Kristin Cavallari probably used Jay Cutler’s Instagram to wish herself Happy Mother’s Day

Many outlets were reporting on the nice message Jay Cutler left for Kristin Cavallari for Mother’s Day on the Instagram account with very few posts, under the name IfJayHadInstagram. As you can see above, it was a nice photo from behind of Kristin with their kids, son Camden, 7, and Jaxon, 6, and daughter Saylor, 4. The caption reads “Happy Mother’s day to all the moms. These 3 little ones picked a good one.” It was a sweet sentiment, especially considering how petty and one-sided the stories about their relationship have been. The last we heard, sources close to Kristin were calling Jay “lazy” and “unmotivated” after he retired from the NFL, only to deny that to other outlets, which has been her team’s MO for a while. So it was a nice sentiment for Jay to put aside their differences at this time. Only it probably wasn’t Jay who posted that. So many commenters pointed out that Kristin has admitted she runs Jay’s Instagram, hence the name.

Q: Does she still control the ig? 😆
reply: I don’t know for sure but his old bio used to say account not run by jay but a really close friend so I’m pretty sure it’s her
reply: Jay and K also said and admitted it on an episode and podcast BUT things could’ve changed since then.. I’m REALLY hoping it’s him or it just got real petty!

Kristin you should give Jay his Instagram back

Kristin, get off his account

Kristin, babe, we know you run this account. Happy Mother’s Day though.

This is really gross. If jay had instagram..he wouldn’t post this. Tell your media team this post is insensitive and disrespectful to Jay.

[From Instagram via Cosmopolitan]

There were plenty more comments along those lines, and of course this is more consistent with what we’ve seen from Kristin so far. I’m not saying Jay wasn’t a crap partner, just that we’re definitely hearing only one side and it’s been negative to Jay so far. Plus why would he post this if he didn’t even control his Instagram account?

Oh and look, Kristin made a post with her kids from behind too, and the wording is almost the same, including the phrases “these 3” and “Happy Mother’s Day to all of the moms.” Huh, go figure. You would think she would be better with this, but maybe she wanted us to notice and talk about her.

She probably wants us to think these flowers are from Jay too.



Photos credit: WENN and via Instagram

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  1. Scollins says:

    That blue and white dress is just fkn awful. Too Minnie Pearl. Kristin is insufferable. Jay’s doing a good job thinking of the kids first instead of getting down and dirty in the press.

  2. Erinn says:

    I’m kind of impressed that he’s stayed quiet with all the baiting she’s been doing.

  3. Yoyo says:

    I saw a clip of their show, kristen said my house and Jay said what’s this with “my house.”
    He was bitching about packing, wondering why the people she hired did not finish the job.

  4. Sequinedheart says:

    I 100% thought “doesn’t she run his account, isn’t that just her wishing herself a happy Mother’s Day?” When I saw that 🤮🤮🤮

  5. Case says:

    Isn’t this a weird move for her because it makes him look good? To those who don’t realize she runs the account, it looks like Jay is wishing his estranged wife a happy Mother’s Day in the middle of their divorce drama.

    • Meg says:

      Lol yeah that’s what I thought too. Remember the 9/11 post her ‘team’ posted that was called out for being insensitive? So unless her social media team is new since then they are also behind this and still aren’t good at their jobs

    • Mara says:

      Good question

  6. JP says:

    She gave him control of his IG when they split. He started following a lot of people (used to be 0) and updated his bio to include “…and now I do”. Noticed they started following each other on IG though, because she unfollowed him and now is following him again.

    Speaking of following, Jennifer Garner is following Ben’s private IG now too 😂

    • Original Jenns says:

      I love Insta-gossip. It feels so high school. All we need is the old MySpace Top 10 Friends to reaqlly get the drama rolling!

    • Bucky says:

      I can’t decide which scenario is more embarrassing to her.

    • Kebbie says:

      Yeah, I think he’s running it now and was just being the bigger person and extending an olive branch.

      I think it’s hilarious that she’s the one with the PR team and she’s come out of this looking so much worse than him. All that mudslinging and he refused to take the bait and join in.

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  8. josephine says:

    It’s funny how many people think that he would not or even should not wish her a HMD just because they are getting a divorce. They do realize that she will always be the mom, right? I don’t care about either of these two – she seems insufferable but I guess at least she hustles. He seems arrogant and was kind of a jerk to her on that show, but who knows how real any of that is. But the bottom line is that people went crazy about a simple post that may well have come from him. Boredom causes people to melt down at the littlest thing.

  9. Chrissyms says:

    WTH is she doing? Maybe she was the annoying and hard to deal with one in the marriage? I originally thought maybe it was the other way around, but this move is so out of touch, sad and manipulative. That and her calling a Pro NFL player “Lazy” lol. I just can’t with this chick.

  10. RoyalBlue says:

    divorce is hard and i see her strategy is to talk about it. i wish she would do that solely with a therapist.

  11. molly says:

    She’s always avoided showing the kids’ faces on social media or the show. I wouldn’t look too deep into both photos being from the back. That seems to be her/their family policy.

  12. Feedmechips says:

    If she posted this under his name, she did him a favor by making him look respectful enough to wish happy mother’s day to the mother of his children despite the impending divorce.

  13. Mina_Esq says:

    If she wrote the post, that’s pretty sad.

  14. Jay says:

    It could be that they share a social media person who phoned in two posts OR…maybe she sent him a preview of her post and he just copied it? OR…maybe Jay Cutler has waited this long to unleash his #soblessed persona? Who knew? I feel Shane for giving this more than a moment’s thought. Deep shame.