Prince William isn’t ‘fazed’ by being a hands-on father in Kate’s absence

In case you’re wondering how Prince William is doing these days with his wife’s weeks-long hospitalization, surgery and projected months-long recovery, the answer is “fine.” We actually haven’t seen much of William in January, and he’s only been photographed once outside the London Clinic. Reportedly, those in the Berkshire/Windsor community believe he will not be “fazed” at all:

Prince William ‘won’t be fazed’ by parenting Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis while the Princess of Wales recovers from her surgery, an insider has claimed. The Prince of Wales, 41, is said to be a ‘hands-on’ father and is regularly seen dropping off and picking up his children at Lambrook School in Berkshire.

Speaking to HELLO!, an insider has claimed that the news of Kate’s surgery had ‘shocked’ the ‘close knit’ community of parents. They said: ‘He is a regular at the school gate and events and he’s very hands-on as a dad, so being in charge while Kate is away won’t faze him. They often do things as a full family unit and he’s very confident looking after the kids.’

On top of this, the source said the parents at Lambrook will ‘rally around [William] to offer any help they can’ in coming weeks.

[From The Daily Mail]

Sure. I actually believe that during Kate’s hospitalization, William and Nanny Maria probably have most things covered when it comes to the kids. Still, it’s weird that this is the message seemingly coming out of KP – everything’s fine, William has it covered, he’s not fazed in the least. Especially since there’s also a movement to make it sound like Kate’s absence will be felt dramatically all across the UK.

Kate Middleton’s absence from royal life has been “felt so hugely” that she’s now seen as an “irreplaceable” member of the family. According to brand and PR expert Denise Palmer-Davies, Kate’s stint in hospital has only cemented her place in the family and shown her to be “the most valuable jewel in the crown.”

Denise, director of Borne Media, told Fabulous: “Kate’s commitment and dedication to royal life is unquestionable, so her absence will be felt so hugely. It would be impossible for anyone else to step into her shoes during this time because there isn’t anyone who can do what she does. She is irreplaceable. Her knowledge and dedication to early years, and her work in shaping our future generation, is so unique to her and such a personal project that there isn’t another family member who can take the reins or slip into that role.

“Kate also has this incredible aura – much like her late mother in law, Princess Diana – that cannot be replicated. She has always been held in high regard by the King, and the late Queen, but I think now senior members are really feeling it – they are missing the most valuable jewel in the crown.”

Talk TV’s royal editor Sarah Hewson agrees, saying her break from royal life “highlights how central she is in the family.”

She said: “She’s one of its most popular members, she certainly is the most photographed. But it’s not about the number of engagements that she does, it’s about the impact that they have, and that she’s able to have, because when she does something, it gets noticed. As the late Queen said ‘We need to be seen to be believed’ so when Kate isn’t there, you really do notice it. She brings the star dust, and that’s really essential to a monarchy that needs to reach out to a younger generation. They are certainly missing her sparkle.”

Sarah added that had “things had been handled differently” by Prince Harry and Prince William, Harry and Meghan could have stepped up into Kate’s shoes.

“I think they could have been invaluable,” Sarah said. “They could have helped to relieve some of the burden and sprinkled the stardust where it’s needed.’

[From The Sun]

Kate is the jewel in the crown, the most valuable royal, the most important asset to the monarchy, and also William is doing fine without Kate around and he barely visiting her. Who is actually making the calls at Kensington Palace? I’m flabbergasted by the weeks of extremely strange messaging from William’s office. Also: all of this is going down before William hired a CEO to take over Kensington Palace. I keep going back and forth about whether this is just another instance where “royals can’t manage their way out of a wet paper bag” or something else entirely.

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  1. Cessily says:

    While the world is speculating about what actually is happening to your wife and just how serious it was or is, we have Peggy here to make it all about how wonderful he is.. yay for Peggy now take a 🍪 🙄

    • Eurydice says:

      The world: How is Kate?
      William: I’m doing fine, thanks.

    • StillDouchesOfCambridge says:

      How lazy azz can you be, to be the NEXT IN LINE, with your king father in the hospital, your wife in the hospital, with a full staff doing your cooking cleaning, gardening, driving, nannying your kids, you’re paid by the people, and you want to take your wife’s surgery as a reason to take off for months, MONTHS!!! when in 2 weeks you haven’t even visited your wife even twice?? And the first time was 3-4 days after she was admitted?? Another shtty daddy. Like I said so many times… smells like guilt to me.

  2. Of course he is fine with parenting because they have a nanny and school takes up the kids time. It is incredibly weird signaling. Just what is he going for with this?

    • Dee(2) says:

      Feels like, everything’s fine without her. Which is odd positioning when no one really knows what happened. And the press is still going with, she’s such an asset!! So instead of coming across like, this wasn’t that serious (in case you get opposing briefing saying it was), it comes across as I don’t give a crap about someone who has been in my life for 20 years, and with whom I share three children.

      • Is he signaling he is going to be a single parent? Or is this just Peg making it about him while she is absent?

      • Bri W. says:

        I agree with both of you.

        The messaging on this is wild. Instead of being the caring, doting husband who is also taking care of the kids while his wife is sick, it sounds as if he’s showcasing that he can do this on his own (single dad much?).

        It blows my mind that they can continually get their messaging/PR wrong.

      • Dee(2) says:

        @SusanCollins I don’t know. It’s been clear for a while that what he wants, and what the courtiers at KP and BP want aren’t always aligned. He may be trying to project the kids are fine, everyone is fine, no one is traumatized in case there is a divorce announcement this year. Instead though it comes across more as if Kate is a non-entity as far as he is concerned which is not the best look.

      • Bren says:

        William has been angling single dad for over a year. I don’t think the messaging is wrong; it’s intentional.

    • molly says:

      I think it’s a reminder how out of touch the BRF is with normal life. It’s 2024. Most parents would be “unfazed” by temporarily watching their own, school-aged children. Especially when they don’t have a job to worry about, and ESPECIALLY when they have hired help all over the place.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        William isn’t fazed by taking care of his own kids (with a full time nanny). But it begs the question, why should he be?

        And no one else can do what Kate does. No one else can do nothing?

  3. olliesmom says:

    They are acting like they don’t have any help at all normally. What is going on here? The narrative is all over the place.

    • Colleen says:

      Right!?! So strange. Also anytime anyone mentions how hands on they are at parenting and how involved they are the only thing mentioned is the school run. Is that all they do?

  4. moderatelywealthy says:

    The pieces of the puzzle:

    Nobody saw Kate entering or leaving the hospital.
    William is just seen once there
    Charles and Sarah released short, information filled PR statements of their own.
    Kensignton Palace statement was no statement, it was a riddle.
    They continue to speak in riddles.

    William tells us he has the kids, he is not fazed by having the kids by himself, probably would make peace with Harry now.
    Royal Rota suddenly respects privacy!

    January Royal Divorce story is buried.

    Other KP is TOO BAD at this or they want people to say whatever as long is not on the record.

    Maybe it is as simple as Kate having a huge plastic surgery because girl has not shown her face for a long time…or something very curious is happening.

    • WiththeAmerican says:

      And lead up:

      Months of Kate grabbing Will’s bum in public
      Will leaves Kate at home for important appearances
      Outed as royal racist
      Royal divorce rumors
      Will and Kate don’t show to Christmas lunch given by Charles
      Charles and Cam don’t show for Kates concert
      Christmas walk – everyone shows
      Royal cars seen going to hospital Dec 28

      • moderatelywealthy says:

        Also just last year we had:

        Kate arriving late for Charles coronation.
        Kate stealing Charles thunder with the flower show.
        Someone paying for ads outing Carole as a scammer.
        Kate not leaving for engagements that are not far from home.
        KP announcing Kate will not accompany William overseas.
        William and Kate not arriving together for family events.
        Camila authorizing her mouthpieces to link Kate to Diane and mental illness.

        William , as Prince of Wales, seems to have authorized some side operation to subtly disentangle his image from Kate because such stories were either generated by KP or did not receive any pushback from.

        Kate already blew a fuse when William was getting on with Rose and got herself severely burnt afterwards. For what Meghan and Harry disclosed, Kate can be very unhinged behind close doors when it comes to William,

        Maybe not, but I think whatever is going on with Kate has to do with William. The fact she cannot be seen and the royal rota is keeping away from it just tells me this is the type of secret everyone in the know know.

        Another deal with the press was made and they are covering William,

    • Dsss says:

      That’s what I thought….face lift

      • SarahLee says:

        No way. She would just go on vacation for that. They wouldn’t even say she was in the hospital.

    • Bean says:

      Random thought – William told Kate he wanted a divorce. Kate lost it. Kate is in the hospital (mental hospital? needing psychological treatment?) cue ‘William as a single father and unfazed’ story line.

      • Saucy&Sassy says:

        Bean, I think that is quite possible. I believe there were/are plans for an official separate/divorce this year. What we were seeing as we got closer to the end of the year was a disheveled KHate. It’s possible that she did lose it, but I’m not convinced she was in a hospital. She could have been at Ma Mids all of this time. Or she was in and out of the hospital relatively quickly and then went to Ma Mids.

    • Slush says:

      They’re certainly lying about…..something. Whether its the reason she was in the hospital, when she came and went from the hospital, which hospital she was in, or a combo of those.

      My personal theory is she was either in a different hospital the whole time, or she was in and out before they announced anything.

      Unfortunately for them, when you’re under a microscope, people will notice the inconsistencies, and they dont run a tight enough ship to lie convincingly about something this big

    • Emme says:

      Is no one noticing Kkkhate’s tribute to her style icon in that first pic? The white dress with a gigantic “M” plastered on the front? No wonder she had to go into hospital to recover! After all that work, and none of you have noticed….sob.

  5. Gee says:

    Wombat will be the laziest King in British history.

  6. Eurydice says:

    It’s not being a father that’s the problem – William is “fazed” by becoming a hands-on King.

    • Saucy&Sassy says:

      Eurydice, I’m wonder if an absent Wont is some kind of power play he’s playing with KFC. It’ll be interesting to see what happens next.

  7. Amy Bee says:

    When the press says that Kate is jewel in the Crown they really mean she’s the only working royal that gets the press the clicks. I’m enjoying seeing the press realise that they made a mistake when they agreed to smear Harry and Meghan.

    • Flowerlake says:

      I think they all realized and that is why they are so bitter and keep wanting to wish them back.

  8. Veronica S. says:

    Congratulations to the British Press. They’ve discovered what being a parent is.

    • Lady Esther says:

      Right? “Father of Three Isn’t Fazed About Being A Dad.” Mind-blowing news!!

    • Proud Mary says:

      But why would they release this information now? It’s so tone-death. Even if all this is true, the appropriate PR is: William and the kids miss Kate tremendously, and they can’t wait for her to get well soon. That’s it. Nothing. More. Nobody is surprised by a father being good to his children. That’s the equivalent of a dog bites man story–you know, “wake me up when the man bites the dog?” It’s as if William’s competing with his ailing wife for attention. Lame.

      • Roooth says:

        I thought it was weird when they released a pic of Willy & the kids – and in the pic the kids are all happy and laughing with dad like it’s party time. They haven’t seen their mom in weeks cause she’s in the hospital, but you can’t tell from the pic. Then I realized its an old picture from last year.

        It makes it look as if the kids are so happy with their dad, and not bothered at all by their mother’s absence. That’s a weird message to put out.

    • HuffnPuff says:

      My thought too. Is Kate a “hands-on mother”? This article is for people with antiquated views of parenting.

      The thing about Diana’s aura. Is that what William sees in Kate? I don’t think the rest of us do. Aside from both being moms of heirs and spares and Princess of Wales, that’s where the similarities stop. There’s no aura. If anything it’s a lack of aura. And that’s why there isn’t much missing with Kate out of commission. Nothing missing with him out of commission too. I think these articles just seem desperate to prove why he needs to be off right now too. The short answer is, he doesn’t. Kate has people to help her and the kids. She doesn’t need him doom scrolling the Sussexes all day and throwing pillows around.

  9. TheWigletOfWails says:

    He’s hands on because he drops the kids off at school and picks them up. Sure. 🙄

    • Lady Esther says:

      The same “sources” who reported that Kate hadn’t been seen yet in the 2024 school term (which lends credence to a hospital admittance on 28 December) are all of a sudden eager to report William is there all the time for school dropoffs and pickups? Hmm….

      • roooth says:

        Except people at the school say Willy is NOT there every day, dropping off & picking up the kids – they say he hasn’t been there at all

  10. Becks1 says:

    These feel almost like two competing narratives, right? One’s assuring us that William is so hands on, he can handle the kids without Kate, he’s got this, and the other reminding us (or reminding William?) that Kate is invaluable and we really are going to notice that she’s not around for a few months!!

    I mean, of course Kate gets photographed and her events get more attention than Anne’s, for example, but she goes quiet for months at a time as it is and the world turns just fine without her.

    • Jais says:

      That’s exactly what it feels like.

    • Bean says:

      One briefing coming from William and the other from Kate (or Carole).

    • Slush says:

      To me, theyre not competing narratives. Putting aside for a moment whether one agrees with the sentiment that she is the “crown jewel” or that she works like a top CEO (lol)

      We are talking about two spheres of her life – her public role as POW, and her private role as a mother. William can be fine handling private life, getting the kids from point A to point B, fed, and tucked in at night. Thats not the same, to me, as her public role as POW going to engagements.

      • Saucy&Sassy says:

        Slush, but how important is she to the Firm, when she disappears often and for fairly long periods of time whenever she feels like it. I think the public has gotten used to her not being in the public eye. As far as I can tell, the brf can just get someone else (presumably a family member) for the fashion and life would go on.

  11. Jensa says:

    It’s completely ridiculous that Kate’s “absence” is being felt. She’s normally “absent” – if there hasn’t been this hospital announcement, no one would be wondering where she was or anything.
    If anything, there’s been resounding indifference to her medical news, apart from some of the press who are frothing about it. I’ve not seen any outpouring of concern, there are no heaps of flowers being delivered, just a bit of curiosity as to what’s actually going on here.
    And as for PW not being “fazed” by looking after the kids. Well he is their father, and one with masses of staff to help him – does he want a medal or something?

  12. Sunday says:

    If I squint, I think the logic of this extremely poor coverup attempt is as simple as, Kate’s usual PR was focused on being the perfect mother and raising the children, therefore if Will is covering for Kate then HIS PR must solely be focused on being the perfect father and raising the children. It’s like someone (deeply, deeply stupid) was going down a list:

    EMERGENCY REPLACE KATE CHECKLIST:
    1. The perfect mother!
    2. School Runs
    3. “Early Years”
    4. “Shaping Us”
    5. Doesn’t put a foot wrong.

    So based on this article, apparently Will agreed to the first two, refused to touch the second two, and if we get a new article saying that Will “hasn’t put a foot wrong,” they’ll fully give away the game.

    Also must point out that all the “evidence” of Will actually being seen at Lambrook is extremely general and could have meant at any time in the past and not specifically since Kate’s “surgery.”

    ETA: IMO this is the worst sign so far, it’s basically Will confirming that Kate being gone won’t phase him, and the firm saying that her projects will be left abandoned in her absence. I’m not sure she’s coming back, guys.

  13. Over it says:

    And why would wank be fazed by Kate absence? He has a full time nanny and 24/7 help with whatever he needs. Kids in school all day . 5 days of the week. Middletons to handle weekends. What is really interesting is that this article doesn’t mention how although he isn’t fazed by Kate absence, he misses his beloved wife deeply and can’t wait until she is up and about again.
    Also ma midds wants wank to know that Kate isn’t going to be replaced by a new and improved model . No William , there will be no phasing Katie out for a new queen in waiting . You are stuck with her or we spill the beans . This relationship is so toxic. I feel for the children only .

    • Jojo says:

      I too thought similar things reading this.

      ‘Kate Middleton’s absence from royal life has been “felt so hugely” that she’s now seen as an “irreplaceable” member of the family.’

      I was like, step away from the keyboard Carole 😂.

    • Saucy&Sassy says:

      Over it, I don’t think Carole wants anyone doing a deep dive with Party Pieces. Well, I assume one was already done and there is stuff there she doesn’t want out. They could be at a stalemate.

  14. Anonymous says:

    Is that a soft launch for single dad William? asking for a friend.

  15. QuiteContrary says:

    “Kate also has this incredible aura – much like her late mother in law, Princess Diana – that cannot be replicated.”

    Simmer down, Carole.

    Kate is entirely replaceable — this is William saying so.

  16. Mary Pester says:

    Greatly missed, by who? Not her husband, not her in laws, not the public as she often disappears for months at a time, so obviously other than maybe her children, the only other people missing her are the wiglet and button makers
    Please get well Kate, your country needs you, well maybe just a couple of little industries do.
    And Billy is A hands on dad??? Yes he is and did you know that every day at 12 noon, pink pigs are seen flying in formation over adelaide cottage!!?

  17. Square2 says:

    So there are two different PR teams in the House of Wails? One to praise up Willnot, the other (Carole?) for Cannot?

    The only “incredible aura” I got from KM whenever I saw her (pictures/videos) is “Disney’s evil stepmother from Snow White or Sleeping Beauty”. 🤪

  18. Teagirl says:

    “Denise, director of Borne Media, told Fabulous: “Kate’s commitment and dedication to royal life is unquestionable….”
    Denise, director of Borne Media, told Fabulous: “Kate’s commitment and dedication to BEING royal is unquestionable….

    FIFY

  19. Rnot says:

    Well it certainly sounds like Kate’s on her way out. They’re not performing much concern for her. I suppose they could try for a story where she has to retire from public life due to her health, like they did for Philip, but that’s not a long term solution for a woman in her 40s unless she’ll agree to hide away for the rest of her life.

  20. JaneS says:

    May I just say, if I had money I’d be happy to hire a Nanny, a cook, a person to do my laundry, a house keeper, yard guy, and a personal errand driver.
    This is why I continue to buy Powerball Lottery tickets.
    Pay well + benefits = All good. If I had the $$, my hired staff would LOVE me. Free chocloate frosted donuts for all M-F. 👍

    I am not gonna give anybody guff if they are going to be more involved with their kids.
    William has staff certainly, but I do think he tries to be more involved in his kids lives vs. How standoffish/cold QE, PP, Charles all were to their young kids.

    The kids Mum is recovering from surgery. That is worrying to kids.
    If William can be around more, fine by me.

  21. Jay says:

    They really are focused on that school run, huh? And you say he drops the kids off EVERY day? And then picks the same ones up? My god, time for a medal!

    My test for this kind of crap is always: would this article about William, father of three, be written about Kate if the situations were reversed? Would there be articles exalting about how “unfazed” she is to take care of her own children?

  22. bisynaptic says:

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH “It would be impossible for anyone else to step into her shoes during this time because there isn’t anyone who can do what she does. She is irreplaceable. Her knowledge and dedication to early years, and her work in shaping our future generation, is so unique to her and such a personal project that there isn’t another family member who can take the reins or slip into that role.”

    And also: “had things had been handled differently by Prince Harry and Prince William, Harry and Meghan could have stepped up into Kate’s shoes.”