Biggest Loser’s Jillian Michaels says she’ll adopt in order to keep fit body

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Tough Biggest Loser trainer Jillian Michaels is drawing criticism for some comments she made to Women’s Health. Michaels isn’t my favorite person, and I’ve called her to task for making arguably derogatory comments about the contestants on The Biggest Loser. (She’s called them “half dead” and “monkeys.”) In Women’s Health, Jillian says that she’ll adopt before bearing children because she doesn’t want to put her body through pregnancy. Some exercise professionals are calling out Michaels for what could be considered reckless comments discouraging women from having children. Michaels is a media personality and people pay attention to her opinion on physiology and weight gain. Still, at least she’s being honest about her self-absorbed reasons for not having biological children. Michaels is not married and is thought to have a same sex partner. She told Ladies Home Journal that she could fall in love with a man or a woman.

jillianmichaelsThere is no doubt that “The Biggest Loser” trainer Jillian Michaels has one of the best bodies in America, and given her childhood history of being overweight, it’s something the 36-year-old has worked ultra-hard to achieve. So hard in fact, that she’s not willing to let it slide even to become a biological mother.

“I’m going to adopt. I can’t handle doing that to my body,” Michaels told the new issue of Women’s Health magazine. “Also, when you rescue something, it’s like rescuing a part of yourself.”

Michaels’ words surrounding pregnancy and her figure have been met with criticism from several experts (who have not worked with her) in the health industry.

“She is teaching people about body image and self-esteem. Women who have children all the time and get right back in shape [sic] particularly if they exercise,” Dr. Leslie Seppinni, a Los Angeles-based Family Therapist & Clinical Psychologist told Pop Tarts. “If this is how she truly feels, she should seek counsel before coaching others on issues of body image.”

And Dr. Mike Bishop, Executive Director at Wellspring health/weight loss camps pointed out that Michaels’s own self-esteem may have too much emphasis on aesthetic.

“Jillian’s self-worth seems to be tied to her appealing appearance, and her appearance isn’t necessarily reflective of overall health and happiness,” Bishop said. “There is certainly nothing unhealthy about pregnancy itself, although many women would argue after childbirth it is challenging to get their pre-pregnancy body back, these are the beliefs Jillian is reflecting.”

TV’s toughest trainer also admitted that she weighed 175lbs when she was just 12 years old, and felt “abandoned” after her parents separated, which could have a bearing on her current feelings toward birth and adoption.

“When individuals have dealt with weight issues in their life, they tend to focus on how they feel in their own skin and their level of comfort. In the case of pregnancy, some of these women desire the experience of being a parent, but do not want to risk the possibility of gaining back previously lost weight/losing the ‘new’ body they worked so hard to achieve,” explained Sloane Veshinski, Doctoral Candidate in Counseling, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Certified Addictions Professional. “Adoption gives these women the ability to be a parent and to provide a loving home to a child.”

But in her defense, Michaels may just be committed to holding on to what has made her a source of inspiration to millions of others.

[From Fox News]

Katherine Heigl said something similar about not wanting to gain weight through pregnancy, but it wasn’t this clear cut. She didn’t say “I’m adopting because I don’t want to get fat,” and ended up adopting a baby girl from Korea. Heigl also has an adopted sister from Korea, which probably explains her reasoning more than a fear of getting fat. Does Michaels really want to have a child and to give a home to an adoptee? I doubt it. She said “when you rescue something, it’s like rescuing a part of yourself.” A child is not “something” like a pet, it’s “someone,” like a person. Plus children are not there for personal fulfillment as in providing a missing “part of yourself.” Maybe I just don’t like Michaels and am reading too much into her comments, but it just doesn’t seem like she wants to have kids. There’s nothing wrong with that, and there’s nothing wrong with admitting it, either.

Michaels is shown on 3/13/10. Credit: WENN.com

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  1. annaloo says:

    Well, she is dedicated…I must say that.

    Plus she is doing the world a favor by not ruining a child with the genetics from her face.

  2. Lady Nightshade says:

    She seems like a bad role model to motive people to lose weight.

    So to be thin you can’t have children or ever eat at a restaurant (she is one of those people that orders ‘off’ the menu and makes them specially prepare a salad and grilled fish for her)

    Plus, she looks kinda nasty

  3. kelbear says:

    I don’t agree nor disagree with what she said. She is right in saying that so many children need to be rescued.

  4. girl says:

    Spot on, CB. It sounds like maybe she needs to work on herself a bit more before she considers having children. Biological or Adopted.

    I wonder how disappointed she would be in a child that doesn’t have the genetics to look as “perfect” as she does.

  5. suz says:

    “reckless comments discouraging women from having children”?

    This clause is so loaded, I don’t even know where to begin.

  6. Annie says:

    I don’t know or care about all “that”, I want to talk about that mag cover!! OMG is that AWFUL or WHAT?!!

    That woman looks to be in a perpetual state of constipation and never looked more so than on this cover! Do you think the Editor did it because she was all “that bee-otch doesn’t want kids cause she will get fat” as revenge? Or maybe she just thought “you can change fat, you can never change ugly” and thought it would be friggin hysterical to make her look as awkward and heinous as possible.

    Either way…that Editor ROCKS!

  7. Samantha says:

    If that is why she doesn’t want to have kids, so be it. I don’t think there will be a lack of childbirths because of her statement. If so, then they should read this to teenagers in school during the abstinence program. Would probably be more effective than what they have going right now. (Bristol anyone?)

  8. bellaluna says:

    I feel sorry for the child who ends up with her as a mother. A woman focused on her own comfort and “how she feels in her skin” is not an ideal parent.

  9. Whether you like her or not, I really think it’s great to rescue children already in need.

    I just think she can’t say anything right in some people’s eyes. Besides, she knows herself better than we do. If she doesn’t think she can handle her body going through those changes, then who are we to say anything?

  10. chunkstyle says:

    Well I think she’s such a skeeze for doing advertisements for the Diet Pills that she endorses. Those things are not healthy and totally conflict with the whole “Diet & Exercise” mantra healthy people should adhere to! Ugh, she just seems very opportunistic and shallow, so I guess she is in the right line of work (reality television).
    Having said all of that…at least she is being honest!!! I bet that’s why a lot of Hollywood moms adopt.

  11. Tess says:

    poor girl.

    She’s deluded if she thinks her body isn’t going to change, anyway.

    You can’t keep the forces of gravity from kicking in.

    Life is to be lived, not tiptoed around in the mistaken belief that you can preserve anything for a second longer than you would have preserved it, anyway.

    So adoption is great, but if her motivation is to keep her tight little tummy, that just seems pretty shallow.

  12. Marjalane says:

    I saw a picture of her before she had her nose done- and maybe her chin- and trust- she’s doing a biological child a huge favor….

  13. K.C. says:

    She looks like a cracked-out Paula Abdul-well a MORE cracked out Paula Abdul.

    Those comments are ridiculous, and let’s hope she does not adopt a poor child with self-esteem or weight issues. That is a guaranteed eating disorder. Such a shame-some people should not be allowed to have the precious job of raising children-and she is one of them.

  14. Vi says:

    i don’t see the problem, adoption is a great thing and doesn’t need to be a last resort for infertile couples. so what if she doesn’t want to get fat? if she feels able to adopt a child and know that it really is her child whether genetics are a part or not then that’s great!

  15. Jana says:

    Adoption is a Wonderful option.

    You don’t have to get overweight when you have a child though! If she gets into a pregnant-friendly workout and diet, there is no reason she still can’t keep a nice body.

  16. Kim says:

    When you rescue “something” how about when you rescue “someone”. Well I hope the stress and exhaustion related to being a parent doesn’t affect her body.

  17. Team Bethenny says:

    As a teacher, I wish more people would think through their decisions to reproduce as thoroughly as she has. (Or think it through *at all*, in some cases…)

    Don’t crucify someone for not wanting to have children. We’re not here to validate each other’s choices.

  18. That Girl says:

    Buncha jealous heifers y’all are… so she doesn’t want to have kids. And yes you can get back into shape after pregnancy but it sure isn’t pre-pregnancy shape by far… gisele is a freak of nature so she doesn’t count… and how many of you looked like gisele pre-pregnancy anyway!

    Love Love Love Jillian… honesty is criticized way too often these days.

  19. emine says:

    selfish bitch

  20. CT says:

    I love my kids 100% but more power to Jillian for being honest about how pregnancy wrecks havoc on your body. I am not the same after having kids. And if I had looked like that before them, hmmm. Surrogacy maybe.

  21. lola lola says:

    Why do people get so offended when women say that kind of thing? Our bodies are not solely for reproduction. We are not baby machines. And the idea that this woman’s comments would “discourage women from having children”? That’s ridiculous! If anything, our world is overpopulated and there are many many orphans in desperate need of help. Adoption is a great act of selflessness.

  22. pluck says:

    Adoption is a great thing to do. I dont think she should be criticized for exploring that option.

  23. Lisa says:

    Yes children need to be rescued but probably not by her. And her body may be the best in the world but her face isn’t all that pretty. Poor lady sounds kinda selfish bout the whole bearing children would ruin her figure…..so what would she do if she accidently have it and risk loosing her figure or abort because she don’t wanna loose her figure?

  24. hoodiegirl says:

    That’s her choice. Adoption is a wonderful thing, to become a parent to a child in need. Not every woman has to go through childbirth to become a mom.

    Your body does change after a pregnancy, not everyone is genetically blessed like a VS model. Gisele and Alessandra both look amazing after having kids.

  25. GatsbyGal says:

    She’s a self-absorbed mega-bitch who thinks she’s a better specimen of human being because she’s in shape.

    That said, I think it would generally be a good idea if more people were willing to adopt. Less babies born = less overcrowding AND more pre-existing children get adopted into (hopefully) loving homes.

    Though I guess I hope that she doesn’t screw up her kids with her “be thin or be worthless” mentality.

  26. Lilias says:

    Your body changes after pregnancy-some people never get back that pre-pregnancy figure. Maybe she fears being that person who gets hideous stretch marks and saggy skin. She’s been fat before and has a complex about it so I can see where she wouldn’t want to risk her figure and sliding back into bad habits.

    I’m terrified of being pregnant and gaining all that weight and just being so round and fat. It has nothing to do with not wanting the end result-I want children and I’ll deal with the consequences when I get married and finally have them but it’s a scary prospect for some women.

    Not everyone sees pregnancy as a beautiful thing. Babies, yes. Pregnancy, no.

  27. JulieNewmar says:

    First priority above ALL else should be to burn that f*cking hideous silver pleated dress in a fire so hot it could melt iron…. and throw the fugly ass shoes in too.

  28. malame says:

    when you “rescue something” that sounded so bitchy, it sounds like she’s saying she is going to get baby she found on the street as if the baby were a pet 🙁

  29. celandine says:

    At least she’s honest! Which has got to be preferable to a certain actress’ PR that she’s somehow saving the world by picking a handful of orphans to live an obscene life of luxury, eh?

  30. princess pea says:

    Huh. I don’t feel the raging hate for Jillian that so many of you seem to. The people she’s supposedly insulting all the time seem to respect her deeply and turn to her for emotional support, so I have my doubts about her being abusive. If your personal trainer is babying you, you’re being ripped off.

    But who do we think we’re kidding saying that it’s perfectly fine for a woman to admit that she doesn’t want kids? In this society? Baby, that’s how you get hated these days, just like popping one out is how you get respected, no matter what kind of person you are.

  31. The Old KC says:

    I’m a Women’s Health subscriber and read the full article, and I thought the most controversial thing in it was the fact that Michaels faked a degree in order to get a job in PR. It didn’t go on to say what kind of actual *education* she has in personal training, nutrition, physiology, or whatever but I thought the fact that someone would be willing to fake a degree kind of casts doubt on the rest of her credentials. I can’t stand her over-acting on The Biggest Loser (“she THREW the WEIGH-IN!!!) but I continue to watch the show because I get so emo about the contestants – their individual journeys are so inspiring…

  32. lucy2 says:

    If she truly wants to be a parent but would prefer to adopt for whatever reasons, great. If she doesn’t want kids at all, great. But if she’s looking at adopting like rescuing a dog, and if her biggest concern is how she looks, that’s not so good. I have a feeling it was just poorly chosen words, but who knows.

    I used to respect her work in terms of health and fitness, but then she started endorsing everything she could get her hands on, and then really crossed the line with the diet pills (which she had always spoken against). She’s just out for money nowadays. Actually I’m shocked she’s not jumping at the chance to market a whole series of pregnancy workouts.

  33. bellaluna says:

    I don’t fault her for not wanting to birth children. Nor do I fault her for wanting to adopt. I take exception to her use of the term “something” in terms of a child; children are most definitely not “things.” Also, heaven help the poor child if he/she has weight problems or doesn’t meet Ms. Perfection’s standards.

    Adoption is a wonderful, highly valuable option. Whatever your reason for choosing adoption, the most important one is to provide a child with unconditional love.

    lucy2 – Bravo! You are so spot-on today!

  34. L says:

    Did she clearly say it was about getting fat? IDK, I didn’t read “I can’t handle doing that to my body” as being about being fat. More like, I can’t handle the hormones of being pregnant. Or something like that.

    Either way, women are not sheep. If one person decides they don’t want to have a biological child because of x,y,z reason, it’s not going to stop millions of other women.

  35. Feebee says:

    My negative thoughts about her have just been cemented. She couldn’t handle being replaced on the Biggest Loser and that nobody gave a shit about her without the show so she bullied her way back on. So if that wasn’t a clue to her self absorption then this article is.

    Maybe she doesn’t have the genetics to bounce back, and that’s okay but maybe that’s why she’s so angry… she hates having to work so hard to retain what she has. Yet someone like Brooke Burke (DWTS) has had four children and look at her! (I’m not saying Brooke doesn’t work hard for her bod.)

  36. Beth says:

    Jillian doesn’t want kids. People who say they don’t want to have kids because they don’t want to ruin their figure are not the type of people who are giving enough to be parents.

  37. justme says:

    I see nothing wrong with what she said. It’s her body and she busted her @ss for it. Kids do a number on the body believe it or not.

  38. OXA says:

    I am with Team Bethenny on this one.

  39. Bonfire Beach says:

    Regardless of her desire to be a mother or not, she sounds like she has some psychological issues that still need to be worked out.

  40. Jag says:

    I advocate adoption, as well as having planned children, and am currently childless by choice.

    I feel for any child this shallow harpie adopts. She’s another one, like Gosselin and Alba, who has permanent bitch face. She wouldn’t let any child she has enjoy anything regarding food, just like Madonna is rumored to be. I see Jillian looking like Madonna and SJP soon – all gristle. My problem with her has nothing to do with whether she wants children or not, it has to do with the things she’s said and her personality in interviews and on the show. She’s the reason I didn’t try out for the show; I knew they’d put me with her and we’d hurt each other. lol

  41. ashleigh says:

    I’m very pro-adoption, but let’s be clear: many people who adopt are not “saving” anyone. Especially if you do a domestic infant adoption. For every (healthy white) infant available, there are twenty homes that would like him/her. Adoption is about creating a family period.

    Now, there is a (small) possibility that Michaels plans to adopt a child that has been sitting in care for the last five years and is already in their teens. Than way to go! You actually have helped a child that would otherwise age out. However, if you’re adopting an infant or even a child under three with no/mild/moderate issues, you aren’t saving someone. You’re becoming a parent.

  42. moe says:

    I dont see what the problem is with a woman not wanting kids. Im all for adoption too. Why not take care of a child in need as opposed to reproducing one of your own regardless of the reason behind it.

    I dont watch Biggest Loser but I lost all respect and creditability for Jillian after she started endorsing those bogus weight loss products. I have almost 20 yrs in the fitness industry and no credible trainer would or should be recommending any sort of ‘diet supplements’ or that ‘detox hooey’. They’re nothing but money making BS.

  43. kelbear says:

    Even though you all are talking about how you would feel sorry for whatever child ends up in her arms, I bet she will be just as loving as the rest of us toward a baby.

  44. Atticus says:

    A woman’s body goes through A LOT during pregnancy and it truly is never the same afterwards. I think it’s rather enlightened to realize that you don’t want to make that kind of sacrifice.

  45. Sue says:

    Anyone who decides not to have children based on what a celebrity says is a moron and probably shouldn’t have children anyway. So, no worries.

  46. whatever says:

    I don’t get the anger–I’m sure a lot of Hollywood celebs are not having babies for the same reason (Jennifer Aniston and SJP come to mind), YET they are lauded as heroines for staying FIT and FREE. But, Jillian is seen as a “selfish bitch”? Some of the people on this site are very INCONSISTENT in their thinking (and calling it thinking is being generous). Yeah, ok

  47. original kate says:

    i don’t know who this woman is, but i seriously doubt her comments will discourage women from having children. having kids is not something one should do on the advice of others anyway, although i suspect many people become parents simply because it’s expected of them. any woman who gets pregnant or doesn’t according to what a celebrity says is an idiot.

  48. Twez says:

    I’m a realist. I prefer someone knowing themselves enough to say this right out, rather than having and then resenting the child for the changes biological motherhood causes in one’s body. My first reaction was harsh and judgmental, but I get similar reactions when I say openly that I have never really wanted children. Since I am now 43, people can no longer react by patronizing me and telling me I will change my mind.

  49. benny says:

    There are so many unwanted children in the world already, there is no need to have any more biological children unless the parents feel an intense need to have “one of their own.” Apparently, she doesn’t feel that way. It’s probbably better for the planet in the long run (why keep producing more and more and more children when there are already more children than loving homes available)?

  50. padiddle says:

    I think she just phrased it weird but I totally don’t get how her statement could be called “selfish” – who is she being selfish to? Herself? It’s not like she has a husband who wants to have kids and she’s refusing to because she doesn’t want to get fat. She’s being honest and made a decision that works for her comfort level. That’s her life, and just like lots of people choose to get pregnant, she’s choosing not to.
    And furthermore, I think having a changing body is a fear that a lot of women go through. I know I’m scared as hell that I won’t look the same after being pregnant. For me, the joy of having kids outweighs having a good body, but for others it doesn’t. I know I worked hard for the body I have (nowhere near as nice as Jillian’s, but pretty good I think) and if I can’t get it back after I have kids I think I will be a little sad, not like I’ll hate my kids because of it or anything.

  51. Green Is Good says:

    If comments from Jillian Michaels will “discourage” women from having children, then they’re the type that shouldn’t be having kids in the 1st place.

    Child-Free by choice here, and it has nothing to do with not wanting to ruin my body. Never wanted them ever.

  52. val says:

    How is this even an issue to be written about? The world is suffering from massive overpopulation that increases exponentially each year. What a waste of words.

  53. Baba says:

    She looks like Eli Roth.

  54. Lisa says:

    Pregnancy does not make you fat. That is a ridiculous myth and Jilliam Michaels knows that you get fat from taking in more calories that you burn. Period.

    I think she does not want to have children and said something idiotic that she thought would sound better than the truth. She does not strike me as the rocket scientist type.

    I would bet that she was not briefed on the questions the interviewer was going to ask her. Her publicist was probably mouthing “Adopt” to her while standing behind the people at LHJ.

  55. Taya says:

    Big deal. Jillian does not want to have kids naturally. Adoption should be commended not patronized.

  56. JenDiggity says:

    A mother who would not put a child before her looks (and let’s call it what it is – LOOKS, not health – you can be perfectly healthy after having a baby even if your boobs sag a bit more or you have stretch marks) is a mother who is unlikely to put her child’s needs before her own selfish and shallow desires. I think her comments indicate she’d probably be a shitty mom.

  57. anjasmomma says:

    How is this even an issue to be written about? The world is suffering from massive overpopulation that increases exponentially each year. What a waste of words.

    Val- I agree with you completely.

  58. JuneJulyAugust says:

    what is worse saying you don’t want to give birth because of what it will do to your body or people commenting that you shouldn’t give birth because you have an ugly face?

    this woman makes her living from her body being in peak shape and working out with her clients/contestants. she is also attempting to forge more of a career. give her a break if she doesn’t want to go through pregnancy, not everyone LOVES being pregnant. i’m actually proud there is a celebrity not lauding the experience since there are many women who feel that way. it doesn’t mean she is selfish or incapable of loving a child or being good at her job.

  59. Wiley says:

    The real problem is that all the ignorant people are reproducing like rabbits and the more intelligent people are choosing to remain childless or adopting the unintelligent babies and insuring their survival. We evolved under the rule of survival of the fittest. We now have an ever decreasing intelligence pool to draw from. This can only go on for so long before our civilizationm collapses.

  60. tooey says:

    this woman is far too self-absorbed to raise a frog, much less another human being. I’m glad she’s not passing on genetic code….

  61. Crash2GO2 says:

    @whatever: SJP had a baby. I’m sure she would have like to have had more biological children of her own, but probably left it too late and wasn’t willing to gain the weight needed to get pregnant again in the first place.

    It’s not like the world will be hurting because some women will be leaving off having some babies because of this peanut head and what she thinks.

    Anyway, she (and a lot of you) are wrong. I had a baby at 40 and was back at my pre-baby figure by the time my daughter was 18 months with no tough workouts – just nursing. In fact it started to be tough keeping the weight on. But I was always lean, although I purposely let my diet go a bit and ate way more sweets than usual while pregnant. My stomach even bounced back to it’s former tightness all by itself.

  62. Sugar & Spice says:

    Adopting is great, but her reason is entirely selfish. And her comment about rescuing something? If she wants to feel that rescuing something is like rescuing part of herself, she should rescue a wild horse in Nevada, or an abandoned dog. She doesn’t give the impression of being serious about wanting to be a parent, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Unfortunately there’s a lot of children in this world with parents who didn’t realize until after the fact, that they didn’t want to be parents either.

  63. Ruffian9 says:

    ashleigh:April 22nd, 2010 at 2:22 pm

    Bravo *clapping*

  64. Lin95 says:

    My husband and I always recieved a chilly response from family and friends when we would say we didn’t want to have children…..I can remember holding friends babies (I love kids)and they would say something like….You look good holding a baby maybe you’re next…and I’d be like no thank you, cue pissed off face lol
    She just has a very blunt way about her, if I hired her as a trainor I would expect to be abused…..but that doesn’t mean she would treat her adopted child that way….Gordon Ramsey,Pierce Morgan and Donald Trump all have children and they certainly dont talk to them the way they do other people

    My husband and I now have a child….and we now get the I told you so’s it’s never ending lol

  65. Shay says:

    Jesus, if she can’t ‘handle’ doing ‘that’ (pregnancy) to her body, then how tough is she?
    I’ve never liked her. I was glad that she was no longer a part of TBL in Australia. She is nasty stuff.
    In saying that, she is just being honest and saying what other female celebrities avoid saying. The reason why many celebrities avoid pregnancy is because of their bodies/narcissism.

  66. Paula says:

    Bearing or adopting children are personal decisions. How lucky we are to have such choices.

  67. Kim says:

    What a selfish piece of crap. How do you think she is going to be w food and her youngster?! That child will have major food issues that she passes on =( sad

  68. Kim says:

    Not wanting children is fine. But wanting children yet caring more about your body than pregnancy is pathological!

  69. Kim says:

    Adoption is beautiful – to bad she is doing it for the wrong reason =(

  70. katherine says:

    When you only have a career b/c of your body, then you need to stay fit or lose the career. How can ANYONE take care of their child w/out money? So, it makes sense to me. I have no idea why people would call her selfish, because I’m sure that’s the whole reason Aniston has put off having kids, too. Hollywood is ALL about LOOKS. Why all the hate for her? She’s just being HONEST.

  71. Moops says:

    Hmmm…a vain celebrity who chooses to be a size 0 over participating in what MOST people consider the most wonderful, beautiful experience life has to offer? Shocking!

  72. Miss Thing says:

    Y’all got it wrong: wanting to have children just BECAUSE they come out of you is selfish. I commend her for wanting to adopt, and if ONE of the reasons is she doesn’t want to put her body through that trauma, then good for her–her body IS her job, and a lot of women don’t bounce back and dislike themselves. AND this world is in need of adoptive parents.

  73. Miss Thing says:

    What is “selfish” is having kids you DON’T WANT–and obviously, there are plenty of people who have THAT issue (which is an issue; body perception is not, since we all have one of ourselves), or there would be half as many orphans, I would dare say…

  74. dancingnancie81 says:

    She doesn’t have a choice – she has to adopt, because she’s a MAN, baby!

  75. DK in Fla says:

    Yes, adopt and rescue a sweet little child, it is your choice. I have a natural child and a stepdaughter ( child of my heart ) and I love them both soo much. The most important thing with raising a child is love, good luck!!

  76. canadianchick says:

    Approaching an adoption as a rescue of either the child or a part of yourself is totally narcissistic and damaging to the child. What a fug idiot.Hope her adoption social worker declines her and calls her a monkey.

  77. sleighann says:

    I think it is cool of her to adopt and maybe inspire others to adopt. so many kids need a good home times have changed thats not the only reason women are here anymore. i can not stress how many children need good homes here and so may people are just adding to that by having kids and living on welfare or giving them up. seriously i never wanted to give birth because i did not want to ruin my body im in the fitness industry myself. but i had a baby and i dont regret it but i will never have the body like i did before and i worked out and did what i was supposed too the whole time.

  78. Moore says:

    I really think people have a problem with other people thinking whatever they want on simple issues like this. Her choice to not have children because she can’t handle doing that to her body, is up to her. She’s not speaking for the world, she’s speaking for herself.

  79. sleighann says:

    an at least she will have a healthy kid instead of these little fat bastards we have running around cuz people dont give a shit what their kids eat thats whats wrong with america you are teaching your kids to be pigs

  80. fitnessmomRN says:

    I don’t see any problem with adopting. BUT to say that babies ruin your body is simply NOT true- unless you use being pregnant as an excuse to eat whatever you want and you don’t exercise.
    I have three children. I am 5’6″ and weigh 115 lbs. I am in better shape now in my mid-30’s than I was as a teenager. Most of my patients are shocked when they find out I have three kids. I eat right and exercise. And I don’t starve myself- I eat things I like but use self-control. It’s a matter of calories in vs. calories out. I do yoga and pilates along with light weights and the treadmill. If I eat something bad for me I work out extra to make up for it. I exercise with my kids by riding bikes, playing tennis, kick-ball- and playing in general. My youngest likes to do yoga with me- it’s part of my job to teach my kids healthy habits just like I teach my patients. I decided a long time ago to stay fit and be committed to it. I was about 150 lbs when I graduated high school- then my dad got sick and I realized his weight was a big part of his problems (and still is). Obesity, heart disease and diabetes run in my family. I decided to get in shape and stay that way because I want to be around for my grandchildren.
    I am sure that Jillian knows that women can get in great shape after childbirth. I hope her statement has just been blown out of proportion. We’ve all said things that came out wrong- we just didn’t have a reporter putting it out their for the world to debate.
    You can be a mother and have a great body too. You don’t have to give up one to have the other. You just have to make eating right and exercise a part of your everyday life- not just part of some diet.

  81. DRW says:

    Pretty funny that this website
    is running a contextual ad for her at the top of the page.

  82. Niki says:

    I am so upset over this comment! Used to be a BIG fan of her on Biggest Loser. Obviously she has MAJOR body issues and doesn’t know anything about relationships! She has a BIG chip on her shoulder and needs to seek physiological help. To put your body image above giving life to a living and breathing baby is an all time low for Jillian. All I can say is, “what a selfish bitch!”

  83. jane says:

    Well, she does have a right whether some like it or not. Selfish or not, her career depends on her body, so that is her right.

  84. Hummingbird says:

    Hmm. I have a kid that I gave birth to, & love very much. But if I knew what I know now, things would be a hell of alot diffent. In my opinion we need more people like Jillian to teach the world that being ”FAT” is not the way to live. Frankly there are too many people, who think being ”FAT” is the way ”GOD” made them. Which is a bunch of ”shit”. If Jillian wishes to adopt more power to the ”WOMAN”!!!

  85. Rosanna says:

    all women who don’t choose mommyhood as a way of life are heavily judged by other “women” who missed something about feminism… it’s about self-determination… choosing not to have a kid despite having a womb IS self-determination, regardless of the reason behind it.

  86. rachelle says:

    I think its absolutly obsurd that in this day and age a woman cannot make a decision like not having children without coming under attack because of her reasoning behind it. So she doesnt want to put her body through pregnancy, big deal. She works really hard to keep it toned and in shape. Give her a break.

  87. Alexis says:

    hope to God she doesn’t adopt a heavier set kid.

  88. Rach says:

    Ok, I’ve read every comment here and I never post comments on these websites, but I feel a huge urge to bring up quite a few points. I have mixed opinions on the article itself and also needed to respond to some comments:

    1. This is an interview about her, so she is not speaking for the world. She was asked personal questions and she gave personal answers. I agree with what a few of you said- if someone actually bases their choice of having children or not on what a celebrity says in an interview, then yes they’re an idiot.

    2. LISA may want to read this:

    She did not actually say, “I don’t want to get pregnant because I don’t want to be fat.” She could be referring to the many traumatic experiences a body goes through while being pregnant such as hormones, back pain, morning sickness, etc.

    3. However, if she is actually referring to not wanting to become fat as a result of pregnancy, who cares? She’s being HONEST, something many people don’t do. Whatever her true meaning was behind that comment (which doesn’t really matter either way), it’s HER body & life and she can make the choice for herself. Motherhood is a great thing, yes, but not every women has to have a child to be happy or fufilled in life. It’s sad if our society really thinks this way and we’re just backtracking any progress if that’s the case.

    4. In response to Crash2GO2 (other responses to your comment are further down as well):

    Pregnancy is different for every woman. Some women get lucky and have an “easy” pregnancy (delivery is another story) without the morning sickness or crazy hormone changes, and then they get lucky again and have the pre-pregnancy body without saggy boobs or stretch marks. There are other women who have this experience, but had to work hard for it by staying active & eating healthy during pregnancy, and then working their butts off afterwards to lose the weight. Then there are other women who, whether they worked hard or not, have a hard pregnancy with morning sickness, hormones, etc. and their body is not the same afterwards. They have boobs that sag to their belly botton, belly pooches that sag even lower, and stretch marks not just on their stomach, but whole body (yes it can happen)! Their bodies are changed forever (despite how healthy they eat and how hard they work out) and it is traumatic (yes the end result of a baby is beautiful and worth it in my opinion). I’m pointing this out to a couple of comments basically saying pregnancy is a wonderful experience and you can have your EXACT pre-preg. body back. If it was for you that’s great, but it’s not like that for everyone!!! Each women is different and you don’t know what’s going to happen to your body until it happens. You may be lazy during your pregnancy, simply nurse your baby, and get LUCKY (pure luck because this doesn’t happen to everyone DUH!), or work your butt off and end up with a completely different body that you hate (which happens to many women, but most keep quiet). You just don’t know and can’t predict what will happen to your body, and for many women (a lot of whom won’t admit) it’s a scary thing.

    5.Another response for Crash2GO2:

    Referring to the last two points, Jillian is being HONEST, something a lot of women aren’t when it comes to the issue of pregnancy. Many women end up hating their bodies, but they won’t say anything about it for fear of being labeled “selfish” “vain” or any other nasty comment I read on here. Until you’ve gone through a pregnancy and end up with the saggy boobs, belly pooch, and stretch marks covering your ENTIRE body (even though you may done everything the “right” way), don’t judge. For the one comment about how wonderful your experience was and breast feeding was the only thing it took to get your pre-preg. body back, that’s great for you, but you got LUCKY! So we’re NOT wrong! You’re part of a very small percentage of women who don’t have to do anything to get their bodies back to the exact way they were. Be happy you’re lucky, but don’t say everyone else is wrong (especially since your outcome was pure luck and not earned), cause that’s just about the most inaccurate statement on this site. For the comment about how you did everything “right” (ate healthy, exercised before, during, and after), that’s awesome (it really is, you EARNED it), BUT many women do the same and get a much different result-a permanently changed body they despise, and they can continue to eat right and exercise, but the pooch will stay forever (unless they get a tummy tuck) and the stretch marks may fade a little, but will be with them forever. We cannot predict what will happen, and that fear (which is perfectly ok to have) is too much for some. At least Jillian’s brave enough to be honest about her feelings.

    6.There is nothing wrong or “selfish” about wanting to have children AND a normal looking body without all the devestating effects that could possibly happen as a result. Women need to be empowered to speak up about the not so perfect aspects of pregnancy and post-pregnancy, not belittled for their honesty.

    7. To everyone calling her a major bitch and all that… Yes, on TBL we see an aggressive and intense side of her, BUT that’s her freakin job! Trainers are supposed to be tough, if your’s isn’t then I’d get a new one. Yes, there are different ways for trainers to motivate people, but being aggressive and intense obviously works for her and her clients.If she was so fucking awful, as many of you seem to think, then she wouldn’t be making the money she is from the many clients she has and TBL. Both are paying her to help them (and the contestants on TBL) lose weight, and her method works for them. She makes her living this way, and damn she’s making a lot of it, so good for her. Plus it takes money to raise a child….bringing me to my next point….

    8.To those who say her child (if she adopts one) will be fucked, wow that’s an awful assumption to make. Do you honestly think she’s going to treat her child the way she treats her clients? Hell no. Her clients PAY her to be a hard ass and kick their asses in the gym. And my response to those saying her child will have major eating issues, I think quite the opposite. I think she’ll promote a healthy and active lifestyle, something the children in the U.S. desparately need. And I highly doubt she’ll be aggressive and intense like she is on TV to her child. That’s just stupid. Again, she is getting PAID to be that way.

    9. I think adoption is a wonderful thing (nothing wrong with having a child biologically either). It needs as much promotion as it can get because there are many kids out there who desparately need a loving family and home. Unfortunately, most people who adopt ONLY want a baby without any kinds of problems(physical/mental/etc.), and while those babies do need homes (and typically find them right away because they are so “high in demand” so to speak), so do babies who may have problems of some kind, toddlers, older children, and teenagers. These are the ones who are often overlooked and evetually age out of the system without ever getting that home and family they dreamed of. Those who adopt the baby of their dreams are adopting to create their family, which is a great thing. Those who adopt a teen, a toddler with a disability, etc. are in fact “rescuing” them, they would otherwise age out of the system like I mentioned above. This leads me to my next point…

    10. Jillian said, “Also, when you rescue something, it’s like rescuing a part of yourself.”

    She is right that some adoptions are rescues of the “overlooked” children (teens, older children, toddlers, babies with medical or other problems, or any child with a health/mental problem or disability)that I mentioned above.

    Yes, it should be “someone” not “something”…..There’s a possibility she thinks of adoption like rescuing a pet, BUT there’s also the possibilty that she wasn’t thinking of her choice of words and oops! made a poor choice. Heaven Forbid a mistake is made.

    The last part is what is a little fuzzy to me. Some of you are saying that she’s doing it for selfish reasons and shouldn’t have a child (adopted or bio.). Could she have possibly meant that at this point in her life she is content and happy, but also wants a child, and by adopting a child & providing a loving home for them she would feel complete. If she meant something along those lines then I see no reason why she shouldn’t. I’m not saying women must have children to be complete, many are perfectly complete without them. But there are also women who want kids and a family, and feel complete when they have those children. There’s nothing wrong with either, it’s a personal choice. But if she’s adopting a child to truly “rescue herself” then it makes me think that there are unresolved issues in her life that need to be addressed before she’s ready to be a mom.

    11. Really I think she just made a poor choice of words which is why there are so many conflicting perceptions as I’ve read all the comments.

    12. I don’t agree with her endorsing diet pills…..that’s just stupid. They’re unhealthy and potentially harmful. As a fitness and health “expert” she should (and probably does) know better. I think we all know she did it for the $$$$$$. Normally I applaud people for making all the $$ they can, but diet pills and detoxes can be really harmful and dangerous.

    Whew! Had to get all those thoughts out of my head lol!

  89. cheree says:

    I don’t agree with every 1’s comment but let me just say this just cause u have a lil money doesn’t qualify u to be a parent. I too was afraid to have a child in fear of the weight gain but i did it anyway, no i’m so not proud of my body i had 3 c sections an have a huge scar from gallbladder surgery i wouldn’t trade anything not to go through giving birth to my kids. I have a wonderful husband who loves me for me. But i do think it’s selfish of her as a professional trainer too not want to have a child of her own’ She know’s what to do to keep in shape so stop Perpatraten an be Real!!! Your clocks a tickin jillian Ur move show an prove or are u just in it for the money an fame!!

  90. cheree says:

    If u adopt a child with a eating disorder will u really help them or push em away cause ur soooo anal.I totally agree with healthy eating habits an exercise but will the kid really have a chance or wanna runnaway or commit suicide think about it!!

  91. Janice Marie says:

    I am 38, very thin (through hard work and sacrifice), and will never have children for the EXACT same reason. That, and I am WAY to self-absorbed to deal with someone else’s issues. I worship my niece and nephew, and quite content.

    Judge me all you want, I don’t care. Plus, stretch marks and saggy tits are fug.

    Good for her for being honest.

  92. Rach says:

    Cheree,
    Who are you referring to?

  93. eternalcanadian says:

    “Also, when you rescue something, it’s like rescuing a part of yourself.”

    Wow, can you imagine any adopted child of hers reading that 10 years from now? Makes adoption look like some charity case instead of an act of love.

    I never liked Jillian. She has serious issues with both her body and mind. Granted pregnancy and childbirth and breastfeeding do change a woman’s body, but to look at lots of celebrity mums out there that snap back into shape well, I don’t know. They look pretty darn good and I think a few looked better post-pregnancy than pre-pregnancy.

    In any case, Jillian isn’t all that cracked up to be, and I hope she seriously considers what it means to adopt. That if she needs to rescue herself maybe she isn’t in the right place to be adopting.

  94. Lia says:

    Pity the child adopted by this self-absorbed twit. I can see it now : a newborn, being forced to drink low-calorie formula; a young child being made to do exhausting calesthenics to get rid of baby fat 10 years before it should naturally come off…… What a frightening, sad thought.

  95. girl says:

    What is so difficult to understand? It isn’t that she doesn’t want to have kids that people have a problem with. It is the reasoning behind it that sounds ridiculous. I think it is a wonderful thing when people think through their child bearing options even if they decide that becoming a parent is not for them.

    It sounds as if she is saying that it is because of her looks. Some one who seems that self absorbed should probably work on herself a bit more before she decides to become a parent by whatever means.

  96. Tekka says:

    Not wanting to have kids because it will mess up your body is NOT selfish. Pregnancy does put your body through a lot of changes. Not only do you get fat but you also get sick, especially in the beginning. There is also the process of labor which is extremely painful.

    I just hate how women are damned-if-you-do, damned-if-you-don’t in this society. If she had a baby and gained 50 pounds, the media would be all over her. But if she chooses to adopt, she’s seen as being “selfish.”

    Anyway, I applaud her for being HONEST. Anyone who decides not to have a baby because of what she says is being downright dumb, and is probably not mature enough to have a child anyway. Really, celebrities are not gods… they are human like everyone else. People need to think for themselves and not worry about what the famous are doing.

  97. SammyHammy says:

    Her body, her choice, right? It doesn’t matter what her reasons are. She gets to decide what happens with her body.

  98. Z says:

    Adoption is not about rescuing children, and if you think it is, you shouldn’t be adopting. That’s how we’ve ended up with “parents” who ship their children back to their birth country when things get difficult. The whole notion that it’s an act of charity perpetuates the idea that the child should be grateful and perfect. No. The child should get to be a child, in a family. Not a charity case.

  99. Tracey says:

    Self entitled idiot. She doesn’t want to “ruin” her body (which ain’t all that anyway) but DOES want to most likely destroy some scared, vulnerable, young woman by manipulating her child out of her with the promise of a “better life”. Wow. She would be such a good “mommy”. These self absorbed celebrities and their entitlement to that of which is NOT theirs makes me sick. I liked her before. Now I hate her.

  100. Crash2GO2 says:

    @Rach: Please show me where I said I ‘did everything right’. In fact, I made a point of saying I DID NOT.

    I was simply pointing out my experience as anectodal evidence contrary to the numerous posts that said pregnancy inevitably jacks your body.

  101. Katie from Boston says:

    @Wiley’s comment – I totally agree with you on this one.

    On a side note, I’m a 47 yr old woman (hetero) woman who knew years ago I didn’t want children of my own. Don’t get me wrong, I love kids and have wonderful relationships with my many neices, nephews, etc. Just never wanted to go through pregnancy. To this day, I have never ONCE regretted my decision.

  102. rossi says:

    First you decide is you want or not having a baby.But remember having a baby is a beatufull hard work,but i dont thing so,having a baby is going to damage a body.Now you dont want because your a narcicist,person yes!!!! lol

  103. Brooke says:

    The fact that this women does not want to be pregnant is not the issue here. Big deal! Being pregnant is really hard on a person with weight issues. It is easy to maintain weight when you have control of it, but it is scary when you lose control of your weight. Pregnancy does insane things to you physically and emotionally. But if she really believes that her position will “rescue something”, that something being a living breathing human being, because of her position, she has another thing coming. If you are that much of a me monster that you don’t want to risk the chance of damaging your body with natural child birth, then you don’t need to adopt either. Raising children is one of the hardest jobs (also the most rewarding) you can take on, because it is 24-7 and everything you say and do could affect your child’s stability and adult choices. If she “motivates” adults in the manner that she does, being a bully, image how she will “motivate” a child. Not necessarily a rescue now is it. Might not be much of a difference in the child current situation.

  104. palmetto says:

    Who CARES what this woman does, or why she does it? Does it change YOUR life? No? Then mind your own f*cking business, you judgmental harpies! Ugh, it’s people like you that make me hate the idea of being a mother (and I’m pregnant lol) because of all the constant judgment and condemnation from other women who should know better. Quite frankly, she should tell all of you to go f*ck yourselves, that’s what I tell people who feel like they have a right to dictate what I should be doing with my own body, and I’ll say the same thing when people come up to me and try and tell me how to raise my child. Handle YOUR f*cking business and stay the hell out of mine.

    Do you not realize how hypocritical you seem, demanding freedom of choice, etc for women, yet immediately condemning and vilifying a woman who is just talking about the choice she’s making? HOW DO YOU NOT SEE THIS? Just because you don’t like her reasons, that’s a reason to sh*t all over her? At least she’s honest and we won’t have another unwanted, unloved kid brought into this world by another idiot that bought into the BS myth of “being a mommy is SOO KEWL”, that counts for something, at least to me. And while I am pregnant, I HATE what it’s doing to my body and I don’t care who knows it. I am not going to pretend that it’s all unicorn farts and butterfly rainbows like so many women do, that is worse to me than what this woman says, at least she’s acknowledging that pregnancy and parenthood is more involved, invasive and serious than most people do. Seriously, check out a “mommy blog” sometime (I did once, and now know what I WON’T be like as a mother, thank God) and tell me that those bitches aren’t more damaging than this one. I dare you. Just like I dare one more person to come up to me and try and touch my belly or lecture me….it would be pretty humiliating to get your ass kicked by a pregnant woman, right? LOL!

  105. cara says:

    I just hope she adopts an American orphan…there are so many.

    And lets hope the little brat isn’t fat!!!!

    p.s. those fatties join the show because they know they need to loose weight, so they name calling’s fine with me. Sometimes one just can’t and shouldn’t pussyfoot around people’s self destruction and they need to be called out on it. And yes, that’s usually means someone’s going to have to be “mean” and “cruel”.

  106. freckles says:

    Jillian is a loon. She’s only in it for the $$. My roommate read her book, 30 Day Shred (I think that was the one?) and I flipped through it… it’s a book all about losing weight just for 30 days and then going back to your normal habits. WTF? As an exercise professional this should be the OPPOSITE of your goals for your clients or people you’re advising. The goal should be longterm (or life long) change. On top of that my roommate told me that Jillian bashes diet pills in her book (which is smart) but then she goes and releases her OWN diet pill?? This chick is a bitch who doesn’t care about anyone but herself, and this just shows it. Adoption is a great option for sure, and you can argue that any reason is a good reason (short of adopting to fill the ranks of your child army/sweatshop/etc), but the simple fact that she said she’d love to rescue “someTHING” is a bad sign to me…

    Hate this “woman”.

  107. MissyAggravation says:

    I’ve never, ever met someone with my name before, much less a 400lb Togan man. I get the warm fuzzies when Jillian shouts, “Do it, Koli-bear!” I’m going to loop it on my iPod for my big race. 🙂

    As for her obsession with her body image – yeah, psychologically it’s pretty telling. (Well, that and being on a weightloss show for years screaming at obese people – I guess that’s pretty telling too.)

    But the feminist in me doesn’t begrudge her for making a choice for her life and her body.

    Besides, there are millions of unloved, uncared for children in the world. I think it’s pretty selfless to adopt.

  108. Rob says:

    I think sex with her would be outstanding!

  109. Widget says:

    palmetto: Are you that same nut who was ranting and raving on another recent parent-related thread here on CB? Jesus, calm the f*ck down. If you stopped foaming at the mouth for a moment, you might just realize that it’s impossible to escape judgment, but easy to shrug it off if you honestly believe you’re doing right by your child. Are some parents a pain in the ass? Of course. But I’d rather deal with some nosy bitch telling me that my kid’s “too old” for a bottle than a rage-filled crazy like you. Damn.

  110. Poopy DUde says:

    Hard to make a baby with a set of testicles and no vagina/womb.

  111. Kylie says:

    Wow some of the above comments have hit an all time low!
    It her body and she can do what ever she likes with it. How can that possibly be selfish?

  112. Dhavy says:

    @ Palmetto:

    LOL I’m still laughing!

    You forgot to mention the hormones! But seriously, I get it

    It’s so easy for people to act all Mother Theresa-like. IMO a woman has every right to do what she wants with her body and if that’s her reason and choice then let it be.

  113. Rach says:

    Crash-
    If you had proper reading comprehension skills you’d see that whenever I was referring to you I made it pretty clear. The comment about “doing everything right” was responding to someone else, duh.

  114. Majosha says:

    Rach: Why so nasty to Crash? Her response to you was perfectly civil, yet you still felt compelled make a snide remark about her “reading comprehension” skills, which, after enjoying many of her comments on various threads, I can assure you are excellent.

    Grow up.

  115. palmetto says:

    Hey widget, how about you go f*ck yourself? I’ll do as I please and I don’t give 2 shits what your opinion is. Eat a bag of dicks, douchebag.

  116. n says:

    Her body, her choice, right? It doesn’t matter what her reasons are. She gets to decide what happens with her body.

  117. Moops says:

    Hey Rach – maybe Crash just skimmed your post because it was so insufferably LLLLOOOONNGGGG. I know I didn’t make it past the 7th paragraph, and there were like, what, 27 more to go? Geesh! Felt like I was reading an appellate brief.

    Relax. It’s just a gossip site – you’re not gonna’ change the world here.

  118. Crash2GO2 says:

    @Rach: My reading comprehension skills are fine. You addressed an entire paragraph to me.

    “5.Another response for Crash2GO2:

    Referring to the last two points, Jillian is being HONEST…. For the comment about how you did everything “right” (ate healthy, exercised before, during, and after), that’s awesome (it really is, you EARNED it), BUT many women do the same and get a much different result…. ”

    I’m baffled as to why you are so indignant that I would think that comment was meant for me. Because….it was addressed to me.

  119. Although Jillian’s remarks have stirred up controversy, no one can deny her results. She has become one of the top fitness gurus out there. If she can show results like the ones on “The Biggest Loser”, just imagine what her program can do for the person who wants to lose say 10 40 pounds. Don’t judge unless you’ve given it a legitimate shot.

  120. SeppW says:

    I think she’s a tough lookin’ gal. I could get used to waking up with that next to me.

    Other than that, I don’t give a rat’s ass what she does or says. She’s found a niche, doing her thing, and cashing in on it.

    Ain’t America great!

  121. larue says:

    Does anyone know how many lives this woman has helped? Tell me whose life you may have saved!!!! Look at yourself before you judge others.

  122. Anne says:

    My name is Anne Schultz and I’m a young professional and have always hated brushing my teeth and the time it took to get them cleaned properly.
    Anyway, after watching several of the 30 second smile commercials, I decided to give it a try. After 3 months of using it, I love it!