John Mayer on how he and Aniston supported each other at the Oscars

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John Mayer felt the need to call Ryan Seacrest up this morning to chat about his time at the Oscars with girlfriend Jennifer Aniston. Mayer said he was just there to support Jen, though he said it in the most roundabout, confusing, Mayer-esq way possible.

John Mayer admits he was “very, very nervous” to attend the Academy Awards with girlfriend Jennifer Aniston on Sunday. “It’s not my world, the Oscar thing,” he said on Ryan Seacrest’s KIIS-FM radio show Wednesday while promoting his cruise line, the Mayercraft Carrier 2. “You can go from a Grammy winner to a water boy when you walk in the Kodak Theatre on Oscar night,” he added. “That’s just like a whole different level.”

He said he went as “moral support” for Aniston, who presented an award in front of ex Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Although he went there to support Aniston, Mayer said his role soon turned into: “‘Will you please introduce me to so-and-so?'” Added the singer, “It was really, really fun.”

“So the idea of walking down a red carpet is such … you know that forever, I basically stepped into the picture frame of Hollywood,” Mayer continued. “For one night, I put on the most amazing suit and entered into the picture frame.”

“You have to really be with someone that you know who has your back in that situation, and she did, and it was really great,” said Mayer. Asked why he and Aniston decided to make the Oscars their first major public event together, he said, “At some point, you feel comfortable and say this is the choice I want to make.”

“I think a year is a pretty good period of time with which to say, ‘Let’s go have a really good time at the Oscars!'”

[From Us Magazine]

Yes I think the year point is when most couples traditionally go to the Oscars together. I know I have in all of my relationships. John and Jennifer were plagued by breakup rumors in January, but obviously they weren’t true. As John pointed out, they’ve been together for the better part of a year, and that’s a long time for him. He’s not my favorite person in the world and I didn’t think it would last, but if they’re both happy then I’m glad for them.

They both told Gayle King that they’re very happy, and they certainly seem to be. John talked about walking the red carpet together, and it sounded like he was going to say something about it being serious, but Gayle cut him off and finished his thought for him, noting “it’s a big deal.” But it seemed like that’s where he was going with it. Both Jen and John looked great together on the red carpet, and it’s nice to see that they’re starting to feel more comfortable taking their relationship public.

Here’s Jen and John walking the red carpet at the Oscars and at Vanity Fair’s party afterwards on Sunday night. Images thanks to WENN.com.

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  1. Ash says:

    I thought what he said made perfect sense, even if it’s a lie. Kidding…

  2. Zoe says:

    They both look really nice dolled up like that.
    It’s good to hear it’s a mind-blowing experience, even for someone who’s used to that kind of event!

  3. Hate Mayer! says:

    He NEVER stops talking about himself. Douchifer is a couple made in famewhore heaven.

  4. Wonder Woman says:

    Support each other?
    Yea she NEEDED a date, he was available
    He needed publicity

    Sounds like they did support each other

  5. ava says:

    HE promised to be out of the news for 3 months after the Oscar.

    He was lying.

  6. Trillion says:

    Wow. What a fabulous meta-awareness he has.

  7. kap says:

    I’m confused. Why, 3 days later, are we talking about JA instead of the Oscar winners? If I were Kate or Sean or Penelope I’d be pissed. Why did she have to present this year when her EX and his mate were nominated? She can’t let them have any good publicity without grabbing the spotlight (was that part of the divorce settlement?) JM certainly put on a better show then in the past (with the slight exception of photographing and flirting with girls his age at the VF party) but if anyone believes this is real I have to tell you something, the tooth fairy doesn’t exist, neither does the Easter Bunny or Santa Claus. Sorry!

  8. Sauronsarmy says:

    kap: Exactly. I was watching some “recaps” of the Oscars from those stupid entertainment shows and all they could talk about was this. It was so annoying. Not everybody is interested in what happened 4 YEARS AGO.

  9. I hate the triangle! says:

    Kap, my sentiments exactly. On eonline and the awards shows, they are talking about Jen and John. Why so much attention for these two? Even more than Brangelina who were nominated. They talked a bit about “the showdown,” between the two couples. But since, nothing really happened, it was dropped. If Jen’s mission was to one-up Brangelina on the night they were nominated, then mission accomplished.
    She out-cougared Brad Pitt.

  10. ohno says:

    will this brangeliniston crap never stop? BTW, john mayer sounds like the douchebag he is. jennifer is an idiot for dating him.

  11. picopink says:

    Don’t care for her hair, looks like hippie hair from the seventies with that braid on the crown and is too informal for the gown. It seems to me they use each other for publicity, and it’s working! Why are they even in the news- they are either off again or on again, depending on when they need some publicity. Who cares anymore- not me.

  12. someone says:

    Im a big Jennifer fan, and altho I like some of Johns music, I can’t stand to watch him sing…I think they look great together, and if they are happy with each other..good for them..they are both adults…

  13. Alexa says:

    I like ’em BOTH, and am not too proud to admit that I am VERY INTERESTED in how Jennifer Aniston is doing. She’s a beautiful woman who has endured such major humiliation in a fishbowl! My hat’s off to her, and I’ll never stop wanting to see her succeed!

  14. Tess says:

    he makes her look old.

  15. Karen says:

    I don’t get it. Why did she show up to the Oscars at all? Because she was invited by the Academy who wanted some tabloid drama for ratings? Like they couldn’t find ANOTHER actress in Hollywood to present an animation award? Obviously, Jen loves the drama too. After her big “Angelina is uncool” success, she’s up for more. She wants to one-up Brangelina on the night they BOTH were nominated. Real trashy move, Jen. You should be so proud of yourself.

  16. NotBlonde says:

    Wow Karen and Ap, feel better?

    If you were asked to present at the Oscars, you would do it too. And if she didn’t, you’d be the first in line to say that she was still obsessed with Brad and couldn’t get over it and that’s why she wasn’t presenting.

    I don’t really care for John Mayer’s public persona but if they are happy, let them be happy, jeez. Why on earth are you so hateful of someone you’ve never met?

  17. Wonder Woman says:

    NotBlonde:

    I dont think its really a big deal, this site is called celebitchy and most people will vent their issues on celebrities bc , well they can.

    Honestly I never liked Jen, even when she was in friends. I felt the same way that she had no business at the oscars, but then again so many other poeple. Its just people venting out stupid stuff though.

  18. hmm says:

    Not Blonde, do you think that this is the first year that Aniston was asked to present an Oscar? Out of respect for the other nominees (not Brangelina) she could have deferred because she knew this would happen as did everyone. And I’m sure that there are some in Hollywood who are not too happy that she used this occasion to reinvent herself. She got exactly what she wanted which was attention for her and peeboy and to try to upstage you know who. If we are willing to talk about Brangelina playing the press then Aniston and douchebag deserve no less.

  19. hmm says:

    as did everyone else. Please bring back edit.

  20. NotBlonde says:

    *Kap, stupid edit missing edit button

  21. NotBlonde says:

    Everyone plays with the press, yea.

    And yes, I suspect this might be the first time she’s been asked to present. She hasn’t really had any successful films that she’s starred in over the years and she had Marley and Me in December so…yea. You have a successful movie, you get asked to present.

    And it is not her fault if the tabs are weirdly obsessed with her and Brangelina. She should be able to live her life however she likes without having to “defer” to other people just because the tabloids are going to talk about her the next day.

  22. Karen says:

    Notblonde: I guess you know me so well.

    NO, I would not present at the Oscars if my ex was nominated with his new girlfriend. Unless, I was nominated myself for something. It just seems tacky to upstage the Oscars with all that tabloid drama, feeding the tabloid machine.

    She got EXACTLY what she wanted, tho. Guess who is on the cover of almost every tabloid magazine this week?
    Not the Oscar winners–it’s Jen vs. Angie. How sad.

    I don’t believe in the innocent little Jen fantasy her silly fangirls subscribe to. It’s so sad fans have to cook up silly excuses for some 40 yr. old woman. You make her sound like
    a child who doesn’t know any better.

    And, we have the right to complain about her upstaging the Oscars. I would complain too if Brad and Angelina would’ve showed up, and Jen was nominated for something and they weren’t. Either way, it’s TACKY.
    It shows disrespect to the actors who don’t engage in all that tabloid drama, in my opinion.

  23. Sauronsarmy says:

    Yes. Aniston presented back in 2006.

  24. SixxKitty says:

    What a hero this blabber-mouth is! Imagine having to ‘suport’ a beautiful woman at the oscar’s, how hard that must have been, the torture he must have endured! I guess she had to beg him to do it as she could not have gone with anyone else, who would want to be Jen’s date? Slimeball.
    I loathe him… The sooner she drops his ass the happier I’ll be…

  25. Cali green says:

    Me too Alexa! I like Jen and she has carried herself as a decent and classy LADY through all of the trash thrown at her. And her young boy John cleans up very well! She prolly calls him John-John or John Jr. while he’s hittin’ it! Good for her!!!

  26. NotBlonde says:

    Well then saurosamy it makes more sense that she’d present again as she probably had a nice experience last time.

    And Karen, the Oscar winners wouldn’t be on the covers of any magazines anyway, they never are. It would have been all Oscar fashions and who was wearing who and such which I’m sure they had in their pages as well as usual.

    I’m not “making silly excuses” for a woman who I don’t know. I’m thinking LOGICALLY of what might have been going through her mind. Sure she might have been aware that the tabloids would be all over the story (OOO Jen vs Angelina!) but it’s a great honor in the acting community to be up on the Oscar stage so…sorry Brangelina, Jennifer gets to live her life as she wants and not defer to you and your minions.

  27. Susie says:

    I have to agree with the douchebag comments. Surely Jennifer could find a classier guy. He’s not even that good a guitar player or even attractive. Sure seems that Grammy comment he made was over-the-top self serving. Wake up, Jen!!!!

  28. Whitey Fisk says:

    You know what Trillion? YOU have a fabulous meta-awareness. I had forgotten all about that gem…you are brilliant, and your comment has had me chuckling all day.

  29. sha says:

    Are you joking karen?

    I think it’s awesome that Jen is so powerful in hollywood and they have asked her to present again (by the way, I”m pretty sure she is one of the voters for the Oscars) and doofus, she’s presented before (sigh).

    You loonies are so funny…Jen is not going to circumscribe her life b/c her X is in the room. She obviously has a ton of influential friends and she’s had 2 highly successful movies back to back – she’s not a loner and if she wants to present at the Oscars, that’s awesome!

    And reinvent herself – sorry the person who is an expert at reinventing herself and manipulating the media is AJ – it’s not OK or US who talked shit about AJ, it was NYT and they are right.

    Jen is with a much smarter, more successful man than her X and they look hot and her new man doesn’t sound like he’s reciting his new vocab he just learned…thank god she got rid of that X.

  30. czarina says:

    I wonder if this guy has some pathological need to talk about himself?
    I mean, it’s not enough that he rants about himself on the internet…now he has to call up Ryan Seacrest and share his “Day in the Life of John Mayer” with the unwilling and indifferent public?
    I have no problem with Jen Aniston (I don’t think ANY celebs are nieve about the media…they ALL use it when they can or spin if they need to…), but I find it interesting that she would choose someone like JM to date.

  31. TM says:

    It be really nice if Jen really lives her life the way she wants to and not in anticipation of the media coverage and millage it would get her……. but that is wishful thinking!
    To move foward , I just have this to say to Jen…1) burn all those tapes, video clips, love notes and wedding dolls of your ex husband. 2)Get rid of the Angelina vodoo doll .
    Then you’d be freeeeeee………

  32. PJ says:

    Why is Jennifer not qualified to present at the Oscars? She just had two No. 1 box office hits in the past two months. If Owen Wilson was presenting, would you have a problem with that too?

    I don’t understand why the Brangeloonies think that Jennifer should just disappear from the face of the earth. That’s not going to happen. She’s made it very clear she’s back at work and ready to live her life again.

    There’s a huge interest in the Jen-John story. Going to the Oscars together and cuddling all night was a major statement about the state of their relationship.

    Sounds like they have a very healthy relationship, in that they support each other.

  33. lrm says:

    Um,JA has two movies recently out…after what I believe is a few years off…so if she wants to be in the spotlight again [besides being photographed on vacation or going out to dinner],then she is entitled. geesh. I have no love or hate with any of these people. [though i am thoroughly saturated with the brange,as in sick of…despite that i have always thought angelina was gorgeous and smart,and brad was cute and sometimes a good actor,i am officially saturated with them…and am now on the way to the same status with JA. blek to it all. And i’m not talking this blog…but every freakin’ where!]…Anyway,JA is a fixture in hollywood,and the oscars are not beyond her domain,even if she’s not a major movie star-she has been in some successful films,and like i said,has two recent films…have yo unoticed how the oscar invites go to not just talented actors,but also to ‘popular’ actors? She draws attention,sells magazines,sells movie tix…and that is not something to ‘blame’ her for.
    It’s a business,and she is not in charge of who invites her. I just think some of the posts are illogical here,and bordering on idiotic. No offense,vent if you want,but letting your emotion interfere with reason is pretty silly,IMO. Again,I’ll enjoy any o fthem in a film,or not,depending on the film. so i have no preference-and still,i find these posts overly illusory at times.

  34. Best of British says:

    OMG I love her clutch bag, how gorgeous is that.. Love clutches. Anyone know what brand it is?

    Re her presenting, I think she made a really clever move there. She really has been portrayed as ‘a pity party’ in the media and I think by standing up in front of (literally) millions and millions of people around the world on live tv to present an award on stage with her ex and his new bird sitting right in front of her, with all that happened between them, then I think that takes mega balls. Personally I just wouldnt have the guts. Quite honestly it shouldnt matter that Brad and Angelina are up for awards regarding Jen’s decision to present, if they are not in the wrong about what they did then why should they feel embarrassed or uncomfortable? If she takes the limelight then that’s because she deserves it! But for Jen’s part, she’s proving to the world that she has guts, determination and that she doesnt need our pity. She’s getting on with her life, she was there with a guy she’s been dating a year and she’s got 2 successful movies under her belt. I say good for you Jen, I take my hat off to you and even tho I used to like you, I respect you even more now.. There are not many chicks in this world who would have had the steel and determination to get through that scenario. Other than, say, Angelina..

  35. Karen says:

    NotBlonde: Oh my gosh, where to begin,

    You are “thinking LOGICALLY” about what’s going through Jen’s mind? News flash: you don’t know her. She’s an actress who gets paid to pretend. Do you really buy her IMAGE?

    Fans like you are honestly frightening. You fall in love with your favorite star and give her qualities she may or not possess, based on interviews and stories that may not even be real.
    What is going on in your life that you need to identify with an actress who
    you don’t really know?

    “Me and my minions?” Another hysterical statement. Yes, I crack the whip and all the people on the internet come running to personally attack Aniston fans. I’m that powerful. Sorry, to give you Aniston fans such a horrible time by critiquing the girl you adore, but this site is called “celebitchy” not “LOVEJenniferAnistony”

    I’m not a fan of any of these people. I do like some of the actors that won this year, but I am under no delusion that I personally know them. They may be completely awful people, as far as I know.

    I dislike all the Brangelina vs. Jen tabloids and silly fans ruining the Oscars to be quite honest. They get the entire year to play their famewhore games and they have to show up and cause drama where they clearly don’t belong. It’s all about ME, ME, ME.

    Jennifer was a supporting actress to a dog, and was in another terible romantic comedy. She (along with Jessica Biel and a few others) should have stayed home. If she was really that great or “powerful” she could open a movie by herself. She has NEVER been able to do that.

    I have every right to speak my opinion, just as you do yours. Honestly, I can’t believe I’m wasting this much time on Jennifer Aniston of all people. How pathetic. See ‘ya

  36. Ugh! says:

    Jennifer sticks her giant schnozze into everything. She would die w/out the spotlight. That’s why she only dates famous guys. It’s all about fame.

  37. someone says:

    I think Jen had every right to be on that stage..and as someone already said…you haters would have put her down anyway had she not presented..with your “shes still in love with brad” or “she knew Angelina would outshine her”. I think she looked beautiful. And all the drama is in the Brangaloonie and Haters minds..get over it already, she has.

  38. santacruz says:

    without the dog, JA is just Rachael

  39. sad says:

    He NEVER stops talking about himself. Douchifer is a couple made in famewhore heaven. She’s a moron for dating this tool.

  40. Faye says:

    I am completely confused at some of the above posts, especially Karen, who is really out there, NonBlonde, you are right!!…Really? umm what exactly has JA done to deserve some of the the negative, hateful comments.. It seems as though since the the seperation of Brad and Jen, (which in hard core reality was AJ’s doing) media, fans have taken sides to the point of hate for the opposite.

    Ok, let me get this straigh…Jen and Brad were married, Brad went off to play a movie met Angelina, then got a divorce, then proceeded to fall in love with someone else, JA left by the man she loved, tried to accept it.

    4 yrs later they now STATE they fell in love on the show, after denying it for so long? C’mon.. it’s not the first time Angie did that to someone…It has happened to alot of famous people, but it still does not make it acceptable.

    Godd luck to the Jolie-Pitt “family” although I guess I am one to side with “team Aniston” if I had to choose. Brad and Angie seem truly fake re: some issues, and continue to make drama for themselves..I kinda feel sorry for Brad but he asked for it and got it, hope they are honestly happy. Angelina is a plain crappy actress, disliked her in Changeling, thought someone different would have done a stellar performance maybe worthy of an Oscar….

    Jen has presented at the Oscars before and she will again…good for her for holding her head high and trying to move on..as for AJ and Brad hate to say it..but what goes around comes around 1 way or another:)

  41. RAN says:

    I think NotBlonde and someone else used the correct term – actually it’s the term I’ve been looking for to describe the nonsense hurled at this woman. Illogical… purely illogical. She’s entitled to present at any awards show she wants to and, quite frankly, it took more guts than most of you have. Best of British and lrm probably said it best. People went to that movie to see JA and Owen Wilson – not the dog – get over your ridiculous selves.

    Karen, go back and read some of your previous blogs. Your noted obsession with Angelina hasn’t been overlooked. I’m not “attacking” you, just pointing out how illogical your comments are regarding JA fans.

  42. Ophelia says:

    “Yes I think the year point is when most couples traditionally go to the Oscars together. ”
    That cracks me up. I almost choked on water laughing!

    @Trillion
    “Wow. What a fabulous meta-awareness he has.”
    I had just finished choking over laughing at JayBird’s quote when I scrolled down and saw yours! I had just taken another sip of water to clear my throat and almost choked again.
    Either water is secretly very dangerous or I have a throat problem. Probably the latter, lol.
    And Karen… It didn’t seem to me at all that NonBlonde or RAN were being offensive to you. You sounded very antagonistic if anything. Chill out!

  43. sha says:

    Here’s the link to JA and Daniel Craig being invited to vote in the 2008 oscars and Jenn’s presented before in a beautiful black gown.

    http://showbizandstyle.inquirer.net/breakingnews/breakingnews/view_article.php?article_id=72061

    The reason why JA and Daniel Craig were asked to invite was as the Academy said:

    “These individuals are all exceptionally accomplished in their respective fields,” said Academy President Sid Ganis. “We’re looking forward to having them join the Academy’s ranks.”

    Goodness I see Angie’s pr machine is on the loose trying to rewrite who needs to be at the OScars. People seem to forget before JA ever hooked up with her X, she already had People covers and was extremely successful. AJ on the other hand, although even after winning an Oscar and golden globe, never was on the covers of People until she hooked up with BP and that whole triangle started. She was primarily known as a druggie with a fetish for her brother, and having sex with Thornton before a ceremony, as Thornton loudly proclaimed to everyone.

    Jeez, you loonies are really loonies – AJ should pay you guys overtime for trying to make her sound glorious.

  44. lynlyn says:

    it was a really “cheap” thing what the “Oscars” people did, it was not really necessary the close up to Angelina while Jennifer was presenting the nomination… it just made both actresses uncomfortable…

    How do actors expect to have tabloids out of their private life if their owm “academy” do things like this

    I really dislike it

  45. daisy424 says:

    She just had a great film that came out in December, I truly enjoyed it. It did quite well from what I have read, she should have been asked to present. But it was her decision to accept, I have to hand it to her, it couldn’t have been easy.
    I didn’t want to be in the same state with my ex-husband, let alone the same room. I would be fighting the urge to stick a fork in his neck.

    About the braid in her hair; I thought it was a welcome change from the flat ironed look she usually sports. I have never seen her in an up-do, does anyone have a link to a picture?

  46. RUFFNSWEET says:

    Someone please tell John Mayer to shut his friggin trap already.