Martin Short: Mental health & cancer are both diseases, sometimes they’re terminal

If you’ve ever watched or read an in-depth interview with Martin Short, you probably already know that every part of his life has been shaped by profound loss. Before the age of 21, he lost both of his parents and one of his siblings. Short’s wife Nancy Dolman passed away in 2010 after battling ovarian cancer. Many of Short’s colleagues and friends have passed away over the years too, including (very recently) Rob Reiner and Catherine O’Hara. And then in February, Short’s daughter Katherine died by suicide. Since Katherine’s passing, Short took a break from everything, and his friends have rallied around him. Last week, he stepped out for his first event since his daughter’s death, the premiere of his Netflix documentary, Marty: Life Is Short, which is out this week (the premiere photos are in this post). So many of his comedian and actor friends came out to support him, and his family was there too.

Over the weekend, CBS Sunday Morning aired their interview with Short, which was the first time he’s spoken publicly about Katherine. He spoke movingly about the loss of his child, about Katherine’s mental health battle and how he views Katherine’s suicide as simply the final stage of a disease.

Martin Short has spoken for the first time about the death of his daughter, Katherine Short, saying her death has been “a nightmare for the family”. Katherine died in February aged 42, at her home in the Hollywood Hills. The County of Los Angeles Medical Examiner’s office confirmed she died by suicide.

Speaking on CBS News Sunday Morning, the 76-year-old comedian and actor compared his daughter’s death with that of his wife, Nancy Dolman, who died of ovarian cancer in 2010 aged 58.

“The understanding [is] that mental health and cancer, like my wife’s, are both diseases, and sometimes with diseases they are terminal,” Short said. “And my daughter fought for a long time with extreme mental health, borderline personality disorder, other things, and did the best she could, until she couldn’t.

“So, Nan’s last words to me were, ‘Martin, let me go.’ And what [Katherine] was just saying [was], ‘Dad, let me go.’”

Short said he had a “deep desire” to take “mental health out of the shadows” so people wouldn’t be “ashamed” of talking about it.

“Not hiding from the word suicide, but accepting that this can be the last stage of an illness,” he said.

Short also spoke of losing several close friends and family in the past year, including his sister-in-law, his daughter and his friends Diane Keaton, Rob and Michele Reiner and Catherine O’Hara.

“It’s staggering,” he said, adding: “You just have to breathe in, breathe out.”

[From The Guardian]

This sadly reminds me of what Regina King said about her son’s death as well. And for Short to have so much loss at every stage of his life is staggering, as he said. It’s shocking that he can even get out of bed, that he can even put one foot in front of the other.

Photos courtesy of Avalon Red.

You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed.

8 Responses to “Martin Short: Mental health & cancer are both diseases, sometimes they’re terminal”

  1. Sue says:

    Yes, this, thank you, Martin. I lost my dad to suicide. He struggled with depression and PTSD for his entire adult life and he fought hard to manage both of those things. When I hear someone say that suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem I am very quick to correct them that mental illness is not a short term problem most of the time.

  2. bisynaptic says:

    Life can be excruciating, even for someone with wealth and status. Wishing him the best, under the circumstances.

  3. jferber says:

    So sorry, Sue. Such tragedy for Martin Short.

  4. Jais says:

    It’s really meaningful when someone talks about mental health and suicide like this. After a distant family member died of suicide, so many people around me kept saying how selfish that person was for not thinking about the people left behind. And I was horrified. And all I could think and say was can we have empathy for the person who had endured so much in their mental health. Saying things like that will just make anyone experiencing ideation not want to talk about it out of shame. So thank you to Martin Short.

  5. Regina Falangie says:

    I love Martin Short so much!!! He’s a class act and a wonderful man. His movies were a staple of my childhood. Every night I sing “My little buttercup” to my daughter before bed. I am so sorry for his profound loss and I admire his incredible strength, wisdom and his beautiful heart.

  6. Lucy says:

    What a beautiful way to put it, although profoundly sad.

  7. Ciotog says:

    He’s such a treasure.

  8. Emmy Rae says:

    So well said. Thank you for posting this.

Commenting Guidelines

Read the article before commenting.

We aim to be a friendly, welcoming site where people can discuss entertainment stories and current events in a lighthearted, safe environment without fear of harassment, excessive negativity, or bullying. Different opinions, backgrounds, ages, and nationalities are welcome here - hatred and bigotry are not. If you make racist or bigoted remarks, comment under multiple names, or wish death on anyone you will be banned. There are no second chances if you violate one of these basic rules.

By commenting you agree to our comment policy and our privacy policy

Do not engage with trolls, contrarians or rude people. Comment "troll" and we will see it.

Please e-mail the moderators at cbcomments at gmail.com to delete a comment if it's offensive or spam. If your comment disappears, it may have been eaten by the spam filter. Please email us to get it retrieved.

You can sign up to get an image next to your name at Gravatar.com Thank you!

Leave a comment after you have read the article

Save my name and email in this browser for the next time I comment