“Brothers and Sisters” star Balthazar Getty may have finally announced his separation from his wife - after photos of him and a topless Sienna Miller blasted across the Internet - but it looks like Rosetta Getty doesn’t want to be the one to end the marriage. The mother of his four young children, who has reportedly been mortified by her husband’s fling with Miller, is telling Balthazar that if he wants the divorce, he needs to file for it himself.

Sources tell TMZ Balthazar Getty’s wife won’t be the one filing for divorce.

We’re told Rosetta Millington will not pull the trigger on the marriage and the reasons are, to say the least, interesting. Rosetta is not exactly rolling in cash, nor is Balthazar for that matter. The philandering Getty is getting zilch from the family fortune. He is, however, pulling in a fair amount of money from “Brothers and Sisters.”

We’re told Rosetta doesn’t want to declare the marriage over, which would allow him to separate future earnings from her. She’s the one raising their four kids and she feels she’s more financially secure if she doesn’t file for divorce.

And there’s one more big thing. We’re told the Getty family is so appalled at Balthazar’s affair with Sienna Miller, they are supporting her — in more ways than one. So why rock the boat?

[From TMZ]

It’s pretty damning evidence when your own family sides with your spouse in a separation. I can’t say I blame Rosetta for her strategic move at this point. Her husband’s behavior has been deplorable- why should she give him an easy out? As for Getty’s net worth, if sources are correct, he may not have his income from his ABC show to fall back on for much longer. Entertainment Weekly is reporting that Getty’s character will be “on the back burner” for a majority of the season - and there are rumors that he might even be killed off the show. Wonder if Sienna will still want him anymore if he’s not rich?

Sienna Miller really boggles my mind. Actually she makes me flat-out angry. The woman simply cannot understand why she’s getting all this severely negative press for having an affair with a married man. She’s been so distraught by the whole situation that she’s begged boyfriend Balthazar Getty to get his wife to issue a statement that they’d been separated before the two hooked up – even though the only people who confirm this are Sienna’s friends. But the delusional actress seems to think her boyfriend’s estranged wife should really consider her feelings.

It’s no wonder where Sienna’s confused and entitled attitude comes from. Her mother has echoed the sentiments that she’s really just a poor victim in this whole debacle.

Sienna Miller’s mother has defended the actress over her much criticized relationship with Balthazar Getty. Miller and Getty, who last month announced his separation from wife Rosetta, have enjoyed a whirlwind romance which has attracted criticism from the media.

And the actress’ mother, Jo, is upset at the reaction to her daughter and the Brothers and Sisters star’s romance.

She says, “You can’t understand how a woman seeing a man who has been separated from his wife for months can cause such a scandal. It’s awful, I can’t tell you. You wonder when it’s all going to stop.”

But Miller is pleased how some pals have jumped to her daughter’s defense. She adds, “Thank goodness some people are seeing the hypocrisy of it all. I know it makes Sienna pleased to read these things. It means a lot to her when there’s so much negativity and criticism around.”

[From Starpulse]

Sharon Osbourne came to Sienna’s defense and pointed out that it “takes two to tango.” And while I think Sienna is just trash, Sharon has a really good point. Balthazar Getty is the one who was married and has four little children. He has an obligation to his wife that he broke. The press isn’t coming down on him nearly as hard. In fact there almost seems to be this attitude towards him of “Right on buddy, you nailed a hot chick!” So I will officially state that I think he’s just as trashy as Sienna. In that sense they deserve each other.

Here’s Sienna Miller and Balthazar Getty out at lunch at Taverna Tony in Malibu on Sunday. Credit: ZNK/Fame Pictures

Sienna Miller really has a problem taking responsibility for her own behavior. She’s engaged in a ridiculously soap opera-esq affair with probably married Balthazar Getty (her friends claim Getty was already separated from his wife Rosetta – most everyone else denies it); flounced around in the nude – in public no less – and then sued photographers for taking pictures of her. Now Sienna is going hysterical on the paparazzi and seemingly crumbling under the intense scrutiny.

She may be used to courting the limelight but yesterday it all got too much for Sienna Miller as she was hounded by paparazzi. The 26-year-old, who has been at the centre of a media frenzy because of her relationship with married oil tycoon Balthazar Getty, came close to tears when she was followed by the mob of cameramen while filling up her Lexus at a petrol station in Malibu Los Angeles.

She broke down shouting “leaving me alone” as the cameras flashed around her. And when one paparazzo asked about her relationship with Getty, the actress fumed shouting: “I’m just trying to fill up my f***ing car!… Please, I’m asking you. I can’t live like this, please give me a little bit of respect.”

A distressed Sienna begged to be left alone before fleeing back to her car to try and escape. But as the eager paparazzi pursued her, Sienna managed to get to a police station in Beverly Hills to file a complaint. She was then given police escort back to her hotel.

[From Metro UK]

You can’t live like this? Well then don’t flaunt your affair with a married man. Don’t try to get his wife to cover up for you and help you save your career, like it’s her responsibility to be gracious to you. Sienna seems to have the reasoning skills of a five-year-old. She thinks she can behave in all sorts of outlandish, attention-grabbing ways, and then if she doesn’t like the results of her behavior, she can blame everyone else, instead of her behavior.

I really do understand that the paparazzi can be brutal, and when I see the pictures of them going after celebs, I can see how it could be life-destroying in a way. I could never ever live like that, so I try to be empathic. But there’s a reasonable limit. If you’re doing raunchy things in public that scream “Look at me! Look at me!” You can’t really blame everyone for looking at you.

Here’s Sienna during her paparazzi debacle yesterday. Images thanks to Fame.

Sienna Miller is begging Balthazar Getty to help resurrect her Hollywood career – which I thought he was doing, since she’s been pictured all over the place baring her most prominent and famous talents for him and paparazzi.

News of the World, not the most reliable source I know, says that Sienna desperately wants Balthazar’s wife Rosetta to release a statement saying their marriage was over when Sienna got naked in public with a married man.

Our source said: “Sienna is being portrayed as a femme fatale and fears for her career because Hollywood hates a home wrecker. She hopes Balthazar can get Rosetta to put out a statement saying their marriage was already over. They have already got friends to speak out, saying he was sleeping on their sofas.”

But our source added: “It’s nonsense that the marriage was already over.

“When Balthazar went away in May, Rosetta thought it was to see his sick mum in Germany. But she now knows that it was to cavort with Sienna in Prague.”

News of the World

If someone had relayed that kind of request from the woman who broke up my marriage, even if it was floundering already, I’m not sure if I would be furious or fall about laughing.

Sienna also seems to have missed the point a little. People aren’t so much disgusted at the fact she is involved with a married man, as much as they are disgusted at the pair of them flaunting the relationship, half naked, on a beach for his wife and children to see.

Given that Sienna’s big breakout role in Factory Girl didn’t project her into the celebrity stratosphere she was aiming for, I’m not sure that a simple denial from her boyfriend’s wife is going to work for her. Nor will her upcoming role in G.I. Joe, I suspect. My advice? Stop getting your boobs burnt on vacation, and keep them covered up. They’re obviously keeping you in employment and wealthy boyfriends, so don’t let some nasty sun damage ruin their burgeoning career.

Picture note by Celebitchy: Sienna Miller and Balthazar Getty are shown out to lunch at Taverna Tony in Malibu on Sunday. Producer Jerry Bruckheimer joined them. They could have sat inside and avoided the paps, but then they wouldn’t have been able to smoke. Credit: ZNK/Fame Pictures

There were all sorts of stories last week that Balthazar Getty was begging his wife of eight years, fashion designer Rosetta Millington, to take his cheating ass back. Getty, 33, was photographed at a hotel, on the beach, on a boat, and pretty much all over the place with actress Sienna Miller, 26, on a vacation in Italy in mid July. Sienna was topless in most of the photos and Getty looked like the cat that ate the canary as he grabbed her boobs playfully and lounged around with her. The pictures were said to be “humiliating” for his family, and Sienna sued photographers in an attempt to find someone else to blame for her lack of a moral compass.

It was thought that Sienna and Balthy had called it quits, because he hung his head in shame and went back to LA while she stayed in London, looking gloomy and greasy haired as usual. Given their distance and the rumors that he was reconciling with his wife, their affair seemed to be on the level of a regrettable fling. The two just can’t stay away from each other, though, and they been having secret “meetings” at celebrity favorite hotel the Chateau Marmont in LA:

The actress has had liaisons with millionaire BALTHAZAR GETTY at the Chateau Marmont hotel — less than two miles from his pad in the Hollywood Hills.

It contradicts claims the actor, 33 — heir to a £25billion oil fortune — has dumped Sienna and begged wife Rosetta, mother of his four kids, to take him back.

Sienna, 26, was spotted leaving the Chateau at 4pm on Tuesday. Getty’s car remained inside the hotel garage.

Getty, who was previously snapped snogging the topless Brit on a yacht in Italy, has a room at the hotel while filming in LA.

He is yet to be seen visiting Rosetta, 38, or their kids.

Sources said before leaving the hotel, Sienna appeared nervous and upset — and was arguing on her mobile.

One said: “She looked ragged. Her hair was a mess and she was chain-smoking.

“She was arguing on the phone, talking about her and Balthazar being caught together in Italy.”

Another source added: “Rosetta has a lot of friends in Hollywood. People are turning their backs on Sienna because of this.”

The pair had already been spotted snogging outside a Malibu grocery store on Sunday.

[From The Sun]

The Sun probably knows some paparazzi who saw both of them at the hotel and this story is likely to be true. Getty has four young kids that range in age from seven years to ten months. He was said to be sending “I’m so sorry, I love you” type e-mails to his wife, but his wife may have balked at letting him back into her life. After his wife’s rejection, the pull of Sienna’s musky scent and bedroom eyes must have proved too much for him to handle.

Last year when he announced his wife’s last pregnancy, Getty told People, “I love kids. I love having a big family.” He might only get to see his kids on weekends and a few weeks in the summer from now on. Hope Sienna was worth it for him.

Meanwhile Sienna’s “friends” are repeating their claims that she’s not a homewrecker. The NY Post reports that “he’d been sleeping on friends’ couches for six months” and that “Sienna was always told he was separated.”

32 year-old Balthazar Getty has been married for eight years and has four children. He was photographed all over Italy and all over a topless Sienna Miller this month in photos taken on when he was on vacation with the 26 year-old actress. Getty’s wife and family were said to be “humiliated” by the photos, according to reports on People.com, and Getty announced his separation from his wife as a result, saying that the photos were embarrassing to himself and his family. Sienna Miller also sued over the photographs, which featured her topless and vacationing with Getty in Italy in at least three separate locations by at least two different photographers. One set of images showed Getty playfully grabbing Miller’s naked breasts while she reached down to reciprocate.

Sienna and Balthy’s vacation is over, and she’s been photographed back in London alone looking gloomy and unkempt as usual. Their relationship might be over too, because Getty has been supposedly sending “I’m sorry, I love you so much” e-mails to the wife of his children, the youngest of which is 10 months old.

There is nothing like being photographed with a topless hottie to make you realize how much you love your wife.

Our sources say — and they are impeccable — Balthazar has resorted to e-groveling with his e-stranged wife, Rosetta. He has been sending her e-mails in the last week saying, “I love you.”

Balthazar announced earlier this week that he and Rosetta had separated after pictures of him with an au naturale Sienna Miller surfaced all over the ‘net. We’re told if the divorce goes on, Balthazar will come out looking awful. For starters, he basically lived off her until he got his recent TV gig (he’s the grandson of a billionaire, but hasn’t gotten his $$ yet). But the person who will come out looking even worse, we’re told, is Sienna Miller.

[From TMZ]

Last year when he confirmed that his wife was pregnant with their fourth child, Getty told People “I love kids. I love having a big family. I think the more the merrier – big happy home of, you know, little punks running around.” They have son Cassius Paul, 7 and daughters Grace, 6, Violet, 4, and June Catherine, 10 months. Getty is said to have been dating Sienna since May, and maybe he’s come to his senses now that the whole world is mocking him. He gave up a lot for a woman who has a bad and very public track record with various men.

Update: This story previously featured a photo of Balthazar Getty with Anna Getty, who was mistakenly identified as his wife. Anna is Balthazar’s 34 year-old half sister, and we assumed she was his wife due to their same last name and the way they were shown posing at several events together. We are sorry for the misunderstanding.

Here is Balthazar Getty with his wife and two of their children on 9/29/07 at the Santa Monica pier. Credit: Splash News.

Married man Balthazar Getty has been pictured a few times over the last fortnight with a topless Sienna Miller. Not just in the same vicinity as a topless Sienna, but actually touching her in a way that his wife probably doesn’t approve of. Link NSFW.

Balthazar has suddenly remembered that he has a wife and four children, and that he might have hurt their feelings even if they already know that daddy is away on vacation with another woman. He has released this statement.

“The breakdown of a marriage is a very difficult and painful experience especially when children are involved,” he said in a statement released Monday. “In light of the fact that many pictures have surfaced in print and on the Internet which has caused myself and my family great embarrassment, I felt it necessary to at least acknowledge publicly that yes indeed my wife and I have separated and I will not be commenting any further.”

People

Reports suggest that Balthazar and wife Rosetta have been apart for some time, but if you aren’t actually officially divorcing and children are involved the polite thing to do would to keep your sex life confined to a bedroom.

There are also some reports circulating that Sienna and Balthy are planning on moving in together, which is probably true. After all, I don’t think he’s going to be welcomed home by his wife after his time with Sienna is over.

Update by Celebitchy: This story previously featured a photo of Balthazar Getty with Anna Getty, who was mistakenly identified as his wife. Anna is Balthazar’s 34 year-old half sister, and we assumed she was his wife due to their same last name and the way they were shown posing at several events together. We are sorry for the misunderstanding.

Here is Balthazar Getty with his wife in January, 2008.

Yesterday, Sienna Miller’s friends came rushing to her defense, saying that the bed-hopping actress is not a homewrecker. But the wife of Balthazar Getty, the actor/millionaire Sienna is currently banging, might have a different opinion. Rosetta Getty, whose name is tattooed on her cheater husband’s chest, is said to be devastated by recent photos of Balthazar and Sienna frolicking half naked together. She’s been humiliated enough to take her children and leave the country to protect them from the media.

Sienna Miller’s steamy affair – and much of her body – has been exposed now that the barely clad actress has been spotted kissing married Balthazar Getty in a boat off the Amalfi coast.

Miller, who had a roller-coaster relationship with Jude Law and broke up with actor Rhys Ifans only weeks ago, has been quietly dating Getty for “at least two months,” said a source.

Miller, sporting a sailor’s cap, was also spotted topless on the balcony of an Italian hotel room kissing Getty. Meanwhile, the Brothers & Sisters actor, 33, and his wife Rosetta “have been living separate lives for a while,” a source tells PEOPLE.

Getty, who has a tattoo of his wife’s name on his chest, married Rosetta in May 2000. They had their fourth child together 10 months ago.

“It’s humiliating,” a friend tells PEOPLE. “Rosetta left the country to protect the kids, and he continues to see Sienna publicly.”

The two met through Getty’s Brothers & Sisters costar Matthew Rhys. Rhys, who briefly hooked up with Miller, was livid when the photos of the couple surfaced, says a source.

[From People]

So, let’s tally up the number of people Sienna and Balthazar have managed to alienate. First, there’s Balthy boy’s wife and four children. Even if the couple have been living “separate lives for some time”- and really, how separate could their lives have been if they had a baby less than a year ago?- getting caught in photos like the ones circulating this week are inexcusable. Then there’s Sienna’s jilted fiance, actor Rhys Ifans, whom she dumped over the phone just a few weeks ago- which means she was already humping around with Balth by then. And finally, there’s Getty’s co-star, Matthew Rhys, who was foolish enough to introduce Miller to his richer co-star and think that she wouldn’t spread her legs at the drop of a hat. That’s seven people, folks. That’s a whole lot of bad karma coming their way. Personally, I can’t wait.

Header image thanks to D-Listed.

Sienna Miller must pay her friends really well. Or – more likely – reward them with the occasional flashing. All of her nearest and dearest have been flocking to the weekly magazines and tabloids to proclaim Miller’s complete and utter innocence in her affair with married father of four Balthazar Getty. Getty’s wife of eight years, Rosetta, has been reported to be absolutely heartbroken by the affair. But Miller’s friends are claiming the Getty marriage was over long before Sienna ever came into the picture.

In fact, she and Getty are said to have been living together in L.A. for over a month. Sources say he even rode his bike to meet her for dinner at one restaurant, lest they be seen together.

Despite the subterfuge, one friend of the couple tells us Getty’s marriage was on the rocks long before Sienna entered the picture.

“Sienna didn’t break up his marriage,” says the friend. “It’s been in trouble for a year. The truth is, they’ve quietly separated.”

Miller knows something about heartache. A few years back, ex-boyfriend Jude Law cheated on her with nanny Daisy Wright.

[From the Daily News]

I call hogwash on every word. Unlike a lot of people I don’t think Sienna Miller is totally evil. But I think she’s overrated, and probably deserves a good deal of the reputation she has. Miller’s friend also went on to say that she never really had feelings beyond deep-friendship for her heartbroken ex-fiancé, Rhys Ifans. Miller broke up with him over the phone.

I think Sienna is the female John Mayer. No offense to any Mayer fans. She goes through people like candy, and doesn’t seem to give a thought to how it affects anyone but herself. Considering she was cheated on, it makes it extra sad that she couldn’t empathize with Balthazar Getty’s wife and children and keep her crotch to herself.

Here’s Sienna Miller arriving at her sister’s office building in London on June 20th; and Balthazar Getty at the Academy of Television Arts and Sciences in L.A. on April 28th. Photographer: Nikki Nelson; Images thanks to WENN.

Sienna Miller is now in Positano, Italy with her married boyfriend, the actor and oil heir Balthazar Getty. Miller, 26, and father of four Getty, 33, were photographed kissing on a boat on Saturday. Miller was topless and wearing only her bikini bottoms. The two also enjoyed lunch on the balcony of their hotel in Italy. Getty was wearing a shirt but Miller apparently forgot hers again. You can see those photos at Mr. Paparazzi’s site.

There’s a new interview in the British version of OK! Magazine with Miller. She was asked to name the worst thing she’s seen written about herself, and she said that Perez Hilton scrawled the word “slutty” over a picture of her visiting her grandparents’ grave:

What’s the worst thing you’ve seen written about yourself…
Oh God. I went to see my grandparents’ grave with my father and they took a photo of us sitting. Above Miller on the tombstone [Perez Hilton, internet blogger] wrote ’slutty.’ I just thought that was unbelievably tacky. That was a weird place to be papped. There are times when you have no idea someone is there and then suddenly there’s a photo and that is always a bit weird.

[From OK! Magazine, UK print edition, July 15, 2008]

She also repeated the claim that I’ve heard her go on about before that the media attention takes away from the public’s perception of her acting ability. She said essentially the same thing in an interview with The Times in June. She also brought up the war and starving people as if we’re the ones being heartless by paying attention to her. And then Miller says that hopefully the public will stop noticing all the crap she gets up to with married men and be awed by her acting ability instead:

Do you feel you’re treated unfairly by the media?
They don’t want me to be a good actress, they want me to be what they say that I am, which is actually very far from the truth. But at the end of the day it’s not a big deal. I mean, there’s a war on, people are starving, we live on a little island and it’s not important.

But still it’s your private life everyone wants to know about…
I think with time.. All I can do is focus on work and try to do a good job. Hopefully, eventually that will supersede the other less meaningful aspects of my life, but it’s a process, you know. It’s a battle.

[From OK! Magazine, UK print edition, July 15, 2008]

Yeah, it’s a battle for sure for Sienna, and she’s throwing in the towel by going on vacation with a married guy and whipping her top off every chance she gets. She’s calling the fact that she’s cavorting topless with a married man “a less meaningful aspect” of her life when compared to her acting. I bet his wife doesn’t feel that way. Somehow Sienna seems to bring the slut with her wherever she goes, whether it’s tacky or not to point it out.

I looked through Perez’s site for about five minutes and couldn’t find the photo in question, so if you have a direct link for that slutty cemetery pic please comment with it.

Sienna Miller is shown on 6/22/08 at LAX, thanks to WENN