Ryan Reynolds: ‘I never admitted it out loud… but I really wanted a little girl’

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When I saw that People Magazine had given Ryan Reynolds the title of “Sexiest Dad Alive,” I developed a case of Hyperactive Eye-roll Syndrome. Of course People Mag would give him this nonsense title and of course they would do it in conjunction with the release of Deadpool, which comes out on Friday. But… then I read the quotes. And they’re sweet. Like, legitimately, no-bulls—t sweet. Ryan is so happy to be a husband and father. He adores his wife and daughter to a fantastic, aw-inducing degree.

Growing up, Ryan Reynolds was always surrounded by boys. The youngest of four boys and the son of a cop, Reynolds was “less a sibling and more of a moving target,” he tells PEOPLE in this week’s cover story. So when his wife, Blake Lively, gave birth to their daughter James, whom Reynolds adoringly calls “Shrimpie,” in December 2014, he was overjoyed.

“Having a daughter was a dream come true for me,” he says. “I would have made a terrible king.”

Reynolds, 39, says he has no problem “being surrounded by estrogen” as the only man in the house. In fact, it’s what the Deadpool star says he secretly hoped for when he first found out Lively, 28, was pregnant.

“I never admitted it out loud, to myself or my wife, but I really wanted a little girl,” he says. “It’s the best.”

And Reynolds, PEOPLE’s former Sexiest Man Alive, says he’s been transformed into a completely doting dad.

“I don’t have to prepare to be wrapped around my daughter’s finger,” he says. “I have been wrapped around her little finger since the day she plopped out into this world.”

[From People]

That’s quite common though, isn’t it? I think many men really do “secretly” want a daughter when they learn that their partners are pregnant. And Ryan sounds so sweet here. Is it all for Deadpool promotion? Sure. But I also buy that he’s totally the happiest he’s ever been.

Meanwhile, there are a million other quotes and news items about Deadpool. Apparently, Ryan flashes his bits and pieces during one fight sequence, and he told E! News that he was fine with doing nudity: “There should be more male nudity in movies. I’m just saying that because women are typically exploited in the worst ways…so I feel like you got to kind of even it out a little bit. Although, yeah, I don’t know. Maybe we should limit all of it just a little bit.”

Ryan also spoke to Variety about Deadpool’s sexuality. In the comics, Deadpool is pansexual, or at the very least, bisexual. Deadpool comes on to men and women equally. But in the film, Deadpool is just straight and having sex with women. Well, in a rare step of sex-positivity, Ryan made a public statement saying that he would be totally fine with Deadpool having a boyfriend in the future. As in, maybe we’ll get some Deadpool-on-dude action in the sequel, which is already in the works.

Cover courtesy of People, additional photos by Getty.

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  1. Nancy says:

    Who votes for the sexiest man alive. This dude is as sexy as a soggy bowl of cornflakes.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Yes. I don’t get his appeal (physically) at all.

      • Little Darling says:

        I didn’t either…beady little eyes and such. But then he starred in two of my all time favorite romantic comedies ever. “Just Friends” with Amy Smart, and “The Proposal” with Sandra Bullock. Somewhere in those films I became a fan of him physically and started enjoying him more.

        He also seems like a pretty lovely man lately, this relationship and family suits him very well. It seems like the two of them found perfect matches. I’m happy for them.

      • Holmes says:

        Not only is he as homely as a mud fence, he has the personality of a wooden post. Just…why?

      • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

        @Little Darling
        I agree if I like someone, their looks become much more appealing. I’ve never seen him in anything. They do seem very sweet together.

  2. aims says:

    Ok Ryan, you’ve officially won me over. I know it sounds corny but it melts me when father’s talk about their little girls. It’s so sweet and lovely.

  3. lexx says:

    I don’t get it. He looks like a gerbil tho.

    • SnarkySnarkers says:

      I guess its like how Cumberbatch looks like an otter? Women like their men to look like cute animals? I don’t get it either though.

  4. Dtab says:

    I really wanted a daughter when we had our first child….obviously I would have been happy either way but I thought it would be nice to have a daddys girl (which I did get). I was more nervous about having a son as I am not in sport etc. and so was anxious about that also. We had a son second and he is amazing also.

    • Froggy says:

      For a brief second my husband talked about trying for a ‘daddy’s girl.’ That was shut down fast because after 3 boys, I wasn’t going to take that bet and I as nice as it would be to finally have a girl, I would never have another child just to try for a certain sex. We said 2. 3 was a surprise. 4 wasn’t happening, I made sure of that. Done.

      • Dtab says:

        I agree, we said two kids and thats it….we stopped then…it was pure chance (obviously) that we had one of each. I can just handle two.

  5. Sam says:

    He’s just a different person. Being with Blake Lively has made a better person I feel like. Which is weird because I thought it would be the opposite with Blake. I’m happy that he’s finally found peace. And I can’t wait for Deadpool!

  6. Girlinbayou says:

    We have three boys and decided to try for our girl. We did everything but stand on top of our heads. We changed our diets for months, took supplements, put a spoon under the bed, timed ovulation, (basically the shettles method) I mean everything and……nope, another boy. I had a good cry the day we found out, I grieved the loss of the daughter I had in my head since I was a little girl. To me, she was a real person, I had her named, I had her wedding planned, i just wanted that mother/daughter relationship SO bad. But it’s just not in the cards for me. Anyway, yeah I cried and snotted for one full day and then I was over it. Now I have a beautiful, wiggly sweet baby boy who I wouldn’t trade for all the stinky little girls in the world. 😉

    • Elle says:

      I always imagined having a daughter as well. I was raised with 3 brothers and craved that bond with another female other than my Mother. But then I had boys and as our attachment grew I realized that the Mother/son bond can be so profound in its own right. Thankfully I no longer have the strong yearning about having a girl. My husband in contrast did not ever have that strong yearning and felt totally complete with our sons. So I don’t think every man hopes for a daughter as some ppl have stated. I think it’s a personal feeling.

    • holly hobby says:

      I wanted a girl but I didn’t get one. We had 2 boys and I closed the baby factory down. I live vicariously through my nieces and I buy all the pretty outfits I want whenever my sons get invited to a girl classmate’s birthday party. One day, one of my sons will give me a granddaughter.

  7. Cindy says:

    He almost sucked me in with those comments, but I will never forget when these two ” wouldn’t release their daughter’s name” out of an intense need for “privacy”. GRRRRRRR. Because their little angel is so much better, so much more worthy than our peasant children. Our publicly NAMED, grimy little field workers. As opposed to their precious little bundle whose name will not pass our filthy lips.

    Yes I sound crazy angry. I can’t help it. I want to e-mail him baby pictures of my daughter with a blanket covering her face with subject- “you cannot know her name, stop asking, please respect our privacy”.

    • Erinn says:

      To be fair though, if he’d immediately started talking about the name, and the details, there’d be an equal number of people growling that he’s pimping his kid out. It was a lose lose situation.

  8. Naya says:

    I assumed they named her James because name was already picked or something. Glad to hear I might have been wrong because that would be awful.

    • Ctkat1 says:

      It’s after his father James, who died the year before the baby was born. So I think they decided on a tribute name and used it for either sex.

  9. QQ says:

    why does he look so… Gerbilly in the face?? the Lips ?? I dont even know

  10. lisa2 says:

    Since People’s Sexiest Man Alive issues have really going to Bust.. are they now doing the Sexiest Dad Alive. if so NO..

    I like Ryan actually. He has a great sense of humor and he has handled his not so great BO lows pretty well.. I hope this movie does well. It looks fun. and I don’t like Super Hero movies that much. This one seems very tongue in cheek. I’ll see it over Zoo 2..

  11. MyHiddles says:

    I’m glad all y’all don’t like him. More for me.

  12. kri says:

    I’m jacking this thread cause Teresa Giudice has enthralled me on the cover. I MUST know….how many hair nets did they have to issue her when she was on kitchen duty?! Her hairline is like an alive, creeping thing. Ryan Reynolds is okay, I guess.

    • QQ says:

      is that sh!t not the most confounding thing??! if anyone ever could have a lasered off Hairline is this lady!!!!!

      • word says:

        With all her money and fame, if she didn’t want to pay for lazer hair removal, I am sure some company would have paid for her. I wonder why she hasn’t had it done? She seems to put a lot of attention into her looks but neglects that one thing. I used to think it was a wig that she just wore too low, but nope it’s REAL. I mean I guess she’s either really confident, or no one has ever said anything about it to her? Meh, she has the right to live how she wants. Just as long as she pays her taxes !

    • Bridget says:

      I secretly kind of love the crazed stare that’s her signature pose.

  13. Jen43 says:

    I think Ruan looks the best he’s ever looked. That haircut is very flattering. I am looking forward to seeing Deadpool, but disappointed I can’t take the kids. I thought these superhero movies were always rated PG-13.

  14. word says:

    Why not say it proudly? Why be secretive? It’s nice to know when a daughter is truly wanted. I come from a culture that for the most part cries when a girl is born as if she’s a punishment from God. Disgusting. If I have kids, I hope God gives me daughters too. I’d rather raise them than they born into a family that doesn’t want them.

    • Farhi says:

      What if his next child is a boy? He reads that and finds out his dad really wanted a girl?
      It is just not good to talk about such things because it might hurt their children feelings later.

      if he had a boy I am sure he would’ve been excited and in love with his child just the same.

  15. Farhi says:

    Reynolds seems like a charisma black hole . Just like Blake. Two attractive people who are very bland. I don’t know who decided he was a good lead for a blockbuster comic movie. He is in the same league as the Ant-man lead, Paul Rudd. Ant-man was a good movie and all but Paul Rudd just couldn’t hold attention.

    • Lulu says:

      Yeah, because Chris Evans, Chris Hemsworth and the rest radiate charisma… For heaven’s sake! I love how people dissect the blandness (gerbilish, his eyes are small and his lips are not up to the standard required) of someone who has the best effing body on earth, considering that some of the so-called stars have slits for eyes (Tatum and Hemsworth) and are definitely chunky, without a neck. But OK, each to his own.

      • Jayna says:

        I love Ryan, Lulu, because I think he’s been excellent in every movie he’s done. A man couldn’t do that who didn’t naturally have some charm.

    • Alyce says:

      See I don’t find him physically attractive but I think he oozes charm. He is very witty and has been nailing his Deadpool press.

      To each their own I guess!

    • anon says:

      Are you kidding, Paul Rudd is the best!

  16. Tessd says:

    As a child who’s parents got divorced when I was very little and my step dad never really showed much interest in me – I’m feeling happy and jealous for Ryan’s daughter.