Sienna Miller on Balthazar Getty: ‘I was really naive and trusting…’


Sienna Miller is a Vogue cover girl again. It feels like she’s been on the cover like a dozen times – including the infamous September 2007 rooster-tail issue in which Anna Wintour claimed Sienna was too toothy. But really, I think this is her fourth cover. What exactly has Sienna done to warrant such slavish Vogue coverage? She’s promoting her part in the G.I. Joe film and her first Broadway role in Miss Julie this fall. You’d think part of the deal for another cover would be that someone would make Sienna sit down and really talk about all of the Balthazar Getty stuff, but alas, Sienna just talks around it.

Regarding either Balthazar in particular or her public relationships in general, Sienna says stuff like “I think I was really naive and trusting and thinking that if you are true to yourself, that’s enough, that’s the best way to be. But actually, it’s important to become more conscious. Being the center of a lot of judgment and controversy while not feeling like a hurtful or controversial person in my essence, I’m trying to understand what it is that makes me that way and what it is that makes people feel that way about me.” Good Lord. Take responsibility. You were “dating” a married man for more than a year. It was ridiculous. At least give us a “my bad.”

The piece also has some interesting quotes from people like her G.I. Joe costar Channing Tatum, who says “She just kind of intoxicates the room.” Jeez, Sienna, how drunk do you have to be to intoxicate the whole room? Here’s more from the interview:

[She] has long been battling the perception that she is, variously, a superficial party girl, a quirky fashion plate, an almost famous indie regular with no box-office clout, Jude Law’s ex-girlfriend, or all of the above.

“We have to be honest about it,” says Miller of her reputation. “It’s pretty bad. On the whole, you know, I’ve made some bad choices and done some stupid things.” In other words: It is high time for a bold move. Or two.

[G.I. Joe] has an odd ensemble cast: Jonathan Pryce, Dennis Quaid, Marlon Wayans, and Channing Tatum. But it is Tatum and Miller who have the most scenes together. “She is nut bags,” says Tatum, underwear model turned actor, paying Miller a big compliment. “I love her like I can’t even explain. She’s one of those people who you can’t help but be in a good mood when she’s around. She just kind of intoxicates the room.”

It’s well known that Miller has, since Jude Law, been entangled in a series of somewhat baffling, ill-fated, and extremely well-documented relationships, all of which seem to have burned very brightly and then crashed to the ground. From Calvin Klein model turned indie-rock heartthrob Jamie Burke to oddball 40-ish Welsh actor Rhys Ifans, there is no discernible pattern, no type. Most notoriously, she took up with Balthazar Getty last summer, while he was still married to his wife, Rosetta, with whom he has four children. The paparazzi shot of Sienna and Balthazar on the balcony of a hotel room in Italy—Miller topless with a sailor’s hat perched on her head at a tipsy angle—came close to self-sabotage. When I saw it I thought, Oh, dear.

Today, she is officially single and seems a bit repentant. When I ask about her love life and use the word dating she says, “I’ve actually never been taken on a date in my whole life. I have never had a one-night stand. I’m a real relationship person—contrary to public perception. I’m either in one or I’m not. I get kind of emotionally involved very quickly, and I’m not going to spend time with someone unless I love them. But it’s not hard for me to fall in love.”

[Dating Jude] “was a very pivotal time in my life, and I’m happy saying that,” she continues. “It’s a private moment when you get your heart broken for the first time, and that was the absolute antithesis of private.” She starts to laugh. “It couldn’t have been more public! I had people on the street being like, ‘ ‘Ang in there, loov!’ and all you want to do is crawl into a cave and weep for a week.” She pauses for a moment and then finds the bright side. “I think I discovered a whole new emotional depth that I didn’t have access to before. When you have your heart broken for the first time, you gain depth, and that’s why actors tend to get better with age, I think.”

“I think I was really naive and trusting and thinking that if you are true to yourself, that’s enough, that’s the best way to be. But actually, it’s important to become more conscious.”

She goes on: “Being the center of a lot of judgment and controversy while not feeling like a hurtful or controversial person in my essence, I’m trying to understand what it is that makes me that way and what it is that makes people feel that way about me.”

[From Vogue]

There’s a ton of information about Miss Julie, which starts in the fall, and if you’re interested, check out the full interview. For the play, guess who was just cast as Sienna’s leading man? One of my favorites, Jonny Lee Miller. He’s totally married, and his wife just gave birth to a baby boy named Buster. I have my fingers crossed that Sienna doesn’t screw up Jonny’s marriage.

Oh, and by the way – within the interview, Sienna tells the Vogue guy (Jonathan Van Meter) that she wants to try to stop talking about Jude Law, but she still talks about Jude when asked, and even brings Jude up during several different points. At some point, she really should just refuse to say his name. That’s enough, Sienna.

Here are Sienna and Balthazar out to lunch at Taverna Tony in Malibu this past August 10th. Images thanks to Fame Pictures .

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  1. photo jojo says:

    Who is the chick trying to kid, exactly?

  2. KDRockstar says:

    Posh must be pissed… Sienna is on the cover four times? Whuut??

  3. boo says:

    Here is a little more about Sienna Miller from HP. She is proof a person can grow up and learn from their mistakes.

  4. drica says:


    hum oh? what this bitch is still here?? please please just shut up and let the REAL actors work ok? thanks

  5. mum mum says:

    Everyone who’s ever spent time with her has nothing but good things to say about her..

    She’s probably very cool and fun-loving, and alot of people like that get bad reputations in the beginning. ie: Angie. She also made some dumb-ass decisions early on in her career/love life but now we forgive her.

    People grow. Sienna sounds introspective in this interview. I like her, and the fact that Perez doesn’t makes me like her more.

  6. ash says:

    oh who cares about all this, it’s in the past. I’ve always liked the work she’s done. I could give 2 shits about her personal life. She’s okay for now, and she looks amazing on this cover. Beautiful face.

  7. queenie says:

    oh yeah, everyone will be all nicey nicey until she starts banging another married guy again…

  8. Sauronsarmy says:

    Funny how some get a pass from any criticism and some don’t.

  9. Miss Wanderlust says:

    Maybe the Vogue july cover was meant for Rihanna but she ruined it with her
    naked pictures at the last moment ??? I can’t see why Anna Wintour could put Sienna on the cover when there are other actresses with bigger films coming out this summer ? Sandra Bullock, Audrey Tautou, Megan Fox or maybe she could use a model like in the old days ? hahaha
    I have nothing against Miss Miller but i never read an interview or seen a film with her that stuck with me….a little bit boring maybe that’s why she has so much attention when it comes to her lovelife and not her career ?
    She is still young, i hope she learned her lessons and makes better love & career choices in the future.

  10. drm says:

    Riiiiiiiiiiight….and this is supposed to somehow make us think she’s all fine and dandy now?

    Yuck…go away woman…

  11. bob lawblaw (nony) says:

    “But actually, it’s important to become more conscious.”

    holy shit, somebody call MENSA.

  12. sunseeker says:

    Her PR’s are earning their money, what a lot of trash, people don’t change that dramatic over night. She is not sincere, just a lot of dribble to whitewash her career and her private life before she goes on the stage in autumn. She is still with Getty, meeting him in secret, was seen coming out of an hotel in LA by a passer by, trust that comment more than Sienna’s or her PR’s.

  13. pinkdeerhunt says:

    i don’t understand how you people still
    say “so-and-so busted up the poor guys marriage”. how do you not understand, the peenie goes into the vajayjay. Two players. someone cant physicaly bust up somebody elses marriage/relationship without that persons knowledge.matter of fact i’d say, if anything ,its the other way around. the person in the marriage has a responsibility that the “other woman” doesn’t. they have a person or family that they owe their loyalty to.

  14. joannie says:

    I don’t see Sienna going after Jonny Lee Miller. Then again, I could’ve said the same thing about her and Rhys Ifans or Balthazar Getty. But she has known Jonny since forever, right? He’s one Jude’s bfflz from way back when, the Brit Pack and all that with Ewan McGregor.

    Mmm. Ewan McGregor… Sorry, what were we talking about?

  15. jeannified says:

    Oh is THAT what it is? PUH-LEEZE (rhymes with Sleeze!)

  16. hatsumomogirly says:

    I don’t have an opinion about her, but in regard to the GI Joe movie, my man says it looks like its going to be complete shit. He grew up with GI Joe and when I showed him the trailer, he was pissed about it. He says it didnt look true to the show and just looked like a mindless action movie and all the actors are going to try and milk their ‘Oscars’ performance in it. Just sayin’.

  17. StarChild says:

    My opinion: this skank is trying to fool us, all with her PR’s smoke and mirrors, into thinking she is at least repentent about her past adulterous affairs. IMO, she isn’t. If you’re serious about not involving yourself in other people’s marriages, you say one thing to any attached man that approaches you: Contact me when you have a signed divorce decree; otherwise, GTFOH! Just my two cents, but I don’t believe she has had any type of emotional epiphany. Yes, people do change, but not so dramatically (and/or coincidentally, timely for a movie or broadway opening).

  18. Amy says:

    Let me put on by waders…. it’s getting deep in here.

  19. hunnybe says:

    So let me get this straight,when Jude Law cheated on her she was soooo busy running around being the victim and trying to make everyone feel sorry for her,but it is totally ok to sleep with another womans husband.Totally classy.

  20. Tom says:


    That time in the Congo crap was simply PR to pull her maggot-festering career out of the toilet!! She’s spent 10 times the amount of time on vacation than she has in the Congo. Sienna cares about Sienna. That is all. Ever.

    She just really needs to shut up. Every time she tries to justify her incredibally selfish, self-serving behavior, it just makes me hate her more!!.

  21. queenie says:

    Hey, it only hurts when you are the one being cheated on…never hurts when you are the one cheating…

  22. Rosanna says:

    This chick needs to learn not to give a darn about what people think of her. Nobody knows her circumstances (NO-BODY!) so whoever judges is off-base. Besides, most of the ones who are so prone to judge hide behind a “I would never do it” because they are either too ugly or too chicken to take a stance. But Sienna needs to grow up and stop caring about what people think.

  23. ! says:

    lol@ queenie and hunnybe

    so true

    As for this “it takes two” bs, I don’t think anyone is sitting around NOT blaming Balthazar…but hey, we also need to have respect for people in relationships. BOTH of them are scum!

  24. Eileen Yover says:

    I don’t get her appeal. For some reason when I hear her name I can’t even picture her face-it just blurs over. She doesn’t stand out in acting, appearance, or hook ups. Nutin’.

  25. djjazzyjeff says:

    don’t like her. read a story on lainey’s site about her a first hand account of her annoyingness. she is really workin the PR after that affair. too bad it aint workin

  26. Rachel says:

    WOW she had an affair with Jude Law when he was married, left his wife for her actually. But Karma bites – especially when Jude cheated on her with his kid’s Nanny. Now she had another affair with Balthazar Getty while he was still married. She really likes married men. I wonder how come she hasn’t found Sean Penn yet?!?!

  27. joe says:

    Not sure why some of you are so upset about her with a married man. Angie and Brad, Julia Roberts and her now husband, and many others have started relationships when one of the party was married. AS that writer wrote about Angie just put those words to this lady. She saw what she wanted and went after it. It makes her some kind of alpha female and woman to be looked up to. And please don’t pretend that Angie and Brad didn’t have an affair. And please don’t say it is different with children. A marriage is a marriage children or not. Oh and what about the whole thing that a woman cannot steal a man or wreck a home – obviously their were problems in the marriage long before this women came along right? For those of you \kaiser/ who think that Angie/Brad did no wrong you really are a hyprocite!

  28. eternalcanadian says:

    ROFL. Omg, and today is Friday! Thanks for my Friday laugh!

  29. Laura says:

    To pinkdeerhunt,

    Just to clarify, the majority of affairs: 69%, do not happen because the people in the relationship/marriage are unhappy or on the outs or feed up with each other, etc.

    They happen because people are given the opportunity to stray and can’t say no. So yes, “breaking up a marriage” can be misconstrued, but don’t for a second believe that affairs happen because there were already problems or that they spouse knew they were being cheated on.

    And it isn’t until they are caught that you see repercussions.

  30. Dorie says:


    You are out of your damn mind if you think that Sienna is anyone to be looked up too. The primary reason thing that pulls this crap and then whines and cries about how her actions are not her fault and everyone is mena to her! She goes for what she wants, damn the consequences for anyone else, but then won’t accept them for herself. That makes her a whiney spoiled brat!

  31. Chicamorena says:

    This is the reason I canceled my subscription to Vogue last year after ten years as a subscriber. It used to be a fashion magazine. Now they seem to be obsessed with tabloid celebrities.

    And don’t get me started on the covers. A Vogue cover used to be a work of art and some of the older ones have been made over as art posters. For the past couple of years they’ve been godawful. I’ve seen more artistic covers on Women’s Day.

  32. kiki says:

    shallow is the word that comes to mind.
    boring’s another one.

    the more she talks, the more you want to turn away, but she’s so full of herself, you can’t stop yourself from staring.

    she just doesn’t get it. she’s that self-centered.

  33. fern says:

    1) SM is just as responsible for the affair as BG. Contrary to belief, it was her duty to say “no” or wait until the married man filed for a divorce/legal separation.

    2) Bringing up other celebs who had affairs doesn’t in any way work in SM favor. Not condoning AJ/BP or JR/DM actions, but at least they had enough common sense to NOT PUBLICLY ENGAGE IN SEXUAL ACTS AND PDA. Did AJ/JR allow the married man to suck/grab her breast? Did AJ/JR whine about there being no sisterhood and then released photos of herself kissing the married man outside of an airport? Did AJ/JR go out in public wearing the married man’s watch or shorts showing the brusises she got from having sex? This is what makes BG/SM affair stand out from the rest of HW affairs. It was so blatant/ “in your face” about it and not once did she show any concern for RG and her kids.

    3)EVen SM holds the other woman responsible. When she berated JL nanny, she told the world that she holds the other woman just as responsible for the affair as the man. Just because she is the “other woman” that means that she should get a free pass? Well not when she made such a fuss over what the nanny did to her.

  34. fern says:

    1) “someone cant physicaly bust up somebody elses marriage/relationship without that persons knowledge.”

    Really, because that’s not what RG said. She found out about the affair just like the whole world did. When a woman doesn’t tell a married man “no” or wait until he has filed for a divorce/legal separation before allowing him to suck on her breast she is ENCORAGING the married man to dishonor his vows; and therefore, is just as guilty as the married man.

    2) “the person in the marriage has a responsibility that the “other woman” doesn’t. they have a person or family that they owe their loyalty to.”

    So when women participate in affairs with married man, they shouldn’t be held accountable for their actions and should be held by a different standard then the man? In the REAL WORLD ADULTS are RESPONSIBLE for THEIR actions, so being “not the married one” does not exempt SM from the consequences of her actions. BTW, if we apply this logic to JL affair, then that means SM had no right to berate JL nanny because the nanny didn’t make any promises to her, right?

  35. morgs says:

    I like her. She looked effin’ HOT in Layer Cake. Really entertaining how women see one woman compared to another.

  36. frewt says:

    ^^yeah interesting that we have a point of view that isn’t predicated upon how fuckable we think she is.

    I’ve been naive and trusting too, I still didn’t screw that married man I had a crush on back in the day. The bitch is unscrupulous and that overrides ‘hot’ anyday imo.

  37. Pole says:

    This woman is a walking disease just like Paris Hilton. She just has better pr, looks better and has a tad more talent. She is shamelessly selfcentered and I really doubt she even has a heart. She’s ALWAYS complaining about not be known for her acting and says she just wants to be an actress. THEN STFU when you’re asked about your private life you dumb cow! It’s really, really simple Sienna! But of course it’s necessary for her to remind of us the cause of all her problems – Jude. Yeah. Why should he still be blamed for his actions – which he admitted and apologized for – when Sienna has been part of wrecking at least one marriage and won’t even take responsibility for it?


  38. Jazz says:

    Still no public “I’m sorry” to the wife after the public screwing of the wife’s husband…
    “Naive and trusting”? Jesus woman, you are not 18 anymore. Time to grow up and take responsibility.

  39. sheryl says:

    Joe, what you say may be true, except that she spends most of the article still riding the “Jude did me wrong” train (I’ve read more than what’s posted here), while totally skirting Gettygate, so you’d have to be blind not to see what this is about. In my book, the judgment she passes out is the judgment she gets. You don’t piss and moan about being the one “cheated on” and then expect a pass when you become a “cheater.” She was very unfair to Jude by talking the way she did about him in this article, because he’s already done his time over this crap, but she’s using it as a “get out of jail free” card again to refocus everyone to a time that was more sympathetic to her, and away from Gettygate and other recent blunders. It’s plain to see, and we just ain’t that stupid. Her tone is derogatory in a passive/aggressive way, and, in my opinion, she’s being very diabolical. Nobody deserves to be done that way, particularly when she knows they choose not to offer their side of the story. I’m sure Jude has stories of his own about her. She herself has hurt people along the way, but do you see them persistently whining about it? Rosetta Getty doesn’t even b*tch to the press, and she has every right. Sienna’s tactics are cheap and low, and she deserves every bit of criticism she’s getting. Also, she’s constantly complaining about how she’s only seen as Jude’s ex, and not as a serious “awctress”, yet this article screams “hey everybody, remember how I’m Jude Law’s ex-girlfriend?” I guess the problem is that she doesn’t have any major successes racked up, she hasn’t done anything significant with herself in the last 4 years, so she has to rehash the same old same old. Pity for her.
    To put it all in a nutshell, she’s like a virus that keeps coming out of remission.

  40. Gloaming says:

    Jonny Lee Miller’s Jude Law’s best friend.

    Jude was best man at his wedding recently, is it just a coincidence that Sienna’s acting opposite him?

  41. dolores craeg says:

    sienna miller used jude law from the day she met him. sure she was smitten….who wouldn’t be.but when he needed her at the time of all the king’s men in new orleans because he was there a long time…she came once or twice. they were engaged. she should have been with him. instead there were photos taken of her on decaprio’s lap and partying with every guy in site….that’s why jude strayed…it was then he was thinking…i think i made a mistake…..but when the s–t hit the fan he made the public apology and never discussed her afterwards. her p.r. ciara parkes and sienna decided to go back to jude and use his name for her purposes. she just loved playing the victim for all it was worth. the next year…just before factory girl opened and jude thought she could make it on her own he left her….,.in all fairness it’s time for this little girl to stop crying about jude and prove herself as an actress…she needs to gain respect. so far she’s done nothing to earn it.

  42. Marge says:

    Sienna, I’m sorry you don’t have anything more interesting to talk about. How about learn how to act, get a real career, and then come back and talk to us….hmmmm?

  43. paranel says:

    Naive and trusting? She goes through men as fast as changing underware. Bitch please.

  44. Vivi says:

    To Sienna: Liar Liar your panties on fire!

  45. ditzee says:

    @Rachel: No she didn’t and no he didn’t.

    Jude Law and Sadie Frost’s split was documented quite extensively in the British press at the time. Sadie was with some toyboy type before Sienna and Jude even got together.

  46. sunseeker says:

    Jonny Lee Miller was also with Sienna when she was having the affair with Getty. In June Getty Jonny and Sienna and friends were seen in a Restaurant in LA Getty and Sienna came in separate but everybody made sure they sat together, they all knew they were having an affair.

  47. Goe says:

    Then there was no affair dumba$$$.

  48. Pole says:

    Of course there was an affair. This is from the interview in Vogue:

    ‘Most notoriously, she took up with Balthazar Getty last summer, while he was still married to his wife, Rosetta, with whom he has four children. The paparazzi shot of Sienna and Balthazar on the balcony of a hotel room in Italy—Miller topless with a sailor’s hat perched on her head at a tipsy angle—came close to self-sabotage.’

    That she’s a kanky, stupid whore doesn’t even begin to cover it IMO.

  49. Danica says:

    Who cares? This is all in the past and nobody should even care enough to comment on this anymore. She does have a pretty little nose.

  50. Gloaming says:

    ..Also, when Jude made that public apology for sleeping with the nanny,poor Sienna appeared mortified and the press lapped it up.

    Little did Jude (and us) know that while Sienna was filming Layer Cake she was sleeping with Daniel Craig, who WAS also one of Jude’s best friends.
    When Jude found out he dumped her STD ridden ass.

    Daniel Craig moved on to that other beacon of virtue – Kate Moss.

  51. Blytheless says:

    I don’t understand how she gets kudos for her fashion sense or why she’s considered an indie queen. She dresses like a teenager who shops at the mall and favors Forever 21.

    Certainly not innovative, unique or interesting.

    And she, along with Angelina, need to stop dating married men. As for Julia Roberts, the true Alpha Woman because she’s actually self confident, well it’s a pity how her marriage began as well.

  52. lola lola says:

    Sienna is a no-talent also ran. Vogue’s continued attempt to make her relevant is sad.

  53. Dorie says:


    You’re not serious, are you? Are you the only person on the planet who did not see the pictures of Sienna and Getty boinking in public? I can provide a post if you like.

  54. A says:


    you’re missing the point. everyone knew about them. they were tried to keep being quiet in the beginning in LA because officially getty was married, and he is still married now. but he wasn’t living with his wife at that time and he doesn’t live with his wife now despite the fact they’re still officially married.
    nothing rings a bell?

    getty wrecked his home and it happened long before SM. the only mistake from SM was “boinking in public” knowing that his little kids could see it. no more, no less.

  55. fern says:

    According to BG’s “my wife and I have separated” statement:
    1) he was not separated when he started sleeping with SM. If he was separated, then he would have used past tense in that statement.

    2) He also sites those “embarassing” photos as the reason for the separation or break in his marriage. He does’t say that my marriage was broke or had been broken, but says the “break down of a marriage” implying present tense as in it just happened after those photos became public. Even in his “it takes two to tango” defense he implies that they were both having an affair and he wasn’t separated when it started.

    3) BG has never ever claimed that he was unhappy, that he and his wife were having problems, or that he was sleeping on couches/living in a different place. All of those stories come straight from SM “sources/pals/friends”.

    4) Based on SM very public affair one of the issues that he and his wife may have been dealing with is his relapse. He was spotted drinking from the same alcohol bottle as SM and even going to bars/clubs with her. His relapse was probably a strain on his marriage. Perhaps he was feeling neglected because of the new baby.

  56. teehee says:

    I like the argument that the marrie person bears the larger responsibililty as they are the one who has taken a vow and is supposed to consider their spouse.
    Any other person on the street isnt holding those obligations- only the married person is. So really, the blame is first and foremost on the cheating partner, and only then on whoever the ‘other’ person is, for knowingly condoning a married persons cheating.

  57. Nebraska says:

    Sienna is so boring, I’d rather read about Jennifer Aniston’s dogs. Anna Wintour has GOT to change that pageboy bob-she could get Rihanna’s stylin do!

  58. sheryl says:

    “Who cares? This is all in the past and nobody should even care enough to comment on this anymore. She does have a pretty little nose.”

    Danica, she’s the one that needs to remember it’s in the past. She was the one talking about it, so in a sense, she’s inviting opinion about it. That’s what happens when you make your life everyone’s business, as well as drag other people into with you. She obviously doesn’t value her own right to privacy, which makes whining about the public being in your business pretty foolish.

  59. Marge says:

    Teehee, come back and talk when your husband has an affair behind your back, and then tell us all about it.

  60. Zoe (The Other One) says:

    She is a vile whore and I can’t for the life of me understand why she is getting magazine covers, let alone us lot expending precious energy debating her.

    A whore is a whore is a whore.

  61. Dorie says:


    That’s a pretty damn big mistake!!

  62. argirl says:

    Not excusing her- but the men are the ones who take the vows. It takes two to tango.

  63. y says:

    jude stopped sienna to speak about him. may be balth allow or glad to see whats sienna talks about him everytime. we want to hear about balth by sienna. please please talk about balth thousands time, about affair with balth, and about how to homewrecking of balth family, and how hurt his wife now still then also his wife by your homewrecking.

  64. Nebraska says:

    Are Balt and Rosetta together?

  65. Ned says:

    I happen to think BG told her he was seperated from his wife.

    The fact that she was out in puclic with him, made me believe that it wasn’t an affair in her mind.

    Some men would say anything to both the mistress and their wife.

    Jude Law as far as my understanding goes was a cheater before he ever et Sienna Miller, so trying to blame her not visiting him on some movie set, sounds really lame.

    I mean, how sick is that- to eff the nanny of your children, and to have a young beautiful fiancee at the same time?

    My theory is that what Jude had done have messed up with Sienna’s head and she was never the same since.
    Which explains her tumultuous relationships.

    In any case, she was trusting with Balthazar Getty and I hope she has nothing to do with him today.
    He has ruined her career and lied to both her and his wife.

  66. fern says:

    What message do we send teens when we tell them that as long as they are “not the married one” that are free from the consequences of their actions when they insert themselves into someone’s marriage?

    Why should only the married person take the full blame for an affair, afterall it does take two to tango? So in essence what some are saying is that BG is responsible for SM actions? That’s not how the world operates.
    In the REAL WORLD ADULTS are responsible for THEIR own actions, so both the married man and the woman who is encouraging him to dishonor his vows are EQUALLY at fault. The status of one’s marriage doesn’t determine who gets more or less of the blame, he is wrong for not honoring his vows and SM is just as wrong for encouraging him.

    Being not the married one or the one who didn’t take vows does not exempt SM from the consequences of her actions. That’s like saying the cashier is responsible when a theif steals merchandise and the theif is less responsible because he/she didn’t make any promises to the store owner. So why when it comes to affairs do people try to dimish/ignore the responsibility of the person who didn’t take vows?

  67. fern says:

    So now SM is naive and all of these men are just taking advantage of her? BG didn’t tell her he was separated and none of his statements even support this. SM pranced around in public with BG because she is insecure, vindictive, immature, lacks compassion/empathy/respect. She performed all of those public sexual acts and PDA photo-ops for three reasons: to rub the affair in his wife’s face, to force his wife to file for a divorce since she couldn’t force him to leave his wife, and she only feels good about herself when she has “triumphed” over a another woman.

  68. sunseeker says:


    You have obviously not read the articles in the beginning of this affair. Numerous photo’s of Getty and his wife just before the affair all over the web. Matthew Rhys was a friend of Getty’s and still is a friend to his wife, Miller knows Matthew, went to see him and that how she met Getty, all the cast go and have days out with Getty’s family, get the picture. Sienna knew he was still with his wife maybe not happy in his marriage, but then again some men are born to stray, Getty is one of them. So don’t give me that rubbish she did not know, Rosetta Getty was devastated, saw a photo of her just after the story broke, if she was separated why would she bother.

  69. Zu says:

    Hey tabloids’ sheeple, Get a Life!

  70. pinkdeerhunt says:


    im not saying shes not a homewrecker,
    im saying they’re both guilty so why is it always seinna miller getting articles about her sluttishness. balthazar getty is just as much an ass hat as she is.they both fucked eachother.but i have yet to see an article on how much of a whore Getty is.

  71. sheryl says:

    Yeah, Ned, here’s your naive, trusting little virgin who, by the way, brought boys home to screw as a teenager with her mother’s blessing (per an interview she gave a few years ago). Jude didn’t do anything permanent to her except give her a launchpad for her career and tons of publicity that she’s still dragging out when it suits her purposes. To me, that’s heartless and diabolical, particularly when she knows Jude isn’t going to talk about her. Jude’s already done his time over this. My god, she didn’t suffer mental torture or beatings…get some freakin’ persective. They weren’t even married!!! She’s already said her piece about this before, so her only reason for bringing it out is to try and take some stink out of her PR, which has suffered considerably because of HER OWN actions, and nobody else. Oh, and here’s a photoshoot of the naive, virginal, innocent little virus:
    I don’t know about you, but I have a hard time believing her. Can’t figure why.

  72. Pole says:

    pinkdeerhunt, I don’t see Getty parading about the press claiming he’s a victim of a broken heart and thus not to be blamed for anything. At least he has shut up. Sienna on the other hand does nothing but yap to the press about how she hasn’t done anything wrong, how’s she’s always misunderstood, about how all she wants to be known for is for her acting, about how much it hurt to have her heart broken in public.. Tell me then, why SHE keeps it a public matter by talking about it TO THE PRESS 5 years later?? It’s NOT hard to see why IMO.

  73. fern says:

    Well let’s see?
    1) Getty knows when to SHUT UP, LAY LOW, and not tip off the paps every week. BG knows that he is scum and doesn’t try to depict himself as some sort of saint (ie-wearing a cross, visiting Congo to show that he cares about plight of others). BG “sources” don’t keep putting out stories about how he dumped SM or about how she is going to miss out on his sexy legs.

    2) SM is a hypocrite. She whined for two year about how her boyfriend cheated on her and berated the nanny for sleeping with him, and then turned around and had a VERY PUBLIC AFFAIR with a married man. But did she stop there? No, she had to tell the whole wide world how she suffered. She wants everyone to believe that she is the injured party and has suffered more than BG wife and kid. She claims that she is not a **** or doesn’t have ONS, yet there are tons of photos of her engaging in sexual acts with a married man.

    3) SM is always playing the victim. She could avoid all of this by acknowledging that these things happen to her because she made the wrong choices. She could avoid all of this by showing some remorse for her actions.

    4)She doesn’t care about who she hurts just as long as she gets what she wants. Hence, talking about how she loved every man she has been with. That wasn’t a smart thing to say because the married man wasn’t hers to love. She spread lies about the married man’s wife and she didn’t think twice as to how it was going to hurt her.

  74. Ned says:

    sunseeker, I wasn’t aware to all those things, so I take it back.

    If it is true, than she is one heartless b!tch.

    I would not defend any person who acts in such a way.

  75. FF says:

    Say it with me people: Bitch, PLEASE!

  76. Tania says:

    Sienna Miller “I was a stupid selfish slut and found out I couldn’t get away with it. Waaaaaaahhhhhh!!!”

  77. Kristin says:

    She is not even pretty – why the fuss over her all the time… I don’t get it!

  78. fern says:

    Because she is always playing the victim. She whined that there was no sisterhood and then she turns around and releases photos of her very public affair with the married man. She uses the media to wage a war against a mother and her 4 kids and then whines when things don’t go her way.