People: Six-plus years later, Prince William still refuses to speak to his brother

Since past is prologue, I expected a lot of focus on Prince William this week, following the Sussexes’ UK visit last week. That’s what happened last September – Prince Harry had a wildly successful visit to the UK (and then Ukraine), met his dad for the first time in a year and a half, and got great press. What followed was William clearly having a nervous breakdown about all of that, and the British press could barely contain it. So I expected something similar this month. But what’s happening is very strange, it’s like there’s an overemphasis on reminding everyone about the intractable estrangement between the brothers, something which has not changed in over many years. We’re also being told that William “will not be losing sleep” over King Charles’ meeting with Harry, despite William’s clear panic over it. Well, this week’s People Magazine cover story is trying to cover this well-trod ground for the millionth time:

Prince Harry’s long-awaited reunion with King Charles may have marked a turning point in one royal relationship — but not the one with Prince William.

“It’s so broken,” an insider tells PEOPLE about the bond between the King’s sons in this week’s exclusive cover story.

Adds a source who knows both brothers: “I thought it would have perhaps eased a little bit by now, to be honest. But there has been no movement, especially on William’s side. There is no contact.”

Though Prince William, 44, and Prince Harry, 41, stepped out just 12 miles apart in London on July 7, the first day of Harry’s U.K. trip, there was never an expectation they would meet.

The distance that divides the brothers now extends to the next generation. The Prince and Princess of Wales’ children — Prince George, 12, Princess Charlotte, 11, and Prince Louis, 8 — have no relationship with Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet, their California-based first cousins.

“[Princess] Diana would be devastated that it has turned out like this, particularly because [the brothers] were once so close,” royal author Simon Vigar says of what William and Harry’s late mother would make of the situation.

Royal historian Robert Lacey previously told PEOPLE: “The rift is very profound and very long-lasting. It will not be changed, in my opinion, until Harry makes a move and apologizes.”

Complicating the dynamic, historian Amanda Foreman added, “Everyone wants it to happen on their terms, but that’s what makes it impossible.”

[From People]

It’s fascinating that they keep using that Robert Lacey quote: “It will not be changed, in my opinion, until Harry makes a move and apologizes.” Combined with this new quote: “But there has been no movement, especially on William’s side.” We get it. I mean, it’s abundantly clear. William is still incandescent with rage. William will not contact Harry. William wants Harry to come crawling back, begging for forgiveness, and until that happens, William will not budge. That’s been William’s perspective for over six years. It’s like it would not occur to anyone within the institution or within the royal media to point out that William’s perspective is BS, and that he’s a rageholic dumbass who needs to grow up and let go of his anger.

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37 Responses to “People: Six-plus years later, Prince William still refuses to speak to his brother”

  1. Tessa says:

    Harry should stay away from scooter. And keep his wife and children away. Keen would not want her kids to meet the sussex children . Scooter thinks he’s always right. The brothers were never close

    • Swaz says:

      Stay far away Harry because William is a HATER.

    • Kasztanka says:

      And that is exactly what he does. Harry has never shown any interest in William, nor any desire for contact. Harry was done with William a long time ago, and the media smear campaign and slander that William
      constantly unleashes against H&M with the help of the corrupt media only reinforce Harry’s decision to keep his distance. And that is precisely William’s biggest problem. In his imagination, he sees his brother begging for a meeting and himself refusing… heh… yet he cannot make his dreams a reality because Harry has completely ignored him for years. 👍

  2. Jferber says:

    William is a lost cause on whatever issue you like. He is a disastrously weak and lazy man. He will never do England or himself proud. And he really doesn’t care. At all. About anyone but himself. A severe disappointment.

  3. Alicky says:

    It’s still never been clear to me exactly what Harry has to apologize for.

    • Queen Anna Royal Gossip says:

      Not divorcing his wife on William’s command, obviously. Refusing to continue as William’s scapegoat and whipping boy and daring to be happy and in love with his hot wife that William has coveted since her days on Suits.

    • Tessa says:

      Scooter did not want harry and meghan to get married. He had no authority. Clearly he should apologize

      • sunniside up says:

        If the late Queen had refused permission for the marriage Harry would have been taken out of the Succession if he went ahead, it is in the rules. luckily she agreed to the marriage. The same rules apply to all the people in the first six of the succession. So technically now if Archie wants to marry he has to ask the King’s permission. Luckily there are enough children in front of Archie to hope that the problem will be solved by their own children’s children.

      • Tessa says:

        Scooter may cause problems for his own kids. If he does not approve of their partners. And makes trouble. I can actually see this happening. A sort of Brooklyn Beckham scenario. Where the keens don’t care for George’s girlfriend. Scooter tried to micromanage harry.

    • Siri says:

      Let’s not forget he didn’t shave off his beard when Willie demanded he do so.

    • Dee (2) says:

      Having agency. William seems to have a true problem reconciling that Harry doesn’t belong to him in mind, body, and soul. Everything seems to spiral on from there. Disapproving of his professional endeavors, legal and media approach, and personal life all appear to areas where he feels/felt he was entitled to weigh in and have his edicts obeyed without question.

    • Becks1 says:

      Being his own person and walking away, I guess?

      I said yesterday that we never hear why William hates Harry so much and why he’s so angry at him. The press tosses around terms like “betrayal” and “hurt” and “Harry insulting Catherine” (always Catherine in those comments lol) but never what specifically Harry did. Harry even says in the beginning of Spare that neither his father nor his brother had any idea why he walked away, and part of the point of Spare was to explain it.

      But why the anger and hatred? Charles clearly doesn’t know what to “do” with Harry so to speak – he’s petty and vengeful and we hear about “broken trust” but we don’t hear that Charles is livid with Harry, or that Charles won’t speak to him, etc. It’s all very guarded language obviously but its not the same as what comes from William’s camp.

      So trying to look at it from William’s perspective – but his anger just doesn’t make sense unless there are some very deep psychological issues there. Like William thought he “owned” Harry and should have total control over Harry’s life and choices – personal and professional.

      IDK. the press dances around the issue but at this point, 6 years in – it would be better for KP to just put it out there that “William is booked and busy and barely thinks of his brother, but there’s no real ill will anymore. They’re just leading very different lives.” But instead, we get…..all these other stories.

    • Jay says:

      Honestly, I doubt if even William could articulate why exactly he wants Harry to apologize.

      He wanted to control Harry and it didn’t work. He’s jealous of Harry and his family and his happy life. He’s a miserable man whose only respite is making others around him just as or more miserable. It all boils down to “Harry didn’t do what I wanted him to”.

    • windyriver says:

      @Dee (2) – There’s that telling quote from Harry towards the end of Spare that always pops into my head whenever this question of why Will expects an apology pops up. Won’t rehash the details, but he was referring to the conversation he, Charles, and Will had while taking a walk post Philip’s funeral, and post the Oprah interview the previous month.

      “Since boyhood, that had been Willy’s position on everything. I must come to him. Pointedly, directly, formally – bend the knee. Otherwise, no aid from the Heir.”

      Since boyhood. Will doesn’t have the throne yet, but in his mind, Harry has always been his subject.

  4. Tessa says:

    Harry should stay away from scooter. And his wife and children away. Keen would not want her kids to meet the sussex children . Scooter thinks he’s always right

  5. Yup, Me says:

    Harry is minding his business.

    William’s challenge is that he has no business of his own that he truly cares to mind. (And the institution can’t afford for him to care about anything that deeply. Look at everything Harry has done for his family and his freedom and his life).

    Also, every time I see William bellowing at a sports event, I am shocked at how tight his lips look. The jaw and the pelvis are connected. William has got to be constantly constipated with a jaw and lips that tight all the time.

  6. Waitwhat? says:

    It’s almost as though the most interesting thing about William is Harry.

    • Eurydice says:

      Not almost, but exactly. Imagine if there were no Harry to rage against. Would there be any mention of William apart from an article or two whenever he chooses to appear? His PR people can’t get anyone to be interested unless there’s a mention of or comparison to Harry.

  7. Jferber says:

    Alicky, for being the better man, of course. For being king material, unlike the presumptive heir.

  8. Denise says:

    I think the simplest explanation is that William is already on some ritzy overseas vacation and he can’t be bothered to rage brief the tabloids. His laziness is stronger than his rage.

  9. KristenfromMA says:

    “It is broken.”

    The “it” here is William.

  10. Melody says:

    William is a gemini, I don’t think he is still incandescent with rage at this point, I think he is just done. I know it’s a very unpopular opinion on this site, but think of how Angelina left Brad and then moved on without a look back.
    Once a gemini feels betrayed, they never gives back their trust, and they will never be emotionally available to the person anymore.

    • Kaiser says:

      William is a Cancer

      • Melody says:

        Oooops, my bad !

      • Mayp says:

        William is on the cusp of Gemini and Cancer. As such, he supposedly has traits of both signs. Speaking as a Cancer, I don’t recognize him as a fellow Cancer.

    • Sara says:

      He’s a Cancer. Someone just done wouldn’t bother with the tantrums and keep your name in their mouth 24-7. Now Harry hardly speaks of William. Space. Virgo. Nice try. No not really.

      • Swaz says:

        Exactly. William is not done, he is jealous because he keeps copying Harry, with no shame and no charisma 🙄

    • CLOVE says:

      @Melody Angelina left Brad because he abused her and their children on a private airplane from France. It’s a leap to compare and add her in this context. This analogy hardly passes muster as to why William is constantly angry and envious of his brother.

  11. sunniside up says:

    William needs to grow up.

    • StellainNH says:

      William will never grow up. He was indulged and pampered, never forced to act his age. He has been allowed to tantrum for decades and will continue well into his later years.

      Harry, through some neglect, has been able to grow and flourish into a charismatic and altruistic man.

      We, of course, can plainly see who the better human is.

  12. QuiteContrary says:

    William thinks Harry should apologize for …

    — telling the world in “Spare” that William is a rage monster who attacked his own brother.
    — being allowed to wear a beard at his wedding, something William was denied.
    — for marrying a spouse who was smarter, more energetic, more polished, more beautiful.
    — for founding an organization that has had a global impact, unlike his own pathetic vanity project.
    — for being the true inheritor of their mother’s charisma and people skills.
    — for failing to devote his life to propping up the heir.

  13. Bean says:

    William is a hollow man with no substance. Good luck England when he’s king.

  14. sharon says:

    They drove them out & expected H&M to keep quiet about it, protecting your abuser. I don’t think they will ever reconcile and that’s fine because Will has always been unpleasant to Harry from day one. Everyone should just let it go.

  15. Seaside says:

    The estrangement remains because Harry is not interested in having a relationship with William.
    He has gone to significant lengths to repair the relationship with his father. He spoke about it and he has made some inroads.
    I have not seen Harry talking about William.
    William has made their childhood friends pick a side and still Harry is not moving.
    That is the problem for William. Harry said “space” and it has remained “space”.
    William can’t have that be the narrative so he continues to push the “I can’t forgive Harry” narrative.

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