Alice Evans refers to Ioan Gruffudd’s girlfriend as ‘stealer of my husband’

Here we are, at yet another episode of Alice Evans Has Lost the Plot. Alice Evans is still extremely online about Ioan Gruffudd leaving her, filing for divorce and moving on with a younger woman named Bianca Wallace. Even by Alice’s own muddled timeline, Ioan was deeply unhappy and trying to leave Alice last year during the pandemic. He didn’t come home one day in January of this year and, out of the blue, tell her he wanted a divorce. She knew he was unhappy and done with the marriage for months beforehand. For most of this year, she’s been focused on how Ioan has destroyed her life and her children’s lives. Then he became Instagram Official with Bianca, and now most of Alice’s ire is being directed at Bianca. As it turns out – who knows – Bianca was “liking” Instagram pics of Ioan on Alice’s IG for years. And then Alice wrote this on her IG earlier this morning:

Hey Bianca Mae Wallace, stealer of my husband, ruined of the life I’d worked so hard to achieve and also person who makes my kid cry -aperson I will never forget ever.

Anyway somebody alerted me tonight that whenever I posted a relatively cute pic of myself on ivstagram, within about 19 minutes emergered a sock account pretending to be on ‘Biava’s side { although how one could be on the side side if a total bitch who manifested a father away from two lyrics girls who ducking ADORED him then I do not know, except to say that this person is completely devoid of human empathy.

Good luck, Ioan.

And oh, let’s see what this pic brings out. I was tempted to out a picture of Bianca next to one of mine ( after all the ‘youre 50! Give up! You’re so fat!).

But I didn’t. Because that’s not my way.

How do you like THIS one, BB?

[From Alice’s Instagram]

How has Alice’s divorce lawyer not dumped her by now? This is so bad. This energy is so toxic. As many have said, whatever sympathy Alice and her situation may have engendered is being destroyed. I’m also confused by why she’s now following Bianca’s Instagram, and why she’s doing these deeper dives on what posts Bianca was liking in 2018.

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  1. deg says:

    apparently he is done with his TV show in France this week, so this will probably blow up this weekend/next week when he returns, especially if he takes his girlfriend with him

    • If I were him or the new gif, I would be terrified to go back. Someone pointed out here last week, that this is Betty Broderick 2.0 and they couldn’t have been more accurate.

      • Andrew's Nemesis says:

        If Alice isn’t sectioned by year-end, I’ll be astonished. Her instability is escalating. God help those kids.

      • eliza says:

        oh my goodness. BB v.2. yes. i do feel sorry for the situation she has found herself in, but the way she’s letting herself blow-up is not only bad for her image, it’s terrible for the children. which she’s accusing her ex of – damaging them by way of breaking up their nuclear family. imagine when they’re old enough (if not already) to read all this crazy stuff online. just terrible.

    • Fortuona says:

      @deg

      Bianca will probably be off to Brazil to see her dad and her siblings as she has not seen them in 2 years

  2. Lady Digby says:

    AE has been tweeting non stop since she learnt about BW. She admits to lying in bed, drinking heavily and is always display ing her every feeling online , not hiding anything from her young daughters. She is tormenting herself and others. She needs an intervention to get the help that she urgently needs. I worry about her and the children.

    • Isa says:

      You can definitely tell when she’s been drinking. Random punctuation and spaces in words.

    • Andrew's Nemesis says:

      I don’t worry about her in the slightest. She’s a malignant narcissist going nuclear on the poor man who got away from her. I had to deal with this kind of crap from my alcoholic father for years, watching and listening to his drunken wallowing, spite and yearning for revenge, maudlin self-pity and endless tirades. My sympathy is solely for those children. Much of my life was ruined by my father’s narcissism and alcoholism. Someone needs to get those children away Now.

      • Christina says:

        @Andrew’s Nemesis, 💯 !!

        Hugs to you for making it through. This woman is Thomas Markle with a vodka bottle.

      • HeatherC says:

        @Christina Alice is Thomas Markle with social media. I highly doubt TM is sober, he doesn’t often sound sober with his voice OR his words

      • Andrew's Nemesis says:

        I saw your story below, Christina – huge hugs to you, and I hope that you’re doing as well as can be. x

      • EveV says:

        @Andrew’sNemesis
        My sincere apologies for what you went through. I always enjoy your thoughtful posts so it’s good to see that after all you went through, you still turned into an amazing individual.
        As for your thoughts on this situation, I could not agree more. I felt for Alice, in the beginning, for what she was going through, but she has destroyed any goodwill I once held for her situation. The fact that she consistently and constantly uses their girls as pawns in her one sided online fight with her ex is disgusting. If her girls are as tore up about this as she says they are (and I don’t doubt they are very upset about this, especially since Alice is using them as emotional support, based on her tweets), then she needs to get off the damn internet and be there for her kids.
        I am so heartbroken for those kids and what they are going through and I really hope Ioan fights for custody because I don’t believe the best place for those girls is with their mother, at least not right now.
        Sorry about the long rant but I just can’t with this woman anymore!!!

      • Andrew's Nemesis says:

        Thank you, EveV – what a lovely and kind comment that is; I’m truly touched. Thank you so much.
        I agree with you re Alice and her children. I think that all of us capable of critical thinking realise that those children are merely a backdrop to her drama, words planted in their mouths for the optimum effect, claims of tears and pleading for ‘daddy to come back so we can be a happy family again’ nothing more than Alice’s sick manipulation. Narcissists are exactly like this and, for now, the children and her ‘fans’ are feeding her narcissistic supply. One can only conclude that Ioan got fed up with being her supply for two decades, probably realising how miserable his lot was when he worked abroad and was actually happy to get up in the morning without her incessant neediness and attention-seeking, and had the strength to walk away. I think the most telling part in that appalling interview she gave was when she posted on Twitter that he was leaving them the moment he had said it and, after he lost his temper, snatched away her laptop and deleted it, posted it again. She had to have an audience. She needed an immediate supply for her vanity and narcissistic wound.
        I hope to high heaven he DOES get custody. Heaven only knows how much counselling those poor children are going to need in the future. I only hope she hasn’t severed the father-daughter bond for all time. It angers me as much as it does you.

      • BothSidesNow says:

        @ Andrew’s Nemesis, my deepest sympathies to you. I understand growing up with a drunken father and it’s hell to become a functioning adult woman, especially with regards to personal relationships. It’s a internal battle that is incredibly difficult to rectify. But I am so happy that you have certainly done the very hard work to conquered that mountain. You are a lovely and well spoken kind hearted woman and have become the woman you are today!! Brava my dear!!

        As for AE, she is destroying their daughters as she takes them down her rabbit hole of threats, lies, drinking and unhinged daily behaviour. Those children are in danger of irreparable emotional harm as she continues these vicious daily SM attacks on Ioan. AE is using them as emotional pawns in her game with her upcoming divorce, as she identifies them as “her daughters”. Ioan needs to have his attorneys actively removed from her care. Which won’t be difficult given her blatant posts that she lays in bed drinking all day. I would like to know how AE is she actively caring for their children? She isn’t!

      • Liz version 700 says:

        Andrew’s Nemesis I could not agree more. I am so glad you survived and escaped that situation. I pray these children will too

    • GrnieWnie says:

      yup, I read that IG caption and knew instantly that she was not sober when she wrote that. Have looooots of experience with people who social media drunk.

  3. Courtney B says:

    Toxic energy is right. I actually get a little nauseous reading her posts. And tabloids in England are always praising her!

    • MY3CENTS says:

      She is a post away from getting herself a restraining order.

      • fluffybunny says:

        She might already have one since every time she interrupts the kids facetime calls he goes straight to his lawyers. He’s not talking and she wouldn’t admit if he has a restraining order against her.

    • minx says:

      Ugh, the tabs praise her? She’s such a manipulative mess.

      • heygingersnaps says:

        Yup, and she even got a spot on a daytime women’s morning show last week to spew her crap even more. 😒

  4. Lightpurple says:

    Those poor girls.

    • NotSoSocialB says:

      This is the only correct take-away. So horrible.

      • jjva says:

        My heart hurts looking at the pictures she is trying to weaponize. Let the children have their own relationship with their father. You chose to have children with this man; they did not choose to be fathered by this man. Who their father is, is not their fault. Leave. Them. Alone. I say this as a divorced lady with a kid and no super great opinion of my ex — but you wouldn’t know that from my goddamn social media.

  5. fluffybunny says:

    Did she actually steal him if he made it known he wasn’t happy and was leaving her and then filed for divorce? Yes he’s technically still married but he’s allowed to move on.

    • Tessa says:

      At the same time, if she has always been this bad and that’s why he left her, it seems strange to go IG official with the girlfriend when things are still so messy. Date, heal, love, whatever, but posting things on social media isn’t some kind of fundamental human right or need.
      Also, if they WERE together back then and she was liking his family posts and later they lied, that IS gross. If he told her he wasn’t cheating, just unhappy, and she was trying to deal with it only to find out he WAS cheating, that’s gaslighting and that would trigger a lot of people.

      • Songs (Or it didnt happen) says:

        @Tessa, but if he is happy in a new relationship, why should he have to hide it or tiptoe around his abuser? Social media isn’t an inalienable right, but having to hide or limit yourself because of an unstable ex is an awful feeling that just gives them power over you.

      • Lara (the other) says:

        Maybe he hoped she would accept the end of the relationship if he is officially in another realationship and has moved on for everybody to see. And then it backfired.

      • Christina says:

        @Tessa, when a narcissist has a target, they will destroy no matter what. He will never be able to live without her commenting or displaying anger and a desire to control him.

        This happened to me. My ex was like Alice. I was like Ioan. My ex, after YEARS of harassing me in person and online, tried to kill our kid. I now have a permanent domestic violence restraining order. My ex is STILL obsessed with me. And I have been married for 10 years. I wasn’t even married to him. We had a child, but I didn’t want to marry him.

        Many people think “scorned woman” behavior is normal. It isn’t. We are human, but only narcissistic people do this, and they are dangerous to children. Sometimes they try to kill when they run out of narcissistic supply and options to hurt the ex in an effort to control them.

      • Andrea says:

        @Christina Same. I had an ex who drunkenly threatened suicide and or yelled at me on voicemail messages months and years after we broke up, even when I moved out of state. Finally, I changed my number when I moved to Canada. Turns out he did this to all our friend group to the point where most have blocked him on the phone/FB etc. Drunken narcissists never change.

      • Tanya says:

        She’s probably been unstable for awhile. Abusers are really good at normalizing their behavior and making you second guess yourself and destroying your sense of normal. Without public proof, it’s he said vs. she said. At some point, it’s a relief to have the world see what’s going on and have validation that despite what your abuser says, you’re not the crazy one.

  6. ML says:

    Please don’t cover this woman anymore. She’s demanding attention in a nonproductive, unhealthy way, which is not good for her, her kids, her former husband, etc. I promise not to read any more, but I just wanted to beg you not to give her any more clicks.

    • Laura says:

      You know, as much as I love the messy gossip angle of this, you are correct. I’m not going to click on these posts anymore as we shouldn’t be feeding into her toxicity. I will be smarter about my online media consumption & hope Celebitchy will be too.

    • LaraW" says:

      But that’s what I like about CB. Celebitchy, Kaiser, Hecate, and Oya go through the media and report it to us so we don’t have to give clicks to these “news” outlets and celebrity social media accounts. And honestly, it’s in controversial, messy gossip posts like this where the most interesting discussions often occur. We’re not feeding into the click-bait, attention seeking culture because we don’t have to go to the source. Additionally, the writers here have often filtered out the most egregious, offensive, triggering language but provide enough context to give a good idea of what’s said, and I appreciate that.

    • Coco says:

      Her post get a lot of clicks and comments, which is why they wrote about her and will continue to do so.

    • Christina says:

      I disagree. Let her. Promote what she is doing.

      Too many people think that this is normal. It is excruciating to watch because it is wrong.

      Others who act like this may see themselves in her behavior if they aren’t narcissistic and will see and will want to do right by their kids.

      Sadly, I think too many people are attracted to the trouble and not understanding the nuances of domestic violence that are flashing like red lights in my eyeballs, lol!

    • Maggie says:

      I feel guilty having access to the photos of her kids. She needs some time away to breathe and recognize that marriages all over the world come crumbling down. The fear isn’t “I have gained weight” or “I am irrelevant while he loves up a younger woman”. Many times it’s, “How do I feed my family now?” This blinded privilege and crusade to monsterize (I think I made that up) her soon to be ex is so off the mark in today’s world.

  7. Concern Fae says:

    When keeping it real goes wrong.

  8. HeatherC says:

    I hope his lawyers are paying attention. The girls are allowed to still adore their father even if he’s not with you Alice. He’s allowed to have a relationship with his children without you. I hope these children are already in therapy to help process this toxic stew.

  9. Merricat says:

    You can’t “steal” a person from a marriage. Lol.
    Alice has conflated Ioan leaving her with Ioan leaving their children, which is weird and harmful to the children. That’s what makes me nervous about her, and sorry for those little girls.
    She’s the type who would set herself on fire if she thought her ex-husband would get the blame for it.

    • The Hench says:

      Exactly. These posts are all about him leaving his children but he hasn’t left his children, he’s left his wife. If Alice ACTUALLY really cared about her children not being traumatised she would do everything she could to preserve the relationship they have with their father separate from her own rejection.

      Instead she is blatantly using them as weapons. Worse, she is probably telling them that they have been rejected by their father. What a mess.

    • MarcelMarcel says:

      ITA. I don’t know this lady personally but I’ve met people who behave this way after a break up. Fortunately most of those people didn’t have kids with their ex. Which made the fixation period shorter because their exes could just cut them out of their life. None of these people had her social media following to feed their toxic cycles.
      I hope those kids have loving aunties, uncles, teachers, friends & stable adults in their social circle! They need all the love & support because this would be so intensely stressful.
      I wish someone would stage an intervention and at least take her to a therapist. I doubt Alice would listen tho.
      Which is sad because she’s in pain, creating pain for others & it must suck being her right now. There are so many better & more uplifting things she could do. But she keeps emotionally abusing her ex and his new gf on social media. ( I suspect if he was constantly posting affectionately about close friends and/or family she’d find a way to twist that too).
      I think that there would be a lot of pressure & unwanted media attention if you’re a kid with famous parents. (Harry & Meghan haven’t released a photo of Lilibet yet and I can understand why). This kind of stuff must only make it harder.

    • Lo says:

      She sounds BPD. I hate to diagnose but breaking and going full-throttle scorched earth in an uncontrollable manner suggests something going on, psychologically. I was cheated on and broke like this. I understand the otherworldly pain and betrayal driving you to madness but the truth is most adults don’t self-destruct publicly like this unless something else is going on.

  10. Zen says:

    Was she drunk when she typed that out? So many typos and mis-used words: “manifested a father away”, “two lyrics girls”. Hard to read and understand. I’m feeling scared for the girls and Bianca and Ioan now.

    • Nanny to the Rescue says:

      Manifested is correct, she’s making fun of Bianca’s love for The Secret.
      I make fun of The Secret too, so that’s the one and only thing Alice and I agree on.

      Lyrics is probably autocorrect.

      But yeah, she’s mixing booze and pills and was convinced yesterday he totally wants her back but Bianca is preventing him.

  11. Digital Unicorn says:

    I still think that the marriage was over long ago and she was refusing to acknowledge it until he started divorce proceedings. I would not be surprised he’d told her it was over and wanted out before he filed, it would also not surprise me if she is stalling proceedings in an act of revenge and attention seeking.

    Ioan needs to go for full custody, she is damaging their daughters.

    • Esmerelda says:

      Yep, I do so hope he goes for and gets full custody. I can’t imagine being “cared for” by a mother like her.
      Poor girls. Child protection services might do well to remove them from her care, at least temporarily, if she’s so publicly drunk and unstable. Even acknowledging she’s in pain, children need to come first.

    • Osty says:

      I think there have been talks about custody cos in her latest tweets she was talking about that , not in the exact words but her tweet pointed at that https://twitter.com/AliceEvansGruff/status/1460471581776351233?t=R6ns3cSPBrVuoCxiOrdVZQ&s=19

      • The Hench says:

        “ I’m being set up as a parental alienator by my husband’s lawyers. “

        Yes, Alice. I’m sure you are.

      • Merricat says:

        It’s not a set-up if it’s true.

      • The Hench says:

        Yes, I totally agree. I took “set up “in this context not to mean “framed” but positioned – because it is exactly what she’s doing.

      • Andrew's Nemesis says:

        Dear God, the whole thread is absolutely unhinged. The way she is weaponising those children, and the support from her ‘fans’ to continue doing so, is so abusive. He needs to get those children away from her before she goes completely Fatal Attraction.

      • Liz version 700 says:

        Wow that thread is insane. Yikes the unhinged is real and people are cheering her on

      • Jan90067 says:

        I’d think all his lawyer has to do is present a printout of her SM, as well as all of the documented interrupted FT chats and he’d get custody.

    • Isa says:

      She admits he said he didn’t love her, was sleeping in another room, wouldn’t have sex with her, and said he wanted to leave because of her behavior. Now that Bianca is in the photo she’s created this narrative that they’ve been having an affair for years.

  12. Amy Bee says:

    What does she hope to gain by stalking her husband’s new girlfriend? Why doesn’t she just block her on Instagram?

    • smcollins says:

      She’s hoping to drive a wedge between them but she’s going to achieve the opposite. A part of me kind of feels bad for her (she’s obviously unraveling and can’t handle/accept that her marriage is over, and is in need of serious therapy) but, damn….she makes it really, really hard to *actually* feel bad for her. I definitely feel bad for their daughters, no child deserves to be used as an emotional pawn in trying to win public sympathy.

  13. MattyLove says:

    Hell hath no fury, as they say.

  14. helonearth says:

    Good grief, someone take her phone away.

    As for stealing her husband, you cannot steal someone. People are not property and he has made it clear he doesn’t want to be with her and moved on. She needs to stop.

  15. Erica says:

    This woman is unhinged. I hope that Ioan is speaking with lawyers about obtaining custody because this woman should NOT be the one raising these children. I understand he has to work but Alice needs serious help.

  16. Monica says:

    What is her freaking endgame here???? Does she think this’ll bring him back????

    And that facetune pic makes her look like an extra in Bird Box.

  17. Liz version 700 says:

    Darrius Rucker has a song which basically says “If I’m drunk enough for you to take my keys…for God’s sake take my Phone.”

    Seriously though, this woman needs an intervention…she is harming those kids so much.

    • Jan90067 says:

      LOL what a great (and true!!) lyric!

      And yes, those kids need to be with dad or a relative NOW. They are going to need therapy, and it will most likely be court ordered. I hope the judge in their custody case pulls a “reverse Pitt” and orders Mom to have only court supervised visits until she shows proof that she’s had enough therapy to stop emotionally damaging the girls. They are old enough to be Googling all Mummy is vomiting out.

  18. anniefannie says:

    This woman needs help STAT! It appears she’s shifted the entire blame to Bianca and looks as though a vendetta is brewing. ( thank god for the pandemic , Oy! never thought I’d say that!)
    What’s most heartbreaking is her referring to
    Bianca as making her daughter cry daily, no YOU are making her cry, rather than protecting your children you’re weaponizing them.
    I went thru a similar situation and while I wasn’t perfect, I’m most proud that I killed myself to make certain my daughter never blamed her Dad and maintained a good & healthy relationship w/him.

    • Turtledove says:

      Good for you for being able to do the right thing, Anniefannie.

      I *had* some level of sympathy for this woman early on. It seems like he wanted out for awhile, and she knew that and was in denial/refusing to believe it. I have gs, a friend who is going through a divorce right now and she is having SO many different feelings, but one is that she feels like her life is being blown up, not of her doing, not of her choice, and she keeps feeling “I don’t deserve this”. She definitely doesn’t her ass of a husband did her wrong.

      Anyway my point is, early on I had some sympathy for Alice (despite her apparently being a rather shitty person who said awful things about MM) because sometimes marriages end and one person doesn’t want it to. Those feelings ARE hard.

      But as hard as it is, she NEEDS to put her daughters first. Period. What she is doing is terrible. I am genuinely scared for her kids.

      • Meghan says:

        @turtledove- I also had sympathy for her, up until very recently. ONLY because my ex did cheat on me and was in a whole relationship and was doing shady things trying to think we could get back together and it was so painful. And I still called him my husband until the divorce was finalized because I just… felt he was still my husband until that paper was signed. (And to be honest I was already switching to “son’s father” instead of husband so while the divorce was processing i didn’t have all that many opportunities to refer to him as husband)

        But at no point did I blame his girlfriend for the pain I felt. There are a couple of vague “men are dumb” or “i am so over this” FB posts that I made but our son will never be able to pinpoint that to our divorce. I cried. I yelled about him to my friends and family. Sometimes it still hurts and I cry a bit (its been a year) but I figure that’s just life.

        I can’t have sympathy for Alice anymore. This is going to hurt her children so badly one day. Even if she and Ioan had a perfectly healthy relationship the day Ioan introduced his new girlfriend, she has got to rein this in, if she has any hope of keeping her kids. Yes he hurt you, but get it together for your girls my God.

  19. Tw says:

    Look, she’s obviously not handling this well but why is no one commenting on the possible betrayal? I know plenty of women who “befriend” married men, waiting for their chance. It’s a thing. And men do have emotional affairs before the physical affair begins. Why are we so quick to jump on her dysfunction without so much as a side eye at this new relationship and its origins?

    • Esmerelda says:

      That’s the thing, if she had kept her children out of it, a lot more people would be on her side, or neutral. What she’s doing to her children, in public, is so worrisome we’re all (at least here on CB) just focusing on the most serious part of this, and not on the gossip. And this is a gossip site.

    • HeatherC says:

      Because shes involving her kids into her public meltdown. I don’t care if she caught Ioan and Bianca going at it in the marital bed, you don’t pull your kids into it as some sort of punishment against the ex or soon to be ex. You don’t announce you told your kids ‘Dad is leaving US.’ As soon as she did that all her passes were revoked.

      • Mcmmom says:

        Yes, agreed. I am completely neutral on this guy – I don’t know anything about him, other than what I’ve read here. He can be a saint, he can be a jackass – I don’t know and I don’t care. What Alice Evans is doing to her children is inexcusable, full stop.

    • Merricat says:

      People are allowed to end marriages.

    • Twin falls says:

      Those of us who’ve gone through infidelity and divorce with children have said we understand the immense pain Alice Evans would be in…we also say she needs therapy to deal with it before she further damages her kids. As in any divorce situation, the kids are blameless and the real victims here.

    • NCWoman says:

      Waiting for their chance? This implies that men don’t have agency over their own d–ks and what they do with them, if he cheated on her (and that’s a big if IMO), that’s on him and only him because he made the marriage vows. I will never understand why we allow women to be degraded for failing to police the morals of married men.

    • Arpeggi says:

      She’s harassing him/his loved ones and trying to alienate his kids. She is dangerous and nothing he could have done justifies the abuse , nothing ever justifies it. « Look what you made me do » is never ok.

    • Andrew's Nemesis says:

      Because she’s doing a daily play-by-play of her daughters’ emotions and weaponising them against their father. And that is not good parenting. Not in any shape or form. She comes across as a malignant narcissist, who cannot stand that her ‘property’ has finally got away from her and is hellbent on destroying not only him and his new girlfriend, but her own children through her rage and spite.

    • lucy2 says:

      My thinking is ok, worst case he possibly cheated on her with this other woman, decided to leave, and is now flaunting this new relationship – that makes him a lousy husband, sure, and she’d have every right to be angry at him, and maybe even post the occasional snip at him online, but then move forward with the divorce and work out a co-parenting situation.

      But what she’s doing is so over the top, and really damaging for their kids. Like, REALLY damaging. And God only knows what she’s saying to them day in and day out, because what she’s posting online is bad enough.

      • TheNoper says:

        Really, treating a partner wrong, especially if they are the primary caregiver is damaging for the kids. He is not just a lousy husband, he is at least a little lousy to his kids. I understand they are all different persons and entities, but shared a unity as a family. That dynamic changed since he decided to step out of the marriage and will continue to evolve. She could have triggered his distancing and the way she is behaving now is worse, but i guess what i’m trying to say is that once the partner hides, cheats emotionally, he is not just a lousy partner. He shows his kids what to tolerate or not in future relationships and mothers who are not supposed to feel ire at being discarted is damaging for them.

      • Fortuona says:

        @TheNoper

        None of that has been shown to actually have happened , 6 months ago she said he wa sleeping with his on screen daughter which was a lie

    • ElleV says:

      i’m withholding judgement on ioan because:

      1) why bend over backward to blame another woman for conniving to steal a man (without any evidence) when Alice is doing the most to show she is emotionally abusive? if this is what we’re seeing in public, I can’t imagine what happened behind closed doors and I’m not about to side-eye someone for how they leave an abusive situation

      2) alice is an unreliable narrator, and the narrative about cheating only started after the gf debut, many months after ioan filed for divorce – this isn’t like angie/brad or mulaney and his gf where the timelines were sus

      3) what’s more likely: a dude fresh out of a toxic relationship rebounds quickly with someone in his immediate orbit, or a woman plans for years to snare a married man? I guess it’s *possible* that Bianca schemed to snatch Ioan, but it’s not *probable* and unlike Mulaney’s girlfriend, she has no history of being involved with men going through breakups

      4) liking a picture doesn’t mean you’re trying to eff someone. come on! this is not the smoking gun alice thinks it is

    • jk says:

      I think people are being way too hard on her. She’s obviously in a lot of pain.

      • ElleV says:

        i’m sure she is in a lot of pain, and lots of people have expressed empathy about that, but pain doesn’t excuse harassing her ex and his gf and using pics of her kids as emotional ammo. that kind of thinking enables and emboldens abuse. i think peeps who have been in abusive situations are hearing A LOT of alarm bells ringing in this one.

      • Isa says:

        She’s harassing this woman and her ex. She is contacting the talent agency and coworkers. She refers to Bianca as horse teeth. She is weaponizing her kids and making them hurt so she can say Ioan is destroying them, no, Alice is the one hurting them. She has said she is being set up for parental alienation and is worried she may lose custody, but has no plans on changing her behavior. She complains she can’t get a job when she has a nanny and keeps making comments about working at Home Depot like she thinks she’s too good for it.

      • nina says:

        So? There are kids involved here. People are hard on her because of what she is putting those poor kids through. She is weaponizing her own kids against their dad. Her children don’t need to be traumatized like that.
        Get therapy. Stay off social media. Call your girlfriends, your siblings, your parents, and rant to them.

      • lucy2 says:

        She is, I don’t debate that at all. But she needs to lean on family, friends, and a good therapist, and follow her lawyers’ advice. She’s making it so much worse on everyone, especially their kids.

      • vs says:

        like she was nice to MM? this is her karma!!! Meghan does not know her but what she is going through is never going to be enough for people who watch trash like her dumb on another woman! her payback didn’t come from Meghan but from her ex….that’s karma!
        Hopefully Ioan or someone can get custody of those kids and she is clearly not mentally stable

    • NotSoSocialB says:

      Because the issue is that she is using her own children as a weapon against their father, without true concern for how it hurts them and twists their impressionable minds. That is *SICK*. She doesn’t even see it for what it is, because she’s such a gigantic narcissist. Since her narcissism is so blatant, imagine what life would be like as a partner to her. She’s a monster, full stop. I’m not an apologist for the spouse- if there was overlap or even an outright affair, then he is a coward and a cheat, but that doesn’t compare to that damage being done while their custodial mom is being a sloppy drunk, bile-spewing, mentally and emotionally decompensating parent. Those children need to be in the custody of the stable parent while she gets inpatient treatment and can then be a proper parent to the children she claims to love but currently uses as a cudgel.

      • jk says:

        He didn’t help anything by posting pics of him and his girlfriend on social media. Doesn’t seem like either of them are thinking about the kids. And, if he cheated on her, he’ll cheat on the new one.

      • vs says:

        @jk — so? who told you that the new gf is in it for the long haul? they are free human beings and can do as they wish, that’s none of my business…..this woman is a horrible person so she is getting her karma for her hateful rhetoric abt MM

      • NotSoSocialB says:

        @jk don’t conflate him posting a bland photo with her obviously substance-impaired public rants and bile- spewing. They were estranged before he left, sleeping in separate rooms. Nothing was normal and healthy in that instance.

        I can only conclude that you perhaps share an experience with infidelity. Many, many here do, as well. We can all agree that she is weaponizing her children against their father, and that EMOTIONALLY INJURES the children. And it’s **intentional**. That’s really just fucked up.

    • bonobochick says:

      Whataboutism is rarely a good argument, but especially poor without legit substantiation.

    • pottymouth pup says:

      just because she claims he cheated on her and betrayed their marriage vows doesn’t mean that he actually did. she has not been a reliable narrator at all. That said, if your partner is a mess as she appears to be and you’re struggling to get your partner to work with you to either repair your relationship or end it, you’re going to rely on people willing to lend you an ear. If, as you realize the relationship is not salvageable and, as it appears to have happened in this case, that your partner refuses to accept that you want/need to extricate yourself from the relationship for your own mental health, you shouldn’t have to do that in a vacuum let alone wait for the partner to notice that you really are done. You also shouldn’t have to wait to find someone you didn’t meet before your relationship ended publicly to be able to move on. There’s no evidence that he was just screwing around and then decided to end his marriage because he found someone else but there is evidence that all was not well in the marriage for some time and that Alice Evans has the emotional maturity of a very spoiled child

    • HeyJude says:

      Because no betrayal justifies behaving this way and becoming an abuser.

      This is the real world- people are allowed to cheat and betray you and blow up as many families as they want. And some will. He can post a thousand pictures a day of the new relationship on social media. He can wear matching “f you Alice” t-shirts with the new girlfriend if he’s that twisted.

      Bottom Line: You still have to act like an rational and emotionally stable adult in dealing with that betrayal when those things happen. It’s called being a grown up.

      It’s sucks, it’s not fair, but it’s no less the truth.

      (You especially have to act that way when you have a duty to your children to do so.)

  20. LaraW” says:

    I… don’t understand what Alice is trying to get at. Why is liking Alice’s posts on instagram proof of whatever it is she’s accusing Bianca of doing? I know that the timeline is confused as to whether or not Ioan was cheating on Alice, but if that’s the best Alice can do in terms of “evidence,” I have to say it’s really weak. At this point, I feel like if there were stronger, more damning indications of cheating, she would have blasted it everywhere.

    • Turtledove says:

      I mean, Alice has been caught in so many lies that I don’t even know if I BELIEVE that Bianca “liked” those posts. Maybe they are doctored.

      But I will say this, if Bianca was romantically interested in Ioan, or god forbid even involved with him years ago, and was “liking” photos of him with his kids and wife, that’s gross. Really, really gross. I can understand Alice pointing it out for those reasons. But it might be doctored, or it might be prior to ANY romatic inkling. I “like” photos of my colleagues families all the time and there is nothing going on there.

      But Alice needs to STOP. If things with Bianca are serious, her kids are going to be spending time with that woman. And yes, that hurts. I get it. But for the kids sake, she needs to step up and get some help.

    • pottymouth pup says:

      If liking the posts of pics of an actor/actress you like is evidence that an affair was going on, Lesley-Anne Brandt is cheating on her husband with me.

      • EllenOlenska says:

        My ex cheated on me with his secretary. Years later he married her. A few years ago she died unexpectedly of an aneurysm. My ex made a mysterious trip to visit “ friends” two weeks later. He then announced two months later that “ friendship had turned to love” and he was engaged to this friend. A quick google search revealed “ friend” had been hanging around marriage two for many years.

        Alice is a nutter. And she needs to learn a lot about discretion. But it is just possible she is right about this having been an affair all along. She just may have guessed wrong when she first accused the other actress.

  21. Izzy says:

    Maybe I don’t understand IG as well (I am almost 50), but if Bianca liked the post more recently, wouldn’t that still show up? It doesn’t mean she liked it back when it was posted, does it?

    Either way, Alice Evans is so off the rails.

    • The Hench says:

      If Bianca did like the post back in 2018 that would mean that Alice has been trawling through every single Instagram post for at least the last three years and reading who has liked it. Given her profile, that’s thousands of likes over I don’t know how many posts. That is obsessive and scary behaviour.

    • Emma says:

      I think Bianca could have liked the photo yesterday or any time. Unless I’m missing something, Instagram doesn’t give you a time stamp of when one individual liked a photo??

      • Léna says:

        I haven’t posted anything on my Insta since 2019 but I remember a notification pop up every time someone liked my picture. So if it’s a recent “like” then yes, she can see it, but otherwise she must have scrolled way back to check that

      • HeyJude says:

        You get a notification as soon as whenever posts are liked usually.

        (You may be able to turn that off however in setting preferences, but the default setting is you’re notified.)

    • IncenseBurner says:

      I was thinking the same. She didn’t necessarily “like” the photo in 2018; she could have “liked” it 2 months ago….

      • ElleV says:

        exactly – she might have liked those posts at any time, including when they were acquaintances and before they were romantically involved

  22. Osty says:

    They way she is going after the woman is pathetic, she has now channelled her anger to her. She is going about making lies about her so her gang can go after her .
    She is now saying the husband she claimed has ghosted her, who hates fat women , who she has to lean on her kids chat to talk with him came home, and told her he is having doubt when he see her and her face and thinks he wants her back . She is spiraling and I would have felt bad for her if she wasn’t awful.
    Also she should stop doing the duck lips , it makes her look foolish

  23. Bryn says:

    All I can say is I really hope someone is taking care of those kids, this is a horribly unhealthy thing for these kids to be going through.

  24. Cg2495 says:

    My my …. She is handling this terribly. Poor kids!

  25. MsNJ says:

    All a bit Betty Broderick, innit?

    • Mabs A'Mabbin says:

      A bit? She’s spiraling toward being Betty. It’s cringefest for us, dangerous for anyone in her orbit.

  26. Laura says:

    You have to love your kids more than you hate their father… Instead shes turned them into weapons. He will always be their dad, God knows i bit my tongue till it bled with my ex, because my son should be able to love his only father, without having to deal with our crappy couple baggage. I wouldn’t allow Bianca to have the satisfaction of knowing she lives rent free in my head. Why give her that power?
    Living well is best revenge.

  27. Toilet says:

    Interesting how you supported Brandi Granville to do the same stuff for years. No wonder this woman thinks it’s okay.

    • Merricat says:

      Who supported Brandi Granville? Not me.
      But sure, it’s her fault that Alice Evans is a terrifying mother.

      • Eenie Googles says:

        Celebitchy readership skewed heavily in favour of Glanville at the height of that mess.

      • Merricat says:

        So it’s Brandi Granville’s fault that Alice Evans is an abusive narcissist? Lol, no.

      • LaraW” says:

        @Eenie Googles, inquiring minds would very much appreciate a summary— I have no idea who Glanville is and what happened. I like to compare how similar/analogous situations are treated over the years. 2018 was solidly Trump admin and maybe it’s because I’m in DC and so close to it all, but I think the political environment does inform our takes of situations (which I find fascinating).

        Thanks in advance!

      • pottymouth pup says:

        I’m no Brandi Glanville fan but there was clear evidence that Eddie Cibrian cheated on her and that Leanne’s behavior was problematic. None of that exists in the Gruffudd-Evans case – it’s all coming from Evans who’s clearly off the rails

    • Arpeggi says:

      From what I remember, ppl were mostly creeped out by Leanne’s seemingly copying her and popping up wherever she’d go while calling herself her stepkids’ mom. And yeah, that was indeed odd. Totally different situations

      • lucy2 says:

        I agree, that was more about Leann and her behavior. If this new girlfriend were copying Alice’s every look and trying to act like the kids were hers, I think it’d be a different story.

      • Deanne says:

        Exactly. She copied everything Brandi wore, started going to every professional Brandi went to, tormented her with her children and had her fans harass Brandi to the point of threatening her safety. Her music producer buddy harassed Brandi mercilessly. This isn’t the same situation at all.

    • Monica says:

      Brandi was “problematic” and has only gotten moreso since, but never to this extent. Plus, there was documented cheating in her case, and it seems clear that Ioan’s new GF has done nothing to deserve Alice’s attacks.

      Hey, at least we all know how to pronounce his name now. 😆

    • ElleV says:

      LOL! I had no clue what you were referring to so I googled it and you’re talking about gossip from 2009! putting aside that these were very different situations, why on earth would the readership of this blog or anyone’s opinions remain static for 12 YEARS?! have yours?

  28. MsIam says:

    Not sure what her end game is other than misery loves company. Even if things don’t work out with the new girlfriend, I doubt he would go back to Alice after this. I hope she gets help, she must not have anyone in her life who can say “Look girl, you are teetering on the edge, dial it back and get help, stat!”

    • Merricat says:

      She’s wallowing in her fury because a narcissist can’t believe that anyone would leave her/him unless someone “made” them. And because she’s a narcissist who’s been rejected, she both hates and loves him, and wants him back, even if she has to scorch the earth to get him.

  29. Apple Cart says:

    Alice is addicted to twitter. She lets the fans rile her up and she thinks they are her “friends”. She really needs help and someone to take away her account for awhile. All she is doing is creating more misery for her kids. She thinks if she is loud enough and digs in deep enough. He will break and come back. It seems she thought she was the funny zany one and Ioan was the quiet rock in the marriage and she was happy in that false narrative. The guy clearly was miserable for a long time. Like Betty Broederick she doesn’t love him but wants to stay married to not “lose”. Cut your losses girl and move on. Happiness is on the other side of life.

    • cassandra says:

      “Funny zany one”

      I did a deep dive on her Insta a bit ago and a lot of her posts of Ioan pre-separation have these snarky and “funny” captions about him. But there’s a real passive aggressive bite to them. Kinda like the whole Chris Pratt wife appreciation post.

      I know if my spouse posted those kind of captions I’d be hurt and angry. This relationship has been on its last legs for a while

  30. Eenie Googles says:

    Just because you like a post from 2018 doesn’t mean you liked it IN 2018.

  31. Size Does Matter says:

    Could someone please tell me how his name is pronounced? All I can see is “loan” as in “loan shark” with a lower case “l” at the beginning. I realize it is a capital “I” as in “I have the right to divorce my batshit spouse,” but I still can’t figure out the pronunciation. Is it “Ian” like Ian Ziering?

    • Mel says:

      It’s pronounced “Yo-An Griffiths”

    • LaraW” says:

      I’ve been pronouncing it in my head like “Joan” except with a Y at front, so “Yoan.” But I’m probably wrong lol.

    • Albie says:

      Yo-Ann.

      • LaraW” says:

        Could you clarify? Now I’m pronouncing in my head like Yo-Anne (like Jo-Anne, which has since devolved into Yo Ant! I haven’t had enough coffee). Is it a hard “a” or soft? And stress on first syllable or last?

      • Nanny to the Rescue says:

        A is pronounced like the German A, if that helps. English does have many variations of A and I’m not sure if any fits Ioan, especially in American English.

        And Gruffudd is just Griffith, with TH like in the, these, not thing, think.

      • LaraW" says:

        @Nanny to the Rescue – Thanks!

      • Size Does Matter says:

        You guys are the best, seriously, thank you for your effort, but I’m hopeless I still don’t get it. And I had never even looked at his last name so I didn’t realize none of those letters made sense either.

        Now in my head he’s “Ya-Own” as in “get Ya-Own husband.”

      • Nanny to the Rescue says:

        @Size Does Matter:

        You flipped the letters around.

        Start with Yo! (Kinda like Yo, dawg! But with less enthusiasm because the U sound shouldn’t be there.) This syllable is stressed.

        And then add an “an”. The A in there sounds like when the “extra-English” English people say ma’am and you’re not sure if they called you madam or mother? That but shorter because it’s just one A. You know what I mean?

        I don’t even know how common this A sound is in English, it’s much easier to point to Germans, or Finns, or Slavs. I think the Spanish use this A as A too.

    • whatever says:

      It’s pronounced “yo ann”

    • IncenseBurner says:

      Loan shark — lol

  32. Isa says:

    Bianca deleted her Instagram a few days ago, so I’m not sure this is the gotcha she thinks it is.

    • Nanny to the Rescue says:

      Alice is treating this as some sort of victory, but it should actually worry her.

      Ioan was angry with Alice using social media for years… He bagged her not to post, she did it anyway and look at her now.

      Now, Bianca, she did actually shut down her social media without a problem. Ioan must love her even more now. :p

      • Isa says:

        I think Bianca shut down her Instagram because of the harassment. Not only from Alice, but from all the people that supports her.
        Do your likes stay up after you’ve deleted your IG? Out of all the people that liked the photo why is Bianca the one that got highlighted. I know IG does that, but why her?

        I went back and looked and I can’t find the photo on Alice’s IG. Hmmmm

      • Nanny to the Rescue says:

        Yeah, I didn’t mean to imply she did it for Ioan. Just that Bianca understands that sometimes keeping social media open isn’t the best idea. Something Ioan will appreciate. Especially since Alice’s social media activity seems to be one of the reasons for him drifting away and my God Alice is doubling, nay, quintupling down!

  33. Toilet says:

    My comment was for Kaiser. Brandi laid a playbook for fame (no one knew her name before), sympathy and more. Also after like 8 years, the public tides turned so Brandi had to finally let it go.

    Why wouldn’t Alice think she could do the same crap and play the scorned ex.

    • Merricat says:

      So Alice was a Brandi Glanville fan and has followed her life adventures closely enough to model her own after Brandi’s?

      • Toilet says:

        Don’t put words into my mouth. I said it created a culture of playing the scorned woman for sympathy and fame. The comment right below mine talks about how Alice can’t stop drunk tweeting and Brandi literally wrote a book called Drinking and Tweeting.

      • LaraW" says:

        @Toilet – Again, I didn’t pay attention to/wasn’t around for the Brandi thing, so this is just a general response to your comment above.

        I don’t think that Brandi, or any other person, can be given sole credit for creating “a culture of playing the scorned woman for sympathy and fame.” I feel like you can find examples that go back to the first recorded histories, honestly. Popular literature, movies, and music have tons of stories and songs where this dynamic plays out, be it in fiction or real life. The stage on which the drama proceeds is different with each century, obviously, but I feel like at this point it’s a trope firmly established in modern culture.

        I guess what I’m trying to say is that if it hadn’t been Brandi, it probably would have been someone else. And I think the same applies to drunk tweeting– there’s a kind of inevitability about its debut in social media.

    • Bex says:

      I would agree with your point if I didn’t know Alice Evans has been on the BS for years. This woman used to troll one of the fan blogs dedicated to her husband. Most people would steer clear of these spaces, but not Alice. No, she HAD to participate (even on IMDb, apparently). She got in her feelings because some commenters made not nice statements about her outfit (or something), and Ioan had to make a public statement because SHE got her feelings hurt. So, the idea that Alice saw some other woman get supported, so she thought she could behave the same makes zero sense. Alice has ALWAYS been extra, and this is just another instance in a LONG line of instances of her doing the absolute most (for attention AND/OR control).

      Also, the thought that “playing the scorned woman” was invented for/by Brandi Glanville is ridiculous. Certain women are allowed to play this part, usually with an addition of tears. This isn’t new.

  34. TabithaD says:

    Alice is becoming dangerously unhinged IMO. She drunk tweets all night, much of the time she contradicts herself and some of it is horribly offensive towards Bianca (when, as far as I can see, there’s no evidence of the relationship having started until well after Ioan had left).
    Liking a 2018 post is not proof of anything – the “like” could have been made today.
    I think Alice is just desperate for a response from Ioan, and that’s why she’s ramping up the lies and histrionics. Whereas he has apparently been conducting all contact via a co-parenting app (on lawyers’ advice, no doubt – and I can see why).

    • Andrew's Nemesis says:

      She’s horrible to anyone who doesn’t slavishly agree that it’s in her and her children’s best interests to destroy Ioan and Bianca’s lives – calls people bitches, agrees with comments that refer to detractors as wh*res, eggs her followers on to pile on to detractors, and seems only just this afternoon to have changed her profile which stated she basically wanted to get even with her ‘husband’ and his ‘mistress’. I mean, how can anyone fail to see that this woman is a narcissist? and a drunk? How is it that Child Services has not become involved, and temporary custody not awarded? Any lawyers who can chime in on this one?

      • TabithaD says:

        I hope that Ioan’s lawyers are working behind the scenes on this. Hopefully things will change when he’s back from Australia (next week I think).
        Alice herself has also said she’s on a range of prescription meds, so combining that with alcohol is unwise, to put it mildly. She clearly escalates late at night – she calls Bianca in particular the most appalling things (e.g. slut, hooker) and criticises her appearance constantly. She makes stuff up and makes wild unfounded accusations. She’s completely lost the plot, and the poor kids must not know how to deal with it.

  35. FrodoOrOdo says:

    Her children are not safe with her. She would rather see them destroyed than see them with their father without her.

  36. Layla Beans says:

    I read somewhere that Alice is also estranged from her family. I’ll see if I can find the source. I can see why they might be estranged because…wow. If I were Ioan and Bianca, I would legit be scared.

    • Nanny to the Rescue says:

      She tweeted a couple of days ago that people should stop suggesting for her to move back to UK to get help from her family because her dad wouldn’t even open the door if she came.
      Something like that.

  37. AmelieOriginal says:

    Her current Twitter bio is “Made a huge mistake and married the wrong man. Anyone else that feels they did the same come in for a chat.” For anyone thinking we should still somehow feel sorry for her because Ioan may have cheated on her (and that would suck if that were true but I’m leaning towards the it never happened scenario), Alice is a narcissistic drama queen who will make everything about herself. No wonder Ioan left her.

  38. els says:

    Someone should close her sm account asap. I’m not sure what’s the endgame here? None of this nonsense will go in her favor… In any level…

  39. Bobbie says:

    She has too much time on her hands. If she were not wealthy, she’d be at work, like most women … occupied with work. It would be good for her.

  40. Gk says:

    Does she need to let go of soon to be cheating ex and not new girlfriend? Yes and concentrate on her two children cause it doesn’t look like he’s that involved with them and what’s happening is even harder on them because they have no control (Alice can try to give him a hard time on social media and divorce). I feel sorry for Alice, but concentrate on the kids not the cheating ex.

    • Coco says:

      No Proof he cheated and he was been working overseas. Not to mention according to Alice he’s been doing the regular online video chats with his kids so what are you talking about.

    • fluffybunny says:

      She’s unemployed and he’s a working actor but not super popular so probably has to take what he can get and it means being away from home. Someone needs to support the kids. And there’s no evidence that he cheated.

  41. Emily says:

    Her toxicity is going to hurt her kids.

    My dad and mom divorced amicably and are still friends 20 years later, but even the couple comments my dad made about my mom “leaving” comes up in therapy because I couldn’t “leave” relationships.

  42. 809Matriarch says:

    Wow. She’s Stephanie Lazarus kinda crazy.

  43. Jaded says:

    This is emotional blackmail, pure and simple. Alice is wallowing in a deep pool of shame, anger and self-pity because she can’t deal with rejection and won’t admit to her psychological illness. Because she has limited self-awareness and poor emotional coping skills, she’s trying to bolster herself by tearing Ioan down. She’s desperate to have people believe her distorted reality — that he’s an uncaring, unfaithful person — in her own screwed up mind she’s enlisting allies by publicly smearing and shaming him in order to discredit him and gain sympathy. I imagine now that filming is through things are going to escalate rapidly and she may well be facing having her kids removed from the situation, at least for the time being, as she appears to be teetering on a very dangerous precipice.

    • clomo says:

      So true, if she had stayed quiet about this she would have won the sympathy game. People can see what’s happening from the outside.

  44. Eating Popcorn says:

    People on Twitter comparing her to Adele and Taylor Swift – Ummm no – Alice is not re-writing the celebrity breakup. From a distance, it looks like she is having a public mental health crisis. I wish her well.

  45. Mina_Esq says:

    I hate that she keeps bringing kids into it. Please don’t tell me your kid cries because of Bianca. Focus on protecting your kid from all the drama. Christ…I bet she talks about this sh*t in front of her kids.

    • HeatherC says:

      I bet she talks a about this sh*t TO her kids. , “Daddy isn’t here because he’s with that whore.” “Daddy doesn’t love us anymore because of….”

    • Jaded says:

      Mr. Jaded’s bonkers ex-wife did that to their then 4 year-old granddaughter — she kept pressuring her for information on who he was dating post-divorce (me), cried constantly in front of her and telling her how “grandpa doesn’t love me anymore and I’m sad” even though she left him. She also made some really vicious accusations about me trying to muscle my way into the family and trying to be her 3rd grandmother. Their daughter finally had to ban her mom from visiting or baby-sitting it got so bad. It’s abhorrent to involve children in a situation like this and I hope for the sake of the kids that he gets them, even temporarily, and she is mandated into some kind of therapy in order to get them back. She’s too f*cking selfish and sick to realize she’s harming her own children.

  46. jferber says:

    Tessa, I agree with you. His primary goals have been achieved: he left/is divorcing his wife and has hooked up with a new lover. His daughters still live with the ex. If I were him, I would follow my lawyer’s office and say nothing (BUT I’d also NOT post pictures with the new girlfriend either). There is NO necessity for doing this and if it triggers her, then his girls will have to deal with the crazy, not him because he is GONE. I think he needs to have more compassion for these girls, including making sure they are safe with their mother. I don’t know what she’s truly capable of, but why find out? If I were him, I’d be terrified for them and not smiling in pictures with the girlfriend. Live his life, yes, but not broadcast it to the world. Just my opinion and I know the majority will not agree with it. C’est la vie.

    • Coco says:

      So after a year and a half after the split you think he not allowed to post pictures. Did you feel the same way about Megan fox or Olivia Wilde who waited what a couple of months after announcing to post pictures and pop walks?

      • Ann says:

        People are allowed to do whatever they want, but posting pictures on social media isn’t really necessary. If you’re in a good relationship and happy, why do you need everyone to know it? He’s well-known enough that it will attract attention.

        Maybe he thought it was safe, or a way to cut the cord and send a message. Maybe he just didn’t think about it. I came of age before there was such a thing as Facebook Official or Instagram Official, so maybe I just don’t get it.

        AE is acting unhinged and I’m not excusing it. She shouldn’t react to her ex’s post and new GF this way, and she certainly shouldn’t be dragging her kids into it. But at the same time, I can see an argument for him refraining from making his relationship public in this way.

  47. Persephone says:

    Did Ioan post any more posts about Bianca? or was it just the one?
    I don’t have and IG, so I wondered.
    If it’s just the one, why is AE and everyone so hot over this one post? If he just wanted to acknowledge that he had a GF, whats the big deal??? I don’t think it’s quite the crisis AE (and her supporters) thinks it is.

  48. dollycoa says:

    The press don’t care about her. They know they can easily fill column inches and airtime with her ranting on, and get people to comment and discuss. She thinks they are not using her, but they are. I don’t think she has anyone genuinely on her side at this point. She has ‘friends’ who have never met her, who used to be Ioan’s fans bizarrely and now just wind her up for kicks. I suspect that once the divorce goes to court, she is going to be hammered. She is giving the lawyers proof of her parental alienation. They have to communicate already over a court appointed wizard, which she has refused to use, so she is breaching court orders all over the place.

  49. Otaku fairy says:

    LMAO at her calling the new gf the stalker while being the actual stalker herself. Her behavior toward her ex and the kids isn’t actually funny though, it’s disturbing. She also seems like the type who will play the “After all I’ve done for you” card if any of her kids ever speak out about this kind of behavior.

  50. Kat says:

    Alice is laying the foundation for an alienation of affection lawsuit. Bianca should run… no man is worth this level of harassment and it will only get worse with the kids taking Alice’s side. Did anyone notice Bianca deleted her IG acct?

  51. Gracie says:

    Not condoning her actions on any level, but something similar happened to me – my husband’s new “friend” was all over my Instagram account and met me and my kids multiple times and yet still had the gall to confess to him that she had feelings for him and tell him he should get a divorce (we were going through a rough patch, but nowhere near that point). I had just had a baby, for which she gave me a gift basket (wth?!). Fortunately my husband did the right thing – he immediately pulled away from her and told her not to contact him, told me everything, and we’re healing now. He is completely responsible for his part in not recognizing that the friendship was headed in a certain direction, but I couldn’t understand how a woman could knowingly and purposefully harm another woman like this – we have things hard enough as is. I understand how Alice can feel betrayed by both parties, but she should not be dragging this out in public – that’s what therapists are for.

  52. canichangemyname says:

    I feel bad for this woman because it doesn’t seem like she has any kind of emotional support system. I’ve been in a similar situation, and I know it hurts. But it’s a shame that she apparently doesn’t have any other outlet like a job or friends or, you know, just focusing on her children. Girl, men do this sh!t all the time. Enjoy a night out with friends, change your hair, read a book, go to therapy, adopt a pet, start journaling, redecorate the house, etc, etc, etc. SO MANY other options besides allowing his bad behavior to take you down!

    • A says:

      Does she not have a support system, or has she successfully run off anyone who could have provided her with a support system by not actually utilizing the support they offered, which were more than likely just efforts to temper her worst impulses?

  53. Zaylina says:

    She’s going to keep escalating the abuse until she gets a response. Those children need to be removed because she is exactly the type of narcissistic personality disordered person who could harm the kids as a last resort to hurt him.

    Someone else needs to have sole custody (I hope the father is applying for it) and she should have supervised visitation only until she stops this nonsense and becomes emotionally stable and sane.

    It horrifies me how many people are joining her and making excuses for her online. Too many people accept abusive, deranged behaviour as normal.

    • dina says:

      AMEN. I follow her on IG now and oh man…. she is wildly unhinged, its mortifying. Like a car crash you cant look away from.

  54. A says:

    Okay, wrt the jumbled words and typos, I wanna point out to people that voice-to-text is a thing, and it’s not often a very good thing at doing what it’s supposed to do. I imagine she spoke that word salad and this is what came out as text. She probably didn’t enunciate very well, so that’s why there are words misspelled or just completely incorrect. Autocorrect is also a thing, esp when typing, so there is that too.

    All that said, WOW this lady needs to take a break already. This is not good. This is not fun, it’s not kind, it’s not pleasant. It’s extremely terrifying and profoundly awful. She’s basically utilizing her newfound fame and platform to harass someone who’s not in the public eye, and she’s got the fans (I use the term loosely) to do it. It’s just terrible.

  55. Misskitten says:

    It’s interesting how much Alice & Ioan’s situation mirrors Harry& Meghan’s and the British media. Alice is the personification of the British media.

  56. Lola says:

    This one is salty a famous person left her and her fat salad days are over

  57. Sherry Greengrass says:

    It amazes me that parents cease to think about how all of this toxic, public spewing is affecting the children involved.