Jodie Foster on Mel Gibson: “He’s so incredibly loving and sensitive”

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Jodie Foster has long been a supporter of Mel Gibson, both personally and professionally. Even after his rage-filled/glum-c-nt explosion last year, Jodie gave interviews defending him and telling the world that she still loves him. Now Jodie covers the new issue of The Hollywood Reporter, and she’s talking up Mel yet again. She’s promoting her directorial work in The Beaver, which star (you guessed it) Mel. Jodie is doubling-down on his crazy, and I just want to shake her and yell “YOU DESERVE BETTER FRIENDS.” The article is all about how Jodie got The Beaver made, and there are lots of interesting anecdotes about Mel throughout the production. Oh, and the article starts out by describing how Jodie is working in Paris, with Roman Polanski. Jesus. This woman has no taste in male associates. The full Hollywood Reporter piece is here, and here are the highlights:

On Mel as a man: “He’s so incredibly loving and sensitive, he really is,” she says. “He is the most loved actor I have ever worked with on a movie. And he’s not saintly, and he’s got a big mouth, and he’ll do gross things your nephew would do. But I knew the minute I met him that I would love him the rest of my life.” She adds: “I know him in a very complex way. He’s a real person; he’s not a cardboard cutout. I know that he has troubles, and when you love somebody you don’t just walk away from them when they are struggling.”

Mel confided in Jodie about what was happening with Oksana: Before Gibson’s relationship with Oksana Grigorieva exploded in the public eye, he confided in Foster. “We talked about it all the way through, about what was going on in his life,” she says. “I don’t think he told me until it was something he couldn’t handle by himself.” Even while editing Beaver, Foster was aware that recordings of Gibson’s rants would be made public. “I knew about that,” she says. “He was upset. Then, on the last day of reshoots of Mel, it all came out.”

On Mel‘s work in The Beaver: “God, I love that man,” Foster says. “The performance he gave in this movie, I will always be grateful for. He brought a lifetime of pain to the character that we’ve been talking about for years, that I knew was part of his psyche and who he is. It’s part of him that is beautiful and that I want people to know, too. I can’t ever regret that.” Foster knows the Gibson affair means her film has a difficult journey ahead. But she never planned to make a huge audience-pleaser. “This is not a mainstream movie,” she says. “It does have mainstream actors, but that’s not this film. I don’t need to make those kinds of movies because my career as a director is a personal spiritual path. I don’t need to succeed in that way in order to have an identity. I already have one.”

Jodie on her history of depression: Gibson, in his e-mail, warmly recalls first meeting the young woman with “the piercing blue eyes” who looked as if “she just came from gym” and surprised him when she metamorphosed into a radiant leading lady. But she’s a very different person now, coming to terms with her own fears and insecurities — and acknowledging a depression that she says has been with her for years. “Depression is a part of my life I accept,” she says, explaining its cause as a sort of obsessive rumination. “You think about something and you think about it again, and you keep going back to a tragic or dramatic moment and try to understand all different angles — and that’s the process of depression, which is not being able to get out of a dramatic thought or feeling. Obviously, chemical depression is very different. But it’s a big part of my life, and you have to embrace that part of yourself.”

On Roman Polanski: “He is my opposite,” Foster acknowledges, even though she says she admires the controversial filmmaker behind such movies as Chinatown and Rosemary’s Baby. “Every director you work with has their way, and the first two weeks is you figuring out their way and helping them. Some directors want lots of discussion and a real collaboration; some don’t want any. He’s different than I would be, but I can direct my own movies. He wants everything to come from him. There’s his crew, and they know it all comes from him. There’s no input from anyone else.” As for Polanski’s complicated character and the resurrection of his rape charge in the U.S., “That’s not my business,” she says.

On Kristen Stewart (who worked with Jodie in Panic Room): “I just love [co-star] Kristen Stewart, but I didn’t think she’d choose to be an actress. I said to her mom, ‘She doesn’t want that, right?’ And she’s like, ‘Well, yes, she kind of does.’ Because she’s very much like me: She’s not comfortable in life being a big, externally emotional person, beating her chest, crying every five minutes. I felt she was such an intelligent technician, so interested in camera — I thought that would translate to other things.”

[From The Hollywood Reporter]

Look, I have always been a Jodie Foster fan. Silence of the Lambs is one of my favorite films of all time, and I think it’s one of the best films of all time. Jodie The Actress – well, I will always support her, because I think she’s one of the best. I even think she’s got talent as a director – Home for the Holidays is one of my go-to Thanksgiving/Christmas movies. But Jodie as a person, as a judge of character, as a woman beyond the art… well, chick’s got issues. I understand her loyalty, and I understand her “It’s about the work” mentality. But as time goes on, that’s a lot of really nasty junk to ignore, isn’t it?

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  1. Gerry says:

    Her quote on KS shows her stage parents pushed her into the film biz while she has no talent or wish to be in it. But since she can’t do anything else playing a dead behind the eyes emo in Twilight seemed like a brilliant idea.

  2. margaritachum says:

    jodie, honey… shut up.

  3. Ari says:

    Well considering we don’t know Mel and um…SHE DOES…I find it actually a pretty positive thing to see. I know if someone I knew f-ed up badly I would stand by them if I knew them prior to the episodes they were going through and hoped that they worked it out. No one is perfect and since I don’t know jack about this cat and even less about Oksana who might as well be the biggest gold digger alive…I’ll leave her with her opinion and be aight with it.

  4. ! says:

    Jodie Foster can kiss my ass.

  5. FatJenny EatsLard says:

    I would assume since she’s a woman and a lesbian that she would be a feminist. A man that beats a woman, is a man that beats a woman. Can’t get anymore straight-forward than that. She is cleary protecting her “best interest,” since she collaberated with Mel on a film.

  6. The_Porscha says:

    It bothers me, because “loyalty” is to one person like Mel, not a legion of douches of both Gibson’s and Polanski’s character. Although it made me uncomfortable that she gushed about Gibson after all of his “struggles,” I could see the loyalty angle. Now, with Polanski, and the “it’s not my business” BS, it’s just revelatory. It tells me that she’s not as smart as I always thought she was and also that she’s a horrible, horrible judge of character. Ugh. Tacky.

    Also, calling Gibson’s rage-lunacy and abusive behavior a “struggle,” is like Chris Brown calling Rihanna’s fist-beaten face a “mishap.” These people are all cowards.

  7. Hmmm says:

    Jody needs to visit a battered women’s shelter and hear their stories. Also, a rape counselling centre.

    With all those brains and all that privilege, I had no idea she had led such a sheltered, unexamined life. I used to admire her, have great respect.

    She is an idiot where it counts.

  8. Mari says:

    Meh, her perogative if she doesn’t want to bag on her friend.

  9. Eve says:

    I never liked her as an actress and I can’t stand the way she speaks: it feels like it’s between her clenched teeth. I really wish Juliane Moore had played Clarice Starling from the very first film.

    Regarding her support of Gibson…I won’t say anything anymore. I’m tired of this shit.

  10. beth says:

    this just goes to show IQ has no correlation whatsoever with EQ

  11. TG says:

    I admire her loyalty but at some point you have to say enough is enough. You can always be grateful but still recognize someone is a prize a**. I have a sister like that. She refuses to see a certain person is violent to women despite a court record a mile long. My word for her is “Scary Stupid”. She is so stupid it is scary.

  12. Maritza says:

    She seems to be a true friend, Mel is lucky to have her on his side.

  13. Diane says:

    Please shut up Jodie, you sound like an idiot.

  14. neelyo says:

    Mel knows where the skeletons are buried.

  15. beth says:

    “My word for her is “Scary Stupid”. She is so stupid it is scary.”

    … yup, and the level of scary stupid is directly proportional to their IQs

  16. JuJuBee says:

    Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

  17. irishserra says:

    *sigh* So, am I the immature idiot who’s gonna say it?

    The Beaver?? Really? LOL. I feel like a 12-year-old boy about now.

  18. konspiracytheory says:

    Mel *and* Roman? Bitch, please.

  19. Newbie says:

    yikes. this tarnishes her in my eyes a little…

  20. normades says:

    @ Ari: I share your opinion. It’s so easy to judge when you don’t know the person. I’m not saying Mel hasn’t said some terrible ugly things, but I do admire Jodie’s loyalty. John Galliano’s “real” friends will do the same.

  21. KJ says:

    If I was Mel Gibson’s friend, and heard that he hoped his then girlfriend would be raped by a pack of n*ggers, I think my loyalty would end right about there.

    But then again, I’m black, and Jodie Foster is white. One thing I’ve noticed about a lot of people who “stay loyal” is that if the other person’s words or actions don’t directly insult them, they can ignore it. Jodie Foster can ignore racism and anti-semitism because she’s a WASP and it doesn’t, and won’t ever, affect her. So even though I think she’s a moron for doing so, I can see how she can look past it. What I DON’T understand is how a WOMAN can ignore such blatan misogyny from a friend. Have a little pride, Jodie.

  22. aenflex says:

    ITA, as an actress she is wonderful, and silence of the lambs truly a film treasure.
    but she’s mannish, which is fine, but i think that outlook is lending to her tendencies to side with mel and continue her empathy despite the fact that what he did was quite piggish. so, if i take her comments as coming from a dude, they make much more sense.

  23. haha says:

    I would think she knows him better than anyone of you people who just read random articles about him. Cut the woman some slack, you obviously dont have all the facts.

  24. Cidee says:

    Overrated actress. She has one “look” -knitted-brow, worried anxious eyes – and always seems to be acting instead of BEING the actual person she portrays (unlike the fab M. Streep). Now I have a legit reason to dislike her.

  25. Violet says:

    God my opinion of Jodie Foster has just taken a huge nose dive. I’d always thought of her as intelligent and sweet but really, Roman Polanski AND Mel Gibson… I don’t know what else to say. Really pitiful attitude on her part.

  26. TG says:

    @haha – You are joking right? Did you not hear all those tapes of him shouting and threateng all kinds of violence? I hate golddiggers and do not feel sorry for the woman but the facts remain the same. And Jodi Foster is promoting a movie so money is her primary motive.

  27. K-MAC says:

    it would have been good if she simply kept her mouth shut in this department. Now everyone knows she is a mess too

  28. Anti-icon says:

    Well, she is in the best position to know whether Mel Gibson deserves her friendship or not; and she has, with zero distortion, stated her opinion. I admire her still. (She obviously knew all the details of the partnership, and everyone in it is still alive, thank God.) Maybe she helped her “friend” Mel with that, ya know?

  29. Ally says:

    No one but TMZ staff & commenters is going to go see that movie of Mel & Jodie’s, no matter how much she talks up the wonderful qualities of rapists, misogynists and woman-beaters.

  30. mammamia says:

    Yeah he sounded really loving and sensitive in those recordings. And so what if Oksana was a gold digger. He picked her and she is the mother of his child. I’ve got no sympathy for him.

  31. Scarlet Vixen says:

    “Jody needs to visit a battered women’s shelter and hear their stories. Also, a rape counselling centre.”

    She did win an Oscar for playing a woman who was gang-raped and beaten in “The Accused” so my feeling is she has some idea of what it like. I’m not saying acting is the same thing by any means–just that knowing how serious she is about her craft she’s probably done research and done the things you’ve suggested.

    “Jodie Foster can ignore racism and anti-semitism because she’s a WASP and it doesn’t, and won’t ever, affect her.”

    I don’t know her ethnic background, but I do remember reading a few years ago that her family observes both Christmas and Hanukkah. So my assumption is that she wouldn’t take anti-semitism that lightly…

    I have always respected her as an actress and someone who takes her profession very seriously while also living her life quietly. I also very much identified with her form of ‘depression’ and that inability to stop obsessing over negative parts of one’s life. I’ve struggled with that for years and it’s a big relief to hear that it’s not just me. So, I don’t really know what to think of her friendship with Gibson. I admire her loyalty, but some people just don’t deserve it and deserve to be cut loose. I’m hoping she knows things we don’t.

  32. Circe says:

    Actually, I’m with Jodie on this one.

    It doesn’t take a degree in psychiatry to see that Mel’s having some mental issues. I think everyone’s been really quick to condemn him in every way possible. Whilst I don’t condone racist, sexist, homophobic remarks and spousal abuse, I do think it might just help him return to normal if he has at least some people willing to be his friend. After all, she probably knows him better than we do.

    As for Polanski – c’mon, he’s a talented director, she’s a talented actress, it’s a great script and a great cast. I’d go for it too. And I don’t think we should hold Hollywood stars up as moral examples. I don’t see it as a reflection on her character that she works with Polanski.

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  33. coexxi says:

    @KJ: I’m a white woman and I could never just overlook the rape from a n… comments! Believe me, there are enough white people out there who where also very shocked and disgusted from this (the rape thing alone is horrible, but he really found the one thing to make it worse!). The whole abuse and antisemtism things I don’t even mention.

    Jodie Foster fan…. no more.

  34. Uzi says:

    Jodie’s not alone in her opinion of Mel. A lot of people that have worked with him have said positive things, including in the recent “Vanity Fair” article. Perhaps he just has a big problem with Russian prostitutes…

  35. Uzi says:

    “It doesn’t take a degree in psychiatry to see that Mel’s having some mental issues. I think everyone’s been really quick to condemn him in every way possible. Whilst I don’t condone racist, sexist, homophobic remarks and spousal abuse, I do think it might just help him return to normal if he has at least some people willing to be his friend. After all, she probably knows him better than we do.”

    @Circe…Amen to that! When I read some of the anti-Mel comments I realize that these people have never dealt with a friend or loved one with substance abuse or bi-polar/mental issues. I have. Since Jodie has struggled with depression and knows Mel so well, who better to help him heal.

  36. Hautie says:

    Now this is my own bias opinion.
    So don’t yell at me.

    But Jodie speaks as if there is very personal relationship between them.

    More than just actors who have worked together.

    And granted there is alot to be said about hitting bottom and having at least one friend that does not abandon you.

    Sooo. I am curious. Again, my own warped mind here wondering.

    What if Gibson is the biological father/sperm donor for her boys. She has stated in the past that her boys were a product of a donor.

    But she strikes me as a girl, who just would not accept some random dudes sperm from the local sperm clinic/bank. She is very controlling of her personal life. And I just don’t see her picking some random sperm/guy for her children.

    Maybe it would help explain why she has a interest in him not being demonized.

    I just think there is more to this than her trying to sell the movie. (The Beaver)

    Then again… this is just me wondering aloud. And maybe it was some random dude from the sperm bank. 🙂

  37. Praise St. Angie! says:

    “One thing I’ve noticed about a lot of people who “stay loyal” is that if the other person’s words or actions don’t directly insult them, they can ignore it. Jodie Foster can ignore racism and anti-semitism because she’s a WASP and it doesn’t, and won’t ever, affect her.”

    when she first spoke out in support of him, I said “I wonder if she’d be so forgiving if it weren’t black people and jewish people that he railed against, but gay people…would she still feel the same way?”

    methinks not.

    to the others that said there comes a point that you have to walk away, even if it’s a friend you’ve had forever, I totally agree. I’ve known people like that, and when they express that aspect of themselves, repeatedly, I simply don’t want to be around them. and wouldn’t, in any way, “defend” the slurs they had made.

    on, and Foster can suck it. I’ll never pay to see another one of her movies.

    EDIT: Wow, Hautie, you may have something there! VERY interesting theory!

  38. Keljo says:

    I don’t know what to think about Jodi’s defense of Mel. She obviously has known him a long time, and loves him very much. I try to think what I’d do in a sitatuion like that and honestly am not sure. I may stick by that person as well, I just won’t have to do it so publicly.

    As for her work with Roman Polanski, I agree with Circe (#32) on this one. If we’re going to condemn any actor who works with Polanski, then our favorite HGF Pierce Brosnan has to be added to that list. He starred in Polanski’s last film, “The Ghost Writer,” along with Ewan MacGregor and Kim Cattrell.

  39. danielle says:

    She needs to shut up. Being loyal to a friend is one thing – defending and minimizing what he’s done is something else entirely.

  40. guilty pleasures says:

    I believe that we are NOT able to be reduced to what horrible acts become public.
    I have had an experience that, from the outside, made me seem (and feel) like a horrible human being. It did involve harsh public scrutiny, but only to find the deepest dirt possible, not to examine the pain from whence the action arose. No factual back-story means that the picture is solely that which the evil Media paints. If it bleeds, it leads. Kindness, thoughtfulness, humane treatment of one another is time consuming and sells nothing.
    How can we stand in judgement of another’s compassion? Mel has been judged, and will serve whatever penalty was deemed appropriate. Who are we to continue to castigate people?
    We grow, we learn, we change. Let he who is without sin….

  41. KJ says:

    Even considering that Mel has psychological issues, being bipolar or a drunk doesn’t make you a bigot. End of discussion. It’s one thing if he’s doing terrible stuff because he’s mentally breaking down, it’s entirely another to simply be a terrible person. I’m all for sticking by friends and family through thick and thin, but if your problems violate my morality (racism, homophobia, physical abuse with no real signs of contrition or remorse) I have no problem cutting ties.

  42. ordinarygirl86 says:

    I disagree with her defence of Mel also. I try not to think about it too much because the more I do it pisses me off. How can she defend this man who has proven himself to be a misogynistic monster over the years? I understand loyalty in friendships through thick and thin but you’ve got to draw a line after a certain point!

    This is totally OT but why is it that Jodie doesn’t get as much acclaim as one of our greatest American actresses alongside Meryl Streep? Just wondering…

  43. W.O.M. says:

    Hautie (#36) might be on to something with that theory. Very interesting.

    I think less of Foster for all her pro-Gibson talk. Also I question her motives. She’s got a financial and professional stake helping rehab Gibson’s image. All her yipping will amount to naught: this movie is going to tank.

  44. sassenach says:

    @ Hautie What an awesome theory!!

  45. Jayna says:

    I’m sure he is, Jo-Jo. The meanest man I ever dated — no, he didn’t hit me, but he was emotionally abusive at times — was, also, the MOST charming and loving man a good portion of the time, too. It’s how he drew me in. What nauseating trauma drama I endured for just a young woman at 22 to 25, dating and living with an older, domineering playboy.

    Because Mel has a good side doesn’t excuse what is wrong with him. But I understand standing by your friend. And, truthfully, if I had a longtime friend I loved that much and he had an ex, who did not deserve what he did, but has a persona that seems she is using this to her advantage (all the leaks) for money, then I guess I might defend him publically, too, so people don’t forget he has a good side. But Jodi doesn’t have to live with Mel. If she was in a romantic relationship with him, down the road she would see what Oksana saw or, at least, a portion of it, a tortured man with mental and addiction problems, who is a religious zealot in some respects.

  46. OXA says:

    I know she has a movie to sell but her description of Mel Giblets as a sensitive loving man is pure bullshit. I have lost all respect I may have had for Jodie Foster & will boycott her work.
    No woman deserves to be raped, beaten, emotionally/verbally abused, threatened by a man demeaning her, demanding BJ’s before he burns the house down and buries her in the rose garden. If the roles were reverse and the women did a tenth of what Polanski or Mel did, they would have been in jail for years and ostracized by society.

  47. Ron says:

    I worked with Jodie years ago and she is amazing. I really feel here that she is just trying to protect what is left of her movie. To Director’s movies are their babies and so much time and effort goes into getting one made. Who knows how much is invested monitarily in the film as well. She really can;t go out and trash her lead actor here in public no matter what she feels at this point. If she did, I would imagine her investors in the film would sue her for damaging the marketability of the project. They may go after Mel for this because chances are, he violated a common morals clause in most contracts. However, he was a big star in small project here so that may not have been included..who knows..In a few years after this has been released she may comment further, but I doubt it. She is protecting her interests here and I can’t fault her for that.

  48. ghostbuster says:

    i strive to be the type of friend jodie has been to mel. good for her. she hasnt let her fear of her reputation stop her from sticking up for her friend. she obviously knows him on a deep personal level. it makes me feel bad to be quick to judge since there are always at least 3 sides to every story.

  49. Shay says:

    I was drinking my morning coffee when I read this and almost choked from the laughter.
    I guess this reveals more about Jodie than anything else. We already know what Mel is. Now Jodie has revealed herself for the idiot she is. Only a stupid woman would publicly support Mel.
    I guess there is no such thing as female solidarity.
    Um Jodie, you forgot that your buddy Mel hits women?
    Maybe Mel is privy to watching Jodie’s lesbian encounters? Who knowss

  50. Wiggles says:

    Really, what else is she going to say? She has that dumb ass beaver movie coming out – would it help the movie if she had any negative comments?? Probably, but I’m guessing she has to be seen with him while her movie hits rock bottom – so poor Jodi having to voice any kind of support for the douchebag (rolls eyes). I bet she does have an opinion about his behaviour, but we will never know it because she’s always been smart to keep personal opinions to a minimal – not too mention she’s always said good things about the people she’s worked with. I never much liked her and never bothered to watch any of her work. If anything, this shows her true colours by avoiding the obvious.

  51. Rasputina says:

    Hate them as personalities all you want, denouncing their talent just because they’re nuts makes me sick.

  52. TaylorB says:

    “And he’s not saintly… and he’ll do gross things your nephew would do”

    I must give her credit, this is in fact true your nephew may in fact behave like Mel, particularily if you nephew happens to be an abusive misogynist, self centered, obnoxious, drunken, bigot and that is how you define ‘gross’… I generally define ‘gross’ as nose picking and farting, but I guess we all have our own perspective of what is ‘gross’, personally I think he comes across as a total a**hole.

  53. snapnhiss says:

    She sounds like a wonderful friend.

  54. TaylorB says:

    snapnhiss,

    If I behaved like he has I would hope that my real friends would tell me to shape up or ship out, and at least be honest and say that while they still love me, they will not defend my behaviour and leave it at that.

    As for Polanski, she isn’t even ‘friends’ with him she is just defending a fellow artist or rather talking him up as an artist and then ignoring his crime, and that just pisses me off. Talented or not, you drug and rape a child you basically suck as a human being.

  55. Catherine says:

    A loving and sensitive nutcase of a man who beats his wife. Go Jodie!

  56. original kate says:

    next she’ll say that charlie sheen is an old soul and chris brown is just misunderstood.

  57. susieqinBA says:

    @Hautie on your theory: interesting. What if Mel is the “donor” father to her children but he isn’t aware of it? Him and Jodie had some drinks together got drunk one night and she sat on top of him, did it, Mel passed out and never knew it. Is that a friend?

    What comes out of the man reveals the true man at heart. This is what gets me about all the fools who have worked with Mel and “know him soooooo well”, yeah he’s a generous, caring man (so is my mentally retarded son, he is so sweet and friendly to people and he would have temper tantrums and punch holes in the wall [which are still there]) but as they all have said he says things and his “craziness” and tantrums reveals what he TRULY GENUINELY IS AT HEART! A loving, sensitive man is NOT going to say things to hurt other people and do “gross” things DUH! and his practical jokes are sick/disgusting which reveals what he is at heart! Actions/words reveal who you really are at heart.

    In a way I feel sorry for Mel if he poured this out on her he was crying out for help, he was breaking down, and he needs a REAL person who will help him get to the heart and quit trying to dress his image up. A real friend is going to face/confront the issues that need to be addressed and help you to do the RIGHT thing, face accountability, not give you sympathy (“you poor thing”) but discipline/correction in your life, and if he doesn’t want that then a true will cut you off and not try to “cover up” for you, (I guess I’m a poor parent); the tapes reveal the true man at heart Mel is! I am REALLY SICK of Mel’s PR. Mel needs to speak for himself and not have PR speak for him because now they are doing more damage to him and making themselves out as fools.

    Jodie’s decision to cast Mel for this part was poor insight; she said something that she was wanting to use this part to help him. Now we see that she hasn’t been a GOOD FRIEND and she hasn’t helped him with this role because after the filming, see, he went into his rage! (filming in Sept-Nov, explosive rage in Jan, duh!) I feel Jodie took advantage Mel’s mental illness (like Oks) to use it for her benefit. Jodie YOU DO NOT know what you are dealing with, your motives are NOT for Mel’s benefit, this role ADDS to more embarrassment/public humiliation. Keep talking Jodie the fool and poor director you are is coming out and everybody sees your motives! Serves you right if you don’t make a dime off this movie!! You’re a big fat fool!!

  58. Ruffian9 says:

    Well, that sucks. I’ve always liked her strong presence as an actress, and admired how she’s kept her private life private. And, you know, I do admire someone who sticks by their friends…but…damn, she’s making it REALLY hard to respect her. Gibson AND Polanski? Is she a friend of Charlie Sheen’s as well?

    ETA: “Also, calling Gibson’s rage-lunacy and abusive behavior a “struggle,” is like Chris Brown calling Rihanna’s fist-beaten face a “mishap.” These people are all cowards.” – The_Porchha – YES YES YES

  59. susieqinBA says:

    Loyalty is devotion to righteousness, what is right, integrity, genuiness of heart, not necessarily to the individual themselves. For instance: you marry a man whom you think is a great guy, but he turns abusive; is it right for you to be treated that way? Of course it’s not, is it wrong for you to stand up for yourself and rebuke the man for being mistreated? Of course it’s not. Are you disloyal to the man because you speak out about his abuse? No, you’re not! Is your “loyalty” devoted to the man that once “appeared” to be a great guy or is your loyalty devoted to doing the right thing?

    Did I make myself clear on that one?

    Sometimes I see Mel as this disabled little child who is weak, vulnerable, who can’t think for himself, and follows anyone who is speaking to him and has been taken advantage of by people who care nothing of the child himself but exploits him for their profit and now the child is a product of these people who have made his disability worse.

  60. Violet says:

    I don’t understand the people who are excusing his behaviour because he has mental problems. Sure he does but that doesn’t give him a carte blanche to be a racist misogynistic abusive asshole.

  61. Violet says:

    I don’t understand the people who are excusing his behaviour because he has mental problems. Sure he does but that doesn’t give him a carte blanche to be a racist misogynistic abusive asshole.

  62. Fuzzy Cat says:

    Interesting idea hautie, and Jodie Foster sounds like a good friend. Oksana is a tool – she pushed Mel’s buttons and is playing the victim.

  63. CB Rawks says:

    “You think about something and you think about it again, and you keep going back to a tragic or dramatic moment and try to understand all different angles — and that’s the process of depression, which is not being able to get out of a dramatic thought or feeling.”

    That’s extremely helpful to me, how she clearly stated that. That’s exactly what my situation is.

  64. Quercus says:

    Ug. I am officially no longer a fan of her. Standing by your friend when he drives drunk is one thing. Yes, good people often do stupid things.

    But when the filmmaking community fails to shun and ostracize these criminals, ie Gibson and Polanski, for their proven and *repeated* crimes (always against women), it just normalizes that behavior further. It just sends the message that they and men like them can keep doing it with no repercussions. For both those men, it was NOT a one-thing thing.

    And people can have bi-polar breaks without unleashing tsunamis of rage towards women/minorities/etc.

    Sorry for the rant. As you can tell, violence towards women and children really pushes my buttons. :/

  65. Vesper says:

    I have never liked Jodie as an actress — too bland and boring with no charisma. After reading this article I have lost all respect for her. Standing by a friend is one thing, standing by a friend who beat, terrorized and threatened to bury his ex in the rose garden goes beyond friend loyalty. Would she still be a loyal friend if he killed Oksana? I think she should just STFU and keep her views private.

  66. Alexa says:

    This isn’t that suprising or complicated. She ADORES him and heard HIS TAKE on the Oksana phone tapes before hearing them like the rest of us. LOVE IS BLIND! And it’s much easier for intellectual types to rationalize bad behaviors.

  67. khaveman says:

    Oksana seems like a gold digger, but Mel seems like an angry substance abuser. I bet his wife Robyn was glad to get out of that train wreck marriage. I truly don’t know what to think of Mel Gibson these days.

  68. Vesper says:

    Just a bit of catty gossip about Jodie…I read McKenzie Phillips’ autobiography in which she talks about her struggle with drugs and her incestous relationship with her father. Working in the field of addictions, the details of her past ring true. In the book she has nothing, but nice things to say about EVERYONE with one exception – Jodie Foster. In one very brief sentence she mentions that she didn’t approve of how Jodie got the part in Taxi Driver. I’ll let u fill in the details.

  69. Birds of a Feather says:

    Jodie is clearly as ass if that is who she sticks up for. If there’s any justice, Mel will beat the crap out of her during one of his “struggles” and then she can can literally eat her words as well as her teeth. People like that, men or women, deserve to be victims of the disgusting behavior that they defend.

  70. ADS says:

    @62 Pretty lame excuse ‘she pushed his buttons’ The guy is like 6o y/o. She is the mother of his child and the woman HE chose to be with when it suited him. He should of exercised self control and exited the relationship so as to not cause pain. Did you listen to those tapes? Oksana was calm and collected. If she ‘pushed his buttons’ she really didn’t have to do much to set him off. He doesn’t deserve to be a father with his violent and hateful behaviour.

  71. ezra says:

    She appears to be a loyal friend, whether there is an agenda or not is unclear, however she really should keep her mouth shut & stop singing his praises. If she is sincere she should just quietly support him.

  72. Crash2GO2 says:

    Jodi Foster obviously has big issues if she thinks that someone like Mel is ‘incredibly loving and sensitive’.

    I like your theory Hautie. Still doesn’t excuse her behavior though.

  73. crtb says:

    I would take Jodi over any of you who have written negatively in response to her statements. She truly embodies the true meaning of friendship. Which means loving people when their behavior is good and when it’s ugly. Everyone here thinks they know what happened but who are you to judge Jodi, who really knows what really went down. Let someone tape your conversations without your knowledge. I bet you’d be surprised by how many racist comments you say. As a black person doesn’t look African American, white people will let their guard down and expose their true racist feelings. These same people will swear that they abhor racism

  74. sammib says:

    Totally right Ari3 – she actually knows him. None of us do. The people that write articles about him don’t either. The people who DO know him however have mainly positive things to say about him. And you know, I’m sure EVERYONE here has been angry, or drunk, or said something stupid but no one is taping/filming us when we do it.

    As for Roman Polanski – shit loads of actors have worked for him in the last 30 years..Adrian Brody anyone??? 2002 Oscar sweep anyone???

  75. di butler says:

    I love how judgemental all of you people who’ve never lived/loved someone that is abusive and has mental issues are. Wow. Wouldn’t want to count on you when I was down at my worst. I lived with a million times what that gold digger did, for 14 yrs, and I am nowhere near as bitter as you guys.

  76. Kiska says:

    I DO have mixed feelings about this because I have battled mental illness and have done and said horrible things when I was off medication.

    That being said, Mel made his bed and has never made a statement (as far as I know) as to remorse, shame or regret. If he has, I haven’t seen it!

  77. anti says:

    STRANGE.

  78. Jammin says:

    What? The Roman issue isn’t her business? Child molestation and child abuse is EVERYONE’s business. She really seems to hate her own gender. Supporting spouse-bashers and child molesters… I think she has serious psychological issues and is a very sick person herself.

  79. rerun delaney says:

    jesusmaryandjoseph! what does he have on her? that she bakes kitten pies while wearing their pelts? i really like(d) her. if you haven’t seen ‘inside man’ by spike lee, DO. she’s amazing. but these comments…oh well.

  80. harfang says:

    OK, first of all, K-Stew DOES have a director’s eye. The fact that Jodie Forster picked that up when Kristin was a kid helps prove her basic sanity and piercing intelligence, of which I’ve never had any doubt.

    Obviously I can’t excuse her love and/or respect for Gibson and Polanski, but I think I understand it. Foster has had an extremely unusual life. Her prostitute role in “Taxi Driver” when she was THIRTEEN makes Jane Fonda’s similar role in “Klute,” made when Fonda was an adult, look like Pollyanna. Her other roles as a juvenile after Taxi Driver showed a wisdom and confidence not only beyond her years, but beyond anyone of her gender in film at the time. She has been out as gay since shortly after “Lambs” was released, but has always kept her love life completely and successfully private, to the extent that most people now forget that she ever came out — even though she did so in print, I think it was Vanity Fair.

    The point of all this is that she has never needed, wanted the approval of, or — most importantly — feared men. Overall she’s a tremendously powerful and unstoppable person, and the gender thing is one facet of that. I don’t think she understands what it means to most of us when a physically and sociologically powerful man, like Gibson or Polanski, is abusive. So although she’s too out of it and that’s not okay, I’m not sure she could have turned out otherwise.

  81. P.M. says:

    The dynamics of the relationships of Gibson between Jodie & Oksana (?) are completely different. With Oksana, Gibson was in the power position and felt he could treat her however he wished. But Jodie is more of an equal so he treated her with more respect though the “gross jokes” are suspect. Didn’t Gibson as a “joke” leave a dead rat in an actress’ trailer during a shoot?

  82. Gerry says:

    harfang: yes, KS showed her intelligence calling her fans the people who pay her salary “retards”, comparing herself to rape victims and the latest stunt she pulled was wearing a t-shirt with Harry Truman’s name in Vancouver. You know, he is the guy who ordered the dropping of atomic bombs on Japan. Maybe you’ve heard but there is some problem in Japan with nuclear power. Great timing KS, you best actress of your generation!LMAO

  83. Chris says:

    I remember Denzel came out and defended Mel after Mel’s anti-Semitic rant. I wonder what Denzel thinks about now him given that he dropped the N word during one of his tirades.

  84. curmudgeon says:

    I have more issues with the ROman Polanski business than Mel Gibson to be honest.

  85. Elizabeth says:

    I had a lot of respect for her but not now when she gives the “that’s not my business” remark about Polanski’s rape charges. Sexual exploitation of children is everyone’s business! She is the mother of two boys – what if it had been her children? Get your head out of the sand, Jody, they don’t give Oscars for stupid.

  86. Kitten says:

    Oh Jodie Jodie Jodie…What a society we live in where any sort of vile behavior is excused with the *mental issues* defense. What a fantastic way for people to avoid any accountability for their actions. For those of you who claim that people are condemning Gibson wiothout “knowing all the facts”, how do you know that he suffers from “mental issues”? Do YOU have all the facts? Have you spoken with his doctor or seen his medical records? Why is it so difficult to believe that maybe, just maybe, he is just a hateful person?

  87. Majosha says:

    ” … and the latest stunt she pulled was wearing a t-shirt with Harry Truman’s name in Vancouver.”

    For real? Ugh, what a stupid cow.

  88. nikki says:

    @Guilty Pleasures
    ITA!

  89. OXA says:

    The movie premier was lastnight in Austin where Jodi said.
    “I just have to ask everybody, can you see a film and appreciate the artist for his work?” Foster told The Hollywood Reporter. “And if anything, I think anybody who comes to see the film and understands Mel’s extraordinary performance in the movie can’t go away untouched by his humanity.”

    I had enough of his humanity to last me a lifetime from a few of his calls to Oksana.

  90. EdithP says:

    I have no issues with Jodie defending Mel, if she’d just acknowledge that the things he said (that everyone heard on tape) were awful. A comment like that’s not the Mel Gibson she knows, he must have been going thru a rough patch, etc. Not just act like he littered or parked in a handicapped spot.

  91. Quercus says:

    Foster raised a really interesting question:

    “I just have to ask everybody, can you see a film and appreciate the artist for his work?”

    And my answer is no. I can’t separate the artist from his behavior. That is why I will not see Roman Polanski movies. Now, if the artist expressed actual remorse, then I would reconsider. But neither of these a$$hats has, as far as I know.

  92. VD says:

    I used to like Jodie,but now i think that she is really stupid for defending Gibson.Lost all respect for her.

  93. harfang says:

    d’oh… sorry @Gerry (and everyone), I was referring to Jodie’s piercing intelligence. I may have a crush on KS but even I know she’s a buttmunch.

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