Ashley Graham gives the ‘middle finger’ to critics: ‘Guess what? I’m really hot’

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Ashley Graham is one of Glamour Magazine’s women of the year. I think Glamour chose some interesting women for their WOTY feature – along with Ashley, they’re also recognizing Simone Biles, Gwen Stefani, Zendaya, Emily Doe (the victim in the Stanford rape case), Miuccia Prada and Nadia Murad, amongst others. When you really think about it, Ashley deserves this. This time last year, I had zero clue who Ashley was, but she dominated 2016 and became the face of body-positivity and body-acceptance. She starred in music videos, launched her own clothing line, walked important runways and covered countless magazines. Here are some highlights from Ashley’s profile.

Sizeism among models: “When I was 17 or 18 years old. I was doing a group shot for this really big campaign, and one girl, who was probably a size 2 or 4, said to me, ‘Did you actually get paid for this job?’ I remember thinking, She’s asking me that because I’m fat. She’s always friendly and nice. I think she forgot she said it. But it’s one of those things I’ll never forget.”

Her Sports Illustrated’s Swimsuit Issue cover: To Graham, who didn’t truly believe she’d be on the cover until the issue was in her hands, this triumph “wasn’t just for curvy girls. It was for every woman. Most of us have not been told, ‘If you have cellulite and your thighs rub together, who cares?’”

How she reacts to body criticism: “I kind of just give my middle finger to it, like, ‘Guess what? I’m really hot’”

Her fans see her a body-positive champion: “Every day I get at least 20 messages. A woman who was bulimic for six years said she stopped throwing up after she watched my TED Talk.” She kicked off that presentation (also once on her vision board) by looking into a full-length mirror onstage and having a friendly chat with her body parts: “Back fat, I see you popping over my bra today. But that’s all right. I’m gonna choose to love you.”

Long-term goals: Next up, Graham will debut as a judge on America’s Top Model. And now both she and her husband, cinematographer Justin Ervin, keep vision boards beside their bed. On hers: a beauty campaign, a book, and maybe a talk show. But her deepest wish is for girls. “I hope they look in the mirror and say, ‘I am beautiful.’ When you do that, it’s a whole other ball game—you start to understand that your words have power.”

Her Words to Live By: “Be your own woman. Be your own kind of role model. And remember that the women around you are women you can lift up. You can change their lives.”

[From Glamour]

Would you watch an Ashley Graham talk show? We’ll have to see how she does on the revamped America’s Next Top Model. My guess is that if she is a breakout star from ANTM, she will get offers to do a talk show, reality show, Sirius radio show and more. I would watch an Ashley Graham reality show. I’m just saying, you know it would good! Ashley does make me feel better about my body, which is the point she’s been trying to make this whole time.

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  1. Pri says:

    Can I say I was disappointed with her SI cover? The pose was….weird?

    I feel like there must have been better shots, don’t know why they went with that one.

  2. shewolf says:

    Guess what Ashley? People don’t have to think you’re hot if they don’t want to.

    • paranormalgirl says:

      Guess what shewolf, all that matters is that SHE thinks she’s hot.

      • shewolf says:

        That’s cute. But she’s a gorgeous woman who works as a model, so yeah, it’s kind of important what others think.

      • JulieCaroleRayo says:

        I wish there was a like button on celebitchy for your comment paranormalgirl 🙂 🙌 🙌 🙌

  3. Kimma says:

    I am fine and encourage models not being “Super Thin” and as long as they are healthy, then good for them. But, I feel bad for saying this but don’t think we should be promoting PLUS Size if it isn’t healthy…
    And, for the record, I’m not really a big fan of hers…

    • Jennah says:

      It’s fine for you not to be a fan of hers, but her body is 100% normal, she works out, her doctor gave her a clean bill of health.

      Helen mirren has been a bmi of 26! And in no way did she need to lose weight.

      It is between someone and their doctor if they are healthy.

      she is not saying “gain weight to be my size” she is saying “love yourself no matter what” which we never hear.

      I get a little emotional about this because my daughter had anorexia over body anxiety at a young age over men like trump making comments, and comments from her classmates in fourth grade about girls and their thighs. It’s good when women love themselves and ashley Graham’s message doesn’t promote stuffing yourself like a sumo wrestler to gain weight, it just promotes loving yourself.

      • susanne says:

        I feel for you, jennah. My kiddo is young and slender and the one time I heard her mention ‘thigh gap’ I wanted to scream. I shouldn’t have mentioned her body shape. It wouldn’t matter…..If I could keep the kids off the interwebs I would, I swear.

  4. Guesto says:

    Does she ever talk about anything else other than her size?

  5. ShinyGrenade says:

    That black dress seems very uncomfortable and maybe a size too small? Her boobs look unfortunately squished in there.

  6. Dunne says:

    I liked her until I started following her on social media. I actually find her really grating. I’ve since stopped following her…

  7. linda says:

    I think she is gorgeous and it is awesome that somebody is speaking up about feeling good about yourself even if you are not a size zero and prefer cheeseburgers to cotton balls! If one less person dies from anorexia or bulimia because she is bold enough to embrace her real body then isn’t that a good thing! Isn’t it sad that all of the comments so far are negative…

  8. Rachel says:

    “I kind of just give my middle finger to it, like, ‘Guess what? I’m really hot’”

    But what if you’re not? At the end of the day, these plus-sized models just represent the small group of women who are overweight, but well-proportioned and have beautiful faces. I can’t really get behind the plus-sized movement because it’s still about how you look. If I had a daughter, I’d want her to have pride in herself as a human being. Why put all your stock into something that can change day-to-day and declines over time?

    • Locke Lamora says:

      But your daughter will live in the real world, where unfortunately, she will be judged on her looks, and very severely so.

      • susanne says:

        I am raising my daughter to love herself for the inherently beautiful person she is. It comes from the inside and won’t change over time. Others recognize this clear, strong sense of self when they see it. A beautiful person has more power to influence than one who has only physical beauty.

  9. MrsBump says:

    What would be really groundbreaking is a woman who doesn’t feel the need to be hot.
    It feels like “hot” is all we are allowed to be, and it’s disheartening that women everywhere fall for this, “we are all beautiful” nonsense. No, not everyone is beautiful (and this irrespective of their size) , and guess what, it should NOT matter!
    Instead of fighting to be plus size and hot, maybe we should all be fighting to be judged by the myriad of other qualities that we have.

    • susanne says:

      I agree with you completely. There may be moments when I have relished hotness, but I know it’s not what life is about. It’s also a kind of victory to feel it in my 40s when I was so insecure in my teens.
      I can look at it lightly in terms of myself, but it’s a serious matter for me for younguns coming up. I cannot tolerate the sexualization of young women, and how they seem to get so sucked into it, especially on social media.

  10. kri says:

    The woman ain’t wrong.

  11. jerkface says:

    Thinking about who is hot or not at this point in time is just a waste of brain cells and air when you zoom out and take a look at whats going on in the world right now. Yes, you are pretty but lets finish rioting first, ok? haha You’re super duper hot and sexy but lets get back to work.

  12. jerkface says:

    I want to see women of all sizes stand up and say WE DONT CARE WHAT WE LOOK LIKE GIVE US OUR MONEY AND FREEDOMS OK BYE! lol

  13. Linda says:

    She seems to be getting arrogant. And why do you want to tell the world you are hot. Let people decide themselves

  14. Makeupgurlee says:

    I believe what she meant is giving the finger to those who criticize her and thinking hey im2 hot. It’s really more of a metaphor for her own self confidence in spite of the opinion of others I don’t see it as arrogance all. Nothing wrong with her being confident and she’s in high demand so she also seems to be a very savvy businesswoman and btw it really doesn’t matter what others think of her looks just because she’s a model, there are lots of famous modela1that aren’t all that.