Demi Lovato’s breakdown: was it over ex Joe Jonas and Ashley Greene?

Press Conference to announce the Nominations for The 2010 American Music Awards held at The JW Marriott Los Angeles at L.A. Live , California on October 12th, 2010. Demi Lovato                                               Fame Pictures, Inc
Outlets have more details of what may have prompted Demi Lovato to cancel her European tour with the Jonas Brothers and seek treatment/rehab after some kind of altercation with a backup dancer. Apparently it all went down in an airport and there are witnesses to the fight, along with news that Demi was also talking smack to Twilight star Ashley Greene, who happens to be dating Demi’s ex, Joe Jonas. Drama! Ashley subsequently tweeted some crap about “karma” and came across like she was gloating and being petty, which seems typical for her.

A source tells E! News that Demi Lovato has struggled with bulimia, and it is among one of her emotional and physical issues. Two years ago, photos surfaced of her with suspicious marks on her wrist while she attended Miley Cyrus’ birthday party. At the time, her rep tried to shoot down the notion that it was self-mutilation, blaming it on candy jewelry…

But family sources say Lovato has indeed cut herself in the past.

However, things came to a breaking point in recent months.

“On tour [this summer] they were calling her ‘Demi Drama,’ another insider with the Lovato-JoBros tour tells E! News.

“After she split with Joe, it was just a whole bunch of drama, very awkward. Everyone tried to be professional, but you could tell it was wearing down Demi. It was a taboo subject to bring up, but clearly she wasn’t over Joe.

“The [Jonas] boys got a break after the tour, but Demi went a nonstop promo campaign for Camp Rock 2 and was pushing the single for that movie. It really was too much ask of a girl that young. She just couldn’t handle it.”

“I think Demi has a lot of issues she is dealing with, but at the source of them all is a great deal of stress.”

But another source says there was even more to her weekend meltdown that saw her shut down her Twitter account and leave the JoBros tour in the middle of its South American swing.

At the airport in Peru on Saturday, Demi got into a scuffle with a backup dancer.

“She just lost it right at the airport in front of everyone,” says the source. “The [Jonases’] dad basically said right there, ‘That’s it. You’re going home.’ ”

Demi also made verbal threats to Joe’s new squeeze, Ashley Greene, who was at the airport as well and witnessed her meltdown, the source says.

Indeed, according to a someone close to the Lovato family, the airport altercation was the “catalyst” to Lovato deciding to “take responsibility” for her actions

[From E! Online]

HollywoodLife has a whole speculative story about how Joe carrying on with Ashley in public could have sent Demi over the edge. E! Online’s Ted Casbalanca agrees with that theory, and writes that Demi “never got over the split with Joe and was hurt by how fast he moved on.” When Joe and Demi were dating they tried to hide it but Joe has been seen all over the place with Ashley and I wouldn’t put it past her to be calling the paps. There have been stories about how Joe is supposedly jealous of Ashley’s Twilight kissing scenes, and Kaiser thinks Ashley is leaking those stories.

Meanwhile Demi’s dad told Radar that the pressures of Hollywood got to her, but it sounds like he hasn’t seen much of his daughter since he split with her mom when she was little. There was a blind item recently that many of you mentioned about a teen star doing coke and having sex at a party. It could have been Demi, it could have been someone else or it could have been made up. I don’t put much stock in those blind items. I can buy that Demi freaked out and scuffled with some girl and shouted something at Ashley. She’s 18 years old and sounds really troubled. Hopefully rehab/treatment will help her.

46125, LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - Wedensday October 13 2010. A dressed down Ashley Greene and Joe Jonas arrive hand-in-hand for dinner at Katsuya restaurant in Hollywood. Photograph: Hellmuth Dominguez, PacificCoastNews.com

Actress Ashley Greene and her sweetheart singer Joe Jonas can't keep their eyes or hands off each other this afternoon as the hot young couple stop to get their caffeine fix at a Coffee Bean and Tea in Los Feliz, on September 29, 2010.  Fame Pictures, Inc

45507, LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - Tuesday September 28, 2010. Joe Jonas and Ashley Greene hold hands as they pick up birthday items for Frankie Jonas at Walgreens in LA. Frankie is Joe's youngest brother who turned 10 years old today. Photograph:  Anthony, PacificCoastNews.com

LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 12: Recording artist Demi Lovato attends the 2010 American Music Awards Nominations Press Conference held at The Mixing Room at the JW Marriott Los Angeles at L.A. LIVE on October 12, 2010 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Kevin Winter/Getty Images)

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  1. LOVE ANGELINA says:

    Demi should have never gone on tour with them. Not that I care about any of this teen crap, since the Jonas brothers suck, Demi doesn’t make good music IMO, but I have to say I think Ashley Greene as Alice in Twilight is sooo freaking cute.

    I just hope Demi recovers. Poor kid.

  2. malachais says:

    How can these girls date this moron? He dresses like a little boy, ugh. Ashley Greene can’t act, Demi is very talented. I feel bad for her and I am hopeful that she can overcome her issues and step back into the spotlight.

    As for Ashley Greene talking smack about Demi, you know Demi’s fans will eat her alive.

  3. alejandro says:

    Her breakdown was set in stone long before doing the Jonas brother. Her family issues and where she comes from plays a much bigger part. This kid never had a shot.

  4. Praise St. Angie! says:

    my only comment on this story (because I don’t really know any of these people) is that Jonas and Greene need someone to style them.

    their outfits look terrible.

    EDIT: ok, I have one more comment. if Greene really tweeted a nasty comment about “karma” in regard to Lovato’s breakdown, she’s a stone-cold bitch. If I were Jonas, that alone would make me think twice about being with her.

  5. Sophie says:

    Ashley Greene will be pleased with these rumours, it’s the most publicity she’s had in a while

  6. TG says:

    Sounds like Demi is a brat and is running to rehab to hide behind her actions. This is the same as all those celebs and politicians running to rehab when they get a DUI or get caught with a hooker or in a same-sex relationship.

    I don’t believe all these celebs were bullied. In my school growing up, which is a very small town in the south they would have been treated like kings and queens if they were actors on TV. They would have ruled the roost so I find it hard to believe all these other schools similar to mine were so abusive to all these It Girls.

  7. Shannon says:

    You know Ashley green reminds me of one of those mean girls at school. She uses the relationship with Joe Jonas as an excuse and to be honest i think she likes the fact that Demi is going to rehab. Honestly Ashley green is a mean bitch who feeds off of others drama. I would love to put a camera somewhere she can’t see and look at how she interacts with demi.
    Shannon

  8. gabs says:

    I hate Ashley Greene so much. What a famehoe. I bet Demi was annoyed by her on tour but i dont know if the breakdown was all about joe jonas (isnt he gay?). I think its more deep than that. I usually roll my eyes at all these tween stars but I think Demi is actually pretty talented. Success is the best revenge. Hopefully shell move on and have a great career and in 2-5 years ashley will be so irrelevant that paps wont answer her calls

  9. Anna says:

    Joe Jonas is gay and there are rumours about Demi being a lesbian.

  10. Johnny Depp's Girl says:

    Not another Lindsay Lohan in training!!!

  11. JaisyMaisy says:

    Ashley looks gross in white pants.

  12. danielle says:

    this is all so weird. I thought this was the gay Jonas and Demi and Ashley both were happily bearding for him?

  13. Embee says:

    How old is Ashley Greene? She looks like she should be babysitting that Jonas, not dating him.

  14. umm says:

    Poor Demi. As someone who was at one pt involved with a celebrity, I can vouch for the fact that the breakup/ending is truly horrible. No matter how hard you try to cut them out they are everywhere, every second of every day, and it never stops. You cannot get rid of them and they are constantly popping up when you least expect it. Add to this the fact that she herself is in the spotlight and I cannot fathom what she is feeling right now. Good for her for going to rehab/therapy.

  15. im awful says:

    ahsley green is a famewhore and has little to no talent. all she has is her face and body and if jessica biel is any indication that wont get her far… also, that comment about karma, sounds like shes not so pretty on the inside.

    i hope demi gets better. 18 is so young. i dont know how i would handle her life without proper support.

  16. Someone Else says:

    I hope she gets better, even if I do think she’s over-rated.

    And my son wonders why I don’t let him watch Disney shows. Are any of these kids not f*&ked up? I know Selena Gomez seems ok for now, but I’m beginning to think it’s a matter of time before she cracks, too.

    Poor (rich) kids.

  17. Bonfire Beach says:

    Joe Jonas is an ass. He thinks he is God’s gift to women. He’s a loser who thinks he’s some great womanizer. He’s probably eating this crap up about Demi.

  18. Sigh. says:

    My Disney-demograhically-correct 8 year old niece showed me Demi and Selena Gomez on Barney years ago. Both were cute little things, and Demi was chubby-faced and wore glasses.

    $10 says Greene constantly being present with that Jonas boy and the unrelenting pressure to be a positive and profitable (skinny) Disney shill made her feel like that chubby little girl again…or all of the time.

  19. Attagirl says:

    Yet another teenager chewed up by the ‘star-maker machinery’ (to quote Joni Mitchell from the song Free Man in Paris). Her bulimia and cutting is clearly a symptom of feeling life is out of her control and a plea for help. Very sad, this girl needs everyone’s support and apparently not getting it from family.

  20. Justez says:

    While I do hope for Demi, cause she does seem pretty talented and good at what she does. I don’t get how it’s Joe or Ashley’s fault. Not every girl is some break up victim. She knew what could happen when they got together, she heard what happend with Taylor Swift, and knew his relationship history.
    Blaming it on Ashley is pretty unfair, I mean she’s just hanging out wiht her boyfriend, so if he saw nothing wrong with it, neither did she.

    Although if the karma tweet is about her, that’s quite rude.

  21. Erin says:

    I don’t get it. Why all the hate for Ashley? Did I miss some horrible story about her?

  22. spinner says:

    She just needed a different kind of attention.

  23. Amanda says:

    child stars, it’s almost always a bad thing

  24. Bodhi says:

    Its been pretty well confirmed that the disgusting BI is about Demi. Anyone, child star or not, who behave like that has massive MASSIVE issues that go far deeper than jealousy over an ex’s new fling.

  25. julie says:

    If all this is over Joe Jonas, then maybe rehab will teach her to have better taste in guys. No guy is worth it, especially some probably gay pop singer.

  26. Bella Bella says:

    I hope Demi gets better. She’s a very pretty girl. My daughter and I had the opportunity to meet her and she was so sweet and attentive to my 6 year old. If she doesn’t go down the Lohan road then she will certainly have a great future in show business. The girl can sing!

  27. serena says:

    I can see that.
    She had problems, plus her ex-boyfriend would make out right in front of her like it was nothing.. well, I would have freak out too.
    That jonas-boy is really a bastard playboy. Surely, he broke her heart. And then she went crazy.. I kind of understand that.

  28. devilgirl says:

    I don’t know much about Lovato, other than she is/was a cutter, but whatever the case may be, I feel sorry for her.

    As for Ashley Greene, she seems like a bitch, and if Twilight isn’t irritating enough, her character makes it worse! (I have a god daughter that insists we see the movies together! Bless her heart, she thinks because I like Vampire movies, Twilight is for me!)

  29. craigc says:

    Attn: Joe!!! Stop wearing skinny-jeans!!!
    YOU ARE TOO SHORT AND STUMPY FOR THEM…

  30. Lisa says:

    @Erin- I don’t get it either. I like her.

  31. Jeri says:

    Having to work with your very recent ex everyday would be hard enough and it would be made much worse to have to witness him with his new girlfriend everyday. That would be horrible at any age, let alone 18.

    Joe always seems to have a backup girl and moves right on after his breakups. He doesn’t seem to care about anyones’ feelings but his own. He and Ashley never see a camera they don’t jump in front of.

    Demi deserves much better. Get well Demi.

  32. Lizzy says:

    When you first posted this story, the first thing that came to my mind was that her emotional breakdown was somehow linked to Joe Jonas.
    It must be super hard to work with your ex, and even more harder when he was showing off his new girlfriend (not to mention the gross PDA) so soon after their breakup.
    Anyway, Demi is still a young girl and she went through a lot of pressure so I can see her eventually loosing it.
    I sincerely hope she will get better, she sounds like a decent person and Joe Jonas is a douche

  33. la_chica says:

    It is unfortunate that you paint this young woman’s troubles as the result of her being upset about a man. It is hurtful to her and other females who have legitimate emotional problems or drug problems.

    Any fight she had with Ashley Greene was likely a manifestation of her problems, not the root of them.

  34. Jules says:

    ‘Men’ that wear skinny jeans are gay.

  35. Twez says:

    Isn’t this the same Jonas punk who broke up with Taylor Swift via 30-second phone call? That’s some magical purity ringed penis going on there.

  36. Sumodo1 says:

    I, too, am appalled at Disney programming and the teen stars they promote. It is far, far from what I grew up with in the 1960s and my son, in the 80s.

    Disney/ABC: get your act together and set the over-age performers loose. You need to set some values for kids.

    KIDS, Disney, not TWEENS and TEENS.

  37. KellyBrynn says:

    this makes me really sad, my heart goes out to her. i’m not familiar with demi’s work per say, but i have heard her singing voice and seen her interact with her fans. her voice is beautiful and she is a doll to her fans. i can’t imagine going through a breakup with a famous guy and then continue to tour with him while he pdas his new lady. 🙁

    i’ve heard demi had a troubled childhood, i hope this rehab trip will open her eyes to the fact that she has talent and drive and fans and some jonas douche or legs mcgee can’t take that away from her.

    get well, girl. don’t let your talent go to waste.

  38. meg says:

    i know they’re famous, but i never got the jonas bros. appeal. they never seemed “right” to me. the purity ring thing made my ears ring with alarm bells. maybe lame is the word i’m looking for…

  39. Lauren says:

    I cannot stand Joe Jonas..he is such a egomaniacal midget !

  40. Sakyiwaa says:

    Poor Demi. i guess she isn’t completely over him. stuff like that happens. she should be told that she’s strong enough to move on. someone better suited will always come along.

  41. di butler says:

    I am close to two families of child stars. Both of their kids were treated like absolute crap in school. I also know a child of a famous star from the 90s who got beat up regularly because of who her father is. Maybe if you attend schools in Hollywood this doesn’t happen, but outside of that bubble, kids can be total a$$es.

  42. reanne says:

    omg demi is so talented and that other bitch aint joe should have stuck with demi she’s a much nicer girl

  43. kaykay says:

    What I understand is Demi and joe went out privately and now he parades around ashley greene. That would piss me off. And the fact that she had real feelings and he dropped her like that. Like if she wuld recover that fast. And he just went along his way like nothing is wrong. What an ASSHOLE. Demi needs to talk to Taylor Swift. Team Demi= talent. Ashley green has the body of a boy and a role on twilight. Wow. Long resume ha!

  44. Jeri says:

    FYI: Demi’s little sister is on Desperate Housewives – Gabbie’s oldest daughter.

  45. Liana says:

    Poor kid. Regardless of the reasons why, it sucks to be such a mess at 18, but it’s good to realize it and take steps to counter it. I’m a Hollywood kid (dad’s in the biz, I was a fledgling actress and I’m now on the production end of the game), and kids are always being bullied and treated like shit if they’re successful. It’s part jealousy and part something else altogether. It’s not as bad if you’re in a school for the arts, though. Solid parents (whether they’re together or not, or one solid parent if you only have one) get you through it, but any weakness in the parental chain and BAM! You’re a Lohan.

  46. albeli says:

    I feel really bad for Demi. Her problems have to run deeper than basic ex-boyfriend problems (although I’m sure the stress of working with him and seeing him flaunt his new girlfriend make things much harder).

  47. TG says:

    I can’t believe everyone is falling for this brat’s excuses for he bad behaviour. I just read on People that she got in trouble for going out and possible misbaving so she blamed it on a backup dancer and hit her. That is just a brat and there is no excuse for that.

  48. Catherine says:

    Obviously the girl has issues, sadly enough, beside her ex moving on. Reports are saying she has a past history of being a cutter, dealt with bullying through school, has serious anger issues and attacked a dancer. Did the Jonas boy cause that? I don’t think so. She’s responsible for her own behavior and it’s good she is taking the steps to help herself now.

  49. Elaine says:

    After reading these comments, I have to say this.
    1.First, it was stupid for Demi to go on tour with the Jobro’s when she was not over Joe. (Since she’s left the tour anyway, it would have been better not to have gone at all).Seeing someone that you just broke up with almost every day is hard enough, whether he’s seeing someone else or not.
    2. It seems that Demi had issues before Joe entered the picture. Has anyone considered that maybe this is why they broke up to begin with?
    3. Joe is acting like your average 21 year old man. Most men his age are insensitive. They are ususally only concerned about satisfying their sexual needs and don’t really care about who they hurt in the process.But also in his defense, everything that he does is in the spotlight. No one is perfect. How would the things that you do in your everyday life survive under a microscope? How would the world see you? Give the guy a break.
    4. Joe was ready to have sex, and since Demi was under aged and he didn’t want to take her virginity, he found someone with experience.
    5. I feel that it’s unfare that people are blaming Joe & Ashley for Demi’s downward spiral. As I said before, she had issues that should have been dealt with before now.
    But, I really hope that she’s getting the help that she needs.

  50. Jacq says:

    The joke is on Ashley. Wasting time dating a guy who won’t bang her. And will eventually get a “Yep, I’m gay!” People mag cover.

  51. Kimberly says:

    honestly Joe Jonas is a bitch and Bad Acting Greene needs to pay more attention to her “craft” than a douche bag.

    You know there is so much more to the story then this.

    the jonas guys are huge whores