Sara Foster also does it with her husband in the shower, is this a thing?

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Yesterday I marveled over the fact that actress Joanna Swisher said that her husband could “get it, like every time I go in the shower.” Joanna and her husband, former baseball pro Nick Swisher, did a joint interview where it was obvious that they have a healthy sex life and are still crazy about each other. A lot of you commented that you have similar arrangements with your husbands. Some of you have sex every day despite having small kids and being married for years, which I just couldn’t relate to. Well Bumble creative director Sara Foster (David Foster’s daughter) has a similar story and she’s also married to a former sports pro, tennis star Tommy Haas. She was interviewed by Motherlucker also, the same Facebook series that interviewed the Swishers, and she said that she does it with her husband in the shower because they co-sleep with their seven-year-old daughter and need some privacy. They also have a two year-old daughter. OK, is it just a coincidence that Motherlucker is interviewing all these shower sex people or are they planting ideas in their head?

How was being pregnant?
Pregnancy was awful. I hate being pregnant. I hate people that like being pregnant, I don’t want to be their friend. I had bloody noses. I was very swollen. I had a mustache [melasma].

What did you used to judge moms for that you don’t now?
I was really judge-y with my first cause I didn’t have a baby nurse. I wanted a medal, I wanted gifts, diamonds like all those things and you don’t get any of those, you just get dark circles under your eyes. So I was really judge-y about, ‘Oh really you have a baby nurse? You hired a baby nurse to raise your baby, that’s cool.’ And then I had a baby nurse my second baby, and I felt bad about all the people I talked s—t about.

I think we get judged if we have help.

On date nights with her husband.
I think it’s so important to carve that out,” she explained. “It’s important for the relationship, it’s important for the kids to see their parents putting the time in. I think that it’s our responsibility to show our children what a healthy relationship looks like. That’s our responsibility as parents.

Do you let the girls sleep in your bed?
The two year-old doesn’t want to. The older one, I think she might be in my bed until she’s 18.

If V sleeps in your bed how do you have sex?
I think the shower might be a safe place. It’s the only area where there is a lock on the door. There’s a lot of shower action happening. Car action.

[From Facebook via US Magazine]

Whenever I’ve tried to have sex in the shower it’s been much more logistically difficult than just being dry and doing it on a bed or couch. Maybe these celebrities have amazing big showers with built in benches and multiple ledges though, that would explain why it’s a better option for them. It always feels like there’s never enough room in the shower and like the positioning is awkward. Plus one person ends up not getting enough hot water. I want to be rich enough that I have multiple shower heads, at least one on each side of my giant walk in shower with the sex ledges. Universe make it happen.

This is a sponcon but her kids are in it:

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  1. Alexandria says:

    I personally think sex in the shower is overrated.

    • Nancy says:

      When you’re in the first phase of your relationship, it’s good anywhere. She obviously hates pregnancy and those of us who don’t. Just for the record, I don’t like her either….TBH, I don’t even know who she is. Just in case she’s reading this, haha, try doing it taking a bath, sure she has a big tub. Much more fun.

    • SilverUnicorn says:

      I had once and it was not great. But the worst disaster ever happened 2 decades ago in a bathtub. I still remember all the towels around because we ended up flooding half of the house. No, thank you 😀

      Clearly, as someone who always had very low sex drive, I don’t relate to ‘every day sex’ at all. If my marriage could survive doing it 12 times a year, I would sign up for it LOL and thank God my husband has a low one too.
      #ShowerIsNotForAll

      P.S. I don’t know who this lady is and why she’s even saying this stuff ….

    • Christo says:

      I personally am so over Z-list people sharing details about their lives as if somehow it matters to anyone outside their shower. So you f—k in the shower…..and???

      • Nancy says:

        Hahaha! I don’t think she’s on a list, who the f is she?? We peasants can only do it missionary style pulling twins beds together and separating them after like Lucy and Ricky in the 50’s! She’s just simply too cool for school.

  2. Abby says:

    I used to have such a crush on Tommy Haas in high school.

    Shower is not my favorite. We’ve tried it. Someone’s always getting cold, and I have curly hair I only wash every few days so i don’t want to get it wet every time unless I’m washing it–and I’m weird about how I wash it if I’m styling it curly. I guess I’m just a stick in the mud, but it’s not a spot I really like having sex.

    I’d much rather a soft comfy bed. Even the tub would be better because we have a big garden tub.

  3. skipper says:

    I hate shower sex. It’s not comfortable. It’s “drying”. Not enough room and someone is always either too hot or too cold. On the other hand, these women probably have huge showers with double shower heads and plenty of room and padding for everyone to be as comfortable as possible. I’m not shaming at all. In fact, I wish my husband I were so lucky. Get yours, ladies!

    • dietcokehead says:

      Duplicate. 🙁

    • dietcokehead says:

      We have a really nice shower but shower sex is no-go for us. We used to, then my husband admitted he was always roasting alive because I enjoy really hot water. Meh, I think it sounds more exciting than it is in practice.

      • skipper says:

        I agree! When my husband and I first met, he was obsessed with shower, bath sex and I hated it but I took it for the team to satisfy him but that wore off very quickly. lol!

      • BCity says:

        Right?! 🤣. Our problem isn’t the actual shower, it’s that I’m 5’ 1” and my husband is 6’ 3”, so ledges are no help. Bleacher risers might do it but who has that kind of room?! 😂😂

      • SM says:

        @dietcokehead, yes, exactly. We also have a nice big shower. But usually I would not get the shower water because I woukd have ro be by the wall and then my husband would complain that he is too hot. I like hot shower, which means we almost never shower together.
        On the other note- how do you sleep with a 7 year old in your bed? It must be uncomfortable and weird.

    • Who ARE These People? says:

      Can we compromise at shower making-out?

      • skipper says:

        Yes! A good make out sesh, maybe a little foreplay then dry off a bit and move it to the bedroom!

      • Darla says:

        Yep. This is the best. Soapy foreplay, and then to the bed for very dirty clean sex because you are both squeaky. Actual intercourse in the shower, not enjoyable for me.

  4. Eleonor says:

    It sounds hotter than it really is.

  5. Elisabeth says:

    I have no idea who this woman is but I can’t stand her. What a miserable woman

  6. Andrea says:

    Sex in the shower is great for a quickie. You know what position gets you off and clean up is easy. Its not the time to experiment.

    • Lizzie says:

      agree. sometimes you need to grip it and rip it and move on to the next thing. we just moved and the shower in our bathroom is not big enough for two and there is no ledge and our sex life has taken a hit. we didn’t realize how much action the shower saw until we didn’t have it anymore.

  7. CommentingBunny says:

    Shower sex is not for me. I worry about slipping lol. And there are certain things you can’t do without getting mouthfuls of water and spluttering! But it’s really sweet that these couples are enjoying themselves and each other.

    Side note – co-sleeping at 7 is also not for me …. I don’t get the benefits at that age. I’m sorry to be judgey. It just seems like the kid wouldn’t learn how to sleep on her own, wouldn’t learn to value other people’s boundaries and privacy, etc. There’s probably good sides that I just don’t understand. Anyone out there willing and able to educate me?

    • Who ARE These People? says:

      The 7-year-old caught my eye, too. I thought co-sleeping was just for the little ones, and then only when it’s safe for infants?

    • deezee says:

      My partner and her mom co-slept until she was 17 and my brother and mom co-slept until he was 14. My bother and mom have a close relationship. My partner and her mom have a close relationship. Me, the non co-sleeper, I don’t like anyone and always want to be alone. LOL

      • IMUCU says:

        I never thought of it as co-sleeping, but my disabled mom tended to spend a lot of time in her room, and it was the coolest in the no-ac-house in the summer, so there were many afternoons I’d go lay down, watch tv, and take a nap next to her, on my dad’s side of the bed (since he’d be out some place). Did that up until I left for college. I slept in my own room at night. So, I guess I did a kind of co-sleeping?

    • BCity says:

      Yes!! Omg I fear the slippage too. With a foot-plus height difference going on, my only option is to turn around and back it on up, but I have no desire to headbutt a marble slab à la The Situation. No ma’am! 😂😂

  8. jessamine says:

    I mean … we never plan on shower sex; the hubs is never like “okay let’s get in the shower and do it” lol and it is super awkward because we have a small shower/tub combo and I have some concern about someone slipping and cracking their head open … but all in all the cons add to the fun and spontaneity and the “hey we’re really into each other so let’s make this work” so it still happens on the semi-regular even though we have other, more logistically sensible options.

  9. Mabs A'Mabbin says:

    Bathtub sex, shower sex, beach sex, car sex, even camping sex… All of it sounds better than it really is lol.

    • Esmom says:

      Agreed, lol. Unless, as someone pointed out, the relationship is new and you’ll do it anywhere.

      I lol’d at “the sex ledges.” Lots of showers I see in fancy home designs are just huge open spaces. I guess that would work but I am way past the point of even imagining it.

      • Mabs A'Mabbin says:

        “Unless, as someone pointed out, the relationship is new and you’ll do it anywhere.”

        Exactly. But this is, incidentally, how one learns of such things heh heh.

    • Corrine says:

      Lol, I had a visceral memory of beach sex while reading your comment and I fully agree. Sand everywhere.

    • Who ARE These People? says:

      Sofa sex is good, but it’s more like bed sex.

  10. Emily says:

    I like sex after I’ve been in the water because I feel clean and I’m already naked but not during. The water washes away natural lubricant and the height difference between my husband and I makes it awkward. Maybe if I had benches in the shower but it’s a boring shower bathtub combo.

  11. Chingona says:

    Shower sex is not so fun in a small shower but most of these people probably have huge showers. We have built huge yachts with showers bigger that most people’s bedrooms. One celeb had a shower that was 900 sq ft with climate control, heated floors,multiple shower heads from all angles, mist sprayers, televisions, padded seating, etc all of this just in his shower. So rich people shower sex and regular people shower sex are two very different things.

    • Who ARE These People? says:

      This is one of those epic Celebitchy comment threads. We learn so much.

    • helonearth says:

      So true. Only time I really enjoyed shower sex was staying at an over the top hotel. The shower was bigger than my bathroom at home. Two showerheads, seating at each end and a non-slip floor.

      These people’s bathrooms are probably on another level of luxury.

    • Helen says:

      lmao “rich people shower sex,” so not only is there income inequality but there is also shower sex inequality.!!!

    • Castle Toz says:

      My entire HOUSE is 850sq ft. I need to see that shower! Only fancy showers I’ve ever seen that would work for good sexy time showers have been on work trips when I’m alone, its always a bummer. 🙁

      • Chingona says:

        I wish I could post the pics of said shower as it so over the top. Oh, and that shower was definitely used as a sex shower as that celeb was/is a sex addict or so they claim, allegedly.

    • SM says:

      We stayed at this fancy hotel once witb huge bathroom with open shower. I can’t figure out why would anyone want a complitely open shower and a space that does not get enough warmth from the shower steam? I mean I got cold trying to shower, my son got cold in it and I would not consider to ever stay in it any longer than absolutely necessary. It’s cold. Thr only thing the shower should not be is cold.

  12. Trillian says:

    The bathroom/shower time is like the only me time I get in this fricking madhouse. So woe betide anyone sneaking in. My shower is MY shower. So there.

    • Mel M says:

      LOL, I’m the same. With four kids 6 and under I’m so touched out by the end of the day the shower is my only retreat.

  13. Beth says:

    My boyfriends have all been a lot taller than me,so shower sex was always difficult and akward in the small, slippery shower. Swimming pool sex was always easier and more enjoyable

  14. Tania says:

    We have a nice walk in shower with 2 shower heads on one side of the wall, another on the other side and one overhead. I never thought I was rich until now! It also has a bench. So it’s easy to have a quickie in it and each has different water temperature likes so we’ve found a comfortable position for both of us.

    Now this is one more thing I’ll miss about this house too big for us when we downsize in the next few months!

  15. Meredith says:

    If we ever buy a house a again, I’m going to tell my realtor we need “sex ledges” in the shower.

    Tried it once when we were dating and we never did it again. Foreplay and making out in the shower happens, but nothing more than that. Give me a nice bed or couch or, my favorite, an ottoman.

  16. Kathryn says:

    None for us! We are fat and our shower is small, haha.

  17. Tanya says:

    I have 3 small kids. The bathroom is the only door with a lock.

  18. savu says:

    We like shower sex, but for both of us it… reduces the sensation and sensitivity. But he goes to work before I do, so it’s super fun to jump in when he’s not expecting it. More than that though sometimes we shower together just to shower together, or we’ll be in there together for a few minutes while switching off. There’s something really intimate about that!

  19. KatieBo says:

    The Foster sisters are exhausting.

  20. Sharylmj says:

    In our house, the shower is pretty much the only place to get a little bit of privacy….
    so we have shower sex a lot, but also like savu said, we just like to take actual showers together.
    You know – wash each others back etc…

  21. Pandy says:

    Allow me to be judgey – SEVEN IS WAY TOO OLD TO STILL SLEEP WITH PARENTS>

  22. meh says:

    Do they not have enough money to buy their 7 year old her own bed, or….?