Michael Fassbender really is ‘casually dating’ Alicia Vikander after all

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We haven’t had the photos of Michael Fassbender this week in Australia, which has depressed me to no end! Go here to see some of the pics. I linked to them earlier this week too. Fassy has been seen out and about with his costar Alicia Vikander several times. They went surfing with a larger group and then Michael and Alicia were spotted eating lunch together, just the two of them. And now E! News says they are actually dating!

Is Michael Fassbender off the market? The 37-year-old German-born Irish X-Men and Inglorious Basterds hottie has been seeing 26-year-old Swedish actress Alicia Vikander, his co-star and onscreen wife in the new movie The Light Between Oceans, E! News has learned. Reps for both stars had no immediate comment.

“Michael and Alicia are casually dating, spending a lot of time together,” a source told E! News.

On Sunday, the two were photographed together at Bondi Beach in Sydney, Australia. He went surfing and was seen having a meal on the shore with Vikander. The two had filmed parts of The Light Between Oceans in the country.

The movie set for release in 2015 and is based on a 2013 psychological thriller novel by M. L. Stedman. Fassbender plays Tom Sherbourne, a lighthouse keeper who lives on an island in Australia with his wife Isabel, played by Vikander. The two, who have been trying to have a child for years, one day discover a boat that has washed up onshore. On board are a dead man and a living baby, who they raise as their own and name Lucy.

The movie was also filmed in nearby New Zealand. In October, Fassbender and other members of the cast and crew celebrated Vikander’s 26th birthday at a hotel in the Marlborough region, local outlet Stuff.co.nz reported. Also that month, the actor and actress were photographed together at a local spa and massage parlor, as seen on the shop’s Facebook page.

[From E! News]

Alicia is a very pretty young woman and I could see why any dude would fall for her. I’m kind of hot for her just because of her amazing skin. Plus, we know the story of this film – Alicia and Fassy play husband and wife The Light Between Oceans. That was one of our CB Book Club selections and I hated the book with a fiery passion (Bedhead hated it too, but CB thought it was okay). I thought Rachel Weisz was playing the wife, but Rachel is playing the biological mother of the foundling baby. Just FYI. I could see how an on-set romance could build between Fassy and Alicia within the story. Most of their scenes are with each other, isolated on that friggin’ lighthouse.

So… Fassy’s got a girlfriend. For now. From what I know about his romantic life, he doesn’t do a lot of longterm relationships. Nicole Beharie lasted for about a year (they started dating when they were promoting Shame) and Zoe Kravitz lasted less than a year… although I think they’re still friends with benefits. Will Alicia last longer than a few months? Who knows.

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  1. jinni says:

    He looks like a hard 55 and balding in the top picture. I guess he’s one of those actors that can’t separate the character/role from real life and falls for his female co-stars.

  2. Alicia is SO pretty, but she has the face of a twelve year old to me–she’s so baby faced.

    • tracking says:

      I know. I’m a little skeeved out by this, mainly because she looks so young. They look more like father and daughter than lovers. She’s gorgeous. He’s sexy, but a bit rough looking (easily looks 40s rather than 30s).

      • Beth says:

        I often hear women complain about when a man dates baby-faced woman, even when said woman is a capable grown up — 26 is young, but not a kid. As someone who is baby-faced myself, but in my late 20’s, it is insulting. Are baby-faced women not suppose to date anyone and step aside so more “womanly” looking ladies get the dates and no one has to feel skeeved by it?

      • Andrea says:

        I think the issue is women are judged so harshly for their looks/age these days that some women feel threatened by baby faced women because they will by default be chosen over women who age poorly. I have a friend who is 50-60 lbs overweight and in her early 40’s and she complains no men look at her or offer to help her with anything anymore, she is viewed as a leper. Men in general look for youth and beauty in a partner (harsh observation but it is true). I am sad my friend never discloses her age due to these reasons (I don’t even know it). I proudly say I am 33, but I have noticed some people have started to say I am “old” now and I cannot say a 22 or 25 year old guy is cute now. I blame the society we live in and advertising over anything else!

      • Isadora says:

        @Andrea: I agree with the threatened thing. However we as women should be the first to stop judging other women for their looks – be it because they look younger or older. I’ve heard both so often and it’s not exactly helping.

  3. Beckysuz says:

    Wowza, gorgeous skin. Such delicate beauty, don’t blame him one bit

  4. Rachel says:

    She’s really pretty and she has so many movies coming out next year.
    I think she could be a big star.

    • Ally8 says:

      She’s a wonderful actress. Though the leads were very good in Anna Karenina, I loved her parallel “alternate type of love story” with Domhnall Gleeson. They very moving, heartbreaking and never seemed affected or corny, which is difficult to do playing characters who are that earnest.

      They really wasted her talents in The Fifth Estate (BC connection!). The character might as well have been called The Girl.

  5. Mia4S says:

    Good god they are beautiful together.
    ….yeah I’ve got nothing else. If they are dating I hope they can keep it together until after the movie’s released. Otherwise…awkward. 😉

  6. FingerBinger says:

    She looks like 90’s Fiona Apple in the first picture and he looks rough.

  7. Tig says:

    That is one awful book! The first half is OK, but the rest drags it into awful category. And Rachel W is the baby’s mom??? That is some puzzling casting.

  8. Abigail says:

    They seem a great deal alike–both workaholics! (Judging by the pile-up of post-production and upcoming movies on their IMDB pages.)

  9. lindy79 says:

    Lucky bitch!!!

    Thats all I’ve got

  10. Andrea says:

    Gutted. At least it won’t last long (hopefully). He doesn’t seem to do commitment well. He DOES look rough in first picture. Let’s hope he is just tired. She is gorgeous.

    And btw, I actually LOVED the book (I guess I am the only one). I cannot wait to see the movie!

    • mia says:

      He’s tired. However he has always looked older than his age,he said that himself. I’ve LOVED Cianfrance’s Blue Valentine,I have great hopes for this movie.

  11. Jenny says:

    Yikes, run girl. You deserve better than him.

  12. mia girl says:

    I like him as an actor, but sigh… Fassbender “dating his young co-star in his latest movie” has become pretty predictable at this point. Right?

    Also, AV looks more like his daughter in the top pic than his girlfriend.

    PS She is so pretty.

    • Andrea says:

      She DOES look like his daughter in the top picture ( I actually intially did not know that was her). That is creep factor 10!

    • mia says:

      Alicia looks younger than her age,above all without make up,he looks older than his age,and in that pic he seems tired too. Actually I don’t see many opportunities for him to know people,since he’s working nonstop,I don’t blame him for this. However we should exclude Keira,Carey Mulligan,Charlize (who actually showed some interest 🙂 ),Lupita,Marion.. the list is long!

    • Etheldreda says:

      Indeed. Yet another case of how a more than 10 year age difference goes unremarked upon – so long as the man is the older partner. And she LOOKS so much younger – he’s a hard looking 38, and she could easily pass for a teenager. Ugh.

      And yes, Alicia is certainly pretty, in that delicate, China doll like way, a bit like Natalie Portman or Kiara Knightley. But like them, she’s not very interesting to look at imho. I could imagine finding her face rather boring quite quickly.

    • ichsi says:

      Same here. I knew from when I saw the above pic first, and all I could think was ‘urgh’. He’s an amazing actor and really hot too (if rough-looking) but he does have a type, doesn’t he?
      The pretty, ten-years-younger co-star.

      I shouldn’t complain, I’m the same age as Alicia and I’ve dated guys Fassbender’s age. I never felt like I was in a weaker position, the guys mentally were the same age as I was, which I think is true about Fassbender too (Immah-tuuuure!) .

      But I can’t shake this sleazy impression he leaves on me whenever he starts dating the young women he as an established, successful actor works on the same set with.

      Anyway. Kaiser is on spot with the “For now”. Filming will end and he will move on to the next doe-eyed, petite lady with a great butt.

  13. Jessie says:

    He dates his female co-stars. He’ll do the same thing again with a different actress.

    • Miss M says:

      I came here to say the same thing! I was not surprised he was dating her at all.

      I wonder what the “he only dates black women” minivan will say now…

      • mia says:

        I’ve never understood the fixation for that. If you look at his dating history,he has dated every type of woman. the only things that they have in common are dark eyes ,hair and a beautiful skin :). However his last relationship with a co-was that with Nicole,three years ago.. Saying that he dates every co-star is a bit exaggerated..

    • Maria says:

      Perhaps dating the crazy that is Naomi Campbell has woken him up to looking for someone not as high maintenance or fierce.

  14. mia says:

    “For now”.. Ahahaah! I was sure there was something going on between these two at least two months ago.. There were all the conditions for a romantic relationship,so I don’t blame him for dating another co-star:) I’ve lost count of all his projects for the next year,and he has to promote A LOT of things.. She’s busy too,but the problem in my opinion remains his crazy schedule. It’s true that his doesn’t do a lot of longterm relationships but I can understand that his personal life is not very compatible with his work at the moment. His longer relationships were all pre-fame.

  15. Anchor says:

    Alicia has the GREATEST pair of legs I’ve seen in a good while. I’d better get off my butt and start moving.

  16. don't kill me i'm french says:

    “For now” ! Dicaprio dates VS models like Fassbender dates his co-stars

  17. Brandii says:

    Its not going to last of course and the fact that his team is already calling a “casual” thing is a big sign. So since we are not talking about some earth shattering love let me just say that I prefer Fassy with women of color. That is all.

    • mia says:

      I’ve noticed the “casual” adjective too. I don’t want to see them papped everywhere,now. Fassbender has always been super private,and I don’t want to sound malicious,but I can see her publicists,agents pushing for some media attention. I hope this will not happen.
      With Zoe,Nicole is my favourite fassy’s ex. I liked how they were private and relaxed.

    • Isadora says:

      I prefer Fassy with a woman he likes, who is hopefully attractive to him and shares his interests. Someone he can laugh and relax with and who keeps him grounded when the fame is a bit much. But really, her skin colour is the LEAST of my concerns. Who cares if her skin is dark or light?

      • Andrea says:

        I think he just likes an array of women in general…Some men have a preference, I don’t really think he has one. Let’s be honest here, him dating women of color at times as ruffled some feathers, but it shouldn’t it is 2014.

      • Kiki says:

        Um Andrea. He does have a preference. He likes women, but he loves black women. And is there something wrong with loving a black women as a white man? Maybe not for African American wome, but he could find a Caribbean woman of Afican descent if he wants to. And I allow that Michael Fassbender has a thing for Black women.

    • AA says:

      Kiki is a troll – don’t feed it.

  18. Cali says:

    They look good together. They both are upcoming and busy actors. Wish them luck!

  19. Hazel says:

    I kinda love that without makeup she still looks pretty but normal pretty. Gives the rest of us a lot of hope.

  20. Florence says:

    Like someone said above, michael fassbender again dates a very young co-star, blah blah blah.

    He is really is to very young co-stars what Leo Di Caprio is to Victoria Secret Models. I suppose young women aren’t as challenging or self assured as their older counterparts so it’s easier to date them for certain types of men

    I’m so bored of these actors and their cliches. At least Rupert Friend turned out to make an interesting choice In his romantic life oh and Eddie redmayne too. Props to them.

    • mia says:

      Zoe was younger than him,but Nicole was absolutely age appropriate for him. Zoe and Nicole are the only co-stars with whom he had a relationship. How many young models Leo has dated? Fassbender has dated older women too. And I wouldn’t assume that Alicia Vikander is not self assured.. if you look at her career she has showed to know her business..

    • Kate says:

      Let’s not pretend he’s mostly dating 18-21 year olds. Bradley Cooper, Leo Dicaprio, Joaquin Phoenix have all started dating women in that age range recently. James Franco tried to get with a 17 year old.

      Most of Fassbender’s hookups have been in their mid-20s at least. Nicole Beharie, Louise Hazel, and Vikander were all about 26 when he started dating them. Yeah, they’re younger, but he’s not robbing any cradles. Those women know what they’re getting into. They shouldn’t be denied their own agency/choices.

    • younger says:

      I’m really getting tired of this younger women are not self-assured nonsense. I am 25, just finished my Ph.D. in Biostatistics (from an ivy league school). I also picked up a Masters in Biostat and a Masters in Statistics en route. So at 25, I have a Ph.D. and two masters in a STEM field. I work at a pharmaceutical and make a 6-figure salary. My boyfriend meanwhile is still in graduate school, trying to finish up his degree. He’s 32 by the way. So despite being younger, I am making 4 times as much as he is and am farther along in terms of my career. I think he finds me plenty “challenging”. I’ve met a lot of very impressive and self-assured older women. On the other hand, I’ve met a lot of very insecure older women. In the same vein, I’ve met several self-assured young women and some very insecure young women. Based on this comment, I am assuming you are “older”. I don’t think being condescending towards people for no other reason than their age is a sign of great wisdom.

      • jammypants says:

        That’s amazing to hear, very impressive.

        I agree with what you said about young women. I’m 28 and people still treat me like a clueless child, but I have a career in the tech industry, live on my own and very comfortably.

      • Anne says:

        good for you.

      • Isadora says:

        Congrats! Sounds impressive!
        I agree that everyone has his or her own pace. And it’s also not always either “self-assured and successful” or “insecure and a clueless child”. Some people are very successful at their jobs but highly insecure in relationships, some people have gone through a lot of personal stuff but still no clue about some areas of their life. We are all different and we are all “mature” in different fields and probably not so much in others.

  21. A. Key says:

    I seriously don’t understand why women think this girl is super beautiful. She’s barely average. You’d think she’s Angelina Jolie the way gossip blogs write her up.
    Anyway, she seems a decent person and good actress, so all I say is run girl, this man is trouble.

  22. Hannah says:

    It’s not the age gap with his girlfriends that freak me out, it’s that they look 13 .

    • mia says:

      I seriously don’t undesrtand this comment. Have you ever seen his ex Leasi Andrews? She was older than him when they dated,and she LOOKS older than him.Maiko Spencer,another ex, was his equal in age,Nicole Beharie was absolutely age appropriate. That model\actress who was seen with him the last year is 26\27 years old and looks older.. Zoe is the only one who actually looks younger than his age. The problem with him is that he looks older than his age. When he was 23,he already looked 33.. Personally I’ve no problem with this.

  23. Andrea says:

    Does anyone notice how so few people post on Fassy’s threads these days and yet Cumberbatch gets them all now? The tide has turned and I like them both for different reasons, but I still like Fassy more..

    • mia says:

      Ahahaah! Well,there’s a serious engagement,you should understand the circumstance.. 🙂 I like Cumberbatch,he’s one of the most interesting actors working right now,but Fassy is always my first choice. Actually they are very different actors,it’s unfair making comparisons.
      Putting aside his (great) talent,what I like about Fassy is his relaxed attitude. He’s still living in his 2-room flat in Hackney,you can see him eating at the park barefoot,he doesn’t give a damn about what he wears,and above all is one of the most gracious actors with fans.

    • Abigail says:

      This is a Cumberbatch site. Little wonder that he gets all the comments. I’ve always preferred Fassbender because he is, in my opinion, a much better actor who is willing to take chances in his roles.
      I think these two look great together, and they seem to match each other in work ethic and ambition.

      • Andrea says:

        It didn’t used to be exclusively a Cumberbatch site. I remember the days when Fassbender got a lot more comments.

      • Camille (The Original) says:

        Fassy is also a more versatile actor – he’s able to be a believable leading man (that both men and women like, not so for Cucumber who it seems only a certain % of women like), also a character/indy film and ensemble actor. Cucumber is best suited to villain type parts.

    • Anne says:

      I’m a Fassy fan and, weirdly, I don’t feel a great interest to read or comment on stories about what he’s up to anymore. This is the first one I’ve clicked into in a while and – to be honest – so what?

    • Isadora says:

      Well… good for him, isn’t it? I think Fassbender’s reputation as an outstanding actor is quite solid, while his private life seems to be not really gossip worthy these days. Isn’t it a perfect combination? Cumberbatch on the other hand has a fanbase that is VERY active on the internet and in social media and people know practically every minute where on the planet he is and with whom and somebody snaps a blurry picture which ends up on twitter. Ugh. But in the end, that’s most of his fanbase and I guess even he himself doesn’t know if he wants to court or avoid them, his PR has been a complete train wreck lately.

      And in my eyes Cumberbatch still needs to proof his acting chops in a way, because he nearly always played a specific type of character and does that very well, but he’s been not very versatile and no leading man.

  24. Peach says:

    I’ve seen pics from today that look more intimate (walking with arms around each other) and I posted a link but my post didn’t go through. Anyway, speculation from the previous pics was it could just be costars hanging out but the latest pics leave little doubt they’re an item now.

    I think they make a cute couple.

  25. Veruca Salt says:

    That awful sound I just heard was the sound of my op heart shattering into a billion pieces.

  26. Camille (The Original) says:

    She’s gorgeous and they would make for one very sexy couple. I hope they are dating/stay together.

  27. Longhorn says:

    I think they make a cute couple. I hope thry stay together too.

  28. Kiki says:

    I hope they are not a couple. I am a black woman and I love michael always. But I will always hoped that he will find a very pretty black woman who will share his interest. I don’ t see them as a couple and I think people and media is making a speculation of things. I mean, come on e and their stupid source and jennifer Lawrence and michale fassbender a couple at some point.

    Anyway, I still hope for Michael Fassbender who loves black women with such intense passion.

    And which part is this girl pretty?

    • Katerina says:

      Yes! This. I just commented below on his subject, that l thought he only dated black ladies. And Alicia is meh

    • Jill says:

      You black women are so thirsty. He dates a few black women (one biracial) and now he only likes that? He just likes women in general, he has no preference. He’s never even said “I prefer black women”. That’s something you so desperately put in your mind. Lol

      • AA says:

        Hey Jill, you moron.
        Kiki is a troll, and an obvious one at that AND I think you are very much aware of that and just trying to sh*t on black women, hey you might even be “kiki”.
        I personally don’t know ANY black women who thinks Michael Fassbender is attractive or even knows who he is.
        It’s funny how you run to threads like these when he is seen with a white girl but otherwise it’s *crickets*, shows how much it matters to racist trolls like you.
        Bye bitch.

  29. Katerina says:

    Huh?? I thought he only dated black girls?

    • Katerina says:

      Or at least Asian/black girls. An Alicia is just average looking in my opinion.

      • andypandy says:

        @Katrina
        I sincerely hope you are a troll cuz as a BW I find your comments all up and down this thread to be quite needy and pathetic
        Fassbender if you look at his history is just an equal opportunity womanizer , I think he is an brilliant actor but the only thing I can think when I see him sexually is chlamydia
        If your self esteem is seemingly caught up in some random dude who you will likely never meet or date who dates everyone under the rainbow including BW you need help

    • AA says:

      Stop trolling

      • Katerina says:

        How is that trolling? It’s true that has been the kind of women he’s dates in the past. Just starting my opinion.

  30. LAK says:

    So he likes them young?! Hadn’t made that connection until you mentioned the other ladies. Granted they aren’t teens or early 20s, but given his own age……..

    • Anne says:

      maybe younger girls (twenties) are just more accepting of his current approach to relationships.

      • Isadora says:

        Totally agree, Anne. Most women in their 30s want to settle down and are thinking about starting a family. He might not be ready for that given that he’s been very busy working the last years and continues to do so. Nothing wrong with either concept but it might be easier for him to have casual relationships with girls in their 20s.

  31. Shameless says:

    My thing is not that the ladies are in their twenties (although it is slightly depressing for those of us that are of an age with Fassbender), but that they all look pretty teenage, no? I suspect he’s more about the sweetshop than the feisty these days. Or he’s really, really lazy.

    • Kiki says:

      I think, he hasn’t found the right woman to be with. Like I said, I don’t like them as a couple because she looks very young and he looks like her dad. I know it’s a ten age difference but I don’t see this forming into a relationship. I will give this two years or less.

    • mia says:

      They ALL? Alicia and Zoe Kravitz are the only ones with a more yong look,and Alicia is 26 years old and he’s 37 years old.. It’s not like he’s seeing a teenager.. I can assure that his other exes are all perfectly age appropriate and someone looks even older than her age.

    • Isadora says:

      Imho he has a penchant for women with flawless skin (I’m always so jealous lol) and that certainly makes one look younger.

      And in the end… maybe he just gets along well with them and likes them, what should he say? “Yeah, I think you are totally pretty and have a great personality, but that’s not gonna happen cause I can’t be seen with you as you look young.” ? Alicia Vikander is 26 years old and probably acts like 26, so I don’t think there’s anything creepy about it.

      And it might be slightly depressing to quite a few that he’s not with a woman in her late 30s, but hey… it’s not like we ever had a chance of dating Fassbender, no matter if we are 26 or 37. 😉

  32. lea says:

    she looks like holly hunter

  33. Lotta says:

    So the rule is that if you are young looking person you have to date someone who also look young for their age? So Alicia can only date men ten years younger then her and not ten years older, because she just happened to be born with a babyface?

    Doesn’t seem fair to me.