Sandra Bullock sent a clear and silent message to the world earlier this week when she was photographed stepping out for a “hike,” her bare ring finger visible as she sipped a cup of coffee. That first photo was set up by the same non-paparazzi agency that helped Tiger Woods document his post scandal golf outing, Getty, and was reportedly worth upwards of $75,000. (Earlier reports had it priced at $60,000.) Popeater quotes a public relationship expert who thinks that of course it was staged but that it wasn’t a stunt and was more like a quiet way of telling everyone that she was doing ok.
Sandra is weighing her options but isn’t about to stick with Jesse, if reports are to be believed. According to sources quoted by Fox News, she’s planning to divorce him but is making sure that she does it in a way that is sensitive to his three children.
Now, a friend of Sandra and her cheating husband Jesse James tells Fox 411.com that the Oscar-winning actress has a “master plan” to end their six-year marriage.
“[The infidelity scandal has] broken her heart, and they will divorce,” the source told Fox411.com. “She is trying to pick her way through the mess and all the stress of knowing his three children will be hurt no matter what happens. The kids are what is holding her back from filing for the divorce immediately. It’s been tough and she wants to find a balance for them – they deserve some stability, even through the divorce.”
“With Jesse in rehab, she is trying to tread lightly. Sandra is doing this on her own timeline and refuses to budge or give in to people who say she should divorce him immediately,” the source explained. “Jesse and his children are her family and in some ways always will be. She is not ready to scrap it all as fast as possible. She’s taken some time off and plans to stay out of the spotlight. Sandra and Jesse will talk again, but divorce will happen. She has a master plan.”
The insider said Bullock has definitely come to grips with the fact that James was not the guy she thought he was.
“Sandra got to be with a side of Jesse that he rarely gave to anyone else and now she’s seeing what everyone else always saw,” the pal said. “They were truly from different worlds and Sandra sees that Jesse lived a double life with her. She’s so level-headed and grounded and that is what is getting her through this.”
[From Fox News]
It’s not easy to divorce someone you’ve spent years with and expected to spend the rest of your life with, no matter what they’ve done to you. Sometimes things that can seem clear cut to those on the outside can be cloudy with emotion and happy memories to those dealing with it. When you find out that your husband is not the person you thought he was it can take a long time to come to terms with how much different he really is. I guess I’m saying that I don’t blame Sandra for taking her time and not issuing a statement yet.
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