Amber Heard seemed unbothered by Johnny Depp’s continuing abusive pettiness

Amber Heard seen leaving the PAP F/W 2019/2020 Giambattista Valli fashion show

Here are some photos of Amber Heard at yesterday’s Giambattista Valli show during Paris Fashion Week. Amber seemingly flew in to Paris a few days ago to attend some PFW events and shows. She made sure to pose for photos, looking happy and unbothered. It’s Amber’s version of counterprogramming, because Johnny Depp is suing her for $50 million for “defamation.” As we discussed yesterday, Depp is still targeting Amber because she has dared to call herself a survivor of abuse. Heard has honored the non-disclosure agreement tied to their divorce – she’s always very careful about what she says and writes about their marriage, but Depp still can’t let it go. As many of you pointed out, this is an example of his continued abuse of Amber, his inability to let it go. He’s forcing his way into her life through lawsuits and he’s trying to financially abuse her, which is what he did with the divorce settlement too, when he initially refused to simply pay her the money so she could donate it to charity. He’s an absolute tool.

One of Depp’s main claims in the defamation lawsuit is that Amber cheated on him with Elon Musk starting just one month into their marriage. Depp’s evidence is that a security guard in their former LA building claims he let Musk into their apartment while Depp was away. Elon denies the affair:

A security guard at the building where Amber Heard used to live with Johnny Depp testified under oath that he saw Elon Musk visiting Heard while Depp was off filming a “Pirates of the Caribbean” movie, and the whole thing felt “wrong” to him. According to court documents obtained by The Blast, Alex Romero gave a deposition to Depp’s attorneys on January 30, 2019. Although Romero was deposed during the former couple’s divorce, this deposition came as part of Depp’s ongoing legal battle with his former attorneys.

In the transcript, Romero says he would often buzz Musk into the building “late at night,” around 11:00 PM or midnight. He says he would clock out at 1:00 AM and Musk would still be there when his shift was over. Romero claims that Musk would visit the building “a few times a week.” According to the transcript, Romero recalled a time when he talked to his supervisor about Musk’s visits to Heard, saying, “I told her it was really bad that I saw Elon Musk going inside the penthouse when Johnny Depp was not home.”

Romero testified that he remembered an occasion when Musk visited while “Johnny Depp was in the Caribbean filming a movie.” He said he that escorted Musk to Heard’s apartment with Depp in March 2015, shortly after the couple had a blowout argument where Depp claims she threw a glass vodka bottle at him, which resulted in Depp having to have his finger surgically reattached.

At one point, Romero said Musk’s visits did not feel “right” to him. When asked to explain, Romero said, “Well, she’s a female, he’s a male. Both of them by themselves upstairs is, you know, she’s married. I don’t know Elon Musk personally. I don’t know if he’s married or not. I don’t know anything about his personal life.

A rep for Elon Musk tells The Blast, “Elon and Amber didn’t start seeing each other until May 2016, and even then it was infrequent. They were not on the same continent for most of this time. Their relationship didn’t become romantic until much later.”

[From The Blast]

First of all, I feel like this security guard is getting paid to say certain things. Second of all, I could care less about whether Amber was cheating on Depp with Musk at this point. I mean, it would have been interesting gossip in 2014, but right now, this just seems like a pathetic obsession from Depp. He’s the one who can’t let it go – his ex-wife has moved on and he’s still clinging to the old grudges. It’s strange that his lawsuit is supposed to be some kind of clapback against claims that he abused Amber and it’s just further proof that he abused her and is still abusing her.

Photocall of the PAP F/W 2019/2020 Giambattista Valli fashion show

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  1. Des says:

    Congratulations and welcome to the discovery process Johnny Depp! Shouldn’t have let go of your fancy managers, agents, and lawyers and hired a bunch of people who will evidently do anything to take your money.

  2. Jess says:

    He is such trash. And I hope she’s doing ok. I have an emotionally abusive ex (that I still have to support!) that likes to make crazy allegations and threaten litigation every once in a while because he’s mad I’m doing better without him (and better than him). And even though I know it’s just his crazy pattern I still let it make me nervous and worried. So if Amber can avoid that I’m impressed and happy for her.

    • velourazure says:

      Ugggh. Sorry for that. Supporting a loser who you want out of your life is the worst.

    • Christina says:

      Jess, you have a fan. Rooting for you!!!

    • Ravensdaughter says:

      Hold your head up high, Jess, and may Amber do the same.

      • Jess says:

        Thanks all. It helps to know others are going through this and, in the end, the losers (like Depp and my ex and AnnieFannie’s ex) are the ones who are going to be left in the dirt, even if they try to drag us down into the mud with them.

    • Miffy says:

      A day late to the party, Jess but I’m rooting for you. I too have an emotionally abusive ex and it is exhausting. The day my now fiance and I announced our engagement my ex text me ‘Enjoy yourself now because I’m going to ruin your life.’ We’ve been in court since and it’s gotten nasty. Be so careful about who you let in to your life because you might not be able to get away from them.

    • Paris says:

      no,you are a trash. REAL trash.

      • Tiffany :) says:

        I think we’ve found Jess’s emotionally abusive ex and he goes by the username Paris.

  3. Jennifer says:

    He’s so gross. Amber Heard looks amazing in these pics (I’d love to see 10 extra lbs, but looks amazing nonetheless), no wonder he can’t let it go. She’s not supposed to leave him and then look better than ever and succeed professionally. Johnny Depp wants her to suffer and she’s not giving him a whole lot to work with, so he sues her to rehash their marital issues. So disgusting.

  4. ByTheSea says:

    I’m guessing he used up all his money and is trying to get a hold of Amber’s Aquaman dollars.

    This security guard is saying these things under oath, so I’m inclined to think that he believes it’s true. That being said, Amber could have been cheating AND Johnny Depp could be an abusive a-hole. They are not mutually exclusive.

  5. mtam says:

    Thanks for pointing out he’s been trying to financially abuse her for a while now (this being the latest, most aggressive way). I feel it doesn’t get discussed enough that emotional and or physical abusers often also target their victims monetarily in order to keep or regain some control. It’s just another level of awfulness, which many people of lesser means trying to escape find it’s one of the most complicated things to do.

  6. Agirlandherdog says:

    Kaiser, you forgot a third point… the entire argument is based on the premise that the only reason a man would enter a married woman’s home while her husband is away is for sex. He didn’t see them having sex. He didn’t see them engaging in any kind of physical touching whatsoever. His entire reason for believing they were having an affair is because it’s “wrong” for a married woman to have a man in her home while he husband is away. Which is bullsh*t. Men and women can be friends. There are tons of reasons he could have been here. Here’s an interesting one. Maybe Musk knew Depp was an abusive POS and was going over there when he wasn’t home to try to talk Amber into leaving. Who knows. I don’t really care what they were doing. But I do object to the proposition that a married woman who spends time with another man without her husband present is some kind of jezebel, cheating on her husband.

    • Erinn says:

      This was exactly my line of thinking, too. I think it’s possible that he was checking in on her – especially if a visit followed a blow out of a fight. And I find the guard SO unreliable. It only started to bother him part way through – not at first. So… once his boss started to pressure him to make a statement?

      The timing of this whole thing is hilariously transparent. He’s run through so much money – and she’s making more now. Her movie surpassed all of his in sales. Pretty basic math.

    • TQB says:

      EXACTLY MY THOUGHT. “I don’t really care what they were doing.”

    • otaku fairy... says:

      Depp putting out his suspicion that Amber had an affair with Elon Musk is likely meant to appeal to misogynists who have a hard time seeing women they find sexually immoral/ improper as anything but ‘trash’. Already having this mentality about women can make a person (be they male or female) more likely to feel that she deserves the way she’s been treated. It can also make a person see the woman as to blame (entirely or partially) for the abuse even if the misogynist is willing to acknowledge that she doesn’t deserve it, because “how could men or others not abuse if women are going to make such a poor decision”.

      It also appeals to the kind of misogynist who feels that if a female is ‘trash’ or ‘thirsty’, (which some have said about Amber in different ways), she’ll do anything and is guilty of anything she can be accused of- including lying about serious subjects like abuse. Abusive men will absolutely exploit the excuses a society provides for them and capitalize on society’s contempt for certain categories of women when they want to victimize, revictimize, or get away with shit. That’s what Depp is doing.

  7. mela says:

    Cheating is not against the law and he was probably a shoulder to cry on during the abuse.

    I believe Amber, not Johnny. Abusers often drag their victims through court battles and accuse their victims of abuse in a way to deflect, minimize and distract from their apalling abusive behavior. This is SO transparent and pathetic!

    • TQB says:

      It’s also not a defense to abuse claims, nor does it fly as a reason to not believe her abuse claims (which is totally what it is being presented as).

    • Paris says:

      you believe amber because you have no brain

  8. anniefannie says:

    I just wrapped ( or what I thought was wrapped ) a 4 1/2 year divorce. My ex has money to burn and despite an extremely favorable ( for him ) conclusion he filed an appeal the day b4 the divorce would be finalized. I initially was disgusted with the judiciary but have come to realize he’s gummed up the courts whenever possible.
    Clearly my mistake was revealing to him that I’ve moved on….

    • Ali says:

      I’m so sorry. I don’t think people really understand how hard it is to get abusive people to leave you alone when they have the means and motive (crazy thoughts) to keep up the harassment in so many pseudo legal ways.

      • Jess says:

        Agree with Ali. So sorry you have to deal with this AnnieFannie. I have to believe that long term these losers are the ones that suffer, even if they can make you miserable in the short term.

  9. Case says:

    1) I have no doubt in my mind Johnny would pay people to lie for him.
    2) Even if the security guard isn’t lying, there’s no proof she cheated.
    3) Even if she did cheat, that doesn’t have anything to do with being physically and emotionally abused.

  10. Christina says:

    Amber, Jess, Anniefrank and many others are living my nightmare. Mine is in jail on another matter now, and he’s been declared a vexatious litigant, but he will get out of jail and will be back on his campaign to destroy me. This happens to a lot of women, and nobody talks about it. Thank you, Kaiser, for focusing on the parts of the stories that no one in the media focuses on until these dudes kills us or spray bullets into a crowd of people. The media doesn’t focus on how men need to move on and control their emotions and stop with the crap. Women as the possessions of men is a tired, dangerous trope. The security guard can go screw himself. His opinion doesn’t matter: they are divorced, but women are supposed to be punished if there is suspicion of HER cheating. It makes me so angry.

    • Jess says:

      Christina, so sorry you’re having to deal with such a nightmare. And you’re right, there isn’t enough focus on all of the ways (short of physical abuse, assault, or murder) that these abusive men torment their partners (past and present) and want to make their lives miserable.

  11. Rae says:

    I just want to say how grateful I am for this site. We seem in the minority when it comes to this situation.

  12. Valiantly Varnished says:

    This is one of the reasons I root so hard for Amber Heard. Aside from her humanitarian work. She has moved on and is showing how strong she is in the way she has done so. She isn’t hiding away. She is living her life and is doing BETTER than she was with Depp. Which is what this is all about. She is in one of the highest grossing superhero films ever and has sponsorships and beauty contracts. Meanwhile his career is in shambles just like his bank account. This is his way of still abusing her and making her “pay”. It reminds me of how Brad Pitt wouldn’t let Angelina back into their home to collect her and the kids’ things when she left him. And then gave her a “loan” so she could buy someplace for them to stay. Financial abuse is a very real thing

    • Yawn says:

      Ehhhh I don’t know how “in shambles” his career is… one look at IMDB and you’ll see that he has loads of things lined up… smh

    • Shockadelica says:


  13. steen says:

    This is absolutely ridiculous. Who cares if she cheated on him at tis point. It makes him look pathetic. Move on.

  14. CA Family Code says:

    I’m trying to understand where his legal team is going with the accusation that Musk was seen coming and going when Depp is out of town since a month after their marriage unless he is trying to show that the marriage was a scam. It doesn’t matter any way. Their divorce is final. I believe Depp abused Heard, but I also believe she is in trouble here. You can claim that witnesses are being paid off which is plausible, but they are from all walks of life. Two cops, two body guards, four building employees (including the general manager of the building), have all testified that Amber did not have any marks at all on her until six days after the ‘altercation’ (the day of her TRO hearing) but the witness that corroborated the same thing, who to me is most damaging, is the neighbor Issac Baruch who said some very damning things about Amber and her injuries. The point is whether or not these witnesses have been paid off (which is debatable) they have already testified under oath in depositions in the UK case. In addition, there was a judgment on a hearing which says that there is no reason why Heard should not be able to testify in the case in support of the defendants “truth defense”. She won’t be protected by the confidentiality agreement which was why she wasn’t going to testify according to her attorneys. Is it possible that she actually doesn’t want to testify in support of defense in that case? I’m looking at this objectively and see there is a lot of drama still to come and it ain’t gonna be about a tryst with Musk.

    • Christina says:

      If he proves that the marriage was a sham, he can try to get it annulled and have the settlement thrown out. Then she owes him money. He may not get away with it, or he may get away with it. The lawyers just want to get paid, so they are looking for a way in to destroy the settlement. He has enough money to burn on this. She IS in legal jeopardy, and he is willing to do whatever it takes to win at this point. He is using the court system to keep abusing her. A normal person would cut his losses, but an abuser is keeping score and looking for ways to win. He may win according to the letter of the law, but he is doing it because he needs to feel in control, not because of “justice”.

    • Shockadelica says:

      All these people who testified that they saw her bruises have never heard of makeup. She has witnesses on her side who saw bruises for years and medical records. I’m sure her lawyers told her to go to a doctor so that her latest bruises can be on record. She also has texts from his assistant saying Depp was sorry that he kicked her! Her iCloud was forensically imaged to see if her messages were real and of course they were.

  15. Sue Denim says:

    I think the argument he’s making (essentially) is that he had a right to abuse her because she was cheating, again part and parcel of the abuser’s mindset. She’s bad, therefore, surely you can see why she made me do what I did…and alas too many will surely agree…

    • jay says:

      And when they publicly agree with this “she made me do it” defence because they just can’t help themselves, we’ll know EXACTLY who they are. I’m all for idiots showing their asses.

    • A.Key says:

      Unfortunately many men, especially older men from his generation, think like this…

  16. schmootc says:

    This is like that jackass Sofia Vergara used to date and his embryo obsession. Jesus, let it go!!

  17. Xtrology says:

    You have not lived until you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist and a malignant one at that. This is called hoovering. He can’t let her go. He will never, in his demented mind, let her go.

  18. Hmmm says:

    She looks pretty.

  19. Really says:

    She looks great, healthy and has a strong support system, I wish her the best and I wish him to be dropped by movie roles so everybody can ignore this piece of trash already.

  20. Delilah says:

    I am so happy for Amber! Domestic violence is not always talked about, and it makes me happy to see a victim come out as a survivor. I am also a survivor of abuse and my ex is still abusing me, he is just using the court system now to do so! And, like most abusers, since he can’t physically abuse me anymore, he is financially and emotionally abusing me…

  21. jay says:

    If this is true, it has nothing to do with defamation and he’s using the lawsuit as a guise to embarrass her. And if it isn’t true, he is actually committing defamation agains the person he’s suing for defamation.

    Either way, he’s an absolute f*cking loser.

  22. MangoAngel says:

    Brilliant idea, Johnny. Bring the multi-billionaire into the money-grabbing assault you’ve got going. That can only go well for you. *massive eyeroll*

  23. Shockadelica says:

    “Romero testified that he remembered an occasion when Musk visited while “Johnny Depp was in the Caribbean filming a movie.”

    What? That movie was filmed in Australia.

    “Depp claims she threw a glass vodka bottle at him, which resulted in Depp having to have his finger surgically reattached”

    Again, he was in Australia alone when he hurt his hand and had to fly home to get surgery. There’s videos of him in Australia getting on the plane to fly home. Did he forget about that. What a damn liar! Get some help and LET GO!

  24. Vox says:

    It is the WORST to leave an abusive relationship and have that ex not. let. go.

    I haven’t said a word to my abusive, NPD ex in well over a year since I blocked her on everything possible (fortunately she lives in a different part of the country, although she has previously flown over to see me while we were broken up she’s a coward and never actually made it to my house). She still called me frequently on a ‘No Caller ID number’. I fell for it the first time, not knowing who was calling, but since that experience I have never picked up a call from a number I don’t know. If they need me that badly they can leave a voice mail.

    Unfortunately, after calling several times in a row and then actually leaving me a voice mail I opened the voice mail, not thinking it was her since it didn’t fit her pattern of behaviour. I only listened for three seconds, which was long enough to be disgusted by her attempts at manipulation (she acted like this was the first time she’d ever called and had her fake ‘nice’ voice on that she’s bragged about using to fool other people) and I hung up. I felt so violated just hearing her voice. Thankfully the act of leaving the mail let me block the number finally and she hasn’t contacted me since. That was a couple of months ago and I still have nightmares about forced contact with her, although I’ve been working through it with my therapist. I’m finally getting to the point where I stand up to her in my dreams so I don’t have to repeat ‘it’s not real’ over and over in my head for a solid five minutes after I wake up.

    She groomed me as a teenager and stole literally half my life. She is subhuman.

  25. Lex says:

    Lol he is a giant sad case

    I also saw written he is suing his former managers AND his former lawyers
    Maybe, just MAYBE the problem is you Johnny! Time for some introspection.