Abbie Cornish on first dating Ryan Phillippe: “a really difficult time”

Aussie actress Abbie Cornish is profiled in September’s W Magazine, and it is a terrifically boring interview. Most of it is about her new film, Bright Star, directed by Jane Campion (The Piano, one of my faves). It’s a period film about the true romance of poet John Keats and his friend/neighbor Fanny Brawne. Sounds like a tear-jerker, but reading about it is dryer than dirt. For the complete W interview, go here.

The most interesting parts are when Abbie talks about being the girlfriend of Ryan Phillippe. They live together in Los Angeles, where Abbie says, “it was love that brought me here, not work… I think the city feels and looks a little bit different because of that.” Abbie and Ryan met in 2006, when they were cast together in Stop-Loss. There has always been some debate about whether Abbie is a homewrecker, whether Ryan is a cheating douche, or whether Reese played the victimized young wife to great effect. My opinion was always that Ryan and Abbie probably did have something going on, but that Ryan and Reese’s marriage had been on life support for a couple of years before that. I don’t think Abbie was a homewrecker – and I don’t really think either Reese or Ryan is a bad person, they just didn’t want to be married to each other. This is the first time that I can remember Abbie ever speaking this directly about what happened back then:

Why she broaches the subject of romance is inexplicable, since Cornish stiffens when asked directly about her boyfriend. As any celebrity junkie knows, the couple met two years ago on the set of Stop-Loss, the first movie Cornish shot in America after having worked abroad alongside Heath Ledger in Candy, in 2006, and with Russell Crowe in Ridley Scott’s A Good Year. At the time, Phillippe was married to Reese Witherspoon, and when word of the golden couple’s separation leaked to the front pages, Cornish was cast as the culprit, an alluring other woman who tempted Phillippe away from the best-paid and possibly best-loved actress of her generation.

“It was a really difficult time for me,” admits Cornish, who is polite and guarded in demeanor but nonetheless exudes a kind of earthy, unkempt sensuality. “It was just this world of tabloid magazines that I’d never been exposed to. In a normal successful career, someone usually learns these things bit by bit. For me, it was like night and day. I woke up one day and there was this whole new thing I had to process and deal with.”

Cornish seems aware that she’ll have to “deal with” at least some additional measure of personal scrutiny during this interview, and her body language shows that she doesn’t enjoy the prospect. She untucks her legs from beneath her to place her feet more firmly on the ground and raises a hand to cover a pale mole on her left cheek as if it were a secret part of her.

“Have you spent time with Ryan and Reese’s two kids?”

“Of course, yeah.”

Cornish glances to the wicker table beside her, perhaps hoping to find distraction in the plate of berries, glass of rosé and packet of cigarettes there.

“Are you and Ryan engaged?”

“No.”

“Do you have plans in that direction?”

“I don’t know,” she says, adding with a tense laugh, “I think I’m nearly ready to go on to another part of the conversation.”

[From W Magazine]

Is anyone else surprised that she and Ryan are still together? And that we’re not being constantly bombarded with reports of his wandering eye? I am, on both counts. Maybe Ryan has really settled down. As for those engagement rumors, they pop up every now and then. I’m kind of hoping they don’t get married. Just live together, be happy, see how it all works out.

Here are Ryan and Abbie practically pretending not to know each other as they hide from the cameras at LAX on August 7th. Images thanks to BauerGriffinOnline. Header of Abbie at Cannes thanks to PR Photos.com.

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  1. e says:

    These two are as boring as the interview

  2. daniel says:

    I just love it when home wreckers whine how hard it has been for them destroying someone’s marriage and family.

    SLUT!

  3. j. ferber says:

    Kaiser, I think it was Ryan who didn’t want to be married anymore, not Reese. I think contributing to his extramarital affairs was his jealousy of his wife’s professional success. Reese is certainly a better actor than Ryan, so it’s no wonder she was rewarded with more money, work, an Oscar, etc. But I guess his “male pride” (a truly asinine phrase, I prefer to think of it as insecurity/envy/resentment) couldn’t take it and he bailed on her.

  4. elusive says:

    I love how outsiders are so quick to blame the “other woman” in these situations. Ryan is the only one who had a commitment to Reese. He should be the one you’re calling names.

  5. Kaiser says:

    J.F. – Yeah, that’s certainly one possibility that I could buy. I could also buy that Reese wanted out as much as Ryan.

    Here’s the thing – as far as divorces go, I give both Ryan and Reese a lot of credit for not going on and on, bashing each other and all of that stuff. I tend to think they both behaved with class.

  6. Kelly says:

    Daniel, it’s not like she acted alone. Last time I heard, she had Ryan’s full participation. Where’s your criticism of him?

    Check your misogyny at the door, plz.

  7. Cinderella says:

    Wasn’t it rumored that Ryan was cheating on Abbie recently? Not fun wearing the same shoes Reese once wore.

  8. erin says:

    The reason we’re not constantly bombarded by reports of his wandering eye is because nobody cares about these two. They’re so B-list especially when compared to counterparts Reese and Jake.

  9. Eileen Yover says:

    Wow Daniel…bitter much??

  10. Debbie says:

    I agree with elusive!! Why are people always trashing the 3rd party in a broken relationship?? I say ‘broken relationship’ because NOONE can take a person away from another if they don’t wanna leave in the 1st place!!

  11. Lisa says:

    The part about her covering up the annoying mole on her cheek was hilarious.

  12. Tootsie says:

    Ryan Phillippe is a pig and a cokehead. I know a couple waitresses in T.O. who slept with him while he was with Reese. He asked the same waitresses to get him blow. Scumbag.

  13. Kelly says:

    I don’t think Abbie had anything to do with the end of Ryans’ marriage to Reese. Come on Ryan and Reese got together when they were really young 20 or 21 and 3 months later she was pregnant, so they got married because they were having a baby, they married too young and by the time both hit their 30s they had changed were having problems, it wasn’t working. How many of you are still with the person you were dating in your early twenties.

  14. danielle says:

    Yeah – that was one boring interview.

  15. Iggles says:

    I’m so sick of the trolls coming out and taking their baggage out on Ryan and Abbie!

    Sorry you got cheated on. Sorry you had a bitter divorce. But the truth is none of us know the real reasons why Ryan and Reese divorced.

    I think they grew apart. As someone mentioned, they married young. People seem to think Reese is america’s sweetheart — in real life she’s focused, independent, and very type A. She’s not fragile so you don’t have regard her with kid gloves!

    I think they give their marriage a good shot. Years before they split Ryan mentioned that they were in couples’ therapy trying to resolves their issues! Sometimes relationship don’t work out. I think he’s a good guy and great father. Reese is a great mom. Let’s leave it at that!

  16. Catherine says:

    She looks gorgeous in the top photo.

  17. Meri says:

    Still don’t like this couple. They deserve each other. I can’t say she’s pretty because I really don’t think she is. Oh well Ryan’s stuck with her.

  18. Rob says:

    It had to be hard on Reese staying with Ryan because of the kids. I know she wanted it to work out for them. I think she wanted out as much as Ryan did.

  19. Tori says:

    Thank you, Iggles!!!

  20. kelly says:

    Of course, she would have had difficult time. she stole other’s husband..

  21. daniel says:

    people, my comment focused on her hypocrisy because it’s her interview. of course I hold Ryan responsible.

    what short memories you all have. a few years go by and this tramp gets a free pass for having an affair with a married man? sienna miller would be relived to know. come to think of it I think you are the misogynists as it seems only when a mistress takes her clothes off publicly while committing adultery she should be put to scrutiny in your books.

  22. daniel says:

    oh, and no, I’m not bitter from been cheated on. I’m also not gay but still find homophobia offensive. shocking, I know.

  23. Hel says:

    Daniel, remember who took wedding vows to be faithful – Ryan is the one who cheated, not Abbie.

  24. JackieSA says:

    Kelly and Daniel: How do you steal someone’s husband??? How do you break up a happy home??? She wasn’t married, he was!

  25. Jazz says:

    You should never get yourself involved in the end of someone else’s marriage, even if they are already breaking up. Otherwise you’ll just end up with the homewrecker tag.

  26. Ursula says:

    He admitted he was so low when his marriage broke up and was crying and throwing up and did not want to get out of bed. Never mind that he was already dating her at the time. How do you start dating someone in that condition over his ex wife. She knew it would boost her career, and it has raised her profile. The celeb types think about only that. She was a Z list, he was a D list, Reese is an A list and has some class. Ryan must be content that he is now with a fellow D list, it is good for his ego.

    His wandering eye is not reported because no one cares much about these D list types.

  27. Lizzie (greeneyed fem) says:

    No one can know exactly why the marriage broke up, but every time it comes up, all I can think of is the red carpet interview they gave at the Oscars when Reese was up for Best Actress.

    Reese was glowing with happiness, and then the interviewer asked Ryan if he was excited for her. He gave the most passive-aggressive, non-supportive answer: something like, “Oh, yeah, it’s really great. You know, the role was enough of a stretch that she could be nominated.” Implying that Reese doesn’t take challenging roles and that the role wasn’t really worth an Oscar nom. Reese’s smile DROPPED from her face for a split second — she looked really hurt — and then it went back up (they were on camera).

    That’s the moment I always think of. I totally believe his jealousy and insecurity of her career was a factor.

  28. Shanny says:

    AWWW, bless her ugly heart, it was a hard time for HER.
    I am sure it was much harder on the home wrecking wh ore, much harder on her than the kids or wife. Poor little ugly Abby, I feel so sorry she had to go through a hard time, I think I am gonna cry!
    Now she is stuck with a loser Boyfriend that likes to cheat and drug, good for you abby! You got your prize man.

  29. Shanny says:

    Ryan couldn’t stand how famous and successful Reese was, he was not a supportive partner, he should have been happy for his wife, but he was jealous and bitter.
    Reese is much better off with out him, so is he like c or d-list on the actoer scale, yeah thats what I thought.
    Abby better not get too famous or he will become jealous of her career.

  30. lway says:

    Seems like she’s feeling guitly about everything. I would if i were a home wrecker like Abby.

    But it’s true – she didn’t do it by herself. Ryan should have been more of a man and should not have allowed temptation in.

    I’ve lost the love of my life to some trashy i-will-just-throw-myself-at-you-over-and-over-again skank. It lasted but 6 months between them and he has since realized his mistake.

    I cannot stand skanky chicks. People should learn to respect marriages and commitments again.

  31. iris says:

    She is wearing the most beautiful dress in the top photo. Who is the designer??

  32. K McFarlane says:

    Lizzie I know what you’re saying, but that was quite late in the marriage wasn’t it? Probably too late in the piece for him to be happy for her. I always got the impression that she was insistent that he be around her and that they projected this wonderful marriage – probably hard to keep faking it if the other person is acting quite differently to you behind closed doors.

    Imagine if you were splitting up with your husband and then he got a great promotion – your lack of delight wouldn’t mean that you’d spent your whole marriage resenting his career success.

    I don’t deny that he acted badly at the end. But when I think of people I know whose marriages ended, they often acted badly too.

    As far as Abbie – I have to agree with the posters who find her less than interesting.

  33. Laura says:

    Kaiser, you clearly have not read Lainey’s accounts on the douchey/cheatertastic (Horrible word-play, yes, but going with it) ways of Ryan Phillipe while he was filming in Canada. Read up. He is and always will be a cheater.

    And seriously. I hate it when homewreckers go on about the “attention” and “tabloids” and “lack of privacy” when they are asked whether or not they indulged in something wrong. If she didn’t do it, she should have just said that, instead of running around in circles talking about how different it was to be looked at in Tabloids.

  34. Laura says:

    And I realise that they got married when they were very young and maybe they changed and realised they were not for each other.

    But I am of the belief that if you are having huge doubts about the person you are married to, either try and work it out or divorce. It’s as simple as that. Why add a affair into the mix? It makes no sense. It just ends up making it worse

  35. kai says:

    It’s such a shame that she’s only known as some homewrecking z-lister. I care about movies and abbie cornish actually gives me some hope regarding young hollywood actresses. and whoever said she wasn’t pretty, seriously???

  36. j. ferber says:

    Another thing I remember Ryan saying on the red carpet was something like, “Ask her [Reese]; she makes more money than me.” That is pure resentment. No thought at all about the hard work and talent that earned her that money (in a Hollywood that traditionally pays men more, anyway). No pride in his wife, just sulking and bitterness and self-pity. Yuck. Lastly, I think the term “male pride” should go the same way as the term “white pride:” discredited as the bigoted jumble of sentiments it is.

  37. MZkit says:

    I love Abbie Cornish, and I can’t wait to see her in Jane Campion’s new film Bright Star when it opens in theaters Sept. 18th. The visuals looks stunning, and the story sounds interesting, too. If you haven’t seen the poster for Bright Star, you can find it here on the updated official site.
    http://www.brightstar-movie.com