Matt Damon & Ben Affleck get Guys of Decade award at Guys Choice Awards

These are photos of Matt Damon and Ben Affleck at the Spike TV Guys Choice Awards, which were taped over the weekend and air this Thursday, June 9th. I love the derpy expression on Affleck’s face, he always looks so thrilled when he’s with Damon. Plus he’s getting an award, I shouldn’t just chalk it up to the company. People Magazine has details about their speech along with the fact that Affleck spent some time talking to a disabled veteran who was honored during the ceremony, Shilo Harris. Harris spoke very highly of Affleck. This reminds me of one of the last times we saw Damon and Affleck together, during the taping of Project Greenlight, where Damon mansplained diversity to panel member Effie Brown and managed to alienate her while Brown said that Affleck had her back. People like Affleck and come away with a positive impression of him so I’m not surprised that Harris was impressed. Damon isn’t as good of a listener and could learn a few things from Affleck. In turn Affleck could get some tips from Damon on treating his wife as well as he treats everyone else. Here’s some of what these two said:

[Ben Affleck and Matt Damon] were honored Saturday night with the “Guys of the Decade” award at Spike’s 10th Annual Guys Choice Awards, taped at Sony Pictures Studios in Culver City, California.

“I think it goes without saying that this is an award Matt and I have been dreaming about since we were little boys,” Affleck, 43, said in his speech, Damon, 45, at his side. “I did Gigli and Matt did that Liberace movie and all of a sudden it all seemed out of reach. Then I did [Batman v Superman] and all of a sudden it was back in reach again.”

“Now we’re the … coveted Dudes of the Decade … the Guys of the D—heads?” he continued. “What is it?”

“No, the D—heads of the Decade award,” Damon replied.

While Affleck and Damon hung together backstage, they spent time chatting apart: Damon talked with Julia Roberts and Robert De Niro while Affleck spent several minutes speaking with Shilo Harris, an Army veteran-turned motivational speaker and writer, following injuries during an IED explosion.

Affleck and Harris had a “great talk,” Harris told PEOPLE.

“He was a great man,” Harris said. “He asked me what I do, and I told him that I was a motivational speaker, and that recently we’ve been combatting the epidemic of veteran suicides.”

And of the possibility that Affleck might contribute to Harris’ work with veterans, he said, “I don’t know, but you know what, I kept talking and he kept listening. So I’m very proud of that.”

Affleck and Damon have been close since growing up together in Massachusetts. They proved to be an award-winning pair, when their 1997 hit Good Will Hunting won two Oscars, and have continued to collaborate – currently on HBO movie Thirst, Syfy thriller Incorporated and an interactive competition series called The Runner.

[From People]

Affleck equated Gigli with Behind the Candelabra, which just… no. Damon turned in an incredible performance in that movie. That’s another thing that Damon could teach Affleck – acting.

People also mentions that Damon gave the commencement speech at MIT over the weekend. If you’re inclined you can watch his entire speech on YouTube. To start, Damon admitted that he doesn’t have a college degree as he didn’t finish his undergraduate studies at Harvard. He said that he put on his cap and gown and walked with his class but just didn’t collect his degree after. Then he joked that he was hoping MIT would give him a degree, and that “for the second time in my life I am fake graduating from a college in my hometown.

Also, Damon said during his commencement scene that the scene in Good Will Hunting where his janitor character solves the equation on the blackboard was based on an actual incident with his brother, Kyle. “He was visiting a physicist that we knew at MIT and he was walking down the infinite corridor. He saw those blackboards that line the halls. So my brother, who’s an artist, picked up some chalk and wrote an incredibly elaborate totally fake version of an equation. It was so cool and completely insane that no one erased it for months. This is a true story.” That’s so cool!

Damon mentioned the theoretical possibility that life is a simulation. “If there are multiple simulations how come we have to be in the one where Donald Trump becomes the Republican nominee for president?” He encouraged the graduates to make a difference in the world and cited a litany of problems that need solutions including Brexit, the banking system, the refugee crisis, climate change and “a media that thrives on scandal and people with their pants down.” Guilty as charged. Damon also talked about his work with Water.org, the importance of clean water and the people who have made an impression on him during his charity work. Damon’s speech is incredible and I would recommend you watch it if you get a chance.

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  1. Pinky says:

    Ew to all of this.

    ETA: Maybe I’m being unfair.

    –TheRealPinky

    • Snazzy says:

      Well, Ben’s face is pretty freaky in that top pic.

      • MsGoblin says:

        Exactly! He needs to stop with the “improvements”.

      • MorningCoffee says:

        Yes! Ben’s eyes are just not good. They look way too tiny for his face. Aging gracefully (or at least with good work) is also something Damon could teach him.

      • Jabba says:

        Ben’s makeup artist is on instagram (yeah, he has a makeup artist) and every time she works on him he turns out orange and weird-looking. Has no one told him this? His face looks way better in candid pap photos than it does for events.

      • LAK says:

        That top pic really highlights the work he has done on his face.

    • AnnieRUOk says:

      Ew? Is that really your response to his face? Haha. No questions, no comment, just disgust. That’s interesting. Well you’re going to vomit when you read this: if bamon had a sexy tape, I would watch it!

  2. serena says:

    Dear god, his face… wtf. Stop with the botox Ben.

    • Original T.C. says:

      Is it only Botox? It looks as twerked as renee zellweger’s. He just looks odd.

    • phlyfiremama says:

      Good lord I know. American horror story, thy face is Ben Affleck (*shudders)

  3. Tara says:

    Well, say what you want, but these guys look really good after two weeks of Johnny Depp. Let’s be honest.

  4. Jayna says:

    They are the true bromance of the decade, so deserve the honor. LOL

  5. Bey says:

    “people with their pants down” or short: Ben Affleck.

  6. Anne says:

    Slept with his kids’ nanny. Strong-armed a black man into covering up his slave-owning ancestor which got the show kicked off the air for a year. Yeah, he’s a real winner.

    • V4Real says:

      I’m sure we all have things in our closet that we would like to keep there. Seems to me that he was embarrassed that his ancestors owned slaves; I would be to.

      Didn’t Cumberbatch ancestors also owned slaves and people were condemning him like he was the one that owned them.

      • lilacflowers says:

        Yes. Cumberbatch’s mother told him not to use his real name because people would sue him seeking reparations for his ancestors.

      • Anne says:

        Was he forced to do the show or something? Did I miss that detail? Unless your family are all recent immigrants chances are someone in your family tree owned a slave at one point. Make an apology, move on, don’t pull rank and try to get away with something.

      • Myrna says:

        Affleck is nothing compared to Damon, who is introspective, the epitome of class, a gentleman with incredible talent.
        Affleck’s personal life (which is none of our business, but fairly up for public scrutiny) has been disgraceful and his acting abilities are laughable.
        There is no comparison between these two’s acting or personal lives.
        To compare Gigli to Candalabra is a sham since Candalabra won numerous awards and Damon’s acting won critical and public acclaim.

        As far as the way Affleck handled the ancestor slaves issue, it was insulting.
        If he had any integrity, he would have faced it head on – owning it.
        We can not be held responsible for the sins of our ancestors.
        But we must acknowledge and condemn them.

        Affleck lacks the fortitude of character to accomplish any of this.

      • Naya says:

        Which people condemned Cumbie over his ancestors misdeeds? The only time that kind of past becomes an issue is when upper class descendants refuse to acknowledge that they are still beneficiaries of that system. When your familys social status was cemented generations ago on the backs of slaves, you dont get to pull a Trump and claim you pulled yourself up by your bootstraps. That conversation would never have applied to a Boston boy born into a working class family.

        He tried to erase it because he is a vain self righteous PoS. Also I suspect he was afraid of the possibility of distant relatives from the slave side and the optics of it….Not that anybody would have cared, but since he is a vain self-righteous man, he cared.

    • Jabba says:

      Caught card counting, thrown out and banned for life. It’s getting harder to keep track of all his messiness.

    • Pepper says:

      Ben sexually harassed another female producer on camera in one of the early seasons of Project Greenlight, and groped a female reporter on camera back then too. Both are really uncomfortable to watch, especially the video with the reporter. He’s all over her and she’s just trying to do her job. If he’s like that with relatively powerful when he knows he’s being filmed I can’t imagine what he’s like with PA’s and interns off-screen.

      I don’t know why people make excuses for him, he’s a gross, unpleasant man.

  7. Susan says:

    Gross. That’s all we need, more Male self indulgence. Nothing says “Man of the decade” like a middle aged guy who bangs the kids’ nanny, gets a Phoenix back tattoo and waaaay too much Botox. Oh and racist mansplaining, my favorite.

  8. Adrien says:

    Ben Affleck looks like he faceswapped with Will Arnett (or Jason Sudeikis).

  9. CidySmiley says:

    “Guys Choice Awards”

    What and why?

  10. embertine says:

    I am so glad that these awards exist. I just feel that wealthy, white, straight men just don’t get enough credit in this crazy mixed-up world of ours, you know?

    • Emma - The JP Lover says:

      But aren’t these the same guys who gave Jennifer Aniston the Decade of Hotness award?

      @Celebitchy …

      I loved Matty D’s Commencement address! 🙂

  11. Jenns says:

    “I did Gigli and Matt did that Liberace movie and all of a sudden it all seemed out of reach.”

    Am I the only one raising my eyebrows at this? Is he insinuating that Matt could win a Bro Award because he played Liberace’s lover?

    • Snazzy says:

      I thought Matt was wonderful in that. Really good acting.

    • Anne says:

      That show/movie won a bunch of awards, too (11 Emmys). I didn’t really get Ben’s comment. Gigli =/= Behind the Candelabra.

    • Rapunzel says:

      Y’all are misunderstanding the joke. He’s saying the Liberace movie was better… Which is why the award was out of reach, cause he and Matt weren’t on the same level. But then he did Batman, and it got him back to Matt’s level so they could win the award. The joke is that Batman v Superman sucked and was no better than Gigli and didn’t really change his level of quality.

      At least, that’s how I read it.

      • Jayna says:

        That’s how I took it. He’s always making jokes about his career and roles compared to Matt”s at award shows when introducing Matt. He did a similar thing when he was introducing Matt at some Master’s award show, poking fun at himself and his acting roles compared to Matt’s acting career.

      • Kitten says:

        Exactly and this seems incredibly obvious to me, but apparently not to a lot of people…
        Then again, it’s Affleck and everything he says is viewed in the pejorative.

      • Miss M says:

        That’s how I read it too!

      • MC2 says:

        Me too

      • mia girl says:

        I read it that way too.

      • I Choose Me says:

        Yep. That’s what I got as well.

      • Original T.C. says:

        I was getting the joke until he brought up Batman making them equal. How? The reviews for Batman sucked and it didn’t exceed the box office expectations. It’s just an innocent joke I guess.

    • Jayna says:

      @Jenns, not because he played Liberace’s lover, no. Because Matt did an excellent movie and was lauded for his role and nominated, and Ben did Gigli. It was another tongue-in-cheek joke at his own expense, his acting career compared to Matt’s.

      • Pepper says:

        It’s just an odd comparison to make and an odd role to specifically point out. The Liberace film came out a decade after Gigli, and it wasn’t some big breakthrough for Damon, he had already been recognized as a great actor for a long time and gotten raves and nominations for other roles in between. And anyway in 2013 they were seen as equals, since Ben’s directing had been successful. Comparing Gigli to Bourne or Surviving Christmas or Man About Town to Syriana or The Departed would have made more sense.

    • Jabba says:

      Lainey posted something about this. However she hates Affleck and actively looks for things to troll him on so there’s that.

  12. Jenny says:

    Did Affleck just credit himself with making them both ‘cool’ again because he’s Batman now? I realize he was joking around, but still… Damon doesn’t need Affleck anymore; if he ever did. He’s been consistently likable and popular for years. Damon >>>>>> Affleck, absolutely

    • Kitten says:

      Um, but that’s the exact point he was making? It was a self-deprecating joke, that’s all.

      Sigh.

      • Zuzus Girl says:

        People around here hate him (Afflect) so much they don’t get when he’s joking at his own expense. (On a side note, Damon gives me the creeps, like he just hides his indiscretions better. That’s based on absolutely nothing but my gut feelings about hime.) Ben needs to stop with the botox.

      • Miss M says:

        Zuzus: I watched the project greenlight and Ben Affleck came across is the better one of the two… So, I can see Damon being the one better at hiding his indiscretions.

  13. Tiffany says:

    Eh, Robert DeNiro and Joe Pesci were a hell of alot more interesting and better.

    • HK9 says:

      DeNiro & Pesci are better at everything.

    • Pants says:

      That’s not even a comparison that’s worth being made, of course DeNiro and Pesci are better LOL but I still like the Damon/Affleck bromance.

  14. Thais says:

    Ben’s face is…wow.

    Team Matt forever.

  15. DavidBowie says:

    What happened to Ben Affleck’s face? Holy cosmetic surgery Batman!

  16. VegasSchmagus says:

    Looks like Ben is using the same Mac foundation that Trump uses – Cheetos #2

  17. TreadStyle says:

    Ben’s face in that top pic!! Hahahaha it looks like he is wearing a mask, terrifying. Best pic!

  18. Dana says:

    Ben looks bad. He needs to stop f*cking with his face.

  19. Josefina says:

    I always considered Matt to be a pretty mediocre actor. Especially in the Bourne movies. Action leads requiere a different kind of charisma Matt just doesn’t have.

    There’s 2 times I thought he was excellent, though. True Grit and the Liberace movie. Particularly the latter.

  20. Lipreng says:

    From the side, it really looks like he had a face lift.

  21. elle says:

    WHY? Which decade? And WTF happened to Baffleck’s face? He looks like John Corbett.