Sussex source: The Mail’s Caroline Graham is ‘ethically bankrupt & morally repugnant’

Over the weekend, there were two storylines involving the Duchess of Sussex and her garbage father Thomas Markle. One curious storyline – which appeared across the Telegraph, the Times, Page Six and other outlets – was that Meghan’s handwritten letter to her father was the end of the road, and Meghan has no plans to call him, visit him or reach out in any other way. There was curious sourcing on those stories, and I doubt they came from Montecito. The second storyline was via the Daily Mail. Caroline Graham wrote an exclusive first-person piece about her “friendship” with Toxic Tom and how they’d become very close over the years, so much so that he begged her to fly to the Philippines after he told her about his “leg amputation.” Graham’s piece was completely unhinged as she twisted herself in knots to justify her profoundly unethical, immoral and sleazy behavior. Well, soon after Graham’s piece was published, a source close to Meghan spoke to Newsweek:

[Thomas Markle’s] health crisis led to calls for Meghan to end the seven year feud and speak to her father. Instead of a call, she opted for a letter, while her spokesperson issued a public statement denouncing Graham for “breaching clear ethical boundaries.”

Graham responded to the swipe in a first person piece for The Mail on Sunday headlined: “My tears with Meghan’s dad as I told him to choose her over our friendship: The Sussexes have accused CAROLINE GRAHAM of ‘crossing ethical lines’ by being at his hospital bedside. Now she tells her side of the story…”

In the article, Graham wrote: “Her father and I have discussed many times what would happen if she did reach out to him. I have always said I would walk away from our friendship if it meant he could reconcile with her. Painful as that would be—and we both had tears in our eyes as we discussed it again last week—it would be impossible for him to reconcile with her while having a friend in the media, particularly one in the British Press, for which Prince Harry has repeatedly expressed his hatred.”

A source familiar with Meghan’s position, whom Newsweek has granted anonymity so they could speak freely, said: “Her piece this weekend only served to reinforce the Duchess’ point. Caroline, and the Mail more broadly, have been determined to conduct this entire matter in full public view. Any suggestion of respecting privacy—such as her claim that she would leave the room to take a call—is difficult to take seriously when it is followed by a double-page spread just days later.”

“As for calling out her, and the paper’s, unethical approach to storytelling, I’m content to let Newsweek’s readers judge for themselves whether publishing every intimate detail of an 81-year-old man’s most serious medical issues, and using that as a vehicle for a hit piece against his daughter simply because you dislike her, is anything other than ethically bankrupt and morally repugnant.”

[From Newsweek]

While I agree with all of this 100%, the larger problem for Meghan is that the white side of her family sucks ass. For the better part of a decade, Toxic Tom, Toxic Jr. and Scammy Samantha have been falling all over themselves to exploit their connection to Meghan by any means possible. It’s true that Caroline Graham is manipulating and exploiting Thomas, but that horrible man has been a willing participant this whole time. Graham conveniently left out the fact that she and the Mail have been in cahoots with Thomas for years, writing his offensive, racist and sexist scripts, paying him for information, interviews and photos, and using him as a willing participant in the hate campaign against Meghan.

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18 Responses to “Sussex source: The Mail’s Caroline Graham is ‘ethically bankrupt & morally repugnant’”

  1. Sunniside up says:

    Graham has being exploiting Tom as well as Meghan, journalists are supposed to report the news not make it up.

    • ClammanderJen says:

      Claims of being a “member of the British press” make me snort. She is a sleazy tabloid reporter, NOT a journalist.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        Well, she seems determined to prove that herself. Her actions make it clear.

      • Mac says:

        You can’t “be friends” with the person you are covering. One phone call from Charles’ office would end this nonsense, but he remains overtly silent.

  2. ChillinginDC says:

    I am screaming at your last paragraph! Very true!

  3. ecsmom says:

    I am loving all this forceful pushback by the Sussexes. While they can’t address every stupid story when they do choose to speak up it’s spectacular.

  4. Shanta says:

    “The white side of her family sucks ass.”…… enough said.

  5. Dee(2) says:

    Your last paragraph is completely true, but the press also only wants to focus on one side of the family for Harry and Meghan. They purposely exclude ever mentioning Doria when writing about her father, and how close she is to Harry and Meghan and her grandchildren, because it stops the narrative right there. Why is one parent given all access and the other none?

    They do the same for Harry though. They pretend that the Spencer’s don’t exist. They pretend that the extended Windsor family doesn’t exist. Harry’s only family is apparently Charles and William. And if he’s not bosom buddies with him he’s all alone in the world.

    And I think it honestly for the media just goes back to access. Who is willing to work with them? Charles, Tom, William. So as far as they are concerned, that’s their family.

  6. jais says:

    Well, the statement is absolutely true. As for what Meghan thinks of her family’s shenanigans. She’s not putting a statement out about that. Samantha sued her for years just bc she said she grew up as an only child. She ain’t giving them any fuel. But honestly, it’s prob the same sentiment.

  7. MsIam says:

    Well whether Meghan pursues any legal action or not, this whole thing has been a major black eye for the Fail and for the senior Markles. I think the Fail is going to abandon ship as far as using Toxic Sr and Jr as sources as well as Scammy. Once the money is no longer rolling in, what’s in it for the Markles? The Fail basically admitted they’ve had an arrangement with Sr, probably in writing, since the wedding which is why Caroline Graham said she contacted her editor and the legal team at the Fail when this blew up. They know this wasn’t an ordinary “journalist-subject” relationship and lord only knows what all has been going on in their quest to destroy Meghan and Harry. The more questions that are asked and the more layers pulled away, the greater the likelihood this will lead back to the Palace.

    • Elly says:

      Yes, people on Reddit were saying that Caroline Graham is friends with Camilla.

      • jais says:

        Caroline Graham wrote a biography of Camilla. And it was pretty clear that Camilla had allowed her friends to give access and information to CG. And this was well after CG had attached herself like a barnacle to TM in order to terrorize Meghan. So clearly Camilla had no issue with CG’s ethics…when she should have. Are they friends? Did Camilla have a part in CG’s relations with TM? No way to say for sure although assumptions could be made. But for sure, we can say that Camilla didn’t find CG’s ethics to be repulsive when she should have and then even allowed her friends to speak with CG for a flattering biography. So basically Camilla is happy to entertain a shady journalist who will make her look good, a journalist who she was aware had unethically “befriended” TM and destroyed Meghan in the press. Which is pretty on par for how Camilla operates. That will be her legacy moreso than anything she does with women’s charities imo.

    • Me at home says:

      It’s pretty clear the Fail is paying Tom Sr, and that they’ve paid Scammy and Tom Jr in the past. As journalism goes, this crosses all kinds of boundaries and nothing the Fail publishes from these relationships is trustworthy. We all remember Rex Simon, who said the Fail offered him $75k to make up stuff about Meghan.

      Unfortunately, I bet Tom Sr, Tom Jr, and Scammy will keep talking to the Fail (even though Scammy had a recent fallout with them) as long as the filthy lucre keeps rolling in.

  8. Lady Digby says:

    No one should be platforming TM, TM junior or SM on TV or in print at all. Meghan went no contact because of their vicious lies about her. Her half siblings were never close to her and played no part in her adult life. They are jealous of her success in life. Dad is a lot more problematic but he stopped being her father when he choose media cash over her in May 2018
    ..

  9. Amy Bee says:

    The response sounds like it came from Meghan’s legal team. I think leaving out the Markles’ role in this situation is strategic and a good one. By sidelining them they wouldn’t be compelled to speak out publicly.

  10. QuiteContrary says:

    Perfect response from the Sussex-adjacent source: “ethically bankrupt and morally repugnant” nails it.

  11. Lady Digby says:

    How long will Ms Graham remain in contact with TM after this Omnishambles and the forthcoming trial that starts in January? She has made herself very conspicuous here with her blatant conduct on the eve of a court case where she’s named in the documents. Are she and TM forever friends?

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