m sure there are plenty of attractive men out there who would be willing to forego their personal lives in exchange for a few years with a sugar mama.

      • kri says:

        My problem with this is, if JLO wants a young guy to play with, why would she pick him?! Theare are so many hot, younger guys who would love to be with her. He looks like a terrible mashup of Jon Cryer, Uncle Fester, and a Filene’s basement shoe salesman that fell into a vat of Greasy Pimp batter.Get rid of him and bang some soccer players, Jennifer!

  11. eliza says:

    The guy is a freaky looking opportunist who is a filthy cheater on top of it.

    While no fan of JLo’s, FFS she could do waaaaay better than the creepy dudes she has been with. At least the others had success equal to hers and were not in it for the attention or money like this shrimpy creep is.

    Run girl. Stay single for a bit. Enjoy your life!

  12. Nev says:

    C’mon JLO!!!!!! Smarten up!!!

  13. Helvetica says:

    She has the oddest taste in men. I don’t understand how she could go from Marc Anthony (a bonafide star) to this dude.

  14. Ag says:

    why is she “making plans” on how to dump him? it’s pretty simple. can be even done via text or email. :)

  15. Sighs says:

    I always thought this was a completely fake relationship. She gets a boy toy on the arm, he gets $, open relationship. I just think he’s been lazy/sloppy and starting to get caught. Stupid move. Or maybe he’s just done with the charade.

  16. serena says:

    So Jennifer is punishing him by not letting him follow her and such, like ‘You’re grounded!! No soccer, tv or porn for you!” .. wow, it’s like he’s another of her babies.. LOL. That’s just BEYOND embarassing, she should have dumped him when it started getting embarassing hanging out with him… right from the start. Now it’s ridiculous. Maybe she doesn’t get that.

    Get another toy boy Jen. Or better, a man your age.

  17. samanthalous says:

    44 years old making 16 year old mistakes.

  18. paola says:

    If he cheats on JLo that gave him fame and money he deserve everything it’ll come in his direction. Casper-Not-So-Smart is not only a gold digger but also a very ungrateful son of a bitch. I mean… can he really do better than JLo? I don’t think so. He is a sleazy douchebag and I feel sorry for her if it’s true she’s been cheated on .The gender doesn’t matter.

  19. I Choose Me says:

    I don’t know if those stories are true or not but she could do better. Dude always gave me a sleazy vibe. Which is further cemented by lounge lizard look he’s sporting in these pics.

  20. Janet says:

    Of course she has to “make plans to break up” she’s going to have to pay Casper to go away quietly. Otherwise, he will sell his story of what it was like to date Jennifer. He’s going to make a nice chunk of change because Jenn couldn’t be alone and wanted the world to think she had a hot, young boyfriend! They both kind of deserve each other.

  21. Jaded says:

    She strikes me as the type of person who has to have constant and unrelenting ego-massaging. Most men would tire of that after a certain amount of time and she’s learned that through 3 unsuccessful marriages and a number of other relationships. So she finds Caspar, puts him on the payroll as her boy-toy/worshipful puppy/built-in baby-sitter and general fart-catcher and thinks she has the answer to her relationship problems. Only it doesn’t work that way and sooner or later the underling is always going to rebel, albeit in an underhanded and sneaky way, but it will happen and probably is with them right now.

  22. aenflex says:

    He reeks of douche. I have no earthly idea why she’s with him, apart from the fact that he looks weasely and moustachey like her ex husband.

  23. Maria says:

    A man of 50, distinguished, mature, with greying temples, would look great with her in my mind, and maybe help take her to her next level of maturity. A far younger man with a woman, to me, only makes them look older, same goes for men, a man with a far younger woman, ages them, we think grandma grandpa…But a partner within ten yrs say or thereabouts makes one look more balanced. Not saying true love cannot occur with a vast age difference… just saying it doent help one look young by going with a far younger partner female or male.

    • FingerBinger says:

      I don’t think there is anything wrong with Jennifer dating younger men. She just needs to stop dating backup dancers/employees. Casper is/was all wrong for her. She was his boss and clearly she was supporting him too. She should get a man that doesn’t need an allowance.

      • Francis says:

        I feel that JLO looks silly with those 20yr young dudes, they lower her. She seems flighty in romance. It’s hard to understand how such a smart business lady can be so darn bad in the relationship or romance department and she’s bad.

    • Francis says:

      I think she looks silly with those young guys, like Madonna. I like both ladies but the boy toy thing for JLO looks sad. She’s gorgeous,successful, wealthy, smart, those young men she chooses have zilch. I like. JLO this is just sad to see.

  24. Hissyfit says:

    Can’t say I didn’t see this coming. As much as I want to feel sorry for JLo, I can’t. She jumps from one relationship to another without thinking or reflecting or give herself a break. It’s like she has this need to be in a relationship all the time.

    And for Casper, he only has one job and he failed. He would’ve been set for life. Lol.

  25. littlestar says:

    Whether this relationship is fake or not, if Lopez was using it to make her seem desirable to younger men as she ages, that’s just ridiculous. I think she would have looked a hell of a lot better if she had stayed single, casually dated, and/or found someone who is on the same level as her. Dating Casper the Ghost just made her pathetic looking, imo. Something I think we can all agree on here.

  26. Chicagogurl says:

    Pull a Richard Gere ala Pretty Woman…..put the money on the end of the bed, tell him check-out is noon and he can keep the things you bought him. There will be a car downstairs ready to take you wherever you want to go. Cold but it is what it is.

  27. nicegirl says:

    GIRL, give Paul Simon a listen. There are 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover. Re: This dude? I’d choose, “make a new plan, stan. no need to be coy, roy, JUST GET YOURSELF FREE”

  28. The Original G says:

    Isn’t it time for her marry some Silicon Valley billionaire and settle into a Las Vegas residency?

    • Francis says:

      What would happen if JLO went for an A List Moviestar? …or AList producer or director.
      …….but I agree, she’s about ready for a Vegas residency, if she doesn’t get back into films and have a box office hit. Maybe she should befriend Tarantino, he seems to breathe life into actors careers with his films.

  29. Naomi says:

    Jennifer Lopez got what she paid for. No reason to feel sorry for her.

  30. decorative item says:

    I just don’t understand this woman. She has opportunities to mix and mingle with some of the most interesting and well accomplished men out there, but who does she end up with? A back up dancer, that’s who.

  31. Francis says:

    I love JLO as a star and businesswoman, but she has crappy taste in men. Maybe she likes the backup dancers because she figures they are someone she feels she can control. (, but it never works for her. )
    I guess some of those Blind Items were right!

  32. Kate2 says:

    I like her hair in these.

    That’s all I got.

  33. Jayna says:

    Is she this desperate? Smart in busiiness, dumb with men and see only what they want to see.

  34. Rubber Ducky says:

    I see his hairline’s steadily receding.

  35. Ami says:

    Why does everyone believe that Casper sent those messages??? I don’t get it??? Surely he’s smarter than that??? I hope JLo is not trying to throw him under a bus so she can sing I love you papi and grind on the ground yonce style!

  36. Kimberly says:

    I think there is something seriously wrong with Jlo and it reflects in most of the men she chooses.

    As someone previously mentioned, she cannot be single for long.
    She and Scarlett Johanssen are in the same boat is u ask me.

    They are both beautiful women but they have SERIOUS issues (must be low self esteem or something.)

  37. Kat says:

    She always goes for these weedy, creepy looking d-bags. I don’t get it at all.

  38. Ellie66 says:

    Just saw her on GMA she looks good.