Tori Spelling fires back at Star, says her kids cried over the ‘divorce’ story

Tori Spelling

Last week, we covered the Star story that alleged (through a rather flimsy source) that Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott were hurtling towards a $300 million divorce. The story provided details such as Tori hiring a private investigator after suspecting Dean of cheating on her with a couple of different women for at least two years. Further, Star’s source claimed that Dean often chided Tori for her weight struggles after giving birth to four children. The story also tried to make a huge deal out of Dean making a play for Candy Spelling’s money since Tori didn’t get anything from her dad after he died, but that part didn’t make much sense at all.

Even before Star appeared on newsstands, Tori got wind of the story and spoke with the Mail to categorically deny marriage troubles. Of course, the story had already gone to print and showed up in grocery store checkout lines where Tori’s kids saw it and freaked out. Tori wrote about it on her blog, and she rips Star several new ones. This is so sad:

Tori Spelling

[Y]ou might be wondering what I’m referring to while others have already seen the hateful story on the cover of this weeks Star magazine claiming that Dean and I are divorcing and many more horrible claims against my husband. Yes, the story will pass but what won’t pass is what happened in a local supermarket check out line.

My son Liam is turning 6 in a couple weeks. His proudest achievement so far in his young life is that he is learning to read. Until now, when that pride turned to sorrow thanks to Star magazine. He first spotted me on the cover, then Dad, and then a picture of himself and his 3 younger siblings. He was able to read two things out loud, the word DIVORCE (which he proudly sounded out) and the caption above his picture which read “Who will get the kids?” He became terrified. I had to hurry him and his confused 4-year-old sister Stella out of the grocery store and into our car. By the time he was fastening himself into his car seat he was asking, “Why is someone getting us?? Where are you and Dad going?” He was anxiously biting his lower lip and his big blue eyes were filled with tears. My heart sank. How would I explain to my children that what these 3 writers who have never even met us but who claim to know the ins and outs of our relationship and have proudly put their names on this article are flat out writing lies?

I’ve always had shots taken at me. It’s been almost 24 years since I became a public figure starting at age 16 with 90210. It’s the downside to this business but I’ve built up a pretty thick skin to the lies and trash talking at this point. But my children are another story. Keep them out of it! I wonder if any of those 3 writers have children? How would they feel if their child had to read something so hurtful and confusing as what mine had to read? How do they sleep at night knowing they’ve potentially emotionally scarred and if nothing else terrified innocent children.

Driving home I repeatedly told my children, “That magazine doesn’t know us. Daddy and I are very happy and in love. There will be no divorce and all of us will remain together as a family”. Stella, my literal one, just kept saying “But then why is it on the magazine? Magazines are true.” I wish that were always the case.

I’m lucky my two oldest are only 5 and 4 and couldn’t read the fine details of the article where horrific claims were made against my husband, their Dad.

Again, you want to make inaccurate low blows at someone Star? Go for me! I can handle it. I always have. But don’t do it to a man that has done nothing but loved me and our children. He has stood by me during the good times and held my hand through the darkest moments of my life. I’m so blessed to have him as my partner in life and love and he is the best father to our four children. I’m aware that all that matters is that we know our truth. It’s just sad that our actual happiness would probably be deemed boring to Star Magazine. What kind of society have we become where love stories and fairytales are dead? That others’ failure is what people crave and what sells? That’s not the world I want my children growing up in.

[From Tori Spelling’s blog]

Tori is absolutely correct in that the tabloids never consider how much their hypothetical “divorce” stories will upset the children, especially when the stories aren’t even true in the first place. I hope Tori and Dean are just fine, and hopefully, the kids will eventually forget about Star’s cover, but it wouldn’t surprise me if the cover is emblazoned in their impressionable minds for good. How terrible for these kids.

One more thing — if Tori had been forewarned about this awful story being splashed all over the cover of a very prominently placed tabloid magazine, don’t you think she could have left the kids at home while she hit the grocery store for her weekly shop? I’m not trying to blame Tori at all for this story upsetting her kids, but I would have left them with a sitter or with Dean until things blew over. Maybe she didn’t realize they would see it though.

Tori Spelling

Tori Spelling

Tori Spelling

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  1. Denise says:

    I never thought I’d feel sorry for Tori Spelling, but there it is. The kids of celebrities suffer. I’d be very happy to never see a single photo of a celeb’s child, I don’t get anything from it personally and it’s a vulgar invasion of the child’s privacy, regardless of whether the parent is ok with it or not. The blogs that focus exclusively on the lives of these kids are run by the hopelessly pathetic. And needless to say, The Star is soulless.

    • Cirque28 says:

      +1

      People who are fascinated by the children of celebrities give me the heebie jeebies. We don’t need to see minor children’s photos; they didn’t sign up for this. Leave the kids alone!

    • Happymom says:

      I think she has brought this on herself by putting her kids out there and sharing every little detail about their lives. It seems pretty disingenuous to put your children in the public eye to make your living, and then complain about the “darker side.”

  2. Inconceivable! says:

    Tori should have stopped Liam from sounded out the words “divorce – who will get the kids?” right after the first “d”. Seriously, she is overly dramatizing this story, if it even happened at all.

    • DreamyK says:

      Six yr old kids read. I find Tori’s perspective on tabloid rumours and the emotional cost to her children to be very credible. I’m baffled at your lack of empathy for children’s fears and feelings.

      Also, in the event that you don’t have children and have not been witness to some of their phases, there is this thing called night terrors. Not to be confused with nightmares Even well adjusted kids get them. Many children experience them and it’s sometimes tied to the fact that for the first time they really and truly understand that they are completely dependent on adults for their survival. It’s very scary for them to consider what would happen if their parent (s) were not there to take care of them i.e. divorce.

      Tori is a hands on mom and kudos to her for being sensitive to her kids reactions when exposed to crap made up about her family. Hiding this crap from her kids would be difficult as she is in the spotlight and that same spotlight supports her family financially.

      • Inconceivable! says:

        DreamyK – I have empathy for young kids feelings, especially my own children. But Tori’s cost of putting her marriage, pregnancies, births, birthday parties, children’s milestones, the family home, etc on TV and in books for public consumption is exactly what happened. If she wants to trade back all the cash and lifestyle that money afforded her…I’m sure the tabloids would love to ignore her again. I doubt Tori would like that very much either.

    • JL says:

      My guess would be the little guys sounded it all out and then told Torri what he discovered. Grocery Store with kids – HELLO. You’re unloading the cart, watching the little ones, paying etc…..

      Totally beleivable he saw it, read it then asked.

      My issue is they’re splaying RUMORS, might be’s etc no real facts.

      Does this kid know his family is all that different than everyone elses – I doubt it. I didn’t realize people didn’t have a house and family like mine until I was around his age 6 or 7. Even if he knows “famous” the fact people will lie and print it is incredulous to us adults, why not a child?

    • Ok says:

      I call Whitney BS from Torrie. A 4 year old is not going to insist that a magazine is “true”.

      And if she doesn’t want he precious children being marred by tabloid gossip then she should quit show business. She will fade into obscurity in very short order.

      There are trade offs in everything in life. If you want to be dameous in show business you will have your private life held up in tabloid fodder. It is part is making millions of dollars doing comparatively easy work with many benefits.

      Torrie needs to take a big girl pill.

      • Nilber says:

        I beg to differ most children are extremely literal at that age. My son would have said something like that at that age.

      • Moore says:

        I think it is quite possible that the child would think mags are true. They are made by grown-ups and displayed in stores. It is adults that come to realize that they mags are full of shit.
        This is about protecting children from mags. Even if the children didn’t see it I believe that it is wrong for mags to tell lies about innocent children.

      • Layale says:

        My son struggles with what is true and what is not; he at first thought all print and tv media was true, too. Teaching him that not all of it is true can be tricky, because some of it is, some of it isn’t.

        Having said that, it’s possible she might be over-dramatizing for the sake of getting her point across (or to make others feel sorry or ashamed?), but I do think the concept is believable.

    • puhlease says:

      I agree. I have an almost 6-year old and she would not be able to read “divorce.”. She’s reading words like “go” and “to.” She gets stuck on words like “the.” I doubt this is true at all.

  3. Nashville Girl says:

    I remember those early years of my daughter starting to read – you don’t think about it. You are so used to not having to shelter them from words that it is a little bit of a shock when they read something you weren’t expecting.

  4. lisa2 says:

    This is what makes me sick about the tabloid stories. These idiots never think about children. And yes many times they become aware of this crap. I think Hugh or someone else said recently that their child heard some dumb story on the TV and was upset. It may not have been Hugh but again this is someone’s family. Whether you like the celebrity or not it is wrong. I would imagine anyone reading would be upset if their child came home from school saying that the other children were saying that their parents were breaking up. And actually that kind of story is pretty tamed compared to some of the other filthy things they print about a lot of celebrities. Gossip is one thing. But out and out lies are something different.

  5. Jules says:

    Oh the humanity…….

  6. fabgrrl says:

    Her children seem a bit young to be reading tabloids. Sure, they may be able to sound out words, but they don’t usually know what “divorce” and such mean. It seems like she could have distracted them and flipped the magazine around. The only one who should be old enough to truly comprehend this would be Dean’s oldest kid.

    • momoftwo says:

      My son could read really well at 6 yr old. And if he saw a picture of his dad I’m sure he’d read it.

      6 yr olds can have more comprehension that you think (or you wish they had!)

      But she could also be exaggerating…

  7. Cece says:

    Sorry, but I’m not buying her story. Surely her kids understand that their parents (or at least the mom) are famous, so I fail to believe that she hasn’t explained gossip mags to her kids and to just ignore them. The gossip rags have featured fluff stories on her and her family plenty of times, including pics of the kids — she has invited them into her life and the lives of her children plenty of times. She only boo hoo hoos when she doesn’t control the story.

  8. JL says:

    I wouldn’t guess a six year old would sound out Divorce much less pay attention to rags on the way out of the store.

    All I see here is a rag sheet making money and a mom with some upset kids. I’m pretty sure Star could care less, and I’m pretty sure those babies still remember and worry over it.

    Sad, i don’t think you can “overdramatize” hurting kids. They are Kids and should be protected from lies and ugliness – there will be enough ‘real’ issues later for all kids.

  9. Faye says:

    If the story is true, then I feel sorry for her kids. But, similar to the Ben Affleck story above, I have little sympathy for Tori. Didn’t she have a reality series of some sort featuring her family? I haven’t seen it so if I’m wrong, then I take it back, but . . .if you invite cameras into your children’s lives and homes, why act all surprised and indignant when stuff like this happens?

    • anonymous fan says:

      Thank you Faye,and good point.I think Tori Spelling is just an awful husband stealing woman so I can’t pretend her feelings matter to me, but the idea that you can put your children on a reality show,which makes them cleebrities by default, and then act surprised when you get tabloid drama is just idiotic.And one more point,if your kids see that you two are so in love and happily married at home,then why would they even believe some tabloid story? Her anger and self righteousness makes me think there is more truth to the story then she wants us to know.It is like when Tom Cruise sued tabloids that suggested that his marriage to Katie Holmes was in trouble and he isn’t spending time with his daughter.He got mad because those stories were true.
      It seems like celebrities only respond to tabloids when they hit the nail on the head and get close to home.Dean is a money hungry jerk and is on his way out the door.Who is she kidding,I bet it’s already over.

    • lucy2 says:

      This is a good point.
      While I don’t agree with tabloids printing lies that hurt people, especially kids, once you open the door to your private life, it’s hard to shut it again. Growing up in the atmosphere with your family life on TV simply can’t be healthy.
      Regardless, it would be nice if the tabloids thought about the impact of their crap sometimes. Sorry her kids had to deal with it.

    • Violet says:

      Yep, that was pretty much my first thought.

      Moreover Tori had advance notice about these headlines hitting the stands, so she could’ve — and should’ve — warned her children, lessening the impact.

  10. ladybert62 says:

    If her father did not leave her any money, why is she worth $300 million?

  11. aims says:

    I guess my issue is, these parents are seeking the lime light. They’re selling out their family for their image. Tori has had a few reality show that involved her kids. She isn’t like Meryl Streep, who acts, then has her family, separate of her career. Kids should be off limits all the time. They’re just products off their parents. But, I have a problem when you use your kids for a self serving purpose. And Tori’s right, they didn’t ask for this. That also includes her, and the right to be in their home with out cameras.

  12. Janam says:

    Tori did not have any sympathy for the child that dean left behind with his wife, while he was cheating with tori! Her whole new life with dean has been lived very publicly in order to cash in. I do like Tori, she seems sweet, but she did break up a family , and I have little sympathy for someone who uses the paparazzi, and allows their lives to be filmed, for money, than cries when an unflattering story comes out. She chose this life! And bottom line, that choice is what will hurt her kids!

    • Violet says:

      @Janam

      Good point. And Dean actually abandoned TWO children when he left his first family for Tori. His then-wife ended up adopting their baby daughter on her own, and Dean only keeps in touch with their biological son.

      • DGO says:

        Tori used to try to buy Dean and Mary Jo’s son’s affection until she had her own kids. Then she seemed to forget him. Makes me think that’s what LeAnn will do.

      • Violet says:

        @DGO

        There’s a blind that Eddie got himself fixed 😉

        But I agree that LeAnn would totally ignore her “bonus” boys if she ever had a baby.

  13. Guest5400 says:

    I also don’t believe her kids saw the story at a grocery store.She just wants her fans to think she does her own grocery shopping.I don’t buy it.Her fake,phony marriage is going to come crashing down like every other reality show marriage.Tori, karma’s a bitch girl and so are you.That’s what you get for putting your business out there.Whose husband are you gonna get with 4 kids at home? lol

    • Baylor says:

      Love this! So very true.
      To me she always doth protest too much about how happy and perfect there marriage is/was.

    • Carolyn says:

      If you can’t take the heat get out of the kitchen. No sympathy for Tori.

      First world problems. Created by Tori herself.

    • puhlease says:

      I agree. The story is so fake in its entirety. 5-year olds can’t read the word divorce and IF that had happened she would freak her kids out by her behavior. If she simply looked at the magazine and laughed and acted like it wasn’t important then the kids would follow suit.

  14. hoya_chick says:

    Does a 5 year old really know what the word divorce means? I can see her son recognizing both her and Dean on the cover, but I just don’t think it rings true that he read it, understood it and is now traumatized for life.

    The fact that all of her children’s entire lives have played out in front of reality show cameras, and were on the cover of magazines debuting their births makes me think that if you are willing to sell your happy family life image to the highest bidder don’t get all sanctimonious when the tabs bite back and publish something contrary. You put it all out there for public consumption. You can’t pick and choose what is out there when you yourself is a bit of a famewhore. It’s not like she and Dean are actors. Their bread and butter is there reality show.

    That being said, if this is totally false, and you feel it has irreparably harmed your child then sue Star mag.

  15. KellyinSeattle says:

    Anyone else tired of her white hair?

  16. mimi says:

    I guess now she feels how her husband’s first wife and threir children felt.
    If I am not mistaken she was pregnant with another child when he started his affair with Tori.

    • DGO says:

      Mary Jo was in the process of adopting a little girl and the adoption almost fell through when Dean told her he was leaving her for Tori, and that he didn’t want the baby. Mary Jo was left stranded in CA because they wouldn’t let her fly back to Canada, and it messed up their biological son’s life pretty much for awhile. He doesn’t have much to do with Dean and Tori now.

  17. Belle says:

    I guess I believe this may be partly true… but possibly dramatized a bit. What bothers me some is I would think that celeb parents do a lot of explaining to their children (from a young age) about their lifestyle… the reasons people follow them and take pictures, etc. Seems part of that explaining, even early on, would include preparing the kids for this type of stuff… magazine stories that aren’t true, online gossip that isn’t true…. even things their classmates might say to them. Right?

    Maybe this is the first time the kid read some things that he saw by himself, and got upset. But Tori is kind of acting like she has kept them in some sort of bubble… which I doubt.

  18. Cali says:

    I am 100% Team Tori and Ben Afleck vs. the Psycho Paps and Tabloids!!!!

    • Happymom says:

      They use the papps to film their kids when it’s convenient to sell their image, tv show, movie. I think it’s ridiculous when they suddenly turn and act like they didn’t court the attention to begin with.

  19. swack says:

    Her son may know what a divorce is considering his father went through one and still has obligations to his children from the first marriage. That being said, my question is, who made the big deal about it? Did Tori get upset in front of him or did she just try to play it down? Children learn from adult reactions. I say this because of two instances with my older daughter. In one she did not start crying until we overreacted (she was young). The second one is when she (and my others) were learning to walk, when they fell we would laugh (when they were not really hurt) so that everytime they had a small fall they would not cry. It worked as she would laugh when she would fall trying to walk and all our friends couldn’t believe it. She still laughs until this day.

    • Cece says:

      I agree – I find it very hard to believe that he had the time to read this and digest its meaning before he asked her why her picture was on the cover of the magazine. Surely he has seen her on magazine covers before. I actually saw this magazine at the checkout counter today, and the “who will get the kids” part was quite small and at the bottom of the magazine. I actually had to pick it up to find it, so this kid must have really been examining it. Considering that the tabloids are not always friendly to her, she should probably be more on the ball. I never let my kids pick up the magazines.

  20. Bella says:

    SHE WILL NEVER ADMIT TO ANYTHING!HE BASICALLY CAN DO WHAT HE WANTS

  21. the original bellaluna says:

    This, in combo w/ the Ben/Seraphina story, just highlights what celeb kids go through.

    I have less sympathy for Tori though, as she’s chosen to feature her family on more than one reality show, whereas Ben is just trying to live his life in an area populated by many celebs (Brentwood).

    And again, she could have left the kids at home. It’s not like she’s a single mother.

  22. Cinderella says:

    If Dean thought he was going anywhere, he sure as heck won’t now.

  23. Shelley says:

    This is a side-bar question – but does anyone know please why Tori’s Dad didn’t leave her any money? Is that even true? Not anything at all? I thought they were quite close. Did he leave money to her brother?

  24. Teresa__Maria says:

    “Tori recently filed for divorce and is seeking full custody of her children”
    That is what Wikipedia has to say about Tori 🙂