Aaron Taylor Johnson on his two daughters: ‘It’s your duty to be their role model’

Aaron Taylor Johnson covers the latest issue of Rolling Stone UK, mostly to talk about Kraven the Hunter and The Fall Guy. In recent days, there were many rumors about how he was just cast as James Bond, rumors which seemed to be jumping the gun a bit (or maybe not – nothing has been confirmed). In any case, he doesn’t confirm anything 007-ish in this interview. He does talk extensively about his wife, Sam Taylor Johnson, whom he met when he was 17-18 and she was in her early 40s. They fell in love, had two daughters and got married very quickly. Currently, Aaron is 33 and Sam is 57. Still together – after living in LA for many years, they moved back to England and bought a farm in the country. Their daughters are almost-14 and 12 years old. Some highlights from Rolling Stone:

Falling for Sam when he was a teenager: “What you gotta realise is that what most people were doing in their twenties, I was doing when I was 13. You’re doing something too quickly for someone else? I don’t understand that. What speed are you supposed to enjoy life at? It’s bizarre to me.” He keeps busy at his farm in Somerset with Sam, with whom he shares “four gorgeous daughters”, as he dotingly refers to them. The eldest are Sam’s from a previous marriage, aged 27 and 17, and then two tweens.

Working on ‘Kraven the Hunter’: “Taking on a Sony / Marvel movie is a different challenge altogether. There’s the story, the character, the role; that’s one thing. But then you also step into a world where you’re dealing with a studio and a franchise — or possible franchises, though let’s not get ahead of ourselves. So, they’re rolling the dice on me, in a sense, which is a lovely thing,” he says. “But you’ve got to appease the studio, please the audience and do what’s dignified for you as an actor. I find all of that super challenging.”  

The Bond rumors: “I can only really talk about the things I’m going to show and tell. So, The Fall Guy, Nosferatu, Kraven the Hunter. I’m here to promote those.” When I say it must be flattering to be associated with 007, he stares at me in silence.

Working with Sam again: ‘Sam is actually a great filmmaker and a wonderful storyteller. People will think there’s sort of a bias to me saying it, but I think when they see Back to Black [her upcoming Amy Winehouse biopic], everyone’s going to realise how fantastic a filmmaker she is,” he says emphatically. Of course, he himself has experience being directed by Sam. But he points out that it’s difficult to balance their collaborations with the sense that any perceived or actual criticism of them — as with their film together from 2019, A Million Little Pieces — hurts more keenly. ‘There’s a protectiveness that I feel; I think it’s really difficult. There’s also part of me that feels like if something didn’t work, I’m the one that’s responsible,” he says. 

A family man: “People see and perceive this thing around my career, and that’s OK. But I’m just trying to juggle my family and my work. I’m doing normal life; dentist appointments. Career doesn’t necessarily take a back seat, but it takes a different thought behind the choices that you make. But you also discover characters you’re drawn to because of that, you’re not just some 20-year-old anymore. You unlock some secret thing,” he explains. Equally, the reason he hasn’t taken on a television limited series — in spite of good opportunities to do so, he hints — has been the extended amount of time that they would take him away from the family. “I don’t want a jobbing career.”

His daughters’ births: “You realise it’s your job to protect the purest, most innocent thing that’s come into the world. And it’s your duty to be their role model. You are going to be reflected in their choices later on in life, from who their partners are to how they carry themselves in the world.” 

[From Rolling Stone]

“You realise it’s your job to protect the purest, most innocent thing that’s come into the world.” I wonder if he’ll get to a point, when his daughters get to 17-18, where he realizes how f–ked up it was that he got with Sam at that age. He’ll look at his daughters and realize that he doesn’t want those innocent kids in a relationship with some 40-something and the dominoes will start to fall. Who knows though – it could be that Aaron is perfectly happy, especially with his current situation out in the country. Whenever people talk about Sam and Aaron, I always think about some of her comments early in their relationship, where she described him as bringing family values to the table. It feels like the “family farm in Somerset” is HIS fantasy, that’s his idealized family life.

Photos courtesy of Cover Images, cover courtesy of Rolling Stone UK.

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  1. Josephine says:

    He seems to have just one facial expression and it’s . . . not great. I think he could be Bond but I’m uninterested with him in the role and sick of the same type being cast over and over.

  2. Scorpio says:

    I notice that Sam is never questioned on how/why she fell for a teenager. I can sort of understand why Aaron, at a young age fell for her, but what makes a woman that age look at someone so close to her children’s age? I’d like to hear from her.

    • Kitten says:

      She doesn’t give a lot of interviews and when she does, I’m sure she makes it clear beforehand that questions about her relationship are off the table. She knows it’s messy AF.

    • Lau says:

      It’s so very annoying for them to push that “family man since he was a teenager” narrative on us. Like, we can all see that he has been groomed and this is disgusting. Can you imagine her eldest daughter’s thoughts when they first got together and your new stepdad is almost the same age as you ? She should definitely be faced with questions like that when her next movie comes out but probably won’t.

  3. Kitten says:

    Ooooh yeah that’s gonna be a tough one. “Do as I say and not as I do (or did)” rarely works well with the teen set.

    • Lizzie Bathory says:

      There are several large age gap relationships in my family but none started until the younger person was into their thirties, if not older. I can’t wrap my head around “falling in love” with a teenage boy.

      • Kitten says:

        My husband is 8 years younger than me but we met when he was 30 and I was 38. The age gap wouldn’t be an issue at all for me if he was a fully formed adult when they met, ya know? Given that he wasn’t, it’s questionable at best and downright predatory at worst.

  4. Lucía says:

    Two things: 1- he was just a kid and 2 – for Bond, ditch this guy and just cast any of the three elder Bridgerton brothers. Either of them would work.

    • Chaine says:

      I still wish they went with Idris Elba but I suppose he’s considered too old now.

      • Lucía says:

        Yeah, I think they’re going for a Bond in his early-ish years, or at least not when he’s near the end of his career (which they already did with Craig).

      • therese says:

        Chaine: Idris is sexy as all get out, beautiful, funny, a seriously good actor, and he’s done it all. Luther was a really good series, and where I first became aware of him. I don’t see his beauty and talent going to a certain age and then falling off a cliff. Do they expect him to stop being gorgeous in ten or twenty years? I don’t. He’s ossified at gorgeous, and will remain that way. Ian Flemming himself didn’t become an author when he was a teenager. He served in WWII and became Secret Service if I’m not mistaken. He had been around the block, and wrote James Bond as an experienced man. Idris is a man. So is Henry Cavill. My Henry. But Aaron Taylor Johnson, with his eyebrow-tilted mono-expression and squeeky voice, doesn’t do it for me. He comes across as very young – adolescent almost. You want someone who looks like they can handle any situation.

  5. Sara says:

    Nicholas hoult would be a MUCH better Bond- he actually has range beyond ATJ’s range seems to consist of “look sullen” I wish they would move away from Bond as thug that they settled on with Daniel Craig.

    • Ocho says:

      Oooo. I like this suggestion. Nicholas Hoult seems so obvious once you suggested him. Let @Sara cast it. Done.

    • Emily says:

      Nicholas Hoult is a fantastic actor and so so attractive. Let’s get him. Totally agree.

      Hell, Hiddles would have been a better choice

  6. Ponsby says:

    I’m just not interested in seeing another Bond with him at the helm.

    And I’m just not interested in Johnson’s excuse for why it was ok for her to groom a teenage boy who was her employee.

    After “Quiet on Set” came out this week a lot of online discourse started about when/if the former child actress Liz Gillies from Victorious would say anything about her experiences – but she married the 40 year old music composer they had on set working with the kids and she’s still married to him, so I mean, of course she won’t. Age gaps might be fine in other circumstances but in both these cases they were literal children and these were their literal adult (in their 40s!) employers and bosses. I think the amount of totally valid scrutiny of the adults in these situations creates this false idea in the person who was a child that they then have to defend that relationship for the rest of their lives – I almost feel like a sunk cost fallacy develops where they want to be certain not to be “wrong” about the relationship they have with someone who absolutely groomed them.

  7. Boxy Lady says:

    From what I have previously read about him, he’s been a professional actor since he was a child and he left school and home in his mid-teens. I don’t know if he left home voluntarily or was kicked out. Perhaps from his perspective, Sam was a gateway to a family life that he really wanted so he doesn’t think it’s an inappropriate relationship. Just speculating, of course.

  8. MissMarirose says:

    He thinks it was fine and he was “mature for his age” because she groomed him to think that. That’s precisely what all pedos do.

  9. smcollins says:

    Wow, that’s a huge dose of victim blaming in one post. Please do go on about how Aaron being groomed and alienated from his family is of his own making and he needs to own up to his responsibility in that in order to be a good role model for his children. smh

    Edit: looks like the comment I was responding to got removed. Good, because it was really gross.

  10. Sasha says:

    I don’t know if he would necessarily feel that (when his daughters turn 17/18). I guess the point he’s making is he grew up very young. His daughters most likely won’t, as they will have a more protected and age appropriate upbringing. He will probably think that they are a ‘young’ 18 whereas he considered himself a fully fledged adult at 18.