Jesse James on cheating on Sandra: “I didn’t lie about it, I owned it like a man”

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Do you find it surprising that Jesse James is still talking about Sandra Bullock a year after their divorce was finalized? It’s as if he’s still hung up on her and thinks about her constantly. He’s still promoting his book, so I guess it’s predictable that he continues to bring it up. In a recent interview with an Australian Radio station, James gave his same old tired excuses in that pissy voice of his. It’s all about him and how he felt as usual. He claims that he “didn’t lie” about his affairs and “owned it like a man,” however he completely misses the fact that he lied to Sandra for years and that he lied to the strippers he slept with about the state of his marriage. He also claims that

On telling Sandra he was cheating
It was pretty painful to like talk to someone and know that you’re like, the next words out of your mouth are gonna devastate their life.

On if people reached out to him
Not many man, it was like cockroaches when you turn the light on. Everybody scattered. Nobody wanted anything to do with me. I totally got it, because it was like the media, so I’m like “cool, you know…” All my real friends, which was a pretty small group. They’re all there and never left. They all saw it for what it was.

On if anyone on the street talked smack to him after the scandal
I never got one negative comment. Not from anyone. The only people that said negative stuff to me were paparazzi and they were like being paid to do that.

On how people supported him
The media portrayed it as like this big huge negative thing, but man if anything I got more support from anyone else because yeah, guess what I cheated on my wife, but you know what – so do a lot of other people.

You know, does that mean I’m the dev… does that mean I’m satan, you know? I don’t think so.

He “didn’t lie about it”
I made a mistake, and I’m sorry for it and I owned up to it. I didn’t lie about it, I didn’t try to do any kind of B.S. like you know, PR campaign or whatever. I said “Hey, you know, I did it, I’m sorry I made a mistake,” you know.

He “owned it like a man”
I owned it like a man. I took all the abuse for it, which nobody does.

On if he’s forgiven himself
Yeah, I’m cool.

Claims he didn’t do interviews for a year
You wanna know something funny, that kind of has to do with Australia? I didn’t talk to the media for like a year, like wouldn’t talk to anyone. Never, you know like no interviews, no anything. But I write for an Australian magazine and I still wrote my monthly column… the American media is too stupid that they didn’t even realize it. I talked about all kinds of stuff, .. never picked up on it.

[Transcribed from audio of the Kyle and Jackie O show]

So he “didn’t do any interviews,” and would “never,” right?

And as far as him “owning up” to his affairs, he didn’t even go into a single detail in his book. He didn’t name names, he didn’t admit how many women, and tried to make it sound like he was searching for something Sandra didn’t give him, and as if it were her fault. He wrote “I’m into sex, but contrary to whatever biker stereotype got built up around me, sex is mostly a cerebral experience for me. If there’s no personal connection there, then it’s sort of pointless. But with that said: I still did it. I screwed around behind Sandy’s back, and the whole world came to know about it.” That’s it. That’s Jesse cashing in on breaking Sandra’s heart and that’s how he “owned it like a man.”

Here’s audio of the interview

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  1. tanya says:

    Can someone just put a gag order on this toolshed? Please?!?

  2. RocketMerry says:

    And I STILL believe that she knew it. I don’t know, something in this story is not clear.
    However, if she really did not know ,than I hope she does get better quickly and heals emotionally.

  3. KimnotKardashian says:

    Ugh. This idiot disgusts me.

  4. Sloane Wyatt says:

    @tanya: AGREED.

  5. Bored says:

    Dear God, please just go away. Crawl back under your rock and never return – you would be doing the world a favor.

  6. Charlotte says:

    Dirtbag. And um, like how many times can a grown man say, like??

  7. whybenice says:

    What.A.Douche.

  8. kdatl says:

    He is the definition of a douchebag! He still makes it sounds as if it’s Sandra’s fault in some way. Way to own it like a man! Total scum!

  9. kdatl says:

    YUCK! What a pig!

  10. Chloe says:

    Yes, Jesse. You can be proud of yourself.

  11. sapphire says:

    Just WTF.

  12. Kiki says:

    this guy needs to shut the hell up!

  13. heylee says:

    Clarification!!!

    Unless he told “Sandy” directly after he slept with another woman – then he lied about it. The only reason that he came clean was because Bombshell McGee ratted him out. So no, maybe he did not DENY it, but he lied for months if not years by not telling his wife! How can he even say that he did not lie about it, how delusional is this man?

    The sad part is that at this point, he is only lying to himself. I do not understand how Kat can stand to be with him, for no other reason than she hears how he represents this entire situation about him cheating on Sandy. Its enough to make any woman taser the guy and leave him foaming at the mouth on the side of the road.

    GAH!

  14. Susan says:

    What a like, loser.

  15. Jaded says:

    Reel your tongue in buddy, shut your cake-hole, stuff a sock in it, you’re nothing but a sniveling, self-obsessed butt-wipe of a man if that’s what you mean by “owning it like a man”.

  16. Ann says:

    I’m sick of seeing this dumbdumb’s face in the news. He just sounds so stupid.

  17. dorothy says:

    He may have “owned it like a man” , but he still cheated like a dog. Go away loser.

  18. DesertRose says:

    Like, why is a 40 year old man using the word like so much? Vanilla Gorilla sure is good at making himself look unintelligent.

  19. cranky_chica says:

    Sandy must’a had one hell of a non-disclosure wrapped into her pre-nup and divorce agreement.

    For all his “non-interview-interviews”, this guy’s said nothing.

    Watching him try to remain relevant in a reality entertainment world, now that’s priceless.

  20. telesma says:

    But only once you got caught, you trash.

  21. Lady D says:

    What Sapphire said.

  22. RHONYC says:

    repulsive. 😈

  23. Daisy says:

    If I was with a guy that couldn’t STFU about his ex, I would be worried about the state of my relationship. To any woman with half a brain, this type of behavior would raise some red flags. But, this is the same dumb chick who dated him after being exposed as a dirty dog. So, her standards are extremely low, anyway. If this isn’t a bitter, anger man, I don’t know what is. Let it go, dude.

  24. Melissa says:

    He is so gross. That is all.

  25. Glyrics says:

    He owned up, when he got caught. What a man!

  26. TL says:

    A real man don’t cheat. That’s absurd!! He asks the wife or girfriend if they’d be down for a threesome first with another woman to save the relationship and if no he breaks up with her.

    =) j/k

    This guy is a douche

  27. Deb says:

    A real man wouldn’t have done it in the first place. What a douche.

  28. Elizabeth says:

    @ heylee – damn right! Unless he went home and said “hey, guess what I just did with a stripper on my desk at the office? and its wasn’t my expense account!”, then he LIED.

    @ TL – trashy but true. A guy should ask and if the answer is no, then leave. At least that behavior is honest. That is what it means to NOT LIE.

  29. bluhare says:

    Oh please. People cheat all the time, men and women. One of my ex bosses always said that the best salespeople were cheaters; his reason being that they were good at pursuasion.

    The biggest reason people are mad at him is because he did it to Sandra Bullock. I still think he’s got it bad for her.

    I think his bigger issue is the work relatedness of some of it, and I’m very surprised that he hasn’t got sued more over it.

  30. Jana says:

    You owned up to it because there was an abundance of evidence that you couldn’t get out of, you idiot. You’re not a man. Not even for your horrid affairs I’m talking. You’re not a man because of all the innuendo you keep putting out about Sandy and all your whining. If you had continued to state what an amazing woman she was and leave it at that, you might get forgiven by some. That will never happen with your narcissistic whining poor me.

  31. Blue says:

    How old is this guy. He say “like” and ” you know” so many times. Just shut up and go read a book. Expand your vocabulary.

  32. guilty pleasures says:

    He is the creepiest douchebag ever. He’s never done anything like a man, including dress himself. My teenager has outgrown that look!
    Please tell me his book has only sold one copy, to that woman who sees fit to sleep with him now.

  33. mimi says:

    go away.

  34. ivyfall87 says:

    Why is he still wearing a ring? Pleeeeease don’t tell me he took another trip down the isle already!

  35. Ron says:

    No defense for Jesse. He lied about it over and over and when he was caught he owned up to it, yeah for you. Wow what a great guy.

    As far as the vocab goes, he was speaking in a live radion interview and nearly everyone says “like” “um” “ya know” etc when they are talking. Most magazine and even alot of transcripts edit those little coloquilisms out. Whne you are listening to it live, most people tend not to notice them unless there are an abundance of one term “like I was like on the train and like i saw this guy who was like totally weird”

  36. TXCinderella says:

    Only one word to despribe this guy…DOG.

  37. mauibound says:

    soo sorry Jesse, people don’t like u cause ur a douche!

    whomever u cheated on, ur behavior says it all DOUCHE!!!!!!

  38. ladybert62 says:

    What a creep. When is he suppose to be getting married to the tattooed love of his life? Wonder how long that one will last – I say less than one year.

  39. kitty says:

    He needs to own it like a man how much he is still in love with Sandy. She is the one he will never get over.

  40. Thea says:

    I cant stand this POS. He will not shut the heck up. He moved to Texas to be near Sandra, and she wants no part of him. This is what Kat has to look forward to. A whiny, POS man who will blab about your life, and turn on you. He needs to own up and take care of his kids. She needs to get a gag order on this ass and be done. And a restraining order because he is like a stalker. 30 days in rehab doesnt fix your issues Jesse. Go away.

  41. Hootie Hoo says:

    How did he ever get a book deal?

  42. Sian says:

    I reject his unbelievable bullsh*t.

  43. Annie says:

    The scariest part is he actually believes his own horsesh*t!!
    “owned it like a man”!? More like took every opportunity to blame his considerable shortcomings on Sandra. He needs to quit trying to rehabilitate himself with these delusional interviews…..WE GET IT…now you need to!!

  44. Ruby says:

    STFU Jesse. Seriously bro STFU. Kyle & Jackie-O can STFU too.

  45. Faye says:

    You’re right Jesse, you owned it like a man and you deserve a medal. I’m going go to my medal drawer and get out the big shiny one that says I’M A MAN and send it to you STAT. Please wear it everywhere so people can appreciate you for what you are: a man who skanked it up big time and won’t shut up about it as though there isn’t a thing wrong with what was done.

  46. Amanda G says:

    He is such an idiot that I can’t even waste words on him anymore. NEXT.

  47. Cirque28 says:

    It was pretty painful to like talk to someone and know that you’re like, the next words out of your mouth are gonna devastate their life.

    More about how shattered Sandra Bullock was… ugh! I’m sure it was no walk in the park for her. However, unlike Jesse, she did appear to MOVE ON pretty quickly. She hasn’t given interviews about it, so we only have Jesse’s word that she was like, soooo like… HURT ‘n stuff. What a sickening way of stroking his own ego.

  48. kira says:

    How long is this guy going to drag Sandra through the mud in order to stay in the spotlight? Boy, Sandra SOME patience to put up with his continuing “shit on my ex” and I’m the “REAL victim” BS. Unbelieveable.

  49. DSM-R says:

    A man takes care his business and if he finds himself in a situation he took an oath to protect will take the appropriate measures to protect that oath. Jesse James is not a “Man” he is a child in a grown up body.

  50. original kate says:

    “I owned it like a man.”

    something tells me this douchebag has never, ever done anything like a man.

  51. REALIST says:

    No more Jesse, please. Just the sight of his face on the CB page makes me want to ralph. He has absolutely no merit and deserves no media coverage whatsoever, gossip or otherwise.

  52. anne_000 says:

    the only way not to lie about cheating is to announce it first that you’re going to start cheating.

    and how is it owning up to it like a man if you secretly cheated behind your wife’s back?

  53. Ruffian9 says:

    Goddamm this asswipe makes me fu**ing stabby. I don’t think there’s one comment he made that didn’t make me want to punch him in the fu**ing head.

  54. Alix says:

    Somebody needs to explain to this dbag the phrase “lies of omission”.

    Actually, he’s worse then a dbag. I very rarely ever use this word, but this dude’s a c***.

  55. Sue says:

    Jesse, Please just go away! Thank you.

  56. Dea says:

    Two people I want so bad to disappear from this lovely planet: Kim, The Whore and Jesse, The Jerk.

  57. Dani says:

    I hate the rationalization that goes like this, “I am sorry I did it and I own it.” Yeah, well then by all means go around literally screwing people over as long as you are sorry and apologize. No harm done then, right.

    Like hey lady I just ran over your kid with my car whilst I was drunk but I am sorry. Lady replies, “oh well, ok sir, then go about your business.” “No harm done.” “I have to go now and bury my dead child if you will excuse me.”

    Ok, ok, maybe a bit of an exageration but seriously, what an asshat. How about the concept of not doing it to begin with. You know, like having some character. Yeah, now that’s a concept.

  58. Chris says:

    The man’s a saint. (sniffs and wipes tear from eye)

  59. Nikki Girl says:

    The more he opens his mouth, the stupider he sounds. It seems very clear to me that he is not over Sandra Bullock, and he is still angry and hurt that she left him. I don’t think he expected her to actually leave him and I think it wounded him deeply. Thus now we have to listen to his constant mouth-farting.

  60. really says:

    he owns being stupid like a man too, right up his ass.

  61. Laughternrain says:

    Ok, surely he must be using sarcastic irony! Cheating and screwing multiple women, BEHIND your wife’s back, is the VERY DEFINITION of lying. By virtue of cheating, he lied and did not take it like a man. After he was exposed, what other choice did he have but admit to it? He had no choice. That is not at all ‘taking it like a man’. Thats having no choice.

    As to not doing PR, again, is that called irony or sarcasm? Straight after the split, he was out on the PR circuit, pushing his book, and saying things like sex is better with Kat, she is the love of his life, etc etc. He HASN’T STOPPED doing PR to make himself look good, and attack Sandra through the pr circuit. I’ve never seen any man jump to the pr circuit as fast as he, and attack his wife so viciously and cruelly through it!

  62. Ronilyno says:

    I believe if given the opportunity to do it all over again,things would of been done differently or not at all. Spontaneous decisions are haphazard and instantly gratifying it’s the delayed gratification that is where the reward lies. He has sustained a great loss further compromising his value system. You both appeared to be so happy and fulfilled.

  63. margo says:

    Real men/women DON’T cheat.
    Cheating is easy, turn on Maury, Springer or any other crap-fest catering to the low-brow. Instant gratification without any regard for anyone but yourself and what YOU want.
    Fidelity, Loyalty , HONESTY is the true test of character. If you don’t want to be in a relationship, then don’t! Be an adult and have enough respect for yourself and the other person whom you wanted to be in a relationship with at one time.–Anyone can lie, or cheat on someone…Try “owning up” to your vows, not your genitals.THATS WEAKNESS- ANY scumbag, loser or president or dignitary can cheat. A REAL man/woman stands by their word, respects the people they choose to be with
    It’s called self-respect, integrity-honoring your word and yourself. Yes, people make “mistakes” but this tool..it’s his way of life. If you want to be with someone else than have the balls to break it off. Cheating is what cowards do when they are afraid they don’t measure up in some way. Justifying in the end..they don’t. Or they are just spineless, selfish and KARMA always catches up!

  64. Ally says:

    Yeah, well, many cheaters are self-serving morons. One guy on the OWN show Unfaithful said that after his wife found evidence of his affair and confronted him with it, “I decided to stop lying and be truthful with my wife.” No you didn’t! You got caught with undeniable evidence!

    This is a vivid example of adding insult (to intelligence) to the original injury.

  65. Abby says:

    So he had like, a cerebral connection, like, with “Bombshell”?

    Like, okay. 🙂